I am looking for a mentor that primarily focuses in flipping raw land. I would love to learn all the ins and outs of it all.

Hey everyone,

I'm reaching out here because believe in the power of community and the impact of collective wisdom. I'm a 27-year-old mechanical engineer with big dreams and an even bigger drive to make them happen.

I graduated with honors in 2019 from a top university in the UAE, thanks to a scholarship that I earned through sheer hard work and determination. Coming from a country torn apart by war, l've had to fight for every opportunity in life.I didn't just coast through school I thrived, while also taking on side hustles to fund most of my MBA. Now, I'm living in Dubai, and ive hit a wall I never expected.

For the past year, I've applied to over 5,000 jobs each one with a personalized application, tailored for the role. And what has that gotten me? Rejection after rejection. On the rare occasion I do get an interview, it's for companies offering a humiliating $1,000 a month for an engineer to work full-time, six davs a week. It's disheartening, But l'm not giving up.

Despite receiving several job offers, they've all fallen through because companies won't hire someone from my country. I can't even open a bank account to start a business, I feel like I'm trapped, not by my abilities, but by barriers completely out of my control.

Here's the thing: I'm not here to complain or ask for pity. I'm resilient as hell. I've got an unstoppable mindset, a sharp intellect, and a personality that lights up the room (at least, that's what people tell mel. live worked hard to cultivate my athleticism, confidence, and skills. I'm not just capable I'm exceptional. Yet, none of this seems to matter because of a single line on my passport.

So, I'm here to ask Can anyone help? I don't need donations or sympathy I need mentorship, advice, and guidance. I want to channel my skills, resilience, and potential into something meaningful, I want to build a future where I can support a family someday, where I have purpose, and where I can give back to the world.

If you've ever been in a situation like mine, if you've overcome the odds, or if you have the wisdom to share, please reach out. Whether it's ideas, advice, or simply pointing me in the right direction-I'm ready to listen and act.

I believe there's alwavs a way forward. And maybe, just maybe, you can help me find it.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

Hi! I’m in school for cybersecurity but I’m not sure if I can do this, I’m thinking having a mentor would really help me. If interested in being my mentor for please DM me!

Hello, I am a university student studying comp sci looking for an open source project to contribute to. After spending a lot of hours searching, I was not able to find a project I could possibly contribute without help or found ones that were very confusing for a newcomer (from the installation, to fixing the issues).

Saying that, if anyone is working on an open source project that actually needs some kind of help and is willing to be my "mentor" on my first steps dont hesitate to leave a comment.

I can handle python, c, c++ and java but i willing to learn a new language if needed. Keep in mind that i have never worked on anything outside of typical school/hackathon type projects, hence why I am looking for small/simple tasks.

Hi. I have designed a small piece of construction equipment and hope to use it to help build homes for poor people. I need to finish building the prototype first and get guidance on funding the nonprofit.

I've been working on this project for 4 months and the machine is 80% done but it feels like the project is stalled. It's a slog as I'm working on it alone. Part of the mentor's help could be in helping me improve my personal skills to attract the right kind of help I need. I've started a sub to detail the invention and project. r/OpenSourceAircrete

Not specific to UX design itself, but I've been using the ADPList platform for a while now as a UX designer trying to break into the market since 2023. I’ve had a couple of negative mentor experiences but mostly positive ones. However, I’ve been meeting with this mentor for the past couple of months, and part of me feels like he might be a red flag.

To give a little more context, I first met him about a year ago on the platform and had a fairly regular session. His approach to mentoring was a bit unorthodox in that he focused more on the personal aspects of being a designer. I didn’t have any issues with that initially, but later on, he started making assumptions about me and would ramble about them for the entire session without giving me a chance to correct him or speak.

For instance, one time I came to the session with prepared questions about my new visual layouts for my portfolio. Instead of asking what I wanted to discuss, he started talking about the mindset I needed as a designer. As I mentioned above, he wouldn’t let me speak, so I had to condense my question into the very last moments of the meeting.

