Hello I am 18 average to a little bit over average looking and 1,88m tall. I would love to have sex with a woman between 18 and 35 but don’t know where to find them. Since I am a virgin I have no idea where I have to look for women who also just want sex. If it helps I live in Germany. Thanks for helping and advice👍😊

I (25f) never liked or enjoyed sex before I met my boyfriend (37m). We started being sexual three months into our relationship and it’s like he unleashed a side of me I never knew existed. I love being intimate with him and I want him to enjoy it as much as I do, but I don’t know what to do. He has tried to gesture me towards his nipples twice in the past 5 months but it feels super awkward to me. I feel like our sexual relationship is centered around me and I barely give anything to him. What do I do and how do I make things feel less awkward???

So 34m virgin here and have actually stepped up my act a little bit by losing a little bit of weight and being more active on dating apps. A big reason that contributed to me being still a virgin is some body image issues I’m a big guy and always thought that I had a really small penis but in reality it’s not the biggest probably slightly below average but it is buried behind fat.

So the last week or so I have been chatting up a couple ladies on the apps and feel like I could actually finally pull this off but am starting to feel my self sabotage kicking in about my penis being to small for sex. Main concerns are deffinately a little embarrassed but also worried about the condom falling off due to the fat. Mainly because I feel like I produce a lot of pre and regular cum and of course std concerns and just not being able to perform/penetrate in general. I have some small condom but idk I’m in my head big time!!!

Could use some advice and potentially some encouragement!! Thanks folks!

The first time I went down on my girlfriend she said that she didn’t feel much and said that it was probably because it was too wet. It was also the same while using my fingers, she only felt something when I first reached her clit and then after that she couldn’t feel much at all. This also goes for fingering which she finds mostly uncomfortable. Should I just take more time to see if her sensitivity to it rises as I go?

I had sex a few times and I must say that the thought of me putting my penis inside a vagina made me super horny but when I actually got to it, it rather felt like I was fucking air or basically nothing. I still came after a while but I was expecting to at least feel something… I thought it might have something to do with the SSRI‘s I‘m taking but other than that I have no idea… Do you guys feel anything inside a vagina? Like any friction at all? Or is it normal to feel nothing? As you may have guessed it‘s a new experience for me but not what I expected.

Alr so I’m still a teenager (16) had sex before the first time it went well, I maintained my erection and we had good sex (didn’t get to the point of cumming but I can cum when masturbating probs just something to do with being inexperienced idk tho) I got a new girlfriend couple weeks ago we have had sex but there’s definitely been times where I struggled to get erection / keep one and can’t put it in. Surely there might be something wrong ?

Guys do you give importance to what you use as lube? Or does it even matter if you use anything like cooking oil or petroleum jelly etc.

I'm 26 now and I've never used a decent lube, like those water based lubricants, been going over whatever is in the house

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I’m trying to improve my head game, but I’m unsure if when taking it deep, am I supposed to hollow out my cheeks/suck hard as I do this?

In my clips I’ve been practising taking it deeper, but I find when deepthroating/pushing deeper my mouth opens wider for some reason. Is it more pleasurable to suck harder, or suction down onto the dick as you push it deep? Or is it being languid/more open-mouthed but deep okay too?

Hello! So just like in the title, my (F18) sister (F22) and her fiancé (M22) are sharing their sex life with me. And it is REALLY BOTHERING me.

There has been many situations in which they were very open about what they do. For example, I know that sometimes they did it with no condom. When they stay at my parents house (where I live) i tend to hear ass slapping, kissing, „jokingly” moaning sounds and i hate it. It happens even when they come to my room. They make a lot of sexual jokes around me too.

Since it started i expressed how uncomfortable I am with them sharing such information with me. And it didn’t help, nothing has changed. And it is actually disgusting me to know what my OWN SISTER is doing with her fiancé. It makes me nauseous just thinking about it and i cant understand how they are so okay with sharing it.

I have to say that I am not a prude or anything. I have a boyfriend on my own and a great sex life. I like talking about sex with my friends and see no trouble here. I just genuinely can’t listen to my family member talk about it…

Am i crazy for being so sensitive? Or are they crossing some boundaries? Because at this point I start to avoid and resent them for all of it.

Me (F32) and him (M28) are together for a couple of months. Things are going very well and we get along. However, when we have sex he never comes. He has no problems with erection and he can come when he masturbates. He is not addicted on porn. I am the second woman he ever had sex with, and he told me that the same thing happened before (it was in 2021), however they only had sex a few times. I dont know what to do to help, he feels very stressed about it and I always say it's fine and that it will happen in the right moment. He is very kind and do everything to please me. I do feel good with him and he makes me cum. Do you guys think that I may be the problem somehow? That maybe he is not that attracted to me? Any tips for me to handle this situation? I really want things to be fine between us, even if we end up not being together. I guess it is messing with my head a little bit.

