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Sexology is the study of human sexuality including human sexual interest, behavior and function. Content that educates people and challenges their perspectives about these topics is welcome.

Sexology is the study of human sexuality including human sexual interest, behavior and function. Content that educates people and challenges their perspectives about these topics is welcome.


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  1. No personal or clinical advice questions.

  2. Posts and comments must be related to sexology, either the science or the clinical practice. Sharing of sexual experiences or asking for advice should be posted in /r/sex instead.

  3. No hate against or abuse of marginalised groups.

  4. No doxxing or posting others' personal information.

  5. No spam.

  6. No posting your own nudes, lewds, porn, or soliciting other users for sex.

  7. Content relating to sensitive areas must focus on rigorous, peer reviewed research. Content that promotes rape, sexual assault, or child sexual abuse will be removed and the user permanently banned.

  8. Calls for participants require moderator verification of IRB approval.


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Podcasts about male masturbation?

I'm curious to know more about it: if is good or bad dor your health, if can improve your libido etc.. do you have any podcast to recommend?

2 Comments
2024/11/25
01:01 UTC

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Masturbation coaching

I’m trying to determine if “masturbation coaching” with trained professionals who work in the fields of sex therapy or sexology is actually a thing or not. My understanding is it would be for correcting erection and/or ejaculatory issues in men, and also various female difficulties. Educate me.

2 Comments
2024/11/16
03:01 UTC

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How many different emotions can "drive" sex.

I have a very weird question and this seems to be the best place to get an answer.

I'm currently working on an NSFW sci-fi story which revolves around an alien species that has an unusual ability. This being; The strongest emotion they are experiencing during sexual intercourse determines the biological makeup of their offspring. This species is divided into multiple sub-species whose biological forms reflect the strongest emotion their parents were experiencing at the time they were conceived.

This is not realistic or even scientifically possible but it's sci-fi so don't worry about it.

Anyway, I need to determine how many different sub-species this fictional species could have and in order to do that, I am wondering if there is a specific number of emotions that could drive sexual intercourse and if so, what those emotions are.

7 Comments
2024/11/02
16:33 UTC

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Tell me any information i might need to know being in a heterosexual relationship

whether it’s about ejaculating or orgasming for males or females , anything goes

1 Comment
2024/11/01
21:08 UTC

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MSTI Sexology PhD program

Hi Reddit friends! I am interested in the MSTI Sexology PhD program but as an LCSW with over a decade as a Psychotherapist, it has been awhile since I've engaged with academia or research. Do any of you recommend a research, statistics or data analyst course to prepare?

1 Comment
2024/10/18
04:34 UTC

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BDSM

Hi everyone. I’m looking for great books and research on BDSM and/or Kink as it relates to clinical sexology. I’m finishing my MFT program and will be going straightway into a clinical sexology doctorate program. I enjoy researching and keeping current on research and my readings. I pick areas of interest as they come to me and right now it’s these.

Thanks in advance guys!

3 Comments
2024/10/09
22:00 UTC

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Paid Study for Sexually Non-Monogamous Couples

[MOD APPROVED]

Hi there, 

We are a research team at Western University, and we are actively recruiting non-monogamous couples for a paid 12-week diary study.  

We understand that although those who identify as non-monogamous have fulfilling and loving relationships, they still face discrimination as society largely assumes monogamy to be the “default setting” in partnerships. It is our hope that through research, a broader understanding of these relationships can help to dispel some of the stigma these relationships may face.  

You are eligible for this study if: 

  • You have only one partner you would consider as your “main” or “primary” partner 

  • You and your main partner are in a consensually non-monogamous relationship 

  • You and/or your main partner regularly engage in intimate/sexual activity outside of your relationship 

  • Both you and your partner are at least 24 years old 

  • Both you and your partner are willing to participate 

After you and your partner each complete an initial 10-minute survey, you will be emailed a 5-minute survey each week for 12 weeks. You will be compensated up to $40 ($80 per couple). Compensation is based on the number of surveys completed.  

Your participation will create meaningful advancements in relationship science, and we thank you for your consideration. We invite you to respond fully and honestly; the goal of this research is to be inclusive, supportive, and free of judgement. 

If you and your partner think you may be eligible and are interested in participating, please email us at: cnmdiary@uwo.ca. For more information about our lab, visit us at www.relationshipdecisions.org. 

1 Comment
2024/10/02
19:13 UTC

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Could there be a such a thing as a pill that changes sexual orientation?

