/r/polyamoryR4R
Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for redditors seeking to find and create new polyamorous type relationships! This is strictly not a hookup reddit, please read the rules carefully before posting.
Welcome to /r/polyamoryR4R! This place is for polyamorous redditors seeking other polyamorous redditors. This is not a hookup reddit, this is exclusively a reddit for polyamorous relationship seekers.
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Is Polyamory not the same as Swinging?
That's right! A polyamorous person(s) is someone who is defined as someone who has a romantic relationship or involvement with more than one person at the same time where as a swinger is defined as a person(s) who has a sexual relationship or involvement with more than one person at the same time.
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25 [F4M] #NewYork - Looking for someone! 32 [M4MF] #Princeton - Searching for a couple! 52 [R4A] #SanDiego - Looking for love.
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My fiancé and I recently became poly, so I’m currently looking for a girlfriend that’s around my age. We are not dating as a couple atm, but she has expressed that it could be a possibility in the future. I’m 21, 6’ 2, a little chubby at around 190-195 pounds, but I’m working on getting into shape. I’m not currently enrolled in college, but I have a decent job. I enjoy football, fencing, running (mostly as part of my routine to get into shape), and I’m a huge nerd, especially when it comes to Star Wars. Just hmu if you want to know more about me. Would love to connect and see if who’s out there. :)
Hello everyone. I live in Fort Worth, TX and I'm hoping to meet some new poly friends here and see where things go. I'm perfectly happy being a secondary partner. I'm bisexual, Pagan, and look younger than my age. I’m open to any age and tend to get along better with people who are younger or young at heart at least and still like to live life to the fullest.
I like music, movies, books, languages (I speak many), history, hiking, camping, dogs and cooking. I would love to chat with anyone who thinks we might click.
I am a rarity here on reddit in that I don't play video games at all and have no interest in them. So if anyone can relate to that, I'd love to hear from you!
Ideally, I'd love to find a true, deep connexion and fall in love again. But I’m open to almost any sort of relationship and I'm open to LDR. I tend to go for younger, at least somewhat feminine guys who bi arebotom or verse and might be interested in dating a girl together.
My type is harder to define when it comes to women. I have no strong age or body type preference necessarily. I'm open to anything. I do hope to find a straight girl who is into bi guys specifically. And intellect is definitely sexy.
I'm open to couples but realize that isn't likely. I'd love to find someone in Texas, Arkansas, Alabama or somewhere close but I tend to fit in better with Europeans and Latins. I do not mind being your secondary relationship and might even prefer it. Open to being a comet or fwb too.
Feel free to dm me. I'll answer soon as I can. If we click I am willing to travel and I have summers off.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Hey everyone!
I am a 30 year old software developer from Saskatoon, SK. Some basic info:
I'm not so great at bios for dating apps but I'll try my best to summarize myself. People tell me I'm funny and easy to talk to. I don't really take many things too seriously. I don't like holding grudges or arguing over trivial matters. Overall I am a stable, emotionally mature, regular person with a big heart and dream that I'll find another soulmate out there!
I believe that I have a lot of love to give and, in a relationship, that is my greatest strength. I tend to love deeply and with abandon.
Here's my picture:
Send me a DM if interested!
Reddit is weird so if you messaged me with no responses chances are I didn’t see it. I’m 25 year old woman! I use she/ her pronouns. Here’s some rapid fire fun facts about me:
If I sound like your type then message me! If you already have and I didn’t respond sorry and do it again
Hi all! I am once again asking for your attention.
I’m Kane, 32 from Michigan! Bisexual, polyamorous, and open minded. I’ve been part of the poly community for a little over 5 years now, and just recently out of a poly relationship, due to my partner at the time wanting to explore monogamy with her other partner. It’s okay, life happens, I understand.
A little about me: I work full time at a dispensary. Own my home and car. In my spare time, I love reading, love playing video games, and cooking. I’m a huge fan of cooking, to the point where I’ll probably make you random food throughout the day.
What I’m looking for: I’m open to meeting people of all genders, all shapes and sizes, and all levels of relationship status. I would eventually like to meet in person, but staying online/LDR is totally fine with me. As long as there is connections and communication, we’ll be just fine.
