As the sun was starting to set, I was preparing the campfire at my new friend’s camp, they had a huge palace of a tent, with the floor covered with thick blankets and a feather bed. As I went for some more wood I saw the same sweet girl from the showers walking by. She was wearing low cut yoga pants exposing her navel ring and a thin fabric FOX hooded sweatshirt that clung tightly to her firm breasts.  I smiled when she looked my way, right then Annie spoke up,

” Hi hunny, do you want to join us by Max’s fire?”

She sheepishly came over and sat at the picnic bench next to Annie and across from myself, Jim and the fire pit.  Annie orchestrated the introductions, her name was Samantha. Annie invited her to stay for dinner.

Samantha politely declined saying she had to get back to her family, but didn’t have to go right away.  I lit up the fire and got it roaring to a nice blaze, Jim and I sat together admiring the fire and the tasty morsel before us.

Samantha then quietly asked Annie, “What was going on in the shower this morning?”

Jim patted my knee and whispered into my ear, “I bet we will get to show her…”

I chuckled, as Annie said as innocently as she could, “Whatever do you mean?”

Samantha, a little stymied, replied,”You all were in there together…?”

“Yes, we were, sweetie.” Jim chimed in with a big shit eating grin.

“What more would you like to know?” I added, challenging her curiosity.

Just then one of her boy friends found her with us, and said,

“Hey Sam! It’s time to eat, we’ve been wondering where you have been. Let’s go.”

With a wink and gentle caress on the shoulder, Annie subtly invited her to return later to hear about what went on in the showers.

Samantha’s return…

We were all sitting around the fire, enjoying a nice merlot, sharing past experiences , becoming better friends, when Samantha returns wearing flannel pajamas with pink heart prints all over them, and a jean jacket.  Annie invites her to sit, then comes the awkward moment, where she does not want to ask about the showers a second time, Jim and I are too complacent with the buzz of the wine to really start talking about it over the crackle of the fire.

So,  Annie complements her cozy looking PJ’s, and opens the discussion with,

“What do you think happened in the showers, Samantha?”

Sam blushed, and said, “Uhm, a ménage a trios?”

Jim stood up and said in a cliché manor,

“Talk is cheap.  I’m heading off to the tent, you coming Max?”

“Shit Yes!”,

Was my reply as I stood and we headed over to the palatial tent together.

As Jim and I departed, I heard Samantha gasp,

“They are going together?!”

After that Annie started divulging the events of the shower to Samantha.

In the tent Jim and I were naked and erect in seconds.  We started rolling around on the plush bedding, making out and feeling all over each other’s masculine bodies.  I straddled on top of him biting his nipples, working my tongue down to his thick cock. I rotated around so that we could 69; I was on top engulfing his hardon in my mouth, tonguing his tip, and lowering my head into his waiting mouth.  I sucked his heavy sac into my mouth while stroking his shaft with my hand, as he rimmed my ass and tugged my balls. Zippppp went the flap of the tent, and there stood Annie and Samantha witnessing our homoeroticism. Jim paused from sucking on my balls, and said,

“In or out, just close that flap!”

I looked up at the two, smiled while gripping Jim’s hefty member, and nodded for them to enter.

Samantha was stunned in complete awe as this was her first sight of two men sexually coupled together. She had to be prodded by Annie to enter the tent; Annie entered behind Samantha and zipped up the flap.

Annie helped Samantha out of her jean jacket, but momentarily left Sam alone to watch Jim and I pleasure each other, as Annie undressed down to her thong.  Sam’s eyes were glued on us, barely noticing Annie gently unbuttoning Samantha’s top.

As Samantha’s pert puffy conical nipples became exposed Annie’s tongue traced around her areola, Samantha redirected her attention to the pleasure of another woman’s mouth on her breasts.  Samantha pulled off her PJ bottoms and exposed a bald pouty lipped, glistening vagina, which Annie immediately began to devour.

Samantha reclined next to us as Annie worked her tongue magic on the sweet girl’s clitoris. Sam’s oncoming orgasm had her squirming and clutching Annie’s head, holding Annie in place on her clit, until she shrieked out with orgasmic pleasure.  

During this, Jim and I had relaxed our 69 position, still continuing to stroke and fondle each other’s cock and balls, to watch this little nugget cum.