Its exactly what it sounds like. Apparently my dick gets hard and I (M22) am aroused when my bladders full. I can't last long due to this. I have a small bladder and it's very difficult to keep my bladder empty. I last 20-30 mins easy I my bladder is empty. But when I got to pee, I cum like 10 stokes in. Help

So,i am a 23M, my gf said she has a kink where she wants s vibrator with a remote, and I should control it. We haven't had sex yet, we both are virgin but we did foreplays except sex. She said I don't want a vagina vibrator but I want a clit vibrator or something like that which should be outside the vagina. I need a suggestion of the toy to buy and where to buy.

Thanks in advance guys

So, me and my partner are in a relationship for more than 2 months, thought it is a long distance relationship but we both are serious about eachother. We know each and everything about eachother, like her whole past life and my past life. We both were loved like this before. It's like we know eachother for more than 5 years.

We didn't just say I love you when we had the feelings, we both waited for long time like who will convey their feelings first. Then, one day we had a small fight at that time i conveyed my feelings and the problem was also solved and she conveyed she had the same feeling ( but we know we both love eachother ). We are crazy for eachother.

Yeah, it's just a short period of time, but Both of our parents know about us, we itself conveyed about us to them. I am M23, she is of my same age. we became too close in such a short duration but we don't regret or feel any discomfort in anyway, like this is too fast.

For past few days we both are masturbating ( no video call, but sometimes by sexting and mostly imagining both us in that situation ) . One day we discussed about what will happen when we both are in a room, surprisingly we both have the same mindset, we will do everything (foreplay) except intercourse, because we kept that intercourse as a gift for our marriage. And we haven't seen our genitals, we planned to feel that when we meet.

What's my doubt is, for past few days we both are masturbating dialy, sometimes 2 times a day. Is this good? As a boy am scared of my lil boy. Because can he produce enough semen when we get married( after 3 years ) if i do 2 times a day now? Does the semen count get reduced?

Note : We both do it with both of our concern.

so i (23F) have been with my girlfriend (23F) for over a year. she’s my first girlfriend and i love her a lot. we have a lot of chemistry and we bounce off each other quite a lot but the only issue i have in our relationship is the sex.

80% of the time the sex is good but i feel like im the one that’s constantly pleasuring her first and once im done, she then either gets too tired or if she does give back, its only 50% of what i give her, if you know what i mean.

i think the the thing that really frustrates me is when giving and receiving oral sex. whenever my girlfriend wants me to give head to her, i never refuse and i always enjoy doing it. however, when it comes to her giving me head, she usually says that she can’t do it because she’s uncoordinated or it makes her mouth hurt. now for context, my girlfriend does have one or two conditions that does affect her coordination when it comes to sex so i try to be as understanding and respectful as i can about that. but honestly, it’s getting quite frustrating that i don’t feel like i’m being fully satisfied during sex because of this and it really doesn’t make me feel good. i would like to suggest that maybe she could work on it somehow but i don’t how she can and i don’t know how she’s going to take it.

any advice?

I'm rather on average side with my penis size, but when I tried to put condom on it just stopped going down nicely in 1-2/4 of length. I mean I need to take it from the bottom to wear it completely but I feel like it squeeze and it do not feel very pleasant. I don't know if this is just my inexperience or I'm just keep buying wrong size. Any advice?

For various reasons I've always assumed that my foreskin just went partway down and that was standard, but now I'm realizing that it's supposed to be able to go down to the whole head. I've cleaned it regularly and as much as I can possibly smell and see, I've kept it clean under there. As far as I understand, if I just regularly stretch it, bit by bit, it'll be able to go by itself. Is this safe? I imagine the response will be to go to a doctor, is this worth going to a doctor for?

I’ve gone on plenty of dates with women. Whether it’s lunch, dinner, drinking etc. It seems they are into me and obviously they may be if I go out with them more than once. However, I think too much and I get afraid of what they will think if I try to make a move or imply anything that has to do with sex. I feel I could have many times with women but just don’t make the move. I worry that they think that’s all I want to do, I also worry about getting rejected and honestly I don’t know how or when to ask lol. Please help. Any suggestions.

theyre always circumsized, and i find the pronounced head feels like it's "scraping" inside my canal and i just generally don't like it. I love holding the balls on them, but i just can't get past the discomfort of the head. is it that ive tried ones that are too firm? should i try a different one and hope its different?

My 18M bf keeps asking for a blowjob. We've had sex, I've given him handjobs, and he fingered me. I'm not scared about doing it wrong because, all in all, it can't be that difficult to do, but something about it I'm just not ready for. I don't know if it's because I'm not horny, so maybe that's why I'm not like into doing it? because I'm not horny, I'm just not horny, so I'm not into doing it? I'm also just nervous, in general, about having a dick in my mouth. Like, I don't have a gag reflex, so I'm ok in that aspect, but he keeps like genuinely begging. He brings it up almost every time we hang out, and it makes me feel a bit pressured ngl. I know he doesn't mean it like that, and I know if I just flat out said no, I don't wanna do that, he would force me to or anything. But I do fear that if it's something I don't do he will break up with me. What do I do??

