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Today he made me squirt for the first time in my life, it was so intense so he did it few times after that that somehow I something came out that should’ve Does that happen? I don’t think I can’t ever see him face to face after that :( I was so upset I stared crying and changing to run out of there! I ran out as fast as I could with the bedroom rug and sheets I am probably traumatized for life and never having sex 😞
Is there any ways (natural) to make the D more bigger or increase the size, width.
I am 22M skinny but do exercises on regular basis and I have only compared it with porns so maybe I will unable to satisfy my partner coz in the porns they do really have big meat and I just feel mine is not enough.
Well I am open up for the suggestions and advices
I’m (21 M) unsurcompsized and i feel like my penis is way too sensitive for it’s own good. I never have any problems during foreplay but when i get inside the girl or even if she masturbates, or makes me a blowjob, i don’t feel any pleasure and my penis hurts like hell. I always thought it was a habit thing and i just needed to get used to the friction but i don’t know. I think i had sex 5 or 6 times with différent girls and every time i only do foreplay because of how much pain i feel when i’m fucking them. Even if i wanted to ignore the pain i couldn’t because i stop getting hard while fucking them because i only feel pain and no pleasure at all.
Shit happened yesterday with a really expérienced girl and she saw i wasn’t doing great when inside her. She made me a crazy blowjob the type of shit you see in pornos but oh my god i was in so much pain. During the whole time i was trying to hide how much i was suffering. I told her like i always tell every girl that i was too drunk or too tired or that i wasn’t in the mood so we can stick to foreplay. Thing is this girl really likes me and keeps messaging me about how she can’t wait for us to actually have sex. This feels awful is my dick normal?
Okay so I don’t understand the biology. Because I’m not talking about like anal doggy style I mean like how do you have penetrative sex if the hole (like the tampon hole) is pointing a completely different direction. I’m so confused. Does it actually go in there? HELP ME UNDERSTAND PLEASE 😭
This just happened just now. We're both 18 if it matters. He didn't masturbate, just changed how it was positioned inside his pants, and then 30 min later he fingered me for less than a full minute. Am I safe?
Edit: I might be close to my period too if that helps
I’m 17 and when I orgasm i precum wich is just a drop or 2 of clear liquid and then if i keep going it the whole tip gets covered with white liquid but in videos it shoots out and it never has for me can someone tell me why or how I’m doing it wrong
So I had never had a yeast infection ever before and I’ve had unprotected sex with about 7 guys my whole life (yes I know not smart and gross I’m a whore blah blah) never had anything other than a UTI, but I’ve had issues with getting those before I even ever had sex. I don’t use toys and have not masterbated in a month or so. I have been having sex with the same guy (6 times over a 3 month period) the second time we had sex (about a month ago) I got a yeast infection and thought it was weird but I hadn’t showered that day and had been exercising so I figured it was because of that. I recently had sex with this guy a week ago and I now have another yeast infection. I just want to know if the cause is on my end or his. Please no judgement, looking for real possible answers here. Thank you.
⚠️ WARNING: This request maybe too explicit? I came here looking for serious advice but if I'm breaking rules let me know.
My wife and I are looking for a sex toy and I want to know I will buy the right one. We like to have oral sex, and I stay in top of her because we also have some boob play while she gives me oral. But, we want something to be on her vagina at the same time. We are thinking a vibrating dildo will do, but just want to be sure. Im afraid the dildo will come out? Without anyone pushing it? Because basically our hands may be busy and we want something that will stay there on itself.
Do you have any recommendations?
Hello! I'm legal of age
So, I'll get straight to the point. My menstruation is irregular and I had my period this month November 16. I had protected sex and still did the pull out method (he came in the condom seconds after he pulled it out) during the last day of my period Nov. 20 and I am still worried so I still took ECP (yuzpe method).
Nov 22, I brought a new pack and started taking it regularly every 9pm. However, last night Nov. 29, I missed my supposed to be 8th pill, so i took it today around 7am (nov. 30). I went to my bf's house and had unprotected seggs between 3-4pm. He accidentally came a little bit, and he manage to pull it out. We're worried and I know it's a mistake.
I don't know if Im protected since i took 7 pills regularly and on time and just missed taking my 8th pill on time. Should I continue on taking the pill regularly or should I do YUZPE method again? I'm worried so can someone please enlighten me and adviced would be much appreciated. :*
Some of my friends say they also get them, but not all. Why do some people get them?
