Motivate or yell at me to lock in and practice driving and get my drivers license ASAP cause family member has cancer and between treatments n such,I NEED to start supporting the family by driving myself and other family to work n provide support in other ways

I have anxiety with driving but I need to just focus and do it

I have plenty of time, I have some ideas, I just don’t feel motivated, been stuck like this for weeks.

I have time, but not motivation. I have inspiration, but not motivation. I need to push myself to write... But I can't. Help

Hi all,

I started an access to higher education course to progress in work and I'm about half way through.

The issue is I find it really hard to motivate myself lately. I suffer with depression and have done for a long time so the negative motivation i.e. deadlines I have relied on before just don't work.

Any help is much appreciated.

hi, i have a very important exam thursday, and i barely started

around 12 hours of content to go through and maybe 3 hours of reading that i might be tested on. I'm allowed to have 1 cheat sheet.

Its a very hard psychology class (not my field, i usually studdy neuro), and this is the final exams that will count for 68% of my final grade.

I've always been a straight A student and i usually start weeks in advance, but this is the first class i'm just completly depressed just thinking about studying.

I'm applying to my dream program in November so this grade could very much change the outcome of my life. I cant fail. I cant even be average. Yet i cant get myself to read one page.

please help

I'm going on a 6-week expedition to research ways to improve the lives of the green sea turtle in Mexico (I'm from england). I'm doing this to collect data for my dissertation. I am 20- never been away from home for more than 2 weeks- I have never been away from any friends or family for more than a day. I'm getting really nervous about this trip (leaving my dog, family and friends), but know that it will benefit me greatly in the long run in terms of my dissertation and career. Someone please motivate me to continue with this!

Hey y'all. Been having issues lately at work. I work for a computer manufacturer's IT support team. Couple months ago got an asshole on the phone that tore me a new one. Turns out he gave me ptsd that i'm currently seeing help for, but ever since then it's been hard to even sit down on the chair. I love technology and have been passionate about it since childhood, it sucks fearing something you love.

I went on mini vacation for thanksgiving and took off for Christmas, I’m really having a hard time getting myself motivated every day to get back to working. I work for myself and do okay, after a good year and about 1.5 months off I am having a hard time staying motivated to work.

I usually go rub with a friend but she's out of town, motivate me to go alone! I know I should be motivated enough on my own but I'm not yet :(

like most people i’m not happy with my body. unlike most people i obsess unhealthily over it. not a day goes by where i’m not extremely upset about it. and what makes me even more of a pain, is that i never exercise. i’m in a calorie deficit every day but NEVER exercise. because i absolutely despise of all types. i squat every once in a while with my boyfriend but that’s not really doing anything for me. i need something that will force me to get up and exercise everyday without making me want to cry in the process. because what am i supposed to do? continue to live my life miserably either route i go down? if anyone has any ideas on how to help me that would be awesome. if not thank you for reading anyways and i hope you have a wonderful day.

So my wife and I have not done the dishes in a couple of weeks and I'm tired of the sight. I know that it won't take as long as i think it would and all i have to do is get in there and work it, but I have just not had the energy in these last few weeks. I cleaned the whole house yesterday and was on a roll until it got to the dishes and then I just huffed and sat on the couch and relaxed for far too long. If you have the time, please motivate me to get off my ass to do the work. Thank you so much

I'm transgender (ftm) so showering is difficult for me. Just give me the motivation I need to do it and get it done, please.

So, the things is self explanatory, to be honest, but I'll give you deets.

I'm a 35 year old guy with a 3 month old kid with my girlfriend. I'm a lawyer dealing with income tax and GST, but not a trial lawyer. I'm more of a consultant. I'm fairly well-to-do although the COVID lockdowns have affected us all. My girlfriend prefers to be a stay-at-home mum and she's doing a fab job.

The problem is this: I am a diabetic and can fairly say that I'm not in good health. I am like a 5'10 and am on the heavier side, around 175 pounds.

Till a few years ago, I did a lot of 10 day camping trips into the mountains and finished hikes. Yes, I wheezed and huffed and went red finishing them, but I did.

I'm not highly motivated to keep myself healthy. I know some might say that it's the stress of a new kid, but that's not it. I've been like this since the past 10 to 12 years. It's not that I don't love my kid and my girl, but I've become extremely withdrawn. I'm also suffering from dysthymia and am on meds, but I keep having bad days.

I WANT to get healthier and get better. I don't want to be a bloody obese asshole to my kid when he's old enough to go hiking and camping. I'd love to be a hands on dad.

But when that downward spiral begins, I just can't get out of bed.

Help me be a better and fitter person, strangers!

Or is 35 too late to begin???

I want to quit so badly because I feel like whatever I do, it won't be enough. Be as positive or as mean as possible just give me the energy to do the home stretch

Please motivate me to go to art school and not fail

I lost all my motivation because last time went rather poorly

I just want motivation for exercising, I have lost all motivation and I am pretty close to just succumbing to depression.

Growing up, I was always alone. I mean, I had friends, but whenever I was at home? I didn't really have anybody to confide to or have fun with. Yes my mom was there (my dad left us), but back then and even now, I could never really talk to her because she either judges me too much or thinks that my likes and interests are a waste of time. I love her but yeah, we don't really get along.

