/r/r4r
Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.
Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek. Still protesting.
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/r/r4r
Hiya everyone! I'm 25, 5'6", 135 lbs, slim and smooth. I would consider myself a part-time femboy, haha. Lately I have been pretty lonely, and I'd love to find some friends to talk to, flirt with, or play games with!
I really enjoy talking on voice calls, especially when I'm about to go to sleep. I do have a habit of falling asleep on calls (hearing someone's voice makes me sleepy and cozy), so I apologize in advance hehe
I like to play games like League, Rivals, and WoW, but I am open to other games too! I also like to read, cook, travel, spend time with my dog, hike, and enjoy the outdoors!
Obviously I'd love for a friendship to develop into something more if the vibes are right. I prefer guys who are closer to my age, fit/athletic (have a soft spot for nerdy gamer boys who are also gym bros).
Reach out and let's see if we are a good match!!!
I am going to some concerts this summer and wanted to see if anyone would like to go also. Mainly 70's /80's rock music. I am from North New Jersey but travel to different venues to see shows.
It seems early but some concerts have already been announced and tickets are on sale.
So far I am seeing:
Ace Frehley (KISS): May 2nd at Starland Ballroom in Sayreville, NJ.
Styx & Kevin Cronin (REO Speedwagon): July 20th at PNC Arts Center in Holmdel, NJ.
Billy Idol & Joan Jett: August 20th at Madison Square Garden in NYC.
I will be seeing more than these. More concerts will be announced in the coming months.
Possible midlifecrisis patient here. Dont know where my life is going and exactly where ive been. I know it sounds vague but it feels like im living on autopilot for the last 10 years.
Anyway im Mark from Holland, 44 and looking for a cool chat partner. Also hopefully a longtime friendship and we will see what the future holds.
About me: im a chill guy who loves to chat about all and everything, can hold up a conversation if the other party is willing to put in an efford too. Im just a normal guy btw.
What im looking for is just a regular reddit lady who is kinda the same as me. Please be 18+ though. How u look like i dont care about, its the inside thats more important.
Only thing i ask of you is genuine interest and the willingness to let me have a peek in your life too.
Hey, how are you doing today? I'm a closeted bi married guy. I'm from Brazil, and I can speak English and Spanish as well.
Been looking for someone to have a nice chat with and maybe, if things go right, develop something nice together? I'm pretty open to whatever comes though!
I am a bi guy so yeah I am fine chatting with both men and women. As for men, if it interests you I'm a versatile when it comes to sex so I can adapt to your needs. As for the women, well, I'm pretty open minded to anything sex-wise.
As for my looks: white, short dark hair, brown eyes, 6'3, 203 lbs and yeah I can send pics if we get along well enough.
If you're interested in getting to know me better, hit me up :)
I'm married and I work so yeah life gets busy every now and then, but I will always answer even if it takes me a while. If waiting is a problem for you, I might not be the one you are looking for, in any case I wish you good luck! :)
See y'all😘
Hey y'all.
I'm a 5'2" black South African femme lesbian looking to connect with someone from the US or Europe - I'm in search of better things.
Ideally, I'm looking to connect with a fit biracial femme girl who shares my love for music and the arts.
I have a deep passion for writing, reading, and poetry, and I'm a huge fan of music - R&B, Hip Hop and Alternative are my go-to genres.
Some of my faves include Tyler, The Creator, Kendrick Lamar, Doja Cat, Lana Del Rey, Ama Lou, The Neighbourhood, Dominic Fike and Mariah The Scientist.
I value honesty and open communication, so please be upfront if you don’t feel a spark—ghosting is not cool! I’m looking for someone with a good sense of humor and emotional intelligence.
If you vibe with any of this, I'd love to chat! 💌
Hello glad to see you :) How about your Monday evening? I’m a 27old guy from seoul. Winter in Korea is cold again this year too, what do you think about it? After this winter, I started to think that I needed a partner to spend the future with. If you feel this way too, please read the post below.
About me:
About you:
And I hope you're settled in Korea, or someone who wants to. If you need my help, I'll help you as much as I can :)
If you have read my post and feel interested, please feel free to request a chat and tell me some information about you. I will be looking forward to a conversation with you!
Hey there!
I've been feeling lonely lately and I wanted to post to try and find some new hopefully long-term connections. I enjoy some flirty conversation while getting to know people and making new connections. I'm hoping to find some fellow gamers or all kinds of people to make new connections with and hopefully make some new long term.