2 Comments
2024/09/29
17:06 UTC

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[Participants Needed] Sexual Difficulties and Experiences with Healthcare

Hello! My name is Brooke Higginbottom; I’m Sociology Master’s student at the University of Victoria (UVic), in British Columbia, Canada. Currently, I am working on my Master’s thesis and am looking for participants for my research study.

I am looking for anyone who has been diagnosed with a sexual disorder/dysfunction or who identifies as having difficulties with sexual functioning (such as perceived low desire, arousal, organism frequency or intensity, and/or the presence of sexual pain) to take a 10–15-minute survey focusing on their experiences and perspectives towards sexual difficulties and healthcare. Survey responses are anonymous and will not be public. Only I and my supervisors will be able to see any responses. If you’d like to participate, here is the link to the survey: https://www.surveymonkey.ca/r/K52BVF2

This project focuses on those with sexual disorders/sexual difficulties and their experiences within the healthcare systems. Additionally, I will be looking into the ways asexual people experience healthcare systems. As someone who identifies as asexual, I have struggled with accepting and embracing my lack of sexual desire. Before learning about asexuality, I spoke to a doctor about my situation, but the experience wasn’t fulfilling. Now, I am curious as to the experiences of others in similar situations.

This research will promote healthier viewpoints of sexual arousal, address potential stigma within the healthcare system and society, further improve understandings of asexuality, and combat bigoted assumptions. It is my hope that my research will add further depth and legitimacy to both the experiences of asexuals and those with sexual difficulties. I hope that from this project, a healthier distinction between these two identities will be drawn and that we will move towards normalizing lower sexual desire/attraction.

If you want to know more about me, my study, my reasoning for this research topic, or have any further questions, please contact me at brookehigginbottom@uvic.ca. or my supervisors, Dr. Thea Cacchioni at tcacchio@uvic.ca or Dr. Steve Garlick at sgarlick@uvic.ca.

Please read the consent form at the beginning of the page before starting the survey. Note that you must be over 19 to participate in the study!

This post has received moderator approval.

1 Comment
2024/09/26
17:05 UTC

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Could it be ethical to research how to change sexual orientation?

1 Comment
2024/09/24
10:29 UTC

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How can asexuality be explained by sexology?

I am very curious to know if asexuality is really a thing (I am not a sexologist). Is it true that a person can live without feeling sexually attracted to anybody? If this is a thing, how is that explained by the science of sexology? Thank you!

12 Comments
2024/09/22
18:03 UTC

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Desirability and Partner Preferences in LGBT Relationships

Would you like to contribute to breaking down research disparity between LGBT+ and heterosexual populations?

Hi, I'm conducting research at Monash University on how personality and occupational status can impact desirability in LGBT relationships. Much of the research conducted on partner preferences and its association with evolution have focused on heterosexual relationships. We're trying to change that!

If you're over 18 and part of the LGBT+ community, we would love to have you participate in our study.

This survey takes only 5-10 minutes, is completely anonymous and you have the opportunity to enter into a draw to win one of four $50 gift cards.

Access the survey here: https://monash.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_eeOL5UzSOYiwIYe

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at npra0006@student.monash.edu

Thank you in advance !

Study approved by MUHREC: 44125

Ethics approval document: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LCZkXEr0dozYjiLPlkdhxtWDxvg4-eD3/view?usp=sharing

** post has received mod approval **

1 Comment
2024/09/10
04:18 UTC

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SHA Sexological Conference, Oct 3-6

Sexual Health Alliance's 2nd Annual Sexological Conference this October in Denver, Colorado October 3-6. 

This year we’re anticipating around 200 attendees, including acclaimed sexologists, doctors, clinicians, researchers, psychotherapists, innovators and leading trailblazers and influencers in the sexual health and wellness space. This year's event will once again be headlined by well-known sexologist, sex and relationship therapist, and author, Dr. Chris Donaghue and also renowned author and sex educator Midori as well as Dr. David Ley.

https://e.sparxo.com/Sexological-Conference2024?rn=Coral

1 Comment
2024/09/06
19:37 UTC

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Can the fraternal birth order effect be explained by society becoming more accepting of LGBT over time?

It's well-documented in survey data that younger people are more likely to identify as LGBT than older people. Generation Z are more likely to identify as LGBT than Millenials, who are more likely than Gen X, etc. With this in mind, can the FBOE be explained by younger siblings being born into a society that's marginally more accepting of LGBT than older ones, hence making them more likely to identify as LGBT?

