Anyone in Manchester want to talk I'm 30 M bi pretty new to being 'out'

Hi, is anyone here from Northampton?

Hi, I want to know if anyone has been to a biphoria event. There is one in Leeds that I am thinking of going to. I want to know if they are reasonably well attended, and age and gender of people there. If you have been to one, what was your experience of it? Ideally I would like to get to know a group of people (M and F) to meet on a regular basis. TY.

Any bi groups in Scotland?

I'm a bi 55 year-old male living in the UK.

I've known that I was bi sinse my teens but didn't really acted on it.

I got married on my late 20s and then got divorced.

Only after my divorce I started trying to get some hookups with men and women.

As I am quite introvertid I have difficulty in not only taking the first step but also going to places and events where would be easier to meet people to hookup.

What I am really trying to find is a discreet non-judgemental 'something' (group, people, place) where I can meet people in my age range that can broaden my very limited experience.

I've tried some dedicated websites and apps but never really got any positive results, specially without spending lots of money with the fees

Any welsh bisexual groups around to join

I feel that there is a special connection and friendship that can form only between two couples where all parties (no matter the gender) are bi.

My fiancée and I both want to meet some lovely couples for double dates, boardgames at home, going out to queer clubs, or even just for a chat.

Please feel free to shoot a DM or comment if you are in a bi couple and want to be friends :)

We are very nerdy, well-travelled, and have extremely unique life stories

let me know if you want to join. all the details on meetup.

Thursday December 12th is www.wearinghers.club Christmas Party

The ONLY club in the World for masculine men , who have a fetish for lingerie , plus their male admirers.

At 8pm there will be cranberry Vodka shots and mincing pies for everyone
There will also be our Grand Christmas Raffle

First number out of the hat will win FREE ENTRY for the entire 2025
Second number out will win 3 Free Entries in 2025
Third number out will win 1 Free Entry in 2025

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I am a gay man that would like to try MMF and MMMF and wondering if there are any nights dedicated to this in London or even Brighton?

There is a Queer Prom happening in Yate for those who want to "re-do prom but gayer this time".
The organisers are non binary and very friendly.

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Apart from some hook ups, I haven’t really done much with it…

Sometimes I feel like I kinda jump back in the closet so to speak.

I’m on Grindr from time to time, all other dating apps feel too much like they take your money and give nothing back...

I noticed that pretty much every woman I have met since is put off by my bi-sexuality (though not all).

I suppose I’m wondering what to do… like next steps. How do I get out there so to speak?

I’m 40 next week. I have a great body, I’m pretty/handsome, funny and interesting. I don’t lack confidence obviously but I’m not an extrovert “let’s go out and party” kind of person so feel a bit stuck…

I’m kinda nerdy, I have a nearly 4 year old son, and in training to be a counsellor so maybe my focus being on all those things is a road block right now? And I live in High Wycombe so maybe lack of options?

Anyone have an insight or stories of when they came out? Feels like it might help 😊

Help I'm only attracted sexually to females but really feminine femboys and trans woman I find hot and would fuck what am I ?

I apologise if this is the wrong place I’m just a bit confused and not sure if this is alright or not. Since I was a young teen 13/14 I called myself bisexual because I was attracted to both boys and girls. But over the years since I’ve become an adult (I’m 22 now) I’ve thought that was incorrect and that I’m actually straight because I’m only attracted to cis women. Celebrities or just people I see around I only catch myself looking at women or thinking ‘she’s attractive’ never anything towards men. However when I watch porn which isn’t often I get drawn to watching gay porn mainly guys getting jacked off by another guy it turns me on I get hard and orgasm stronger than watching straight porn. Tonight I got horny for dick picks and guys jacking off, I’ve never got hard so quick. I’m quite confused and been thinking about this all year I didn’t think I minded not knowing and just stay saying I’m bisexual but it just doesn’t feel like the correct term anymore but neither is straight nor gay

Any recommendations? Love group fun any suggestions for clubs, Sexparties that are bi friendly in this specific dates :) also clubs, bars, ext that you would recommend ? Many Thanks!

BiCon is the annual get-together of the UK bi+ community. It's been going since 1984, making it the UK's longest continually running annual LGBT event!

This year's is at Heartlands High School, next to Alexandra Palace Station in North London.

There will be a variety of sessions: some serious, some not; some interactive, some mostly 'sit and listen'. There will be a party on Saturday evening somewhere else.