A bit about me, I'm an Australian guy who is tall around 193cm (6'4), I'm also chubby. I have a great sense of humour mostly focused on dirty and crude kind but I love every bit of comedy so I don't mind most jokes. I'm a great listener so always happy to be someone to vent to and such. My favourite tv shows tend to be How I met your mother and big bang theory (I know it's not popular but I'm a nerd so a bunch of awkward nerds works lol)
I consider myself a nerd, I love video games, fantasy novels, board games. I like to read up on scientific discoveries as well as how certain systems work as my favourite topic in university was biology. I'm looking for hopefully long term friends and since I tend to be flirty and would like to find people who are like-minded. If things click I'm always open to more as well in terms of FWB and such. I tend to be shy and not comfortable posting pictures I'm a natural night owl and up into the later stages of the night so open to most time zones.
If this interests you at all, I can't wait to hear from you and see how we go :)
Hiya everyone,
It is that time again, where I will be stuck for two days (Sunday evening till Tuesday morning) on yet another business trip to Berlin.
Sitting in my hotel room... Working for one hour, going back to the hotel with nothing to do...
Not this time, I hope!
Let's sweeten it up! Instead of getting a döner and serving my time in the hotel room/sauna, I want to get something nice to eat (my treat 😉) and spend some good time with quality company.
Does that sound like a good time to you? If it does, how about you send me a nice message?
Hey! I'm Pascal, 30 years. I work mostly from home as a programmer and when I'm free I go rock climbing (or to a climbing gym). Besides that I'm a reader and runner. I try to stay healthy while also enjoying life.
I like to RP with strangers. This can go about any real life situation or building our own world from scratch. It depends what we want to do and the limits of our imagination. I'm looking for something long term but let's not get ahead of ourselves and learn more about each other.
Don't hesitate to message me!
Hi everyone! I'm looking for someone to play Valorant or TFT with. I play competitively, but I am always looking to have fun and I'm pretty chill. I am open to playing other games if there is anything that you would like to introduce me to. I love listening to kpop, jpop, piano covers, american songs, or movie/kdrama soundtracks! You can always catch myself walking my dog on the streets listening to intense music pretending I'm the main character of a movie :'D Other than games, I enjoy watching movies, shows, and writing my own delusional story lol. I also love having deep, emotional conversations about life and our past experiences. I love animals and rescued a sweet dog myself from the shelter! Whether we become partners, friends, or just gaming buddies, I hope we can brighten up each other's lives just a little bit. I've been going through a rough phase, so we can help each other out if we need it. I do prefer someone that is around my age, but I am not too picky, as long as it isn't on any extreme end. I'm pretty shy at first but I will open up as soon as I feel comfortable. I get pretty goofy/playful when I do open up. Feel free to hit me up if any of this catches your interest :)
Reddit might not be that huge in germany but why not at least try. So basically i'm looking for woman who would love to help me gain experience. So far when it comes to intimate stuff, i have only done kissing since i get quite shy and i'm also not the kind of guy who just goes up to girls and starts flirting.
I dont really have a prefered age for you to be as long as u are 18+. The same goes for experience... if ur experienced and wanna show me the ropes a bit im totally up for it, but i have no problem if ur inexperienced as well. What i value more is that we kind of get to know us first and see if it fits between us or not. Im also mobile and can host if that helps :)
Other than that i guess i should talk a little about myself... i just started working after university. While i'm not a major sports guy, i do like to go for a run from time to time and played different sports when i was a teenager. I would call myself average looking, maybe a little bit on the chubbier side, blue eyes and i'm 180cm and weigh around the 80kg mark.
That's it so far from me but if u have any questions or u might even be a little interested or curious, dont shy away and pm me... i'm always happy to answer stuff and also like to get into some good conversations :)
Hey there I am 29 M,and looking to find someone I can talk with I love to have a laugh and fun,
I am 6’2 blue eyes, play rugby and swim and go to the gym when I can. I do shift work so Timezone isn’t really an issue for me. I’m happy to swap photos early. I’d love to voice and video call eventually. I also enjoy pineapple on pizza and coffee.
I don’t really have a type so Flick me a message and let’s see where it goes
I’m a 24-year-old who recently relocated to Zürich, and honestly, I’m feeling both excited and a little overwhelmed. Moving to a new city is such an adventure, but it’s also a bit daunting when you’re trying to figure things out on your own.
I’m looking to meet people who are open to hanging out—whether it’s for coffee, dinner, exploring the city, or even just chatting about life. I’d love to make some friends here and maybe find that special someone along the way!
