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I’ve had quite a few older guys reach out that will say something like “Hi I’m a fit wm in my 50s would love to meet,” and when I ask them to screen and send a selfie with their ID showing name and DOB, they’ve actually been anywhere from minimum 60 to 80 years old. It’s not the age that puts me off- it’s the lying alongside documentation to prove they’re lying. I usually don’t respond, my fear is that they are counting on me not paying attention to the id and that there will be more issues like boundary pushing etc.

So this made me curious about others experiences with the age thing, I get that it can come from insecurity and empathize, but to me it’s wildly counterproductive to lie while proving you’re lying (lol).

Hey beautiful people, I’ve had a Reddit account for a year but never post or engage with anything, I decided to make an account dedicated to SW, but I have no idea what subreddits I should join to advertise and engage in!

I’m an escort, onlyfans girlie, and I want to start getting into cam work more!

Can u guys recommend the best subreddits to join and how best to use Reddit to put myself out there in these 3 departments. Any advice and tips appreciated!

(I’m a London provider so if there’s anything specific for London girls I’d love to know! Xx)

Thank youuu x

I am pretty new to this line of work and currently I do cash only but I get asked a lot about Apple Pay, CashApp, PayPal, and Venmo. When I first started out in like June I was able to have a CashApp that used my alias name but somehow CashApp linked my personal account with my alias account and I have been banned from CashApp. So my question is how do you take payments other than cash but make sure your personal information stays protected? I can’t risk someone finding out my real name due to the line of work I am in outside of sex work. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

P.S. please don’t get upset that I just do sex work on occasional weekends to help pay tuition for college and sometimes for extra spending money. I know that many sex workers this is their lively hood and I don’t mean to take away from them. I just enjoy getting to fulfill my partner/Dominants kink for being with a sex worker and being able to afford occasional fun.

I have someone i knew for a while giving me a few grand a month, i have his credit card, hes very generous with me but it comes with a lot. I care about him but hes almost in love with me. Wants to talk every second of the day. Do i play into it or do i set boundaries?

Mainly asking about stock markets, not crypto

I’ll be hopping around Europe for a couple months and would really like a way to make money on the side. I mostly do golden showers/watersports, I’m open to other things but that’s my main service. since i’ll be spending short amounts of time in each city I wanted to know the most efficient way to get clients

Hi I would love to connect with sex workers specifically escorts who are experienced and successful, genuine and support girls. I don’t mind girls who are not from uk too , ( if you have experience of working in London, great )

Feel free to pm on here x

Hey everyone good evening. Hope everyone to us and others are doing well. I’ve just have a year in SW, and it’s been ok for me, I like it. I don’t have any horrific stories, nor do I have spectacular stories.

After my first year, I’ve realized that I do not like having regulars, it’s actually the total opposite of the comfort of having one or a dozen.

I get alarmed when a gentleman Contacts me and tells me prior meeting that he wants to be a regular. So when I started, men seeing me multiple of times, I thought I was the it provider to go to.

I had to terminate several regulars because I’ve been ripped off, stressed out, and to the point of severe anger because they no longer want to pay or invite themselves to a rate that I have not approved off.

Now I am not a gf3 provider and I am very upfront with that. I don’t care how many times you see me, I am not going to treat you any different.

I even state on my ads I am not looking for regulars so I can just profit off you one time and not need to worry about am I going to be shorted.

Giving a client a discounted rate must be nice on behalf of the client but at this point, when a guy says he wants to be my regular, just do it and not say it because I’m taking it as you’re wanting to rip me off.

Again, I have no regulars and haven’t experienced a unicorn or a stable guy I would be happy to see again. For those who have regulars, that’s great and I’m happy for you all, I just don’t have that story time.

How do you ask your partners if they’ve been tested recently? I always use protection but not for oral…is it offensive to just straight up ask someone if they’ve been tested recently. I get tested every six months because I drink a lot.

Hey girlies When you have an overnight stay with a client or you’re touring what kind of bags do you use? I’m thinking about investing in an On-The-Go LV large tote bag I’m so in love with the aesthetics. Would you recommend a larger tote to bring all necessities? Thanks for the help ! Happy trapping 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

So a guy reached out to me regarding my ig post about wanting to start a OF, saying he manages girls, markets , messages for them etc. all I need to do is send content and I asked him what would his cut be and he said 50/50 net profits? Does that sound right? That seems like a hell of a lot to me, yea he would be doing the marketing and messaging but at the end of the day IM the one showing my body. Im the product per say, and it just feels kinda scammy but I also never had a manager before. I want to switch to this on the side because dancing has been a lot of work, high tip outs, and empty pocket customers that just like to watch for free. Also how does managing work, they have access to your account, I feel like they could take all the money out of my account or re sell my content that I send him no? Idk

Do you see the small talk as rude? Especially if client wants to just get into it right away? Cause that’s how I am as a client. I know some ppl buy into the allure of the whole fantasy, but i just know you don’t give a fck about me and I don’t about you, and it’s just a business transaction lol. So, I don’t see the point of wasting both our times, but I’d like to know what y’all providers think.

Hey All, old retired chickie here looking to make some extra $$$ with the newer platforms.

OF TOS is a hella long read and they seem to (conveniently) skirt the issue of "pornography" a lot as to what's allowed and what isn't.

I used to have a solo girl site so everything was in my full control; but im wondering if amateur content with like glory hole stuff woukd be allowed on OF or if stunt 🍆s would need "model" releases and if they clap back on that kinda stuff or not.

Also curious if my escort peers use OF to offer discounts or any benefits to in person clientele or if OF gets pissy about blending content creation with physical SW.

