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Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.

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25 [M4F] #Italy/online - looking for friends/more

Hey, how’s it going?
I’m a chill guy looking to make new friends, and if the vibes are right, maybe something more—but that’s totally not a requirement. I’m based in Italy, I’m trilingual, and I enjoy playing video games, creating digital art (Photoshop/Illustrator), reading, watching movies/series, or really any form of storytelling. I’m a total sucker for good stories!

My dream is to become an established author, and right now, I’m working on my first project—a dramatic romance.

I work in IT and Marketing on the medical side, which keeps me busy but also motivated since it’s for a good cause.

I used to swim for a few years, but I recently moved to a new city for work and haven’t gotten back into it yet.

As for languages, I speak Italian (my first language) and English (my second) mainly.

I’m mostly looking to connect with new friends since I’m an introvert in real life and still getting the hang of Reddit. I’d love to chat with like-minded people who are open, friendly, and like to keep conversations flowing! Distance isn’t an issue for me—online chats work perfectly fine.

That said, I’d really prefer if, after a while, we could include voice messages or voice calls instead of just text, as I enjoy a bit more human connection. If that’s not your thing, no worries—just let me know!

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2024/11/28
10:54 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Europe #Anywhere - A Tale of Two Adventurers: Looking for the Next Chapter’s Muse

A Future Written in Sunsets and Porch Swing Stories

Imagine this: it’s the summer of 2054. We’re on the porch of a cozy house—one of those timeless places where the steps creak like old memories and the swing hums softly in the evening breeze. The sky is a canvas of gold and fire, and we’re there, painting it with laughter and shared stories. The kind of tales that weave themselves into your soul: travels that shaped us, mishaps that made us laugh, and quiet moments where no words were needed—just the warmth of each other’s company.

It’s not about grand adventures every day, but about finding magic in the ordinary—the way the sunset turns the edges of the world golden or how a shared silence can feel louder than words. Now, I’m here searching for the co-author of this future. Could it be you?

A Little About Me

I’m a contradiction wrapped in curiosity. A writer of thoughts, a collector of sunsets, and a seeker of those fleeting moments that remind us how beautiful the world can be. Quiet at first, but if you’re patient, you’ll find someone who speaks in passions and listens like it’s the most important thing they could ever do.

Right now, I’m looking for a friendship that feels like the first chapter of a well-worn book—something natural, unforced, where we build a connection page by page. I believe the best stories begin with a spark of understanding, and maybe, just maybe, they grow into something more.

Here’s what makes my story unique:
🎵 Music as a Muse: A future vinyl collector searching for a space, a lover of playlists that take you on a journey, and songs that feel like a warm hug. Music has a unique way of connecting moments, and I love finding the perfect soundtrack for every memory. Got a favorite song? Share it—I’m always ready to discover melodies that move you.
🌍 Adventure in My Veins: Whether it’s chasing the perfect golden-hour light, wandering through unfamiliar streets, or hiking trails that lead to breathtaking views, I’m all about exploring the world—both near and far. Life’s too short not to follow the whispers of adventure.
📚 Wordsmith at Heart: Writing is my way of capturing the fleeting and the unforgettable. I love playing with words until they reflect the emotions I can’t quite say aloud. And recently, I’ve been dabbling in photography—turning moments into memories through a lens.
🕹️ Low-Key Gamer: When the world feels too loud, there’s something comforting about a quiet night in with a good game or a classic movie marathon.

What I’m Looking For

I’m searching for someone who’s as curious about the world as I am—a woman who is kind at heart, sharp of mind, and carries a quiet strength that makes you want to know every story behind her smile. Someone who’s not just eager to explore the world around us but also willing to dive into the uncharted territory of creating a world together.

A partner in curiosity, someone who loves sharing dreams and building them into something real. Whether it’s small projects, grand adventures, or simply learning to navigate life’s challenges side by side, I want to create something unique with you—a shared journey filled with meaning, discovery, and connection.

What Sets Me Apart

I see life as a tapestry of little details: the way sunlight dances on leaves, the rhythm of rain on a quiet afternoon, or the poetry of a shared moment that feels too good to end. I’ll notice the way your eyes light up when you talk about something you love, and I’ll make a mental note of your favorite coffee order—not because I have to, but because I want to.

Loyalty is my cornerstone. I’ll show up, not just in the big moments, but in the small ones too—the random text when I know you’re having a rough day, the laughter when you need a distraction, or simply being there when you feel like the world isn’t. The best stories aren’t about grand gestures; they’re about the quiet consistency of someone who’s truly there for you.

