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33[M4F] #Indiana Hi there! Make new friends. I'm open to the possibility of something more if the chemistry is right. Let's chat and see where it leads.

Hey there! I’m super excited to meet someone new and hopefully start a friendship that could blossom into something special. Let me tell you a bit about myself: I’m a huge fan of video games, love getting lost in captivating books, and can’t resist jamming out to some awesome music! In my free time, I enjoy watching fun YouTube videos and movies and diving into binge-worthy TV shows. And when the weather's nice, you’ll find me swimming or going for refreshing walks and enjoying some exercise!

I’m on the lookout for someone who’s laid-back, loves spending quality time with family and friends, and radiates a sweet, kind vibe. If you think we might vibe, I’d be thrilled to chat!

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2024/12/19
09:06 UTC

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30 [M4F] KY/USA - Looking for an attentive relationship!

Hey there! My name is Matt and I'm 30, I'm from Louisville, KY. I'm a daddy and caregiver, pleasure dom and a tad bit sadistic.

I'm looking for a relationship.. If you're local Or long distance, either is fine with me. Just be open to meeting at some point.

Im generally awake from 8am to 1am, and I would love someone to chat with throughout The day and at night. Night owls, where you at? Especially of you're up at night it's really helpful.

Having soneone who is attentive to their phone and conversations would be very helpful.

I'm looking for someone who puts effort into themselves, the relationship, and the conversation.

I love physical touch and verbal/physical affection. Travel, adventures, and spontaneity make me pretty happy as well.

I love Disney, theme parks, music and reading. I'm a picky eater and I don't plsy video games.

So, where should our first adventure be? And what snacks should we bring?

Please Include more than “Hi” or “hey” or “Hru” in your first message. Pictures get extra points, but not required :)

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2024/12/19
04:58 UTC

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29[M4F] #Texas, Texas; / Shy Guy looking for Love

Located in East texas Open to online but id like to meet in person if we connect.

I want to take things slow and be friends before talking about dating. Been ghosted alot so please just let me know if it's not working.

About me- Married and dating separately, Nerdy, loves animals, has a sweet tooth, Dad bod so great for cuddling, works in IT , was a cook for several years, lots more to discover

About you- Kind, loves to text, wants to see pics of my puppies, likes terrible jokes and being teased, and has a whole lot for me to find out about you too!

I'm happy to answer any questions you have and hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/12/19
03:46 UTC

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34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well.

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2024/12/19
00:18 UTC

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31 [F4F] Anywhere/UK - Open long distance or something more local

🤗 Hello

I'm 31 and an AFAB Enby from the UK who is married (my wife is also poly, we date separately) and has a 2 year old little one.

My days right now are spent working, talking to my wife and playing with my little one. In between that I read or watch shows. I'm not the most exciting person but I love to talk and share my passions or photos throughout the day.

My life is missing a connection, a person who has similar interests or someone who is passionate about theirs who can teach or show me something new.

I'm perfectly happy for things to be platonic, flirty or deeper and a little nsfw. Let's see how things go.

Just let me know your intentions if you reach out, that way we can make sure we're on the same page 😊

Now for the downer part: Let me make it clear that I don't want to speak to men, I'm sorry but I'm just not interested. Out of all the messages I had last time I posted, half of them were from cis guys despite me asking for otherwise

Everyone else, I hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/12/18
23:16 UTC

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38 [M4F] Oregon — looking for feels in the lonesome crowded west.

I’ve been open quite a long time and well everyone does it differently. So in attempt to avoid pitfalls of my past, I want to find emotional openness with out the chains of hierarchy. I’m vasectomized and don’t believe in marriage. I want to be able to love someone fully and let them love me as well. I’m not interested in someone seeing me as a place holder for their next crush or as their sex toy when they are not getting attention from their primary… just want to have a mutual and uplifting connection based on ingenuity.

I think most people in poly are on the “nerdy side”. Myself have a wide net as I love exploring nature and am a little bit of a funguy 🍄. Along with that I really enjoy taking photos and doing art. My comfort food is video games, if you can appreciate gaming as an interactive form of art, I think I would greatly appreciate you. Recently was blown away by the silent hill 2 remake, and currently going through FF7 rebirth again. Music tastes tend to be indie sounding, slothrust - crockpot is my filter for if our tastes click. I have a bit of a variety is the spice mentality and along with that enjoy weed and the occasional dance with Molly and mushrooms.