TiA for any input or advice here. I'm really looking forward to getting back to business online and IRL soon 🥰

Hello all, I have question. So I was scheduled to see a provider recently, and the TLDR version is my wife drops me off at these appointments. The provider got a little spooked seeing her dropped me off and cancelled the session at the door. All of that is an inconvenience but fair enough. What isn't fair is, they then went on to review me poorly as a client siting my wife as a random woman and using language like "set up". I'm not sure how I can try and combat this extremely unfair review and explain to potential providers what transpired. But I'm worried such a bad review could prevent me from participating in this hobby. Does anyone have any advice where I could try and at least address this review issue?

Hey there! I know Tryst has support people on Reddit, but does STG also have support people on here? I am stuck in verification hell due to name change stuff and my own idiocy.

Has anyone toured any of the following cities? Vermont, Seattle, Tysons, Plymouth, Boston, and Philly. If you have, what were your experiences and is it good to travel there at this time?

Also, what are estimated rates or overall rates of the cities?

It’s a plus if you’re black curvy girl as well.

Im pretty young n new to the industry and before anyone says quit and stuff, I don’t want to so pls don’t say that. I made a pact to not check review boards but I’ve already seen a few rating my face 5/10 or “just not facially amazing” and I’m wondering how yall deal with stuff like this? I never had much confidence in my face but I get a lot of clients through my body which is consistently rated high. But in my vanilla life that’s always been the case too, I have more fat stored in my face but not body.

i have gotten requests about selling content, underwear etc, i’m anxious to sell content online but wouldn’t mind selling panties lol. i’m just wondering how do people go about this? i’ve never shipped anything to anyone let alone panties. but i figure if i have people asking for it then it could be worth looking into? would love if any ladies could share their experience ☺️

Just got back from my appointment. Honestly worst experience ive ever had meeting anyone. It was an incall appointment and I came in not knowing what to expect Im in my 20s and have no time to date people so I just thought to just go to a sex worker. I also just moved to a different country for work and havent got the chance to get my anxiety meds yet so I was extremely nervous and I wanted to get to know her a little better just some light questions and she gave me nothing and just went straight for my dick. I couldn’t get hard even if my life depended on it i was that nervous. She then proceeded to make fun of me and blame me for not getting hard which it kind of is but this happens I guess. She just kept berating me and complained. I honestly just regret the time i spent getting ready and looking nice. I was respectful and kind and I just wanted to be a little less nervous I didnt even ask her questions about her job which I am very aware can be traumatic in bad cases. I just asked her how shes liking the country (I know shes doing a tour) and where shes going next. Did i do anything wrong? What should I do to avoid another experience like this?

I had many clients coming before and during summer but this autumn has been super low here. I heard people are more cautious with money overall but I wonder how is the business going for you ?

lol I’m mostly seeing per hour clients these days but I’ve had a couple ex sugar daddy’s ask me out to dinner lately and they both hit me with THAT😂

I had good arrangements with them in the past so I wasn’t opposed to catching up over a nice dinner. But when they said that it was hard to not roll my eyes. Both times I was enjoying the food and already there looking good and figured “whatever I’m ready to see paying clients after this so I’ll enjoy this as much as possible” so I just decided to dig to find out WHY this Doctor and CEO are proposing this BS.

Plot twist; the doctor is expecting to be laid off in 2025 from his current residency of 8 years and moved to a less paying hospital and the CEO had to lay off 80% of his employees and close one of his offices and trying to sell 1 of his 4 houses. Both were visibly stressed admitting this to me haha.

I don’t do sugaring much anymore but I had long term arrangements with both in the past. It really was wild sitting at these dinners listening to grown men in their late 40s who thought they were set for life worried that’s not the case anymore. In reality they are probably most definitely set for life still based on how much they were making and their career skills. Compared to how I grew up and the struggles of my family and myself currently it was hard not to laugh at “omg I have to sell one of my multiple houses:(“ 😂😭

But it was just more reminders of the state of the economy ultimately. Encouraged me to watch all my spending and saving even closer lately.

Pertaining to their ideal “free company arrangement” I just never gave them an answer during the dinner and saw it as me advertising myself and getting the tea lol If they want to hangout again I’ll propose we can do per meets but hell naw I’m not “hanging out” for free.

Idk just felt like sharing, I don’t have any SW friends IRL anymore and I can’t talk about this stuff with my normal friends or therapist so it gets kindof lonely experiencing random stuff like this. Only 2 of my closest friends know I do this and I try not to share work stuff with them unless it’s a buddy check seeing a new client or if they ask because they really just don’t know how to relate and don’t get it.

I used to take estrogen based ones that made me insane, then I tried the copper IUD and it made sex painful so I got it taken out. My doctor prescribed me norethindrone and so far it’s good.

All of the sudden the authenticator app no longer works. It says add an authenticator code, scan QR code, enter a setup key. How the fuck do I do any of this???

I currently have Tryst (the free version) and don’t have anything but $20 at the moment. I’m in like a live or die kind of situation and only need one or two clients at most

Ladies!!! Thought y'all may get a laugh out of this.

I'm on my way to another state right now. When I went through TSA and walked through the body scanner, they stopped me and said they needed to search me because something went off around my groin.

I laughed and said that's not possible and started pulling at my jeans and panties to show "see?? Nothing is here"

The TSA lady chuckled and said she needed to pat me down even though she's pretty sure she knows what set it off...

Y'all. I have gold glitter flakes on my panties!!! And it set off the body scanner.

Talk about weird.

Curious…..

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