Me(M21) and my gf(F22) were doing the deed, we were using protection like usual, she’s not on birth control or anything like that, so condoms is all we have. I finished inside the condom and when I pulled out the condom was nowhere to be seen! I told her and she went to dig it out and got it almost right away but it was deep. Also there wasn’t much semen in the condom after retrieving it. we made an emergency stop to get plan b right away. Any advice?
hi, I bleed twice this month is it still normal? and my n3pples are sore out of nowhere? can someone help me I'm overthinking right now.
I’m a 22-year-old woman in a relationship with another woman. While I thought I had a good amount of experience, I’ve recently realized there’s still a lot I don’t know. My girlfriend is a very sexual person, but we’ve stopped being intimate because I’ve struggled to make her finish.
This has never been an issue for me in the past, and it’s left me feeling embarrassed and, honestly, a little defeated. I really want to improve and make our intimate life fulfilling for both of us, but I’m not sure where to start. I’d appreciate any advice or resources that could help me become a better partner in this area.
So I always was too shy or innocent to get into sex stuff.Nowadays I’m beyond confused by myself. Like my brain loves male anatomy and I love the image to have a men with me big strong hands etc. but somehow I only do fall in love (character wise) with woman. And I find them hot too until the feelings fade and then I feel super cringe and want to get out asap. But this whole thing is all such a huge question now. I’m so insecure about myself. I would like to have more sex with different ppl like try myself out and such. But I’m by far too scared. I always say I have to see a person never again after that or reeeeaaaally need to trust them (wich is almost impossible for me) It’s just annoying me cause. Like I’m not super hot but I got an athletic body type I’m still comparable young. It just would be cool to get rid of all these insecurities. Maybe even try out a ons. But idk how to go into that. I’m super social awkward I never know what to talk about. Even in dating apps. I’m a woman I wish I had a male body so I believe that giving a huge problem to it cause I’m super disconnected from my body. But ye maybe anyone can help or has tips on how to get more comfortable with stuff?
We have both gone to get tested for STDs and infections. Everything came back negative. He is circumcised and he is very good with his hygiene. Everytime we go see a gp or doctor they always "idk" it's incredibly frustrating because I just want to be able to give oral and have sex with him again. Can anyone suggest any creams. Anyone with similar story's? Anyone know what this could be if he's tested negative for everything..
Edit: I honestly think it’s a bacterial infection that the tests aren’t picking up on. I smelt a little too and I I had tested negative for everything too but they gave me some bacterial vaginosis cream and I started to smell better. But the doctor said that there is no cream out there for guys for bacterial infections bacterial vaginosis isn’t contagious to guys
so, i’m a virgin and so is my bf. we attempted sex yesterday and he’s never really fingered me, he’s played with it but not too harsh because it was a little uncomfortable when done so assuming due to the hymen. anyway, it just wouldn’t go in. even with position changing and helping him put it in the right hole. when he started to slightly enter it was painful and made me yell “ow!” out loud. i did some research and i’m aware that it was the factors of…
and the fact perhaps, when i masturbate, it was usually just on my clit and never really fingered myself? so today i laid down and took some deep breathes, relaxed myself, and played some calming music. i put a water-based lube on my fingers and inserted one finger all the way in. in my attempt to insert two it got a little uncomfortable and i wasn’t able to make it allll the way in. i rested and felt only a little sore for a few minutes. i put one back in to reattempt and there was blood all over the top part of my finger, assuming my hymen had torn more. i washed my hands and now i’m wondering if there is less painful ways to stretch the hymen? or any tips based off of my experience when me and my bf end up doing it again? do i just have a tight vagina? i’m taking a break for now but may reattempt within this upcoming month. i also am a pad user.
My girlfriend and I had sex and for 2 to 3 days we had a weird feeling when we peed and now mouth ulcers. What could it be?Thank you
what are the odds of getting pregnant if there was only a thin layer of precum on the finger and it was used to finger the vagina?
another question, what would happen if one was to take birth control pills if they were not pregnant
As said by the title, I am using flo as a way to track my cycle and i know its not accurate but it says i will be having my period in 2 days. The day i got creampied was Cycle 30 and the prediction of period was 32. My cycle usually lasts up to 32-34.
He creampied me about 4-5 times on Cycle 30,31,32 and 34. Once per day.
On the first creampie, after he pulled out, there was blood. So i was so sure that my period will actually come. not until day 36 (now) i still havent got my period.
i may have been stressed for a week now because of work. but stress delaying my period has not happen to me ever since.
