I've had anal sex (top) with men many times, now I've got the opportunity to fuck a woman in her ass, are there any things worth considering that are different with them versus with men?

I asked a similar question in r/askgaybros and a lot of people said that I'd have more luck with bi men than homosexual.

I've grown quite paranoid and insecure over the past year after being used by a few bi men (though that's the fault on those individuals and NOT all bi men are like that) and I'm starting to doubt that a cis bi man could like me as a guy, not be disgusted by my body, and not only be attracted to me due to the 'girl bits'.

I don't want to be a confusing and bad experince for someone who genuinely likes me and I'm not at all up for being used or tossed away for a cis woman again. Just need a little hope that guys that could genuinely like me and would want to be with me exist out there.

Edit: Not an update or anything, just a genuine thanks, people here are a lot nicer than askgaybros, cause people were getting downvoted just for telling me to hold hope over there. So thanks bros! :)

Do any of you guys go from being really attracted to women to really attracted to men. For me it just goes back and forth. I want to be masculine and able to take care of a women and I want to be feminine and have a stronger man be able to take care of me.

Not note worthy, but I am very much a twink

Get it cause bismuth’s abbreviation is Bi

I am closeted 18. Just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to not feel guilty every time your mom talks about how you are going to do such and such thing with your kids and how she is gonna spoil her grandkids so much i am an only child so I'm the only way she has grandkids. also like if i come out eventually I'm technically bi but i can only ever really imagine myself with a guy long term should i say i am gay when i come out or bi i don't want to give her false hope that i might marry a woman.

Ngl I don't even know what I am but I don't know. I like girls and I think they are hot but I honestly think I've been in denial about being attracted to dudes as well. I'd keep looking at this r/HOCD subreddit and I am also curious about what the people here think of this subreddit but that's not why I posted here. I feel like I've been pushing away being attracted to dudes and because I'm already insecure as fuck in my masculinity. I used to be weird as shit until high school and I am still weird as shit and barely have friends. I've noticed that most my friends aren't these hyper masculine macho athletic people, in fact none of them are. They are all straight as though. I don't want to really date men, it feels wrong. But I want to accept being attracted to dudes while still not being gay and shit in public. But then I'm just gonna seem like a major homosexual, repelling both sexes lol. Sometimes I have really gay thoughts when like talking to other guys and I don't want to feel so unmasculine even though that sounds insecure. And yeah my I have to accept that I'm not a fully masculine dude but I don't know man.

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I’m bi curious, I want to know what you guys think! Thanks! 😘

I'm 13 M and bi. I haven't told anyone and I'm wondering who I should tell first . Then how to come out.

My friend (22M) and I (24M) were inseparable. We were in the same fraternity, workout buddies, etc.

We texted every week post grad and snapped almost daily. Eventually, he got busy and we had a bit of a falling out. After that, I expressed my feelings for him and he said he didn’t feel the same way and blocked me. His last message was he’d be open to reopening the friendship but on his terms and timeline. I miss him dearly. Any advice?

Have any of y'all ever thought and fantasized about intimate experiences with one sex, but then actually didn't like it in reality?

I'm 20 (M). I've been having gay fantasies, but I feel like I'm forcing them a little.
I don't know if I'm just curious about guys, or if I actually like them more than women.
Do any of y'all relate?

So I (M 31) came out as gay probably 10 years ago. Then bisexual about 5 years ago and now I identify as bisexual/homoromantic. I find sex with both genders extremely pleasurable but I only get that true butterfly feeling with guys. The first time I held hands with a man I thought my heart was going to jump out of my chest.

I’m more masc (I hate the simplified terminology but it’s just accurate) and I only find myself attracted to other masc men OR feminine women. For whatever reason the sexual attraction just doesn’t exist for feminine men or masculine women. Do other people experience this?

It’s pretty obnoxious lol especially when it comes to men because most queer men I’m not attracted to.

I love everyone and aggressively support any gender expressions or queer personality traits, I’m solely talking about sexual attraction.

