15M and I cum in just 2-3 minutes of masterbating. Has someone else experienced this when young and will this increase with age?

I'm 19, F, and a virgin. I finally got into my first serious relationship, and wanna take it to the next level.

I'm pretty scared of sex, i always have been. thankfully, my boyfriend's been very patient with me.

We've both gotten turned on, but as soon as he takes his pants off and he's between my legs I freeze up and sort of shy away from him, and he backs off.

i asked my friend for help and she said im just not turned on enough (?)

I'm able to give him head, but I get really nervous and have to take breaks a lot because being like that makes my heart race (which makes it hard for him to finish, since I keep coming off of him)

We resorted to just letting him put it between my thighs as an alternative until I can get some confidence to actually put it IN me, but my anxiousness is so bad I get really shy and I can't look at him when we do that, and i have to hug a pillow for comfort and just lay there on my back.. which makes me feel a bit bad cause he's doing all the work, and sometimes i wanna pamper him and let him lay back.

i wanna finally have REAL sex with him, like having him in me, because i think it's really intimate and romantic, i wanna be fully vulnerable and see him fully vulnerable, and take care of him/let him take care of me. i'm sick of getting cold feet when we're actually in bed.

our failed attempts ended up making me happy too, cause he cares about me, but i just want to make him happy and feel cared for as much as I do. if anyone has had the same issue pleaseeee tell me how you got over it !! :(

Hi! I (19F) and my boyfriend (20M) have both been noticing that I haven’t really been enjoying sex as of lately. We’ve tried having sex twice but during these times it doesn’t feel very pleasurable, it hurts a bit, and i don’t feel very excited. This freaked me out a bit since I have never come across this issue in our relationship. We have been together for a year and a couple months and every time we would have sex it was great. I also don’t feel like this is something that was caused because of a fight, because it’s been quite a while since we’ve fought. Last night we tried having sex and I just couldn’t get in the mood. He doesn’t really mind but I feel very bad and i’m scared that this will make him feel bad in return and that he will have negative feelings towards me and our relationship. I truly love him so much and I have never had this much love and admiration for anyone else, which is why i don’t think this is a “break up” type of situation, and it’s also why it makes me even sadder. Has anyone else been through this? If so, how did you deal with it?

Some context: my boyfriend and I used to live on the same floor during our first year of college, but now he lives on his own apartment and I live in mine with my roommate. it’s hard to find times to see him because I don’t want to disturb my roommate and he lives very far, on the complete opposite side of me. I have also been extremely stressed because of several factors like getting a new job, college, midterms, papers, etc. but i never felt like this was an issue before. We are also both very busy with school and organizations so we don’t have lots of time to see each other.

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What myths about adult toys have you encountered, and what do you wish more people knew?

hi, every time i try to have sex i just cant get it in. idk if its i dont know where to put it or what but im trying again with my girlfriend. also, how do i stay hard while trying?please help me

I (m 22) wanted to try using a condom for the first time a while ago. So I got 3 different sizes but no matter what size I bought the condom comes off after a bit of use. I even used a special.measuring tape that came with one of the packs to check which size i would need. And even that size comes off. I do still have a foreskin which might be what causing the problem but I don't know anymore at this point

My wife freaken hates me. Always agrue or gets mad over dumb shit. Telling me she hates me and how im so damn annoying. Tells me dont touch her or talk to her. Like we cant even have a conversation anymore and if we do its like you have to watch what you say.

But couple days later or when shes happy, she rides and sucks the shit out of my tiny dick.

So i dont think shes cheating since if she is im sure she would of found something bigger and better than me.

Do people have hate and love sex relatonships ? She hates me but maybe loves the sex?

