Hi sexy friends, welcome back! This is my second For the Love of Sex post, and I am very excited for today’s topic. Again, if you did not catch my first post, I am writing a discussion piece once a week to one, fill my sex, and two, get to know the members of this community and further enhance my sexucational repertoire. With that being said, let’s dive in!

Today’s discussion topic is essentially a Sex Toy Review. Some discussion questions are as followed:

• What toys have you been using/are your favorites currently?
• Anyone have a preference of electronic over manual (i.e. a vibrating dildo vs. silicone dildo)
• Favorite and or most reliable brands/where to purchase.
• If comfortable, give an explanation of the type of orgasm that occurs when using this type of toy (or how they differ with each toy or differ from traditional sex)

I will kick off today’s discussion with my own review to set the tone. Currently I am flipping between my original, first electric vibrator (LELO), and my recent purchase of my Magic Wand. They no longer make the LELO version that I am using, but it was one meant for “couples” and used bluetooth to connect. Very fancy for 2015. However, I have begun using the Original Magic Wand and I am loving it! It is definitely large and loud, but I like that it has a cord and I do not need to remember to charge it. I also enjoy that it is simple with only 2 speed settings. So far, the higher speed is too much for me, so I am loving the lesser of the two. The handle of this toy also tends to get really warm while it’s working, which I actually love. The orgasms I am experiencing are also warm and strong, and tend to take my breath away. How they differ, though, is that they are so strong, that I can only have one orgasm, opposed to multiple with other toys.

I am looking forward to hearing your reviews and suggestions! Remember, this is a safe space to explore ourselves sexually, educate one another, and experience pleasure in new and glorious ways.

Stay Sexy, Reddit.

Hello sexual beings! Thanks for checking out my first post in my pre-blog series, For the Love of Sex. If you didn’t catch my post yesterday, I will be posting a question or discussion topic every Monday revolving around sex and sexuality. This is a safe space for us to connect, talk about the topic, give and receive advice, and support each other through our sexual endeavors. If you don’t like what someone has to say, feel free to excuse yourself. If you do not have anything nice to say, sometimes it’s better to say nothing at all. And remember, sex is supposed to be fun, so let’s keep it that way :) I understand that this feed is generally for advice, but I want to encourage educational language and enhance sexual comfortability.

With that being said, let’s dive in! Today’s discussion is going to be about "Unusual Circumstance Pleasure". So let’s talk! Here are some ideas to think about and respond to:

• How is everyone maintaining and tending to their sexual drives and desires during this time?
• Has spending extra time with your partner creating sexual tension? Or is it opening new doorways?
• Are you spending more time alone, but have a partner that is long-distance? How are you keeping everything alive in the bedroom? Sexting? Video? Solo-masturbation?

It is important to remember communication during this time. Not only with our partners, but with ourselves. Listen to our bodies. If we are craving sex and can’t have it, this is a great time to explore oneself sexually alone! Try new positions while masturbating, explore new porn genres, and even masturbate in another part of the house. Spicing things up during solo time can help bring new ideas to the bedroom when you’re back with a partner.

If you are lucky enough to be home with a partner but the bedroom is getting a little stale, this is a great time to experiment! Maybe it’s time to try something other than penetrative sex, such as mutual masturbation. Normally, we might feel the need to sneak or hide the idea of masturbating while living with a partner. This can be an opportunity to bring this individual into a very intimate moment, and help them learn about your body in a new way.

I will end every post with this: everyone is different, and everyone likes something different. These discussions should help bring ideas to the table, and motivate others to explore themselves sexually.

Stay sexy, Reddit.

Hi! Recently my boyfriend and I made out however we didn't have penetrative sex. It involved a lot of grinding however. In of the instances his tip touched my clit, it did not go further down though. He likely had some precum. I know this question may sound a little stupid, however I'm a day late and I usually get sore boobs on abdominal cramps 2-3 days prior to my period. I didn't get any of that yet. Is there a possibility of getting pregnant?

I (19M) have been sexually active for about 3 years. I was sort of a man whore in high school after my first time.

I’ve always felt weird about sex. I enjoy it for the first 10 min but then as it hits 30 min-1hr I get bored and she’s pretty spent as am I.

I’ve always gotten the “did you cum?” My answer is always a sulken no. I’ve never finished from sex and i feel like it’s starting to interfere with my current relationship.

She was a virgin when we first started dating and she loves that I last long but she feels guilty that I don’t finish. I’ve told her that it’s never happened and I don’t know why. She still feels guilty that she gets the enjoyment people dream of (long lasting sex, not saying Im packing or that I’m a stud at the activity) yet I get almost nothing out of it.

We’ve tried everything. Kinky stuff like pegging or being tied down. We’ve switched roles (dom and sub) and even tantric “sex” with the chakras and spiritual stuff? Nothings worked. Choking, scratching, name calling, hitting, biting, everything masochist short of murder. Yet still nothing.

It’s at the point where we’ve stopped having sex. I think it’s because, she sees that I feel defeated and some what embarrassed. I’ve talked to my doctor and he said there’s nothing wrong with my parts since I can finish myself off on my own easy peasy.

I’ve always thought it’s been a psychological problem but have found little to nothing in my research. I found numerous stories that the guys realized they were gay. Can confirm. Not homosexual. I don’t know what to do.

The blessing most have wished for has now become a curse. I love her so much and I don’t want her to think I don’t find her attractive even though I tell her many times she is. I also don’t want her to leave me because she feels guilty every time we have sex.

TLDR; I’ve never finished from sex and I’ve tried everything. It’s affecting my relationship with my girlfriend

Any and all help or advice is well appreciated thank you all for reading.

