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I play a lot at night before bed and want to chat depending on my mood. Im always into mutual play but sometimes i want to talk it out or send videos back and forth. When im in the mood i want to share and be social lol😹🥰dm me💋

If there is one out there, what sub would I find hunting/chasing/stalking specific kink? Thanks!

I am really into used panties. Especially when they are freshly used. What I really want to do is get some and inhale the smell while I am fucking the girl till I can't go in any more.

Anyone want to admit their dirtiest secrets, fantasies….or even better message me (horny t-boi) about what you’d do to me….😏

For all of my submissives out there, what is your favorite way to show your devotion and submission to your partner, master, daddy, dom or lord? Acts of service? Cooking? Cleaning? Massages? Wake him up in the morning to a BJ? Let him control your finances??? All answers are great answers! I’m just looking for new ideas.

Hi! Recently discovered sexy thong men’s undies in my bfs drawer. I’ve also come across his trans porn. Do these two clues point to a kink? I want to explore this and learn about his fantasies but he’s never talked about them. I came across some sissy stuff that might fit but if you can point me to any other subreddit that fits I will be forever grateful.

M here, are there any princess lurkers here who have always wanted to play out their online fantasies? Experience the feeling of belonging to someone, the control, the praise… doing whatever is asked of you and knowing that your only goal is to give as much pleasure as possible.

Knowing that you were picked above all the others and thinking about how addicted you could become to the attention you would receive.

If you are slim and looking for something longterm…well you might just be perfect ;)

Both on me and other people. The second I see shiny clothes or boots on anyone I lose all power whatsoever. I've amassed a large collection and I love dressing up in it and teasing people online.

I enjoy having the shit kicked out of me by a female during sex not just slapped and choked the best sex I had the woman was riding me and started punching me she broke my jaw bloodied my nose and cracked some ribs it was amazing but not many woman seem to wanna go this extreme with me! Is there anyone else that enjoys this?

I'll never wash it Before you suck it! Tf.

Is there a kink for wanting to be one with your partner like for example shoving your tongue down their throat during intercourse to try to be as close to internally connected to them as possible. Ik this sounds crazy but can anyone relate?

I always love playing with my tits, love how it bounce when I hump.. I always wait excitedly on my nipple play day as thats the day my edging stop and I would cum like a cum slut.

From childhood till now?

I’ve found reclamation kink, but that’s more dabbling into hotwifing. And I’m not into cucking or poly, so it doesn’t seem to fit because we’re monogamous. We’re kinksters together and she’s done this, so communicating it isn’t a concern.

It was actually a helpful tool with my retroactive jealousy and provided me with a lot of reassurance with my sexual self-image. Especially paired with aftercare towards one-another.

Just looking for a label.

I've recently gotten into panty stuffing porn and it's been the top thing to get me going recently. I finally built up the confidence to tell me husband and he was very into it far more then I thought he would be! We've incorporated it into our sex life but it's causing me to be really sore and it feels like I'm chafed inside. What type of material do y'all think would be best for this

Long story short, I recently have been going through a lot in my life.

My last partner (things are up in the air, it's a whole thing) brought me further into the fold of kink. She also once gave me a nickname that kinda stuck.

Basically I've decided to delve further into things, on my own, whilst we are broken up. I figured this is a way for that persona, the nickname, to be something that the other parts of my life (me, my job role and my dad duties) and to have some form of "control", something that's just for me that isn't a part of the rest of my life. Something outside and away from everything. A release of sorts. I'll always come back to the others parts of my life but I feel like I need that other me, the nickname that I had that isn't part of the rest of my life.

Is this healthy? Any advice would be helpful.

Im extremely attracted to women that are Wiccan. I would love to get to know, chat and discuss this with you. Im a very conservative person so I think this idea is just very very different for me. Anywho I would love to get to know you….

My wife used to fuck a few of my close friends before we met which I’ve been fine with because she ended up with me.

Recently I’ve been shared a video of when she used to fuck one of them and his cock is huge!! Instead of being mad, I’m extremely turned on. I can’t stop masturbating to it. I told her I’d seen it and that I wasn’t mad and that it was kind of hot watching her all over a big cock and enjoying it so much. She said it was a long time ago and that it was great sex but is in the past now.

[SERIOUS] Alright. So this ones kinda crazy but i need some help.

I found out my girlfriend is into... sonic the hedgehog. She's hot, sweet, down to experiment on things, but one of her friends told me in confidence that one of the only ways she can get off is to think about Sonic and it's a think from basically as long as she started masturbating.

I swear to christ this is real and I'm genuinely asking for help. So... do you guys have any recommendations or honestly ways I can incorporate this to help her get off? I care about her and if this is what it takes to make her feel good, I want to try. So I'd appreciate any genuine advice. Thanks.

The dim glow of candlelight dances across your skin, casting shadows that ripple like whispers over the curve of your spine. You’re stretched beneath me, a canvas of trust and longing. Your breath hitches as my palm grazes the dip of your waist, and I feel the familiar surge of power. Not the kind that demands, but the kind that cherishes.

“Look at you,” I murmur, my voice a low rumble against your ear. Your shiver is immediate, a tremor that arches you into me. “So perfect like this. Letting me see you… all of you.” My beard brushes your neck as I press you deeper into the sheets, my weight a deliberate anchor. You moan, soft and fractured, and I drink it in. Praise is my favorite, but it’s the way you receive it. The way your body softens, then ignites, that unravels us both.

I take my time. Always. My fingers trace the shell of your ear before tangling in your hair, not tugging, just holding. “Every sigh, every shiver, you give them to me so freely. My good girl.” Your whimper is a melody. I map your ribs with my lips, lingering where your heartbeat thrums wildest. “You’re beautiful like this. Open. Devoted.” Each word is a vow, a claim you’ve begged me to etch into your skin.

