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I first thought i was Lesbian/Bi, then Lesbian/Pan, but i feel like I'm more Lesbian/Omni. I'm proud to be Omni, i wish i knew of this sub sooner! Hi, fellow Omni's! <3 :3

i've known i was queer for about 10 years at this point and flipped through a few labels over the years (is the bi>pan>omni pipeline universal? lol) but omnisexual was the only label i felt that fit me to a t. it's sad because it isn't a commonly known sexuality so i end up just always saying im bi which doesn't ever feel right because im not. i don't even know any other omnisexual people but know which felt very isolating when it came to talking about sexuality. i always thought people would think i was weird because they never heard of it or just say "isn't that just bi/pan?" which would hurt my feelings lol.

now i found this, and im truly grateful

Idk what flair to use but...IM SO HAPPY!! I am an omni (F) who actually just pulled a girl who is bisexual who prefers men more It feels like I got the 30% of her liking women 🫶🏻🫶🏻 HAJABANANAMAMAM

It sounds like many people are just like me, jumping from sexual identity to the next. The more I learned the more I could narrow it down. I'm still confused all the time but I want to hear your story. What did you start with and why. What did you end with and where are you going?

My journey: 1969-2025:

Straight/curious/scared Bi/curious/ashamed Straight/curious Bi/no longer curious👀 Heteroflexible Nope.... Bi. Let's be honest. Pan. Yeah. I like Pan..... Poly. Nope. Pan isn't accurate at all. Poly is better with all my preferences. Omni! I mean it describes me! This is me! Finally!

Hi all, so right now im out as pansexual, but lately i find myself thinking that gender isnt 'irrelevant' but instead i see it when it comes to relationships and attraction. So i guess im asking if you think im pansexual or omnisexual

My preference used to change along with getting a crush on somebody (or the other way around probably), but I've been in a steady relationship for almost a year now. My preference just stayed 'my girlfriend', but recently they told me they might be trans(masc?) in some way. And now I just feel my energy/preference shifting towards masculinity? Like obviously I'm still very attracted to my partner, but I get obsessed with them talking about their gender journey and it's really hot to me that they're feeling more masculine. I've scrolled through this community for a bit but can't find anyone talking about it, which is why I'm curious what y'alls takes are on this.

I’ve been with my partner for almost a year now and thought I’d share an interesting omni experience that I had early in our relationship. 

My partner and I met on a dating app, but our meeting was different than I think most people there. They are a mostly-closeted trans person and didn’t have any photos of themself on the app (fearful that someone they knew might see), and just had “trans” as their gender. I think the reason I even answered their first message is because I’d been told to think of dating apps like a game rather than a means of finding a long-term partner (plus the message WAS pretty cute). We instantly connected through shared passions and a similar outlook on the world. I grew very attached to them without seeing their face or knowing their gender. I briefly wondered if that meant I was actually pan and not omni. Looking back, though, the first few days of near-constant messaging, when I didn’t know their gender, it almost felt like I was talking to a potential friend (even though I thought it might go further). It was only when they explained their gender that the possibility of attraction solidified for me. We met up in person about a week after the first message and I was thrilled to discover that they are, in fact, very attractive.

My partner’s gender isn’t even a solid thing in itself, but just knowing it helped me ground my attraction. It’s interesting to me that this relationship feels SO different from my previous one with a cis man. My partner is amab and still publicly appears masculine (for a number of reasons) even though they feel fem. I know the different feeling is partially due to the fact that they’re not a man, but I think it’s also partially due to my omnisexuality. 

(I’d also like to mention that I was very careful when I first began talking to this person with no photos, and I did get one photo before meeting up. I’m lucky it worked out so well but I understand it could have gone sideways)

I saw a post about lgbtq+, and in the comments, someone asked, "wtf is omnisexual?" And a lot of the responses were just trolling and some of them answered with no real clue, but a couple said it was just another form of bi erasure. Is this a common opinion/issue?

So Only about maybe 4 weeks ago, me and my best friend since pre school ( currently in 10th grade) got together. And he’s being super weird and touchy. And i need to know wat to do cuz I don’t want him to be mad at me.

We have several DEI groups at my work. I am in Pride, Salute (vets), Vibe (African Americans) and AIM (Asians). You don't have to be a "member" of the group to join. You can also join if you support them. I am not African American or Asian, but I want them to be the best they can be so I support them (plus they have some great food at their gatherings.... Don't judge me). Anyway the Pride group gave this out for free to anyone. Although I am still closeted, I wanted to see how I can support the community I hide from even more than I do already. I had a friend get me a copy because I was too embarrassed. Thus far it's very good and I am enjoying it. What would you want an ally to do/say/act?

I recently discovered that I am Omni!! I used to identify as abrosexual, but it didn’t really seem right. I am now Omni! This may change, if I find something else so… hi

I’m really struggling to figure out if I’m pan or omni, and after doing a lot of quizzes, one of the questions that are the hardest to truly answer is “do you have a preference.”

