/r/Needafriend
Are you looking for a new friend or a kind voice? This is a subreddit for people looking to make friends from all over the world. Come to post and talk, private message others, discuss and share in a supportive manner.
Visit our IRC channel at http://mnfh.net
Please read the rules!
Be polite and respect each other.
This sub is only for friendships. Visit /r/r4r for dating.
Do not share any private contact information in public posts or comments. This includes Snapchat/Kik/Discord usernames!
Chat groups (Discord, Telegram, etc.) are allowed to be advertised, but do not post the link publicly. Only share invite links by PM.
If you are being harassed, message the mods ASAP with screenshots.
Photos of yourself are allowed as long as they are safe for work. Do not ask or pressure other users for photos.
Posting is limited to once every three days, any more posts than that will be removed by our bot.
Do not catfish anyone.
Do not ask for money or donations of any kind.
Do not advertise any external friend making or therapy sites or apps (chat groups are still okay!).
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About
The original creator of this subreddit was going through a very rough time in his life when he made it, but he still did his best daily to reach out to redditors and listen to their stories. Though he eventually found he needed to leave reddit to battle his demons, we will try our best to be here to listen to you.
You are always welcome to post and talk, private message others, discuss and share in a supportive manner!
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/r/playdate (gaming)
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/r/Needafriend
I wanted to talk to someone outside of my circle to gain a fresh perspective on things happening in my life. I’m looking for a real conversation with someone who values openness and honesty, just like I do. I want a genuine exchange—someone who is willing to share their thoughts openly, as I would.
Hey there 35f I just got back from a morning run and I’m bored, looking for new friends to entertain me. I like Music, TV Shows and reading books. Send ASL! Tell me what you do for fun.
Nothing deep, just consistent friend to share highlights/lowlights with. Quick good morning/goodnight texts, random thoughts throughout day. Into plants, cooking, and collecting stickers.
(Disclaimer: I had an account b4 so some may have probably spoken to me b4)
I'm 20 years old duhh! I'm a black girl with braids 💁🏾♀️ I love matcha and coffee (has to be iced with coconut milk or almond milk because I hate cow milk 🧍🏾♀️) I am born in the UK but live in France :) I love music, shopping, makeup and my favourite fruits are: strawberry, pineapple, apple and peach.
I also LOVE LEMON POUND CAKE 😩😩😩
I am 23M, recently broke up with my long distance GF. I am feeling lonely these days and want to fill this void in my life. I would love to connect with anyone. Tell me about yourself and we could just have a nice casual chat.
I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.
So fuck it, I'm done doing that. I'll be honest with you.
I'm a bit of a mess, lonely and desperate for attention and affection, I am extremely easy. I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I'd be happy to be your friend (literally, it would make me happier) and I'm also looking for more but I'm aware of the chances of that happening.
I want you to be the person I talk to all day, send random thoughts to, spam with dumb memes and videos I find
I don't care what age you are as long as you're at least 18, older younger than me makes no difference to me.
I'm from Europe, if that makes any difference to you.
I don't expect anything from you, I'm just asking for you to give me a real shot. I really do hope I haven't turned you away yet, but in case I didn't here's some of my hobbies:
Motorcycles, Formula 1, working out, gaming, I like cooking, I also have some pretty weird taste in music so feel free to ask me about that. Also feel free to dm me no matter how old this post is, I'm always wanting to talk to new people.
PS : If you're going to message me to give me your onlyfans don't bother
Really hoping to hear from you :)
Would anyone like to listen?
Hi , I am J , from India, I would love to make friendship with you , I want a long term and a friendship where we can talk about everything, we can meet too. My preference is if you are over 30.
Thank you, let's hit a message and make bond
I really struggle with loneliness. I have a lot of friends yet I don't feel like I have anyone I can talk to whenever and about anything. There's no one in my life rn that I feel extremely close to or comfortable with. I'd like to find someone I can sleep on call with, watch shows with, talk about life with. Someone who would want to spend as much time with me as I would with them.
Hey there, I’m 24F and looking for someone to talk to. Life’s been a bit overwhelming lately, and I feel like I need some real conversation and support. I don’t always feel comfortable opening up to people I know, so I thought I’d try reaching out here.
If you're someone who just wants to chat about life, share random thoughts, or even offer some advice, I’d love to hear from you. I’m just looking for a friendly connection – no judgment, just a space to be myself.
