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The creation of kinetic energy through thought alone is still a topic of debate and speculation.

This post will focus on explaining, how the feeling we experience as Tension is another form of expression of your Vital energy from your Spirit (soul/astral body/etheric body/energetic body/emotional body/true self) to help spread this information and help everyone learn about the different spiritual/biological discoveries, usages and benefits that were documented on the activation of this type of energy.

This presents to you an opportunity to empower yourself with your knowledge of your Tension by gaining the ability to really tap into all the reported, documented and written spiritual/biological usages that are said to be achievable with your conscious cultivation of it.

What does Tension means/Represents:

If you've ever heard of the sayings" You could feel the tension in the room" or "you could cut the tension with a knife"...

• Tension has many meanings, some Literal, others Metaphorical, but in this case, it is about energy(heat) emitting from ones body that creates a field surrounding a person or has emitted so much that it has left that field and is floating in the room/location where that person is or was.

• That same energy creates a field of energy that is equivalent to what can be considered your "Spiritual Energy" because your spirit (soul/astral body/etheric body/ energetic body/emotional body/true self) is made of that same energy in motion that activates when you experience it.

• In its neutral state, you unconsciously draw that energy with your breath, the foods/liquids you consume and especially the thoughts you think, the actions you do and the visual content that you watch either emits or draws in to amplify your base of this BioElectric Energy.

Here's a simple way that's explains how you can become aware of how to activate/control your Tension: it is that extremely comfortable Euphoric wave that can most easily be recognized as present while you experience goosebumps/chills from a positive external or internal situations/ stimuli like listening to a song you really like, thinking about a lover, watching a moving movie scene, striving, feeling thankful, praising God, praying, etc.

• That Euphoric wave is the animating energy behind life itself, Other cultures that have experienced in other ways with this energy found their own usages for it and then documented their results as they coined different terms for it.

• That energy activates goosebumps/chills not the other way around. You can learn how to separate that extremely pleasant energy from the physical reaction of goosebumps and eventually learn how to activate only that Euphoric energy part whenever you please, feel it wherever or everywhere on yourself and for the duration you choose.

• Other than Tension , this has also been experienced and documented as the Vibrational State before an Astral Projection, the Runner's HighChills from positive events/stimuli, as Qi in Taoism / Martial Arts, as Prana in Hindu philosophy, during an ASMR session, BioelectricityLife forceEuphoriaEcstasyOrgoneRaptureAuraManaVayusNenIntentTummoOdic forcePitīFrissonRuahSpiritual Energy, Secret Fire, The Tingleson-demand quickeningVoluntary PiloerectionAetherSpiritual Chills and many more to be discovered hopefully with your help.

• It was discovered that this energy can be used in many beneficial ways.

• Some which are more biological like Unblocking your lymphatic system/MeridiansFeel euphoric/ecstatic on your whole bodyGuide your Spiritual chills anywhere in your bodyControl your temperature, Give yourself goosebumps, Dilate your pupils, Regulate your heartbeat, Counteract stress/anxiety in your body with this energy, Internally Heal yourself access your Hypothalamus on demand,

• and I discovered other usages which are more spiritual like Accurately use your Psychic senses (clairvoyance, clairaudience, spirit projection, higher-self guidance, vision from your third eye)with this energy, Managing your Auric fieldManifestation, Energy absorption from any source and even more to come.

• If you're interested in learning how to use this subtle energy activation for these ways, here are three written tutorials going more in-depth and explicitly revealing how you can do just that.

• P.S. Everyone feels its activation at certain points in their life, some brush it off while others notice that there is something much deeper going on. Those are exactly the people you can find on the subreddit community r/spiritualchills where they share experiences, knowledge, tips on it and if you are wanting to develop discipline, purpose, self-worth, or strength, start your journey today.

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2025/02/01
03:33 UTC

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For my own reference, 2025 goals.

Theme: Improve my work ethic, focus, concentration, being a good husband, good dad.

  1. Personal life:

  2. Be a good husband, see my wife with the same eyes I saw her when we first got married.

  3. Before my every reaction think how I would react to the same question/request when I initially married her.

  4. Be a good father and spend time with my kid.

    1. Read kid books I had bought, sleep with baby at night when it asks.
  5. Clean my thoughts, bad thoughts have ruined my head, have clean good thoughts with good head.

    1. Reduce sexual perverted thoughts, pornography. Think of alternative things to do (write a story, draw).
    2. Be aware of negative thoughts in my mind, bikering, envy, sadistic, pessimistic.
    3. Relax, enjoy little moments, enjoy breathing living life. Laugh and take things as challenge, that's what makes life exciting.
    4. Clear all thoughts of Cheating
  6. Avoid mobile and digital media.

  7. When working, I shouldn't watch any shows, I shouldn't see any videos. My concentration is god, don't break it, don't disrespect it.