I’m also a romantic—not in the cliché way, but in the way that makes you feel seen. Sweet gestures, thoughtful words, and a knack for making everyday moments feel special. I’m the kind of person who’ll leave you a note in your favorite book, point out constellations during a midnight drive, or turn a casual Sunday into something unforgettable.

And when it comes to connection, I value honesty above all. If something’s on your mind, I’ll always want to hear it. Because real stories—the ones worth telling—are built on truth, not games.

What About You?

Are you the kind of person who finds beauty in the cracks of everyday life? Who laughs easily, dreams deeply, and values honesty like a rare gem? Maybe you’re someone who savors both the quiet moments and the spontaneous ones—a cozy evening in or a bold adventure out.

Let’s start as friends, as kindred spirits who share an appreciation for the world’s quirks and wonders. Maybe we’ll swap stories, exchange playlists, or even embark on an adventure or two. And if the story decides to write itself into something more, we’ll let it—after all, the best tales often begin with an unexpected chapter.

If this resonates, let’s start the first line of what could be an unforgettable story. One filled with porch swings, golden sunsets, and the kind of connection that makes you believe in the magic of “what if.” Let’s see where the words take us.

(marked as NSFW because we are adults)

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2024/11/28
10:44 UTC

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42[m4f] #Online/UK.. i woke up this morning to see your side of the bed still untouched.

Good Morning from the UK.

Liiving in my own space has been amazing, am getting used to the quiet now but feels like something is still missing and i think i would like to change that with chats about your day and cuddles

I am a 42yo guy who is in the middle of a divorce at this moment in time still feels lost and a little lonely but i am learning to live on my own and rebuild my confidence in myself

I would like to find new female friends to chat with and share this space with me and help me move on with life.

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2024/11/28
10:41 UTC

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20[F4M]Europe/online Genuinely weird person looking for an undefined kind of partner

Hey everyone I’m 20f and my name is Carlie (not Charlie). I’m looking for someone to talk to regularly and get to know here. I currently work and study a compsci related thing, I like playing games sometimes but I’m more into books and movies. I’m hoping to find someone who is nice and professionally nerdy too. I hope you’re introverted so I can watch you play games (I don’t really play multiplayer games). If there’s something else your passionate about me pls tell me about it if it’s not marvel (don’t respond in that case it gives me an ick). I’m generally nice and conflict free but I can be a bit shy or awkward but at the same time I’m very direct too which can be a bit awkward as well for others so please be open for that. I’m also down for some nsfw things but only if you’re interested in other things too. Id like to do some odd stuff like you screenshare what you’re browsing or I can watch you do it too but I don’t want to send photos early on. In any case pls introduce yourself a bit and only message me if you have disc. If you don’t usually respond to posts like this please feel encouraged to, I’m happy to answer any questions and listen to how you feel about things and what you’re looking for or I can help you find someone else too.

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2024/11/28
10:31 UTC

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25 [ F4M] Africa/Anywhere/Online - Black girl looking for a Masculine BF

SINGLE AND SERIOUS PEOPLE ONLY!!

Hellooooo there , thanks for stopping by. I'm 25 from Africa, work as a translator for a Chinese company and I love my job.

Outside of work you'll find me learning languages, watching Shows, taking walks, playing boardgames, listening to music, archery games and horse riding and learning new things in general.

I’m looking for someone with genuine intentions. Someone I can bring pure happiness and spontaneous excitement to, and someone who can do the same for me. I like men that I can learn from, that are kind, generous, respectful, natural problem solvers, and know how to treat a woman. I'm a giver with my emotions and affection as a woman should be and taken care of by a true masculine man. I'm a loving woman,I love being held by a strong man knowing that I’m protected and safe. I want someone I can give my all to without having to hold back because he does the same for me.

I have no kids of my own but open to have in the future.

If I sound like your ideal type of woman, don't be shy to reach out to me and please include your selfie. I'll do the same as we all know that physical attraction plays a huge role too.

GMT+2

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2024/11/28
10:30 UTC

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29 [M4F/MF] - Newcastle Australia / Online - A Kinky Virgin looking for a FWB or online

Hey,

I am a 29 male from Newcastle, I am a software developer, and I am definetly more of a nerd; games, space, tech, programming, scifi, binge watching tv shows, you name it, if its nerdy I would probably be down for it or to learn!

I am looking for something more ongoing like a friends with benefits rather then a one off meet. While this is a preference, I would still consider a one off meet, if you are not looking for something ongoing.

