/r/GetMotivated
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so, I'm a high school senior, former gifted kid, and likely depressed and ocd-ridden. i spent the past 3 years slacking off and daydreaming, but now I wanna get back on track. especially since I want to apply for a bunch of scholarships. i have high standards for myself and I don't wanna let myself down again.
so, I've been telling myself, "I can". its simple, but it has been helping me work harder, I think. i also recently watched the legally blonde musical (I love legally blonde!), and I love elle wood's attitude of, "what, like it's hard?" I'm trying to adopt that.
i dunno how healthy it is, but trying to gaslight myself that a hard task isn't really that hard, and that I can really do anything if I tried, is helping me do tasks when I'm feeling lazy.
what are these phrases or mindsets for you?
Let’s talk about something I face all the time: the eternal struggle between "good enough" and our relentless friend, perfectionism.
I drew this to illustrate the concept, and yes, I may or may not have spent an unreasonable amount of time making sure every curve looked just right. (Irony, anyone?) The lesson here is one I'm desperately trying to internalize: sometimes, it's okay to stop when something is good enough. Because, let’s face it, spending 10 extra hours polishing a graph that took 1 minute to understand isn't exactly winning any awards for productivity.
The old me would have never dared to publish something like that.
This is how we can get caught in the perfectionism trap. You start strong, adding value like a champ, and then boom—you hit that sweet spot where the return on effort flatlines. But instead of quitting while we're ahead, we all keep going, tweaking those tiny details that absolutely no one cares about except our inner perfectionist. It’s like trying to make a peanut butter sandwich, and three hours later, you’re baking homemade bread because store-bought just isn’t cutting it.
The truth is, good enough is often more than enough. Perfectionism is a liar, whispering sweet nothings like "just a little more," before you know it, you're embroiled in a 17-hour saga of color-coordinating your sock drawer. Been there, done that, still regretting it.
So, what do you think? Have you ever found yourself stuck trying to make something perfect when it really didn’t need to be? Let's share our ridiculous stories and remember: good enough is the goal, not perfection.
I started a business called r/lifemaxxersclub and im trying to learn/gather new, lesser known methods to dealing with problems
Hey everyone! I’ve been setting goals for myself, whether it's for fitness, personal development, or work, but I’ve been struggling to stay consistent. I’ll start strong, but then life gets busy, or I hit a roadblock, and I lose my motivation.
I’m looking for strategies or routines that have helped you stay motivated long-term. How do you keep yourself on track when you’re not feeling up to it? Do you have any specific habits, tools, or mindset shifts that help you push through those low-motivation days? I’d really appreciate any advice to help me stay consistent and focused
The reason I seem to avoid doing the work is not only because I'm confused lazy and procrastinate but also there is fear anxiety involved and worse part of all is im avoiding the realization of my feelings. You know how you feel sometimes like you're life is messed up but you just keep suppressing that feeling because you want to avoid how it makes you feel. And you just keep doing this more and more, but deep down it just eats you up. You feel emotionally tensed mentally overwhelmed.
Like I wanted to go back to college because I just have not been taking classes 2 yrs now. So whenever I think about fixing this situation,I seem to suppress that feeling of doing it. I know I'm gonna feel bad and get all sorts of mixed emotions. And my thoughts will bring me down.
In the quest for personal growth, the allure of self-help books is undeniable. But are they truly effective, or is there a better path to self-improvement?
To start unpacking this, let’s start by outlining a broad process by which genuine – sustainable – personal growth occurs:
• Feeling a degree of discontentment
• Choosing to take action on pursuing change
• Exposure to new content (e.g. self-help book)
• New content needs to be accepted
• New content needs to be congruent with existing belief & value system
• New content must avoid triggering pre-existing limiting beliefs
• Any issues arising thus far are resolved
• New content translates through to new skills / beliefs driving new behaviours
• New behaviours are accepted in person’s environment
• New behaviours achieve positive outcomes without triggering unintended / undesirable outcomes.
• New behaviours become normalised
So, where the advice acknowledges this growth process and guides you through each step there is a reasonable chance of enjoying some beneficial changes.
Not all self-help books are created equal. Beware of titles promising quick & easy fixes and one-size-fits-all solutions. So many self-help books fall in to low value categories:
• You can do or acquire anything you want – just go for it
• Just follow this magic formula and you are sure to become super-human
• This is how I did it – just copy me: if I can do it, anyone can
• Just believe enough and it will happen
• I met a mystic one day and here’s the secret wisdom they told me - and only me! – for reasons never really explained
Remember that the industry behind this so called ‘self-help’ shares a commonality with the fad diet industry: they sell hope but need to make sure the products themselves deliver only – at best – limited results. Otherwise, there would be no need for the next fad which will fuel next years’ profits.
Caveat Emptor.
OK – so what is the way forward here?
There is an additional ‘self-help’ genre that I find are more credible: their general approach is to outline frameworks for you to consider and then work on applying these to your own context.
Examples would include considerations of the PERMA model - Alan Carr from Dublin University has published the best I have found so far. Another is the Covey foundation’s Seven Habits: albeit in a way that I, personally, find very 1980’s Corporate American - I hear the ‘Dallas’ theme-tune whenever I think about it!
So, how do we get to some form of conclusion?
Reflect on the sustainable change process outlined above – tweak it until it makes sense for you in your present situation.
Consider the self-help books you have read – which genres do they fit in to? Have you found others?
Which have resonated with you – and why?
Which have left you cold – and why?
Notice your responses to the content you’re reading: That sounds good, but (what is the ‘but’?) or that’s ok for other, but (what differentiates between you and those ‘others’?) or if only it was as easy as that ect?