  8. No mobile usage during work. Infact no mobile usage even when I am sitting free, I will have only a designated time of the day as mobile time.

  9. Work ethic:

  10. STOP POSTPONING, STOP AVOIDING, FACE IT.

    1. It has to be done right now, with what I have, wherever I am. No better time than now.
    2. Ask the right question, what is making you avoid or postpone. Be honest.
  11. Prioritizing & Progress:

    1. specification prioritization instead of deprioritization (extreme sense of responsibility & accountability).
      1. focus on tasks with highest impact or urgency.
    2. Set clear & realistic goals:
      1. write down a table break down tasks into smaller tasks.
      2. define objective: break long-term goals into smaller & manageable tasks.
    3. FOCUS ON PROGRESS RATHER THAN ON PERFECTION
      1. is it really necessary to be perfectionist when it comes to this particular task.
      2. list down the task where I am getting stuck. which task I am stuck, how do I get out of it, where do I have difficulty on progress, focusing on perfectionism.
  12. Self forgiveness, embracing my mistakes.

  13. Loose FOMO.

  14. Build discipline:

    1. Create a routine: Stick to daily schedule to establish consistency.
    2. Focus on only one tasks at a time, dont break concentration.
  15. Develop accountability:

    1. Reflect on things at night.
    2. Write daily progress and track.
    3. take responsibility for both success & failure, identify correct reason.
  16. Cultivate concentration, focus & persistence.

    1. Eliminate distractions: create workspace that supports concentration.
    2. stay resilient: push through challenges by reminding yourself of your goals.
  17. Practice self-discipline:

    1. delay gratification: prioritize long-term rewards.
    2. stay consistent: work even when motivation wanes, rely on habits instead.
  18. Be punctual:

    1. Respect readlines & start tasks on time.
    2. Maintain Integrity: Do what you say you will, even when no one is watching.
  19. Takecare of my mental & physical health:

  20. Relax, enjoy small things in life.

  21. Get good sleep.

  22. Take breaks to avoid burning out at work.

  23. Workout consistently.

  24. Have a solid serious personality. like vishnuvardhan.

strong thoughts, strong actions, make a stand once I believe in something, be a man of few words. Be humble yet powerful, keep my words to myself. Make realistic goals and plans. Dont be scared of taking a stand.

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2025/01/14
19:58 UTC

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It's my dream but I am afraid

Heyyy guy's I am from India I am 21 years old I want to create my own shipping company like MAERSK,MSC it's my dream I know you think what he is saying maybe he is mad !!! But guys but I can't sleep in night I can't stay happy my mind remember mee again and again but know I am afraid!!! It's happening in everyone?

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2025/01/14
16:06 UTC

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What are everyone's goals for 2025?

Are you breaking them down into quarters for the year?

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2025/01/14
14:21 UTC

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I want to be big

Throughout my life I always felt very weak (not sick wise), and I feel like I always wanted to be the bruiser and not only protect my teammates but also too mark territory. Im not very tall, Im 1.77m, but very light about 68kg.

That's it. I really like the idea of being like casemiro, rodman, shaq, sergio ramos, and just be this physical beast.

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2025/01/12
18:05 UTC

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Ideas for app used for goals

I’ve been looking at two different apps - bento box and trello. I don’t want to keep a spreadsheet and I want an alternative to pencil and paper. Any ideas?

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2025/01/12
01:09 UTC

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attention span and learning difficulty

Hello, i’m a 21 year old remain looking for some tips, steps, recommendations on what i can do to improve my attention span and learning ability.

i’ve noticed that it’s become more difficult for me to learn knew things or even focus on reading a simple article . i forget everything i read which leads to to rereading the same paragraph a couple times to process it.

i’m unable to read books or even watch a 10 min video without zoning out or being distracted . ( even if it’s super interesting to me !)

is there anything i can do to regain this ability? i would like to learn new things and actually remember them lol.

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2025/01/11
13:12 UTC

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ENJOY

Don't forget to enjoy your life while chasing your dreams. In pursuit of your dreams be sure to have some fun along the way!!!!!!!

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2025/01/11
05:33 UTC

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IN A RUSH (NAH)

It's better to go slow in the right direction, than to go fast in the wrong direction. You can be in such a rush to get there that you will end up in the wrong direction. Sometimes you have slow down to be sure your going in the right direction. #path #lifepath # mindset #LIFE.

          Your challenge is accepted Tyara *******
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2025/01/10
00:30 UTC

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Dear Kimberley *****

Never let anxiety fool you into thinking this is how your going to be for the rest of your life. What anxiety does is create problems that do not exist. #anxiety #mental health #mindset #life

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2025/01/10
00:14 UTC

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okay so I need help getting a long-term goal figured out (I want to own my own house - ideally with a basement)

tl;dr:

I'm looking for a destination to buy a house eventually - like a forever home.

