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Are you looking for a new friend or a kind voice? This is a subreddit for people looking to make friends from all over the world. Come to post and talk, private message others, discuss and share in a supportive manner.

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18m looking for some long term friends

I'm looking for some friends, I don't really have any preferences.

Okay some things I like, I love philosophy, Computer sciene, gaming, drawing and exercising. My favorite tv shows are: House, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Hunter x Hunter and JoJo's Bizarre Adventures. Some of my favorite games are Dark Souls 1, Nioh, FF14, World Of Warcraft, Borderladns 2, Witcher 3 and basically all the Elder Scrolls and Fallout games.

Hmu if you wanna chat

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2024/05/05
14:38 UTC

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hiiiii i’m f14 and i struggle making friends

i am 14 and i feel like a loser compared to other girls my age. i’m autistic, and i prefer to stay inside doing my own things, and i’m bad at social stuff. even though i prefer to stay inside, i still wish i had friends because i feel so lonely :(

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2024/05/05
14:38 UTC

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The state of Rio Grande do Sul in Brazil is currently facing its worst flooding crisis since 1941

Urgent Appeal: Help Victims of Historic Flooding in Rio Grande do Sul, Brazil! 🚨

Dear Friends,

As you may be aware, the state of Rio Grande do Sul in Brazil is currently facing its worst flooding crisis since 1941. Thousands of families have been displaced, homes destroyed, and livelihoods shattered. In this time of dire need, we're reaching out to you for your support.

Thanks to the incredible generosity of donors like you, we have already raised over $2 million dollars to aid those affected by this devastating natural disaster. Every dollar counts and makes a tangible difference in providing essential relief and support to those who have lost everything.

We are grateful to have the support of several influential figures who have joined our cause, lending their voices and resources to help raise awareness and funds for the victims. You can find links to their profiles below, where they share their support for our relief efforts:

Your donation, no matter how big or small, will directly contribute to providing emergency supplies, shelter, food, and medical assistance to those in need. Together, we can make a significant impact and help rebuild the lives of those affected by this tragedy.

Please donate generously and share this appeal with your friends, family, and networks. Let's stand in solidarity with the people of Rio Grande do Sul during this challenging time and show them that they are not alone.

Thank you for your compassion and support.

Sincerely,

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Donate Now: https://www.vakinha.com.br/vaquinha/a-maior-campanha-solidaria-do-rs?utm\_internal\_source=home\_most\_loved

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2024/05/05
14:17 UTC

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54m

Oregon rain has me gloomy, would like to chat with a lady from oregon Sorry I just connect with women better than men. Any age can message just like to chat

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2024/05/05
14:16 UTC

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27M - Serbia - Any fellow vegans, atheists, antinatalists, metalheads, anarchists here?

Though you don't have to be any. :D
Few things about me: I'm into pure mathematics, linguistics/languages/history of languages, powerlifting, programming, guitar/music theory, camping, running. I often pick up a new interest every few weeks until I got bored and move to something else. :D

I enjoy horror, psychological thriller, and mystery movies. I'm a metalhead and hardcore(deathcore, grindcore, atmospheric black metal...), but I do enjoy all kinds of other variety of music: acoustic, ambient, epic orchestral music, pop-punk etc.

If you think we have something in common, feel free to DM me. Have a great day/night!

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2024/05/05
14:14 UTC

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20M looking for some real friendships

Hey, I'm 20 without any real friendships right now. I moved away for uni, and I'm moving away again next year. I don't really know anyone and I'm always stuck studying in my room so I'd really like to make some new friends that I could talk with.

I'm a good listener and I don't prefer to talk too much about myself. I really like to be in nature and to read.

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2024/05/05
14:10 UTC

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28M - Looking to make long-term chat buddies

Im looking to make long term chat buddies to hopefully make friends with online. It's always nice to connect with people from all across the world and learn about each other and our different cultures and countries.

I have a wide variety of interests ranging from sports and fitness, movies and tv shows, anime and video games to travelling and food.

Ideally this would be a long term friendship so I'm looking for the type of people who don't ghost people needlessly.

Im from London, UK so my timezone is BST.

