/r/r4r
Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.
Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.
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/r/r4r
I am a 32 year old American and I live in Japan. I have no one pretty much in my life except my daughter. So I am looking for a connection, looking for someone.
I am a big guy but I go to the gym everyday and go out and do stuff every chance I get. Just a couple of weeks ago I ran 11.5 miles or 18.5 Km. So not a couch potato. I like many things like anime, hiking, enjoying different parts of Japan, wanting to travel and I love to give love to the one who deserves it. I just want that same thing in return. I spend everyday trying to make others laugh and will not be ashamed of my immaturity I give off. Once you start acting old you become old.
I’m a really easygoing person, shy at first but I will open up once i feel comfortable with someone. Honestly, just message me and see how it goes? I will send a picture of myself as soon as this app allows me while we talk. Because I know the sad reality and I know looks play some part. (Also maybe pointers on how to make a better post?)
Hey there! I am a 30 year old guy working on cargo ships as a technician. I am looking for someone to chat to to help pass the time, have some banter and possibly start a new relationship, distance isn't much of an issue as I get weeks off at a time and can travel anywhere.
I'm a keen mountain bike rider, scuba diver, weight lifter and am getting into running. If any of these interest you let me know! I am also trying to learn Norsk as a second language so anyone which can speak that would be fantastic!
I also enjoy travelling and would like to visit more of SE Asia and the Middle East next year, let me know if you have any travel tips.
Hey names Nathan 33 from Australia bored and tired on a Wednesday night. Looking to chat and make friends. Chill guy easy to get along with. Genuine honest non judgemental and open minded down to chat about wateva really from the simple how was ur day to venting and deep talks and a place U can feel comfortable and trust U can vent without judgement. I'm a very curious person so love getting to know ppl and there interests etc. so I am also fine with answering questions. So if ur interested in a genuine friendship send a msg
I've had some great experiences on reddit, met some fantastic people. But all good things come to an end, so I'm back looking for another connection.
Simply put I'm interested in meeting someone to talk to on a regular basis. Wake up, message, live life etc. Nothing too exhausting, but let's try and catch some us time now and again. Will there be some NSFW chat involved? Of course, this is reddit after all! But let's get to know eachother too. And let's try and make this a bit long term. I'm not a one and done kind of bloke!
What I am is a 48yr old single dad from the UK. Looks are OK I guess. Glasses, beard and tattoos, gym(ish) fit, 6ft etc, but we'll verify at some point, so you can find that out yourself.
I don't care a great deal about looks, I'm definitely a sapiosexual, in part at least, so stimulate all my senses! But it'd be nice if you were in the UK. Even nicer if you were close to the south coast, if not on it! I'd prefer someone close to my age, 40s at least. I need that shared life experience.
Anyway, that's about it. So please get in touch if this strikes a chord with you. I'm here all evening, just drop me a message or a chat.
Hey! as the tiittle says, im a 28 yo man from canada whos looking for a slutty and submissive girl who wants to get into the tribute world.In a perfect world i am looking for something long term for multiples tributes. I absolutly love a girl with an hairy pussy so bonus point if you do but that doesnt mean i dislike the opposite! Shaved pussy are still welcomed! I absolutly love shy and obediant girls too and i love to take control of the situation, If you dont know what it is just hit me up i'll be more than happy to explain! Hope I'll get to talk to you soon!
Hi!
Im a pakistani man living in Scandinavia. I am born and raised here. I am currently looking for someone who can match my freak. I have over the years developed a bunch of kinks and would like to have fun with someone likeminded.
I am 5'11. Have a dadbod of some kind if you can call it that. Im quite hairy on my body and have a beard. Face-wise i think im at least average looking.
For the time being i want to keep it online, but if we get along and feel like it then i am open to meet and can travel if needed.
If youre interested hmu. I dont have any specific type. Im into all types of women. I want you to be over 20.
Probably forgetting something but hmu and lets chat!