(Originally posted in r/relationship advice. Felt that both these subreddits would provide advice from different parts)

Is it really possible to cum without touching yourself?And if so how do i perfect this witchcraft (and I'm not talking wet dreams)

I just have to tell you my husband and I just got married 3 weeks ago after 6 years together. We planned to have a hot sex night and I had bought a catholic school girl outfit I had bought for the wedding night but we didn’t get to it. I’m heavy and I was insecure. When I came out in it he was totally shocked and was totally into it and made me feel beautiful. It made us so horny we fucked till dawn like kids (we’re both 50, and we still get off like school kids. It was one of the most sex positive things I’ve ever done and he made me cum so hard. We also had what we officially named “Toy time” which sounds kinky when you say it out loud. I’ll admit to having a bad back but I took a muscle relaxer so I could blow him for hours. Lots of sucking. I was so turned on and grateful for how he made me feel that I deliberately gave him blow job after blow job.

Had an awesome time. Just wanted to tell someone what great fucking night I had. Thanks for listening.

Ok I'm back again to the world of sex blogging and hope to meet up with like minded people.

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Hey guys getting back into selling my pics & videos as well as messaging but not sure where to advertise as I’ve been out of it for a while I have an onlyfans but where do I advertise?

What's it called when you're giving a guy a blowjob and you roll your tongue around between his head and foreskin. Is there a name for that? Should be a name for it.

I’ve recently become sexually active with my boyfriend of a couple months, but we’ve realized that it’s physically impossible for me to be penetrated by anything. If he tries to stick even one finger in me, it hurts really bad. There also seems to be a “wall” there that physically prevents it.

I know lubrication isn’t an issue because I’m pretty wet during it. I also don’t think I’m tensed up or anything because I feel really relaxed and comfortable during it.

When I try to masturbate, it is also completely impossible for me to be penetrated by anything. I can’t even get the tip of my pinky inside. Because of this, I’ve never been able to orgasm by myself or with someone else because clitoral stimulation doesn’t give me any pleasure at all (it feels just about as good as someone touching my arm), and I can’t experience pleasure from penetration either. I’ve tried using a vibrator (it was one of the Satisfyer ones), but it literally felt like nothing even when put on the highest setting. I’ve tried a bunch of other methods of clitoral stimulation, but none of them worked even a little a bit. It’s pretty much completely numb there.

I was wondering if this might be some sort of medical condition, and if it is, what it could be. I was also wondering what type of doctor I should visit to get it checked out. (My parents would know about it since they have access to records of everything paid for by our health insurance, and I don’t have enough money to pay for an appointment myself. So I wouldn’t be able to visit a sexologist/sex therapist or anything like that.)

Thanks in advance!

Kids grown and it's our time now. Been talking about mff fun with partner of almost 19 years for about a year but live in hicksvills ky and neither of us know how to proceed. Would love to pick your brains. Not into clubs or dating sites. Both military veterans that enjoy working on our home and gardens and party at home usually. Point us in the right direction. Close to Louisville

Two young couple

My dear sweet kittens!

Being lonely is the worst thing ever (from my opinion)... Especially if you Broke up only because he was watching Porn instead of having his sweet loving Girlfriend.

I am sure there are many people with same problems here but my one is kinda different.

I won't lie.. I am really Naughty in a bed. I like to suck even more than Classic. I have learnt a lot of different techniques which are crazy and can please any man in the world.

And guess what? He said that he was tired of Sex... Tired? For real?

If you ever tried how good I am you would fall in love with me.. It is not a joke. I am just perfect :)

So yeah pretty sad and simple reason... The guy is tired of Sex... but one day I caught him watching Tranny porn.. Damn! I do not understand his mind. Never thought he liked girls with Dick. Isn't it crazy guys?

Next day we Broke up of course.

Anyway I feel really lonely and wish I could find somebody who adores normal Sex with a healthy woman. I am ready to do it 5 - 6 times a day... Maybe he was really tired of me? hahaha

Hope you do not have such problems and if you do you can share with me your thoughts.

Thanks for ready! Love you all :)

My boyfriend hasn't been texting me for like 2 MONTHS and it is the holidays and that means I can't see him plus he missed a party we had today 😧

My girlfriend of 8 months and I broke up a little over a month ago, and I started dating a new girl a couple weeks after and we’ve been dating ever since. But every time we fool around I can’t nut. I thought it was because I was really insecure in my last relationship because I would always nut faster but could never make her nut, so I feel like that’s why I can’t nut now with this new girl. But my friend thinks that doesn’t make sense and that it’s more likely that I’m just used to being with my old girlfriend like that so I just can’t nut with anyone else yet. Does anyone know what it could be?

Sever Pre-Mature Ejaculation. Any Way to Correct This?

Always had issues with PME. But now its terrible. What can I do about this?

It’s really two problems. Problem 1: every time he fingers me hard I bleed. Is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with what he’s doing? How would you suggest fixing this problem, if it even is one? Problem 2: when I’m on all 4s and he fingers me from behind, I feel a sharp pain. What could this be caused by? How do we avoid it? (For reference, this only started happening recently.)

So guys i am facing this issue wherein i cum within minutes of foreplay. The worst part is as soon as i orgasm, I completely shut off and dont feel like continuing at all. It is almost repulsive for me. Pls help me? Why does this happen? Is it common? Or something wrong with me

Ok so I have been a pretty sexual for person for much of my adult life and I really enjoy sex, and cumming (of fucking course) now I currently am having problems cum not just with a partner but by myself historically I LOVE masturbating I’m wonder if this could stem from a physical problem or if it is stemming from an emotional or mental place what can I do to work through my problems and finally cum ?