Ideally, I’d like to meet people who are a part of the kink and fetish community as well. I’m huge into the kink community, and have a few fetishes as well. We can discuss that more in depth at a later time. I also would love to meet someone who can match my nerdiness. Someone to gush over plot holes in books and movies, who will binge LotR and the Hobbit with me. Maybe DnD? The possibilities are endless.
Don’t be shy, send a chat or a DM. I’ll respond to everyone, and hopefully we mesh! Who knows?
Hi 👋🏽 we’re a married couple looking for another couple as we’re opening up to poly. We’re just looking for another easy going couple to chat with for now.
We’re in Montana but go to LA a few times per year.
We’re new to this, but very open.
Physically, we’re both average height and in very good athletic shape. Dark hair, he’s Mediterranean with salt and pepper hair. We live in the mountains and love to trail run, ski, climb, and do hot yoga.
Non physically, we work together in an artistic field, enjoy theater, art, film, community building, chickens, cocktails, fiber arts
Hopefully that’s enough to paint a picture!
Hey there! Thanks for taking the time to read my post! I'm a 28 year old man from Boston, MA and I'm looking for a long term poly relationship.
I'm pansexual so any genders welcome to apply. I prefer smart, kind, loving people! I'm Massachusetts based, but if I found the perfect person/people, I'd be willing to move (in the long-term obviously!).
About me - 28, 280lbs, bearded man (hairy but willing to change that based on your preference, but I'm keeping the beard) - no tattoos, drinks occasionally but not super often, doesn't do drugs, doesn't smoke cigs. I'm a very masculine in appearance man but my personality is the complete opposite. I'm very feminine in personality! This disconnect has caused me a bunch of strife in my life but I'm finally ready to get back out there! What I want is to be someones boywife - meaning I identify more with what would be considered the traditionally female gender role in a relationship. I'm not trans though, as far as I can tell.
Interests -
Feel free to ask me about any of those!
Other stuff -
Hey there! I’m Queeny, a bisexual woman.
I’m on the lookout for a wonderful, serious, long-term relationship. I believe in meaningful connections, and I want to be someone's girlfriend—labels matter to me! If you're also seeking something special, we might just be a great match.
I know what I want and I’m excited to find it—dating is a journey, and I’m ready for the adventure!
Here’s a little about my personality:
I love a bit of fun and thrive on attention! With some free time during my work hours, I’d love to be entertained with your texts, voice notes, or Snapchats! 💜
I’m silly, goofy, and a little awkward, which makes for great conversations! If you enjoy chatting regularly, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m a loud, opinionated person, and I embrace my empathetic nature—I feel things deeply and authentically.
I celebrate my body as it is! If you appreciate plus-sized women, we might be a fantastic fit. I’m on a journey to be healthier, but I’m proud of who I am right now.
I have a nesting partner, and I’d love to connect with someone local. I’m open to long-distance too, as long as you’re willing to invest time—think fun video calls, regular texts, and occasional visits!
As a mom of two energetic neurodivergent elementary-aged kids, who keep me on my toes! If you’re open to hearing about my parenting adventures, we’ll definitely connect.
A friendly tip: if your opening message is just “hey” or something vague, I won't respond. I’d love to know more about you—your name, if you have kids or partners, your hobbies, and what you do for work! If you’ve actually read this far, add an upside smile emoji in your greeting.
What I’m seeking:
I’m proudly polyamorous and value openness. I’m looking for a relationship where we can be transparent and honest. If you can offer a public, autonomous relationship, we could be a great match!
I don’t practice parallel polyamory, so if meeting each other’s partners is important to you, that’s a plus! The people who matter to you will matter to me as well.
I’m passionate about human rights, and I believe in supporting BIPOC, trans, queer, and women’s rights. These values are extremely important to me.
Howdy fellow redditors!
I'm a 41 yo cis bi guy (he/him/his) living just north of Boston with my nesting partner. I'm looking to make connections with other poly folks in the Boston area and am interested in anything along the spectrum from friends -> comet relationships -> casual dating -> long term relationships. I'm open to messages from people of all ages and genders.