Hey 🤟
Basics about me:
What I’m looking for: You like similar things, willing to try few ASL or more, supportive and caring, plenty of physical touch. Prefer you like Indian and Asian food since they’re my fav 😋 Message me if interested to know each other more. If things click for me, we can meet
Hi, as the title says I'm looking to make a friend from the UK, since I have 0 friends at the moment. It sucks tbh.
I'm hoping to hang out and watch movies and stuff like that.
I like: DC/marvel. Breaking bad. Brooklyn 99. Food. Dumb humour. Death note. Attack on titan. Hxh. One punch man. Playboi carti. The weekend. Yeat. Karaoke. Portal. Mortal Kombat. Bunch of other games.
Just FYI I have a boyfriend and I'm only looking for friends. Please don't message me if you are looking for something more.
Thank you for reading.
I feel like people always come up with some insane introduction to stall them from actually making the post, so I just did the same minus the insane part :)
Hi,
I'm looking for someone I can talk and chill with on a daily basis. But also tell some stories, show spicy pics and in general be open to flirting. I'm open to basically anyone as long as you actually wanna talk!
I'm very into gaming, I play/have played all kinds of stuff (Ranging from League of Legends to Counter Strike to World of Warcraft to Pokemon) so we can guarantee find something to play if you're a gamer yourself! Outside of that I watch a lot of American sports and am an avid Magic the Gathering player.
When it comes to the physical aspect (if that matters to you, which in any case is fine), I'm 5'11, 165 lbs and in shape due to having a physical job. I also have an arm of mine tattoo'd if that is a dealbreaker for you.
Hit me up if you're interested! Kind regards x
Let's see well I am a big foodie, vegetarian, Indian, hopeful romantic and Popcorn lover as well as a movie and TV show lover, I think I like the continuity of TV shows I hate when shows end frankly, I wish they would continue for longer, I still have not finished The Big Bang Theory to keep it running in my head. I have close friends but they have hectic lives and I enjoy chatting with new people about their experiences, and lives. I would prefer if you are in the UAE, that way we can get to hang out in person, but I am open to chatting with people anywhere in the world. I would request you to keep the chat flowing, I tend to lose my train of thought and it would be nice if someone had questions or points of discussion like about Christopher Nolan movies or why is that people always feel the need to tell big people like myself without reason how we should go to the gym or take walks or how we all wish a time machine existed...
Lately I have started to realise I just really feel like we are living at mercy of the Capitol, and we are just Districts, if you know what I am refering to, then you and I will get along just fine....
If you have read this far, please do drop me a message saying hey and if you liked what you read here, these days 2 words of positive affirmation go a long way for me...
I’m a submissive male feeling quite substantial shame about the fact that I’m probably bisexual with sissy tendencies.
Need strong encouragement and guidance to accept what I am and submit to a real man.
I want to be pushed to accept that I am a bisexual and that I would be prepared to bottom for a man.
I am also very keen be kept in chastity and be compelled to accept a receptive only role in the dynamic.
I would also like to receive instructions as to what content I should watch to reinforce these behaviours.
Sissy encouragement is also very welcome along with any degradation that goes along with this.
Hoping this appeals to at least one Daddy.
My parents ans I started nudism around quarantine times and simply never stopped so even during our annual camping trip we'd jsut dress up to hike into the woods. I know nudism is pretty rare so I thought I'd take the moment of peace and quiet to try and answer peoples questions about the topic of nudism and how we handle stuff. I often get people asking if it's okay to message me if you're significantly older, no worries about that, I don't care about that haha. So don't be shy and hit me up if that sparks your curiousity:)
Step into my world, where the shadows whisper secrets and the macabre is just another shade of beautiful. I'm Olivia, a 23-year-old soul captivated by the eerie, the dark, and the twisted. My heart beats for horror movies, Gothic literature, and the thrill of a good ghost story. I find beauty in the unusual, and my ideal evening might involve exploring a haunted house or binge-watching horror classics with someone who appreciates the art of fear!