If all the nerd stuff got you hot and bothered, I’ve also dabbled in writing erotica and get a hefty sum of 6 dollars a month from Amazon which to me it’s kind of magical I’m giving long distance orgasms while I’m sleeping. Sexually I lean dominant but it’s all just adult play to me, the keys to my castle lie within my feelings as I’m quite Demisexual.

My current life involves my two cats and someone I’ve shared my life with for the past 8 years who was also open when we first met. I live on my own and in a turning point. Just started therapy for the first time to help with something I’ve known for awhile but have only felt more recently tackling and working on my physical health as well(open to provide pictures upon request). I currently live in Eugene Oregon but will be relocating(though visiting frequently) to Portland once my lease is up in 4 months cause the food selection is damned amazing and my interactions with people here have been more of my vibe.

If this speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you and feel free to dm.

Side note I have my adult life well wrangled(work remotely generally stable) and hoping you do too, just trying to nurture love in my life at this point. Recently got into streaming on twitch, cause I do want to make some more gamer nerdy friends.

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2024/12/18
23:16 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Online - I just want someone to connect and be good for

Hey all - I have been lurking for a while and wanted to post finally. I wanted to find someone to connect with and be friends with first. I have been looking into the poly lifestyle and somehow feel like this is something that is for me. Although I haven’t had a chance to explore and looking to change that!

I love the idea of being good for someone and simping for someone and would love to wxplore that side with someone. If you’re local? am kind of new to the city so would love to explore and hang out too if we hit it off.

I am into cooking and football and anime, and taking aesthetic pictures ( even tho I am not good at them haha ) Bonus points if you can teach me about skincare lol. Anyway, looking forward to hearing from you - Cheers!

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2024/12/18
22:12 UTC

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41[M4F] #NewHampshire Progressive AMAB non-binary ISO anchor/nesting partner.

Warm hearted, down to earth, affectionate, intelligent, extrovert seeks a long term partner. My primary love language is physical touch so ideally this partner would be close by or willing to relocate eventually if things worked out.

I am very happily married to a wonderful woman. While we date separately we have had experience dating the same person. We do our best to confront our couples privilege and are open to altering our entanglements to bring a partner into our family. We practice Kitchen Table Polyamory. At a minimum my wife would love a live-in best friend to do girly things with. We prefer communicating about things instead of imposing rules on each other’s relationships.

I offer nearly inexhaustible understanding and love. I do not neglect my own needs for others, but beyond that I will do nearly anything for those I love. Even those I don’t. I think boundaries are extremely important. I’m also great in stressful situations and have been called walking Prozac.

I am non-binary and present very masc. Shaved head, beard, men’s fashion, dad bod, 5’10”. I’m creative, confident (not cocky), and I am constant self-reflecting.

Who I’m looking for is fairly wide open. I would like someone I can sit on the couch with and have long discussions on philosophy and the universe. I get along best with bubbly personalities.

Kink is a must. If you’re curious about kink and you’re open to exploring that’s good enough. If you’ve had decades of experience and are very comfortable with exploring that’s even better. I am Dominant. I am happy to go more in depth about my kink interests in private.

I like to move slowly in terms of emotional investment, but only in so long as we take the time to establish compatibility. Which is to say that I will take my time vetting you and letting you vet me before I feel comfortable making commitments. That can include voice and video calls. It can also include meeting up for dates. Lastly I prefer to verify early on. That simply means exchanging a few pictures within the first week.

If you’ve read this far I hope you are having a great week.

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2024/12/18
20:07 UTC

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35[F4F] #Omaha/Online - Let’s Game Together

I’m “Book”. I’m a demi-panromantic big beautiful lady looking to make a connection to other femmes(trans women and nbs welcome). Currently working on changing my relationship with food through therapy. I live with my nesting partner but we date separately.I have AuDHD. I want to start by building a friendship before moving toward anything sexual. I’m a bratty sub so bonus points if you’re a tamer.

I am very into video games and would love to find someone who wants to game with me. The best way to get to know me is gaming together. I have a huge collection on PC and few on switch, mostly I’m into. slice of life, rouge-like, strategy and action/adventure and sim but I’m down to play just about anything. Right now I’ve been getting into Infinity Nikki and BG3. I’m also into ERP.