I’ve been seeing this guy for the past month and I have been noticing the hints he’s dropped on him wanting to take things further between us. I want to take things further as well as I’ve been wanting him to dick me down badly, but he’s way more experienced sexually than I am and it causes me to feel insecure over how I am during sex. I’ve only ever done stuff with one person, and that was my ex boyfriend, but the sex between me and my ex was very sad and didn’t learn the basics like a person normally should. I don’t know how to make out, how to suck dick, how to ride, how to do anything really, and me being inexperienced has caused me to be afraid to have sex with this new guy as I don’t want to disappoint him. What can I do for now to improve myself sexually? I am going to have a talk with him tomorrow on how I need more time, but I just want to prep myself so the sex can be mind blowing for the both of us. Any advice would be helpful, I would say treat this as advice you’d give to a virgin. Thank you

I (27M) and my wife (29F) after having sex life of some good years . We want to explore ourselves so she is into pissing fantasy . And i m ok with it but she wants me to lick that pissed pussy after finishing it . My only question - is it harmful ? Will i get any infections ? I dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want unsafe fantasies .

I'm not sure if this is the right place for this but I haven't been able to find any info anywhere on this.

Boyfriend and I have been trying more ass play lately. Both of us are pretty new to it so it's a learning experience, I've never done anything with a guys ass and I don't think he's done anything involving anal at all.

When fingering him though I've noticed a hard, rough/scratchy kind of lump, about a fingers length deep, and I'm not sure if I should be concerned. My first thought was that its the prostate but from what little i know i dont think its supposed to be rough.

It doesn't seem to be uncomfortable for him at all, and I doubt he knows but I don't wanna mention something if it's not a cause for concern.

My bf and I lately have been discussing trying a strap on I am bi and I’ve only been with men but cis so I have experience when it comes to bottoming and quite enjoy it and my bf has expressed interest in topping me. Was wondering if anyone had any recommendations something that would make both parties feel good and comfortable! Much appreciated!

Me and my boyfriend were getting hot and heavy just a bit ago and he gave me head I never finished because we almost got caught, but after he dropped me off home he texted me saying that his mouth and throat felt weird and he can’t really describe the feeling like not in a bad way but not good either, I’m just curious if this is something to worry about I’m 100% clean and have been with nobody but him and I take pride in my hygiene He can’t describe the mouth throat feeling but he says he has an urge to burp a lot now and it’s very concerning I’m worried he might throw up, I’m still kinda on my period so I thought maybe that might be it and I looked it up cause I was worried and it said meds can do that I just recently got off blood pressure meds for my acne so maybe that has a part 😭 Idk I’m just very worried

Hi all, as you read from the title, I've had an ongoing issue since I've first started sex in which my penis is really sensitive to blowjobs and handjobs from my partner, to the point where it's so overly stimulated that it feels really uncomfortable and I have to ask her to stop, even if she's going really slow. The crazier thing, however, is that when I masturbate, that problem isn't there (even if I'm going very hard and fast), nor is it there when I'm having sex, protected or unprotected, regardless of if I'm the one thrusting or if my partner is on top riding me. I doubt it's a death grip thing, since if it was then I would be having the OPPOSITE problem.

I don't understand if this is some sort of psychological issue or if there's something else happening here that I just don't know about. I've tried having my penis lubed before getting a handjob to make the motion smoother, and while it feels nice at the base and the testicle area, the head is still quite sensitive. It's also really embarrassing whenever my current partner says she wants to go down on me, only for me to have to stop her because of this symptom, and even though she's very supportive and non-judgemental, I can't help but feel shitty and disappointed in myself every time this happens.

I'm sure I'm not the only person who's experienced this issue, and I would really appreciate if anyone who's had a similar problem to mine could tell me what they did to fix this? If it's relevant, I'm circumcized, so there's no foreskin in the picture here. Thanks in advance.

(31F) and found out recently that me and my husband have been watched for a while now. two of our children are at the age where they are curious and apparently they have started watching us from behind the door a few weeks ago and i had no idea.
first it started with them acting weird and asking questions, then it was a few days ago when i actually caught them.
i already talked to them about this, but i was wondering if i unintentionally damaged them? is this going to be something that sticks to them for the rest of their lives? and how do i fix this situation?

I think I have erectile dysfunction. It's been more than 6months now..and I can't last for even 1minute properly..may be less. And I always get this blank face of her after i finish.

When we started the relationship, three months ago, I was a virgin and I lost my virginity with him on the first month. Since then I've been having a high sex drive and want to have intimate moments with him everyday, sometimes more than once a day, but my boyfriend doesn't want it that much and often complains that I keep asking for it.