I would also be open to long term play with a couple if you are looking for a third.

I am also down for an online friend to talk to both normally and sexually with.

I am fairly hung, skinny and into the idea of kink and exploring mine and others interests. Wouldn't mind making my first time a kinky time.

If you would like to talk and get to know me, send me a chat, I am down to talk and see how it goes between us! Send me a chat and tell me a bit about you and what you are after!

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2024/11/28
10:29 UTC

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18 [M4M] #Seattle - CNC a virgin butt like you hate it

I am a fit young asshole that needs to be roughly forced open and taken roughly. I want you to come and pin me down while I cry and squirm as you fuck my ass mercilessly and pump me full of cum. I am 6 1 and would like to remain anoymous at first but if you have a massive dick send it to me and you might just be the one to stretch me out.

Limits: Blood, scat, piss, anything perminant

Likes: SPANK ME HARD AND A LOT LIKE IM A BAD SCHOOL KID

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2024/11/28
10:26 UTC

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33 [M4R] #London - Looking for nerdy millenial friend who wants to go to the gym

Heyo everyone,

I'm your standard nerd but I don't work or live in a basement. (It's a show reference, in case anyone gets offended). Anyhoo, I'm also a single father and working stiff.

I'm into videogames, movies, memes and good life principles. I'm quite chill as a person and I am in dire need of a friend that wants to go to the gym but is too lazy to do it by themselves but will go if there's another person involved otherwise they feel guilty for making the plan and not following through. (definitely not me.) Together we'll get swole to feed the soul. We'll sacrifice sweat to the gods of Swole at the temple of iron. (ok, I'm done now.)

I work on shift patterns and no week is usually the same, which sucks, and on weekends I'm with my daughter full-time. When I'm not working or with my daughter I try to play videogames and enjoy what little time I have by doing chores or just flat out have a lazy lie in. In terms of outdoor hobbies I'm not a big fan of museums and going out but will absolutely go to Lidl with you to check the middle aisle, go and see a really great movie at the cinema or just have a pizza/taco and talk life.

In terms of games, I mostly play Dota2, happy to do a bg3 and I dunno mostly anything that's not sports related. I've played every game that I've ever liked or wanted, is a weird way I'd describe things.

I'd like to think I have a positive approach to life but mixed in with a lot of pessismism but I'll make sure to check if you're doing ok and remind you to let your folks know ''I says hi''. Won't chat your ear off but if you're good and I'll do good by you

Only requests:

London based, preferably south-east. Bromley/Croydon etc.

Genuinely serious about going to the gym.

In your 30s, easier to relate if we're upset about taxes and something something 90s.
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2024/11/28
10:10 UTC

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28[M4F] #Germany/Europe - Lets explore the world then settle down!

👋 I've not so recently relocated to Germany and I'm traveling around in Europe trying to find the best destination to settle down, therefore meet people and see if we click. I've already ticked off a few countries, but there's so much more to see! I'm a Software Engineer. I like to travel alot and see different countries. I'm also a big gamer currently looking to play Path of Exile 2 and Marvel Rivals. mainly a pc gamer but also sometimes PS5/Switch. I'm currently learning German, maybe you can help!

Please put in some effort if you reach out, some information about yourself is a good idea :)

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2024/11/28
10:06 UTC

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34 [M4F] #London strictly platonic close friend

Howdy, I'm looking to expand my close friends circle with someone in or near Central London. Taking applications for food buddy, gaming buddy, concert buddy, shopping buddy, steps/hiking buddy, culture vulture buddy, cinema buddy etc.

A little about me: INFJ, work full time (mostly from home) within an STEM career. Shy, very introverted (unless I'm comfortable with you then I can be chatty and come off as an extrovert), empathetic and family orientated. I can be silly, cheeky and sassy at times too.

My interests:

• Long walks through Central London

• FOOD (I can cook and bake but prefer eating out mostly at Turkish, Japanese, Korean, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Indian cuisines)

• Heavy metal, hip hop, rap, grime, acoustic but generally listen to anything

• Self care via gym, spa days, retail therapy and long drives

• Movies (psychological thrillers are my favourite)

• West End theatre shows, plays and musicals

• Museum and gallery exhibitions

• Attending eurogamer or comic con

• Anime

• Binging Kdramas

• Video gaming

If you are looking for a new friend in London then please get in touch with a bit about you. Messages with detail are appreciated and will be reciprocated.

Toodles!

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2024/11/28
10:04 UTC

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31 [M4F] France/online, chill banter and cat pics (or we can talk why bg3 is the best game ever too).