Samantha then seemed very embarrassed for being so exposed, and having an orgasm in front of three relative strangers.  Annie quickly dispelled that vibe, and asked Sam which of us guys she wanted first. Jim and I held each other’s cocks out for her examination, I was her first selection.  I lay on my back as Samantha straddled my long member; Annie did the same to Jim. The two ladies were facing each other and Annie began to kiss Sam, as Annie’s hand guided my stiff cock between Samantha’s tight bald lips.  I could feel the slippery wetness and the restrictive tightness of Samantha’s pussy as my head found her hot entrance.

Annie wriggled my shaft back and forth as Sam eased down it centimeter by centimeter. Sam panted heavily, as I slowly expanded her to accept the entire length of my shaft.  Once Samantha was fully impaled upon my stiff rod, Annie worked Jim’s thick cock into her own wanton vagina. The two girls built up a rhythm together riding our cocks, kissing and fondling each other’s breasts, all enraptured by the shared pleasure; our heavy breathing and panting was probably heard through out the camp.  Jim and Annie were simultaneously reaching orgasm; their erotic gyrations and utterances in conjunction with Samantha’s virginally tight pussy induced on my own growling orgasm deep inside the sweet girl’s vagina. The heat and pressure of my orgasmic spasming cock shot Samantha into a mind blowing, loss of body control, orgasm where she collapsed onto me and Annie’s thighs in pleasure.  

As we lay in a sweaty sexy heap of bliss we head some rustling outside the tent, someone had been watching the girls bouncing thru the mesh window at the top of the tent. Sam stood up and peeked to discover it was her younger cousin the same boy who found her with us before dinner.

“Jake?” She said sternly.

“Uh, yea," we hear from outside the tent.

Sam opened the flap and said,” Get in here before someone sees you snooping around.”

Jake was a cute sparkly blue eyed boy with dark hair, an athletic build, and an obvious erection from his voyeurism.  Annie grabbed the boys’ cock through his warm-up pants and made short work of getting it out and into her mouth. As her tongue lashed out against his uncut head and her lips surrounded his retracted foreskin he blew his load into Annie’s waiting mouth.  The poor boy must have been on edge the whole time he was watching us.

Samantha asked, more like told,

”That was your first blowjob, wasn’t it?”

“Uh, yea,”

Jake uttered, apparently he was a guy of many words.

Annie turned and kissed Samantha, sharing the fresh hot spunk of Sam’s cousin in the kiss, Jim and I both rose up to join in the kissing and sharing of the flavor Jake’s seed.  That had Jake stunned, “Uh, you’re all kissing?”

“MMM uh huh. You should see all that has gone on in here, it is soo hot!” Samantha replied.

She and Annie laid the boy down and helped him out of his clothes.  He had a nice slim, toned body, and a thin 5” uncut penis, that was now flaccid and wet with his cum and Annie’s saliva.

Annie was enamored by the opportunity to de-flower Jake, and I was liking the idea of doing the same to his little butt.

Jim and I had both regained full erections, but Annie and Samantha’s attention was on the our new guest, so Jim and I decided to provide a little clean up duty on the girls while they played with Jake.  We all shuffled around and repositioned so that Jake was on his back between Jim and I, Annie’s cum laden vagina was hovering and dripping over my mouth, and Samantha was grinding her spunk coated pussy on Jim’s tongue.  The girls were kissing Jake and each other, while reviving his almost hairless tool.

The taste of Jim’s cum inside Annie’s juicy pussy was delicious, and by Jim’s groans, he was enjoying Samantha as well. I reached over Jake’s legs to find Jim’s thick cock standing straight up, and began gripping and stroking his hardon.  

Sam, becoming quite the homophile, turned around to watch me jack Jim off, and began to assist by kissing and licking the pre-cum dripping out of Jim’s fat head. Annie lifted herself off of my face and lowered herself onto Jake’s stiff one, sliding her wet parted lips along his narrow shaft, working her clit against him, teasing him by dangling her nipples against his mouth.  I rearranged myself leaning over Jake’s legs, so I could join his cousin Samantha in sucking Jim’s robust phallus. My own dripping cock continually brushed against Jake’s thighs and knees as Samantha and I devoured Jim.