You don't need to identify as bi, bisexual, pan, pansexual, fluid, etc etc to attend.. although most people do ID as one or more of those.

It is trans-friendly. BiCon was an early adopter of accepting people's self-identified gender: it had the discussion back in 1993...

Tickets are on a sliding scale from £15 for the weekend (less if you tick a box when registering).

More on BiCon 2024: https://2024.bicon.org.uk

More on BiCon in general for people who haven't been before: https://bicon.org.uk/for-attendees/what-they-said/

I feel like I am am unworthy I recently came out as bi to my wife yet despite taking viagra can't get hard for my wife I feel so sexually aroused but I still can't get hard its really getting me down I feel my inability to perform is gonna end things if i dont get it sorted all I want life right now is to be able to stay hard long enough to have sex and cum surely that's not too much to ask for

As a mature male I'm finding it hard to find like minded people to chat openly with about how I feel, my bi curiosity so to speak, would be great to just be able to talk nonsense over a pint. Problem is knowing where to start. Any ideas ?

If all you wanted from a meet up was a chat a coffee and a hug from a bi/gay guy were would be the best app to look or is it just a silly Idea cause no one would be looking for that on an app .

I posted this under the spoiler tag even though the title pretty much says that this is going to contain TW’s.

A few days ago I ran into a TERF on Twitter who says she’s a lesbian - I say TERF because I’m also a trans man, not just bisexual. She went from being transphobic to erasing my bisexuality - now I know there’s a lot of a bisexual erasure going around and biphobia, but I’m not sure whether she targeted my sexuality because of my gender identity, or whether she was totally adamant that biphobia doesn’t exist in general and that my lack of sexual experience with people of the same gender makes me a homophobe. Anyway, under so much stress and pressure to defend myself from all the shit she was saying I pretty much told her that my sexuality is still valid because I’m in fact attracted to both women and men, and even told her about the kiss I had with another girl of my age when I was about 10 or 11 in which felt right to me, just as much as kissing a boy I later dated. She was forcing me into a box (straight) that doesn’t apply to me, and told me there’s no such thing as bi erasure because I’m in a “straight relationship” (that was her erasing my gender identity), and told me that the phobia thing only counts if I was in a same sex relationship - I told her that your attracted to the person before you know what genitalia they have in between their legs. Anyway, she insisted I was being homophobic because I’m in a same gendered relationship and I’m a transgender bisexual man.

I think I pretty much blabbed at this point, so I do apologise if it doesn’t make sense in some parts, you can just ask me questions in the comments.

Hi all!

I run the Bisexual Women 25+ Discord server. I've made friends through communities on Reddit (and their Discords), but I really wanted an environment specifically for bisexual women to feel comfortable, to connect, to share their hobbies, feel like they belong (regardless of lifestyles), and ultimately be a part of their own close-knit community (outside of general LGBTQ communities).

I've had a decent start, as far as new members goes, but my vision is to grow it large enough where bisexual adult women can use the meetup channels in the server to do local meetups, events, or general hangouts based on the state/province/country they live in; we already have members from Australia, Canada, and Europe so far, so international folks are certainly welcomed. We have a book club, do movie/tv watch parties, talk about all sorts of topics, and do plenty of gaming together.

If you identify as a woman, are bisexual, 25 years or older, and this sounds interesting to you or is a community you want to be apart of, please feel free to DM me for a link!

Hi there I'm just looking for a gay/bi male , someone with experience and who has embraced their sexuality. Would love someone to chat with about thoughts, advice, experiences. I feel a little lost for now overall and don't really have anyone to chat with about things. Much appreciated 🩷💜💙

So iv not had any experience with men. Not been a problem over the years with women, but for whatever reason this finding a guy business, well it's not happening. Iv been on Grindr for sometime and gone from having a shy hidden picture, to just putting myself out there. Still no luck, Iv got some regular pics and some more racy ones. It seems a bit of a brick wall , messages just get ready and no replies. I wouldn't say I'm like Adonis, but I'm not bottom of the barrel either. So is there any advice, I'm very keen to embrace my bisexuality, since I have never taken the opportunity or been brave enough.

So finally admitted it to my girlfriend. She's so supportive and amazing. But new just in... It's ok for me to explore and stay in a relationship. Advice ?. Kinda looking to embrace my sexuality more, better late than never.