Hi, I'm a 20-year-old Male and for a long time now I've been curious about my sexuality and wanted a 2nd opinion on it from strangers on the internet. For a little backstory, I was a strange kid growing up, not queer exactly but still an oddball. I've had crushes with girls before, though very few and I've never had a single girlfriend. I never asked a girl out, I liked them but that was the extent of my crushes. But It never worried me that I never had a GF nor was it important. This might be due to my very traditional view of love or my brother and cousins were never in relationships, so why should I care? Things changed during middle school for me. I discovered p*rn for the first time and the first introduction to it was a man or more importantly a drawing of a femboy. I would mostly do it to men and women, though I never considered myself bi or gay simply just a gooner, and whatever I gooned to wouldn't matter.

I do remember two very gay moments, one time my friend saw two people kissing outside the window and he jokingly said "Let's show them a real show". I became flustered and embarrassed. I remember later that night jacking off to the idea of the two of us doing it. I felt guilty after doing it. Another time I was told that a kid in another class was gay. I don't remember how I felt or what I did I can only remember that he always caught my attention when he was near. I've had very few fantasies of women compared to ones with men, and recently I've found myself jacking off more to men than woman. I still like woman and find them sexy but I no longer wish to have sex with them when compared to men. I've never had a crush on a man, maybe I almost did but I blocked it off. Am I Gay, Bi, or hell straight but have been watching p*rn for too long?

i usually date women but i absolutely love having sec with men(im a bottom for men) i’ve never dated a guy, i just seem to get attracted into a relationship with a woman but eventually i long for an only fantasize being with men. to the point that i will avoid sex with her so i can use my dildo to get off that way. i’ve ruined other relationships bringing this to their attention so i not talked to her about it

I have a question for you, fellow by Brose. Does anybody else get extremely turned on by an audience watching you fuck. like I had this girl I used to fuck, but I would leave the door open so my roommate would come in the doorway and watch and I couldn't really finish in her unless he was standing there watching my dick go in and out of her pussy, looking at my balls, my ass. Has anybody else had this experience? I also feel like my cream pie orgasms are 10 times harder when a guy is watching me come in a girl right next to me.

Hey dudes, 24 bisexual male USA. Really really need more bisexual male friends for some good pro bonding and maybe even a threesome with my girl. Looking for ages 20-40 preferred. Hmu! Send me a picture of your body. Would love to hang out and watch porn together and share stories about girls.

My most recent fetish the last year has been to let one of my attractive straight friends fuck my girl and tell him to come in her pussy and keep his dick in her. I'm in the bed next to them jerking and when he'sdone, he's supposed to take out slowly so none drips out . And then I get over there and push build pussy and start fucking until I finish inside her Feeling his load against my shaft and he stays and watches. He said he's not into guys and then he just likes pussy and has no problem as long as we don't touch. So anytime I want he comes over and comes in her
Anyone else into this?

It might sound basic as fuck, but does anybody else favor missionary to cream-pie a chick. To me, there's nothing better than holding each leg back and pressing your balls against your ass as you're uploading her looking right in her face.. I Know most guys say doggy is their fav, but I think u get deeper in missionary.

• It's even better if Guy is already inside her and it's dripping out

Help! I'm gay/ bi. Mostly into men. Lately been hooking up with a girl. It's good, but I feel like it could be better. We joked out inviting anlther guy in and I'm SOOOO down. I have no idea what I'm doing with her I really need a straight dude to show me how to get her off properly. I kind of wanna watch him pump his load into her. How do I tell her this and how do I get a straight guy to do this. ??

Wondering what everyone here thinks

I just have a few questions if anyone feels like answering, I’ve been wanting to feel what an anal orgasm feels like for a while but I just can’t seem to. I got a dildo that yes my horniness made me get something maybe alittle to big but I take it fine. But after a while my legs get tired and I can’t seem to cum from it…so I was wondering if there are any tips or toy recommendations for it from anyone

How long does it take for butt plugs to feel comfortable? I’ve started using my butt plugs again after months of not using them.im still a beginner and want to try having pleasure anally. I know how to douche/ clean myself out already. It’s just my main issue is to feel comfortable with something in me. Like I have a set of butt plug from small, medium ,to big(egg sized) . Even with the smallest one I can only keep in for like 5-7 min before it’s very uncomfortable and hurts a little. Mind you I use a great amount of lube and have an issue. Some tips and advice are greatly appreciated.

