First off, thanks to everyone who commented and supported me. Some of you asked for an update, so here it is.

I finally got my friend alone and told him everything. That yes, I’ve been seeing a guy and that there is nothing wrong with that. That it doesn’t change anything about me. That I hope it doesn’t change our friendship, but if it does, that’s his choice—I’m not going to change who I am.

I didn’t expect his response. He told me he had been distant, but not because he was mad at me. He was mad at himself. He thought we told each other everything and couldn’t understand why I didn’t trust him with this. He even worried that he might have said something in the past that made me feel unsafe which only made him more mad because he hated that I thought he would ever not accept me for who I am. Then he just looked at me and said, “Dude, we’re friends. That’s not changing just because you like guys.”

And of course, because he’s him, he had to make a joke. Told me that maybe now I’ll leave some girls for him. I told him I’m bi. To which he responded. “Dude. Stick to your dick and leave me some pussy. Besides it looks like you have your hands full with that one, literally.”

So yeah. We’re good.

We then talked more, he wanted to ask me so many things like when I figured it out, how I knew, who else knows, my body count, asked me if I am a top or bottom. I didn’t answer all the questions of course but it was really nice that he showed honest interest in my life and it felt good being able to talk with someone about it. He is also gonna cover for me whenever I want to leave, like tomorrow for my dinner date.

I didn’t tell him anything about the guy I am seeing though he did ask and wanted me to show him a picture of his.

I asked him not to tell anyone to which he said of course and that I can come out to them whenever I feel ready.

Oh, and that he is never checking my phone again and that I should put a fucking Lock Screen if I am gonna be sexting.😅😂

So my friend has been asking me nonstop where I keep disappearing to every morning.

Today, after meeting 42M, I got home, jumped in the shower, and my phone went off. Didn’t think much of it—until I stepped out and saw my friend just staring at my screen.

It was a dick pic from 42M.

He asked me if I’m gay and I don’t know what to do.

I'm 59, happily married to a beautiful woman for over 20 years. We have a fantastic sex life. But I'm bi curious (yes I'm probably bi) and have been since college. I desire to touch, please a man and experience it from a giver of pleasure standpoint. I've never acted because I don't want to hurt my marriage. We have talked about it a few times; she knows of my curiosity but not how curious I really am...she told me that cheating is cheating, but it doesn't reduce the desire.

I don't know if I will ever act on this desire, but if the right situation presented itself, I probably would.

I'm rambling now but I would love to have a friend that would understand

Just wondering. I have a gay buddy that wants to suck me

I was driving home from a work trip about a 200 mile drive. Half way there is a town that has a porn shop. I had checked it out before and even been in the booths, but I had never gone into the theater. I had my preconceived notions of what it was probably my like in there, but I decided to check it out anyway.

I paid and went in. It was dark and it took a few minutes for my eyes to adjust. I sat in the back row and noticed only one other man in there in the row in front of me. But then the door opens and someone else walks in. He sees me and out of all the empty seats he sits right next to me, this is what I was afraid of, then he says, can I see your dick? and I say, no. I get up and change seats to three rows ahead. He stands up and literally stands against the wall so he can look straight at me. I thought - fuck! This is exactly what I didn’t want - some troll hitting me up. I got up and went to the restroom they had in the back. This motherfucker followed me. By now I had enough and I said, muthafucker- can’t you take a fucking hint, I’M NOT INTERESTED - GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME. I’m 6’2 and look intimidating so he not only got the fuck out of the restroom but left the theater.

I took a leak, and when I came out, there was a new guy in there and the other man from earlier had also left. The new guy was extremely good looking, straight, hoodie, baseball cap. He sort of smiled at me and said, you scared that foo outa here, I just laughed and said, yeah I guess I did.

I sat in the same row as my new friend but left one seat between us. The porn was pretty good - two guys and one chick. One fucking her and the other getting his dick sucked by the chick.

