Hi everyone.

My wife and I (M30) moved here a couple of years ago from MS. I've kind of tried meeting people in that time through things like Bumble BFF and Meetup groups, but those connections just never really clicked. My wife has a comparatively easy time meeting new people through those things, but I struggle for some reason. It doesn't help that I'm kinda introverted and get in my own head about social stuff, but that's just my own challenge to overcome.

It's starting to take a toll - feeling pretty sad and alone a lot lately. Anyone have any advice for making real friends around here when you don't have a workplace to go to everyday? Any specific hobby groups where you found good people?

Edit, since some asked for specific hobbies/interests I'm into:

I'm open to pretty much anything, genuinely.

I'm really into game development as a hobby and professionally, but that's not the most social activity. Art, music, woodworking/crafts.

Would be happy to find a chill sports team (pretty much any sport). I like being active but find the gym pretty boring.

Super into space/astronomy. Talking about deeper concepts or anything that's generally intellectually stimulating.

Hey all, I have a few cards that I want to get looked at to see if they are really worth anything. I was hoping that some of you folks have experience doing this and that you can lead me in the right direction. Thanks in advance for your recommendations.

I am working on a project that is making me wish Radio Shack still existed. I have to buy things like LEDS, reed switches, breadboards, wires, etc. Are there any stores in the area that actually sell a decent selection of this type of thing or am I stuck ordering things online? It would be nice to go to a place to peruse the selection.

Custom or “off the rack”. Just something that’s a little different for a gift.

I have a six month old, and my mom wanted to have a day out with him at the Museum of Life and Science in Durham. I was skeptical that he would get much out of it, and its true that some exhibits will have to wait until he's older, but I was blown away by how thoughtfully they accomodate very young children. We had a great day.

• He loved the butterfly house
• Every bathroom had a changing table, and there was always a bathroom nearby when we needed one.
• The "Play to Learn" exhibit, designed for kids five and under, was excellent. Lots of mirrors and colorful, interactive toys for him to play with. (And comfortable seating for parents!)
• The whole museum was very easy navigate with a stroller. We took our time walking the outdoor loop while he napped.
• The "Sound Garden" exhibit was a sleeper hit. It's an outdoor space with bells, drums, and various stuff for kids to bang on. He couldn't really interact with it yet, but he loved listening to all the crazy sounds and watching the other kids.

If you have a young baby and are dying to get out of the house, this is an excellent place to bring them!

Hi! I might be asking this in the wrong place lol, but I'm looking to take an intro to biochem course in the most time/money efficient way possible. I'm taking it as a pre-requisite for medical school. Just looking around and it seems that there may not be a community college equivalent for this course. Does anyone know if this is the case, or has anyone does this before? I know there's CHM 132, "organic and biochemistry" but UNC for instance does not accept that course as an organic or biochemistry equivalent. I guess I might have to look into take it as a visiting student at NC State/UNC or something?

Gf not feeling well so we're gonna skip. Two GA tickets plus parking. Giving away if anyone wants to see them, fcfs.

temporary Helene transplant here. I may be dropping my wife off at an all-day event at the Museum of Life and Science tomorrow, and it would be nice to stay relatively close by rather than shuttling back and forth from where we're staying. if that's the case, would be nice to post up somewhere with my laptop and our small and quiet dog. I'd need a power outlet but Wi-Fi is optional, as I can use my work phone as a hotspot. a library or similar space would be preferable, as to avoid the pressure of buying a bunch of food/drinks that I don't actually need - I don't even drink coffee. any recommendations? much appreciated.

Im looking to find a way to donate furniture from the triangle to Western NC. I run an Interior Design buiness and have alot of clients who want to donate to Western NC.

If anybody know a charity we can work with that would be wonderful. Thank you!

Hey neighbors - I’ve been thinking about finding a good volunteering gig for a while and am feeling motivated to make it happen. Does anyone have a volunteer organization they recommend, preferably in the CH area?

I am searching for an apartment or house that will rent to a felon. I would prefer an apartment, but I assume it might be harder to find one that accepts a felony.

Anyone have an idea of good places to park to walk on this trail? Can you park in NetApp or Cisco lots without getting towed if you're not an employee?

AllTrails points to NetApp parking lot, but it felt a little risky just parking where no one else is without being a NetApp employee.

Hey ya'll! I am making a comprehensive list of artists/makers that were affected by the storm so that out-of-towners can use the list to buy holiday gifts! As long as our friends and families are spending money on presents, they might as well spend it on Asheville artists. SO, please link artists below! I'll update the list daily.

Updated 11/06/2024 7:45 am

This site has made an incredible list: https://always.exploreasheville.com/love-asheville

Asheville Woolworth Website (many artists lost their studios): https://www.woolworthwalk.com/artists

Painting/Drawing/Prints:

https://www.alexwebberpaints.com/

melissamossart.com

www.stephensantore.com

https://www.instagram.com/melanie_norris_painter/

https://www.instagram.com/moon_spore/?hl=en

https://redbisonprintco.com/?srsltid=AfmBOopFMkn4pqn3r0vvNcX484FkBMAesExRU1zGTes7Qz1rqDZqzuRp

https://www.instagram.com/wildbrushworks/

https://www.instagram.com/zexymstrmnd/

https://www.artworkarchive.com/profile/isabelleklauder/embed

https://www.instagram.com/hbunzeyart/

Wood:

Textile:

Ceramics:

https://www.instagram.com/lauraloercherceramics

https://www.vineandfrond.com/

Bee products:

https://ashevillebeecharmer.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=GMB

Botanical Shadow Boxes:

https://www.madebymakko.com/

I'll try and post more as I learn of them!

I'm really curious to understand voters who selected Trump, Stein, and Green on the same ballot.

I can't understand that combination. Robinson had the comment scandal, but Trump had similar items. They endorsed each other.

What does Trump and Stein have in common? Or alternatively what does Harris and Robinson have in common?

I can't make sense of this ballot combination and I'm sincerely hoping someone can explain their thought process.

Howdy. I'm looking to move to Durham. I'm currently in a Kane property in Raleigh and considering I toured The Dillon before it was finished, I should have known better...I also hate the location. The district I'm in feels like the Sims version of an urban district.

Looking for somewhere with character, ideally walkable to interesting things. I'm annoyed enough that I'm willing to buy out my lease.

I have a very steady job and make tech money, too, so don't sweat me being able to pay for it. Sky high credit score and no arrests or evictions-l've never even gotten a speeding ticket.

Anyone got any leads?

I’m looking for not your regular, plain, balloon, for a celebration/anniversary. Harris teeter and Lowe’s used to have really nice ones, but I guess not anymore? Party city is kind of far, so I haven’t checked yet, but if they’re worth it, please lmk. Thank you in advance for the suggestions!

Which is better for plumbing courses?

Have two tickets for tonight's Hurricanes v Flyers game (Section 304). Upper level center ice.

$60 total for both!

Trump 2024 is not a slogan, it’s an expiration date!

Does anyone have any recommendations? The one my son sees is not a good fit for us but so far options are limited.

Polls open til 7:30PM, and if you are in line by then, they must allow you to vote and not close until everyone in line at that time votes.

Vote like your life depends on it…because it very well might.