Heya 👋

I'm looking for a long term chatting buddy! My longest active chatting buddy found on reddit is 12 month, but maybe will you beat that?

Even if it's not a priority, this is what I look like, 5'9 for 145 lbs, still thin but trying to have a more muscular bodytype by swimming. Short dark brown hair and glasses sometimes, no tatoo or percing. I'm open to trade pictures :)

I do love talking about culture and history, so feel free to hit me with any fact from your country ! I have a master degree so I love intelligent talks. I do have a cat 🥰

As my hobbies, it's currently swimming, going out, hiking, cooking, playing Baldur's gate 3 (I finished it 😭), overwatch with friends or a bit of chess! I do have some nice pictures to share if you want, roses 🌹 and mountains 🌄

Otherwise I'm chill, I tend to avoid conflicts and not ghosting.

Have a nice day!

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2024/11/28
09:58 UTC

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25 [M4F] Australia/Anywhere/Online - Looking for a monogamous relationship

Hiiii! I'm looking for that special someone, potential soulmate, best friend and partner for life. I'm more than okay with and prefer starting out as friends first, taking things slow and seeing where it goes. I'm hoping we can bridge the gap if you live outside of Australia, but a long distance relationship is something i'm okay with if we can make it work long term. I'm preferably looking for someone who is between the age of 20-30, but I don't mind too much if you are a little outside of this range. I don't have nor want kids, but if I ever did I would still need to be with a partner for quite a few years before i'd even consider making a huge commitment like that.

I'm 5'8 or 173cm tall, currently weigh about 160 pounds or 72kg, white, blue eyes, darkish blonde hair, and have an Australian accent. I'm quite introverted, but I really open up once I get to know someone and would love to do calls often. I'm incredibly loyal and trustworthy. I don't drink, do drugs, smoke or vape, and would prefer if you don't, although if you socially drink thats fine. I'm not too picky with weight unless you are really obese, but someone within the 200 pounds bracket or lower is more ideal for me. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

My main interests include video games, tv shows and movies, music, reading, writing, drawing, hiking, exercising, travelling, and talking about pretty much anything. Please let me know what it is about my post that stood out to you if you'd like, or even just an interesting fact about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you! :)

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2024/11/28
09:56 UTC

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30 [M4A] #Online #Stockholm Sweden - Looking for Kinky connections

Hello all :)

31 year old who spends most of the time in Stockholm, but was born and raised in Portugal (and still goes there regularly). I am a rather shy and calm guy, who's living abroad alone and looking for to get to know new people.

As the title says, my main aim is to know kinky people. With this, I am not saying that I am looking for only casual meet ups, but rather for FWB and even people who just want to talk about it in a civil way. If everything ads up, more than pleased to share a cup of coffee.

As a relatively newbie in the kinky world, still figuring out likes and limits, bur very curious and open about most things. Vanilla all my life, consider myself bisexual and would like to explore more with guys also.

Feel free to send a message :)

Cheers, all
PortugueseSwede.

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2024/11/28
09:54 UTC

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28 [M4A] Vancouver BC - Looking for people to talk to

I’m on the lookout for new friends to chat with, vibe with, and share some laughs. Whether it’s diving into fun, random topics or just having a chill conversation, I’m here for it!

A little about me:

  • I’m a huge coffee lover and spend way too much time at local cafes.
  • Coding and working on creative projects are my go-to activities, and I’m always up for binge-watching a good TV show.
  • When I get the chance, I love hitting the ice for some fun skating sessions.

If any of this sounds like your vibe (or not), feel free to say hi and tell me something about yourself—or just jump into the conversation. Let’s see where this friendship can go! 😊

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2024/11/28
09:47 UTC

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31[M4F] #losangeles #anaheim #online Are you a busty woman? I want to worship you.

I should start out by saying that all women of all body types are beautiful. Full stop, 100%. In my personal life I've had many romantic and sexual experiences with many different types of women, and I thoroughly treasure them all.

With that being said, I've actually had very few experiences with busty women! This is a shame, because I thoroughly, 100%, love being around them. I pride myself on being wordy, witty, and erudite, but there is no quicker way to make me wordless and lust-filled than with a big pair of bouncing jiggling boobs in front of my face. I am a passionate lover, keen on overwhelming all my sexual partners with endless waves of pure and utter pleasure; a big pair of breasts in front of me multiply that impulse ten thousand fold.