I'm looking to travel to a few places and check them out first, places I can get a visa.

I'm looking at places that are cool shopping, great food, a bit metro and nice people and weather.

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So here's the thing, I live in New Zealand but it's getting too small for me, I have NZ + British dual citizenship so London or Croydon, just outside of London would be easy if I have the money.

On the other hand you get WAY more bang for your buck in Austin, Texas, but America can be a culture shock, is politically horrible, especially if you need healthcare. yeah I think it's just plain a bad idea.

My goal is to be earning NZ$250k/yr b.t. from my business and writing and digital art and freelancing in 2yrs. That gives me $80k living incl. travel and buying a hopper (ebike with a roof) ($90k tax) in the first year and $80k house savings. from there, I can drop my living to $40k and up my savings to $120k/yr. So in 2 yrs all going to plan I could have $200k 70% deposit with plans to pay off a mortgage in 1yr.

I want to know what I'm aiming for though.

Is there like a better option than London which is a vibrant metropolis - but with nice weather or access to nice weather (like england has accesss to rome and spain) and decently low cost of living, like Fiji but a metropolis - like London or parts of America (most parts are easy access to big cities)? or am I going to have to look at Australia?

I don't want to live in a high crime area.

I'm thinking urban like sanfrancisco or oxfordshire. But am I missing obvious countries?
I'm just looking for ideas so I can do some research, do some travelling and set goals.

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2025/01/09
23:09 UTC

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I want to be the reason someone says their faith was restored in humanity

I'm not a hero, or some activist accomplishing incredible things.. but even just in small, mundane ways, I want to be the person that makes people feel like there's still hope for mankind. I want to be that small act of kindness that makes a difference for someone at their lowest. No matter what. No matter how bad the day, or how frustrating my coworkers have been, or how tired I am. I want to always put in the effort for the people I meet.

I like customer service; I like helping. Whether it's just remembering someone's name, or making sure a customer has everything they might need taking that loaf of bread to their mother in the hospital, that's what I want to be.

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2025/01/04
08:59 UTC

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Life Goals Advice

Hi!

I've been reflecting a lot on my goals. Things I want to do and things that feel like they're unattainable dreams. I know that sometimes to get where you want to be, you have to take steps that might be scary. Does anyone have any advice on taking that leap of faith? Or is it better to continue slow and steady?

Thank you!

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2025/01/03
11:35 UTC

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AI Personal task tracker

For managing your personal tasks and projects, which one do you personally use?

I am thinking of the tool like Notion, which offers extensive customization and collaboration features, or a straightforward, user-friendly tool like Todoist? Why?

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2024/12/28
03:03 UTC

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What are your goals for 2025? What tools are you using to monitor your progress?

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2024/12/27
07:37 UTC

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Goals for 2025, would love advice

My roadmap for 2025, would love some advice too!

Background: I am currently 18m, as of my life right now, I am relatively happy, sad at some times, not many friends, few responsibilities such as room bill, etc.

What I realized I need to work on to improve on myself:

is to first, start getting back in the gym. I’ve been feeling pretty insecure abt my body since I am way skinnier now. Also, when I went before (6 months ago) I was not really focused and did not see any good progress. So I want to go back/start healthy habits and work out at least 4 times a week. Also, this will be a great way for me to get out the house since I do not go out much except for college.

Learning how to drive: I still don’t know how to drive, but I have been studying to pass my written test, after that I will go and start looking at cars to buy, one that I would like and would be perfect for a first car. Secondly, this will give me more freedom to do many stuff I want to, such as meet new people, attend new places and have the ability to go anywhere, anytime.

Become more social: I want to become a more social person, and start having more friends. Currently, I know 3 people from high school who I barely keep in touch with, and in high school I did not have much friends. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

Improving my looks: Looking back at old pictures, I looked better for my age than I do now, just face was more clearer and face was cleaner. Now my hairstyle is better but I want to get rid of MOST of my acne, and mostly acne scars since I have minimal acne, but a lot of acne scars. Would also appreciate any advice to remove acne scars.

Finding a gf: I honestly think I am ready to date, for sure not now maybe, but I want to around 2-4 months after I worked on some of these goals so I would treat my partner even better. I think I am a good person, for sure caring, always positive and money isn’t an issue either. Right now, I am talking to someone, but I really don’t see much of a future so I want to cut them off to not lead them on, but they’re helping me practice becoming a good girlfriend. i’m 50/50 if she feels the same way too (we barely meet)

Adventure new places: I want to explore my city even more, I barely go out and I want to change that from once for fun every 6 months to maybe twice a month at the very least. It’s important to build connections which I did not see before. Also, I want to maybe travel somewhere if my business goes good and makes me a lot of money.

Any advice would be appreciated, since I realized staying inside playing video games and sheltering myself from the world will only make me live in regret and sadness.