I'm seeking a connection that's as deep as the plots in my favorite horror novels. I crave the company of someone who isn't just a match but a mastermind in the dance of dominance. I need a man who is secure in his strength, confident in his desires, and not threatened by my love for the dark side of life. If you're insecure, we're not a match, but if you can lead with assurance and embrace the shadows with me, then perhaps we're meant to explore the night together.
Imagine a night where we visit an old, rumored-to-be-haunted mansion, flashlight in hand, sharing stories that make our hearts race for more than one reason. Or perhaps, a cozy evening at home, where we challenge each other with obscure horror trivia while the world outside sleeps.
If you're the kind of man who can lead through the dark, who finds charm in the chilling, and who cherishes deep, meaningful conversations, then let's delve into the dark together. Show me your strength, share your dark fascinations, and let's see if our worlds align.
Please be secure in yourself; I'm not here to mend insecurities but to find a partner in crime for this dark journey called life. If me talking to guy friends or dancing with guys or giving them hugs or hanging out with them is not your thing then we probably won't be a good fit. Hope to meet my man soon!
Aloha!
I'm a kind-hearted, attentive male looking to fulfill your sensual needs with safe, respectful breast play. I truly enjoy admiring a woman's beautiful curves and am committed to creating a caring experience.
I'm also interested in building trust through daily chatting and getting to know each other better.
What you'll get from me:
• Safe, discreet connection • Attentiveness to your needs • Focused on meeting your desires • Thoughtful aftercare
What l'm looking for:
• Open to all body shapes • Curvy mom bods or fit • Busty or medium • Appreciation for y east shapes
Let’s chat, see where it goes!
I should start out by saying that all women of all body types are beautiful. Full stop, 100%. In my personal life I've had many romantic and sexual experiences with many different types of women, and I thoroughly treasure them all.
With that being said, I've actually had very few experiences with busty women! This is a shame, because I thoroughly, 100%, love being around them. I pride myself on being wordy, witty, and erudite, but there is no quicker way to make me wordless and lust-filled than with a big pair of bouncing jiggling boobs in front of my face. I am a passionate lover, keen on overwhelming all my sexual partners with endless waves of pure and utter pleasure; a big pair of breasts in front of me multiply that impulse ten thousand fold.
Busty women are goddesses. I jerk off to busty women in the privacy of my room; I always enjoy stroking my thick beautiful cock as I watch a big tit porn actress squeeze her bosom in front of some lucky camera. I always, without fail, feel a stirring in my thick, beautiful cock whenever I happen to be on tinder and see the profiles of women who lean forward into the camera suggestively, fully cognizant of the power their big tits have over us mortal men. Sometimes, when talking to a busty coworker, I'll save the mental image of her for later so I can gasp out as the cum comes spurting out of my throbbing fuckstick.
I want to talk to a woman who knows that she deserves to be worshiped and overwhelmed with pleasure by an attentive passionate man. I want to talk to a woman who knows the power she has over me just by lifting her shirt. I want to talk to a woman who wants someone who she can crave, and who craves her in equal measure.
If you’re in my area, I’d love nothing more than to show you a lovely night out as we hang out and get to know each other. If you’re from far away, I’d relish the chance to make your heartbeat quicken and your cheeks blush with my passionate chats and voice messages. If we get on well enough, who knows? Perhaps this can be a long term thing if you'd like!
A bit about me, since you're probably wondering. I’m a tweed wearing academic and a bookworm. I love hiking, travel, and YouTube rabbit holes. I'm a bit of an introvert, but at the same time I'm the guy who anybody could sit down for a drink with. I'm witty, passionate (in matters of lovemaking and otherwise), and love a stimulating conversation. I'd love to tell you more, if you're interested.
If anything I've written has resonated with you, please, don't hesitate to send me a message.
I can't wait to hear from you, goddess.
PS: it’s not necessary, but I totally enjoy voice calls so it’s a plus if you do too!