I was checking out the movie but would occasionally look at my homie. He took out some poppers and took two big hits. I stuck my hand in my pants and grabbed my dick to let the handsome homeboy I was interested. He took more hits of poppers and then put his hands in his pants too. It was like a game of chicken. I unzipped my pants and pulled my dick out of my blue plaid boxers. He looked over at me and at my hard dick and then took two big hits, next move was multifaceted: he stood up, pulled his pants all the way down and sat next to me. I copied the move and pulled my pants down too. Our knees touched as we were both spread wide. The rest was simple but hot as fuck. Somehow without talking, we both knew that either one of us was interested in sucking or getting sucked, in fucking or getting fucked, just two homies jacking off.

He stared straight at the screen while he jacked off. The poppers were obviously making him Brave to try this. He took another hit, but this time he offered me some. I took the hit closed my eyes and I feel his hand replacing mine, he wrapped his hand around my dick so I payed back the act. I grabbed his dick which was smaller and thinner than mine, but still felt good to stroke a homies dick. I opened my eyes and looked to my right and he was looking right at me. I won’t lie I felt like kissing him - but I didn’t. We both moaned as we jacked each other and watched the two guys fuck the shit out of the chick in the movie.

He said, I’m gonna nut. And I said, me too. We both went back to stroking our own dicks and nutted. We cleaned up with paper napkins we had in our pockets. When I pulled up my boxers I noticed some cum on them and I said, fuck! He laughed and said, you better clean that up or you’re gonna get in trouble. It’s like he knew I had a chick and I knew he had one too.

We headed back to the restroom and washed up.

We left the theater together and when we got outside he went left and I went right. We didn’t exchange numbers or emails. We just left with a hot af memory.

Hi. So i am bisexual, knew since i was 14-15 but I haven’t told anyone and haven’t tried anything cause i live in a very small town. I went to this trip with my friends last week(still here) and I decided to download Grindr cause I wanted to see what it is all about, maybe meet someone. I was still a virgin and had only kissed a girl.

That’s how I met him. He didn’t have a profile pic, no age listed, but he was really sweet. We talked for hours before he finally told me… he’s 42. And she. He asked if I wanted to come over to his place, somehow I said yes.

He was only in shorts when I went there and fully relaxed, while, I was so nervous I could barely talk.

He made me coffee, sat with me, and even asked if I wanted to leave because I looked so on edge. I told him no, that I’ve just never done this before. He smiled and moved closer. He told me I was cute. Then his hand was on my thigh.

He must have realised I was nervous, cause he stopped, and we just talked for a while. Eventually, I relaxed, and things started again. And I don’t know how to explain it, but something in me just clicked.I couldn’t stop looking at his shorts, at the way he shifted, at the very obvious bulge. He caught me staring. He took my hand, placed it on him and told me to take them off.

After that things got real. He guided my head down and I gave my first bj. At some point he stopped me and I thought I might have hurt him with my teeth( I read that can happen) but he wanted to take things to the bedroom.

He pushed me on the bed and after getting me naked and licking all of my body we went 69 and I sucked him( he does not like to suck cck.). Instead he ate my hle and fingered me. It was really weird but I couldn’t really say anything with his c*ck in my mouth and I really didn’t want this to end so I let him.

Then he got up and flipped me over and kept eating my h*le. That one I enjoyed a lot. Then I felt him on my entrance. I got really nervous and told him I was a virgin and didn’t know if i was ready for that. He said he wasn’t going to put it in, just wanted to feel it. I nodded. He rubbed, teased, pushed a little for some time… and then the head slipped in. I froze. He apologised. I said it was okay. And I guess he took that as permission cause he kept going.

He isn’t too big maybe 6-6,5 inches but very thick.

He asked if I wanted to use a condom. My brain was not working. I just said, “I don’t know.” He told me it feels better without. I just nodded. Next thing I knew, he was all the way in, kissing me, holding me, whispering in my ear. I told him it hurt but he said it is okay and to relax and breathe. He kept asking if I’m okay, and if I am hurting. After a few minutes the pain went away. I told him. He started moving.

And holy sh*t. I was enjoying it. Like A LOT. He went slow first but kept hitting that spot in me that made me see stars and I was rock hard pretty soon.

Then he pulled out. I asked him what’s wrong. He asked me if I wanted to stop. I told him I didn’t. And that I wanted him to keep going but he was worried cause it was my first time and I basically then started asking- begging- him to keep f**king me.