What are your responses telling you?
What limiting beliefs are they pointing to? More often than not, limiting beliefs can be derived back to ‘I’m not good enough’ and / or ‘I’m not worthy enough.’
Or is there a block somewhere? in your environment, your behaviour, your capabilities, your beliefs, your values, your sense of self.
Helping their clients work through such issues is every-day work for solution focused therapists. Supporting clients in developing their sense of agency sits at the heart of what we do. Investing in a few sessions can give you access to years of experience, a whole new toolbox, and a personalised approach to you building your own platform on which you can manage and build your own wellbeing for the rest of your life.
True beauty lies in character, not appearance. This video perfectly captures the essence of valuing personality over looks. It's a gentle reminder that what truly defines us is our kindness, integrity, and the way we treat others. Watch the video to witness a heartwarming example of this timeless truth.
I thought this was a really great and encouraging story
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what makes people motivated or disciplined, learning about different frameworks there are in order to get more organised and get things done. I think it's safe to say that we've all been there - at this point in life, where every little task feels like climbing a mountain with a backpack full of bricks. Even stuff we used to enjoy might feel like a chore at this point.
So, I’m curious: what’s your worst problem when it comes to motivation? Is it burnout? Stress? A feeling of pointlessness? How do you deal with it? Do you have strategies to fight this state, or do you just wing it, until it passes?
To me personally, the worst to my motivation is doing a lot of stuff that is "expected" of me. If I had a stressful week where my to-do lists were never-ending, it's of utmost importance to me that I plan and allocate proper "me-time", where I can just do whatever I like - whether it is going outdoors and enjoying nature, doing long workouts, or slump on the couch and watch Netflix all day. On those days, everything I do is directly linked to my own decisions, and no one else's.
I'm looking forward to your contribution!
soar.
Two years ago, I was stuck in a rut—no direction, no motivation, and honestly, no hope. I decided to change just one thing: my mindset. Instead of saying 'I can't,' I started saying, 'What if I try?'
Fast forward to today: I’ve achieved goals I never thought possible. Sometimes it’s about taking that first, small step—even if it’s scary or uncertain.
If you’re feeling stuck, start with something small today. You’d be amazed where those little steps can take you. For me, dreaming of what life could look like helped me push forward. I started visualizing my goals, including what my dream escape would look like—and wow, that changed everything.
What’s your small step today? Let’s motivate each other!
This is for anyone over 30 wondering if it’s too late to make a change.
I studied business and worked at a bank after college. I stayed for 8 years. It was stable. My coworkers were buying houses, cars, and starting families by the time they hit 30.
But the work was busy and boring. Most of my time went to getting approvals or following strict financial regulations. I felt stuck.
Is this what life is supposed to be?
I spent more than half my awake hours working. I wanted my work to enrich my life, not just pay bills.
After 2 years of thinking, I quit last year. Now I’m doing work I enjoy. The pay isn’t back to what it was yet, but there’s potential, and my days are so much more fulfilling.
Here’s what helped me along the way:
Visualize your long-term ideal life
Honestly assess your market value
Plan the steps between now and your goal
If possible, learn or experiment on the side before quitting. But I know not all paths allow for this.
Improve your writing and interact with potential clients online
If freelancing (like design), build an online presence to find clients.
But balance is very important. Too much time online can hurt personal growth and cause anxiety. I had to learn the hard way to stop focusing on others’ lives. Doomscrolling won’t give you any fresh inspiration.
These steps might look easy on paper, but each one comes with its own doubts and fears. Giving up job security was terrifying.
I hope my story encourages anyone in a similar situation.
I love this quote from Steve Jobs:
"Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.
You are already naked.
There is no reason not to follow your heart."
Last year, I stood in front of my old, beaten-down car, staring at the empty highway in front of me. I had a job I didn’t love, a dream I wasn’t chasing, and no idea where I was going. But I got in, turned the key, and started driving because sometimes, the hardest part is just starting.
Fast forward to today, I’ve got a new job I love, my dream car (okay, it’s still used but it’s mine), and a life I wake up excited for every day. That first mile? Scary as hell. The miles after that? Worth every bit of effort.
No matter what “car” you’re driving in life, just keep moving forward. The road will reveal itself.
Hello, I recently joined a book club to expand socially and get back to reading for leisure. What books do you recommend?
Lost in life’s chaos, I found myself on the sidelines. It is strange how easily we can become strangers to ourselves! Amidst work and distractions, I forgot what makes "me" me. But thats been enough for me and it is time to hit the reset button! Has life ever inspired you to hit your own reset button? Is it just me or do I have company in the lifegame of "Ever lost and found yourself"?
Anything rushed is annoying.
It can be taken to your office for daily household chores.
In the era of everything instant, we have become more and more impatient.
Hungry for instant gratification.
We need everything at our fingertips and operate the world at the press of a button.
Revolution with an evolution.
But anything half-baked is useless.
You can't eat half-cooked food or a half-built bridge.
Life has its course and there is beauty in watching it grow.
A seedling can not bear fruit in a day.
To procreate and duplicate itself it has to go through a process.
The process is called growth.
The more you nurture this process, the more sweeter the fruit is.
Mature.
But we are in a hurry. Result-oriented, ambitious.
So much so that we mix our emotions with the work.
We have lost a sense of detachment from what is happening in our personal and professional lives.
We are brutally dragging our work to home, and home to our offices.
Intelligence is mixed with emotions is impure intelligence.
Malignant. Malevolent.
This is the very root cause of stress and anxiety today.
We don't know where to apply emotions and where to use intelligence.
Messed up fucked up life.
Read more - https://jett.me/insight/keep-patience/