Hi folks,

Born and raised in Cary, family lived here since 1971. I was laid off from my remote corporate job today after nearly 4 years, right before Christmas. I graduated with honors from UNC-CH and have multiple bachelor's degrees, no student debt. Downside: I am supposed to be moving in a month to get away from my ex-fiance. I need to find a job, preferably hybrid at the very least, if not remote, because of medical issues that require accommodations. I have years of experience in the corporate world, but I am more than aware this is the worst time of the year for finding a job. I already applied for unemployment. If you know of a small mom 'n' pop set up, or something where I could be remote so I won't go homeless and lose everything (I have no more family), I would deeply appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. I'm a hard worker and won awards at my former company. I am experienced in tech, automotive, production, and fluent in French. Bonus: EU/US dual citizen.

Which Target is better when it comes to being in stock aka not a hot mess?

I have gone to Noah's Ark for a long time, and they've taken great care of our animals. I understand vet care has gotten significantly more expensive since 2020, but we recently had a $700 annual visit (with bloodwork but still) and an upcoming dental cleaning is estimated to be $1,500.

A couple years ago Dr. Rosenoff (sp?) left and I have to assume they were sold to private equity then because these costs seem insane. Northwoods Animal Hospital quoted us $500 for the dental cleaning.

Come one, come all to Silent Fright Circus Show at Motorco in Durham on Saturday, December 7, presented by Triangle-based Purple Marble Circus.

Attendees will be dazzled by seasoned talent from The Triangle and surrounding areas performing contortion, high-flying aerial arts, burlesque, pole dance, acro yoga, trapeze, hooping, juggling, LED flow arts, and more. Grab your bells and bows as we take a stroll down Candy Cane Lane, with a scary and spooky peppermint twist.

WHAT: Silent Fright Circus Show WHEN: Saturday, December 7, doors 7pm, show 8pm WHERE: Motorco, 723 Rigsbee Ave, Durham, NC 27701 AGE: 18+ TICKETS: https://motorcomusic.com/event/silent-fright-circus-show/ FACEBOOK LINK: https://www.facebook.com/events/410984775431747

Is anyone very happy with their apartment building in the cary-morrisville area? I'm looking for something under 1600 a month, studio or 1 bedroom that is dog friendly and doesn't have a roach problem. It's been a long time since I moved to this area but I have no idea what's out there. Is anyone in the area thrilled with their apartment building?

I have a house with a backyard. Pros and cons of putting a tiny house in the backyard.

So I plan to sign up for o2 fitness super soon and to be completely honest, I have gym anxiety 😂 and would love to meet some girls that may be interested in going together sometimes (open to guy friends too) I’m 35 female.. Im typically a cardio girl but looking to get more into strength training & classes.

I saw that tickets are sold out for tonight. Do they have extras at the door?

Thank you

Looking to support some artists and small businesses and love the vibes of a holiday market! Anyone know any happening in the area over the next month?

Hey everyone, I’ve been trying to work up to a 10 mile hike and have been going to different trails in the area to prepare. The rain today sucked, and I almost want to use it as an excuse to not go on a walk tomorrow, but I won’t haha.

Any recommendations for any good mostly paved trails?

Looking for a pediatrician for our infant daughter. Had a bad experience with our initial pediatrician visit after birth due to us expressing concern over giving our newborn the hep b vaccination.

We were essentially dismissed as anti-vaxxers and the provider wouldn’t even answer basic questions about the vaccine other than it was recommended for newborns because we’d forget to get it when she’s older. I didn’t appreciate the lack of dialogue.

Regardless, my wife and I are looking for a pediatrician that’s open to questions and willing to talk to us about our concerns without becoming combative.

Thanks!

Want to send one message before the holidays since I know how stressful of a time this can be for some.

You might have seen my previous posts, but I’m a student ambassador for Somethings - a state-endorsed, 100% free mental health service for teens exclusively in North Carolina. We connect teens with trained young adult peer specialists who can provide guidance, empathy, and mental health support during tough times.

I'm trying to reach as many parents and teens who might benefit from additional support as possible especially in the wake of Hurricane Helene, especially those navigating challenges like anxiety, depression, etc. Here's where we're mentioned on the NCDHHS (North Carolina Department of Health + Human Services) site (check the second slide of the carousel!!), and additionally here's our website outlining our partnerships with the state: www.somethings.com/northcarolina

Please feel free to DM me if you have any questions or you can sign your teen up at our site if interested! Also, HAPPY THANKSGIVING everyone!!

I just wanted to pop back in and say thank you for all the love on my last post about Somethings. It’s honestly amazing to see how much this community cares about teen mental health—especially with everything folks are going through after Hurricane Helene.

I got a ton of DMs with questions (y’all are awesome), so I thought I’d share a quick FAQ in case anyone else is wondering the same things:

1. What’s a peer specialist, exactly? Think of them as a relatable older sibling who really gets it. They’re young adults trained to support teens with empathy and guidance—no judgment, just someone who listens and cares.
2. Wait, this is free? How?? Yep, totally free! We’re partnered with the state and NCDHHS to make this happen. It’s all about making sure every teen has access to help when they need it most.

If this sounds like something that could help your teen (or someone you know), shoot me a DM or check out our website to sign up.

And for anyone who’s been through tough times, what other mental health resources or tips have you found helpful? I’d love to hear about them and keep the conversation going.

