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Damn thought i have given up on this website. It went well , and secured the bag. Thank you Sir ☺️

Wow! One year as a SW (feels like 5). From starting online, to fetish, to FS, and now to high-end escort. There’s definitely been some highs and lows but my biggest tool/support has been in this sub. From the ladies on the blade to the ladies on the yachts- I’ve learned from all of you and consider myself a knowledgeable, well-rounded hoe because of it and in return, try to help where I can. So I’m here to say- THANK YOU!!!

Edited to add- some helpful clients too :)

If you live here what do you charge? I’m wanting to raise my prices

I see a lot of sw promoting telegram more then snap. Is it worth it? I just lost my mime snap and all the regulars there. So I'm trying to find a good place to sell and talk to buyers

I'm working tomarrow for the first time in years again.
Does anyone have any safety tips for me or.... Well one thing that's really bothering me is that most outcalls are in the clients home. Is there any tips for checking to see if I'm secretly being video recorded????

Thanks for anyone who replies

This month has been terrible and stressful for me. I only saw a few clients this month and recently dislocated my arm and now I'm on my period. I have a booking scheduled for tonight. I really need the money to pay my bills but I'm not to sure how to do this booking without putting pressure on my shoulder because I was just in the hospital. What are some ways to reduce the Irishk of me not hurting myself?

The booking will be 1 hour. My plan was to just

1. try to talk half of the booking, he invited me to get drinks at the bar as well so it may be easier to stall.

2. try to make him sit somewhere where I can easily give a bj without laying on the bed

3. staying on top to have control and not put pressure on my arm.

4. tell him I have pain on my shoulders and not to touch the area. without saying the real cause. ( I don't feel comfortable saying this bc I don't want certain type of clients to think I'm hurt or whatever)

I have no idea what to do, I have fresh pictures, I’ve done everything except lower my pricing. I can’t advertise on the free sites because of verification issues. What do I do? I need to make at least 400 by the end of the week

So my problem is that a male client wants to get fucked, but because of my hormones I'm not sure if I can stay hard over a longer time. I usually don't do this but its a returning client and I wouldn't mind trying it with him. Viagra is not an option. If anyone had some advice I would appreciate it.

Hey guys, My stg account just got disabled, wondering if this was recently happens to anyone & about how long will it take for them to reach back out to me regarding my account. Thank you💕

no se cuantas ganancias mensuales son buenas a veces no se me desespero pero no se si estoy bien o mal tengo amigas que ganan 10 mil a la semana yo nunca he hecho tanto en una semana

I've been escorting awhile and lurking mostly but reading a lot here seems so common to read about other providers that just hate men in personal life now because of work. I get it, I really do. But I was in a fun argument with friends at the club that even though we hate dealing with clients or custies it's still a must to have good sex outside of work. Out of 5 of us only 2 of us agreed with my mindset that I still want to go out on dates, go clubbing, hook up, one night stands whatever. It's just letting lose and and I've always been.

Regular very generous client wants me to come over for wine to spend the evening with him to celebrate his closing a very important deal with an investment bank (partner with big law firm in NYC). I wanted to take him out (by take him out I mean I pick the place and he pay of course lol) but he is extremely shy and socially awkward to the point where I suspect he is on the autism spectrum.

Is this a nice outfit to wear to really wow him or too much?

https://us.ohpolly.com/products/akiko-hotfix-embellished-cut-out-maxi-dress-almond?variant=44243327320225&country=US&currency=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=20274486461&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA0rW6BhAcEiwAQH28Ik-tLoy70qz6C-4BEoq1ymCePcNXrSir_p_9QI9fspIDWi6kfb5SHRoCB_sQAvD_BwE

Then Don’t contact working girls that’s simple logic, we understand your concern but , our safety is more important than your own sexual desires.

I’m new-ish to this world, and I know reviews are an important part in getting bookings! I set up an account but I don’t see a TER ID anywhere. Will I just need to ask a regular of mine to look me up via name/email? And then leave an initial review to get started?