Busty women are goddesses. I jerk off to busty women in the privacy of my room; I always enjoy stroking my thick beautiful cock as I watch a big tit porn actress squeeze her bosom in front of some lucky camera. I always, without fail, feel a stirring in my thick, beautiful cock whenever I’m on tinder see the profiles of women who lean forward into the camera suggestively, fully cognizant of the power their big tits have over us mortal men. Sometimes, when talking to a busty coworker, I'll save the mental image of her for later so I can gasp out as the cum comes spurting out of my throbbing fuckstick.

I want to talk to a woman who knows that she deserves to be worshiped and overwhelmed with pleasure by an attentive passionate man. I want to talk to a woman who knows the power she has over me just by lifting her shirt. I want to talk to a woman who wants someone who she can crave, and who craves her in equal measure.

If you’re in my area, I’d love nothing more than to show you a lovely night out as we hang out and get to know each other. If you’re from far away, I’d relish the chance to make your heartbeat quicken and your cheeks blush with my passionate chats and voice messages. If we get on well enough, who knows? Perhaps this can be a long term thing if you'd like!

A bit about me, since you're probably wondering. I’m a tweed wearing academic and a bookworm. I love hiking, travel, and YouTube rabbit holes. I'm a bit of an introvert, but at the same time I'm the guy who anybody could sit down for a drink with. I'm witty, passionate (in matters of lovemaking and otherwise), and love a stimulating conversation. I'd love to tell you more, if you're interested.

If anything I've written has resonated with you, please, don't hesitate to send me a message.

I can't wait to hear from you, goddess.

PS: it’s not necessary, but I totally enjoy voice calls so it’s a plus if you do too!

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2024/11/28
09:44 UTC

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27 [M4F] East Coast US/Online - Looking for a Kinky Thick/Curvy Friend

I'm hoping to find a fun, creative friend to get to know online for long term hopefully. In all honesty, I'm looking to get to know someone while being able to have some fun and build a meaningful connection. if that resonates with you, read more about me below:

  • I’m a 26 year old male in academia  

  • my hobbies include film (also my profession), gaming (ps5, switch and Pc) traveling, cooking, working out. Id love if you're also someone who goes to the gym regularly as I do myself but its not required at all.

  • I could talk forever with you about film, all aspects of it, I love the horror, fantasy, war, crime, and sci-fi genres especially 

  • I enjoy a healthy mix of someone who likes sports, gaming, art etc. so I consider myself a well rounded person.

As for my personality I consider myself very laid back, someone who is easy to talk to and extremely understanding. I enjoy having deep conversations as well asking you about your day. This is for online only.

Ideally you have some of the same interests as I do. I do love flirty chatting as well, with curvy girls the most. Thick PAWG white, Gingers, and Latina girls are my weakness, curvy/chubby girls are welcomed. l’d enjoy if we could discuss some kinkier things as well. id consider myself more searching for a girl who has an interest in humiliation and (switching/both dom and sub) and forming a fun dynamic. So if that's something you love I think we'd get along great. I'm kind, respectful and thoughtful and im just looking for someone caring to establish a nice mothering dynamic. I hope this post inspires you to message me and that I can meet someone who will be excited to see how we get along. Long term inquiries only

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2024/11/28
09:34 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Melbourne Anywhere / #Online - Seeking a lady for NSFW Friendship and Flirting !

If this post is up, yes this is available.

(Too long? Summary at the end)

Now that you've stumbled upon this post,

Hello there !

You probably expanded this post because you're seeking an adventure ?

Perhaps you're seeking to explore something new?

An adventure that'll make your days (and nights) more exciting . . .

Maybe you seek company, companionship, attention and affection . . .

You're looking for something fun and cheeky, or even naughty, wanting that anticipation of receiving messages that would make you smile, blush, bring out the sparkle in your eyes, perhaps make you bite your lip and even make your heart race. . .

Who knows my words might send pleasant shivers up your spine . . .

Make you bite your lip . . . make you comfortably uncomfortable . . .

Who might you be?

  • A woman that is wanting to explore, Even if you're vanilla, naive, innocent, been very religious, have low confidence, are shy or embarrassed about your kinks and desires, please get in touch!
  • Preferred connections between 28-50. My sincerest apologies if you fall out of this range, that's what has worked in the past for me, however you're most welcome to message!
  • You're patient
  • You enjoy asking and answering questions
  • You enjoy telling me the finer details and aren't afraid to ask the same
  • a first timer? Am Happy to help first timers explore their kinks if this is too new for you

Who am I?