If you’re into deep chats or just casual conversation, let’s talk. Hoping to find someone who can relate or even just share a laugh.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
The gc is about chatting, having fun, making friends, and much much more!!!🥳 Everyone is welcome🫶🏼 no matter age/gender/nationality/religion/sexuality/etc.
Only rule is keep it sfw, I think i speak for everyone when i say we don't wanna see ur 1 inch pp🤮send me a message if u want to be part of the gc and i'll check on my dm when i can!!!!
(ALSO TRY UR BEST TO STAY ACTIVE!!!!!!👁️)
Hey I'm 24 living in France! I'm depressed and lonely most of the time so if like to make consistent friends online since I don't want to go out much. It's better if you're in Europe so there's no timeline issues
Hey, i am 34 physically disabled so that mostly housebound. Prefer 30-40 and someone who have at least a few post!! But give it a try if u have a lot of common with me.
These are things i am interested, or into, or spend time doing or thinking a lot
netflix, some k-pop stars, black female vocal jazz, general good music, reading novels, graphic novels or webtoon usually abt real life story, anything cute and looks good (not me), suicide(of my own in future maybe), writing, feelings, regret, self hatred, ocd, theraphy, meditation, isolation, animals, pain, fatigue, photography, light and shadow
I am not pretty or anything near, so dont expect any. Plz send a message with introduction of urself too. Thx
im just sad all the time so u won’t like me but I wanna meet someone here and talk to u everyday. no one really likes or cares about me in my life anyways 💀 so maybe someone online will.
I like pc games, sleeping, baking, cooking, reading, and anime. I’m the most boring person here 😭 so u can probably find someone better to talk to. If u do message me just know I won’t talk to anyone who supports trump in the US
Together, we will read good books - and we will take turns reading aloud as beautifully as we can. (Oh don't be nervous.) It will lift the words from the page into aliveness, and in turn, lifting the spirit. In that joint creation of life, we shall be joined as one mind, if only for that moment - or until we part. It's all in your hands. Or shall I say, voice?
What to read? One can never go wrong with anything Russian. What? Something lighter? German literature like Thomas Mann/Hermann Hesse will do. Something even lighter? American writers like Emerson/Thoreau. Something lighter still? Some entertaining English writers like du Maurier or Evelyn Waugh.
Can't think of anything? Then I will decide. Everything Flows by Vasily Grossman.
But as long as it is centred around the topics of wisdom, truth, and beauty, anything will do really.
But enough of that. It's time to once again reach my hand into the void and see what comes back stuck to it.
I call forth to you and find we are friends already.
I was homeschooled until i was18 years old. I had no other kids to grow up around, and was constantly at home. Rarly went out. It is the loneliest thing I've ever experienced.
Well hello there, I'm Linus from Sweden if you care about that, I'm simply looking for someone to talk to about whatever, I don't mind if it's long-term or short-term chats but I'm here if anyone needs me (lol) Either way, hit me up and we can get to know eachother
In my feels and could use a distraction right now. Anyone up for a vc?
Hi I’m a lowkey mf, I just be getting to the point and shit and like whatnot and be getting high and vape and shit ig ik you know. I fr just be don’t doing that tho I eat ice cream and do hella gas shit like taxes or something. I like rock music, I also like girls. I also don’t like much else other than, friendship. I love things so much like that. In a digital wAy. I’m yapping so why aren’t u helping us by just message.
I got 3 hours. Not sure if there will be anymore before sun up. 38F.
Someone please come distract me from myself and have a conversation about literally anything I beg you. I don’t really care who I chat with just please be 18+. We can talk about anything, if you need to get something off your chest I can listen if you need advise I can give some it doesn’t matter to me. I hope to hear from someone!
Heyo, I’m 24M and live in Seattle. As the title says, I’m super bored, and I’m down to talk about anything.
Hey everyone! I’m looking to connect with someone to chat, share stories, and enjoy some good conversation. I recently graduated and am now working as a software engineer intern. I love movies and have recently started watching anime. I’m also into gaming and tech, and I enjoy exploring new ideas. If you’re looking for a friend to talk about hobbies, movies, anime, or anything else, feel free to DM me. Looking forward to meeting someone new! 😊
Feeling a bit down and would love to chat with someone, hoping to skip all the usual small talk about jobs/traveling, whatever it is. I enjoy a few things like music production, video games, philosophy, weed, cooking, horror/sci fi films but don't really do much outside of that and work. Will probably just spend my weekend rotting away at home again.