Update from my post on r/bisexual, where my college friend proposed a MFMF foursome with our girlfriends. We created a group chat and shared a few pictures. All very tasteful. We decided on ground rules as well:

1. Condoms for one of the girls
2. Only kissing allowed for girl on girl play
3. No kissing for guy on guy play, incidental contact allowed
4. Handjobs and ball fondling between guys are allowed

My friend also said that we’d see on anything else between us, and that he heard guys give better head.

Will update again once it happens. Thanks for the advice.

Does enjoying oral from men make me bi

So I have only been with women. In my opinion I have been with a lot. I've never had a problem getting them. Not to be conceited. But they seem to be attracted to me. And most have been pretty forward with me. Making it so I don't usually have to be the one going after them. I do have a problem keeping them though. I've always been faithful. Never cheated on anyone ever. But sexually I've never really felt satisfied. Mostly all the women I've been with have been very uptight about sex and trying different things. I've never felt comfortable with any of them to try and explore my sexual desires. I'm married now. And take marriage very seriously. I go online a lot and to watch porn that excites and interests me sexually. Things like orgy's, 3 sums, 4 sums, gang bangs, cuckolding, trans girls with guys, dp's, and recently my favorite is watching double vag videos. Watching 2 cocks rubbing together while inside of a pussy just seems like it would feel amazing. I'm in awe at seeing how one woman can please several men at the same time. But I'm also attracted to watching the men's cocks. And seeing the men get their assholes licked, fingered, and pegged. I could never tell my wife any of this. Because I know she would not be into any of it. But I'm getting extremely frustrated only being able to watch and never getting to try any of it. Id really like to know what sucking a cock feels like in my mouth. But where do I go from here?

I'm 25 and I'm going 26, I still don't know exactly what I would be!?

I am attracted to femboys, traps, trans woman,otokonoko, tomboys and defined women. I also feel attraction to penises, although I am not interested in anal sex, but I would be comfortable with oral (blowjob). Additionally, I like feminine women. Hairy men, resembling bears, or hyper-muscular men do not attract me. However, men with a more androgynous appearance, especially those with smooth faces, can catch my attention.

My attraction to trans women and femboys started around the age of 17, in high school and college. At first, I found it strange when I saw pornography featuring trans women, but shortly after, I felt excited. Later, when I saw crossdressing hentai, I became even more stimulated, which led me to question a lot about my sexuality.

About 2 or 3 years ago, I watched a video of real femboys having sex, and again I questioned myself because I felt quite excited. I also began to enjoy videos with a cuckold perspective, focusing on women asking to perform oral sex, which made me reflect even more on my attraction to penises.

Currently, I feel like I could imagine dating a femboy, a trans woman, or a man with an androgynous appearance, as long as he has a smooth and soft look. Recently, I started seeing pictures of twinks on the internet; some seemed feminine, smooth, and attractive to me, while others did not catch my attention. Am I bisexual or ginesexual? I feel like I like practically every type of woman, but when it comes to men, my attraction seems to be much more selective.

One of the femboys I like is "boixd." I think he is really pretty, and just starting to watch his videos of him masturbating already excites me. I think his appearance perfectly fits the characteristics that attract me

I hope this comment simply doesn't offend anyone, I'm telling about my own experience and ignorance of my life

I only like guys that look like pretty girls and ive never been attracted to a man that wasn't online, but i could say the same thing for women. Im also not attracted to penis and would never consider being penetrated either but i dont get grossed out by them. I have a high sex drive and have a lot of fetishes and i watch probably 65% straight porn. I just want to know because im talking to this guy and i find him attractive but im not sure if i like him or its just a fetish