If you feel like we'll get along, feel free to hmu in chat :)

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2024/05/05
13:51 UTC

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32M - I’m looking for long term chat friends

I’m looking for long term friends to chat with throughout the day, especially during down times at work, I WFH in between projects so I’m usually available. Sorry for the boring post, I’m better one on one 😁 Feel free to send me a 💬 as long as this post is up.

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2024/05/05
13:45 UTC

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21 [F4A] #online - Feeling lonely so wanna voice call?

Heyoooo, so I have been going through something and I figured that I have also been feeling really lonely. Looking for anyone with a nice voice (I don't mind the accent as long as it isn't too thick that I can't understand you) Hoping for someone who wouldn't mind talking a lot because I get a little shy during first vc. I promise you that I will warm up eventually and yap as well. We can also start out with texts first until both of us get comfy ^~^

Lemme talk a little about myself so that you know what to expect. I'm sarcastic, make random dumb jokes (sometimes brainrot) at times, honest and playfully mean at times. People had said that they like my voice before so idk it is up for you to judge yourself. I'm from an SEA country but I'm open for anyone around the world since my sleep schedule is a mess! Obviously I'm Asian and I know pretty much a lot of basic level languages (Dutch, Danish, German, French, Spanish and etc) I like learning new languages and flexing it. I love watching movies and TV series (Modern family, Brooklyn 99 and The office US) I'm also a pc gamer with not a lot of games if I'm being honest so I'm willing to try out new games!!

Interests are psychology, history (such as how stuff got invented and made), cooking, baking, massive animal lover (pls send pet pics tysm), listening to music 24/7 (fav genres like core core, indie, rap, hyperpop, metal, r&B and etc) and taking night walks.

Feel free to send face reveal if you want (Not important tho, only if you are comfortable) and I will send one back to get it out of the way!!

I don't wanna spoil too much so that we would actually have something to talk about during vc so send me a 🦭 if ya wanna dm me!! Oh also, please be around my age and no bad weirdos :D once we click, we can change platforms!!

p/s - Don't be dry or have shitty intro (like just sending "hi" or "hey", I won't reply) tysm!! Try to be creative too <3

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2024/05/05
13:45 UTC

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15m Need to talk to some cool people

I’ve been a bit down the past few days, and I need to talk to someone who is kind and understands. I like birds and voice chatting and loads of other things, so feel free to dm if that sounds interesting!

Don’t ever change

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2024/05/05
13:35 UTC

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F21 , casually wasting this sunday.

good afternoon, or morning/evening on your side of the world. i'm seeking conversations for the day, so please keep messages respectful and non-sexual, ty. c: not responding to nsfw profiles btw! i prefer talking to europeans for time purposes, but idc where you're from! just be a decent conversationalist.

i like cats, bunnies and pretty moths.. name any cute animal, i will definitely like them. if you have plushies, or dolls, do send. .

feel free to send me music recommendations too if you have those. i'll listen to anything as long as it's not pop music or edm. tip: i prefer heavier genres. also!! if i send music, you have to listen to it entirely - i don't like when people skip what i recommend... though i'll make an exception if your ears bleed.

i promise i can maintain a conversation if you're interesting enough. no one-sided conversations, please. and please be around my age, too. thaaaank youu!

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2024/05/05
13:32 UTC

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21M/Brazil—a bit down and slightly autistic

Hello! My professors are on a strike, my birthday is coming closer, and I must confess that I am slightly depressed; suddenly, I feel like seeing things from outside again, and I feel like they are finally going to caught me for being an impostor. Not that I am an impostor, but it feels like it. Anyways. I am X-X-X-X-X. Interested in history, poetry, literature, social thought, tv shows, and music. I listened to 27 hours of Piazzolla this month according to Spotify. I like Port wine, cheese, and dislike bad things.

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2024/05/05
13:22 UTC

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Assalamu alaykum! I'm a 22-year-old Muslim guy from NYC looking to connect with other Muslims

Hey there! 22 y/o Muslim med student from NYC looking to connect with other Muslim students. Balancing studies and life can be tough, so down to chat about anything - faith, school, or catching a game (soccer, archery, badminton, basketball - I'm open to anything!)