I do not have nymphomania, just normal hormonal sex drive for a young woman and I've tried using my hands or sex toys, but nothing satisfies me as him. Also because I really enjoy his physical appearance.

Recently I've realized that, more than the physical, the emotional plays a big part on it, as I really enjoy the connection we develop and deepen during the sexual act.

Although all of that is very important for me, I think the best thing for the relationship would be for me to desire my boyfriend a bit less often or maybe try to higher his sexual appetite a bit more... Any suggestions on how to make that happen?

Heya, I (m 23) I have been exploring what I like and don't like lately. For reference I used to be a big sub. But I kind of lost my enjoyment in that and I would like to become more dominant. Altho I don't know where to start with this. A lot of people I talk to say it has to come natural altho I would like to know if there is any way to learn being more dominant.

Does anyone have some advice for me?

(Using a throwaway account because a lot of people know about my main account)

So I started going out with this girl and we did spend 3 days in her home.
First night it was lots of kisses, hugs, etc and I went down to eat her. I think I did a good job, despite being my 1st time, her legs were shaking and she was moaning like crazy. After that we went to sleep, it was like 4-5 am and we needed to get up early.
Second night we went early to bed so it was only some kisses.
Last night we started making out early and I went down on her 2 times, both times she moaned like crazy and was super horny.
Here comes my problem, while we are kissing (like the days before, in my car) I was getting constant erections and some precum, last night was not any different, while eating dinner and afterwards a single kiss can make me hard, but after I went down on her I just couldnt get it, it was embarrassing for me, I wanted to f her but I just couldnt .. This morning a few kisses and I started getting an erection. Any idea why ? I am usually a shy person but around her I am as confident as I never was, like it is not me. I am not afraid to fuck her but cant get it when it is needed. I am so frustrated now

Hi my boyfriend wants me to come up with new things during sex. He wants me to get him mad or do something new so we can enhance our sex but I literally can never think of anything. We do master/slave rp but that’s it. I need some help please I have no idea what new things I can do or say to make him mad/jealous or to make him feel even better during sex that isn’t old

Self explanatory, I’ve never taken it before, curious about taking it. I don’t know if I should take all of it or if I should take a quarter of the pack. What’s the time frame for it during performance?

I (20 M)have been with my girlfriend (19 F) for 5 months now and we haven’t fully done the deed however we’ve had non penetrative sex multiple times and I have never finished from it. I’m not sure why it never feels good enough when she tries to do anything and it gets to the point where I feel bad about it. Sometimes she goes for what feels like 20 minutes of trying to get me there but I never finish.

I’m unsure if I’m the problem or it’s her or if there is even a problem in general. I don’t think it’s a masturbation problem since I don’t do it very often.

I’m honestly just confused as it’s a large insecurity for me atm.

Any advice or possible reasons for this are much appreciated :)

So, recently I 26M have noticed that I don’t really have erections much anymore recently. I’ve also noticed that my libido has plummeted. To the point where, I could go either way about sexual intimacy or romantic interactions.

I was curious what could have potentially caused this to occur.

To give some potentially helpful context, I used to masturbate at least once daily, and even time watching porn.

Hoping to not break the rules but I find my posts never get a proper answer.. everyone is always trying to prove they are right which is weird because it's MY*** situation anytime I discuss anything going on in my sex life or people always fixate on my guy's measurements..like Idk what I'm talking about. Im effing grown, 27 lol.

Idk what to say my whole life I had bigger size men.. it's possible to have more than 8 inches! Then they ghost ?? Like thank you for spending 2 secs with me & not giving me advice or worse they say google it!

i just want another sub that is fun & open minded.. I just think I outgrew this one. Any suggestions??

thank you

First, I'm from Brazil, so I apologize if my english is not that good.