And that’s when something in him snapped.

He went hard. Fucked me for almost 2 hours, almost no stopping. I came twice and he kept going. After wrecking me, he stopped when I couldn’t ride him anymore and made me get on my knees, and finished all over my face and mouth and made me shallow.

That was night one.

Then, I freaked out. I got paranoid about STIs, so I messaged him at 3 AM. He told me he gets tested regularly because he’s in the military and even offered to show me his results. So I went over to check. And then… yeah. He f*ed me again.**

Now it’s been five days, and I’ve been sneaking off to his place every. Single. Day. And my friends are starting to ask questions—where I keep disappearing to, why I’m always out so early in the morning, why I come back looking like I just ran a marathon. I keep making excuses, but I don’t know how much longer that’ll work.

And now I don’t know what to do because:

He’s my dad’s age. If one of my friends told me they were hooking up with a 42-year-old, I’d be weirded out. But somehow, I can’t stop myself. We’ve been going full bareback. He’s finished in me multiple times. It’s insanely hot in the moment, but afterward, I freak out a little. But I also can’t say no to him. Hell, once the condom did break, and I just kept riding him. I thought I was a top. Turns out, I’m definitely not. The real problem? I only have a week left here. But it turns out he’s moving to the same city where I’m starting university next month. And he’s already asked me to dinner.

I have no idea what I’m doing. Am I overthinking this? Should I just go with it? Be more cautious? I’ve never had anything like this happen before, and I have no one to talk to about it.

Im a bi male, 28. My close friends know im bi. Sooo im just wondering if im having like weird friends or this is something more guys have. I have two jerk-off buddies, which both are straight, but with who i jerk off with and watch porn together. There’s no physical contact between us, ofc i have asked if incould taste tho hahah.

With one friend i have this vibe going on, which is not always there, where i end up jerking off and watching straight or even gay porn while sitting around with him while he is just gaming or something like that. Sometimes he even sends me sites or saved stuff. But he never jerks off to, thats the thing haha. He never pulls his cock out or suggest some kind of interaction but at the same time he does even encourage me to go jerk off. Im cool with it tho, cuz i find it really, really, horny to take my pants off and jerk off with him chilling next to me and just seeing my dick shooting cum everywhere while watching porn and just talking meanwhile hahah.

Aaaand i also got like another friend with who i started jerking off a while go. We camp together sometimes, with our off-road trucks. He is married and has children. I caught him jerking off at the campfire, after we both went to our hammocks. I said I didn’t mind him jerking off and he said he didn’t bother if i joined but emphasized he wasn’t interested in physical contact. So now our friendship is some Brokeback Mountain-Straight Edition kinda situation, but im vibing hard on it. Its escalated to sometimes jerking off together all fucking day, while are out camping somewhere. Like, we spend all day just jerking off and edging together, smoking weed, walking around naked. On his requests we’re now even sharing my cockrings, pocket pussy and penis vibrator. We even both dump our, multiple, loads in the pocket pussy.

I was just honestly wondering if im just weird for having this sorts of friendships or if more people do this kinda stuff with friends? 😅

Both of them are btw close and good friends of mine, had and still have strong bonds with them and we talk a lot about everything.

Mid 40s divorced bi guy here looking to finally explore some long standing desires. I’ve met some men online but things always fall apart before meeting irl. It’s mostly them flaking or ghosting. They either want to do risky stuff like hooking up right away and doing car play or want to string me along to the point we’re just penpals / sexting buddies. There don’t seem to be many guys in between those two extremes and overall it’s just nearly impossible to find guys who are safe, honest, respectful, physically my type, looking for similar things, and can make and follow through on plans. I’m wondering if this is all worth it? Have others successfully navigated these issues? Or am I better off trying to forget the whole thing?

I (17m) Want to break away from being masculine but it's so hard to do because I'm afraid of judgement, I wanna be more feminine even if it's in a discreet way any advice?

The first time I hooked up with a man I regretted it and hated myself for doing it. That was 6 months ago and I've just done it again. I need to stop, I feel weird and gross afterwards and I want to stop.