Jake did squirm a little at first when he felt my touch, but he was in no position to retreat from my penis sliding on his legs; I increased my humping pressure, deliberately stroking myself on his skin.  I gripped my own firm cock and tugged and pulled, rubbing it against him, as I sucked on Jim’s balls; Samantha had Jim’s head engulfed in her mouth. I reached up along Jakes smooth thighs, caressing Annie’s ass, then I gripped his balls and the base of his shaft, guiding his uncut head to Annie’s hot opening.

Annie plopped down on Jake’s erection and worked her muscular talents on the virgin boy, while my hand tugged his sac and my wet fingers circled his sphincter; surprisingly he opened his legs to allow me better access to his tight butt, the pleasure must have overcome any of his inhibitions.  

I slipped a finger into Annie along side Jake’s cock to get it lubed up, I could feel Annie’s clenching with my finger against his pecker and knew how Jake must be enjoying it. I then worked my wet finger against his ass bud, slowly circling it round, penetrating a little more with each revolution.

Samantha was bucking her hips against Jim’s talented tongue with another orgasm, while she was wildly sucking stroking and slobbering all over Jim’s fat orgasmic knob; sucking up every last drop. I had my finger in his virgin ass all the way, rocking it against his prostate, when Annie’s clenching extracted a hip bucking orgasm from the boy, and popped my finger out.

Annie removed her self from atop of Jake, and focused her attention on my throbbing rigid shaft, licking and stroking it up and down; reaching between her legs to retrieve the passionate sex juices leaking from inside her and coating my cock with the wetness.  She spread Jake’s legs further apart and led my cock to his crotch.

Annie said to Jake, “Now that I had my turn fucking you, it is Max’s turn.”

Samantha Sat up, dismounting Jim to get a better view of her cousin loosing his second virginity to me.  I hoisted Jake’s legs up to my shoulders and Annie guided my head to his target, working me gently into his sphincter.  Once my head had penetrated I applied more pressure and filled his tight virgin ass with my entire length; he was soo tight and smooth.

Samantha reached for Jake’s semi erect cum soaked cock; the first time she ever touched her cousin like that, but not the first time she had thought of it.  She lowered her head to take him into her mouth, tasting the sexual flavors, and resurrecting his hardon. I continued to slide in and out of his tight ass with smooth long deep thrusts; his tight ass was going to make me explode in a matter of strokes.  I pulled out from his ass with a pop and exploded hot white spunk all over his balls, cock and Samantha’s face, Annie and Jim both gripped my member, milking out every last drop onto Jake’s bald flesh.

Samantha quickly mounted her cousins revived hardon and rocked her tight puss up and down his shaft.  Annie cleaned my cock up as Jim started teasing my ass, still loose from the pounding in the shower. I moved so that I was on my hands and knees with my cock near Annie and Jake’s faces, and my ass in the air for Jim’s entrance.  Annie squirmed beneath me to tease my semi erect cock ad Jim eased his rotund member in to my anus; as he slid in to my waiting ass my cock twitched and oozed precum onto Annie’s waiting tongue.

Annie turned to share it with Jake in a kiss, he returned the kiss deeply, enjoying the flavor I left on her tongue.  Annie lifted and spread my leg so that I was now straddling Jake’s face, with my hardening cock dangling above his mouth. Annie moved out from beneath me and guided my tip to Jake’s lips, where he accepted my head into his warm mouth. He clumsily wagged his tongue around my continually dripping shaft, but I was too focused on the incredible feeling of Jim’s thick cock repeatedly penetrating my ass to be critical of Jakes performance with his first blowjob; he was soon to be rewarded anyway.  Annie moved down to lick and finger Samantha’s clit while she rode Jake, who was now sucking me, hard like a lollipop; while Jim’s orgasm was becoming eminent. Samantha began another orgasm leading to Jakes third ejaculation; as I watched them cumming Jim buried himself deep and lifted my rear with his cock while exploding his hot cum inside me; that brought on my hot stream of cum into Jake’s mouth and onto his face.