Some of my other interests include: arts and crafts, board games, tabletop gaming (currently playing in two games and dming a 3rd), cooking, travel, adventuring, camping, reading,listening to podcasts, true crime, and 420. I love trying new things and experimenting, my list of hobbies is ever-growing and changing.

I’m an extrovert and used to open communication. I love in-depth conversions, long replies and debates. I talk about everything I’m feeling and want the same from any partners, I can’t fix things I don’t know about!

Potential deal breakers: I’m an atheist, I don’t want kids.

This is me- https://imgur.com/a/5IbFh2M and https://i.imgur.com/bHM5Rro.jpg

Message me if you wanna talk.

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2024/12/18
19:12 UTC

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29 [F4F] Ohio/online- looking for connections

Hi! I'm Crystal from Ohio. Married, poly, bi. Yes he knows I'm on here. He's on here too.

About me: I'm witchy. I collect crystals and read tarot cards.
I write alot. I bake. My favourite holiday is Christmas.
My favourite colour's are green, purple, and red.
I dabble in gaming, but I rather watch others on YouTube play games. I have 6 tattoos, with plans for more. Glasses. Brown hair. Brown eyes. BBW. I have two cats, Thor and Loki.
I have a stepson. Personality type: Mediator (INFP-T) Traits: Introverted – 89%, Intuitive – 73%, Feeling – 64%, Prospecting – 67%, Turbulent – 90% Role: Diplomat Strategy: Constant Improvement

If you want to know more, my DMs are open, as long as you're 18+ and female. No guys, sorry.

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2024/12/18
17:57 UTC

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33 [M4F] #Online - Times are weird. I want to expand my network with cool poly people

Hey there! I’m a 5'10", 250 lbs 33 year old PhD candidate who’s passionate about hiking, traveling, camping, and embracing the beauty of the outdoors. Whether it's a weekend camping trip or a spontaneous road trip, I love exploring new places and cultures. I also enjoy a good mix of music, films, and documentaries to unwind or spark interesting conversations.

When I'm not outdoors, you’ll find me diving into history, politics, and culture, always with a book in hand, grading, or writing my dissertation. I'm also a car enthusiast and love keeping up with the latest tech trends.

I'm polyamorous and have been practicing this relationship style for over a decade. I value honesty, communication, and building strong, meaningful connections with like-minded individuals. If you’re open-minded, enjoy deep conversations, and are looking for an adventure partner in life, let's chat!

I’m happy to exchange photos early if you're interested—let’s make sure we vibe before meeting up! I’m looking for someone who shares similar interests or is curious about exploring new things, and who appreciates the balance of freedom and connection. Let’s get to know each other and see where the journey takes us! 😊

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2024/12/18
13:55 UTC

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25[f4r] in Utah but open for anywhere! Let’s be friends and see if more develops

Reddit is weird so if you messaged me with no responses chances are I didn’t see it. I’m 25 year old woman! I use she/ her pronouns. Here’s some rapid fire fun facts about me:

  • I’m married to a man with no other partners
  • My aesthetic is what I call bubblegum soft emo so I’m emo in my style and love pink haha
  • From Utah and don’t mind long distance
  • I’m Queer! Panromantic and demisexual. So need to develop a friendship first
  • I enjoy watching YouTube like tea spill and H3. I also like documentaries on like events or unexplained things. Definitely a history fan!
  • I’ve been obsessed with stardew valley lately
  • Still super into Harry potter world. love LOTR and Hobbits plus highly enjoy Disney movies!
  • Love reading
  • Like crystals, star signs, and stuff like that! Totally believe in magic.
  • my sleep schedule is fucked so would be nice to have someone to keep me company during the night

If I sound like your type then message me! If you already have and I didn’t respond sorry and do it again

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2024/12/18
05:01 UTC

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37 [F4M/F] socal/online

Hi there! Hoping to find some awesome folks for friendly and flirty chats!

About me- I love a new adventure, would rather be camping than shopping, open to try all sorts of foods, have never met a dog I didn’t like. I’ve been polyamorous with my husband for about 5 years. We date separately and he has had a partner for 3 years.

Other interests- Fishing, hiking, birding, photography, horror movies/shows, reading, the occasional trash tv show, baking, making all sorts of things with my hands, international music, jazz, museums, art galleries.

Hopefully you are- funny, adventurous, caring, not afraid of phone calls, a nature lover, creative, happily communicative, emotionally intelligent.

If you feel you fit the bill then send me a message! Looking forward to hearing from you!

