I’m a 16M that’s intersex, biologically male but with female genitals (I couldn’t respond to the hormone in the womb that gives u male genitals)

Apart from that everything is normal, sometimes shits hard. Feels like I’ll never experience this “teen love” everyone else seems to have.

Was in a situationship with one guy but he was a walking red flag and after a week of not talking he got into a relationship with someone else.

My time will come, and so will that person. Just hurts go feel like I’ll never get that.

I’ve seen some gay guys say they r fine with it and other aren’t and that’s totally okay. Just frustrating having to be different.

Would any teenager consider dating someone like myself or no?

I just found out my dad only supports me because he thinks it’s just a phase or I’m seeking attention and that all girls are like this at some point and complains saying that all I talk about with your friends is being gay or whatever

So I (m) have had a crush on this guy for a while, but I am concerned it is not good for me. You may ask why, well about 4 weeks ago, he “jokingly” stabbed me 9 times with a mechanical pencil (it hurt like hell) and after that I thought I was done with him, but yesterday I’ve started to crush on him again. I don’t know.

So background:

This friend (13m let’s call him L) and I (13m) clicked on the first day of year seven (in my country you usually switch schools at the start of year seven) we both liked ci-if and generally the same staff so we quickly became best friends and got really close, still not as close as my friends from my last school but pretty close. Both L and I are into computer science and we both where on an after school program that teaches that more deeply, and at the start of year 8 it became an accelerated gsec program and we coordinated to register to same hours so we are in the program together and most times we are there until late and then ether I sleep at his house or he sleep in my house.

So now to the interesting part:

So a few months ago me and L started getting closer at these sleepovers and I realized that I have a crush on him, we started to like cuddle and generally got closer and closer and I realized it became more than a crush, until 3 or 4 months ago that I told him that I liked him when we where laying on his bed, and prepare yourself dear reader that was the moment I realized L is the person with the last tact in the world. Dear reader his answer to me telling him that I like him was schnitzel in pita… yes, schnitzel in pita. Just that it would be clear, that closeness was only on the sleepovers, not in school. So a week later I sleep in his house again and somehow it got to us kissing and after we kissed I told him that I like him again and he responded “me too”. But the thing is, after that we didn’t acknowledge the kiss, the day after that I asked him what’s happening between us and he responded ”I don’t know ” now it’s a few months later and I tried bringing the up topic a few times now and he always avoids the question or say “I don’t know ” and I stopped there cause I didn’t want to push him. So a weak ago I asked him again but this time after his usual answer I asked him if he wants to know, he answered ”I don’t know, I don’t really care to know” and the conversation ended there.

What do I do now? I want to be with him I clearly communicated it to him but he just won’t communicate with me, I’m exhausted from being nervous when we are together cause I don’t want to overstep any boundaries, the problem is I don’t even know what the boundaries are, I don’t even know if we are together or I don’t know what. I really want to be able to show my affection to him without feeling nervous. What do I do?

Southern US accents are SO FUCKING GREAT NOT EVEN LIKE HOT OR CUTE JUST GENERALLY ATTRACTIVE

buuut

apparently those states are really homophobic. the best fucking accent in the world is in homophobic states.

/hj (im not that bothered im not gonna date someone just because of their accent anyway lmao)

First of all: My parents are very open and have nothing against LGBTQ+

So we were just talking over dinner and somehow the topic "Transgender" came up and we talked about it for some time, which the shifted to sexualities and my father talked about how he was quite sure in his sexuality (hetro) and then asked me if there was a reason for me talking about it so much (In the sense of me not being sure of my own sexuality, as I bring up the topic of sexuality quite often, normally when I'm annoyed at backwards laws in some countries, one party that always gets around 15% of the votes in my country and is really homophobic, transphobic, etc. or something random else).

So I just blurted out "No, I'm quite sure in being bisexual myself" and then kind of immediately continued talking because I hadn't actually wanted to say that.

My parents (unsurprisingly) don't care, but I'm a bit worried because my mom talks way to much with her friends and doesn’t really keep anything from them (we are talking about 20+ people).

We live in a small town/large village and I while people being hateful isn't anything I can see happening I also just want to be left alone and not constantly get comments from people on my sexuality (even if these won't be hateful at all).

My original plan was just to show up with whoever is one day gonna be in a relationship with me and introduce them to my partens (weather that's a boy or a girl) also because I kind of dislike the idea of having to come out (everyone assuming everyone else is hetro as the default).

Then afterwards (like 10min later when I was in my room) my mom complained about my tone of voice while telling them I'm bi and that it felt accusatory to her (I calmed her down while myself feeling annoyed at her for her being annoyed because yes for me that was stressful).

In general my parents where always really open minded though (never talking about me one day having a boyfriend/husband, but partner or talking about boy- or girlfriend and saying that the most important thing was my happiness).

So the only thing really stressing me is my mom just telling everyone.

Thoughts?

(Sorry for my bad English, it isn't my first language😅)

Lots of things are going on in my head and I can’t deal with it all.

I’ll list a few but not all.