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2024/05/05
13:18 UTC

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21M looking to get to know someone mature (chat)

Hey, I'm looking for people to get to know

I like to chat about almost any topic, but sometimes chats are progressing too fast. Let's get to know each other first

Some of my own interests are:

  • Fashion
  • Music
  • Cooking
  • Sports

Send me a DM and we'll see where things go from there

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2024/05/05
13:05 UTC

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19M is looking for a friendship.

Hi, I'm 19m and I live in Poland. I'm looking for a long-term, genuine friendship, hopefully with daily talking. In the past I had some luck with meeting people here so I believe that it is still possible to find a friend here

I'm studying geography in the University

I like watching movies, especially the one with a sad story or related to real events (as I'm a little bit into history). Some of my favourite movies are Star Wars, Jurassic Park, Room (I also want to read the book), A Star Is Born, Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Life Is Beautiful and Schidnler's List but there are a lot of other titles I enjoyed

I like travelling, learning about other countries and cultures. In fact, it is the main reason why I decided to study geography. There are many different places I'm interested in but Australia is always on the top of my list

I like football (the one from Europe) but I only watch it. Manchester United is the team I like the most, although I follow some other teams as well.

My favourite music is Adele, I can say that I'm somehow in love with her. Except her I also like A Star Is Born songs. Although I'm always open to check your recommendations

I'm trying to come back to collecting Lego

I'm looking for someone who is around my age (18+ please) and preferably shares some interests with me. That's not necessary but should help us in building the connection. In your message please, put effort, include 🐼 and introduce yourself. Effortless message will be ignored

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2024/05/05
13:01 UTC

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26 [M4M] US looking for a best bro

Howdy! 26m from east coast, gay, partnered, wfh professional, into horror movies, hiking, going to the gym, tattoos, etc.

Looking for a best friend, someone to be best buds with. I’ve been in much need of a close buddy that that I can be vulnerable with, share our day-to-day lives and talk to everyday - ya know, a bromance. Enjoy voice calls too if you’re down.

Please be in the US! I’m also down to share face pic.

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2024/05/05
12:57 UTC

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14, looking for people to chat with and pass the time with! Anyone welcome!

Please keep me company we can talk about whatever as long as the convo moves. Age and gender don’t matter just be open minded and accepting of others and we good!

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2024/05/05
12:43 UTC

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M 25. Hey, how you doing? lets be friends!

Nothing on my mind and no idea for what I can do so just make me less bored. I’m up for anything, ask me whatever or play a game, or have some topic to talk about, just dont make it boring. Jokes and just being silly is fun too. Go introduce yourself!

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2024/05/05
12:37 UTC

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49 m uk seeking friends

49 m uk 6ft med build shaved hair brown eyes,looking for genuine new friends in the uk(No Under 25s sorry) my interests are ps5,rock music,horror films,meals out and holidays. I consider myself as caring sensitive and wear my heart on my sleeve person if you like what you hear please feel free to message me Thanks 🙃

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2024/05/05
12:36 UTC

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friend fix iml I’ve ever been my

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2024/05/05
12:29 UTC

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28 M - YO!

Well well well, what mood are you in today? Friend-making one? Hm, then are you possibly into silly chats that inadvertently segue into deepest philosophical talks? Possibly into watching horror or any sort of stuff together? Into buddying up and learning stuff together? You like porridge and existential crisis? Then probably you should consider sending me a DM telling me any random story about how things once went weird with you and what you learnt from that and we could go from there :) Or just say 'hi' (any 'hi'-derivative works as well)

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2024/05/05
12:26 UTC

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[19F] drunk at family reunion for Easter,please don't bore me to death

title kinda says it all,I'm bored asf at this little fam reunion that I HAD to attend. Cousins are bitches,they're literally stalking my accounts as I'm sitting 3 meters away from them(embarrassing much lmao) so there's no one really to talk to as I have to survive several hours here:pp

if you must know more about me I game a lot when I'm fixated,I write shitty poetry and do all sorts of art and read a bunch of books. currently I'm watching "You" and "The rookie" if any of this matters. Professional bed rot-er,I take a bunch of naps bc hell I can't survive this shitty life.

just so yk,I will not answer any boring texts,I'd rather just suffer here than have a conversation drier than the Sahara,which says a lot. Also,18-23,thank yew.

anyways,happy Easter to the ones that celebrate and have an amazing day:))

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2024/05/05
12:17 UTC

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Looking for female friend (17m)

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2024/05/05
11:54 UTC

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30m - Whiskey and Coffee Now….