I am a 33 year old Dom currently residing in Maryland and I am seeking a submissive or slave that is looking for an online LTR. I am not seeking some single time ordeal, but a short term arrangement would be fine as well, but ideally this would become more of a long term situation. Prefer to find someone around my age or younger.
So for a little more about me, I have been into the lifestyle since I was about 18 years old, but been interested in stuff related to it younger, and research drove me to understanding the lifestyle more and brought me to it. Some of my major kinks include: edging, orgasm control/denial, pet play, sadism, nipple clamps, and sensory control. I enjoy assigning tasks and sometimes routines to be followed as required, but more so used to help train or condition as oppose to anything.
To go into more detail to what I seek, I am looking for a female around my age or younger of a long term, or short term, relationship. I am looking for something that just lasts for a few messages of random play, but rather something more committed and deeper than that. Experience level is not any kind of issue, as some may think it is, for I do enjoy training new and inexperienced subs.
Hey everyone!
I'm Kitsune, I'm from the south coast of England and I'm looking to make friends with some like-minded people who share my love of gaming, anime and so on.
I'm a PC gamer primarily and love playing Final Fantasy XIV, Destiny 2 and Genshin Impact. I also enjoy a lot of fantasy anime. I also enjoy playing D&D and am working on developing my own game in Unity, as I enjoy flexing my creative muscles. I do like to keep myself active by doing running too.
I regularly attend cons, and have cosplayed a range of game and anime characters.
I work as a software tester for a cyber security company, which I'm finding very rewarding despite being a junior tester.
I like to use VC but will be texting during working hours.
If you think we'll vibe well, and you're at least 21 years old and in the UK or Europe, DM me and we'll exchange details.
Hello everyone! I'm Chris. It's the fall semester in university right now, but I am taking classes fully online. So it's hard for me to meet people to possibly be friends with them, hang out, et cetera. (Also because I'm shy, but I've been working hard on that part.) With that being said, I have decided to turn to Reddit!
Here are some things about me:
Feel free to reach out if you would like to talk and possibly meet up. I'm north of Atlanta. (Pictures of me: https://imgur.com/a/me-T4Moq5i)
Looking for a FWB , hey I'm 28 5'10 average build.
INTP Fairly introverted very much a go with the flow kinda guy, I work a ton, but I make time for all the people in my life. I’m decent at carrying a text convo and will keep you entertained.
I love debating topics and silly banter with others I enjoy watching anime, reading manga playing video games and watching movies , looking for some who is down to spend the day(and night) exploring these hobbies with me.
if things do click between us I am hoping to meet fairly often (mainly weekends or evenings) to just chill and more if we fancy it,
I'm equally happy to just cuddle and enjoy the physical closeness without any sort of more intense follow up if that's what your looking for ,please do let me know this when messaging
only real preference is that got to be at least 23+, those interested please send a sfw photo and a short introduction, happy to meet in public and check the vibe is right before hosting.
mixed race 420 friendly , kink friendly
any thing else can be discussed via dm
Hey, I'm just a 27 year old geeky guy looking for someone special, much like everyone else. I enjoy playing games, occasionally watching anime, and listening to podcasts. Gaming is definitely my primary hobby. I don’t tend to play the popular stuff like Valorant, League, and Overwatch. I’m more into Valve games, indie titles, survival games, and older Nintendo releases.
I’m very much an indoor person, partly because gaming is what I enjoy and also because I'm unemployed. I’m out of work due to some social issues that make it difficult for me to be around others, especially those I don't know well. Despite this, I’d still love to find someone. I’ve struggled with loneliness for many years, and it’s really affected my mental health. I’m hoping to finally change that, and maybe even help someone else who’s going through similar struggles.
