Greetings, SubRedditors. Happy Monday.😊 Assuming you all survived the weekend and the election, how is everyone doing? I must say I've enjoyed this group immensely. So many characters and jokers that I nearly almost always leave here with a smile. Today I'm here because I'm looking for a serious partner(female) for an m/f triad. My husband and I have been looking for a while now but we have had no luck aside from the fools, cons and fakers. It just gets old. Looks aren't as important as chemistry and connection but even with that being said we have attracted nothing but clowns who think this is a joke. So here i am asking... Is there anyone real out there?? My husband and I are 48(me) and 49 (him) drug, tobacco and disease free. Open minded and entertaining, silly at times, huge Star Wars geeks and proud of that. We are looking for our girl, the one we can laugh with and chill with and see where everything could lead. Are you her? Please don't darken my inbox with bs or fakery. Serious ladies only.

We have been married for 15 year now. We are very active. On our second year of living on the south rim of the Grand Canyon. Fulltime RVing for the past 6 years. Have had a third a few times in the past before we realized that it was a triad relationship. Just got out of a relationship recently and wanted to start looking again. We really miss the love of a triad. Its very special. Feel free to reach out if you're interested. Have a great day!

38/37 Female Bi/Pansexual BBW, Male Straight BBM looking for a woman to complete their triad.

John is goofy, responsible, loves COD & Anime, level- headed, sensitive, sweet, caring, loves to show affection.

Marie is easy-going, spontaneous, loves video games, caring, motherly type, blunt, odd and straight forward.

We are looking to complete our triad. No hook-ups. We want an in person relationship. We live 15 minutes from Frisco, TX. John is dominant and Marie is a switch.

We've been in a poly relationships before, one, she was a little. Been together 17 years and married for 12 years. Have 2 kids (19 &12) and don't want more. Love animals.

Hey we are a married couple m28/F24 hoping to form a long term triad+ family. Just giving a shout out to see who all in the area is part of the community or would like to chat.

Hi I'm 21 f canada I'm a BBW looking for my triad relationship PS I'm new to this

I'll be honest: we're both very new to this scene and not sure how to move forward with it, but maybe someone will read this that can help us make sense of it!

We are a American (m, 32 and author of this post) and Egyptian (29, f) who are very happy together. She is bi-curious at the least and we both feel confident in our ability to manage a third person in our relationship, if it got that far.

Collectively, we enjoy horror movies, rock music, and documentaries. She enjoys drawing, Disney movies, . I enjoy flying planes (currently a student pilot), writing, and history. We are looking for someone who shares some of these interests and can also give us more to share together.

We have no secrets and share everything. We have a 50-50 stake in our relationship and a third would hold another equal share to us both. NSFW communication is acceptable but we want to be friends first and foremost before moving to those stages.

Maturity over age and intelligence over looks is priority within reason. Honesty is also very important.

If you think you can match us and bring more to the table,as well as guide us and understand where we are learning to do new things, don't hesitate to get in contact with us :)

I am an 18 year old bisexual girl looking for an older dominant couple to be a sex slave to. I am very inexperienced. I'd love to meet a couple where both are dominant and who desire both a sex slave. I am into forced play and being humiliated. My humiliation fantasies include public exposure (being a party favor, being lent to family and friends of the couple, being made to service all guests sexually, being photographed and recorded and having these be shared with whoever the couple likes),having all of my privacy removed (not being allowed to close the door while using the bathroom, being made to use the bathroom in front of others, being kept naked, being striped and inspected, collars, gags and shackles. (i have restraints). Also interested in rimming, being plugged, anal sex and double penetration.

 Would you like a sexual toy to use? I will be also available 24/7 for your sexual needs, your guest needs and i will be happy if you will share me with other couples. I will have to service you in every way you desire. Use me to fulfil your kinkiest fantasies.

I have no interest in dom/sub couples, only where both are dominant. 

Me: https://imgur.com/T5Q4n7Y

Hello, r/triad! We're a happy and endlessly playful couple in Manhattan. Creative. Athletic. World-class snugglers. Extremely kind and BIG on communication. Obsessed with Dan Savage & Neil deGrasse Tyson. Recently tested and totally disease-free.