I posted yesterday about whiskey and burger dinner, why not keep it rolling with whiskey and coffee!?!?

After last night, now this morning I’m sitting on the patio outside, whiskey and coffee in hand, and the only noise I hear is the woods in my backyard waking up for the day…. PEACE

I also love sports, I flip houses, busy life, out going, down for anything.

Let’s chat!

2 Comments
2024/05/05
11:52 UTC

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21F- looking for a chat and friends maybe

Hey everyone, I'm Gwen, a 21-year-old French trans gal, here to mingle and break out of my shell! 🌟

I'll be real with you—I've been feeling a bit off lately, dealing with some personal stuff. Money's been tight(im in the red sadly), and social anxiety's been giving me a run for my money. Plus, I'm kind of at a crossroads with my transition, not sure which way to go.

But hey, despite all that, I'm still here and eager to connect! 😅 If I miss your message, don't hesitate to give me a nudge—I'm cool with it!

When I'm not binge-watching shows like Mr. Robot or Doctor Who or getting lost in gaming worlds like The Last of Us and God of War, I used to be all about nature and photography until I misplaced my camera. But hey, I'm always down for appreciating art in any form!

Hey, fashionistas! I'm on the lookout for some style-savvy buds to swap fashion tips and maybe even share skincare or makeup routines. As a pre-HRT trans girl, I love dreaming up outfits and expressing myself through fashion, even if I'm still building up the courage to rock feminine clothes. But hey, we've all gotta start somewhere, right? I'm super excited to learn and experiment with my style, so let's dive into this together! 💁‍♀️ Whether it's chatting about outfits, beauty hacks, or whatever floats your boat, I'm all ears! 💄

If you're up for a laid-back chat and maybe offering some support, just shoot me a message. And to all my fellow trans pals out there, I'm especially stoked to connect and share experiences with you. Let's kick it!

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2024/05/05
11:49 UTC

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M24 looking for someone to chat with. Im open for all topics.

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2024/05/05
11:20 UTC

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29m looking for someone to chat

Not looking for drama, only looking for friends and some chats, so something platonic. Anyone are welcome, weirdos included, but keep your junk in your pants cause im only talking about good type of weirdos. Oh and you can ghost me if you dont feel the connection, you're not gonna hurt my feelings.

3 Comments
2024/05/05
11:10 UTC

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15 M Im look the description!!

A brief description about me:

My name is Cristian, I like to play video games (Overwatch, Valorant, Roblox, Brawlhalla), I love to draw, I like to cook, sleep and eat, I am starting to diet and exercise since I am overweight, I also love anime and the mangas (I'm quite a geek 🤓) and I live in Spain but I'm from Uruguay (apart from English I speak Spanish, Italian, and a little French)

What I'm looking for:

I don't care if you are a woman or a man, I just want someone with whom I can share tastes and be able to play with him/her, I don't care about age either and you can ask me anything about me, I will always answer.

2 Comments
2024/05/05
11:10 UTC

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19M Polish Looking for friends

Hey im Jakub, im a 19 year old guy from Poland. Im hetero, i have dark brown hair, blue eyes and im 169cm tall. Im a pretty calm and quite negative person so ye lol. Also im tolerant.

When it comes to my interests i enjoy playing video games. Mainly strategy games like eu 4 or hoi 4 but recently i started playing Warhammer 40k Darktide oh and also Minecraft from time to time. Reading books and listening to music is something i enjoy too. Oh and i watched quite a few movies and shows so ye, mainly star wars lol but also breaking bad, better call saul, the Walking dead and many more. I guess you could call me a nerd.

Anyway uf you're interested in talking then hmu. Also please write something about yourself and be 17-20, thanks!

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2024/05/05
10:59 UTC

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Leaving boyfriend

Wanting to leave my boyfriend, just want some friends I can vent too haha F 26

6 Comments
2024/05/05
10:56 UTC

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