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2024/12/18
04:03 UTC

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29 [F4M] North East PA

Hey there, so I’ve posted in here before, and made some cool connections which unfortunately fizzled out over time.

So let me try this again, hopefully with more success.

My poly-life: I’m hierarchical poly with my nesting partner and legal spouse, whom I have 3 womb fruits with. We’ve been together 8 years, open for 2 1/2, we are both confidently and happily in the life and communicate well with one another.

What I’m seeking:

I want a long term partner, someone I would talk to daily, about everything and nothing. Texting, video chats, sending each other memes and videos, voice texts. I want a lover boy. I want someone who loves to love and be loved. I want to learn all about you, and to let you know me. I want to take things slowly and not rush into the physical. I want a deep connection that actually lasts. I like long messages and hearing all your passions. I want to know what you had for lunch, and what your coworker did that bugged you. I want to hear about your goals and dreams, success, your childhood and insecurities. I want an actual meaningful connection. Which may be too much to ask… but I’m gonna try.

I have no preference on body type, or height, race, ethnicity or religion.

I am fat (3XL), 5’4, White and PuertoRican, and Christian (not preachy though). My head is shaved, so letting you know in advance. But I do plan to get some adorable wigs soon.

Age wise I would prefer close to my age not much older or younger, but if there’s chemistry I’ll overlook age as long as you’re above 25.

If you would like to be my potential partner, please message me your :

Name, age, a recent real photo of your face, and a bit about you.

I will 100% send you photos of my face and fully appropriate full body pictures immediately to establish if I’m your type or not.

Hopefully my lover boy is out there❣️❣️Talk soon.

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2024/12/18
01:06 UTC

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33 [M4F] #Online - Looking for fun, flirty vibes and good times

Hey there! I’m Jeremy, a 33-year-old stocky guy from Colorado with blond hair, blue-green eyes, and a dedication to getting fit (glow-up in progress????). Life’s been crazy with business school and a full-time job, but I always make time for the right person—especially if you’re up for holiday vibes and a little flirty banter!

I’ve lived all over the U.S., but Colorado is home now. I love hiking, hitting the gym regularly, and of course, trivia nights (if you can keep up, we’re already off to a great start!). When I’m not working or studying, I’m all about trying new things—whether it’s tasting new foods, having deep convos, traveling, or just enjoying life with the right company.

I’m a fun, positive guy who’s always up for a little adventure. I believe in building connections on trust, communication, and let’s be honest, a little bit of spice. If you’re someone who embraces who you are and loves to explore, we’ll definitely vibe.

A quick note: I’ve had a vasectomy, so I’m currently not looking to have biological kids of my own, but I’m totally open to dating someone who already has children. If you’re on the same page, that’s great! I believe in building connections that are meaningful, regardless of where kids fit into the picture.

I’m looking for someone who shares a few of my passions—whether it’s outdoor adventures, gym progress, a little heavy flirting, or having conversations that keep us both on our toes. Personal growth is important to me, and I'd love to connect with someone who's as committed to self-improvement as they are to having fun together.

So, if you’re ready to flirt, be a little mischievous, and see where the chemistry takes us—let’s chat! I can't wait to see what kind of holiday magic we can create together.

Talk soon! Link to pics

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2024/12/18
00:25 UTC

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26 [F4M] Online/Upstate New York

Hello! I'm Mercedes, a 5'11 big girl who's looking for a new connection.

I'm married to my long-term partner (NB27) and engaged to my fiancé (M31) but I'm looking for something new!

Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, piercings, unhinged memes, TikTok, coffee/energy drinks and reading (horror and smut specifically)

About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, go on cute dates, send sweet memes/TikToks, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!

What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond in a timely manner (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a dark sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.

I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends, and would be interested in-person if we hit it off, dms are open! ♥️

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2024/12/17
22:48 UTC

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22 [R4R] Ireland - LD or buds :)

M4MF

Hi I’m kinda new to the scene but polyamory is somthing I’ve wanted to explore for a while, I’m not sure if this is the right way to go about it but if you’d wanna make friends and educate me on this kinda stuff or explore a long distance poly relationship or whatever happens hit me up! I’m super friendly and just love to yap haha

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2024/12/17
22:45 UTC

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35 [M4F] Greensboro, NC - new to idea looking to explore

Hey everyone, 35M here. Currently a PhD student attempted to start a second career as a college professor, and met someone who got me interested in the poly lifestyle.