A little about me: I love hiking, getting lost in a good book, trying out new restaurants, and discovering all the cool stuff this city has to offer. If you’re into similar things or just looking to make connections, let’s chat!
What’s your favorite spot in Zürich so far? Or any recommendations for fun adventures around here? 😊
Hey! Always glad to meet new people so here I am looking for someone to grow a friendship with or maybe more but we'll see how it goes. I'm quite introverted though I wanna stress it doesn't mean I don't want to socialise, just I find it quickly drains me and also just find it difficult to talk.
Anyway, A bit about me cause honestly, I got no clue what else I need to say: I'm 172cm, 90kg so a little over weight but nothing major, like my history, like my games, can be nerdy in the sense of learning about new things but hey, that's just who I am! I tend to be quiet and shy but I'll try put the effort in to talk. I can also be quite childish occasionally, not in the sense of throwing temper tantrums god no, but desiring silly stuff like a penny farthing that I gaurentee I'll ride for like a week and then never touch it again.
Now some quick things that aren't exactly long enough to fit into their own box: My sense of humour is all over the place, I like everything from silly jokes to offensive and dark ones. I'm Pro-monarchy (constitutional ones that is) and I do take a bit of an interest in the British military/military stuff in general, their new weapons, technologies and what they're up to, etc, and I have been keeping tabs on the current war in Ukraine. Currently doing police studies w/ criminal investigation and I do intend to go into the police once I finish, as either a PC or DC.
Now some of my hobbies/interests:
What else... goals for life?
Simple as
If I must pick out a few things though I will:
Anyway, I do hope to hear from you soon and to whoever reads this I hope you have a nice day.
Hey there! I’m a 32-year-old guy who’s looking to connect with like-minded individuals for some fun, adult conversations. I’m open to chatting about a wide range of topics, but I’m especially interested in someone who enjoys a bit of playful, flirty banter. I'm all about keeping things lighthearted and fun, while making sure we both feel comfortable and respected throughout.
Consent, mutual respect, and clear communication are absolutely key to me. I believe that a good connection is built on trust, so if you’re looking for something casual but respectful, we might just get along. I’m not here to rush anything or cross boundaries — just looking to have some enjoyable, easy-going conversations with someone who’s open-minded and knows how to have fun. I’m into good conversation, humor, and exploring different fantasies or playful ideas.
Whether it's chatting about things like your interests, passions, or just having some cheeky back-and-forth, I’m all for it. I enjoy learning about what makes people tick, and I love to share a laugh or flirt a little when the vibe feels right. If you're someone who enjoys teasing, exploring a little bit of everything, and isn’t afraid to get a little bold, I think we’d have a great time. But it’s all about making sure we’re both enjoying ourselves and keeping things chill — there’s no rush, and I’m all about creating a space where we both feel comfortable to explore our boundaries together.
Feel free to message me if you’re interested, and let’s see where the conversation goes! I’m down to chat about whatever you feel like, and I'd love to get to know you better. Just a heads-up — I’m not looking to waste time, so if you’re serious about having a fun, respectful connection, I’m all ears. Let’s keep things fun, flirty, and definitely respectful.
I’m here to enjoy the moment and see where things go, but only if we’re both on the same page and feeling the same energy. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Before any of the other text, yes I marked it nsfw, no that's not the main thing I'm looking for but im not opposed if that's the way the conversation goes
My name's Jack 27 from Scotland I'm hoping to find someone to connect with.
I enjoy baking/cooking, football, film and music. We don't necessarily need to have similar interests as I generally get on with most people and enjoy finding out about other people's interests.
I suck at making posts and this sounds a bit scatterbrain reading it back but drop me a message if you want!
Hi.
I am trying to indulge a fantasy i have held for a long time. I get really turned on (nervously excited) at the idea of a stranger watching me masturbate. I am recently single after a relationship that started in my teens so thought now was the time to ask and see if anyone would be willing to watch. I am 6ft with an average body and really just want to chat, get to know each other for a while and then put on a show for you.
I am interested in chatting about pretty much anything. I think this would be more fun if we know a little about each other. It makes everything feel a little more real. I am happy to talk about anything really.
It is fun just having someones eyes on me while I am that vulnerable. If that sounds interesting or exciting to you let me know.
January felt so slow and super long! It’s finally February after ages 😅 got any plans for the valentine’s day?
Currently sick with a cold so I’m looking for an online companion! This is short-term/more like acquaintanceship as I’m just pretty bored and have got nothing to do but to rest up. However, if we vibe then I’m open to being friends.