When I finally slide into you, it’s with a groan that’s as much reverence as hunger. You gasp, nails biting into my shoulders, and I cradle your face, forcing you to meet my gaze. “Look at me,” I command, gentle but unyielding. Your eyes are glazed, tears pooling at the edges… not from pain, but from the sheer weight of surrender. “That’s it. Let me see you fall apart.”

Your thighs tremble around my hips as I move, each thrust a measured cadence. I praise you between kisses: “So good for me… taking every touch, every word… perfect.” Your cries climb higher, a crescendo I’ve orchestrated with whispers and worship. I find the spot beneath your jaw that makes you sob and nip it, soothing the sting with my tongue. “You’re mine here, aren’t you? In this moment?”

“Y-yours,” you choke, your voice breaking as I grind deeper, slower, denying you the pace you crave. Your frustration is a flicker of fire… I adore it. “Please,” you whisper, barely audible.

“Shh. I’ve got you.” I kiss your temple, my hand sliding between us to circle your clit with torturous precision. “You’ll come when I say. And you’ll thank me for it.” Your answering whine is desperation incarnate. I smile against your skin. “Such a devoted thing. You’d wait forever, wouldn’t you? Just to hear me tell you how magnificent you are?”

My hand presses lightly against your throat as I guide your breathing, my thrusts slow and calculated. Watching the ecstasy in your eyes, I can’t help but press my forehead against yours. “Such a good girl. Feel how I split you open with ease. Even your body knows how to devote itself to me.”

With our eyes locked, I see the strain from my hand around your throat and release. “Pleaseeee, Daddy!” you moan. “Not yet, princess. You know I’m going to take care of you,” I reply with a smirk, taking your delicate wrists in my large hand and pinning them above your head. I lean back and increase my tempo, watching your body tense, your chest and face flushing. I know it’s time….

“Cum for me.”

Your climax crashes over you like a wave, violent and sweet. You chant my name like a prayer, your body clenching around me, and I follow you down, murmuring praises into the sweat-damp hollow of your throat. “There you go… let it claim you. Beautiful. My beautiful girl.”

Afterward, I gather you close, your head pillowed on my chest. Your fingers trace idle patterns over my sternum, and I press a kiss to your hair. “You were extraordinary,” I say, and feel your smile against my skin.

Praising you is my favorite. But your trust in me? That is my religion.

Throw away becauseI am insecure lmao. So I’ve always been into masked men and men in helmets, but I recently realized I only find it hot if they never take the mask off. If I see their face, the attraction disappears. It’s the mystery, the unreadable energy, and the presence that makes it exciting.

I keep thinking about how amazing a totally anonymous masked encounter would be...amazing lmao. Just chemistry, no unmasking, no personal details. Maybe a little talking, but only if they have the right kind of voice (low, controlled, confident). Not a lot of conversation, just enough to add to the intensity.

Has anyone else experienced this? Or explored it in real life? I have no clue how something like this would even work, but I kind of want to figure it out...maybe? I'd love some insight!

Hi, I have someone who is a friend so to speak. They want me to be their keyholder as they are into Chasity play. I am not vanilla in any means but never looked into chasity play nor feel like it’s something I’m into. I’m not one to kink shame and I’m not shaming them for what they like, but.. they keep asking me to lead them like around campus on a leash, and to go shopping with them but tell the workers I have them caged and so on.. a lot of voyeurism stuff. I am NOT into that at all. The workers or the people on campus and so on haven’t consented to see that. Now whenever we talk they always bring up some sort of play they want to do in public. I’m not sure what to do or say at this point? How can I can no without sounding like I am kink shaming them?? Cause I really don’t have any issues with that they are into EXPECT they want to bring people who haven’t consented into this. Any ideas would be MUCH appreciated.. thank you :)

My first kink is very scent related. I found out a while ago when I was younger that I liked smelling dirty panties, and from then on would masturbate using my sisters panties. I also like the idea of someone groveling at my feet and smelling my sweaty cock (idk why it just seems hot). But the smell of pussy has always turned me on. And my other main kink is exhibitionism but haven't had the chance to do anything serious. I have a girlfriend that I would like to do this stuff with but I don't know how to ask her for this type of stuff? Like I've considered asking her not to shower or nothing or change her panties so that the smell of her pussy lingers but I'm too afraid for her reaction. Help?

Sorry if this kind of post isn't allowed here but I don't really know where else would be good to ask. So I'm into some weird fantasy stuff, I don't really want to get specific, suffice to say as far as I'm concerned it's entirely safe and ethical, I am aware of the dangers of normalising certain things too much, that's not really the problem. The problem is I have a bad habit of subconsciously searching for negative opinions on kinky stuff and there are plenty to be found and they're insanely hateful, the kind of accusations thats really hard to shake. I know they're full of it, but I still wind up internalizing it and feeling all this shame that just eats into my self worth. Besides not seeking such opinions in the first place you dingus, any advice on coping?

If my wife asks to be choked during sex, what else would she be into? She’s not very open!

I have always known that I like bondage and that I like sex on the rougher side. I want marks left, I want to be choked, slapped,ect. But my husband won’t do anything of those things. I bought soft cuffs thinking that maybe if they’re fuzzy, he’ll feel better about using them. Nope. I’ve bought several things and tried to incorporate them and he either gets super awkward or straight up doesn’t use them. What should I do?? Vanilla sex isn’t cutting it anymore. I need.. more.

It blew my mind I can’t even describe it 🤯 I’ve never been more turned on in my life.

Why should I not stay in my basement and just have orgasms already?

Just pm me with talks and gag ideas/tasks