We all collapsed in a sweaty seamen soaked heap, breathing heavily from our efforts.  Annie was the only one without multiple orgasms this evening, and Samantha was the one who wanted to change that…

This is 100% a shower thought but I’ve always liked gay/lesbian porn equally as a bisexual. Usually more than straight porn, but sometimes that can be fun too. But I like to be attracted to both of the people

So if a straight man is watching lesbian porn isn’t that just porn where both parties are sexually attractive ?

Same with a straight woman. That just means both of the people are attractive to her.

Just a thought

I (20 F) have a relatively new female friend and I definitely have feelings for her. I find her very attractive and I get nervous when I'm around her. She's also into girls but I don't think she feels the same way toward me (even though she's kinda hard to read). I've tried hinting to her that I'm bi (but quite straight presenting) but we haven't talked about being queer etc. We aren't that close yet so I don't know what her type is or if she's even looking for a relationship right now.

I can't stop thinking about her and don't know what to do. I don't wanna ruin our friendship because I genuinely like her as a person. My awkward attempts at flirting come across as friendly teasing or innocent compliments. Any advice?

On behalf of everyone I offended with the last post I made, I would like to say sorry. Not only did I format it with probably the poorest choice of words, but it came off as insensitive, and I would like to take full accountability for what I said.

The time I had made that post wasn't the most opportune, but I know there's no excusing it regardless. I hope this doesn't sour my relationships and interactions with anyone else in this sub, and that we can move forward in this community.

Once again, I am sorry. Any backlash I was receiving was 100% deserved. I hope you all have a wonderful rest of your day/night.

Been with women my whole life but had an encounter with a guy I met, I have to say I was in the more submissive roll, the grabbing of my ass, the licking, the kissing my neck, feeling his hard cock against my ass cheeks, the fingering, the rimming and the penetration were something so unusual and pleasurable in so many ways that my cock was so hard, harder than I’ve seen it since my teens, I don’t see myself dating a man I’m more into women but this is so confusing…why??? 😭😭😭 I wanna be that hard with a woman too

I'm a straight young guy. I was bi curious since a while especially feeling butterflies in my stomach around feminine guys( guys with make-up no facial hair ). I feel overwhelmed by them and I wanna give and get pleasure with them. Is that bisexuality or just something else?? Totally lost I want really to try it out

I’m scared to come out. When I asked my mom if she’d love a queer family member, she said, “That’s disgusting, no,” and has insulted me by calling me a dyke. My cousin, once an ally, is now a devout Christian who calls it a sin. My grandma and step grandpa are very conservative, and I feel extremely judged when I question their traditional views. Same with my uncle.

Others might not care my aunt supports “love is love,” my siblings likely wouldn’t mind, and my dad probably already suspects it. But my family is extremely reserved when it comes to feelings or whats on their mind and I'm the same. I've never in my life had a serious talk with any of them, about ourselves. So, yeah I am not ready at all and I feel like I'll never get the guts to do it, unless I'm head over heels for a girl.

So I’m a repressed bisexual for some reason I literally can’t accept outta of fear how I will be perceived how do I accept it I’m tired of fighting it’s driven me crazy😭, I do it subconsciously

For context, I am a femme presenting nonbinary person and do not try to present androgynously often because I live in a place that it is not very safe to be queer. My username has the word "guy" in it but I do not present as such anymore.

My ex, who was the closest friend I ever had, was a bisexual man. He carried shame about it and wasn't out to ANYBODY about it. I knew a lot about him that he didn't know I was aware of. He was shot in the chest and died on Halloween night. I had always hoped he would one day be able to live as his true self but that chance was taken from him. The way that he died while still in the closet has me SO ANGRY and I wonder how many queer people die every day, living as someone else. There was so much he never got to do and being his true self was one of them. I hate the current state of society where bisexual people (particularly men) do not feel safe coming out. Almost every bisexual man I know is in the closet.

can i half move or what???

First of all, I am a man, I have not decided myself to be bisexual although there are things that I feel can lead to it lately. Therefore, how is the experience of being part of bisexual? Can be the experience when in the bottom position (sexual), your journey experience from the beginning of how to become bisexual, the ups and downs of the journey experienced before until now.

Maybe with the experience you share can help me. Thank you.

