Personally yes, I use pangenderflux, Apangender and agenderflux, as they all describe me equally

Also having post here in ages, maybe 2 years, don't know if I've even done so on this account. So high!

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I identify as pangender, because I identify as all genders. Girl, boy, nonbinary, Demi-girl, demi-boy, etc. all at the same time or in a genderfluid way where I kinda lean towards one more than the others. I see almost everyone who's pangender say that they feel it's like a lack of gender but also all genders at once. Am I still pangender?

i’ve identified as pangender for a while now (like a year or so) because labels feel very confining for me. Ive started to dress masculine at first to affirm the fact that i don’t HAVE to only dress feminine (as i mainly dress feminine), but its sort of turned into like a coping mechanism? like when i get very stressed/under pressure ill literally transform and then the next day i feel better. im not too sure why its so healing for me to crossdress but it is, and I’ve been wondering does that make me genderfluid? can i be genderfluid and pangender at the same time? I don’t think i would ever go out presenting masculine and as of right now i view it as a sacred practice only select few people know i do.

is there a term to describe what im experiencing? i mean presenting feminine 90% of the time then presenting masculine in private as a way to help myself feel better.

I just really need a place where i can talk to people who have had similar experiences as me and can help me because sometimes it feels like everyone has themselves figured out and im still trying to fully understand myself, its rough out here. 😭

I think im pangender because i usually feel like every gender all at once, but sometimes i feel like no gender at all like i feel like just a being. Its rare for me to feel like this but i think its significant enough to bring up, But now im wondering would i still be pangender?

(I used to be genderfluid but that didn’t feel right so I don’t think I’m genderfluid)

Im afab, and I believe im pangender. Id love to be a male, or more androgynous, but being female is okay too. Is it okay to feel one or more genders more than others? Or have like a main gender or something? Idk- Also im more comfortable saying 'oh im trans' most of the time, does pangender fall under the trans umbrella? ✨ALSO✨ is it okay for my gender to be influenced by others?? As in, im around females, i feel more fem. Males, more male.

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I use two sets of pronouns and I feel extremely insecure about asking people to learn them so I just let them call me she/her. I know I shouldn't because it hurts my mental well-being.

My online pronouns are gli/glitch/glitches/glits/glitchself My irl pronouns are archaic pronouns thou/thee/thy/thine/thyself

Does anyone else go by different pronouns or neopronouns/xenopronouns

Okay,so I think im pangender. Ive been identifying with pangender for a few days and i feels right, but i have a question! I know i feel every gender, but i don't keep track of the genders i feel. I just say, 'oh yeah im all of da genders!' instead of saying 'i feel uhh paraboy, demiboy, demigirl, etc.' is that okay?

I've explained the actual term, but I'm not sure how to explain it further?? My friend wants to understand me further, and she's saying she's struggling to as she doesn't exactly understand the term, I've been trying my best to explain and she's been really apologetic with me because she can't really understand it that well. I've explained the term but she doesn't get it, does anyone have any ideas on how I could help her to understand??

I feel like almost every gradient of the masculine-feminine spectrum + agender spectrum — including girl, paragirl, demigirl, libragirl, neutral, androgyne, libraboy, demiboy…… etc

So I’m almost an entire spectrum, and my gender definitely feels uncountable & sort of infinite within the spectrum.

However, I do NOT experience binary male (or anything beyond two thirds male, so no paraboy either), aporagender/maverique, or any xenogenders.

Could this be classified as pangender?

I really like the pangender label and flag, and I feel a pull to identify as it. However, I’m aware that I may not fit the definition enough to be pangender. Maybe polygender would be a better fit? It’s just I feel like polygender doesn’t express gender’s uncountability/infinite-ness as explicitly as pangender does and so I like pangender better. If that makes any sense?

Help is needed & very appreciated!

Pretty much since I've known about other genders besides male and female, I've been feeling more and more like I don't care about what pronouns people use for me. I was born female, but I'm also okay if people use they/them or xenopronouns to refer to me. I've been opposed to people using he/him, but I feel like it could just be that I know I'm not male, and I feel like I don't actually care what pronouns people use to refer to me. I don't want to call myself pangender yet, because idk if there's an exact label for what I'm feeling. It's also hard to tell because everyone I know knows that I use she/her, and uses those, and I don't really want to have to explain to them, when I don't know what I'm comfortable with.

I'm not entirely sure what gender label I go by, and this seemed like the best place to ask since Google wasn't helping

Yesterday, I realized I was Pangender.

I used to identify as Trigender but I had been questioning again for a while because I sorta just felt (and still feel) like I was both all genders within the spectrum and also not any specific one. This led me to talk to my NB friend, who is very well-educated on gender and way better at research than me. So they helped me put 2 and 2 together, and find the label that I thought fit me best.

Now I’m here! 🥰

(I use we/us) We’re sorry for a stupid question, but we doubt so much…😭 We only today realized we were a pangender

After struggling to figure out my gender identity for a while I have finally come to the conclusion I'm pangender. Which I guess makes me a pangender pansexual, lol. My questions are: what is your experience like being pangender? Doesn't being pangender mean I'm trans? (I experience genders that differ from the one I was assigned at birth, but I experience my assigned gender to, so how does that fit into everything?) Also I found a couple different flags online, what is the flag discourse, and which is the favorite of the community?

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I made a post like this on the agender sub a long time ago, but : No matter how feminine, masculine, or androgynous you are. Your gender identity is completely valid. You don't have to look a certain way to be any gender, your gender is an identity, not a fashion style.💗

My friend is being a jerk, and keeps saying stuff like "I'm more gay / trans than you" or "You're still partly a woman so I don't classify you as a guy" and it hurts my feelings because like... It's not a competition. Everyone is valid. He's trans ftm, and gay mlm, so he should understand this. But he doesn't. I know I'm valid but sometimes I feel like I'm just delusional for being pansexual and pangender. Like maybe I should just say I'm bi and trans demiboy. Clearly that's easier and more well known.

Yippee!!!!!!!