/r/Needafriend

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Are you looking for a new friend or a kind voice? This is a subreddit for people looking to make friends from all over the world. Come to post and talk, private message others, discuss and share in a supportive manner.

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  1. Be polite and respect each other.

  2. This sub is only for friendships. Visit /r/r4r for dating.

  3. Do not share any private contact information in public posts or comments. This includes Snapchat/Kik/Discord usernames!

  4. Chat groups (Discord, Telegram, etc.) are allowed to be advertised, but do not post the link publicly. Only share invite links by PM.

  5. If you are being harassed, message the mods ASAP with screenshots.

  6. Photos of yourself are allowed as long as they are safe for work. Do not ask or pressure other users for photos.

  7. Posting is limited to once every three days, any more posts than that will be removed by our bot.

  8. Do not catfish anyone.

  9. Do not ask for money or donations of any kind.

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M 21 - looking for friends

Hey there, I am 21. I m into movies and gaming as well. Living it up in a university hostel but missing that friend vibe as most of my friends have left the university because their studies were finished. If you're around my age (18-25)and into movies, series, PC games, and all things fun, let's connect! Let's cure the boredom together with interesting chats, game nights, and adventures. Drop me a message if you're also trying to be less lonely and looking for spending some good times!

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2024/05/06
08:18 UTC

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26M - Looking for someone to talk to and form a bond.

Hey! I’m 26M here from India. I’m here to meet someone new , talk to , if we hit it off then form a good bond. We can talk about life, share things, vent, or gossip about 🫢. We can text or if you are comfortable we can even talk over call via snapchat or discord and get to know each other well. About me - I’m 5’8, dusky, fit physique. Interest - Movies, listening to music, playing fifa are some of things that interest me Would really like to connect and know you more

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2024/05/06
08:13 UTC

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[13 f ] Pls Be my friend and I want to vc plsspls

hi I Love cats meoeowowow 🐈 add me onyl if u want to call !!!!😾 pls 😸

Dodoodododododododo

This is. A command 😾

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2024/05/06
08:06 UTC

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30m just a bored stay at home hubby

So I'm up all night and have no one to chat with and it gets really boring. Would just enjoy a chat friend to trade memes or just talk about whatever is on your mind or you can even vent or rant if ya need to. So hopefully I can make a night owl friend

1 Comment
2024/05/06
07:01 UTC

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20m looking for mysic buddy

I'm just looking for someone to make music with! Like a long distance proyect (I'm from Argentina) I like most music (really almost anything) but I'm more into rock and it's subgenres, also jazz and blues, huge fan. Edit: i don't care about gender or age, all that matters is that you have internet and a way to record music

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2024/05/06
06:39 UTC

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Looking for voice chats while working lonely

Good morning Europe and Africa , good afternoon Asia and Australia , good night America's Night Owls.
I am an artist looking for voice chats on discord while I am working.

So why voice chats? Because I am big fan of using my vocal cords, just like the good ol 90s before the invention of text, and I am an artist, So I prefer to keep my hand busy in making money not text all the time, and when you do art for long time it doesn't need much brain power, so I use rest of my brain in winning all the arguments I had with my exs 😭, overthinking about everything, listening to podcasts or talking to friends.

So I am looking for a LONG TERM friend who is available for voice chats more often. Someone can match my energy, giggly, talkative, and nice to people.

So when I am not cracking stupid jokes to make you laugh, I would be talking about anime, like we can throw recommendations at each other, video games, technology, history, food, cooking, politics or life in general or send music recommendations, memes, and stupid GIFs.

We can talk about our life stories and exchange some experiences and views in life, and even if we ran out of things to talk about I am good at making random questions, and we can go to Am I The Asshole subreddit and judge people together hahaha.

So if you kept reading this far you must felt interested haha, so what's stopping you from dmming me ? I am just a guy standing in front of thousand of online strangers asking them to be my friends 😆😆, so dm me and tell me you read my post to the end and tell me about yourself a bit PLEASE.

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2024/05/06
06:38 UTC

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35M Trying to find my fun and weird daily texting buddy !