I’m pretty laid back. I get reaaally bored easily, so you should probably message me with something interesting — like related to fitness and sports! I’m very active and exploring sports to try ‘cause I haven’t found my niche yet. Would love to hear about your passion with your chosen sport!
If you are curious about me or if my description matters, you can check out my profile (I’m active here and I often post). You will also find a photo of my orange 🐱
So im a university student set to graduate next year and im looking for a woman who can show love and affection but also keep me in check. Im a total nerd, especially for spiderman as i have his mask and jacket, and if im not playing cod, overwatch or resident evil on my PlayStation im then on walks. Im also on the lanky side so if your on the bigger/ thicker side thats bonus points but its not a deal breaker if your not so dont worry.
Im looking for a woman who will let me put her on a pedestal aswell as give her my time, energy and attention. I would also love to be called names like honey and sweetheart by you, but ofc id also want casual conversation involving getting to know you. If thats you, please do dm me! Id also love for you to show me love and compassion as i desperately crave it, and id give the same back!
Hey there, I'm 26 currently in NY, USA from India.
I would like to be your favorite person and likewise you to be my favorite person
I’m a self-made, independent guy looking for a meaningful connection.
I dream big, love to cook, explore the world, and work my ass off to build a happy life.
If you value growth, adventure, and partnership, let’s connect!
I'm looking for someone who looks cute, is sweet, kind hearted, chill and would like to have respect, caring, and even get spoiled with princess treatment. I hope you're not egoistic and selfish to think about your needs only. I like feminists who like to have someone special as their priority and vice versa.
If things go well, I would like to have long term connections, like a long distance relationship. I'm open to good meaningful friendships too.
PS: I don't play with feelings, let's keep things simple and straightforward, I don't like mind games and and I hate wasting my time.
If this sounds like we could vibe, let's chat..
I’m looking to find a new partner. I'm keen to find someone really special and inspiring. I'm assigned male at birth but I identify as non-binary. I'm incredibly open-minded and I don't mind where you're located. I've dated people in Europe and North America. I'm also open-minded about gender identity and sexual orientation; I would like to find someone who is at ease with being themselves and around my age. I'm incredibly attracted to androgyny, piercings and tattoos; if you have any of those then I would especially excited to speak to you, however it's absolutely fine if you don't.
I enjoy lots of different sciences and music genres. Technology, astronomy and astrophysics are also things that really interest me, and I always like to learn new things. I have a love of synth pop, synth wave, and lots of different kinds of metal; anything alternative or non-mainstream is definitely attractive to me. I'm also disabled, and I thought it would be better to be upfront about it.
Please send me a private message with a description of yourself and the kinds of things that you enjoy. It's not a requirement that you send me a photo, but it would be welcomed; I have photos I'm happy to exchange.
I don't respond to one word replies to low-effort responses.
Hey there, Reddit!
I’m a good-looking, fit guy who’s passionate about two things: exploring the world and diving into the gaming universe. Whether it’s hiking through breathtaking landscapes or grinding through the latest RPG, I’m all about living life to the fullest.
A little about me:
What I’m looking for:
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to shoot me a message! Let’s swap travel stories, game together, or just chat and see where it leads. Looking forward to hearing from you!
I promise I won’t leave you feeling as guilty as sin… or maybe I will but hopefully you can just shake it off!
I’m 30, male and from Scotland. I’m looking to chat with some interesting people from wherever
I enjoy spending time with friends whether it’s a casual couple of drinks in the pub or playing some sport together.
I also love meeting new people which is ironic because I’d say that I can be pretty shy in public. Maybe I just need some Dutch courage to embrace my extrovert personality.
My interests vary; spending time cooking new dishes but also love to try out new restaurants. I enjoy exploring new cities and cultures but I could spend time chilling inside.
Basically I enjoy exploring, meeting new people and just seeing where life takes me, if that sounds like something you might resonate with then I’d love to hear from you.
I did say a flirty chat… well I definitely consider myself a little bit flirty… okay maybe more than a little. I like to have fun and try out new things etc… but I’ll let you discover that by dropping me a message.
Hey there!
I’m a 43-year-old Londoner who’s confident, independent, and always up for a good conversation—whether it’s cheeky banter, something spicy, or just a relaxed chat about life. I’m all about finding that spark, the kind that starts with a playful vibe and builds into something exciting.
I thrive on connection. If the mood is right, we could keep things light, dive into some naughty fun, or even explore a deeper connection over a late-night call or maybe more. I like to keep things upfront and real—life’s too short for games, right?