Hey everybody 👋how you all doing? I’m a 32 year old guy from York, England who suffers with social anxiety which is marvellous for when trying to make friends 👍 I always found it difficult to make friends and have done for many years whether that’s due to my social anxiety or my humour or I’m just not everyone’s cup of tea, which is absolutely fine, so thought I’d try here and see how it goes. I will be honest, I am the absolute worst at asking questions when learning about someone which isn’t intentional, I’m just not very good at thinking on the spot. Never have been, probably never will be but I do try, it’s just not my strongest point.
I’m an incredibly laid back guy, love a bit of sarcasm and some daft or strange humour. I won’t judge you if you go quiet for a few hours, we all have a life away from Reddit or whatever so might not always want to be on your phone or computer or whatever. I’m not a judgemental person, I accept everyone for who they are. I also don’t drink alcohol so not really a night out kinda guy unless it’s to the cinema or bowling, very much a homebody.
I enjoy gaming on Xbox series x and ps5 (mostly this atm), mostly play single player games, im a bit of a football fan supporting my home team York City fc as well as Manchester United (yes they’re currently shite I know haha), love horror movies though not really huge on the gory ones, listen to a lot of metal music with the odd random genre thrown in, learning to play drums and photography aka taking pictures on my phone…..I ain’t that good haha. Ps you don’t have to have the same interests, always happy to learn about other peoples hobbies or passions. I also work night shifts 4 nights a week so guess could call me a night owl?
That’s enough about me, nothing too exciting but hopefully not too boring, but if all that sounds intriguing to you then do feel free to message :) my inbox is open to anyone :)
Hope to hear from you all soon!
Hey all, I'm just looking to meet some new people and see where things go. I'm a professional writer and enjoy it very much. Some of my favorite hobbies are reading, writing, love horror of any medium, manga/anime, love older videogames and collect them (still play some newer games as well), and being outdoors (hiking, biking, general exercise).
I'm down to talk about whatever, happy to give some advice if you're just looking for a different perspective on a situation, just talk about nothing, or get deep on what makes us tick. Nothing is off the table, so feel free to hmu with whatever you're looking for.
Hey there! Let me introduce myself: I'm an exceptional listener and an enthusiastic cookie connoisseur. If you're cool with me devouring cookies like the Cookie Monster, then we'll hit it off just fine. I'm all about having a good time and embracing adventure! Traveling is my passion, along with immersing myself in diverse cultures and indulging in their cuisines. So, if you're feeling a bit bored and in need of a pal, let's brainstorm some unique handshakes!
Here's a bit more about me:
-I'm a tech-savvy, sarcastic nerd.
-My taste in music varies depending on my mood. Feeling ambitious? It's rap/hip-hop time. Otherwise, EDM, jazz, oldies, blues, and pop hit the spot.
-When it comes to video games, you'll find me diving into Warzone, Valorant, GTA, Rust, and CS:GO. Beware though, I may shed a tear or two when those 12-year-olds start bullying me.
-Food is my love language. Cake, cookies, ice cream, pizza... basically anything that isn't a green vegetable (yuck!). And tattoos? Count me in—I'm inked up myself!-As for sports, I'm a fan of basketball, baseball, and football. Although, I have a knack for getting hit in the... well, you know where, quite frequently with those balls.
Next month is my father's death anniversary. Everything feels empty already. I feel like theres a void surrounding me whenever i am not busy. Though i love to read or watch dramas, i just feel like a human presence would be better for me.i got a friend from this sub during covid, she is very busy with her life now.
Hello everyone! I am a 22-year-old guy from India who recently graduated with a degree in Computer Science. Currently, I am preparing for job interviews, and I thought it would be great to connect with someone who shares similar interests. I love watching movies and series, and I am always up for a good recommendation! Coding is another passion of mine, so if you are into that too, we could definitely share some tips and projects. I also enjoy playing volleyball, which is a fun way to stay active. If you are interested in coding, movies, or just want to chat and be friends, feel free to reach out! Looking forward to meeting some cool people. Have a great day!
Hey thank you for paying attention to my post.
My interests are: Space, Science, fitness, Music (I sing and play guitar), dogs (I have a dog), I love sports (table tennis), Horror stories
You can introduce yourself and we can start connecting