That felt like a red flag, but the thing is, he genuinely seems to care about me as a mentee and as a person, so it didn’t feel like he was doing this out of malice.

Afterward, we didn’t speak for a couple of months. Recently, I reached back out to him, more for personal reasons than professional ones. I told him I was considering changing jobs because I didn’t find my current one worthwhile for personal reasons. He started making assumptions again without hearing all the context and began discouraging me from leaving UX design altogether.

Eventually, I stopped him, explained my reasoning, and clued him in. Once he understood, he became more supportive. However, whenever I shared a plan for moving forward, he would constantly go back and forth—alternating between being supportive and then discouraging and demotivating me. This made me feel like no matter what I tried, it wasn’t going to work, leaving me feeling even more hopeless.

I know this turned into a bit of a vent and ramble, but do you think he’s a red flag? As I mentioned, he doesn’t seem to have bad intentions and genuinely seems to care, but I’m not sure if his advice is sound or reasonable.

I’d appreciate any insights.

Hello Community,

I've been working as a Security Administrator for 3.5 years in banking domain and I'm interested in changing my career to the data field. I've started learning about Data Analyst roles and skills using this roadmap: https://roadmap.sh/data-analyst If someone with experience could guide or mentor me, it would be very helpful for my next career step.

Thank you for your help and support.

Just got my bachelor's degree in IT and looking to get a mentor to try and help me find my way around this vast field and find an enjoyable job that won't get boring!

So I’m a senior in high school and I’m looking for academic and career guidance

and general guidance too.

Over the past few weeks, I've been looking for a way to get out of there. Daily grind and being a cog in the machine. I have 2 or 3 ideas that I believe that have great potential in them. Both monetary value and and helping others from there, I'm not sure where to go. I believe in these ideas and my mobility to create more so much that i'm willing to partner with someone who's done this type of thing before kind of looking at the ones possibly you myself and the ones that I need to hand over to somebody else would more expertise and the subject for it to actually gain momentum

I have been accepted into a 12-month mentorship program, where I will meet with a mentor every month. This will include assignments for me to complete and interaction with the other participants of the program. How can I best take advantage of this opportunity and get the most out of it? I am currently unemployed, and I think this will help me tremendously in navigating employment opportunities, networking and leadership preparation.

I’m looking for a mentor for a side project that I’m working on. It is a logging observability project and will be using React, Node, Express, TypeScript, Postgres, AWS, Docker, and possibly Golang down the road.

The project is in its early phases but the goal is to build a functional project and to upskill in design patterns, architecture, and in other areas.

I have a solid understanding of the fundamentals of the tech stack I mentioned above (with the exception of Go), built a few projects, and have been learning and upskilling on my own.

However, I am looking for someone with Senior engineering experience that I can bounce ideas off of, have the occasional code review, and discuss advance concepts for maybe a couple of hours per week. I believe that having someone with Senior experience will help me take my skills to the next level.

To be clear, I am not looking for someone to contribute directly to the codebase but would open to it if interested.

If you are interested, please DM me. I can go more into the project details and answer any questions you have. Thanks in advance.

I have been looking to build a movie recommendation platform recently. I have a business background, but lack any experience in the tech development world - though I believe have the time (all day now) and skill.

Currently, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed with the options/information out there, and would greatly appreciate a tech mentor! Just a couple minutes of quick chat and a few pointers to the direction I should start in would make a world of difference.

Thanks in advance!

I want to set up a program of which I can mentor a small group of young adults with life coaching and financial support with the idea that they will carry on this idea and it will grow larger. How should I go about finding selfless and hardworking young people to help guide?

Friends, Basis my 25+ years of engineering leadership experience of hiring program managers in the IT space, I figured out there are a lot of gaps in terms of roles a program manager is supposed to do vs what they have been doing in their jobs. Generally people continue their roles of Project Lead->Manager -> Proggram Manager and look for roles/comp accordingly where there is a gap. I plan to do workshop series [1:1] with budding program managers to help them ace these interviews. First intro session will be 1:1 [Free] and rest will be paid.