I don't want advice on accepting myself or any of that. Just how to stop. Please.

DMs are open also

Got a gay friend that wants to suck me… is it gay if I let him?

Apart from being a full on trumpie, and have a few little red flags, we were on the topic of having children down the line For context I myself am a very gender fluid/feminine presenting guy, and very outwardly and visibly queer. I have some pics in my profile.

I ask how he’d feel if he had a son that wanted to wear dresses or paint his fingers and he immediately rejected it. He said he’d never allow his son to be like that. And made some reference to him not wanting a son like the boys who’d be castrated in Roman times? And served on the military men back then? (Something of that nature)

I know feminine men get a looot of slack for being fem, but it seems like this guy viewed it as one of the worst things. All while he’s out with me, the very thing he’s so put off by in a son?

I’m not sure how to move forward or I guess if I should at all.

Me 20m cis, (bisexual..?)

Out to family as queer, but closeted for friends/school. I fell in love with this cute boy a year ago been dating for a couple months. Over the time she was with me she made the decision to transition and live life as a woman. I still love her to pieces and am staying with her, but now things feel different.

I don’t have any queer friends, I don’t know how to support a trans girl, I was still on the fence about being gay, does being with a girl in this way make me not gay?

I think I genuinely really prefer penis over vagina 100%, so I’m a little confused, help :(

I feel like because my partner is closeted trans I can’t ask for dating advice or ask for emotional support from anyone because it might end up outing her, I feel really isolated

TLDR -kinda closeted -partner is transitioning

• don’t know what my sexuality truly is
• don’t have a queer space or straight friends I trust enough to talk about this with

Hello guys, I'm 21 years old, straight, and studying Electrical Engineering (EE). For the past three months, I’ve been part of a charity program to help build technology in a remote area (let’s call it "the workplace"). Our team consists of eight people from different fields of study. We have to stay at the workplace for six months while working on the program, but we’re allowed to go home on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays.

There’s a guy on my team called it A, who studies Mechanical Engineering (ME). Just a little background: in my country, there are some openly gay people, and while it’s not illegal, the social pressure is pretty intense. Because of that, it’s rare to meet someone who’s openly gay, and I’ve never really seen an openly gay person or a gay couple in real life until now where i meet A.

To be honest, I never really cared much about gay people. It just seemed strange to me that a guy wouldn’t like girls since it feels like it’s “wired” in our brains. I also assumed that being gay had to come from some sort of trauma, like being assaulted or something. But now, I realize how wrong I was because of what’s been happening.

So here’s the thing A and I have been working closely together because our tasks in the project overlap. He’s a really great guy, friendly, kind of gullible, and a total joker. At first, everything was normal I didn’t think about A outside of our project. But then, things started to change during the second week when our team began staying in the shared house at the workplace. We have two big rooms to share, one for the guys and one for the girls, since there are four guys and four girls in our group.

The first thing that caught my attention about A was his scent. On the second day there, I noticed it, a mix of clean soap and his natural body smell, and it was amazing. I’d never smelled anything like it before. At first, I didn’t think much of it, but as days went on, I found myself getting kind of addicted to it. It got to the point where it started to feel like a problem. A and I became close, and I liked his vibe, but I couldn’t understand why I was so drawn to his scent. Sometimes, I’d even sneak a quick sniff of the back of his neck when I was near him, accidentally, of course.

When the first weekend off came around, I started questioning myself. Could I like guys? To figure it out, I decided to watch gay porn, but the moment I saw the first image, I felt disgusted. Watching guys kissing or jerking off didn’t appeal to me at all. That made me think I was just attracted to A’s scent and nothing more.

A few weeks later, I noticed something else. I was starting to find shirtless guys attractive. I decided to test myself again, and while looking at a guy’s body was okay, seeing a guy’s dick still grossed me out. So, I thought maybe I wasn’t gay after all.

Then, the next big moment happened when our team went to a nearby waterfall to swim and have some fun. I was enjoying myself, and at one point, while we were both shirtless, I shoulder-hugged A to take a photo. To my surprise, he rested his head on my shoulder and closed his eyes while I looked at him. It was probably just for the photo, but that moment shocked me. That night, I ended up jerking off to that photo, imagining myself holding A and kissing him. It was the first time I ever got off to a guy.