I currently identify as omni, and I would say that I somewhat prefer guys, but not only does it change a bit, I just prefer the appearance and sometimes the way they act, but I don’t really care what they identify as. Like, an example is two characters from the adventure time spin-off series Fionna and Cake, where i find both Marshall lee( m) and Fionna (f) attractive but if i had to choose, i would rather be in a romantic relationship with marshall, wether he identified as male, nb or something else. And if just considering Fionna it’s the same, I’d find her attractive regardless of how she identifies. I’m really unsure if this is gender blindness or not, or something similar.

I also find personalities attractive and extremely important in relationships (music taste, clothes, political opinions and just how they generally act), like i find someone with a great personality and ok physical attributes more attractive than someone with “more” physical beauty. There are even sometimes where I find people attractive without knowing how they look like purely based on music taste etc.

I know that I could just identify kind of how i want, but i’m scared to be judged or told that i’m not really pan/omni by others. I also feel as if omni is less known and so more people asking questions and/or being confused.

I, (19F) am openly apart of the lgbt community, so by default ppl ask me a ton of questions. I usually answer happily! But sometimes I am tired of questions and so when people ask me what my sexuality is I simply say "bi." some friends who witness this look at me like "but you're not...?" so I explain (later) and some understand but some say I am rude for it. AITA?

SO, did anyone else know our flag may or may not have been made by someone on Deviantart in 2015?!?!?!?!? What the fuck!

Random pic of me because idk what less to put here. But I am looking for anything omni coloured, or just straight up things with the flag on and need to know which websites have the best ones! Thank you!!

If anyone knows how to make user flags work please tell

I was trying to find a label for someone who identifies as bi and omni and this is what I found and I'm wondering does anyone else know about it or is it like a big thing?

Any thoughts on this?🤔 I like it 🤌🏼😊🤌🏼

Example of varioriented:

Heteroromantic bisexual

Omniromantic homosexual

Homoromantic pansexual

I was on YouTube and watched this video and ARE FLAG IS IN IT TWICE. at 0:47 and 1:23

link to the video: https://youtu.be/u5U2ClLNTXs?si=G-hS8O3GtydrXhhn

She's so gorgeous. She's beautiful and cool and smart and I can't wrap my head around how literally perfect she is. She's so funny and flirty and fck she's gorgeous and she's one of my friends and I don’t know how to do this.

I mean, we hang out in bigger groups and sometimes I think I catched her looking at me, but I'm never sure. Maybe I just want to have catched her looking at me. And she stunns me on a regular basis. Last night I had some friends over at my place and we watched twilight and my crush and I agreed on how hot we thought some actresses were, and later that night we made ourselves burger at home and she made the patties and I just stood there right next to her and drank my drink and who knows, maybe I was allready a tiny bit drunk (or not drunk, just a bit easier, a bit more relaxed I guess) and I just watched her. And meanwhile I kind of talked to another one of my friends. And suddenly she (my crush) looks over at us, at me, and without saying anything she reaches out to my neck and with a gentle movement she takes the closure of my necklace and puts it back to the back of my neck, her fingers softly brushing against my skin and guys, I'm not exaggerating when I say my world stopped. I forgott to breathe for a second. I forgot to listen to my other friend, I forgot about all my other friends. There was just this soft sensation of her fingers on my skin and that pretty smile and this dress and fck I'm still not over it. I get the goosebumps when I think of her, and of seeing her tomorrow.

Also, I know comparing past and present love interests is a generally stupid thing to do because people are individuals and comparisons can only be subjective, but purely subjective the guy I dated for three month never made me feel that way. He was cute and helped me through a lot of shit and sitting next to him, leaning against him was exciting, but, eventhough I'd have kissed him eventually I never felt this overwhelming wish to do it. But with her? I've never felt that way before. I've been wondering for quite a while if I do feel any sexual atraction at all, and I wondered if I had to switch to another label, but I don't wanna. I feel comfortable with Omni, I feel like it describes me well and I feel myself in that term. All that stuff aside, I really just wanna be with her. She's awesome and pretty and funny and smart and just perfect in any way I could imagine, without trying to sound like a creep.

Also she really makes me wanna dress up more mask. I've been figuring out my gender for a while, and I'd love to wear a suit to prom rather than a dress and all that stuff but I felt really good in my rather mask styled look the other night, standing next to her in her perfect black dress that hugged her body perfectly and wow I'm so crushing.

My apologies for everyone who read up to now, I really just needed to vent so thank you very much for making it that far. Anyways. Bye bye now

Okay so this flag is the omniromantic flag combined with the omni fem preference flag and omni non binary preference flag. I don't know who made the preference flags but I'm not taking credit for those! (Sorry idk their user)