We're both bi/queer, so this isn't your typical unicorn hunt. (Fuuuuuuck everything about that.) In fact the female portion of our couple is mostly attracted to women, so we're both FIRED UP about this. We embrace sexual fluidity, and we're looking for the real deal -- a triad, throuple, threelationship, or whatever you want to call it. We're open to hearing from couples if both people are non-straight, but we're mainly interested in meeting a single woman.

Here's a body shot of us. If this all looks/sounds good, please get in touch and include some info about yourself -- maybe a photo too, if only from the neck down? Let's do this! :)

We (38m, 34f) have been together for almost 15 years. We've had several conversations and have done quite a bit of reading about changing the dynamics of our relationship to a triad, and we're excited to see what the future has in store for us!

We have 3 kiddos (ages 17, 13, and 6) and a dog(a 2 year old goldador). Purchased our first home in Eastern Iowa a little over 2 years ago.

He ~ Works in the food and pharmaceutical construction industry. Outspoken. Likes; The outdoors, hiking, biking, fishing, camping, and canoeing. Working out and jogging. Watching documentaries about history, wildlife, and other cultures. Loves cooking. Guy time with buddies.

She ~ Works as an independent contractor. Shy. Likes; Outdoor activities, camping, hiking/nature walks, canoeing. Cooking and baking. Watching game shows, comedies, and real life crime/murder mysteries. Music (wide variety). Going out (to the movies, with friends/family, etc...). Traveling.

We don't think we're too particular. Just hoping to find a lovely lady that's goal oriented, shares similar interests, is good with kids, and can carry on a conversation.

I’m the third in a established relationship. We’ve been together for four months. They are not out at work or to their families and I struggle with the fact that to most of the world I’m their “friend”. I’ve tried discussing it with them but I don’t feel like they really get it. Can I get some advice?

In Boston area

I'm a straight dominant Black Man/bull 49 from Springfield Massachusetts USA

I'm looking for a plus size Cpl/ a mom and daughter duo who are looking for LTR with a older Black Man.

Let's chat maybe more and see if we vibe together 😉

Ask for my Kik

Single unicorn, 32y.o, live in Dominican republic. Free to talk

Hello,

My husband and I are both curvy but not too overweight. We're 29 and 27, married, and looking for someone who might be interested in a single time thing or more than just a hookup depending on how things go. He is 6'6 with short brown hair, green eyes, and stocky. I am 5'6 with long brown hair, hazel eyes, and curves. Both of us are nerdy. We love playing MtG, the latest video games, and are frequent cinema goers. We'd love to meet and don't mind traveling for the right person.

I would love to hear some advice from others with more experience with this lifestyle. All viewpoints welcome and appreciated.

I am a male in my mid 40’s. I have always been a bit of a serial monogamist, but starting in my 30’s most of my relationships involved partners who explored ffm threesomes with me. I have thought a lot about why this dynamic is so appealing to me. It may go back to my earliest “sexual” experiences as a child? Starting at the age of 6-7 I lived next door to two sisters of similar ages. They often came over and we played “house,” which inevitably led to all of us being naked and cuddling in bed. It was innocent but also very pleasurable. And perhaps my interest in being intimate with two women is related to those earliest of feelings when I felt both excited and intimately and emotionally connected in such a safe and loving way to both of them?

In any event, although I have had many long-term and loving relationships, they have all ultimately ended. Mostly they ended because my partner could not understand this need of mine (to feel intimate with two women). It can understandably feel threatening. I also feel guilt associated with my needs. It often feels like I am asking too much of my partner to explore this desire with me to form a relationship with a third person.

Of course, sex is an important part of my desire, but it goes much, much deeper. I want to connect intimately, intellectually, spiritually, honestly, and openly with both my partner and our girlfriend.

Is this even realistic? Am I wanting something that is pure fantasy and not practical? All opinions are welcome. Thanks in advance for your help and support and insight!

My wife(35) and myself (M,38) are looking for another to join us. We are both plus sized people, and we have so much love to share. We are music lovers mostly metal (Mastodon) rock ( queens of the stoneage) and punk (crust grind and street). We love nature, food, and art. We are done feeling used and just want to meet our wheel.

Does anyone have experience with their house and land being in 2 counties?

We are about to move to the Triad area into a new construction house. The county line divides the property (and the house) into 2 with the front yard being in County A and the backyard being in County B.

Our paperwork to buy the house says the house is in County A but we wanted to know if we could send our kids to the schools in County B as they are much closer.