  • I am a 31 year old straight male living in a tropical Pacific Island country.
  • Single with no children
  • Not in Australia / New Zealand, but very close to it, (2 hours away)..
  • I am tall, slim to medium built, tanned brown due to my mix heritage and island sunshine
  • I am told that I am quite intelligent and also wise beyond my years
  • Authoritative in the moment, regularly Stern, Dominant natured but kind, polite, respectful and caring

If you have any requests, specific kinks, needs or limits, I will gladly accept it and incorporate it into our encounter.

Privacy and Respect

I assure you discretion and we can set some boundaries. I do not require pictures, however I ask that you describe yourself. We can exchange face pictures if you require.

Although the playfulness (if you permit) will get intense and rough, I intend to be respectful, kind and caring.

Too long? Summary:

  • Seeking a submissive or an open minded woman who's looking for some excitement and spice in her day to day life
  • You can be a woman older than me.
  • You do not need to have experience.
  • You're looking to make small talk and then let the conversation get raunchy and steamy ?
  • If you're worried about your race, religion, figure. Let me assure you that this is open to women of all colours, shapes and sizes.
  • I encourage you, a woman older than me to enquire or send in a hello if this interests you !
  • You're going to enjoy this if you need positivity and positive reinforcements in your life.
  • If you're a eager to please woman or need purpose and attention in your life, this is also for you!

Disclosures & contentious matters :

  • This is probably not your ordinary advertisement. This is not a role-play prompt but this dynamic will most likely be an online / long distance dynamic given my location
  • Open to most timezones
  • I am in an odd time zone (GMT+12) which is the total opposite of the UK timezone, depending on your schedule timezones can be made to work!
  • The idea is to have verbal intercourse that provides us both excitement in the spur of the moment. I will write you actions that I'll perform, and I expect you to tell me how that makes you feel or how you want to respond and react. Depending on how things work out, there's the possibility of voice/ video

Thank you for reading this far and I hope I've piqued your interest.

Please feel free to make further inquiries or seek clarification if you require.

I look forward to hearing from you through the normal chat message (or DM). I would appreciate if you can start the first message with a short introduction of yourself.

Yours Truly

Neil

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2024/11/28
09:32 UTC

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38 [M4R] #PA #Online - Working through the holidays.

Everyone is out enjoying their families and having a good time today. However I am swamped with UX and Game design work! Usually there is lots of people about the digital office to keep me charged up and creative but I am just dragging now.

So I'm looking for anyone to talk to about whatever. I'm also a professional writer and always looking to get the creative juices going! Do you have any bad dad or non jokes? Favorite memes to share?

Looking to find cool people, expand ideas, revolutionize inside the box. Lots of Futurama references probably.

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2024/11/28
09:22 UTC

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43 [M4F] #Online Mentorship & Guidance For Someone Who Could Use a Different Perspective

I’m a 43-year-old guy who’s been through my fair share of challenges and successes. I’ve built a successful business, successful investments, and worked my way up from nothing, but I understand how overwhelming it can be when you’re just starting out or maybe even feeling a bit lost in life.

I travel a lot for work, so I mostly prefer connecting online, but there may be chances for us to meet up for coffee or dinner if our paths happen to cross. What I’m really looking for is someone in the 18-24 age range who is just starting out on their own and might need guidance, someone who just wants a listening ear, or even someone who feels a bit lost and wants to talk things through with someone older for a different perspective.

Personally, I feel I connect better with females. Conversations tend to feel more natural for me, and I find it easier to build friendships without any awkwardness.

If you’re just trying to figure things out — whether it’s about finances, relationships, work, or just life in general — I’d be happy to offer advice or just listen. I’ve been through a lot, and I’m happy to share what I’ve learned. Maybe you need help making a big decision, like buying your first car or navigating a tough situation. I can be there for that too.

I’m not looking for anything romantic. Just someone who could benefit from an open, non-judgmental conversation with someone who’s been around a little longer and can offer some insight. If that sounds like it could help, feel free to reach out. I’d love to chat and see if we can work together to make life a little easier for you.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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2024/11/28
09:09 UTC

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36 [M4F] Germany/NRW/Europe - Married and looking for mistress

I am 36 years old with kids, married and bored.

Looking for someone to have casual fun and being discreet. Ideally in Germany/NRW but if we click I could move around.

I am open to new experiences. I like to please but I also would like to be used, as long as we both enjoy it there is no harm!

I want us to create a safe space where we both can explore whatever we like without judgment, just have mutual fun.

