/r/GetMotivatedBuddies

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Find accountability partners for health and fitness, studying, work, and healthy habit building.

Purpose

Find a buddy to get you on track towards your goals.
Mainly post buddy requests, but posts suggesting how to structure working with your buddies are good as well.

GM Level 1: General Motivation

/r/GetMotivated

GM Level 2: Advanced Discussion

/r/GetDisciplined

GM Level 3: Accountability Buddy

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Rules:

Detail yourself and exchange info! Whether you communicate by text, phone, skype, carrier pigeon, etc. Send your buddy motivated thoughts, goals, listen to them, help them-more importantly PUSH THEM!, and you--push back! Teamwork!

If you do what 95% of what people are doing, you will get their same result. Get together and break those walls!

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24M (CST) software dev looking for a productivity and healthy habits accountability partner & rival!

Early career software dev looking to put in 8-10 hours a day working on coding projects, LeetCoding for technical interviews and applying for full-time jobs. I also powerlift and can help with staying accountable with fitness goals!

Looking for an accountability partner preferably in a similar situation, around my age, and male (but can be any one that would align well) to help each other stay on track of our daily systems to reach personal and career goals. Looking to grind hard together and make a ton of progress by the end of this year!

We can have quick once a day or weekly check-ins to sync up and use these coming days to figure out a good system. Would love to make it competitive to get each other fired up! 🔥

U.S time zone preferred - DM if interested! 🤝

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2024/10/31
08:57 UTC

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20-something Female. Looking for health/nutrition Accountability partner.

Biggest priority is nutrition. Worked out consistently, but terrible diet. Would be great if the person is already on their A-game or knowledgeable about meal-preps/nutrition or if theyre passionate about trying to learn. My goal is to cut a bit then maintain with a big focus on protein macros. We can share each other's goals, health/nutrition research tips/advice, and any easy meal prepping/cooking recipes!

Primary contact would be Discord.Prefer similar age range. Dm me with your discord ID if you're interested :) looking forward to it!

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2024/10/31
08:23 UTC

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25M Looking for someone who is already somewhat fit to help me get fit

Starting to get really depressed and just always making excuses of why I can eat a bit more. I never want to bug my friends but its time to have someone to talk to about this. Looking for someone whos already fit to talk about this. The only reason I say someone who is already fit is cause I have tried this with people who arent fit and it really doesn't work. It puts a lot of pressure and is hard when I don't know what I am talking about.
Feel free to comment or message me if you can help and you're around my age too!

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2024/10/31
03:59 UTC

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15M looking for accountability partner (study & workout)

Title. I'm doing my GCSEs and I would like someone who can track my study progress with me. Also the same for general health (mental and physical) and working out. Timezone is GMT. DM me if interested

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2024/10/30
22:54 UTC

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44F. Looking for 1 or 2 SERIOUS accountability partners.

Fitness and general household duties like cleaning and organizing. Tracking macros etc. Quitting adderall for diagnosed ADHD (I get locked into useless tasks) so I’m gonna go with my organic abilities and just get stuff done. I find I do my best when I have someone to be accountable to that is also demonstrating a high productivity level. Will need to exchange proof for completed tasks.

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2024/10/30
17:30 UTC

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Accountability partner

Want strict accountability partner for studying and meditation

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2024/10/30
12:48 UTC

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25F Founder - Seeking a productivity RIVAL in 2025

Hi everyone, this partnership will not be for everyone.

I am looking to utilize my competitive side in the coming year with someone who would want to mantain a healthy and playful rivalry with our work goals.

It might be best if we are in a similar stage in life. These are my top priorities:

  • Building a service-based business
  • Building a personal brand
  • Fine-tuning my systems

We can have weekly and monthly check-in's with a scoring system to figure out who lost/won that period. Maybe a wager, something that fires the both of us up!!

We can use the coming months to experiment on a set system for 2025.

Who wants to be my rival?! 💪

EDIT: Will prioritize fellow girls just for safety precautions!