I’m married to a cis straight man. I’ve been gender queer and bisexual for as long as I can remember and have been the “annoying gay” many times in my life. I’ve been out of the closet since middle school and have faced every form of homophobia/anti lgbt hate possible. I was a trans man for a while, a butch lesbian, a hey mamas lesbian, trans man (again lol) and I’ve settled on a fluid identity in my gender and sexuality. (Though I’m hyper feminine most of the time)

But now as an adult bisexual woman*, I’ve finally been able to explore myself with another married woman and it’s honestly exhilarating.

We’re both on the same exact page. We have our husbands to come home to, but when we get to go on our dates, it’s just us. It’s honestly really great. She’s more experienced than I am, but to have someone who’s willing to hold my hand and guide me through queer experiences is amazing.

I found women to be intimidating, in a way that made me feel nervous. I never wanted to embarrass myself, I never wanted to give women the ick and have always felt as if women were out of my league.

But she’s such an attractive woman who’s attracted to me and it’s so amazing honestly. It’s really healing to be able to explore a fundamental part of myself.

I have to give so much thanks to my husband who’s accepting of an open relationship where I can explore myself. We’ve had plenty of real conversations about an open relationship dynamic, and he’s been adamant that he’s happy that I’m able to explore a part of myself that’s been stripped from me in homophobic environments. He’s not involved in my wlw relationships, he’s not fetishizing my bisexuality. I’ve told him plenty of times that he can explore his sexuality if he feels. If he wants a little boyfriend, I have absolutely no problem. It’s only fair lol.

I feel like I’m living a bisexual dream right now. I have an amazing husband that I can come home to. And I have a woman who’s interested in my pleasure and allowing me to further explore myself.

Ive stayed away from wlw relationships because I never wanted a woman to feel like she’s just an experiment. I’ve heard about plenty of lesbian women who are upset that bi women ‘used’ them. I never wanted to use a woman for my own gain.

So having a very beautiful woman who prioritizes my pleasure and wants to go on actual dates and spend time whenever she can is so amazing.

I want to be able to give back to her in some way. She’s a stone top so I’m not sure how I should though. We equally contribute to dates. She’s picked me up for dates, I’ve picked her up for dates, I’ve payed for dates. I’ll buy a bottle of liquor or wine,she’ll buy a round of drinks, I’ll pay for food. What else can I do that doesn’t feel overbearing, I want to go out of my way to show my appreciation.

We’ve only hooked up a few times and had a few dates. But it’s a really great connection. We don’t text every day, but when we’re in person, we just can’t shut up. It’s really nice that I can have a connection with a woman where we’re able to live our busy lives, then come together and be girlfriends for the night and forget about everything.

This is what I have been missing! I feel so fulfilled and happy in my life. This queer euphoria. The feeling that women are attracted to me, being around queer friends, family and community.

I finally got to roll around in my bed and twirl my hair like a teenager again thinking about my crush. Feeling my face turn all red when she looks at me or touches me. It’s an amazing feeling honestly. I’ve never felt so fulfilled

So my issue or well nonissue is I never see girls talking about liking ig models or rly thirsting over women it’s always so PC. I’m a bi girl whose type is ig models and idk I just feel so underrepresented when so many women are into the gay girl aesthetic, I almost feel like my taste in women is a man’s ugh idk

I was on Grindr, sleuthing as you do; and came upon a familiar pretty face. I’d never gotten very far with them but tonight it went different. Long story short, I ended up on their bed; belly down.

Loved every bit of tonight and am incredibly grateful. I was sort of nervous when they were prodding but once we were going I sounded like my ex-gf XD. Ended up like her too! 😳🥴🫠

Just needed to tell someone! Thanks! <3

Hi! So I am a female and I’ve been questioning my sexuality for about 3-4 years now. I consider myself straight, but am I??? I’ve never been attracted to women physically or sexually, I would never actually pursue a romantic relationship with one either. I would definitely be down to make out, be sexual, and do things with a woman even though I’m straight.

Could anyone let me know what this means?

So I was extremely uncertain that I was actually both into men and women, and I was terrified that if I ever actually tried anything with a guy I would be butter-dicked the whole time lol. Well, after consulting with this subreddit on my old account, I got the confidence to approach this guy in my class and we agreed to go out for coffee. That day we hung out two more times and ended up seeing each other as much as we could.