Something that’s really important to me and what I'm really looking for most in a partner is a strong sense of social awareness. Empathy, compassion, and care mean a lot to me, and I’d like to meet someone who values these qualities as much as I do. Considering each other's feelings, being selfless, and making sure both parties are happy is something I think is necessary for any relationship. Even platonic ones. I think my search for people with these values has been one of the main reasons behind my loneliness. It seems hard to find people who truly embody these traits, unfortunately.
Physically, I do carry a few extra pounds, but nothing crazy. I’ve been working on bettering myself for a few months now and it’s going pretty well. Lost around 20 pounds.
I’m happy to answer any questions in DMs if you have any. :)
Wanting someone to be intimate with sometime either tonight or another time. Not feeling my best lately and could use some support because of my loneliness. I just desire to be around or with someone so much. I live alone in my all right duplex with nothing to do besides going to work and coming back home from work every week. I would like to have someone in my life whether it be online or irl to have good times with as intimate or as sexual as you may want. I have a pic of myself on my account which might interest you.
Some things about me is that I do love to talk about anything since I am a chatterbox and I have a comfy bed and couch we could relax on. I even have a bath tub/shower combo which is very convenient as well. Anything is possible with someone like myself, but you just have to take the initiative and give me a chance to show you a good time.
Hey I'd love to say I'm just a chill guy, but in truth I've been white knuckling my way through life for the past decade at least, probably more. This is primarily due to my own decisions, but I would love to discover all the possibilities in a safe, anonymous space. I'm really looking to mutually unpack our lives, in all their complexities. I'm a great (good enough) listener and a introspective mind. But, mostly, just a flaming hot mess of a person grabbing life by the horns and realizing that the horns in question are actually the planted on the hood of a Mac semi-truck drunkenly speeding down the highway at 80 miles an hour.
Hey, looking for a girl who wants something long-term online, looking for the perfect balance of casual conversations about anything and everything, talking as much as we can.... Mixed in with a natural flow of dirty talk and sexting when we have built up a ground for the dynamic. Open to just dirty talk, and sexting all day every too, to save feels getting in the way. I'm always horny and can sext for hours on end.
The perfect vibes~ Ill tease you all day long and make you wet, horny and needy... but also ask you if you've eaten and had plenty of water to drink throughout the day.
Communication is definitely needed to keep things fun. Could call this an online fwb type situation, or a sexting based dynamic.
Im from Australia, so front of the line if you are too. --Would love to find a girl who keeps fit and workouts and is always horny, so we can connect and vibe over that as I workout 6 days a week and love the gym...
Send me a reddit chat and write a little bit about yourself... include your name, age and what type of music you're into 🎵 in your response so I know you've read my whole post and want exactly what I want out of this.... so we don't waste each other's time...
Hey there! I’m looking for the loml, have you seen her? Maybe it’s you! My name is Nate and I’m 19M from Southern California, USA. I’m looking for anyone anywhere, but I would love it if you’re from California or Oregon, as that’s where I’ve applied to colleges(but it’s not a deal breaker if you’re from somewhere else). I’m really into music, animals, nature, art, cars, anime, sports, poetry, and deep conversation. I’m looking for an authentic and genuine connection with someone who’s kind and fun! To describe me as a person, I’m 5’9, latino, with longer than average hair. I’m very active and I LOVE the outdoors. I do have a tattoo(and I’m eager to get more) if that’s at all a deal breaker. I’m currently in community college studying psychology, but I plan on transferring to a 4-year institution in the fall. I’m left leaning(it’s really important that we agree politically), communicate, and very loyal. I sing and song write in free time, as that’s what fulfills me the most(but I would love to add conversations with you to that list). While I’m trying my best to sound formal, I can be very laid back and casual as well, so don’t be afraid to show me how quirky and fun you are. This is only a little bit about me. If you want to learn more, free to hit me up!!! I’d love to get to know you:)
Hi!