I’ve got no expectations whatsoever, other than a reasonable desire to explore it further.

Love reading, writing, and generally nerding out on anything related from shipwrecks to aliens lol.

I’m 5’10, athletic build, and typically active when I’m not being typically lazy.

Happy to exchange photos if desired. DMs are open.

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2024/12/17
22:06 UTC

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39 [M4F] #NYC Date nights, museum day dates, & cuddle buddies

39 Partnered in a long distance relationship my partner is in Portland Oregon she does visit often but am looking for a poly partner based in NYC.

For starters my love language is sarcasm, my second love language is touch and my third is witty responses that put a smile on your face. I’m a creative type for work but generally find peace in silence and enjoy quiet places with good food.

I enjoy my free time and am always planning something in advance. I schedule everything with my friends and like to go on adventures. I’d like to tour museums, go on date nights, and have a fun days with a partner.

Shoot me a message with your information and what you’re looking for - I am looking for something that isn’t fleeting.

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2024/12/17
20:43 UTC

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35[F4R] #anywhere

Yes I come with a ⚠️ label:

Warning: southern, sassy, tattooed, plus sized witch with disabilities and a penchant for true crime novels, Magic the Gathering, Dungeons & Dragons and PC gaming. Proceed with caution (and a sense of humor). I'm pansexual and demisexual, so keep your unsolicited sexual pics and comments to yourself, or you'll be ignored faster than a bad horror movie. I'm married with one additional partner, and I date separately. I am only looking for myself as I date separately from my other relationships. I'm a left-leaning liberal, 420-friendly, and I love animals, especially my cats, so if you're not cool with that, then maybe we're not a match. I'm looking for friends and something more if it develops, and distance isn't a deal-breaker if the vibes are right. I am from the southern US. So, if you're still reading and haven't been scared off yet, send me a message, and let's see where things go.

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2024/12/17
19:59 UTC

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23 [F4A] AL

Hi! So I’m still fairly new to the polyamory side of dating yet I have two amazing partners who I love so dearly and would love for either more poly friends and or potential partners near my area (Hsv).

A little bit about me is I am a college student working on a degree in biology and hoping to possibly go into field biology when I get finished with it :3. I love to game, write, read, explore new places around me, collect crystals, and be a goof if you are looking for someone like that :3. If you don’t like a female who is tattooed and has multiple piercings I’m not the person for you sorry! I am more than willing to do long distance as one of my current partners is long distance!

If you’d like to talk more with me don’t be scared to shoot a dm and I will reply whenever I am online :3

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2024/12/17
18:50 UTC

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30 [M4F] Philly - Nerdy, emotionally intelligent lover seeking same.

I've been gaming since I was... maybe 7? 8? I enjoy DMing in D&D, competitive games like dota 2, or teamwork games like GTFO. Fantasy is a door into a world where we can live as things we can't, and experience stories that touch into the soul of the human condition. I enjoy living and sharing those experiences with others.

I've had several therapists throughout my life, and am very particular about how I communicate. When silly, I'm silly and say random shit. But when serious, I work to be specific, focused, and clear. Healthy, clear, intentional communication is the bedrock of my relationships; I ask that you practice it, or are willing.

And for the sensual bit, I love touch. Pinching, tickling, random butt swats/grabs, kisses, all of it. I'm content when I'm freely touching my partner most of the day, and enjoy when she does the same. It might as well be my oxygen. Can I be yours?

I currently live with one partner, 31F. I'd like you to at least be cordial with her. If a relationship between you and her develops, cool. But I'm not expecting or planning anything.

What's a recent game or story that moved you, that you can't get out of your thoughts?

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2024/12/17
17:06 UTC

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47 [M4A] #Conway, Arkansas - New Cnnections

I am a 47 year old poly married man who is seeking new connections and friends in the community. I identify as Demi, Sapio and Pan. I am a creative soul who loves music, art, good writing, and beautiful cities. I love having conversations about life, personal philosophies, culture, and the poly lifestyle.

I stay active and believe that motion creates good emotion. Hiking, walking, and working out are my therapies. I am not a drinker but I do like food as evidence of a little ponch in the mid section. I live for smiles, hugs, laughs, and cuddles.

I realize that humans are complex beings and it’s hard to create an “elevator pitch” to define in entirety who you are, but if your interested in finding out more or just want to chat, reach out.