Finished last night at 12k just having a lot of good regulars and really good clients this month. And like I said I don’t even care about making a lot doing this, this is most I ever made in a month doing any job. I feel as long as I can pay my rent and car I’m blessed because growing up poor humbled tf outta me but fuck why do I feel so empty today I just got back from the bank and feel like just empty ??? 😂😂😂 idk just a vent I guess.

I’ve heard in Eros that they’ll make you pay 200-300 dollars before you even get verified and if you’re rejected they will no refund you’re money to you. So I wanted to know before I decided to pay

So I’ve been doing FS SW for a year now, but considering trying/switching to FBSM. I’m just not sure on how much to charge. I will be providing cbj/hj so I’m thinking of doing 200hh 300hr, but don’t know if that’s too high? My FS rates atm are 300hh 400hr. Also, will clients feel comfortable being massaged on a bed? I do plan on buying a massage table later on, but for now I’d have to use a bed. A few other questions I have, Do you have conversation during the massage or is it pure silence/light music? For the hj do you have clients wear a condom or do you do it bare? Also, what do you do when your hands get tired? I want to also offer 90min appointments, but not sure if my hands could handle it. 😬

I honestly prefer neither. But some cities are getting expensive. Extended stay grosses me out for some reason. But during a tour, having to pay for rooms, the deposits, and a damn hotel fee is getting pricy in certain cities.

I can not stand him anymore. I know I'm being taken advantage of and I just can't have it. He is a hetero male. I'm Hetero female (in case it's questioned)

I used to do domme work. And make a little on the side with tricks. This man introduced me to FSSW. And I've been in it about 7-8 months now. When we first started he told me he used to do this type of thing with other girls he would post their ads and screen clients and stay with them at their hotels or go to outcalls with them and they would comp him for his time. I didn't see an issue with that I know it's a thing. I've seen it happen.

My issue is, he doesn't post ads, he doesn't screen. Even if he did I know it would just be tacky and he would get me caught up.

Outcalls, sometimes I'll call him he can't come. He's actually never came. Always an excuse. I at least want him to know who I'm seeing how long I'm gona be there and where I'm at because I can't trust anyone else with my secret sw lifestyle enough. People tend to be very judgey.

He's began to ask me for money, and rides to and from work at least twice a week. Without offering for gas unless I tell him I'm broke. I have to consistently lie and make things up because I don't want to drive him anywhere we are both 35 year old adults I will not partake in this profession so that I can take care of a man like no. We can't even do lifestyle stuff or go out because he's broke. One time we went to a club and he literally told people he was mad that he had to spend 50$ to get in because he thought I already paid for it.

Then when he gets his money from his job he gets weed and pills and pays back the little 20 bucks he owes people here n there. Then he's broke again for another 15 days like yall please. Please pray for me

Yall. I don't have to share my car or my money with this man. He is becoming a burden and a resentment. I don't know how to let him down easy but I feel like he's trying to drain me at this point.

By the way I've known him over 20 years, this isn't a new friendship. But it is a new "relationship" if you could even call it that.

Thanks for letting me rant😭

I've been discovered. Does anyone know where I work and what city I come to with a tourist visa? He wrote to me on my personal networks that " you are scort in this city" I don't share with clients. I'm worried what can i do , advice please, I'm afraid he'll call the police or something

I grew up with the men in my family fighting over TRYING to pay the dinner check or at least not stressing about it. It’s a birthday, we all have one. Times are tough, yes, they’re tough for me too. It’s cringe. Discussing your financial woes with a lady in the industry should be humiliating.

Headed to New Orleans for Super Bowl weekend and I have never been before. It’s been really slow in VA and was thinking about trying a different state for a while now so I figure Super Bowl might be my best bet any advice on the area as far as places to stay and experiences? How is the clientele? Also, do you up your rates when traveling to different states?

What is the best tripod to use for a canon camera , I have one it doesn’t attach properly , has some in the past; they was wobbly. Help a gal out xxx thank youuu

Sorry if this is not allowed was just wondering if it would be okay to contact a provider I had set a date up with. I was screened and we set up a date and time but she later texted me that she wanted to catch up on sleep. I told her no problem and to let me know if she was free later. Would it be okay to reach back out to her in a few days? I don’t want to keep annoying them.

is it me or is everybody having a slow time getting clients due the weather 📍sc