This really confused me. I still couldn’t stand watching gay porn, but when I thought about A, it was so easy to get aroused. There’s more: sometimes, at the workplace house, A and I would share a bed. Once, while he was asleep, I spooned him and smelled the back of his neck. It felt amazing, but it also made me sad and conflicted.

The saddest part is that I don’t think I want to end up with a guy. I want to have a normal life without family drama, and besides, A already has a crush on someone (he told me).

So, what do you guys think? Am I bi? Or do I just like A’s scent so much that it’s messing with me? I’d appreciate your thoughts because I’m really confused.

Does that happen? I haven’t dated in years now because I’m just finding guys so boring. I’m still attracted to men, but apparently only visually these days.

Over the last several years, I’ve been almost immediately turned off by most gay men the moment we talk. But suddenly, after I gave myself “permission” to start looking at women as potential dates (because I’m convinced they’re more interesting people overall), I find myself actually having all these sexual fantasies about women… Like I hardly recognize myself. Could this real???

People keep mistaking me for gay which I normally don’t care about but it’s been happening a lot. In my head I’m not particularly feminine but I just saw a video of myself and I see how people might think that especially with my voice. How can I seem more masc?

So bi guy here, I have great luck with guys and have a shit ton of experience with them 1 on 1, threesomes to orgies etc. I have shit luck with chicks and haven't had se xwith a chick in several years.

I was having lunch with our sites security guard (straight) who I'm work mates and he mentioned his wife's now working nightshift and he's gonna be hosting for his chick fuckbuddies (he's in an open marriage as am I). I mentioned my shit luck with chicks and asked how he gets so many, anyway the conversation ended with him messaging one of them and organizing my place for Friday evening next week when I'm home alone.

So my question is, is how does a straight threesome work? Obviously no male male touching, but what's common? do I get a bj while he fucks and take turns fucking, or is it more common to one guy guys while the other watches/wanks and swap out or what? I've seen amateur pornhub of both

The guard seems chill as with me being bi, but in conversations he is specifically straight only.

And advice would be awesome

(I posted this in another sub and got some, but mostly not so helpful answers and I was too dumb to remember a sub like this existed lol) Also NSFW warning

This is probably going to sound really stupid and the answer might seem obvious to you (but it isn't for me), but I'm struggling to figure out what I really am. It's hard to explain, but I identify as a gay man, but I enjoy watching women in NSFW content. This has been an aspect of my life ever since I was in elementary school. I watched a lot of gay porn growing up (lesbian and straight porn too) but have only ever felt romantic and physical attraction towards men. I'm ftm, so before I came out, I identified as straight, but now as gay. However, I still watch lesbian and straight porn sometimes. I have no desire to be with a woman thought. I don't find them attractive outside of (and I know it sounds bad) breasts, butts, and vulvas. Sorry if this sounds like world vomit or like I'm repeating things, but it seem a lot of people don't believe me when I say I genuinely don't get turned on by women outside of the things I mentioned PLUS it being porn. This used to bother me for awhile since I wasn't attracted to women, but I got over it, then I got curious if other gay men did the same thing I did, I reached out, and they all made me feel even worse than before. I know for a lot of people porn is porn so it's enjoyable regardless of who you are, and I have seen a few niche forums online of other gay men who watch porn of women.... but I'm still not sure what to make of myself. One person suggested I could be homoflexible (and right now, I feel like that's the best description for me), but I think I can gain more insight from people here. Any help, please?

I have to realize a little late that a lot of people are on the spectrum at my big age, not a lot of people are pure gay or pure straight and since being straight is more convenient at times in terms of our current social climate people tend to identify as straight in the public (even though I totally think identifying with a sexuality is wrong) for convenience. But what are the signs that a supposed straight guy is on the spectrum, what are the different signs in your individual opinion, and this could be anyone, family, friend or random person in public, what are the qualities or actions you have found in others that made you think that an individual could be on the spectrum for bi, gay. Ofcourse I’m looking for subtly signs not obvious mannerisms that would make you think someone is gay or bi because I think we can all agree sexuality is deeper than that.

