As often as you need to in order to advance your career, but not often enough to damage your career.

Switching jobs is the quickest way to get a higher position and more money. You’re not necessarily going to get that waiting around for a promotion.

There is no traditional amount of time for how long to keep a job anymore. Look to your industry or field to determine how long you should remain in one position and how often to switch.

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Please helo me

I've never felt like that for a girl and im 19, there is this girl that.. I don't know man... she's just amazing internally and externally, she never had relationships before even if she's so gorgeous. I can feel there is feeling between us but we're both very scared to step forward (I know I can't be in her mind but that's what I think for the signlas we apparently gave each other). This started to become a problem months ago, because I couldn't stop thinking about her, so I cut any contact (it wasnt hard, we didn't meet that often, she's a my female cousin best friend). But lately I've seen her other times and im fucked up again. I would confess to her but it would be so embarassing because our families would probably get the information. Can somebody please tell me how I should act in these situations?

So I'm not a great drinker. I don't get violent or anything. Just that I do get depressed on too much alcohol, and on not enough I feel very overwhelmed as I'm a Highly Sensitive Person, especially to loud music, flashing lights and big crowds of people in aggressive environments fuelled by alcohol.

I have tried going sober on many occasions but then I don't exactly feel super confident, nor am I as socially outgoing and funny as I am when I've been drinking, but if I drink and get rejected then it hits me harder.

Where do you balance your natural confidence and Dutch courage confidence?

Sometimes when I'm on the phone or when I'm talking to the boss, they'll butt in on the conversation with some "helpful" input, like "oh that person is calling about X" or "Boss, I think a better way of doing X is...." And it's so annoying, especially when they start acting holier-than-thou. Because it's like did I ask? I'm having a discussion here with the boss, or I'm on the phone with someone, would you rather I transfer all of my phone calls to you so that you can deal with them since clearly you're the expert, even though we all know you have phone anxiety?!

At this point, even when they are actually helpful, it's still annoying. Like I'm not grateful or anything.

I also dislike having conversations with them because I find them to be dry and uninteresting. I no longer say hi to them in the morning. I now give short or yes/no responses to their shallow icebreaker questions because their responses are always robotically polite ("that's nice", "oh good") no matter what you say. I hate being in the same office as them to the point where I call in sick so I don't have to go.