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2024/10/30
10:01 UTC

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18 F looking for an accountability partner

I’m looking for someone to share Forest app scores with over the next 7 months. I’m consistent with my study routine, but I’m aiming to increase my study hours. Feel free to reach out if you have similar goals.

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2024/10/30
07:58 UTC

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22m

Looking for someone to daily talk with regarding my fitness, academic and character development journey.

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2024/10/29
23:18 UTC

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Looking some accountability friends

Im wanting to have a daily routine for my health goals. Would really like to have an accountability friend or a group of accountability friends to do this with. I also have the Forfeit app. If interested, pm me.

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2024/10/29
20:44 UTC

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Software engineer learning buddy

37m CST, would like a collaborator / study buddy to work on a project

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2024/10/29
20:22 UTC

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28M, CEST, Looking for a work and fitness motivation buddy

I just got back from a big vacation and I just noticed that I haven't really made much progress towards my goals I wanted to achieve by the end of the year. I guess I might not achieve everythign I wanted, but I think I can definitely make the most of the remaining two months this year.

I want to balance my time between work, fitness and having a social life. You can guess which parts I need renewed motivation for :D

I'm looking for someone I can discuss my goals with, chat with when it's hard to stay motivated, and most importantly, celebrate success with!

Feel free to reach out if you'd like to chat.

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2024/10/29
18:24 UTC

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21M Looking for an accountability partner for my career, fitness and personal goals

Hey y'all, So As the title suggests, I'm looking for an accountability partner (Preferably around my age pls). I'm a final year uni student and I have a lot of goals, like studying harder, working on studying in europe for my masters, staying consistent with the gym, stuff like that. I have no clue on how to do this alone and I need somebody to be with me in this rather crazy journey haha. And I can assure u, I'll make sure to help you out too!! Im from GMT + 5:30, but I don't mind any country tbh. So if you're around my age, and r willing to do this, feel free to send me a DM and introduce urself :) I'll reply to u in likke a few hours. Thanks and TC!!

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2024/10/29
18:03 UTC

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40M looking for co-working accountability buddy.

Wanting to stay focused and stop procrastination.
Looking to develop good habits and improve skills
Also looking to improve the quality of my work

Based in EST, but happy to co-work with anyone.

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2024/10/29
16:11 UTC

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33M looking for accountibility partner to fix my sleep

Because of my phone / playstation addiction , i have been sleeping really late which effect all aspect of my life I am looking for someone to stay accountible and sleep early so i cant my sleep fixed

Reach out to me and i will help you stay accountable to your goal too

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2024/10/29
10:58 UTC

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M34 (GMT+5:30)

I’m on a journey to improve my health and fitness, and I’m looking for an accountability partner to join me. My main goals are to lose weight and build muscle, and I believe that having someone to share this journey with will make it more enjoyable and successful. What I’m Looking For: • Motivation: Someone who can encourage and inspire me on tough days. • Consistency: A partner who is committed to daily check ins. • Shared Goals: Ideally, you should have similar fitness goals, whether it’s weight loss, muscle gain, or overall health improvement. About Me: • I’m dedicated and ready to put in the work! • I enjoy a mix of cardio and strength training. • I’m open to trying new workouts and healthy recipes. How We Can Support Each Other: • Daily check-ins. • Sharing workout routines, meal plans, and tips. • Celebrating each other’s successes, big or small! If you’re interested in teaming up or have any questions, feel free to comment or DM.

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2024/10/29
09:55 UTC

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35M Info Worker Looking to Improve Discipline and Efficiency

Hello y’all,
My primary interest in accountability is to maintain motivation and improve efficiency in a software development work environment with very hands-off management. If you have a technical background, that’s good but not needed.

Presently I’m also working on maintaining a carbohydrate-restricted diet and OMAD fasting regimen. In a few months time, I’m also looking at implementing disciplines to improve cardiovascular exercise, sleep hygiene, finances, and intentional socialization. Hopefully we can find solidarity on some of these topics. It’s not required but I’d much appreciate the support of a fellow Christian (I’m Catholic), as we can include prayers in our accountability.