In my experience both in person and online chats I’ve noticed men been referring to their butthole as a “pussy”. I’m wondering why a good amount of them do? I’m fairly new to having sex btw . Like it kinda throws me off sometimes when in the moment. Like is their gonna call it something maybe say “bussy” , like that’s less strange. Or call it what it is . I just want to know why this is common to call your “ass” a “pussy”?

I can't stop fingering my asshole and I have been dreaming of it being played with either tough hands or fingered rough. I also imagine that I'm grabbed and spanked really hard.

So now I'm wondering where this urge is coming from, and it is decreasing my masculinity or not!

I met a guy in my gym and this is the first time I’ve actually felt attracted to a guy, I want to his cock down my throat. And I really don’t know how to bring it up to him. We spoke at the gym and I got rock hard and I’m pretty sure he noticed, and I think We flirted with each other a bit and I’m pretty sure he knows as well since we spoke in the sauna and I was hard. He’s asked more than once If I’m coming to the sauna since then. Any tips on how to escalate?

I feel he might be bi/ curious, I’m not sure how to escalate tho Suggestions?

This is probably a strange one but its been something that's been lingering on my mind ever since we've started dating. Not in a suspicious way, just curious tbh.

My boyfriend and I (female) have been together for six months, but I've known about his existence in the past. Girls were always interested in him but he mostly kept to himself and never went out anyone. We shared a class together years ago and I distinctly remembered him talking about him being bisexual. We've only gotten to actually know each other last year though. I was discussing our relationship with a friend of mine when we first started dating and he literally told me, "I always thought that he was just into dudes" because 1) no one really expected him to have a girlfriend despite being the handsome guy that he is, and 2) he was pretty open about his sexuality in the past.

I don't experience any insecurity about him being into guys. I'm bisexual and I made it pretty clear from the start of our relationship. But I have found it strange that he's never been open with me about his sexuality. I think he explicitly said that he is and always was straight. He doesn't know that I know this about him so I feel like it would be too odd to even bring up. Even if he's not into guys anymore, this simple curiosity and wanting to know more about him has puzzled me because of what happens next.

One day, I brought up the topic of the backdoor when we were discussing bedroom activities. He told me he had never really been into that kind of stuff and that's where he drew the line. Do formerly bisexual dudes draw the line with anal? it's a strong possibility when you date another dude right? I'm not sure what to think about him being like no butt stuff EVER >:(((( when i knew he probably wasn't against it only a while ago...I wanted to question him so hard in the moment because of what i remember about him.

So honestly typing this out gives me more questions that answers. Like when you're in a relationship, does knowing stuff like this matter or is it a topic that you're not supposed to approach? im his girlfriend and nobody necessarily has any right to that information but im unable to understand the way he approached this. i don't want to pry too hard or be disrespecting in any way. It's possible that he is insecure about his sexuality as a now straight guy but it just doesn't seem like him. i've considered many possibilities. i just don't know why he's super closed off about this.

anyways help a girl out - what if he never lets me in the back door????lol

How were got seduced into being with another man for the first time?

I’ve recently developed a really strong desire to fuck masculine grown men in their ass. Something about power play just makes me feel so horny to watch fully masculine man bent over in front of me with their legs open and hole exposed. The more manly, the better I wanna watch them submit to me face down ass up as I take charge and put them in their place. Men in suits, especially after a long day of work. I push their head down rip off their pants and overpower them, doggy style, dominate them dominate their hole and make them cum uncontrollably.

Need some advice, and can’t really talk to anyone else abt this.

I’m in college, and painfully awkward socially. Last semester, i joined a group to get out of my shell a bit. Ended up coming out as bi to the group pretty early on. Another guy did too. Helped me feel a bit more normal about all this. We both got along pretty well, confided how awkward we felt dating, all that stuff. When the semester finished, me and a few other group members traded numbers so we could hang out this semester, we all got along pretty well.