Discretion is very important, I am not looking to change my relationship status nor I want to change yours

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2024/11/28
09:07 UTC

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31 [M4F] #California/Online - Seeking a Fun and Adventurous Companion to stuff like a turkey

Happy Thanksgiving Hey there! I'm a single, laid-back guy looking for someone who's open, adventurous, and enjoys a mix of naughty and meaningful conversations. I'm hoping to connect with someone who shares mutual attraction and compatibility, creating a bond that doesn't just fade away.

About Me:

• I'm a big, heavyset guy who loves video games, anime, and all kinds of music.

• My favorite shows and movies are usually comedy or action-oriented.

• I'm affectionate, but I can also enjoy being playful and rough when the moment calls for it.

What I'm Looking For:

• Someone confident and comfortable exploring their playful side.

• I appreciate curvy beauties, but personality and connection matter the most.

• Open to fun roleplay (breeding, pet/slave dynamics, or anything else we find exciting).p

My Kinks:

• Big fan of sensual experiences-biting, hard fun, and physical affection.

• Love the thrill of outdoor or shower intimacy, and I'm all for playful good time.

Limits:

• No blood, extreme or unhygienic activities.

• Not into anal, chastity, dildos, or anything involving third-party involvement.

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2024/11/28
09:05 UTC

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33 [F4A] #Sweden #Online Looking for friends and/or interesting conversations

Hello 👋

I'm glad you're here reader! As the title says I'm interested in finding some friends or at least have some interesting conversations. Both are totally fine. I'm a curious person and I value any interaction with another human being. That being said, I'm not looking to flirt. Sorry! There's a lot of lovely people on here though that don't mind that kind of thing so go talk to them if that's what you're looking for.

And little bit about me... I'm a trans woman and a mother of two. I don't have that much time for hobbies these days but I do enjoy working out (preferably with a run) and growing stuff. I'm also a bit of a foodie and a nerd. Personality wise I'd say I'm kind, empathetic, and curious.

It would be cool if we could actually be irl friends too but that's a longshot. There's not lot of Swedes around after all. But I'm open to being friends with anyone, anywhere.

Hope to hear from you!

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2024/11/28
09:04 UTC

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27 [M4F] Finland/Anywhere - in need of a distraction while I work from home

Maybe it's the season, the cold or maybe just SAD but everything seems so depressing right now. Not the best way to start off my year, perhaps help me change that?

About me:

Work as a software developer, mostly from home but occasionally make my way to the office if I feel like being productive

I've been into cooking lately, mostly spicy dishes

Trying to work out a lot more to lose the few kilos I gained over the holiday season

Probably have binged every good show in netflix, prove me wrong. My taste in music is all over the place ranging from Metallica to Avril Lavigne and everything in between

If you feel like some of this seems interesting to you you can shoot me a message. I'm also open to discuss anything else really, not like I have anything smarter to do

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2024/11/28
08:48 UTC

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29 [M4F] - #Vancouver/Canada/Online - Looking for that special someone to chat the night away with

Hi there! Just going to shoot my shot out here. Hopefully I'll find that special someone, this time around.

About me: I'm 5'11'', average build, East Asian, got tattoos, not into smoking or drugs. I like gaming, camping, trying new restaurants, watching anime and kdramas, I like to go to the gym, it helps me destress from everything. I like khip-hop, hip-hip/rap, edm, lofi, R&B as far as music goes, but I'm open to other genres as well.

I would say I'm a romantic, not a hopeless romantic though, I do enjoy creating and doing romantic gestures, so if you're into that sort of thing, that's a bonus for you. I'm a confident and funny person, although my sense a humour does tend to tread on the darker side. I'm always ready to put in effort to make things work, so if we get into an argument, we can solve the issue together as a team.

Ultimately, I'm looking for someone I can connect with, ideally close to my age, so we have more in common. I think it would be nice to just stay up late and chat the night away with someone again. Here's to hoping I find that special someone!

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2024/11/28
08:39 UTC

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29 [M4M] #NYC #Queens - looking for chill dudes that can host

Chubby, gay, filipino side/top from Queens looking for dudes to have chill bate sessions or more. Into: making out, cuddling, frotting, edging, oral (receiving and giving), showing off my cock, comparing, being a nudist. Down to explore new kinks along the way. Would prefer getting to know each other a little bit before meeting up. So lemme know what you're into, what you're looking for, and maybe what you look like. Also open to having non-sexual chill sessions, such as watching shows/movies, playing games together- naked or not (though naked is always preferable! 😂) Always open to explore hanging out as a nudist! Can't host, but willing to travel! Hmu if you're interested!