Hello ! And thanks for opening my post lol. I honestly just want to write whatever is on my mind as I'm always just saying what I'm feeling so why not write it as well eh ?

I'm looking for a fun weird daily texting buddy! One who is open and honest and puts good effort into the conversation. The conversation doesn't have to be all normal and boring like TV shows or music stuff because I have definitely experienced it doesn't make any good connection. Let's talk about dreams and wishes and what you wanna do but can't do, how you really feel, what you want to be in real life but can't because you have responsibilities.

Just be yourself with me and be the 100% person you can't be in real life, I absolutely not care about what you think because each person is his/her own self so why not let them be ? Oh and please don't be shy or whatever because I would really want a more open person who doesn't judge instantly, I want us to create a judgement free zone for sure 😊.

So to sum it up, I want a fun weird open honest not judgmental, speak your mind, put good effort kind of friend and if that's you let's give it a try and see if we can make the most amazing friendship this community has ever seen !

Also I do prefer Snapchat so please if you have that let's snap ! It's more expressive to get to know each other that way 😁

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2024/05/06
06:36 UTC

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23M - Looking To Make Long Term Friends

Hello guys, I'm trying to find a long term friend with whom I can talk to daily and form a genuine emotional connection with. Someone who values companionship not just out of neccessity, but out of a shared desire for meaningful conversation. Something about me: I'm really great at conversing so I can talk to you for hours unless you give the most bland replies. I also love watching movies (especially horror) and playing video games. While I wouldn't say I'm the perfect friend, i do believe i put in my best effort into a friendship. So just try your best and we can see where we go from there 🙂 While I'm mostly a text person, I'm also open to voice calls down the line or instantly if that's something you're into. No pressure though, as I believe in letting friendships unfold naturally. If you decide to send me a message, please tell me a little about yourself in it 🙂 Looking forward to talking to you all!

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2024/05/06
06:26 UTC

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I'm very lonely and would like to talk.

Uhm. Sorry, I'm a bit nervous, and it's hard for me to type this out.

I've lost just aboout every person close to me as of late. I only have my parents left, but I don't really talk about my interests with them.

It's been happening for a while now. I keep losing friends, and I don't understand why. I do my best to understand, talk, be nice, and etc, but I keep losing everyone. I don't know if I'm getting unlucky or what, but I'm starting to believe it's my fault.

I'm 17M(18 in a few weeks, however), I have OCD and am likely autistic. I think my OCD is the reason why, but I can't tell if I'm just blaming my issues on that as a way to ignore working on myself or not.

I struggle with talking about my personal issues, so I may come off as distant or something.. I applogize if I do. I genuinely do try my best to be nice, caring, and open-minded, though.

If you'd like to talk, here are some things I'm interested in:

Touhou Music(very varied taste and such) Philosophy Anime A lot of different types of games(I've been really loving Honkai: Star Rail, uvu) Psychology Programming Art

Etc, eheh.

I'd really like to just make a friend.. I'm not interested in anything romantic or sexual, so please don't assume I want that stuff.

Please DM me if you're interested, I'd really appreciate it. I don't mind whatever age or gender you are.

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2024/05/06
06:22 UTC

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22M hiiiii, i’m corbin

some stuff about me real quick….

i’ve been getting into fashion more this past year

started listening to country, rock, and alternative music as of late

i’m bi 🏳️‍🌈

i’m wrapping up my first semester at uni, i’m majoring in CIT

stuff like museums, aquariums, art, books are my thing. i really love to learn

i live in new orleans, but i’m from new jersey and i plan on moving to new york sometime in the next few years

i have rarely met someone i couldn’t make friends with

i like to dance a lot in my free time. kpop & hip hop/contemporary

i want to have a career one day where i get to help a lot of people

but anyway, hmu ✨

1 Comment
2024/05/06
05:50 UTC

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[22/M] Looking for female friends to have conversations (long-term or short term)

I'm a 22-year-old guy from India looking to connect with women who share my interests. I love reading manga, watching anime, and getting lost in movies and series. Volleyball is my sport, and I'm currently studying computer science and engineering.