That was two months ago, he's now officially my boyfriend and I couldn't be happier with our relationship! He's the most trustworthy, warmhearted, kindest, and open person I've dated. Communicating has never been so easy. He's been the best possible first guy to be with and he made sure I was 100% comfortable with absolutely everything we did and that it wasn't too fast.

So thank you to this community, the energy here is very warm and gentle and it was a great place to start to figure things out!

I(23M) LOVE BISEXUALS

I love all of my queer friends, acquaintances, and future exes, but there is just something about bi people in particular that gets me GOING,,, like I get a weird feeling when talking to straights about sex or threesomes or exploring anything.

I got this sort of manifested when my ex(21F) brought up some worry that she wasn't enough in regards to me liking men.

For one thing I've...never really worried about that. I don't...really know if I'm monogamous or poly or whatever, but it just doesn't worry me. Never been an issue. I can chill with what they want, if I trust and love them? I know that's not a very...serious take and make me sound like a door mat but I'm just not bothered by...others boundaries when it comes to it. I could poor my entire self into someone, but also a sliver of maybe to more?

But now I'm like partially afraid or uncomfortable with exploring my sexuality with someone non-bi. This same ex mentioned later she wanted to do a MMF, and it sort of rubbed me the wrong way and I'm unsure why but we decided to be friends instead.

Second, it just made me feel like I was very misunderstood? It has been a common thing with my friends who I've asked, saying that they get that and understand the worry, but I've only ever been monogamous and do not talk about wanting both!

I feel like it's... just a bad viewpoint they have on the sexuality? Ignorance? I don't know. I feel weird about it all.

Then.....my gay friends kind of just give me joke answers or don't really understand.

Do you feel more comfortable with being with bisexual people 😭 like I feel like that would be soooo much more comfy???

Am I making sense pls hlp🫠😭😭

I recently came out to my friends (all men) and since then I’ve felt the urge to explore my feminine side. I want to start buying and wearing women’s clothing but still want it to be sort of passable as men’s clothing.

I’m unsure of wearing to start. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.

I'm a 15 year old girl and about 3 months ago, I met this girl that I'll call Julia. She was new to my school and this was at band camp, our like 2 weeks of summer training for marching band. Me, her, and one of my other friends that I'll call Lena quickly became like a little group, except Julia and Lena were immediately a lot closer to each other than either of them were to me. At one point, Julia even thought that I hated her and I thought that she hated me, when in reality we both really wanted to be each other's friends. By the second day of band camp, I had already developed a crush on her, which was made even better after learning that she was also bi. Anyway, there was a lot of awkwardness up until the first football game, where we really became close, and since then. we have become closer than ever. We are so similar and Julia is my best friend in the entire world and I've never become friends with a person this quickly, before. Since meeting in August, we have had 4 sleepover, and when we do, we sleep in the same bed and she always like puts her arms around me in her sleep and even when shes awake she lays on me a lot and always talks about how physical touch is her love language. But the worst part is, she has a huge crush on this guy that is one of her other best friends, except she's always talking about how much she hates him, sometimes, and that he can get annoying. (This guy has a gf, btw) I've also had multiple crushes in the past, so I know that she could, hypothetically, like both of us. Following are all of the possible evidence that she might like me back (featuring insane reaches): There was one time that she was talking about how me and the guy were her only friends at the school, since she just transferred, and she was saying that she makes all of her friends by "liking them and then getting friend zoned" so did that mean me, too? Then, the first time she told me about the guy she likes, she made a comment about being a "crush bop" and said that she has a ton of crushes since transferring,. She also likes to say we're soulmates, a lot and flirts with me, but in like that joking friend way. There was one time we were making a tiktok and there was a kiss involved and I didn't know like when we were going to swerve away or something and she got extremely close to kissing me on the lips before I moved my face, which could mean something. She also said that every time she sees me she gets put into a good mood. All of this could be incredibly platonic or not, I really have no clue, so what do you guys think?? Thanks!!! (HOLY YAP)

I’ve known for an awhile that I (21f) like women too, but refused to accept it. I tried to tell myself I just thought they were pretty or that I only like them in a sexual aspect.

It wasn’t until recently that I finally accepted that I like women the same way I like men. Now I gotta figure out what I do from here.