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2024/11/28
08:26 UTC

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33 [M4F] Online Looking for long-term fwb with emphasis on friend

So full disclosure I like flirting and I am not in a position in my life to have someone locally. It's about other responsibilities, location, attachment style etc. I am working on them but in the mean time I think it would be nice to have someone online. We can become official if things goes well, who knows. I think it would be cute if you are jealous and/or clingy within reasonable limits. I work from home so that's a bonus I guess and also might be the reason of my loneliness lol. My timezone is gmt+3. I hope to hear from you soon.

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2024/11/28
08:15 UTC

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27 [M4F] Finland/Europe/Anywhere - The Future Is Going To Be Awesome, Let’s Explore It Together

Hey there! I'm 27 and I'm living it up in Finland. I'm 183cm currently at 83kg (working on getting ripped again), straight blonde hair, if it matters.

I crunch code for a living and like to hit the gym after that to forget about the whole day of just sitting on my ass.

Summer's great here but winter's another story, so my eyes are set on warmer places during those cold months. Canaries, anyone?

When I'm not being a tech wizard, I enjoy chillin' while listening to podcasts (Lex Fridman is the G.O.A.T.), sunbathing, cycling, working out, plus watching TV series/movies. Also, I do enjoy the occasional gaming session (I used to play a ton, not so much these days; maybe I'd play more with a player 2?).

Personality-wise, I'm a bit of a paradox. I'm pretty outgoing when I'm in the mood, but I also have my introverted moments.

Health, fitness, and self-improvement are kinda my thing. How can you love someone if you can't love yourself, right?

I don't mind long-distance relationships as long as you're willing to meet at some point. But what am I looking for? Someone with a similar vision, maybe with a job that can be done remotely (or aspiring for it) and/or with a flexible schedule (extra points if you're self-employed!).

Some deal-breakers for me are people who smoke, not taking care of yourself (now and forever). But, a tech interest? That's a definite yes, lol. And artists with a free spirit, I find we usually vibe pretty well. Age preference would be within the 20-36 range.

I'm a bit eccentric, and I'm super competitive. But I've got your back if you're important to me :)

There's so much more I could write, but let's not spoil the fun! If you're interested in chatting a bit feel free to hit me up. I mostly use Discord.

P.S.: your pic gets mine :)

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2024/11/28
08:10 UTC

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26 M4F #Somerset/Online. Looking for fun and friendship.

I recently moved to somerset in October and I'm looking to make friends in the area and have some fun. I can travel or host. I don't have any connections in the area, I moved here on a whim for a job.

I'm kinda bad with relationships so hoping this might lead somewhere even if it's just friendship and fun. I'm open to anything so drop me a message and let's chat!

I'm pretty average looking. I work a physical job but not very experienced with relationships. I'm 5'9", brown hair and beard, average build/slightly muscular. Keen to explore and have some fun. Please DM for more information, I'll happily answer any questions.

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2024/11/28
08:10 UTC

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30 [M4F] #online - almost home from a road trip, and I need to cum before I sleep. Wanna join me?

It’s almost 1 AM, I’m getting pretty tired… But I am so fucking horny right now and I need to do something about it before I head to bed. I swear, my dick is going to rip a hole through my jeans it’s throbbing so hard right now lol

I should be home in 15 minutes and as soon as I’m through the door, I’m headed straight for the bed so I can take care of this monster between my legs. I would absolutely love the company, so if you’re down to join, to whatever level you’re comfortable with, I’d love to hear from you! Send me a chat request, and let’s have some fun together!

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2024/11/28
08:03 UTC

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28[M4F]#Online #Australia - Looking for a texting buddy both sfw&nsfw.

Hey, looking for a girl who wants something long-term online, who is always horny and enjoys lots of dirty talk and sexting.... The perfect vibes~ Ill tease you all day long and make you wet, but also ask you if you've eaten and had plenty of water to drink throughout the day. ;)

I'm always down to talk about anything and everything too not just dirty talk, so looking for the same, communication is definitely needed to keep things fun. Could call this an online fwb type situation.

A little about me - Im from Australia, so front of the line if you are too. I hit the gym and workout 6 days a week, keep fit, eat healthy, work full-time and study part-time.

--Would love to find a girl who keeps fit and workouts out too so we can connect over that... Is always horny and loves to text, sext and talk when ever we get the chance-

Send me a reddit chat and write a little bit about yourself... include your name, age and what type of music you're into 🎵 in your response so I know you've read my whole post and want exactly what I want out of this.... so we don't waste each other's time....

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2024/11/28
08:00 UTC

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