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2024/12/26
14:30 UTC

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Reopening the subreddit to everyone's life goals, discussion about life decisions and destinations you want to achieve in life

Subreddit is now open again for discussion and will be revamped with new rules, broader scope of life goals and how to obtain them, what is relevant to you as a life goal and what you want to achieve.

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2024/12/14
03:56 UTC

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A mindset to INSTANTLY bring you closer to your goals.

How often do you fall short of set goals? How many times do you tell yourself "This time I'll be dedicated"? How often are you left disappointed with the results? The problem isn't the goals you set, it's the lack of lifestyle change.
We often get too focused on the overall goal, not the small habits required by a goal. Every day we take steps in a direction, no matter what we do. Setting good habits will result in growth while bad habits will result in regression. If you could shift your daily focus to getting 1% better at the habits that are required by your goals, you'd witness growth by the end of the week, month, and year.
What daily habits do your goals require?

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2023/06/09
02:02 UTC

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My ultimate life goal

Back when I was 13-14 my dad once said he really loved the porche panemera (a 4 door sport car) he never mentioned the car unless I pointed one out on the streets.

I'm 23 now and I'll be working my a$$ off so My dad can ride in one of these while he's still relatively young and able to enjoy it.

I day dream about that day and shed a tear once in a while. I'll never stop until this becomes true.

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2023/05/30
16:10 UTC

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To Star in a Horror Movie

So this isn't your typically "I want to be a star" post.

I want to star in a really really shitty horror movie before I die. Not some at home film that never gets see , but a really popular shitty film like Sharknado on a prominent network like SYFY or that at least shows up on Netflix. I really like the Sharknado movies BECAUSE of how ridiculous and stupid they are.

I have minimal acting experience, and less experience in the way of how one would even book a movie like this, or the resources to uproot my life to even try. Yet it's my dream.

When I think of these movies, I think of the best times of my life with my little cousin who got me started on them, and looking forward to seeing the new ones as they released. I think of casual movie nights with my friends I've shown the movie to, talking absolute shit about the acting, plot, and CGI the entire time.

My whole life I've been serious. My childhood was shit. My mental health was shit. I was constantly absorbed in my studies. And even now I throw myself into work and never have time for fun. I just want at least part of my life to be spontaneous, and something I can say no one else I know has done. I a few months to a year to goof off on some movie that others will be able to find joy in, and goof off too in the future.

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2023/05/27
04:42 UTC

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To make the inside of my house look like the lair of a villain from the 60's Batman show.

I'm making excellent progress.

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2023/05/24
00:56 UTC

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Filled Goals sometimes our blessing

So I was in rehab quite a while ago and after that a year of outpatient rehab. For the sake of discussion, will see that my goal was to buy a certain property. So before I went to rehab, I had this property good to go and ready to close. But I pissed it all away when I got addicted to cocaine and lost it.

Buying this property was one of my main motivations in rehab and a year of Outpatient and motivated me to stay clean from cocaine.

Come to find out the property was a complete piece of shit. The façade was beautiful, but the foundation was fucked and cannot be repaired. So you have to tear down the old property to build the new property. I can say that I dodged a bullet.

I am saying sometimes when you fail a goal sometimes it’s actually a blessing.

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2023/05/22
07:22 UTC

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What is the "best end"

What I want in life is to achieve best end or the best ending, it is a simple goal of achieving the best you life has to offer, getting the best ending of your life, I know it may seem unrealistic to get the best ending but I desire it, I want my life to be the best there ever is the best one I could ever have, although some things may go wrong I still consider them to be a part of best end, best end doesn't necessarily have to be the best end it is what you consider to be best end, and the first step to achieving that goal is to achieve satisfaction with yourself and your circumstances it doesn't matter if your ugly, handsome, poor, or rich the only thing that matter is to accept the different parts of yourself no matter good or bad, the second is to just try your hardest for anything whether that would be going to school working or just managing your life you need to try you best for everything, so you can say with confidence "I tried my best", and when you're inevitably lie on your death bed you can think and reflect finally say " I achieved the best ending to my story".

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2023/05/04
12:17 UTC

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opening business

I am currently in the phase of opening a business where I feel "doubtful" on some days but I do this to help my family and future family.Most days I'm stressed an feel like the tides against me but I continue . I want to prove to myself I can do it.

No matter what, I keep pushing forward since October of last year. When I'm older near retirement age I want to buy plots of lands and make a sanctuary for dogs and other animals while setting up positive things for my kids.

Felt the need to "throw this out there" vent or something but thanks for reading.

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2023/05/01
01:23 UTC

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I want to run a 5k.

Im veey overweight, and I've never been a good runner. I want to run a 5k to prove to myself that I can

Update: I did it. Goal accomplished. I'll definitely be doing more

10 Comments
2023/04/26
11:10 UTC

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