Things that I'm into or curious about currently:
March 27 - Adam Ray is Dr. Phil Live May 3 - Paul F Tompkins' Varietopia
Brewing / the science behind food, cooking, and fermenting foods/drinks. It's been too long since I've brewed anything and looking to break out of that funk. Also a fan of making (or just imbibing) c*cktails (lol - it wouldnt let me post with it spelled correctly).
General tinkering and amateur woodworking (thanks to videos on youtube).
Books: currently reading Eruption (the Crichton/Patterson mash up). Lately have skewed towards Sci Fi. I'm always up for a recommendation - what are your favorites or guilty pleasure reads
Podcasts: I subscribe to ones covering current events, sports, improv comedy, science, food, sex/relationships, and even one about reddit (Endless Thread). Always open to new suggestions.
Video Games: I own an Xbox and Playstation and often play to unwind after a stressful day - playing Dead Island 2 currently.
If you're interested in chatting, drop a comment, send a message, or send me a reddit chat.
Cheers and hope to hear from some of you!
-Rob
Hi!
Looking for a partner and new friends. Prefer close by but open to long distance for the right person.
I love getting to know people on a deeper level and find small talk to be difficult. I love conversations where we send paragraphs to one another about anything and everything. I love people who share what they are passionate about.
I'm currently 31. I live in Kansas with my 2 nesting partners. I am in the Kansas City area. We practice kitchen table or garden party polyamory. I neurodivergent. I am in therapy. I also deal with some chronic health issues that I also am seeing a doctor for (currently undiagnosed and mad about it). As for looks I'm about 5 ft tall, a bit on the plus size side, with big brown eyes, and currently pink hair. I have 1 tattoo and a couple piercings and would love more of both.
I've been a stay at home cat mom for the past 3.5 years due to some chronic health issues. I'm also newer to the Midwest only having lived here 2 years now.
I'm an avid reader and the library is one of my favorite places to go. I love music and am almost always listening to something. I love video games. I'm a cozy gamer and prefer games like animal crossing, Sims 4, Stardew valley, and cult of the lamb. I love arts and crafts. Making something with my hands is immensely satisfying. I'm also kinky.
I'm looking for someone preferably over the age of 25 but hard minimum no one under 24 and no older than about 50. I'm open to any gender. I'm looking for someone who values honesty, trust, and safety. Who can be consistent, patient, and good at clear communication. Looking for daily conversation when possible. Someone who is confident in themselves. Someone who knows they have or are willing to make the time, have the emotional capacity, and the energy for a relationship. Also someone willing to do voice calls and video calls if long distance.
Please feel free to send a message or chat with a little about you and what you are looking for. I look forward to talking to you!
Here are somethings I enjoy: •Traveling - plan on going to Iceland in September •Arts & Crafts- I started drawing trippy art , Got into Tie Dye and I need to finish my hand embroidery. •Movies/TV Shows (I don't watch anime) •Games (I play CoD, Spiderman 2 and dream light. I was playing police simulator and Harry Potter but I beat both of those at 100 percent. And yesss I played Harry Potter 4 times haha) •Music Festivals. I went to ACL and Shaqs bass festival this year. I plan on going to Beyond Wonderland. And I bought tickets to go When we were young and Warped Tour. •Broadway shows •Interactive museums/Random fun stuff like Bingo Loco haha 😂 •Camping/Ren Faires. I just came back from TRF I enjoyed myself and will be going to Sherwood in the spring. •Spirituality/Psychonaut/Shrooms/420 •Animals- I love animals and I have two Yorkies
Lover: I seek someone that I can have a life changing experience with. A deep connection where we are able to enjoy each other's company, satisfy one another and bask in the passion that we have built together.