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2024/12/17
14:53 UTC

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35[m4f] canada

Hey there! Just thought I would give this community a try! I'm from a small town in Sk and poly really isn't something that is viewed as right.. Ugh! Anyway I hope to find that someone to fill a gap in my life! Just so you know i am relatively new to poly(less then a year) but I really feel like it is what I want! Drop me a line if you want to know more! This volunteer firefighter is looking for connection!

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2024/12/17
13:16 UTC

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35 [NB4R] Ohio/Online - looking for a loving relationship

Hey there folks! Pansexual 35 genderfluid AMAB here. I'm looking for someone to get to know and love. I am a very romantic guy. I love to keep in touch and ask how your days been, I like to give updates on mine and more.

About me: firstly I am from Ohio. I have 2 partners, both live with me. One is a very active part of my life whilst the other is semi active as they work alot and maintain a lot of alone time due to having a antisocial personality but I love them no less. :) I am a Psychology major on break until spring because I recently graduated with my bachelor's and I'm doing my master's beginning in spring. I am a gamer/streamer, I love to travel, and watch movies and anime. So I would prefer someone who is a gamer and plays on PC, and if you aren't a gamer, you won't mind me gaming as we chat hehe. I have pretty fast response times honestly. Hehe.

My personality and mental health:

I am a very sweet person, I am dedicated to making others laugh and smile. I am nuerospicy and require you to be the same. Sorry neurotypicals! I have ASD level 1, BPD, CPTSD, generalized anxiety, and DID (myself and 5 others in system) all well managed actually. :) most can't tell minus the DID, that's kinda unavoidable but all my alters are very sweet. I love playing FFXIV and Warframe, also I play on a wow private server as my main games but I play tons of others as well like survivals, spooky ghost games, zombie shooters and more.

What I'm looking for:

To be blunt, a man or woman be it cisgender or trans, or Enbys, who want to be friends to begin with, flirt a bit and see where it leads us, and if we hit it off, I wanna grow to love you, cherish you, worship you with all my heart and grow together. This can stay online, or become IRL. There's no requirement there. I want to check on you daily, text you, and just have companionship. Now because most require a little info on this here, I'm pansexual and very kink friendly. Also pretty kinky myself. DM me for more info about this I rather not make this post heavy NSFW. Anyhow, I am A AI musician, I write my lyrics and use an app to turn them into song. I am finishing up a comedy album in the next few days haha.

Potential deal breakers you should know and not waste your time on me because I will NOT change these for anyone:

420 friendly smoker I am a little on the chubby side and happy. I will NOT support trump or date anyone who does I am neurospicy and proud.

Anyhow I hope to meet you! I am excited! Also please no DMs with just "hi" or "hi how are you" please give a introduction. Give me the same effort I gave you. It doesn't have to be super long either. At least 3-4 sentences to start.

All genders and anyone 18+ welcome. Also open to friendships!

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2024/12/17
09:52 UTC

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27 [M4F] Palmdale CA

Hello. How is everyone doing? If you are reading this. I'm looking for someone to connect with someone on a chill and non toxic matter. Age I'm looking for something around 21-45. I like to exercise, go hiking, enjoy watching movies (purhaps we can watch something together?) a bit of a gamer (but not like used to be) into a bit of cars. A part timer at a grocery store. Enjoy music like rap, rock, metal, 80s pop, new wave, synth pop, a bit of country and and jazz. If you're from my area or close enough, don't hesitate to hmu. I'd like to get to know you and catch a vibe

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2024/12/17
08:52 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Online #Oklahoma Looking for a sassy lady!

Hey, I’m R! I’m 31M, 6’7”, Brown hair, brown eyes with a dad bod, and from the USA. I’m in an ENM/Poly relationship with my wife (we date separately), and I’m looking to connect with someone to text with and maybe explore a relationship.

I’ve got a lot of interests—anything from building with Legos, playing classic video games, to binging TV shows (I’m always up for recommendations). I also enjoy computers and tech stuff.

I value honesty, communication, and a sense of humor—especially if you love cheesy jokes or random facts. If you’re someone who enjoys deep convos, random meme shares, or just vibing together, I’d love to connect.

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2024/12/17
03:42 UTC

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39 [M4F] - #Wisconsin #US - Tired of unfulfilling interactions with strangers? Looking for empathy, good communication and something easy on the eyes? Then order the C.A.R.E unit today!