6 Comments
2024/08/29
17:51 UTC

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What level of technological development would be needed to change sexual orientation?

Is it possible brain surgery could change sexual orientation in the future?

2 Comments
2024/08/26
10:54 UTC

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Is there a Masters leading to licensure that focuses on sex therapy?

Apparently most people just get a masters in mental health, get their license, and then get a sex therapy certificate.

It would be nice if I could find a masters program that focused on sex therapy.

I did find this at Widener, duel MSW and MEd of Human Sexuality, completed your eligible AASECT certification.

Any advice?

https://socialworkonline.widener.edu/msw-med/online-msw-med

1 Comment
2024/08/20
01:15 UTC

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When does sperm become semen? Is it after passing through the prostate or after passing next to the seminal vesicles?

I saw a lot of things and now I’m confused.

2 Comments
2024/08/17
01:51 UTC

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Registered Nurse Turned Sexologist?

As the title suggests, I'm currently a registered nurse and I'm hoping to start working towards a career in sexology (hopefully as my full-time but I'm also fine with something that starts as more of a side job). It's something I've been thinking about for years but just haven't decided how I want to go about it so I'm turning to you all for suggestions. To start, I don't think I want to become a sex therapist per se but I'm not against it. I would like to focus more on sexual empowerment, education, and helping survivors of sexual trauma have healthy, fulfilling sex lives. I see myself doing more group work, leading workshops, and teaching on a larger scale. It's a bit harder to picture myself helping an individual or couple talk through their sexual issues, at least as my main career focus. Also, as a BIPOC that also practices ethical non-monogamy and is no stranger to the kink community, I have a strong interest in those areas as well, especially when it comes to helping other BIPOC safely explore more "unconventional" lifestyles. Sex coach or sex educator are titles that resonate a bit more with me but I'm aware that the sex therapist title is more selective and also generally more respected/recognized.

In addition to my BSN, I also have a B.A. in Psychology that I earned before deciding to get my nursing degree many years later. I'm considering working towards becoming a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner (either Master's or Doctorate level) then pursuing a certificate or multiple certificates in sexuality. I've also considered possibly pursuing a Master's in Counseling or Therapy then going for a certification in sexuality. I did look into a PsyD or PhD in Psychology but being a working mom, I just don't think it'd be practical for me to commit to a 4-6 year program that doesn't have any online options. I'm not looking for an "easy way in" but I have to be realistic for my circumstances. On that note, it is important that I earn enough to sustain a comfortable lifestyle for my kids and I, which is why I'm considering having a more "normal" 9 to 5 with good job security and working in sexuality on a more part-time basis if need be. Anyway, any suggestions, ideas, related stories, etc. would be greatly appreciated as I try to plan out my next 3-5 years. Thanks guys!

7 Comments
2024/08/16
00:38 UTC

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Book recommendations

It's been more than 10 years that I've been working as a nurse. The area of sexology seems interesting to me and I'd like to have some suggestions on how to take a dive on the theme as a professional.

Maybe someone could give me some author suggestions, ebooks... I think something with clinical examples would be even better, so I can understand a little better the type of counseling that can be given to people. If there is some kind of publication with the actual state of the art that would be also interesting.

Thank you

3 Comments
2024/08/11
20:51 UTC

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PhD Survey Investigating the Impact of Online Sexual Material on Sexual Attitudes and Behaviour (for UK 16-21 Year Olds)

Hi everyone!

My name is Megan and I’m a PhD student within the School of Psychology at the University of Buckingham. I am carrying out a survey amongst young people to find out about their experiences with online sexual material and how it impacts their sexual attitudes and behaviour - and I'm still very much in need of participants! If you are interested in taking part, please go to the link below :). Please be aware that I have received ethical approval from my IRB.

https://run.pavlovia.org/pavlovia/survey-2024.1.0/?surveyId=ef8b512c-a59c-49e6-a2d6-a6d2a7481499

5 Comments
2024/08/10
12:57 UTC

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do sex therapist make good money?

i wish to be a sex therapist or something of the sort but my question is do they make good money and i was wondering if someone can put me on the right track to become one

4 Comments
2024/08/04
22:14 UTC

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PhD Survey Investigating the Impact of Online Sexual Material on Sexual Attitudes and Behaviour (for UK 16-21 Year Olds)

Hi everyone!