Deep connection: I don't do friendship interviews. (where either of us sit there and we just ask a bunch of questions rapid fire to see if there is a connection) If we can't banter back and forth on a topic then we are not aligned/compatible. ( I have provided you with 10 topics to choose from if you don't know where to start lol you are welcome) I want to talk to you like we have known each other for years. So if you need time to get out of your shell because you are afraid to connect...skip me. If you are TOOO introverted where you can't be outside for more than 4 hours cause you have to get back to Fortnite or what ever ...skip me lol )
Satisfying each other/Passion: I am Sapiosexual. I need to know that you use common sense and your intellect, in order for me to be attracted to you in any way. (If you don't want to use your brain...skip me). Dating apps don't really do anything for me because...I am not really a visual person. I am more of a mind and audio/sound person. I use mental connection to bond greatly and create the attraction. Voice and visual attraction are bonuses. I don't give a shit if you have a dad bod or if you work out 7 times a week. I don't need you to try to impress me or try too hard to land jokes or what ever. I will probably call bullshit and just tell you I'm not interested. Be authentically you and be brave enough to want to connect with someone. I have noticed that I attract submissive men haha and that's fine because I'm a switch. However, I am not LOOKING for someone who is submissive and needs me to guide them in life. (I have been in the lifestyle for 11 years. I don't just do things casually...so if you are trying to just sext or have a play partner...skip me). If you are a Dominant person that would be ideal. It's not a requirement but definitely ideal haha.
Again, I don't care where you are, if we connect then we connect..so be it. You just so happen to be in a different state or country ...okay so? You scared? Haha I'm not. Let's figure it out. Eventually, one of us will buy a plane ticket to visit. It's not that difficult.(If you are not brave enough to say and do the things you want to in life...skip me.)
I am POLY, especially kitchen table.- Meaning I am looking for someone for me.... However, getting along with my partner and being friends with them is ideal to the point where we can all hang out together, bond and share a meal together. I function on Positive vibes ONLY. (If you are looking for an Affair Partner, or you need something to be closed off and hidden or if you and or your partner can't even sit down at a table and have lunch with all of us together....skip me).
Ps. I am not a parent so I won't be able to relate to you if you talk about your kids. I just have two Yorkies lol. If you don't know what Sapiosexual is or Neurodivergent is please Google that before talking to me lol I'm not your dictionary.
hi!! you can call me hati, i’m 21 (turning 22 soon) and nb afab, looking to connect with people! she/he/xe pronouns.
i’m an abrosexual lesbian, so i have a strong attraction to woman-aligned individuals but my sexuality fluctuates. i’m angled aroace and have a slight disconnect from sexuality and romance, but enjoy both nonetheless.
my main interests are zoology, art, writing, video games, animation, world building, poetry, character design, psychology, humanities, dnd, pokemon, minecraft, and plenty of other things.
i’m neurodivergent and from the philippines, but open to talking to people from wherever. i much prefer talking to other queer people, and those who have a good understanding of neurodivergence. i’m in an open relationship.
if any of this interests you, feel free to message me and i may or may not give you my discord user so we can talk there!
New to exploring things. Looking for a deep connection and to take things very slow. My partner and I are looking to build a community of friends and build our own little found family. Not ready to explore things physically right now, just want to focus on getting to know you and creating that deep emotional connection.
I prefer local connections, but a state over is definitely workable.
I enjoy things like board games, working out, MtG, reading, ttrpgs, and am a big craft beer nerd.
If any of that sounds interesting to you please reach out and let’s connect.
Hello there!
Can I be the nerdy,dirty, kinky Fairy Queen of your dreams? I am currently seeking a well groomed, romantic , creative, intelligent male ( 30-45) for dating and hopefully a long term relationship around the Knoxville area or who would be willing to travel in the area regularly. I would love if kink could be a factor in the relationship and would enjoy meeting a submissive or switch but I understand if it's not for you. Must be okay with being seen with me in public/social situations. I love long hair, tattoos, body piercings, polished nails, and make up on men. I am into " goth/alt" ascetics, not stereotypical norms.
I'm NOT into beards/facial hair ( it's a sensory issue for me) but it's not necessarily a deal breaker if it's closely cropped or maybe a goatee and extremely well maintained otherwise it is. I would enjoy meeting someone with similar interests in goth/post punk/dark wave/industrial music, horror movies, a fantastic sense of style (clothing is a huge kink/turn on for me so if you live in a Tshirt we aren't going to get along) , and would like to spend time with me at the goth club.