What is of greatest importance to me is finding someone who has observable “velocity” in self-improvement (albeit self-reported). My velocity is observable and small. In a sense, I’m also not results-focused here. For example, you might have observable progress in decreasing the size of an eating window by 1 hour every month without observing progress in weight loss results, which in my mind makes us compatible.

The two forms of accountability I’m looking for are (1) a daily accountability communique (e.g. a text or brief call), essentially answering a series of accountability prompts specific to each partner (e.g. I might be answering the question “Have you watched one video instructing you on better use of your work software over the past 24 hours?”). I’m mostly flexible with your schedule on the timing of this communique. (2) I’m also looking for a half-hour end-of-week call or video meeting. In it I would review the week past and list the few tasks I plan to accomplish before the next meeting. My preferred timing for this is on Fridays between 1 to 7 pm CST, but I’m also flexible here.

Thank you for your time.
-Josh

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2024/10/29
07:45 UTC

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34/m looking to become a billionaire

My current bank account is about 50k so they plan is to double the bank account every year. So give or take about 15 years. Going to start are the begging of the new year. Eastern Time Zone so US based is best.

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2024/10/29
04:11 UTC

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F18: Looking for a daily accountability partner

Been meaning to get up early to run. I keep telling myself to, but I can't get up. I want running buddies, but none of them want to with me. So please, if anyone can help me out, that'd be great.

Insta: @y0ur.h3rb

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2024/10/29
03:48 UTC

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23/M looking for a daily accountability partner

Hi . I am 23/M and a physics student currently doing masters .

I have become very lazy and a huge procrastrinator and finding it really hard to feel motivated to do my daily study/fitness tasks . So looking for an accountability partner to tackle our goals together .

My goals mostly include improving daily study time , doing exercice/gym regularly , having a consistent sleep schedule and a healthy diet etc... Your goals don't have to be the same , just need to be there to check up on each other and hold ourselves accountable when needed .

Let me know if you are interested and give some intro about yourself and your goals . Preferrably be 20+ and between timezones gmt+1 to gmt+10 . My preferred commumication platform is telegram and signal .

Hope you have a better rest of your day

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2024/10/29
00:26 UTC

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Looking for Partner

Hey! I'm wanting to find a buddy to help me stay consistent with my plans to learn a new language, and get my license!

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2024/10/28
18:45 UTC

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F26 (GMT +8 🇵🇭) - serious accountability partner

Posted here weeks ago looking for an accountability partner, still haven’t found a good one.

  • I like reading
  • i listen to natives speaking english to improve my english skills in youtube daily
  • newbie to coding
  • looking for work
  • etc.

I do more, dm me so we can plan it together.

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2024/10/28
14:04 UTC

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free accountability app buddy

Hi!! I use the forfeit app to stay accountable. I I have found some nice people on Reddit but I feel bad sending them everything to verify. If anyone wants to use forfeit or already does please add me @lindsyn…i have adhd so its a never ending cycle and I love talking to people with similar struggles to share tricks

I’m 28 f if that matters!

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2024/10/28
07:29 UTC

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42/m Looking for good habits group/accountability

Hello all, last year I was part of a group with a coach where we all picked things for a habit so to speak to be accountable for. I worked on steps, eating better, drinking water and sleep. I was doing really great and then the coach quit and the group fell apart. I thought I could keep moving forward on my own but I fell apart. So basically looking for a group to help with that. If there is an application and some cost involved I would be willing to consider it.

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2024/10/27
23:52 UTC

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Looking for co-working buddies to work on our personal or creative projects

Hello! 33M software developer based in Montreal, Canada (EST) currently working on developing a video game side project on weekday evenings and weekends. I'd love to make some online co-work friends that are pursuing similar projects or interests. Ideally we'd keep it semi-professional and do our best to keep each other focused.