Tofay was the first day of my period on a 7 day break week on birth control pills (sex is still protected with a condom since I'm very paranoid about it lol), and that was also the only day of the week i get to come over to my boyfriend's house.

He agreed to have sex even though i was on my periods and my bleeding is very heavy usually. So after we were done i noticed there was no blood on me or him either. But about an hour after bleeding came back.

I have not found any info on it and if it's normal, and I'm honestly more curious on how exactly did that even happen, scientifically. i was expecting a big mess but ended up being clean.

probably worth to mention i was wearing a tampon before we started, but I don't think it would take away ALL blood and no blood was coming out for a whole hour?

I was diagnosed with Mitral Valve Prolapse two years ago, and I've been masturbating since I was 13. When I masturbate and I'm about to orgasm, I have such a hard time breathing, is that normal? Could that be the reason why I got MVP? Will it get worse? My doctor did tell me some people were born with MVP.

Ok sooo the only way I (32F) can feel anything close to sexual pleasure is by squeezing my legs together and kind of grinding on myself (I looked this up and it’s called syntribation). I don’t watch porn and do not masterbate any other way. How weird is this? How can I feel something this good with my bf (35M)?

Other points for context:

I do have sex with my bf and it feels good to be close to him but I don’t O.

I was anorexic for 10+ years so this ruined my hormones (but I am now recovered).

Apparently I have been doing this since I was a child so i think it might be a way of soothing anxiety? Honestly no idea.

Anyone else do this?

I have never experienced a man not cumming after sex until being in a relationship with my current boyfriend. He definitely has in the past but these last few times he has not been able to. I’m quite worried that he is not attracted me anymore. what could it be? Please share your experiences with me! I know we shouldn’t determine our attractiveness/desirability according to a man finishing, but it is hard to not form a correlation between the two.

I just got my first bf. I don’t know why I feel this way, because I’ve waited for romance for so long, but as soon as his hands goes on my b*tt or a little high in between my thighs I feel like I’m losing my innocence or something and feel really anxious. We haven’t even kissed before, so it’s the first “intimate”-ness we’ve been experimenting with. I’ve got no experience and he doesn’t really either, and at the same time I don’t really want him to stop, but part of me feels guilt of some kind. None of my close friends have boyfriends and so I don’t have anyone I can ask for advice about this. What do I do, why am I feeling this way. Is there something up with me?

so i bought some pineapple juice to see if it will help my strained throat because im sick, then i got to thinking if i should make it a daily part of my diet. people with vagina's/uterus (forgive me, i havent heard of men who do this) who have tried this, any changed or improvements to your ph?? better taste?? i always wash myself before sex and my boyfriend says i taste fine but thats without any prior enhancements. thoughts?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for a little bit now and have had sex for awhile and from what she has told me Ive been able to make her cum from going down doing oral on her but fingering and normal sex no. She says its not that it doesn’t feel good and she doesn’t enjoy because she does but its when we are having sex she gets the feeling she is going to cum and right when shes about to get there and cum like right before it happens it just all goes away and she can’t cum and there has been maybe a few times where she did cum but in general she cannot seem to cum. She gets right there but right before it happens and she does it just all goes away and she can’t. What seems to be the problem and why is she not able to and what could possibly help with solving this issue?

My relatively older bf says that I need to grow up and match his sexual energy by talking dirty to him. I am super shy and just started college, how is one supposed to talk dirty, does it come naturally? I have been reading a lot of things that couples say to each other during sex, but it just all sounds so fake to me because I do not feel like saying those. I think that he would obviously know that I am not being myself and clearly making stuff up. How can I get myself to organically talk dirty to satisfy his needs?

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BF likes to praise me during sex when im naughty 😅and i love when he does so, so i been trying to be naughtier and naughtier, bought a buttplug and used it when we had sex and he told me to get something sexy to wear outside in public, which i did, later on, after sex he asked me what i thought about groupsex and i froze and was unable to answer 😒
didn’t ever think about it before, but i want to give him an naughty answer to it, so what should i say and how can i seem even more naughty to him?

Hi to make this quick my girlfriend and I where just having a regular conversation and she had just told me to do something kinda sternly and it did make me feel some kinda way, which was weird because I usually get angry when people trying exercise authority over me, I told her how it made me feel and later we were going to have sex after foreplay and she just said "no not yet eat me out" in that same stern tone as earlier and again made me feel very turned on. So I guess my question is there a name to liking being told what to do while still being the dominant one in bed