Whatever’s on your mind, I’m happy to hear it. Fancy some flirty fun, or just want to unwind with someone easy to talk to? Either way, I’m open to it all. Let’s keep it discreet and drama-free while we see where things lead.
So, what do you say? Please be ready to verify early on, there are far too many time wasters here. Ready to drop me a message and see if we click?
I am seeking something ongoing with the right person, so first and foremost am after a connection and friendship. From there, I would be happy to meet so we can enjoy a drink/meal and get the time to know each other, and if we click I might even treat you to a massage! You decide whether you'd like it to be neck, shoulders or elsewhere. I can make it as formal or as sensual as you like. Either way, there'll be plenty of cuddles afterwards!
I'm a respectful, professional male and my interests include keeping active and cooking in my spare time. I am into coding and playing guitar, although I suck at both, haha. If it matters I'm HK Chinese by ethnicity, 180cm tall, 75kg, slim.
Oh, and I love animals, especially birds. I don't take drugs/smoke, have no tattoos, and only drink alcohol occasionally. I currently pet sit as a hobby, so if that's something you're also interested in maybe we could even co-sit!
Let me know how that sounds. :) No ghosting please! I promise I won't disappear.
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Hi there! I’m a 28-year-old guy in the Bay Area who’s equal parts homebody and adventurer. I’ve been told I’m kind, easygoing, and (on a good hair day) maybe even cute? I’m looking for someone who vibes with spontaneity—think midnight boba runs, hiking hidden trails in Marin, or debating the best burrito spot in the Mission while we hunt for it. I thrive on deep conversations, dumb jokes, and the kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt.
About me:
You?
Ideal dates: Sunrise hikes with coffee, dive bar karaoke, museum trips where we pretend to be art critics, or cooking disasters that end with pizza. Let’s build something real—no games, just adventures and mutual weirdness.
If you’re out there, send a message with your go-to karaoke song or favorite Bay Area hidden gem! Let’s swap stories and see where the chaos takes us. ✨
I am a 35 male Chinese from Singapore. Holding a stable job and income. Here in search of new friends
My hobbies include working out, going to the movies, dining out, and chilling (by the beach, random places)
My interests: cars, fashion, beauty, the outdoors, working out, gadgets and the list continues..
The prospective friend/partner: Located in Singapore or nearby ( not a must if you are OK with being an online friend) Preferably- Body type: slim to plus-sized. Relationship status does not matter at all. (who am I to judge anyway)
I hope to meet more friends here and create meaningful relationships.
I await your PM and chats :)
^(Did the Ocarina of Time reference catch your attention? If not that's entirely fine.)
Hello everyone! I would like to be as straightforward as possible here. I'm looking for someone that I can talk to on a daily basis. Whether that be through text during work hours to potentially some voice calls here and there after work each day. I know everyone's schedules will always be different though. I would ideally like to play some video games together. Perhaps even watch some anime or other shows while one of us streams it for the other. This would ideally be done over Discord. If this sounds good to you, please continue reading.
My Interests
Favorite Anime
Manga kinda gets looped into anime for the most part. But there are definitely some manga that I read but didn't bother watching the anime, or maybe it doesn't have one.
As for music... I have a Spotify playlist that I'm slowly working on. I intend for it to be full of ALL my favorite songs one day.
Main Games I Play
Thanks for reading! If any of this interests you then please feel free to reach out!
SFW. I'M TALKING NO FLIRTING, just pals.
Hey there. Back again to look for another person to voice call with while I chill around the house. I love talking to new people and meeting new people! Please call me and let’s yap.
I have made a few posts before if you want to check my profile and read a bit about me so I’ll just hit the main points here.
I like anime, marvel rivals rn, crafting, reading, makeup, self sustainable living, and YAPPING.
I'm in EST but my sleep schedule is erratic, there is some background noise because kids so please be okay with that. I'd also be down to play some games if you're into that!
Some other nonbinary folk or women would be cool but I'm open to anyone, accents are cool too and I love to hear about other countries! Other parents would also be sweet!
Good morning. I'm a tall, nerdy guy in decent shape looking for a petite, thin woman to get to know. Maybe to talk about life's mysteries or to binge movies and anime. Playing games would also be a fun time too. I'm happy to play any pc games like Marvel Rivals, Ark, 7 days to die, and league. Let's talk about our dreams and fantasies. Maybe even flirt and just make each other smile and feel wanted. I'm very playful and sarcastic with a bit of dark humor. But I'm happy to laugh and to make other's laugh. I'm happy to exchange pics to make sure we have an attraction. Let's see how things go. Maybe we can find our forever. Thank you for reading, and feel free to message.