Hi, I'm a mid level full stack web developer and I feel like I'm confident enough in my skills to teach the basics of programming to absolute beginners. This does not necessarily imply web development - I've worked with other types of programming languages besides the web dev ones, such as C++ and Java.

If you wanna start learning programming but have no idea how to go about it, feel free to reach out to me.

My lesson plan will include one-on-one calls/chat sessions where I will answer any questions you may have and guide you, homework, links and references to external resources that you can study on your own, as well as practice projects.

I'm just starting out so I'm still experimenting with pricing and stuff, but for now a 1hr lesson/consultation will be 25$ (first one is free)

We can do lessons it either over chat or a call, whichever you prefer.

Thank you!

Title!! Ok so Im a hs student looking for a mentor in the above fields. IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLLLDDD thx xoxo,

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I'm new to business, looking for a mentor. Started my business recently and need tips and advice.

Hi my name is Avaneesh I come from a background of BEng. in Mechanical Engineering. I am seeking for a mentor who’s experienced in the business industry. I want to learn about the business industry as a whole. No specific industry at the moment. Reason for this is as I’m a person with continuous flow of ideas and I would like to gain advice on how I could advance on with them. I’m currently focusing on the Indian market. Wouldn’t mind seeing other countries but would prefer here.

Do contact me on telegram @Avaneesh05 or on email (sent privately). Hope to hear from you guys. Thanks!

I have a short video demo for one of our interfaces that uses our anticipation engine to match user's intent to call a relevant workflow. The video is made very simple for the sake of describing the project and only showcases the meeting interface. If you like it, I can explain the rest of the product using figma slides. We're not innovating anything here, but ease of use is our top priority. Internally we're calling it "spoonfeeding". I'm adding a link to loom video in the first comment, please go through it and let me know your thoughts.

I wake up in the morning and get ready for class, but before I even get out of bed, I ask myself, “What’s the point?” I ace a super hard exam I’ve studied for, and still, I think, “What’s the point?” I get a promotion at work, and that same question lingers: “What’s the point?” Every accomplishment, every failure—it’s all tainted by that phrase.

My mom passed away on October 5, 2023, and I’ll admit, I haven’t been the same since. In the time that’s passed, I’ve made significant changes in my life: I got out of a three-year relationship, made efforts to be more social, and saved a decent amount of money. By almost every measurable standard, I’ve taken steps to become a better version of myself. But lately, I’ve felt like I’ve lost something intangible, something vital.

Part of me has come to realize the fact that my mom isn’t watching over me. She’s gone now. Me having the cloud of guilt and happiness that she was there to shame and applaud my every move guided me for months but now that is gone. Now I’m left asking: What now?

There’s a quote I came across recently: “The purpose of life is what keeps you from killing yourself.” But what drives me? Honestly, I don’t know. I have goals—creating new programming projects, making YouTube videos, working out more—but every time I think about them, I come back to that same question: “What’s the point?” After all, we’re all going to die.

I recently started volunteering at a hospice center, and while it’s meaningful work, I think it’s also taken a toll on my mental health. Sitting with a kid my age who’s in the final months of his life has stirred up a mix of emotions in me. I feel selfish for struggling with my own life when he would give anything to be in my position. At the same time, I feel overwhelmed by how valuable his life is and want to do everything I can to help him. Yet there’s also that voice that reminds me: if you zoom out far enough, none of this really matters. We’re all just tiny specks in the grand scheme of things.

Maybe what I need is balance in my mindset.

I’m offering assistance to some beginners that would like to get into the whole online business nichr, especially Affiliate Marketing, even tho you’re into it as a means of supplementing your current main income stream or you just want to gain some experience in Social Media, Advertising, Sales or even Email Marketing.

We live in extraordinary times if we’re talking about the volume of information available to us for free, but at the same time, this can also mean a big disadvantage. When there’s so much information out there, it’s easy to get confused. There are many interesting ideas, but only a few that actually get results.