I'm a professional model and actress. I am non- neurotypical so please be aware that my brain functions differently from most people's. I enjoy cooking and am quite the foodie. I love horror movies, music, tabletop gaming, dancing, painting, crafts, reading, and just having a good time. I can often be found bar hopping around the Knoxville area, having a nice meal out, or taking in a live show.
I am happily married and not looking to change that. We are both polyamorous and take part in the swinger lifestyle.
I identify as a bi-sexual/pan-sexual Switch with a hard Domme lean. While I am a Switch, I am mostly dominant and will be perfectly upfront that submission is not something I give lightly or often ( if ever).
If I sound like someone you'd enjoy, message me! Your photos get mine.
Edit: I am looking for someone in the area or close enough to travel regularly. Nashville, Chattanooga, maybe Atlanta that kind of thing. I'd ideally like someone I could see about once a week or every other week. Minimally once a month. I am not in a position to travel myself at this time.
I'm brand new to this world. Im in a committed relationship and my partner and I just agreed to open our relationship. Right now I'm just looking for someone to talk to and possibly see where it goes. No expectations or anything, just conversation for now. I'm a driver who has a dedicated route that goes through these states daily so if you're in one of those areas and things go ok maybe we can meet up. In my free time I draw cartoons, play switch and write my book I'm working on. I like talking about traveling (been to all 48 lower states) art, music, movies, video games or whatever you're into!
I'm 6 foot, 230lbs, long hair, super honest and understanding.
I love to play all kinds of video games, build/fix computers, and cook!
Im seeking someone who is also very honest and understanding.
I would love someone who plays video games, and would join me in them.
Dm's are open and I would love to hear from you!😊
I am a 27 y/o male who lives in South GA, and I'm just looking for someone to talk to and get to know. It doesnt HAVE to be in a relationship sense, I just want some company.
I recently started working 2nd shift (4PM-1AM) which doesnt allow time to play videos games with my friends who have a "normal" schedule, so I'm looking to maybe fill that void a little bit, have someone I can get attached to in a sense.
My hobbies include:
-Playing on my PC/PS5 (COD, Minecraft, Dark Souls, Pokemon) -Watching Marvel/LOTR movies (as well as animated, fantasy, & sci-fi movies) -Listening to music (I enjoy listening to new songs and trying new bands out but I love Linkin Park, Sleep Token, and Epic: The Musical to name a few) -Watching Anime (JJK, Fire Force, Re: 0, Shangri-La Frontier, Tower of God)
If there is anything else I forgot to add we can easily discuss it over DM's 😄 and feel free to message and ask any questions you can think of!
Ps. I prefer anything OTHER than Reddit DMs for conversations
i know what i like and know what i want. i'm hoping to find someone to share and explore with. huge plus if you're into shibari coughpeggingcough. i'm not trying to define anything, just going with the flow, i'm a leaf on the wind. let's talk science, science-fiction, music, i want to hear about what makes you, you. up for long drives? down to stargaze? i'm all about chemistry and vibing. one night stands are not for me; i need to engage mentally, emotionally, and spiritually before anything physically. i'd absolutely love to hear about your day and your hobbies. i'd love to cook for you. who knows, this may be like the seventh best thing you've ever did.
I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.
Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.
I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.
I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well.
Hello all, my name is Vera. I'm 27. I have 2 partners but we all date seperately. I'm looking for a third partner.
I'm trans but relatively non passing (I'm working on it but I can't afford HRT yet). If this is a deal breaker, I understand.
My interests are generally more nerdy. I like video games, anime, books, and d&d quite a lot. I'm actually striving to be an author. My favorite genres are fantasy and sci fi! Ask me about my book if you want me to go on a few hour monolog.
I prefer to text and call, but would be open to sharing pictures once I'm comfortable. I have dysphoria so please be patient.
I have autism and depression and struggle with those things but I don't make excuses for myself. Just be patient!
I am kink friendly and prefer that any romantic relationship have some sort of kink element.
I'm only interested in women, transfem, nonbinary folk at this time! I'm open to friends or relationships.