Thanks again for being such an incredible community 💙

I’m having an extraordinarily hard time finding elementary schools (kindergarten specifically) with small class sizes for my son next year. He has some delays in speech and motor skills, not severe enough to warrant any kind of diagnosis, and is currently still an only child. I am CERTAIN he would not do well in a class with more than maybe 16 to 18 kindergarteners, and even HE has expressed not wanting to go to a big school. His current preschool class has 12-13 kids and 2 teachers and we love it.

Is it pretty much impossible to find that in an elementary school that doesn’t cost more than my college education did? People on Facebook recommended ravencroft but that’s absolutely not going to happen. We “make too much money” to qualify for any grants but can not afford something that expensive. Private school is not out of the question but would like to keep it under 8000.

Hi, we have some gently used cloths/shoes/etc to donate and would like to know good options (other than Goodwill - nothing against them, have given a good bit of stuff there and just want to support other places too). Where have yall found to be good?

Is anyone aware of board game groups/meetups that meet on a consistent basis but are still casual enough that it's not necessary to go each week. Typically, I see this at board game shops but it's been hit or miss on the ones that consistent and enjoyable.

Moving from east Raleigh, so pretty familiar with Raleigh spots!

Coffee Shops / Breakfast:

• Milo Cafe 🥐☕️
• Meeples ☕️
• NY Deli & Bagel 🥯
• Fount 🥐☕️
• Centregreen Cafe 🍳
• The Shiny Diner 🍳
• Brew ☕️
• The Mayton 🍳
• Chanticleer Cafe & Bakery 🥖☕️
• Esteemed ☕️
• La Farm 🥐☕️
• Cha House 🥓☕️
• Annelore's German Bakery 🥖☕️
• NYC Bagels 🥯

Lunch:

• Chelsea Brewery ⭐️
• Everest Nepali Kitchen🇳🇵
• Himalayan Nepali Cuisine🇳🇵
• Koi Ramen 🍜⭐️
• Sassool 🫒🍚
• La Victoria 🌮🇲🇽
• Yin Dee 🍛
• Great Harvest Bread Co. 🥪🥖
• Jasmine & Olivz 🫒🍚

Dinner:

• Ajumma ⭐️
• Flavors of India 🇮🇳
• La Grassa Pastificio 🍝🇮🇹
• Kimono Sushi 🍣
• Pizzeria Faulisi 🍕
• Maximillians ⭐️
• Peck & Plum 🍔🍸
• Nepal House 🍜
• Bella Monica 🇮🇹🍝
• Di Fara Pizza Tavern 🍕
• M Sushi 🍣
• Scratch Kitchen 🍔
• The Umstead 🍸⭐️
• Hanks Downtown Dive 🍸🦪⭐️

Bars:

• The Nine 🍻
• Spirits Pub & Grub 🍻🍔
• Bull City Ciderworks 🍻
• The Walk Up 🍸
• Hearsay Cocktail Bar 🍸
• The Beach House Tiki Brewing 🍻
• Sidebar 🍸
• The Bark Bar 🍻🐾
• BottleDog Bites & Brews 🍻🍔
• RBF 🍷
• Bond Brothers 🍻

Here you go…welcome to Cary, NC…apartment building capital of The Triangle.

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Anyone in the Cary area have a licensed electrician they recommend (legit companies only - I will not be calling your neighbor who doesn't have insurance)? Need a few things done at my house and prefer not to have multiple companies coming out for quotes. My "you are trying to charge how much" face isn't well disguised.

Hi guys! I just moved to the area and I took my cat to gentle care on tryon and they were great! However they don’t have a good wellness plan. Does anyone have any recommendations for a vet with a wellness plan that includes free or inexpensive dental cleanings?

Man they had this Colorado scramble i loved, it was like eggs, cream cheese, chives, ham, bacon... I have tried to find the recipe on the internet but come up empty...,

Anyone know what I'm talking about, and possibly how to make it? Would love to be able to make at home!

Hey y'all. I'm a newer pet owner of sorts and this is the first time it appears my ragdoll (long hair) cat will need a bath after 1.5 years of having her. Any recommendations on groomers that work with cats? After a cursory search it looks like most grooming services lean towards dogs. Not looking exactly for her to be trimmed, just washed thoroughly + excess fur combed out.

I was going to try doing it myself, but since this is a once in awhile type of thing I thought I'd try something different.

They manage 5 West, Midtown, and Triangle Family publications locally and tout 140k readers. Hoping for any feedback from readers or folks who have placed advertisements with them…is it effective marketing? It’s a couple thousand dollars to place an ad and I’m concerned that most of these go straight from the mailbox to the trash.

Does anyone know why the inept configuration of the Walnut and Kildare Farm/Dry Ave. intersection (Library, Park, Art's Center) was not redesigned during the Library and Park construction projects?

No one who drives that intersection must think, "this is fine"; so why was it not redesigned during two huge Construction projects?

Hi Cary Friends!

I have what seems like a million questions about the Downtown Cary noise ordinance and didn’t know if there were any resources other than what is written for the code or if anyone has had experience dealing with noise violations.

My questions specifically pertain to dogs barking in the barkyard. To be clear, I am not upset about the nose. I love dogs and have no issues with dogs doing dog things!

Based on my reading and passing it on to an attorney friend that quickly skimmed it, I still have these questions:

Does the ordinance account for natural dog behavior, such as occasional barking during play?

Are dog parks treated differently under the noise ordinance, given that barking is expected in these settings?

How are complaints about barking in the dog park handled? The code mainly addresses residential.

Are there specific guidelines for park staff or law enforcement to distinguish between excessive barking and normal dog park activity?

Have there been any community feedback sessions or adjustments to the ordinance based on public input?