Until now, I used to offer mentorship programs for beginners in the world of Affiliate Marketing, but after all this time, I’ve come to the conclusion that a beginner doesn’t need a huge knowledge base. They don’t need more information than what’s already available on the market; they need step-by-step guidance. They need to understand the basics clearly, but more than that, they need a clear path.

So, I decided to slightly change the old approach of my mentorship program.

We’re offering the exact business model that worked for us, with everything that entails: from the software we use, to copywriting, how we chose the niche, how we approach leads, how we get accepted into affiliate programs, and everything else. This strategy has been working for us for about 2 years now. It works directly in proportion to the time you actively spend on this business model, and the best part is that, if you follow the exact same business model, you have a chance to start earning in the first few days.

What do we get out of all this? Well, first of all, just to make it clear, we are still using this strategy for our business, but I plan on starting a paid mentorship program. However, I can’t do that, and it wouldn’t be right to do so, until I get clear results from the people I’ve mentored. We already have results from over 10 Affiliate Marketers, but we feel that more social proof would help us, which is why we’re offering what we do for free.

I also have a course on Udemy where the theory and the strategy are explained in full. The course costs about $20 for those interested, for the self-taught learners. From my point of view, $20 is a minimal investment you can make in your future, considering that if you get involved, you could triple your investment with just one sale in a few days. But again, this mentorship positions that I’m offering are completely free.

So, if you want to start an online business, even with no prior knowledge in the field, well, that’s probably the reason you’re here. We’d love to meet you!!

Hi. I retired before I turned 50. MBA from IIM-Ahmedabad, worked in consumer product related businesses in India an abroad. Ran a startup in my last gig. Retired when I met my personal financial goals, which gives me time to be a mentor (for free). I see it as a way of `giving back' and also connecting with a younger generation.

You can check out my profile on Linkedin - Rahul Deans. and my Blog `DeansMusings'. I write on niche subjects like national security, but there are posts on startups that will give you an idea of my views on business.

Connect with me if you'd like to explore my being a mentor. I'd be interested if I think I can add some value to you, we have things in common and vibe well.
It would help if you are in Bangalore.

I don't understand tech. No get rich quick advice, or job leads unless I am confident about the
person I recommend. I'm not a therapist, or shoulder to cry on.

I have been a mentor to a few college students, young professionals and startup founders and have continued to be in touch years after we parted ways.
What's in it for me - good conversations over a beer, where I can learn as much as I share and
we both look forward to meeting each other.

Friends - with 25+ yrs of industry experience into IT, I have been mentoring working professionals and campus facing students help define their career paths. So far, have guided 100+ mentees as I love mentoring. I am thinking to go as a full time into this, thought of checking with you all if this is something that can be made a full time profession?

I’m a cybersecurity analyst transitioning to a leadership role. I would love to have a mentor guide me through this phase and shape my career path.

After 25+ years of navigating the dynamic and fast-paced world of IT, I’m excited to offer mentorship to professionals looking to level up in their careers. Whether you're new to the industry or looking to make a strategic shift, I can help guide you toward achieving your goals.

🔑 What I Bring to the Table:

• Deep Industry Expertise: I’ve worked across multiple domains in IT—leading teams, solving complex problems, and driving innovation in [specific areas, e.g., software development, systems architecture, cybersecurity, cloud computing, etc.].
• Real-World Insights: Learn from my hands-on experience with [specific technologies or tools you’ve mastered] and gain practical advice that applies to today’s tech landscape.
• Strategic Guidance: From building a personal brand to navigating career transitions or advancing in your current role, I’ll help you develop a roadmap to success.
• Leadership and Soft Skills: IT is not just about technical knowledge; leadership, communication, and problem-solving skills are crucial for long-term success. Let’s work on building your full potential.

🌐 Why Mentorship? In today’s ever-evolving IT world, staying ahead requires continuous learning and growth. As a mentor, I’ll help you not only understand the technical side of things but also build the confidence, mindset, and network to thrive.

