A subreddit for the city (and county) of Durham, North Carolina.

I'm making sausage and looking for straight pork fat - anyone know of a butcher or meat counter that might be willing to save and sell me their pork fatback trimmings?

Anyone have any recommendations on the best place to get a new otterbox?

So every year around this time my friends and I get together and have a huge Christmas tree bonfire (on acres of private open land and hosted by an ex-firefighter so don’t worry, it will be safe!) and we are a little short of where we were last year. Do you have a Christmas tree you haven’t gotten rid of yet you would donate to the cause ? Or have you seen any trees around Durham you could tell me the general location of ? Help us make this year the most epic of all 🔥

About 50k people attended and/or signed up for tonight's Indivisible action meeting.

First something by our local Indivisible group for this Tues at Tillis' Raleigh office:

https://www.mobilize.us/bullcityindivisiblenc/event/752730/

And from the follow-up national action email:

Call Recording: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55yf3AstpQI

‼️ACTION ITEM: Take action by scheduling a visit at your senators office, check out our toolkit at Indivisi.org/choosetofight and register your event at https://www.mobilize.us/indivisible/c/funding-crisis-response/event/create/

Learn how Dems can shut down trumps agenda here: https://indivisible.org/resource/how-senate-democrats-can-shut-down-trumps-agenda-procedural-hardball

‼️ACTION ITEM: Call your Senator and tell them: Vote NO on Vought and Stop the Next Funding Freeze! https://indivisible.org/resource/tell-your-senator-vote-no-vought-and-stop-next-funding-freeze

‼️ACTION ITEM: Join tomorrow’s phonebank to Tell Congress: Don't Cut Off Working Families! Monday Feb 2, 2pm ET: https://www.mobilize.us/workingfamilies/event/752152/

Multiple folks I know that work in the federal govt have appreciated this following share. They have known about the process maybe, but not this specific guide:

https://bsky.app/profile/altdoi.bsky.social/post/3lh7seku22s25

I have 4 senior cats (12-16 years old) and recently brought in another cat (1.5-2 years old). It is not going well. For the past 6 weeks they have been separated but able to see each other. I am using Feliway, calming collars, and calming treats to no avail. I have tried everything I can think of, but my cats freak out just looking at her. The new cat seems pretty indifferent and I think she just wants to play. I'm hoping to find someone that can help the cats adjust and tell me how to best handle the situation.

Any suggestions on a place/gift shop to buy some unique local artist made earrings and other jewelry. My wife likes earrings and such and I’m good at picking out what she likes…There used to be a good spot on 9th on the corner of Markham next to Barnes…but it closed several years ago. February is a brutal month… wedding anniversary, Valentines and her birthday all this month!!

I am considering a summer camp for my 6 year old. It is the exact same topic being offered at two different places: Carolina Friends School and Duke School? Does anyone have any experience with either of these or a preference?

Do not forget your local troops!

Has anyone else in old east Durham had their house marked like this? I had a package stolen yesterday and then noticed this on the side of my house.

My girlfriend’s dog got a little hungry and destroyed part of gf’s antique chair that belonged to her grandmother.

Where are some of your top recommendations in the area and about how much would the service cost? I have no idea other than a quick google search.

TIA!

Not sure the year. University Ford looks like it’s under construction. Probably the best clue.

suggestions needed for an attorney who specializes in contracts. If they work with small business litigation or similar. Also, a lawyer for malpractice. thanks in advance! (all for Durham)

A friend of mine has put a little library in her yard. She lives near a middle school which has many Spanish speaking students. Books of all reading levels are needed and welcomed.

If you have any books written in Spanish, please message me to arrange pick up.

Come out today and protest for those who can’t!

Signal group for plant/seed swaps!

https://signal.group/#CjQKIJe0waXc3HCGM1E0l4pRXIVPtpJW0C2SkHSuPHleFq9tEhCC622ZZ3_bcoMPiv8KR01g

Doesn’t anybody know or can help me with information for a friend that is in need of a place to stay?

STATEMENT FROM THE LOBACH FAMILY

We are devastated by the loss of our beloved Rebecca. She was a bright star in all our lives. She was kind, generous, brilliant, funny, ambitious and strong. No one dreamed bigger or worked harder to achieve her goals.

Rebecca began her career in the United States Army as a distinguished military graduate in ROTC at the University of North Carolina, and was in the top 20% of cadets nationwide. She achieved the rank of Captain, having twice served as a Platoon Leader and as a Company Executive Officer in the 12th Aviation Battalion, Davison Army Airfield, Fort Belvoir, Virginia. With more than 450 hours of flight time, she earned certification as a pilot-in-command after extensive testing by the most senior and experienced pilots in her battalion.

Rebecca was a warrior and would not hesitate to defend her country in battle. But she was as graceful as she was fierce: in addition to her duties as an Army aviator, Rebecca was honored to serve as a White House Military Social Aide, volunteering to support the President and First Lady in hosting countless White House events, including ceremonies awarding the Medal of Honor and the Presidential Medal of Freedom.

Rebecca cared about people, and she extended to individuals the same fearless defense she gave to this nation. She was proud of the difference she made as a certified Sexual Harassment/Assault Response and Prevention (SHARP) Victim Advocate and hoped to continue her education so she could serve this country as a physician when her time with the Army ended. She once said, "My experiences with SHARP have reinforced my resolve to serve others with compassion, understanding, and the resources necessary for healing."

Rebecca was many things. She was a daughter, sister, partner, and friend. She was a servant, a caregiver, an advocate. Most of all, she loved and was loved. Her life was short, but she made a difference in the lives of all who knew her. Our hearts break for the other families who have lost loved ones in this national tragedy and we mourn with them.

We request that you please respect our privacy as we grieve this devastating loss.

Is such an unmitigated tool. Why that exhaust is allowed to be so loud is an abomination of the sanctity of civil existence. Nobody likes you, brotein.

I went to Lakewood YMCA today and the machine options for legs was not much. I need to strengthen my legs and the podiatrist recommended weight machines.

Where are some good spots for craft beers, ciders, and things like that? Like 6 packs or mix and match not draft.

I’m 10 weeks pregnant and torn between two options for my OB. I’ve been a GYN patient at Duke for years and always had a good experience but I’m worried they’re too big and too busy to get any kind of personalized or consistent care for OB. I went to Durham Women’s Clinic recently and they seem to have more capacity and a more personalized approach but their location is way less convenient than Duke’s and I know there are a lot of appointments between now and delivery that I have to fit in with my job (in Raleigh).

Anyone have experience doing their first pregnancy with either of these places? Any advice on how to choose?

I know this might be a dumb question but i went to Costco today and the lines/crowds are so large. The lines literally extend almost to the end of the store and the membership area is also very crowded. The food court even ran out of many items. I know it’s saturday but I’ve never seen it like this. Is there a sale going on?