/r/closetcrew

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This sub is mostly for those who are closeted LGBTQ+ who are looking for support or to just have a good time. This is also for those who have been in certain situations before.

This sub is mostly for those who are closeted LGBTQ+ who are looking for support of just have a good time or those who have been in certain situations before

/r/closetcrew

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Transphobia Healing Project! Guided online writing exercises from UMass Boston, $20 compensation (transgender, nonbinary, gender diverse folks welcome!)

Apologies for cross-posting. Please see bottom of post for added links that may help to demonstrate this project's credibility!

TL;DR: Participate in an online guided writing study to advance free and evidence-based therapeutic tools for trans communities & earn $20 for yourself or a trans/nb NGO.

Hi there! My name is Lindsey White (they/them) and I am a 31yo nonbinary therapist, long time reddit lurker, and 6th year PhD student in Counseling Psychology at UMass Boston. With my colleague Dr. Heidi Levitt we have developed the Transphobia Healing Project! Our team targets translating evidence-based therapy tactics into at-home exercises in order to reach low-resourced communities, or folks who don’t readily have access to affirming therapists.

We are seeking participants to engage in three 15-minute-long online expressive writing exercises that contain prompts to help guide them as they reflect on a distressing experience related to their gender. Pre and post surveys are used to measure changes in mental health, and a follow-up survey to see if changes sustain after a month.

Financial Compensation: We are committed to providing direct financial support to trans/nb communities through our research. Participants have 2 payment options: 1) Choose an org that serves trans communities and WE will make a $20 to that org on your behalf (see list of orgs below), or 2) Receive a $20 Amazon gift card via email.

Here's a snapshot of how the THP will work:

  1. 2-minute screening call – verify you meet study criteria & we can answer any of your questions (Criteria: over 18, live in US, gender identity, not currently in crisis)
  2. Pre-study survey
  3. Writing exercise 1
  4. Writing exercise 2
  5. Writing exercise 3 + post-study survey
  6. 1-month follow-up survey + $20 pay-out in your preferred method

*Click the link here to get started on the project or to learn more about THP*

https://umassboston.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0v0DbXaVyhSRQjk

Organizations on our Donation List:

  • Trans Lifeline
  • Black Trans Femmes in the Arts
  • Trans Women of Color Collective
  • Transgender Law Center – Black LGBTQIA+ Migrant Project (BLMP)
  • Transgender Legal, Defense & Education Fund
  • Queer Detainee Empowerment Project

Research Team

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A note to our trans & nonbinary community members:

In my experience working with LGBTQIA+ folks in research, I know that many of our community members are understandably on guard against malicious people who harm us and our loved ones This is especially strong in our trans, nonbinary, and gender diverse communities (and, of course, in online spaces). To folks who feel concerned about a post like this, I wanted to say thank you for looking out and wanting to protect our communities. To help put folks at ease, I wanted to provide a few more links that may help to demonstrate a credible online professional presence, and a history of engagement in research in service of LGBTQIA+ communities.

  1. This is a study that Dr. Levitt, myself and colleagues have published on challenges some LGBTQIA+ folks have encountered while trying to become parents. It was cited in an amicus brief submitted to the U.S. Supreme Court to defend foster care non-discrimination.
  2. This is THP's "sister study" from our research team, which was developed for people with minority sexual identities.
  3. You can see some of our faces in our webpage bios.
  4. Finally, if you are more comfortable reaching out to an official "umb.edu" email address, you are welcome to email myself (Lindsey.White001@umb.edu), Dr. Levitt (Heidi.Levit@umb.edu), or the UMass Boston IRB (irb@umb.edu) directly with any questions or concerns.

Confidentiality, Data, & Ethics: The questionnaires you complete and the writing exercises you complete are the data that will be collected for analysis in this study. This data will help us to learn how these exercises function and how helpful they are for experiences of transphobia. Any confidential information you share will be kept confidential within the research team. That is, the information gathered for this project will not be published, shared, or presented in a way that would allow anyone else to identify you. The data collected in this study will be kept in confidence within the limits allowed by law. Psychologists have an obligation to report active threats of harming oneself or others (so please do not participate if you are actively in crisis, but instead we encourage you to call Trans Lifeline 877-565-8860) . No identifying information (e.g., names, addresses) will be recorded on your writing exercises or surveys and if you include identifying information in your writing exercises it will be deleted from our records. Your email address will be known only by the lead investigator of this project and graduate students trained in research ethics and confidentiality who are helping to schedule screening and send email reminders. All identifying records of your identification (e.g., email address) will be destroyed within one year of your completing your participation in this project.

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2022/04/01
03:35 UTC

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You know who's valid?

You. ;)

Happy Pride Month, guys!!!

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2021/06/05
01:28 UTC

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I came out to my friend

Ok, so some backstory. A day before my bff came out to me as pan. I was so excited for her, and was thinking, I should come out. Like why not? But then I was scared because sisters said I shouldn’t tell anyone, also I wanted to be glamorous and creative.

Ok, so they say comes, me and her are going to Dunkin and right before we get there I say, “We have so much in common. We both love Marvel, Harry Potter, vines, and pans!” Then she stopped for a second and was like, “You’re Pan too?” And the we just chilled and made jokes. Was good time. Now just have to come out to parents.

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2020/07/27
02:28 UTC

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I just came out to my girlfriend.

She still loves me and nothing has changed.

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2020/07/18
22:53 UTC

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NEW DISCORD PEEPS

Can y’all do a favor for me? Join this discord server. If you don’t, get out of this subreddit. Jk. But please go join. 13-20 year olds ONLY

https://discord.gg/b8F2bmD Edit: forgot to add this is for LGBTQ peeps.

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2020/07/08
23:32 UTC

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This

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2020/06/07
17:42 UTC

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This was me coming out to friends I was 100% sure would accept me. Eek

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2020/06/05
15:26 UTC

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Closet time

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2020/06/03
17:58 UTC

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100 Members! 🎉

Just want to say, thank you. We have hit 100 members. It is so amazing. Me and u/Mushacorn have built up this server. But I really have to give credit to them. They started this subreddit and I am happy they did. We have hit 100 members and it is great. Big thanks to everyone.

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2020/06/01
00:43 UTC

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Hi, so I saw this and was absolutely horrified. It's unlikely you haven't seen it but I'm sharing it everywhere I can so more people will see. They want us to feel bad for being who we are, please don't take it seriously. They are just homophobic assholes. Be who you are and stay safe.

2 Comments
2020/05/28
18:45 UTC

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Discord

Hello people of r/closetcrew. We have an official discord now. Here is the link http://disboard.org/server/713833056716194155. The discord is to have fun and chat with people.

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2020/05/27
04:25 UTC

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I thought this would be a good first official post. My mom used to say this to me when I'd tell her I had gay friends

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2020/05/24
19:29 UTC

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Introduction thread

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2020/05/23
14:53 UTC

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How to make user flair

At the top of the sub, there should be 3 dots. Click that and look for something that says "edit user flair" and pick when you want.

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2020/05/23
04:14 UTC

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Welcome Everyone!

Hello everyone! Welcome to r/closetcrew. I am going to get this started and say that I am coming out soon. Maybe May 25, or June 1. Not sure yet. I will update you guys when it happens. But, what I am here to ask is, should I bring it up, or wait for my parents to say something? I am not good at saying things to my parents, so can you guys help me?

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2020/05/23
03:34 UTC

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Let me know if you have any suggestions cuz idk how to do this ,-_-,

4 Comments
2020/05/21
23:29 UTC

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