My name is Alex, I am 21 years old and from the Netherlands. I'm starting the day, slowly but surely haha, and could use some fun people to keep company!😌
I am a certified yapper as long as we click and I feel some sort of connection, so I hope we can be similar in that way (fellow yappers unite). I should probably introduce myself some more now though:
I study at university, I love going out on hikes, playing the piano, cooking, baking (I suck at baking though🥲), greek mythology, formula 1🏎️ and hanging out with cool people!
Of course this isn't all there is to know about me, but I can share more in the DM's through actual conversation
Anywho, I'd love to see your message appear :) Wish you all the best regardless though!
I'm a 29yo dude and I'm working as a market analyst. Some of my hobbies include anything related to horror, skating, reading, soulsborne, lifting, music(very passionate about it so it counts!), drumming(I'm shit at it), berserk.
I'm 183cm, pretty fit, tatted, bearded (if any of those are supposed to help me with making a friend but if so I don't mind sending pics etc. either), and I'm looking for likeminded people to just chat, have some fun, maybe movie nights, or game every now and then since my work gives me plenty of free time depending on the time of the month.
So if any of that sounds interesting to you, you like flirting and you especially are looking for "witty banter that is borderline offensive and you aren't sure if the person you are talking to will report you to authorities and you are not sure if you wanna stab them or if you are weirdly aroused but hey it is fun" then hit me up and perhaps we will hit it off.
Hey everyone! Like the title says, I rolled my ankle pretty badly while hiking yesterday with my family currently in town, and I'm kinda just lounging around while waiting for them to leave for the airport.
I have a fairly wide variety of interests and I'm just interested in people in general, so was hoping to have some casual chats for a bit or just see where things take us!
Maybe to start off though, I am a big foodie, so let's talk about your favourite food! Maybe share your favourite recipe?
Hello I am Nick I am in the orange county area and l am looking to date and or make friends in the area. Looking for someone who is LGBT friendly and open to talk ideas with. It has been hard to get to know new people I don't know a lot of people in the area and want to get out more. For my looks I am 6'5" and 160 lbs and have green eyes/black hair and in great shape. I am a art major who loves to play video games mostly rpgs and adventure games and bike, I primarily make 3d art and listen to music. Looking for someone who is also creative, someone who is kind/easy going. My music taste is I like Metric, Fiona Apple and any artist who are female style poets. I also love Koda Kumi and BoA, they are Korean and Japanese pop artists who make music I love to dance to. My career aspiration is to get into the video game industry as a Environment Artist, Game Art and Design is what I went to school for and graduated with a BS in Gamer Art& Design at the Art Institute of Phoenix
I'm a hockey player who's a bit of a silly guy who absolutely loves the lighter, less serious sides of life. Whether it is hiking, reading, playing guitar/video games, cooking, or working out, I'm doing it and LOVING it. 😌
I love to joke around and banter, but I can also be a shoulder to lean on or someone to vent to.
(If things are going in that direction) I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and I adore everything that comes with being one! I'm big on loving for the sake of love! I can and will send you cute relationship related tiktoks and YouTube shorts because they made me think about you!
(If things are going in that direction) Sexually, I fit very comfortably in dom roles. Anything you like in that regard I can and will do!
My love languages are: quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. In that order!
Physically, I am 5'8, have long brown hair, wear circular glasses (think Harry Potter), and I have a strong build due to CrossFit and my job as an aircraft mechanic!
Hello! Im your friendly neighborhood spiderman! Not really but I sure wish I was! Im just a random nerd dude on the internet who loves music, anime, manga, sci-fi/fantasy/action/horror movies, video games, and magic the gathering. Im really looking for someone who wants to become best friends and see if it can become more. I need to find someone that also understands what it takes for a relationship (even a friendship) to work at all. Im getting real tired of putting in so much effort and getting nothing in return, and people just saying "hi" "how are you" "whats up". Please also just be yourself. It doesnt need to be super serious all the time. I want someone I can be sarcastic and jokey with, not someone who thinks the entire world is out to get them and can't take a joke or you're mean.
Anyways im excited to hopefully get to know people and all that lame shit! Lol