So I've been bi-curious for a few years now. At first, I just thought they were random thoughts and promised I'd never act on anything because I'm shy and too embarrassed to actually meet anyone. As time went on, I began becoming more and more curious.

I've been chatting with guys on various apps, but so many of them are too pushy. They just want to trade pics and get off, then disappear. I'm genuinely trying to find another bi-curious guy that is in the same situation that I'm in. I don't care if he's married, single, black, white, old, young, etc. I don't even want to meet really, just have someone that I can chat with, but it's been difficult. I don't want to trade pictures or see each other's dick. Just chat like normal people.

Am I the only guy out there that doesn't want to rush into anything? Isn't there anyone else out there that would just be interested in chatting online? It doesn't even have to be about sex, but anything. Could be women, hiking, hobbies, gay things...

Sorry for the little rant. I'm not even sure if I'm getting my feelings across correctly. I'm not the best at expressing my feelings. I just thought I'd vent a little bit.

I’m still a newbie bi, and it’s taken a long while to find a guy I connected with online, but he and I both got along really well. We didn’t do anything, but spent maybe over a week just talking and getting to know each other with some light flirting. Last night we were both really tired and the conversation spiraled into really cute flirting… and then passionately talking about everything we wanted to do to each other.

He’s a switch, I’m a top, but I told a man for the first time I wanted his dick in my mouth and I wanted to make him happy. It’s such a pretty penis too 🥹

We’re still talking, and I don’t know where it’s gonna go, but I feel so seen and fulfilled and great 😭

Posting this on my alt because idek what to do anymore im so overwhelmed and just need opinions/advice/help. I think im bi/pansexual and im ok just need a lot of help and someone to talk it through with. A quick summary of my story can be summed bellow

When I was just graduating high school I was your stereotypical jock straight man. I loved sports and just was overall a very masculine man. Over the next year 18-19 looking back there was some small changes but nothing major to pick up on but I started noticing small things like I started to become a bit more timid and to myself and became less of a let’s hookup and fuck guy and more of let’s cuddle soft boy who’d still do the same things just very different personality. Once I turned 19 this is when I started noticing big changes and felt myself becoming more feminine/bi. I had began hating seeing hair on my body/face and pretty much started shaving myself all the time. I started to distance myself from homophobic friends. I began to notice difference in the porn I watched and experimented with trans/femboy stuff and liked it(also still watched straight stuff lol). Then in public I saw me catch myself looking at asses and they weren’t girls and they were guys and didn’t feel like I was wrong and slowly thought oh wtv an ass is an ass. Eventually started realizing about 7 months ago that maybe I wasn’t straight and it wasn’t some fetish but I didn’t really have anyone to come out to. At this point in time I was completely in denial and just kept telling myself it was a faze and I was straight. The last 7 months are the real rollercoaster. I’ve still gotten with females but have been more interested in feminine men then ever before. I cut off anyone in my life that’s homophobic(pretty much every male friend I had) and just tried to be my true self. I tried to accept myself but felt like I was still living a double life until 2 weeks ago this all changed. One of my platonic female friends had some of her friends over 10-15 of us a few guys mostly girls to just chill and watch tv. One of them is a flirt gay (this is important). Night was fine but eventually the girls asked some of the guys to get them coffee and me and him went because I was just trying to be nice and so was he. We got in his car and he pecked my check and I started blushing and he turns to me and says trust me I know you and started laughing. I felt really embarrassed and then he convinced me to hook up with him and I’m ngl it felt completely normal and I loved it. I asked him to please keep this between us and he agreed and said dw I like the fun of it being my little secret. Ever since then I’ve been thinking I’m bi but I’m attracted to femine oriented people and have started to become feminine oriented myself as more habits,behaviours lead towards traditional feminine activity. I don’t live in an open accepting household and if I came out I’d get shamed. I just need people to talk me through this because I’m really been stressing out over this and is coming my life. Is it so wrong I just want to live a life I’m scared to win. I just want people to like me for who I am, not who I feel obligated to pretend to be.

If anyone has any comments or just can offer to talk to me it’d be huge and I’d love it. More than anything I have lots of weight on me and just want to release it and be myself to someone at least!