My name is Megan and I’m a PhD student within the School of Psychology at the University of Buckingham. I am carrying out a survey amongst young people to find out about their experiences with online sexual material and how it impacts their sexual attitudes and behaviour. If you are interested in taking part, please go to the link below :). Please be aware that I have received ethical approval from my IRB.

https://run.pavlovia.org/pavlovia/survey-2024.1.0/?surveyId=ef8b512c-a59c-49e6-a2d6-a6d2a7481499

1 Comment
2024/07/29
18:53 UTC

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Where can I find a sexologist for a one-time written consultation?

I thought I could find one on platforms like Fiver or Upwork, but I wasn't able to find one.

I need a brief written consultation, even an opinion. I'm ready to pay for it.

1 Comment
2024/07/21
11:36 UTC

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How would you design a penis to give a baseline human cis woman an orgasm through penetration alone?

Before anyone brings it up, yes I'm aware most women can't orgasm through penetration alone. As you can probably tell from the weird way I worded it, this question's more one of speculative biology.

Like, specifically, it's for hypothetical xenophilic fiction I want to write, more specifically transformation fiction, yes I am that Kind Of Weirdo.

Because while porn writing/art is not known for its plausibility (To the point where I'd categorize hentai biology as a subcategory of toon physics) it's interesting to try and avoid cliche via designing for form-follows-function, and I figured y'all might know the ergonomics of the subject well enough to give some interesting advice.

2 Comments
2024/07/18
06:32 UTC

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Recommendations for Higher Ed with Sexology?

I’m looking at various MA programs or opportunities with human sexuality field-any advice for a senior undergrad?

1 Comment
2024/07/05
02:20 UTC

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Is it true that men have higher sex drive than women? If it's true why this happend and how big is this difference?

just curious. For me it does't make sens that humans are programmed to reproduce but one necessary part want this less often than other necessary part to do this.

5 Comments
2024/06/17
21:17 UTC

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Questions about California Laws for Internal Pelvic Care.

I'm thinking about moving to California and offer holistic pelvic floor therapy. I know that a Sexological Bodywork certification is recognized in California, but wondering if it's mandatory in order to practice internal care? I am not a PT or OT so wondering if there's gray area in this state. Thanks!

1 Comment
2024/05/28
18:28 UTC

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Australian sex coach couple?

Long shot, but there's an Australian sex coach who worked with her male partner also I am trying to remember the name of! I'd say they are in their 30s. Any ideas?

1 Comment
2024/04/15
13:38 UTC

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Is there anyway I could respectfully and logically study pornography?

I feel like this somewhat relates to sexology.

Hello, I have anways been facinated by the human body, but mostly by the sexual functions. I seem to have this intrigue about eroticism, and how everything relates to the human experience.

I would like to study, deconstruct, and critique (mostly "amateur) pornography. I am fascinated about seeing human sexuality acted out and practiced. I also try to see if there are any artistic merits to the content depicted in the video. Such as the meaning of the film. What the film represents to those who made it, and how others view it. It doesn't have to be a mainline career, but I have wondered if that could be possible.

However, it is highly difficult to find fellow individuals who share the same ideas as me. Sometimes I feel like a joke, but I often find myself looking at pornography for all the reasons people jokingly say they do it, but I am serious.

There is also a massive amount of disrespect present. For example, if I wanted to discuss a film with someone, ideally it would be more akin to a book report or film breakdown. Most people are unable to maintain any professionalism. I understand that arrousal may happen, but people often go off the rails. I can only describe it as I think they're whipping it out behind their screen and am going into "disrespect the hoe" mode.

I have met only a handful of people who can tolerate a degree of professionalism.

Should I try to pursue this, or is it a lost cause?

3 Comments
2024/04/13
23:25 UTC

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[Academic Research] Survey on Premature Ejaculation / Rapid Sexual Response

Hello /Sexology community,

We're reaching out from a collaborative research team led by David Rowland, Ph.D., Senior Research Professor, Valparaiso University, Valparaiso IN USA.

We are seeking men who experience rapid ejaculation or who reach orgasm more quickly than desired to participate in our survey.

Link to survey: https://cwru.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV\_e4GAZ0o7rbMGZ7w?srcid=rd6

The survey duration varies based on your responses, but it typically takes about 10 to 15 minutes to complete

Our study seeks not only to shed light on the complexities of PE but also to pave the way for more nuanced diagnostic tools and personalized treatment options, enhancing sexual well-being and quality of life for those affected.

Your responses will be anonymous. This project has been reviewed and approved by the Institutional Review Board of Valparaiso University in the USA. Thank you for your time and candid responses to this survey. We appreciate your interest and help.

2 Comments
2024/04/11
19:29 UTC

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