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There's a new sub-reddit for bi, DL, and curious guys in upstate South Carolina.

r/upstatemoviedudes

The idea is to organize a group of guys that occasionally meet to see a movie and then meet for dinner, to discuss the movie, as well as other topics unique to the group, that we may not have anyone else to talk to about. It's a meet-up group, not a hook-up group. But if a meet-up leads to a hook-up, great!

It's a legitimate movie group, not just a cover, but it's also a discreet way to meet like minded guys in the area, without drawing suspicion.

We've had a lot of interest, and hope it will continue to grow.

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Hello there. 25 (M) bisexual located in the eastern past of North Carolina. Anybody else in this subreddit located in the eastern part of the state? I'm talking about cities like Greenville, Rocky Mount, Wilmington, Roanoke Rapids, Kinston etc.

Hello. I’m a 48 wm on the East side of Charlotte hoping to meet other bi-eautiful folks Mecklenburg county who have also completed their Covid vaccine regimen. Pm/chat are open.

Hi! I'm 25F from the triangle in NC, looking for more bi friends! Feel free to comment here or dm me if you're interested in the frogshi-- I mean friendships. :) PEACE

so i, a 27 year old man, is questioning his sexuality. im hoping to find a friend that can help me get through it and be friends after. but finding a friend is kinda hard when you're an introvert. so any guys in the Charleston area looking for a friend?

Are there any active Bi women in this group interested in making friends?

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I looking for places where I can meet other bi men in Charleston. And suggestions/ideas?

If you live in Columbia SC or the surrounding area, and don't know of any bisexual communities for you, come see the bisexuals/pansexuals/queers at Bi+ Space at the Harriet Hancock Center in Columbia South Carolina! We meet twice a month, and are open to anyone that is solid in their identity or questioning their identity.

Don't want to come because you don't know if it's the right space for you? Once a month there is an educational meetup at the same Center where you can just learn more about the bi community.

There's a Facebook page you can follow to learn more, we'd love to have you!

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bisexualpersonals/

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I'm bi in Chapel Hill, NC. Figured I'd start another attempt at breathing some life into this forum.

Hey, SE NC here, let's get this sub rolling again!

just introducing myself seeing who is around and whatnot hope to hear back from some people in the area!

I am 22F from the Carolinas. [M]y friend came out to me, as bi, this past Monday. I was really happy. My response "ME TOO!". He has come out to our circle of friends one by one(4 of us), within the last week. I was only out to my bf and now my buddy. My friend's courage gave me the gut to break it to one of friends within our cirlce.

I felt super super awkward. My bi friend was there with me to show support. I'm very thankful he was there. Idk if I could have done it without him... Anyway our friend was completly fine with it. I knew he would be. I wasn't scared of him. I was scared of ... Idk.. I actually don't know what I was scared of.

But anyway. I feel better now that I've told some friends. :)

Also. My bi buddy is interested in getting out there and dating dudes. Idk know how to help him bc I've only been with my current SO. Any suggestions for him?

So seeing as we have a subreddit for Carolinians, I wonder where all of us are scattered. I've been through r/MeetLGBT, but the only ones I saw on there were in the Raleigh area. For the sake of networking/meeting friends from here IRL, etc., where is everybody? Vague locations/regions will do, since there are rules about personal information, and to respect people's general discretion.

I'll start: I'm in NC, between Charlotte and Asheville, near the SC border. Go figure, two LGBT-friendly cities, and this place is pretty homophobic, and many locals were proud to support Amendment 1.

it is nice to see some more local support. i will definitely keep tabs on conversation in this sub!

Welcome everyone to this new subreddit. I hope that it becomes a meeting place and support network for any of the LGBTQ members of Reddit living in either North or South Carolina. We face unique pressures living in the South, and this is a unique place for us.

I hope that you love us and visit us frequently! Help us get started by posting!

Thanks, and much love to you :)