I came out to my friend the other day. He was supportive but I feel like there is an expectation of me to date a guy when that’s not what I want. I’m not romantically or fully sexually attracted to guys. Basically I think guys are cute and the attraction stops at the waist with no romance. But I feel like there is some expectation that I will never fulfill. I’m aware there is no set definition of what bi is however there are expectations. Maybe it’s just in my head. I’m also demisexual/romantic so I just don’t feel all that a ton. I’ve been wondering “am I valid?” “Am I a fraud”.

I don’t know why but ever since I started questioning, my life has felt so complicated. I have anxiety and ocd which probably don’t help. Not to mention I’ve been stressed out of my mind with school.

I’ve been getting mini panic attacks sometimes. It feels like someone is pressing on my chest constantly. I don’t have a therapist to talk to.

U think she will like it, before anyone says it might be too much, she claims im her man or whatever, idk what that intels but i like it

So, I don't want to disclose my age but I'm still pretty young, and not in a relationship, but I want to understand how some things work before I ever get into one.

I get how straight sex works, but I'm very unsure of how sex with a girl, as a girl, would work. Please explain it as it is, I'm just curious and scared to search it anywhere else ^^'

So a few years ago my gmaw died everyone was sad , we forgot my moms birthday cause of that , that was a shit show and we haven’t forgotten it since, but somone told me , how would u like it if everyone forgot you’re birthday, and its like I don’t care , like i know half of the people i know don’t know or care i see my cousins or people i ment online who are girls contradlating their friends online for getting a year older, and makes me go , cool, but y can’t they forget mine im no-one special i never was

I (17F) had fantasies about intimacy with a woman and it made my chest ache and pleasant feelings. When I imagined kissing a girl and getting in close contact with her, I felt a smile and pleasant feelings, I had a desire to try. Does this happen to straight people? Or does it mean something?

P.S : I'm not sure if I've ever really fallen in love with a Woman in Real life. I remember seeing a girl recently, she's beautiful. I started having fantasies about kissing her and I kind of liked it then

Two of my roommates are salty that they don’t get to join me and my girlfriend and they have started walking around the house naked

Despite multiple times of me insisting on them not doing it they still do it

Me and my girlfriend have only started doing more 1 on 1 stuff recently and it’s been great but having to deal with two annoying people begging to join it’s just so overwhelming that it’s interrupted my relationship a little

On one hand I want to get it over with but on the other hand I don’t want to give in and let them do it with us

The guy is bisexual and the women is straight so I have said that they should both do it together instead of joining us and they both switch subjects when I bring it up

I’ve made a post on an alt account in some subs that I thought would be relevant to the matter but they all nod in the direction of them joining

Thought i would ask people my age because the woman just turned 20 and the guy is the same age as my girlfriend who is about 8 months older than me so they like to say im acting immature

Are we all ok, cause for half of the day im not just checking

About a month ago my now ex broke up with me he said he just wasn't happy and work was pushing for him I wasn't mad at him or anything we both were respectful and we didn't argue or anything idk why I'm making this just thought I should

I just want to fucking scream to my mom and dad that I am bisexual but they are always say things like oh gay men can't ever be real men or oh that's disgusting and against God like I love them but fuck dude I just would like to come out and know they support me or not care instead I would honestly would not be surprised if they sent me to a pray away the gay camp anytime I get close to telling them I back out and get nervous it just makes me feel like a bitch sorry for the rant

There is 3 guys who are my type but are all straight, I can’t find any bi or gay guys 😥 why is it so hard

Attracted to men but not romantically and the attraction stops at the waist. Wouldn’t date or have sex with a man but I am really attracted to some and stare at them and want to kiss them.

Came out to my friend and ever since I’ve been having bad imposter syndrome.

Inspired post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BisexualTeens/comments/1bv5fmq/how_many_label_changes_have_you_haduntil_you/

This is seperately posted on r/GayBroTeens here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayBroTeens/comments/1bw537o/inspired_by_uwitchinoblivion_other_sub_did_you/

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So I (16m) came out today as bi to friend of mine (16f, she’s also bi), and to my surprise she said she knew a few gay/bi guys (a few of them femboys) that she’s willing to set me up with. Honestly pretty excited but I have know idea what tf I’m doing given I’ve never dated before, any tips/anything I should know? I have literally no experience talking to people I’m interested in and I’m kinda worried about it given I’m kinda ugly and have pretty bad social anxiety.

My ADHD brain simply cannot get ahold of the passage of time lol. I'll think of something that happened a few months ago look back and its been a year, e.g. my first post on this subreddit (on a different account). That means I've known I was bi for a year!? I've known I'm trans for 8 months! It's confusing.

When and how did you realize that you were most likely attracted to members of your own sex? How did you understand that?

I 13m have known that I’ve been bisexual for a while now and need some tips on telling my friends/family, any advice?

So, I have known I was bisexual for a year or two now. But recently, I have been feeling less and less attracted to the opposite sex. It's been a little confusing. I think I might be gay, but I feel so at home in the bisexual community. I'm just wondering how I should take my next steps.

So one time me and my boyfriend were chilling and just talking about stuff in the past but at one point we had brought up our pass crushes and I was telling him I had a crush on one of the male cheerleaders because we saw each other a lot since I’m on the (American) Football team and I could just hear how jealous he got and it was so adorable 🤣🤣🤣 he got a little bratty with me so I had to give him some love to make up for it but it was still a very cute reaction