Anyways I hope to hear from you soon!
Hello! I'm Mercedes, a 5'11 big girl who's looking for a new connection.
I'm married to my long-term partner (NB27) and engaged to my fiancé (M31) but I'm looking for something new!
Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, piercings, unhinged memes, TikTok, coffee/energy drinks and reading (horror and smut specifically)
About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, go on cute dates, send sweet memes/TikToks, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!
What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond in a timely manner (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a dark sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.
I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends, and would be interested in-person if we hit it off, dms are open! ♥️
I'm married poly, looking to chat and got to know someone preferably female but open to a deep connection with the right couple as well. My partner she has done poly for a long time so she doesn't feel the need to be looking at the moment, but the long term goal is to have KTP or some close relationship with another couple or person to have in our lives long term.
As for who I am, I am not your average man. I don't really care for sports, or beer. I'll find me in a book or working on a project on the property. I'm a farm boy so working on my property and growing food is important to me. I'm a craftsman and an inventor, so I create all the time, making my life and the life of others easier.
I am an empath, what that means is I can sense other people's emotions before most people can feel themselves. This means I don't do light relationships. I am deep and intense. If you aren't open to that, I'm not a good match for you. I love to cook and I do acts of service and touching as my main love languages. I like to spend much of my time studying and learning about the mystical and our purpose in this world. If like the stuff that freaks out normies, we'll probably get a long.
I have a multi faceted personality. Probably from trauma as a child. This means when it comes to reaching a point of a sexual relationship. It's not going to be quick, I need probably 3-6 months of truly getting to know a person/couple before I can go deeper.
My spouse she is amazing! She was poly with 6 men and I replaced them all. So I hope complex is something you are into because that's me! She is a musician and we run our own business. We are both very focused on how to help others build a relationship as deep as ours and growing it as well. We are both introverts so small social groups is our style also visiting us on our farm. It's great 7 acres in the quiet peace along the Missouri river.
I hope that gives some perspective to who I am and I am with my spouse. If you want to chat see how we click please write back. Life is an incredible journey and it's best shared. I hope to meet people I can grow old knowing and looking back on an amazing life.
The title pretty much says it all, I’m looking to meet friends online and potentially in person if that’s the way things work out. I’m poly and bi, and politically and relationship-wise an anarchist. I like most of the same things every thirty-something woman on Reddit likes (except for video games and anime, so if you’re looking for someone to bond over these topics I’m not your girl). I’m active and in decent shape, but also enjoy more intellectual and philosophical pursuits so bonus points if you like hiking while engaging in breathless deep conversations.
I could write a few more paragraphs about myself and about what I’m looking for, but I think it might be funner to chat it out together instead.
Married guy here seeking a discreet long-term friend and lover to fill a hole in my life. I am a successful tech executive, handsome and attractive, blue eyes, broad shoulders, and fit with lots of interests, life experiences and humor.
I love sports, cooking and food, international travel, spas. I am seeking someone I can connect with regularly as friends leading to intimacy, excitement, and passion.
I want us to be emotionally, physically, and chemically attracted to each other. Anyway, please ping me to learn more. I'm rather grounded in a special and fortunate way.
Hi all!
I'm Alexis/Sakura :), a 40 year old masc, ADHD-havin, guyish person with "dad who drives a truck energy", but in fact I drive a small electric car. I usually have to go back in the house to get things twice or three times before I leave to run errands. I point out every single dog I see.
My friends say I'm 20% gay woman and 10% gay man. I'm mildly demi-sexual and generally a bit queer, but I lean toward more femme people for intimacy, and AFAB people make up most of my polycule and friends circle.
I've practiced ENM/Polyamory for about 5 years. I take poly living as a responsibility for all involved -- one founded on open communication, mutual trust, self-determination, and leading ourselves by love.
I currently have one intimate partner and three platonic partners, and I co-nest in two homes! Fortunately, I work remotely and enjoy marvelous flexibility in my schedule. I'm hoping to build a broader community! I'm dating as well as seeking polyfriends. I'd even like to make some new online friends to keep me grounded when I pick up the rectangle.
