Greetings everyone, I'm 21 and aroace here looking to meet you all and have potential elite friends up here.

I have originally discovered this community for a question i wanted to answered and then I realized I gotten updates/posts from this community that legit were cute and caught my eyes so I decided to officially join in. I'm all ears to be cool as friendos with anyone here. Shoot me a DM, but prefer you reach out on my insta, @jollyjustint.48. 💪🏽🖤🤍💚💜

Today I sent a video to an ex and I was looking at myself and blushing because I was turning myself on 😂 I think women in all their forms are so beautiful ( andro, nby, non conforming etc . But to think that someone looks at me the way I look at others is new for me 😂

I'm sure there's probably a lot of others here who can relate to me on this, but I'm sick of the misogyny, I'm sick of the misandry, I'm sick of the hatred of trans, nonbinary, and intersex people.

I think people who imagine gender has all these causal powers to make someone act shitty, or to limit their potential, just have straight up garbage for brains. I wish people understood that when they blame bad behavior on someone's sex or their gender, they're essentially excusing bad behavior!

I'm sick of being surrounded by the battle of the sexes, I'm sick of the queer infighting, I want to live in a pansexual utopia where people stop normalizing gender-discrimination, and everybody is free to like and interact with who they want to and to avoid everyone they need to. I want a world where people actually care about consistent anti-sexism.

*I already posted this but it didn't get any comments, so I am posting again. I'm sorry if I'm being pushy*

I'm 17 and my dad is homophobic but it's honestly annoying, I'm pansexual and genderfluid and my dad doesn't know that. My brother is 14 and he likes to wear my jeans and even my jumpers and I don't mind as long as it's not my favorite shirts. He can use them since I don't really care. But my Dad hates it, he tells my brother to wear boy clothes and honestly, I get annoyed. My brother already talked back to him but then he gets in trouble.

I hate how my dad is like this to my brother'. 'you can't wear this''. like who fucking cares, it's not like an outfit is gonna turn you gay, plus my brother doesn't seem interested in romance... girls or boys. he has told me before '' I am going to be single forever and I won't marry''. My brother gives me AroAce vibes but I didn't ask him since it's his own business. I do want to be there for him for everything because he is my brother. He can be annoying but he is also a good friend haha.

Whenever my brother says that he will be single forever he does a similar pose to this, like ok bro I get it.

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My dad is annoying when my brother has a friend who is a girl. I know my dad is just teasing, but it's annoying. and my brother rarely makes friends so the one time it's a girl my dad starts the jokes 🤦‍♀️. My brother gets annoyed and embarrassed when my Dad does that.

I just want to know how I can help my brother, I don't mind him wearing my clothes, if he likes them then he can use them. However my dad gets mad at me if I try to ''normalize'' bad stuff into my brother's brain.

Artist community, I don't get into anime but, this sweater is fucking awesome. May the eye protect you loving people

That’s pretty much it. I miss kisses, hugs and listening to a heart beat. Those are the best things.

I’m straight. But I’m also trans. I’m trying to figure out which direction I should go in the dating scene. I’m quite traditional and very cis-passing. Plus I’m post-op, if you know what I mean. And I never disclose to anyone my trans status, which obviously makes it harder to look for a partner. Someone advised me to reach to this sub and just ask.

Now. It is very important for me that people see me as a man. Not a trans man, but just a man. And whereas it’s not an issue with ppl around me because I’m not out, I don’t know how it would be with a partner. Therefore my question is: do you, cis pan women, consider trans men like me as much of a man as any cis man? Or is there still a difference for you? Please be brutally honest with me.

Thank you

hi, it's nothing like having a preference in a romantic way, i'm just terrified of cis men due to trauma and even some masc presenting people in general. i would just never date a cis man because they will just never understand some things and the different upbringing can just be seen through the roof so i wouldnt be able to form as strong as a connection - i would be forcing myself to like them. now of course this is a generalization and not all men are like that, but i just dont feel like finding that out so i leave them out of my dating pool. am i still pan/being a bigot in any way? please explain to me if i am as i dont want or intend to be.

Salut tout le monde ! (english message follow)

Salut, je suis du Québec et je viens de découvrir votre charmant sub. Je me suis demandé certain·es d'entre vous parlaient français.

Au plaisir de papoter avec vous !

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Hi everyone!

Hi, I'm from Québec and I just discovered your lovely sub. I wondered if some of you spoke French.

Looking forward to chatting with you!

I'm not even sad or scared anymore, frankly I'm pissed. I shoved myself in a closet for 35 yrs. And I'll be damned if I go back in it. I won't water myself down. I'm not going to hide myself flamboyant sexuality, I'm not going to act straight. I'm not going to let friends, and comrades be hurt. Incase the future president has forgotten millennials all the way down to the gen alphas are the FSU generations. We will resist

Here Is The Original Post for context

I made a post here yesterday and I wanted to make an update. So as some of you already know that my homophobic parents want to move to america however I am pansexual and genderfluid so that is already bad enough.

I talked to my Mom today and asked her the same question like I always do '' Have you decided on which country we will move to?. She told me that first we are going to go to brazil since we have connections there and when they earn more money with there business, they are thinking of going to america. They aren't dead set yet but that is their plan. I asked her '' If we end up going to America, which state are we going to''. She said Florida.... Is that good or bad? I already know that it's expensive but what about the LGBT community, is it welcoming or not?. I heard people say that it's not and now I'm worried....

Some Background:

I am 17 years old and My parents are selling online courses and gaining an audience with their YouTube channels. I edit their videos and earn money. Right now I only have 350 euro saved up, I'm not sure how much that is in dollars. They are thinking of increasing my pay as well but they didn't yet. I also want to make a channel for my ideas and stories but I don't have time, I barely have time so I didn't start yet. My mom is Spanish and My Dad is Brazilian, my Dad is also of color. My mom is white and so are me and my siblings except my 9 year old brother who is tanned. I am not sure if this is really important for this post but I am only saying it so that you have an idea for advice. I am not sure if this information is important though....

Hopefully I will be safe, I already have a hard time expressing myself and I feel it will be much harder.

Here is a picture of Deku from MHA that I found on Pinterest to lighten up the mood:

Stay Safe 💖

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After the election I have been dealing with some severe depression. At work yesterday I was extremely quiet and doing my best, when I saw this sitting in a random spot and in some way it felt like a sign from the universe telling me "it'll be alright". It was the first time I had smiled in 24 hours. Wanted to share with all my Pansexual peeps on here 💙

Btw this is a baby toy lol.

What do I do? They don't know I am pansexual and genderfluid. They are homophobic and transphobic. They say that Trump will apparently help the USA have a better economy or whatever. Honestly, at first I liked the idea of moving to the USA but now with all the posts I'm seeing here on reddit I'm scared. Hopefully they decide on a different country and not America but if they do decide on America hopefully it won't be bad, maybe nothing will happen to me because I am pan and genderfluid, and if something happens I'll just pretend to be straight.

Please Is there something I can do to calm down, I am 17 years old and I really want to express myself but my parents will never let me.. Maybe when I'm 18 which is in 5 months, however I don't have enough money to move out.

Everyone Just Stay Strong 💕

Be Pan And Proud, I'm trying to motivate all of us... Please We Can Do It... Stay Safe 💖

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Hey everyone Im looking for people with Cerebral Palsy who love heavy metal and are down to be friends 👋