I enjoy listening to others and prefer talkative people. Whether you're up for a long-term friendship or just a short chat.

If you're into manga, anime, movies or series let's chat. Indians are especially welcome.

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2024/05/06
05:49 UTC

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16m looking for a friend, someone caring and understanding.

learned today someone close to me passed on, and its hitting me hard. ive got some friends but i just need someone in my life that i can give and recieve support from. it doesnt matter who you are, just dm me. I like video games and music, ask me anything too:)

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2024/05/06
05:46 UTC

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20M - #online- Looking for a nice connection

Hi everyone! Just joined this subreddit and eager to connect with like-minded individuals. In these unusual times, making new friends sounds like a great idea!
A bit about me: I'm from Cali and passionate about music, tattoos, basketball, true crime shows, movies, and gaming. You'll likely find me shooting hoops on the basketball court or indulging in the thrill of true crime documentaries while cozied up under a blanket. Also, a huge animal lover—tell me about your pets if you have any! Currently pursuing my dream of becoming a teacher.
I embrace individuals hailing from every corner and corner of the globe. If you're curious to learn more, feel free to hit me up! Can't wait to chat with you.

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2024/05/06
05:34 UTC

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[13f] really lonely and have no friends :/

I LOVE CATS I LOVE CATS I LOVE CATS I LOVE CATS I LOVE CATS I LOVE CATS

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2024/05/06
05:23 UTC

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19M in need if ideas for nails!

I want to get my nails painted soon but i have no idea what to choose. So please please please send me some suggestions for things that would look good!!

If you want to be friends, some of the things i like are: gorey horror movies, space and aliens🛸, ps5 videogames, kid cudi and my chemical romance, marvel, any animals(send me pet pics too pls), chainsaw man.

If we have a good conversation im down to be friends as well! Just ask for my disc

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2024/05/06
05:03 UTC

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14/F Whatever you’re doing stop doing it and message me!!

Hihi im Naomi and im really really bored and i need someone to talk to because im bored and it’s getting late. PLEASE PLEASE message me im so bored and I have no one to talk to 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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2024/05/06
04:35 UTC

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I have zero friends

I don’t have anyone to talk to or genuinely hang out with. I just wanna make friends that actually wanna talk or hang out. Im always the person left out, abandoned and just uncared for or tossed to the side like I don’t exist. I wish it was easy to make friends. If anyone is down I’d love to make new friendships, I’m 22.

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2024/05/06
04:34 UTC

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18M looking for friends that shares there day to day life and understand each other

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2024/05/06
04:24 UTC

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41/F/Canada. Looking for a new friend to chat with.

Hello! Looking to have some nice conversations with a new friend. No nsfw profiles. Just looking for sfw chats. If you’re looking to hook-up, date, or anything non-platonic, move on.

Now that we got all that out of the way….I like movies, TV shows, cooking, reading, nature walks, etc. Just a warning, my taste in things is rather alt but I’m open to talking about any sfw topic that interests you. Having a sense of humour is important - I don’t take myself too seriously and neither should you.

Some possible ice breakers - what’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t been able to do yet? This could be a bucket list thing or something as simple as trying a certain dish. What is your favourite genre to read? What’s your favourite movie or show?

If interested, please send a chat request and include your age, location, and basic interests. Thanks!

2 Comments
2024/05/06
04:22 UTC

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33m looking for friends. Shy and Introverts welcome

Hey 33m I love traveling, hiking, gaming, cars, American football, hockey, drinking, reading, movies (action, sci-fi, post apocalyptic), music (metal, rock, country, pop, j pop and more) and anime. I am open to talk about anything as I love hearing about new things. Age isn't a big deal to me. You can dm me directly for the quickest response. A big plus if you in Nevada or around Vegas.