🔧 Who Can Benefit:

• IT professionals transitioning to leadership roles
• Developers, engineers, and other tech roles seeking career advancement
• Newcomers to the IT field who want guidance on the best path forward
• Anyone looking to pivot within IT or upskill in emerging technologies

📅 Let’s Connect! If you’re ready to take your IT career to the next level, DM me to discuss how we can work together. Let’s craft a mentorship plan tailored to your goals and aspirations!

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Hey Reddit,

I’m a woman in my 20s trying to find my wings in life. I’ve had incredible mentors over the years who’ve helped shape my journey, but my most consistent mentor recently took a position in politics and moved to another state. This transition has left me reflecting on the kind of guidance I want going forward, and I’ve realized that I’m ready to connect with a female mentor.

I recently watched a video where a woman spoke about her mentor, and it was the best description of a mentor-mentee relationship I’ve ever heard. She admired and respected her mentor not just professionally but personally. They shared plenty in common, recognized each other’s strengths, and understood how to navigate each other’s weaknesses. That’s the kind of connection I want: someone who understands my background, goals, and perspective.

I’ve enjoyed my previous mentors, but our views and experiences didn’t always align. They offered advice that was valuable but often out of reach for me because I didn’t have the resources or support they assumed I had. Relying on family, for example, wasn’t an option for me, and that was something they struggled to fully grasp. I’m not bitter about it, I’ve still learned so much but I need someone who understands where I’m coming from and wants to see me win without any sense of competition, someone who’s genuinely on my team.

A little about me:

• I’ve always been ambitious, even though I grew up in an environment where dreaming big was frowned upon.

• I didn’t attend college and instead enrolled in the “school of hard knocks,” which left me feeling like a failure for years. But I’ve realized that most people I know who went to college didn’t graduate or aren’t working in their field anyway.

• I’ve always been different, and that difference is becoming more obvious as I grow older—and I’m learning to embrace

• I’ve known since I was a kid that settling for a life that doesn’t match my potential isn’t an option.

• I don’t date because I feel it’s a waste of time at this stage of my life. I’ve always done things that scare others my age, and I plan to keep that momentum going.

• I have a presence that people respect, and while I enjoy the authority that comes with it, I also know how to stay approachable.

What I’m looking for:

• A mentor who is unapologetically herself and proud of it. Someone who knows how to balance ambition with self-care and lives a luxurious life because she’s worked hard to earn it.

• A woman who has likely been called “vain” just because she looks and feels amazing, but who understands that self-care isn’t vanity—it’s power.

• Someone who values patience, compassion, and true mentorship, not just someone who wants to talk about themselves.

• A woman who can show me how to enjoy the finer things in life while also teaching me how to navigate challenges and create opportunities.

I live in Colorado, but I’d actually prefer to connect with someone from outside my local area. I’d love to visit and step out of my environment to gain new perspectives and grow.

If this resonates with you, or if you feel like you’d enjoy mentoring someone like me, I’d love to connect.

Please take a moment to reflect before reaching out and think about whether you’d genuinely enjoy mentoring someone like me. I’m looking for someone who cares, listens, and offers real guidance—not someone who just wants to talk without offering anything useful.

I understand certain individuals are busy and life is busy. I don’t mind having to tag along, do a chore or take something off your plate to help you as you help me.

Thank you for reading. I’m excited to see where this journey leads me. Peace and love

The concept of a "family doctor" stems from the idea of a generalist who is able to address a wide range of medical issues and provide ongoing, long-term care for individuals and families. Family doctors have extensive training and provide comprehensive healthcare services, which makes the model quite effective for overall well-being.

In contrast, career coaching, while similarly valuable, is a bit different. Career coaching focuses on guiding individuals through their career development, transitions, or decision-making processes.

That said, the career coaching field is evolving. Many people turn to career coaches for advice on everything from job search strategies to navigating workplace dynamics or transitioning into new roles. However, the field hasn't yet reached the level of widespread infrastructure or continuity that you see with family medicine.

What do you think? Would a more standardized or integrated career coaching system be useful in your view?