This C.A.R.E unit is located in the suburbs of Madison, Wisconsin but is open to further locations within the U.S. This unit is also polyamorous/ethically non-monogamous and partnered. We date separately.

The C.A.R.E unit (Caring Attentive Respectful Empathetic) is our latest and greatest invention. Carefully tailored to make sure your experience is as smooth, respectful, interesting and enjoyable as possible, the C.A.R.E unit is our biggest breakthrough! The following are the current specifications for this specific unit.

SPECIFICATIONS:

  • The unit is currently 39 years of age, slightly used but operating at (almost) peak efficiency.
  • This unit comes in size SQUISHY for maximum cuddling efficiency. Height is set at 5'11. Brown skin (alternative color skins not available) and glasses to give an air of sophistication (and due to a mishap at the optics factory).
  • Currently fluent in two different languages (English and Urdu) and a smattering of French.
  • Experienced in conversational topics such as "How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck food?", the science of maximum cuddling, politics, social issues, music, movies, television, travel, cooking, gaming, science and more!
  • Comes equipped with self care which includes the following but is not limited to: cooking, breathing, having a career, grooming, not dying in his own filth and a relatively sane brain.
  • Ideally this unit is assigned to a local or somewhat nearby person but it is not adverse to longer distances.
  • Unit comes with optional (but much recommended) spicy toggles for those that are looking for something more than vanilla. If you know, you know. Contact and ask for more information on these toggles for details.

This unit requires minimal upkeep but if you are interested in making sure it is operating consistently at 96.7% and higher efficiency, the following methods help sustain it.

HOW TO SUSTAIN YOUR C.A.R.E UNIT:

  • Cuddling and general physical affection makes this unit happy and a happy C.A.R.E unit means you are a happy person!
  • Compliments go a long way to keep the mood positive for said unit.
  • Cookies, cake and other forms of highly delicious baked goods will be much appreciated.
  • Spending quality time with the C.A.R.E unit is potentially the most efficient way to maintain it.
  • Playful conversation as well as serious keeps the C.A.R.E unit brain operating in the highest of levels.
  • Butt touches.

So how do you get your C.A.R.E unit today? Just fill out the following application and send it right in! We need to make sure the C.A.R.E unit is matched up with the best possible candidate.

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I hope you enjoyed reading that. Just a bit about me and my current relationship - currently engaged to a lovely lady. I want to state and restate - not looking for unicorns here.

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2024/12/17
02:28 UTC

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34 [M4F] Dallas TX; Partnered, new to TX, looking to meet new people

Hey all! Recently moved to Texas and looking to make some new connections and build relationships. Open to an array of relationship styles. We're all adults and have busy lives, so I'm flexible.

A little about me:

  • Tall, fairly fit, full beard (not long), will share a pic
  • A bit of nerd, I like video games, Sci-fi/fantasy, D&D, etc.
  • I ride a motorcycle as my main mode of transportation
  • I have a dog, a black Golden Aussie
  • Full time job
  • Some hobbies include archery, axe throwing, etc.
  • No kids
  • Open to kinks and discussing them

I strongly prefer getting to know a person, at least somewhat, before getting too serious. Getting to know the person is part of the fun of meeting new people.

Looking for someone who shares a couple of interests and can introduce me to theirs. Someone who wants to get to know a new person, go out and enjoy each other's company.

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2024/12/17
02:14 UTC

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37 [M4F] London, UK

Good evening, all!

I'm [M37] a Polyamorous ambivert exploring ethical non-monogamy with my wife. We've been ENM for over 3 years now, and both enjoying finding our own pace and enjoyment separately.

Personally, I'm open to meeting partners, making friends or anything in between. I can be equally happy trying new bars and restaurants as I am to staying in, cooking something special and exploring other indoor activities!

I love to read, watch movies, go walking and explore the city, take landscape photography, play steam games, plot Pathfinder campaigns, learn new recipes... And on and on 😅

I'm a flirt and a Switch, with a slightly more of a lean towards dominant than submissive. I enjoy foreplay and aftercare, tend towards being intimate, but am always happy to match pace and vibe.

One last thing, but I never know if I should raise the issue of my height. I'm 6'6", but I only ever really remember when it's pointed out to me, or there's a lack of leg room at the cinema! Still, it's important to a lot of people, so... Yeah.

Anyway, think that's all I can think of for now. Feel free to message about anything else though!

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2024/12/16
23:33 UTC

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