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2024/10/27
21:24 UTC

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16M - Looking for an accountability partner to judge me

I'm a high school junior, porn addict, overall media consumption addict, and I'm trying to get better. I've been becoming better for the past 2 months, since school started. I just want someone to read what I message them--at minimum I'll send 2 messages a day--and tell me their thoughts on them. You can also tell me what's going on in your life, and I'll reply. We can use Reddit DMs though I'm not proficient in that UI, or we can text, or we can use Whatsapp. I'm genuinely looking for anyone my age or older. My messages will be about my sucesses, insights, and struggles every day. I can send some advice, but in the mean time, I really don't know what works for me, much less anyone.

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2024/10/27
18:20 UTC

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20M - Looking for an Accountability Partner for Morning Reading Habit

Hey everyone!

I'm trying to build a consistent morning reading routine and could really use an accountability partner to keep me on track. My goal is to read every morning, and to keep it interesting, I'm putting $5 on the line every time I miss it!

If you're also trying to build a morning habit (reading or anything else) and are up for keeping each other accountable, let's connect! We can check in daily and motivate each other to stay consistent.

My Timezone is UTC +3.
Will be UTC +2 next week because DST will end.

I would prefer to be in same timezone but not a necessity.

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2024/10/27
17:30 UTC

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M24 - Looking for an accountability partner looking to work on reducing their social anxiety

I’d describe myself as a sociable, somewhat confident person with people I know and (male) strangers. However, I can’t seem to translate this behaviour with women. I can’t approach women and overthink all aspects of conversation and social interaction when I’m with women who aren’t within my established social circle.

I must clarify that my primary intention on working on my social anxiety with women is not to ‘pick’ them up. I simply want to be comfortable interacting with women platonically - and romantically if an interaction was to progress in such a manner organically.

For me, I’m looking to set my weekly tasks to help me reach my goal. One could be relatively simple, such as me saying good morning to 10 people in the morning.

If anyone is interested, DM me. Any information on your situation and what you’re looking for would be appreciated so I can try and assist you in return.

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2024/10/27
16:26 UTC

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Seeking Study Buddy for Part-Time Computer Science Journey (GMT+0)

Hey everyone,

39/M, older student.

I'm looking for a study buddy to help keep me motivated as I pursue my computer science degree part-time. I work a full-time job, so finding the time and energy to study can be challenging.

It would be awesome to connect with someone in a similar situation – juggling work and studies. We can share tips, keep each other accountable, and maybe even collaborate on projects or study sessions (virtual or in-person if we happen to be in the same location).
I'm based close to London, UK time zone, so someone in a similar time zone would be ideal for scheduling purposes.

A little about me: I'm passionate about computer gaming, web development and cybersecurity. I'm currently on my first year of a BSc Computer Science Degree.

If you're interested in connecting, please send me a message.

Thank you for reading.

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2024/10/26
23:59 UTC

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Need Accountability Partner — Restarting Gym Discipline

Hi! Over a year ago, I was FIT. But, I got a little sick and went on medication that sadly, gave me horrid side effects and I wasn't able to go to the gym. I've been pausing my gym membership every month since then, paying $15 for the pause, and now ready to get back to it.

In the last year, I am terribly out of shape. I am no longer nimble, my body aches, my muscular legs and body are now soft, it's def not me. I feel so weak compared to my former self.

So, I tried this past month to go and never went. I felt guilty the entire month of October, especially worried about my health—not fun to feel like I'm not longer flexible or strong.

I would love a partner who is also trying to get back to a goal—whether its the gym, healthier eating, studying, hobbies, art, anything. The point is to be DISCIPLINED and I believe in the power of moral support.

Please message me. I'm resetting next Friday, November 1 and I know it's going to be so hard mentally to get dressed and show up at the gym. Would love a person who understands the struggle who can help me and for me to return the favor. If its more than one person, I'm happy to do a group, too.

Thanks for reading this far. Hope to get some serious replies/messages!

7 Comments
2024/10/26
19:33 UTC

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