I love to cook, build things, lay on the floor and stare at the ceiling and talk, read and collect books, sing karaoke, write, play with dogs, boulder, drive to random new destinations, soak in hot springs, and lots of other stuff! I adore having dinner parties and playing board games.
I'm pretty athletic. I really need more people to get out energy with 😅 If you like hiking, swimming, climbing, and extremely long strolls then I'm a good fit!
Send me a message or comment below! :) it's hard getting out of my proximate poly community so I'd love to connect with anyone regardless of location.
Hello I'm currently unattached about to be divorced, recently relocated to the area. Looking for some new friends and flirty exchanges. (Online is okay too)
I'm a humanist, nerdy, hobbyst fur baby mom to the best doggo. Big reader and life long learner.
I've been practicing poly for most of my adult life and would love to settle into a new community of like minded friends.
I guess it’s time for that obligatory once a year shoot your shot reddit post to see if there is anyone out there interested in becoming friends and potentially seeing where that leads. Open to LDR’s with the right person/people.
I’m 39, though I always get told I look a lot younger. I’ve been married over 20 years and we have been openly poly for half that time. 3 kiddos, 2 of which are at home still. I am bisexual but apparently have no game with women.
Aside from busy mom life I have a full time career that most of the time I love even if it can be chaotic. I would describe myself as short and curvy with a mom bod in case that is a deal breaker for you. I am a huge bookworm and will choose reading over tv/movies any day. I also would spend all of my free time at concerts if that were an option.
I love getting to know people and letting things progress naturally rather than forcing a relationship out of convenience. I am also very demisexual and regardless of appearance will not be interested in any sort of relationship if we don’t click and have a connection.
If interested in chatting let me know!
Howdy, I am a bi guy married to a wonderful bi woman. We are experienced with swinging and group play, but currently looking for something different. I am looking for someone to get to know and chat with, share stories, pictures, ideas, and maybe eventually meet.
I am a quiet person irl, but love chatting when I enjoy the person. I am big into literature and music, I write poetry and fiction and play guitar poorly. I also am big into nature and camping, as well as video games and traveling.
Sexually I am a huge pleaser, and love giving pleasure to my partner. I am switch and do enjoy a more dominant person if the connection is there. In a perfect world a third person would be someone comfortable being around us with no expectations, someone I can just talk with, and someone who was sexually interested in me. My wife is not currently looking for a partner, but is open to me and another person if the energy is right. We have been together for a decade and have explored sexually a lot, and maintain that communication is vital.
While I do enjoy quick sexts and picture sharing, I'm really wanting something longer term where we can get to know each other as people as well as sexually.
Figured I would post, probably going to get lost but worth a shot. Lately I have reduced my stress significantly and am ready to try to enjoy someone new and see what comes of it.
Good morning! I'm looking to form a new connection with someone. My wife is my only partner. So I do have Time for someone. I'm open to long distance also
Anyway . A little bit about me. I'm fun, kind, and easy-going. I get along with just about anyone. Im told im handsome..im currently working on me, I'm 5'9" recently lost 35 lbs.. I'm a dog dad. No kids. I'm in Open Marriage... I'm a morning person, not a night owl. 420 friendly , tattoos, I make pizza in a cast iron pan, east coast bed time, i still have an xm radio subscription.....
Some of my interests are woodworking, diy projects, cooking, traveling, music, TV, movies, hockey and vehicles. I used to be a big gamer but i don't play as much as I used to howeveri do own a switch .. I don't work from home, but I do have a pretty good availability to chat. I'm open to daily banter about anything really, pics, vids, voice messages, your favorite tiktok's, flirt, ect.
I'd prefer to chat off of reddit. So please be ok and open to that. my preferred app is telegram
Message me with some information about yourself and tell me your favorite pizza topping.
If not best of luck with your search.
As the title states am not expecting any romance. Actually prefer it to be platonic and let it form organically without pressure.
That being said a bit about me:
-34 mother to a toddler -living in Spain -bisexual
I could list more but then what would we talk about. Am happy to talk off reddit after a bit of chatting here first.