There is also the other matter of who to pay property taxes too. Any help would be appreciated.

We are a couple F 22 and M 24 from the UK, both bisexual, looking for a third to join our relationship in the long term. Preferably looking for a girl as I've not been with another girl before but we are both open to anyone

Hi all,

My gorgeous girlfriend has just mentioned that she wants to take both me and my husband to her work Christmas party, problem is they only allow 1 extra person to come as it's very expensive. It's her choice of course and I will be ok with which ever one she chooses but I was just curious about how people out in the world make these sorts of decisions? I don't seem to be able to find anything.

My husband and I are looking to add a girlfriend to our relationship he is 34 straight 6'3 and I'm 30 bi 5'7 we are in Columbia South Carolina

Hello this is my first post to redit. I am a 30 year old bi woman married to my straight 31 year old husband. We have recently added a 25 year old newly bi female to our marriage. She is a friend who after some flirting and kind of joking that we should all get together contacted us and said that she would like to give it a try.

After a lot of talking, explaining what we were all looking for, past experiences good and bad and some basic guidelines/ideas/limits so that we all felt comfortable we embarked on this little adventure. I have stated that at the moment I'm not quite comfortable with them being intimate alone together, not that I won't ever be just that I'm not quite there yet.

I'm quite insecure about my body and hers is stunning and it just makes me worried that my husband is getting excited because she's new and he expresses to her how attractive she is more than he does to me because we've been together for 10 years and I'm maybe not so interesting any more.

I'm also the first woman she has ever been with and whilst so far I've been down on her, they've had sex with me there and everything else, she hasn't been down on me just yet so I feel like we haven't quite connected that way yet, I don't want her to feel like she has to or that I have any expectations and I understand that because she's never been with a woman she is more comfortable engaging with my husband, totally get that. But because her and I were friends first we are already connecting on that comfortable girlfriendy level where you kiss and snuggle and talk and hang out but for them it seems like more animal passion because there isn't that friendship there just yet.

I'm just wondering how do I feel more secure in where I stand in all this and I know that jealously is the fear of having someone take something of yours away from you which isn't what this is, it's more like envy, wanting to have the connection that they have together and for him to want to engage with me as much as the new exciting relationship. I just feel like a big ball or messy petty emotions

My wife and I have recently discussed adding a girlfriend. We are located in the pnw area. Right now just looking to talk and maybe go out a few times to explore the idea.

My husband and I are looking for a potential third to add and become a triad with. I'm hoping someone has some advice on what apps are best to use?

I need advice. My husband and I were attempting a triad. I was all for the idea, as long as there were same basic guidelines (due to the fact that he cheated on me with this girl before, and we tried the triad before and it didn't work).

So we tried this triad thing again and the last time the three of us hung out (still trying to become comfortable with all of us together) she has a freak out. This caused issues with my husband and I because he knew I was pissed because he didn't just tell her to leave and then she came back in the house yelling at me. He dropped her off. Anyways, he knew and she knew I didn't want to talk to her, and I definitely didn't want her at our house.

The next morning I go to work. He texts me around noon saying good morning (this is normal as he works late nights). I didn't think anything of it and told him we needed to talk about her later, not over text. He agreed.

When I get home, he had already left for work and his nephew is here with our son. His nephew proceeds to tell me that she was here at our house...

I obviously get pissed. He finally tells me that her mom dropped her off here (but I'm almost positive he picked her up) and they talked and he took her home.

He didn't tell me that he was awake until after this happened...

The biggest thing about going back into the triad was honesty, all three of us being honest. And he hid that from me, and then I asked her and she lied to me about it...

I'm at a stand still.

I love my husband, I want to be with him and my son and be a family. And he doesn't want me to leave, but I know he wants to talk to her and hang out with her and become in a relationship with her. I'm just not okay with that. We tried the triad, it didn't work. I'm definitely not okay with being married to him and him having a whole separate relationship with this girl.

So I'm just lost.

Do I stay because I know he wants to be with me to? Risk the chance of being lied to or have things hidden from me? Do I walk away and lose the man I've spent the last 12 years of my life with? So he could potentially be happy with her?

He says even if him and her were together he would still want to be with me...

I don't want to leave him, but I also can't take another heartbreak. (Leaving will also cause a heartbreak)

Does anyone have any advice for me?

How do you deal with the jealousy and hurt while trying to form the relationship between the three of you?