After I got back from break, decided to download grindr to kinda explore that side of myself discretely, town I’m in isnt exactly super friendly to lgbt stuff. Tapped this one guy, exchanged the basic ‘heys’ n stuff. Then got ghosted. Was looking at his pfp again, and I’m like 99% sure its the guy I met in therapy. Me, him, and some of the other guys are hanging out this weekend, and I’m not sure how to talk to him abt it, if I should at all. I’m also kinda mortified that he figured it out too, and he’ll confront me. Idk yall, what should I do?

Straight Friend teases me pt 2

So previously I written in this sub talking about my best friend whose I have fallen in love with. Now the catch is we are both guys and I am bicurious, I’ve had sexual feelings for other guys (not much) and for him but I’ve never had any romantic feelings for any males. Without mentioning that (homosexuality) is very taboo in both our cultures.

Now he has found out about the bicuriousness on accident which was my fault and ever since he did he has been teasing sexually; with lots of sex talk, lots of sensual touching and ect… But would stop if I reciprocated, I have also found out that he is on the spectrum for bicuriousness , which confused me even more cause I always dismissed his actions has regular straight banter but him knowing I’m bi and me knowing (he doesn’t know I know) about his bicuriosity changes things

He went on to tease me for close to a year while having his girlfriend but it was slowly killing me inside since I had developed feelings, I was playing along with his teasing tho. It became so unbearable that any talks of his gf, seeing his gf, being in the presence of him and his gf would destroy me mentally, I would literally shut down and pretend like they are not there. It’s been waiting on my cousious, like I want to be there for him as a friend but I can’t and I feel disgusting about it too.

Near the end because we did live together, because he would tease me so much I would lowkey believe that he liked me, maybe not love, but interested until he would ask me questions like “do you like girls or guys more” and the pretend like he never asked me or one time, he told me “ If a mutual friend would learn to find out that I was gay, he would cut me off”. That was the breaking point for me, I had felt so humiliated, like did he pretend to do all those things just to get info, was he making fun of me. What’s more confusing is that I felt like I still had romantic feelings for him..

In the end I ended quite literally running a way from the house and into another apartment, he knew I was leaving but I never gave him notice and ended up leaving without saying good bye. ( I wanted to at least say goodbye but he had his girlfriend over and we would of had dinner with his family and everything, the whole thing would of been too painful so left with letting anyone know, I know I’m an asshole but genuinely felt so much anxiety around it so much so I was running out with remaining bags.)

I’m seeing him again for basketball this week but I’m so over it, all of it. I want to still be his friend but the feeling of disgust and humiliation still lingers pretty badly, I feel played and used and I can’t even act like a normal dude cause part of me still likes him, I can’t stand his gf even though I know it’s my jealousy and I feel exposed almost like my secret is out (even I know his secret) but it doesn’t feel fair or great. I still have a couple stuff I need to go get at the house and I’ve been trying to dodge him all week. Also this is my first week out the house and I’m still thinking about him pretty often (not as much but still)

Is it your experience that men's anal canals are tighter? I do a lot of rectal exams in my job but far more men than women. The men seem tighter but I don't examine enough women to be sure. Make sense anatomically

33m here. My gf is 34 and openly bi. She couldn't be more accepting and honest about her sexuality and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be the least bit surprised if I told her I was bi. I'm not necessarily attracted to men, but I fantasize about cock literally every day (super cliche I know). I guess I'm just wondering how many of you first brought up to your partner that you're interested in the same sex. I wouldn't cheat on her, and I'm not a cuck, but I think it would be so hot to hook up with another bi couple. I usually get my fix by going to the gym and jerking off later to the thought of all the cock I've seen. I don't think my girl would be shook at all if I told her I want to suck a cock. As a matter of fact, I explained the different feeling of anal/vaginal sex to her last night and the fact that us men have more pleasure from anal typically. She knows that I've used toys on myself and she's open to using them in the bedroom as well. I just don't know how to bring up the fact that I'd like to drop to my knees and suck a cock and be used mercilessly by an alpha daddy type lol.

Any tips??

Been scroling around and fantasizing about swingers resorts/cruises or something. Last time we went to a resort we got SO kinky and I just think it would be so fucking hot if we included other partners.

I (17M) came out to a few people close to me back in November and I would like to explore some more feminine things that i couldn't do before, any ideas?