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2024/05/06
04:00 UTC

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15f, lookingg forr friends

I am 15f, i really like jazz and indie music. i also enjoy reading....i wanna become a Med student so we can motivate each other for studying and also i am talking gcse, i am currently at year 10. I played many sports for instance ballet, swimming and gymnastics. I also wanna pursue a dream of knowing many languagess. i hopee i couldd findd a longg term friend which we may even becomee bsf loll. I am lookingg forr mostly girls and in between my age like from (14-17)

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2024/05/06
03:37 UTC

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23m need some female friends no less than 18 please

I'm sure there are some 16-18 yr old girls who would be good friends but I can't take the risk

I'm 23 love to go on hikes and work on my car. Unfortunately these 2 things only lead to me meeting male friends

I'm from Scotland if you want to know

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2024/05/06
03:36 UTC

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19M- Lookin for kind friends

Yo yo people. I'm 19, 6'3, and a gay guy. I'm lookin for genuine friendships under 30 years old. I like space, the ocean, and nature. I write stories and draw on paper, and play electric piano, but I'm not a professional on any of them :) I hope everyone has a wonderful day/night ! I also got a PS4, and I do got over 270 games :) PS UN is NinjaSniper1997

Feel free to dm me everyone :))

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2024/05/06
03:21 UTC

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18m I'm bored and want to meet people

So I just want to meet some new people who I can talk to. I like long term friendships and prefer people around my age. I'm a pretty big nerd so I play video games and watch TV shows a lot. I also like to workout and run a lot. I'm down for telling you more about myself so just dm me and we can see how it goes.

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2024/05/06
03:09 UTC

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Extrovert looking for introverts to adopt or looking for a best friend ? :D if you are an extrovert you can reach out as well :D or play CS2 together ? ^^

Hey you, are you an introvert who doesn’t usually talk to people despite wanting too? if you are in need of a socially social person to talk to and make friends hmu :D and if you play CS2 or any pc games we can def play together :D

I heard introverts don’t really make friends and just get adopted by an extrovert so let me be that guy in your life who saves you from unending loneliness and (hopefully) makes you happy by talking to you. My parents passed away so i try my best to not hurt each other and be there for them

All I ask for in return is that you put effort and actually try to talk to me, I know it can be difficult and I don’t care if you’re not good/not sure what to say, as long as you want to speak and try your hardest I’ll be proud of you(and I’ll also tell you I’m proud if you want me too :))

Anyways if that at all sounds interesting, please message me with a moment in your life you’re brain has just shut down and caused something good or bad to happen. Looking forward to meeting you all :)

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2024/05/06
03:07 UTC

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18M looking for someone to study!

I'm bored studying, well, "studying" Im doing a project and is animation so it takes lots of time so having someone to burn time with would be great, anyways about me, I study animation and game design, I play the guitar and do gymnastics!

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2024/05/06
03:00 UTC

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14m looking for friend

Hi, I'm from slovakia (EU). I'm enjoy physics and coding. Feel free to dm me if u are interested in being my friend

2 Comments
2024/05/06
02:58 UTC

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25 f USA longterm friendship

Hello. I’m just looking for a friend to talk with on discord. I’m into horror movies and games, so if your into that we could play something or watch a movie or even listen to some music. I’m really down for anything. Please be around my age and in a similar time zone.

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2024/05/06
02:42 UTC

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M20 looking awesome conversations

Hello everyone, I'm just looking for some people to chat with right now.

Here are some of my interests

Video games: I have many games but I mainly play rpgs especially Pokemon but I'm open to trying out different games too. The systems I have are PC, ps4 and switch.

Music: I mostly just listen to rock/metal most bands that I have listened to I found from a YouTube channel that puts these songs up.

Watching videos: Just YouTube videos, some YouTubers that I watch now are: Dougdoug Alpharad Jacksepticeye Markiplier

The last two are probably not a surprise.

I'm fine with talking to any gender and I don't really mind anyone's sexuality though please be 18 or older.

Also I just got myself a PS5 so that's a cool fact. :)

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2024/05/06
02:38 UTC

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F16, looking for long term online friends

Some things I like are animal crossing, Stardew valley, Minecraft, art, and music! Dm me

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2024/05/06
02:25 UTC

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