I've been ghosted by 'Mx' a person I thought was a friend, for hooking up with a woman at pride. Without going into too much detail. My long term husband is very supportive and we have an understanding that I like women and he has supported me to revisit that part of me outside our marriage. I saw someone I liked, consent was established and there was an encounter with another woman. Mx wants another person but isn't able to pursue it due to their monogamous marriage. Since they became aware of the encounter, Mx has ignored my texts, calls and posted cryptic stuff on social media. This pride was about being free and being me, returning to my home city after running from it due to a long term, bad, same sex relationship with so much biphobia. This was a disappointing twist and im starting to wonder if I'll ever really be understood.

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M 24 (25, next month) top . Ive had (3 F poly exs, 1 M poly ex, within the: first year of being poly (next month)). Not sure if this is the right bi subreddit to put this under. Since it sexual fantasy want, desire. Im bisexual, Demisexual (I have a high very libido, though). Im really sorry if it is, or comes off disrespectful to my fellow bisexuals amongst our community. Really don't mean to be.

To get to the point. Ive always wanted to meet a couple to be poly with (maybe eventually be part of quad, thats completely different discussion).. Anyways. I'd really want and like to be, with the both of them, as hinge (poly), and be their: unicorn, or bull, for them both. Cause I was on vixen site for one 2-3 days, and deleted my account (just, because they didn't have good database, extremely low amount of members). Is that crazy, far fetched? Idk how to explain it, other then feeling like an underdog (idk, if its cause part of the section, that's in the middle between: neuro-typical and atypical spectrum. too). Even with people not being able to tell. I hope to still engage in, this type of relations.

Im really sorry if this comes off cringey. Or if it seems like Im using this as add for myself, or bating myself toward other bi couple. Like to get peoples points, experience, or views on how to other meet couples that would be open to being with another guy (seems really rare). If its possible.

Good morning y’all. SecretSasquatch from Portland, OR here.

Brief summary: My partner and I are in the beginning steps of opening our relationship to the discovery of a potential third.

We’ve been using a dating app for the ease on convenience of it but everyone looks the same. Mid thirties, athletic or extremely fit. Which we love and fully support but…we’re only really looking for people more like us. We’re both on the plus side and myself personally I am a big hairy Sasquatch of a person.

Essentially we’re looking for another big hairy bi man to become friends with, watch movies, go to shows and play with 😉

Not necessarily posting an ad but I really want to know if anyone has had similar experiences and/or success finding a situation like this.

I wanted it to be choose all that apply but that doesn’t seem to be an option. So pick the one that best describes you or comment with a better one.

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It would be great if you could answer a questionnaire that focuses on a film that hosted the first transgender character. I have shorted the film into a mixture of clips (roughly 5 minutes). You are in no way expected to take part in this survey, if you do, your answers will be used to approve or disapprove a hypothesis regarding minority (LGBT) representation in Hollywood. The questionnaire is roughly 15-20 minutes long.

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Many thanks - stay safe :)

Hey everyone! We want to hear from a wide range of LGBTQ+ people aged 16-24 who reside in the UK, about their experiences of same-gender/multiple-gender attraction and mental health. See poster below for more details, please contact me ramos1@liv.ac.uk if interested.

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So I posted a while back when my gf and I took our relationship to poly with a friend of ours. So due to the long issues with covid both of them ended up ending our relationship within 2 weeks of each other. Honestly I have no idea where to go from here and what to do.

I've been reading (ok, listening to unabridged audiobooks) to some books that were suggested to me on polyamory and I was hoping for some more suggestions, specifically, I would love some polyamory or open relationship books written for or from the perspective of a guy, or even a bisexual guy (or even a bisexual non-guy who focuses on bisexuality and polyamory).

Current List:

• Opening Up (finished)
• The Ethical Slut (finished)
• Love in Abundance (current)
• Polysecure (next)

Thanks in advance

Probably rare but seeing if there’s anyone else with the same situation. I’m an out bi cis man. New to poly after my wife (straight mono cis woman) and I agreed to it earlier this year. Have dated a few people and it’s mostly ended bad. Particularly when I date other bi poly married men. Less so when I date single gay men.

New to the group. New to poly. Not new to bi. I have a bunch of apps, with mixed results. Best recommendations?

So me and my partner had our first FFM 3some and it was the best thing ever although I really want another but don't even know where to start

how do/did you find someone or another couple to become friends with that were both bi and poly even if its completely online for now. I have tried every dating site, app with no luck. We want a friendship and if it grows into more awesome if not well atleast we have someone that understands us. Any help in the right direction would be much appreciated