I'm 21M, ive been in a relationship for 1 year, with a good sexual life.... I like sexy lingerie in general (as I'm sure many men do too), but i specially like those sexy sets that come with stockings (I might have a stockings fetish). It's not that big of a deal in terms of libido as I don't need my partner to wear them in order to be turned on, having an erection and having a satisfactory sexual encounter overall, but still it's something I really like. Here's the deal:

I'm young and honestly haven't had much sexual partners, and I have a fantasy that i haven't been able to make a reality: I'd like to have a romantic dinner with her, in a pretty formal restaurant. I'd like her to wear a dress or formal skirt, and a really nice lingerie set underneath, with stockings and heels, and once we finish dinner, just go and have sex. Like, I'd like to have the experience of having sex with her after a dinner and "finding out" she's wearing a nice lingerie set with stockings. It's just a fantasy I've had since I was really young.

As I said, we've been together for 1 year, and my problem is that I haven't been able to talk to her about this fantasy and my overall -possible- nylons fetish. I'm just afraid of the way she could react, like... I don't want her to think that I'm weird or that she needs to wear those things in order for me to feel attracted to her. So if there's a girl (or girls) reading this.... How would you react if your bf told you he has a fantasy like this one? And about the stockings fetish? And... What do you think would be the best way to approach this with her?

So I (25f) have been dating this guy (34m) for over a year now. We have insane sexual chemistry. He gets hard just by having a normal conversation with me and I feel that our attraction and appetite for one another keeps getting stronger over time. We’ve just started to have sex this past month and everything is going amazing. However, there’s just oneeee thing I’m struggling to accept with him. He HATES kissing.

The thing is he’ll kiss me everywhere else, just not on my lips. He’s told me he never really enjoyed kissing on the lips nor making out. He avoids it if he can. Over the phone, I told him how much I enjoy kissing and that it really gets me going. To my surprise, he remembered that on our next date and kissed me so passionately I almost melted.

It’s genuinely such a curse that he’s SO good at kissing, but doesn’t really care for it. He’s trying to compromise with me because the last time we had sex he kissed me (with tongue too for the first time). I almost wept happy tears from how good the sex was just from his kisses during the act. When we talked after, he told me he did it to please me but didn’t care for it too much.

I feel bad that he’s kissing me just because I like it. It’s such a shame bc he kisses me so good I could cum from that alone. Is there any way to make it more enjoyable for him? Why do some people not like kissing? Am I making kissing too much of a big deal?

So I’m 22F he’s 41M. Sugar relationship, he likes to cum before we have sex, from a bj. For some reason I’ve never been able to finish him with my mouth even though he says I give amazing head. What’s the problem? I’ve been able to make other guys I’ve been with cum from head with no effort. Thoughts?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months and our sex life is really good.. except for the fact that I don’t like giving him head because of the smell.

He is uncircumcised and visually looks clean, i don’t see anything that could be causing a smell but there is one and it’s off putting.

I don’t know if he showers everyday, but he’s not a really sweaty guy and he doesn’t smell except for down there

Ultimately i want to bring it up but idk how to without possibly hurting him

I (24f) found out one of my coworkers (~30m) is attracted to me. The attraction is mutual so since then we have been flirting pretty heavily and we have mutually expressed interest in hooking up. We’ve sexted a few times but when I try to initiate going out and actualizing our fantasies it doesn’t really go anywhere. We both are fairly shy and awkward, but get along well. It seems like he has no issue using me for wank material, but it kinda seems like he doesn’t actually want to fuck me. He said he doesn’t have any qualms over us working together and he’s hooked up with coworkers in the past. I’m of the same mindset- work is work & play is play.

I don’t know if I’m being impatient or overthinking, but it has me feeling confused. Neither of us are looking for anything serious, but I would prefer a friend with benefits & not just sexting. It’s not an issue if he changed his mind about wanting to have sex or is nervous for any reason I just want him to tell me if that’s the case. Should ride the wave and see what happens naturally or should I talk to him about how I’m feeling? TIA

I'm (30 F) trying to understand why my boyfriend doesn't ejaculate whenever I give him oral or a handjob! And if he does, it takes a lot of work. He seems to only ejaculate through intercourse! I'm mainly asking out of curiosity, there's no judgment here. Thank you!

How can I join porn industry to have sex without showing my face? Actually my sex drive is crazy and I just want to have sex randomly, that's it. Not want making any money out of it. Any suggestions? I am male, living in NC.