My only prediction is that i only got delayed because of the creampies. Because i was so sure the blood from the first sex was my period because our previous sex didn’t have blood in it.
So my bf fingered me and there might be possible precum on his hands (even if he assured me that he didn't, im still not sure) it wasn't even globs but im worried that there might be a little bit. Im overthinking if that can get me pregnant? I've read that precum might contain sperm and can get someone pregnant. Im also feeling nauseous and my period hasn't came yet. Idk if thats just my anxiety or what. Please help im so scared
So I had unprotected sex with my partner and she is in her ovulation period it ends in two days but I am pretty sure I didn't came in her but we were having pregnancy scare so I got her this i-pill but then I get to know it isn't effective in ovulation period but I have it to her immediately like 15 mins after all this happened I gave her the pill as soon as possible so can anyone guide me with this ahead is this enough or is there smtg else I need to do????
I 20m have just started seeing this girl a couple of weeks ago, and it’s now clear that she wants to get things sexual. I’ve only had sex a couple of times with one person, and it was an overwhelmingly negative experience. I was already very insecure about myself at the time and also was finishing within just a few minutes. It’s been about a year now since all of that happened and I’m really excited to potentially have a more positive sexual experience with someone who doesn’t make me feel insecure. I’m just very worried about finishing quickly and embarrassing myself. I’ve heard so many female friends laughing and joking about guys they’ve been with cumming fast and how disappointing it is for them, and I really don’t want to be that guy. Most of what i’ve seen online has just said to get better cardio, and masturbate less. I’ve improved my cardio and lost a decent bit of weight since my previous experience, but masturbating less seems counterproductive since i’ve also read to masturbate beforehand so it’s not as easy to finish a second time? Any advice anyone has to calm my nerves would be wonderful. I just don’t want to chicken out in fear of making an idiot of myself
My friend told me that most of the male pornstars have done circmcision for cleanliness and other things, after that i been wondering if a male should do circumcision. does every male should do circumcision. i dont know what else to ask, i dont have any information on this topic.
So, like I said in the title I’m probably just paranoid.
But my boyfriend likes to grind on me sometimes (we’re both naked btw). His penis was between my legs the last time, not inside me. There was no ejaculation, maybe some precum that touched my parts a bit. I know sperm can still exist in it, so are there any pregnancy risks?
I’m getting new forms of contraceptives that I can use alongside condoms soon, but for the time being it’s just condoms so I was a bit anxious.
Anyone know what’s with the pain?
Whenever I have penetration I feel like my hips are on fire and I’m getting ripped apart.
And yes, i was lubricated and everything
Can I catch anything from this
Me and this guy(both 18) met and gave each other blowjob and I'm bit worried about stds. So here's several things. He had one partner(they only gave each other blowjob also) that partner was tested negative and it was in may and he said he didn't have any symptoms. We used condoms for blowjobs but not handjobs. My condom didn't roll all the way down maybe bit more than half, he maybe, I'm not sure, passed bit when he was giving me oral. And when doing handjobs he took mine and his in the same hand, does that mean i can, if he had something, catch it. It was 2 days ago and I noticed I get a bit more wet or precum idk. I used to get it before(this guy was my first partner) but these 2 days almost aIl the time I feel leaking down there. I thought it was because I was remembering the moment, and sure it can be it was my first experience and it makes my heart race when I think about it. I plan to go on testing in about 2 weeks, there's free test for HIV, Hepathitis(all types) and syphilis.
Hi yall,
My(27m) girlfriend(24f) and i are trying to spice up our sex life. We have bin together for 5 years and use things like a satisfyer and buttplugs. We also do anal from time to time, and have tried a number of things.
What are things that we can try, or for me to improve that benefit our sex life?
Hey y'all, I was with a girl yesterday and i couldn't initiate intimacy. We have been seeing each other for a while and there is sexual tension between us. It was obvious that she was waiting for me to initiate but i just couldn't. I was too anxious. We ended up scrolling on social media and did nothing. Until after few hours she wanted to leave and i dropped her off. On our way back, she even ask me if I was gay(jokingly) but it was a bit embarrassing. Here iam in my room staying frustrated.
Hello, i just want to ask for some advices to make my first kiss good ? Also I was wondering how does it feel? And how to kiss the person anyway ? Plz tell me anything thing important to know about kissing.