Looking back, I'm actually pretty glad that I was an only child. For one, any gifts I was given were mine and mine alone. I didn't have to share them with anyone and I simply enjoyed them.

Another thing is that I always had privacy. Other than my mom suddenly barging in my room from time to time, I actually had a good amount of alone time. It gave me time with my thoughts and how I could go about in life in a way that lets me enjoy it. Plus, I wanted to do certain things any healthy young and growing boy would have done and having no siblings made that a hell of a lot easier.

And lastly, I don't have to worry about sibling-related problems. I know that some people like the thought of having a brother and sister and being close to them, but what if you're not? What if you guys can't stand each other and all you do is drive each other crazy? As an only child, I'm glad I didn't have to deal with that. Some people are lucky enough to be close to their siblings to the point where they never have to worry about things straining their relationship and good for them. But I can still have sibling-like relations with some of my close friends so I'm good with that I guess.

So yeah, being an only child can actually be pretty cool. For all my only child peeps out there, I hope you guys are enjoying your lives. Oh, I also made something for those who are still having trouble in finding the happiness that comes with being an only child. Hope it manages to help anyone.

https://youtu.be/AMZ2opIgKds

I'm a person who used to procrastinate a lot. I mean, I kinda still do now, but not the extent that I did back then.

If I know that it's something important, I do it right away. I had to learn a hard lesson because I did something super last minute that nearly cost me my future (It was college-related and I don't feel comfy sharing it just yet.)

So if you guys ever think about putting things off, just think about all of the possible negative effects it'll have. It may just make you wanna do things right away. Worked for me anyway.

Oh and I also made something that may just help those who have difficulty in being productive. You don't have to click on it because I'm just hoping this post manages to help anyone. But if you do, hopefully it helps you.

https://youtu.be/CkiLPMnkBh0

I wanted to make a simple android game for fun. But I'm not able to bring myself to actually start. I get lazy and push it to another day. Help lol

I’m a cosmetology student, I’m in love with hair and my work is outside of the norm for most cosmetology students. I’ve been featured on huge pages and found a ton of success in what I’m doing. I just finished my hours at school but I’m behind on worksheets and I can’t get muself to go in and finish. I’ve been so stressed about this, I’ve lied to my family and friends about it. I’m just so embarrassed, please help me get inspired to get through this last bit of school. Give me all the advice. I need it right now

(I made a reddit account just to post this)

I stared high-school this year. I live in Italy here high schools are divided by what do you want to study. I chose a linguistic, I study:English French Spanish and latin(only for 2 years.)

the thing is, i feel like i`ve bit more than I can chew. I`m dyslexic and that makes it even harder.

my grades are bad but for some reason I can't get my self to study more. dont get me wrong I love this school and would like to continue to study there but if my grades don't go up I might have to repeat the school year. and if I do that my parents said I have to change school.

If you like this post follow r/Crimsonpill and message me to join the private mastermind group.

I wanted to share this quote since I see many of my student gets unmotivated due to their past. They can't see that the past is the past. You have developed as a person since you left high school or college and now without those artificial constrains you can be free to realize your full potential.

https://youtu.be/kBJrKHFtpwg

Check out this video if you want an in depth explanation of this principle and want to be motivated Don’t wait till tomorrow, Just do it!

How To Stop Boredom When You Are Home: https://youtu.be/r0I3nZp62-8

Made a video on how we can stop boredom for good, hope you guys like it! Depending on where you are right now, you may be stuck at home, because of a lockdown or quarantine. It's normal to try to come up with things to do when feeling bored and wonder why is life so boring, but the right way to solve this is to work out how to prevent boredom before it strikes. I'm talking about some of the life hacks I found so let me know what you think :)

https://youtu.be/nDBUm2EANf4

About a year ago, I was looking to lose weight seeing as I was a 320lbs 18 m. I started a well disciplined diet and exercise. I was successfully losing weight. I managed to lose 20lbs. But I was getting fat shamed by some people, some even in my family. I tried to stay positive. But I made a mistake, I set unrealistic goals. My plan was to lose 100 lbs by the end of the year. Eventually, weight loss started slowing down. I was about 2 months in and it occurred to me that I couldn't succeed in my goal. I was crushed. I started staying in bed all day, binge eating. And today I'm 340lbs and I am trying to convince myself to give it another go. I need some motivation. I feel so guilty about binge eating... Advice would be helpful too. Thank you guys.

I honestly think motivation is fleeting.

It comes and goes. One moment, you'll feel on top of the world and like you can do anything. But the next day, it's gone.

Instead of relying on motivation, it's better to connect with your personal values.

This means reflecting on your life as a whole, and looking at the moments that really mattered to you.

When were you happiest? When were you the most proud of yourself? Who do you love spending time with?

I designed this 2021 planner to take you through a series of self-reflection and introspection exercises that will help clarify what is REALLY important to you. Afterwards, you create a personal value statement that can help guide what actions you need to take on a daily basis. It also includes goal creation and habit sheets to keep you checked in.

You can get it for free by sharing the campaign, or preorder it here. You've got this!