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I for a while have been identifying as omnisexual/genderfluid/panromantic. My preference typically changes with my ✨gender of the day✨ (or minute, lol), but I still feel like omnisexual fits, but should I switch over to omniflux? Or can I identify as both? I feel like identifying as both fits me more, but is that considered correct? Just been needing to know.

Does That Make Me Omnisexual?

I like this girl in my school whom I am incredibly close friends with. She acts like she's gay but she is actually straight. She calls her close female friends as "bbg". My friend seems to be playfully flirting with me in a way, even caling me as a "cute pookie bear" and "bae". She even tried to choke me in a flirty manner while pinning me against the wall in the middle of the hallway. At the same time, she mostly simps for hot Asian men and wants to get dominated by one. The thing is, she was raised in a religious household.

I’m a cis woman who has identified as demisexual heteroromantic for 4 years. However, I’ve been increasingly curious if my attraction to women is more significant than I originally thought, and if so, what this means for my demisexuality.

-I’m romantically attracted to most men, but I’ve only been sexually attracted to 2 men.

-I’m sexually attracted to most women, but I’ve only been romantically attracted to 3 women.

-I’ve been both sexually and romantically attracted to 1 nonbinary person.

I understand that Omni means that gender can affect HOW you’re attracted to people. So, am I omni?

Hi all, I am a queer researcher and focus my work within my community.

This study has been reviewed by the Ball State University IRB (#2105259-1). ( Exempt Letter.pdf). The goal of this study is to investigate how bisexual+ populations manage stress and life experiences. The survey will contain questions about experiences you may have had due to your sexual orientation, how you respond to stress, and questions regarding well-being. Participants must be 18 years of age or older and identify as being attracted to more than one gender. Bisexual+ is used throughout the survey as an umbrella term to be inclusive of all identities that do not fit into the gay-straight binary.

Participation is completely voluntary, and all responses will be kept anonymously (i.e., we will not ask for any identifiable information so no one will know how you responded). This survey will take approximately 10-15 minutes to complete – you can skip items or quit at any time. Your responses to the survey would be very useful and greatly appreciated.

If you would like to participate in the survey, please follow the link below:

https://bsu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0jgHkLiQLmb0B4q

Thank you for your participation!

If you have any questions, please contact:

Student Investigator: Mackenzie Cook, mtcook@bsu.edu

Faculty Advisor: Dr. Anjolii Diaz, adiaz6@bsu.edu

Just curious and willing to get to know the omnisexual community because I love knowledge I love learning about their communities as well as learning to become a better Ally

Hi. I’ve been questioning if I’m bi or omni recently. For a while I’ve been identifying with bisexual because that just fit and I thought that I only liked girls or boys (or trans people in that category). But idk I’ve been questioning it for a little. Small stuff like someone who’s non binary doing sm like touching me randomly idk made me question it. I took a quiz and it said I’m probably omni. Idk tho. I haven’t dated anyone that wasn’t a girl or a guy. I do have a crush on a trans girl tho. But still idk. I know I have preferences tho.

Okay so, here's the thing. I'm an ace guy, and I'm attracted to guys and masc/neutral alligned people for sure (I thought I was uranic/gay for ages), but I can definitely appreciate girls and femme alligned people for sure. But then when I kissed girls it was just boring and whatnot, but even just thinking about kissing guys already sounds like fun. But holding hands is fun with all genders. I hope this isn't tmi. But like, the attraction is different/not as intense depending on the gender, if that makes sense? if I missed anything tell me.

So I’m seem to have a type Trans masculine individuals but i was wondering if that makes me Omni? I have a preference for women I think or just personalities but I can’t tell if I’m Omni because the trans masculine people I know don’t identify as men but as masculine which is why they personally don’t call themselves trans men. So would they just be classified as enby?

What am I if I want to date all genders with a preference but not have sex with any?

I need help I can't tell which one I am. I like women the most, over everyone then anyone that isn't women or men then men. so does that make me bi or omni?

Hello! I have absolutely NO harmful intentions or ill-will towards bisexual people when making this post, just to inform you.

For some time I have seen the narrative (any now especially with new social media apps) that it is biphobic to be pan and how pansexuality isn’t real. While these are both a minority of what I see online I also see that pansexuality was created with the intent to harm/chip away at (?) the bisexual community, which leads to them concluding to “pansexuals don’t exist” along with Omni depending on if the acknowledge it at all and that everyone who uses labels like omni, pan, poly or anything else should identify as bisexual (even though I feel as if with the things they’re saying they they won’t accept those types of people into their community). I’ve seen about a handful of people on various platforms say that because of pan people along with other “micro labels” it’s hard to be bisexual and it’s ostracized from the LGBTQ+ community, which I don’t see as fair in my opinion.

So I need some help. Is it biphobic? What do you guys think, and is there also questions and input that you have? I just really need some help because it saddens and distresses me a lot to see people online invalidate my sexuality/me being omni and to see a seeming majority agree.

I just found it and decided to take a picture!

Hi, so I was wondering if it’s okay to still identify as omni even though I am attracted to people regardless of gender identity, sex, and pronouns but I have a slight preference (that includes the no bias I mentioned) that fluctuates? I’ve been using the term for a while now. Please help me out, thanks!

Recently have been feeling that I get attracted only to men and feminine men (like femboys) but I don't feel attracted to women the way I thought and there's something about me that can't stand the idea of me being homosexual (internalized homophobia?)

19 f lesbian here, Im talking to a girl whos omnisexual and would like some advice. I'm pretty new at trying to date someone in real life, previously having had online relationships. I met this girl on tinder a little bit over a month ago and everything seemed to go amazingly. We have much in common can have clear communication and I see many green flags on her. Today she asked me a question whether or not is okay for her to tell me about other dates she goes on, saying that she's meeting up with this girl she went on a date with and is going to meet her dog. But she did tell me that our first date was one of the best dates she has gone on and is excited for our next date. The thing is that I know we've only went on one date and were not in a relationship but I feel guilty even looking at a dating app or of the idea of talking to other girls. I asked if she has any feelings towards me since it could be something that could predict if it would be worth it, she said she has little but of feelings towards me but I feel like She's slipping away since if she has options then why would she choose me. I would really appreciate your opinions and advice, thank you.

I read the differences between the various sexualities and omnisexual was the closest to my heart. However, I'm not really confident if I actually do belong in this because there's only little I've learned about it so I didn't label myself. When my friends ask me, I don't know how to respond to them. I feel envious every time they proudly say that they are gay/bi/les. What I want to know is how did you know that you're an omni?

I want to understand more from other people's experiences. I'm still 18 and I don't have enough knowledge in this.

I Just had a random thought if someone comes out as ___ and i respond with hi ____ i am omni (like the dad joke) would that be bad? I think it's funny but I like dad jokes XD

I am literally questioning stuff... Heres the thing...I like all genders but....I most likely to fall inlove with men more as serious when committing, while having female crushes are sorta happy crushes plus, it's rare for me to crush on a female... T ^ T