/r/almosthomeless

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This is a discussion and advice group. Do not beg or soft-beg for cash, donations, etc.


/r/almosthomeless is a place for people who are imminently at-risk of becoming homeless to ask for help, advice, or assistance.


Helpful Links

-The Wiki-

-Rules-

  1. No requests for donations. You will be banned. This is a place to offer & request resources, guidance, & advice. In addition, keep in mind not everything people say online is true. If you're going to offer help, remember that you're doing so at your own risk.
  2. Keep it legal. Offering advice to commit illegal acts will likely put someone at risk of losing more than just a roof over their heads. This includes petty crimes to get food in jail.
  3. Please treat users seriously. A little humor or off-topic discussion can help give this sub character, but make sure you're giving some quality content to discuss, no circlejerking. Comments like "do porn", "get a job", or "sell weed" do nothing & often make people regret coming here for advice.
  4. Be respectful. Flaming, trolling, & personal attacks will be removed. Racist & sexist remarks will likely get you banned.
  5. No judging. This goes along with rule 4. Addiction problems, a series of poor life-choices, financial irresponsibility... it's all irrelevant. This sub is here to help people facing homelessness figure out what their next step is. We're here to provide information, not to judge, not to call people out, & not to victim-blame. If you feel someone doesn't deserve your help, then don't help, but keep it to yourself. Please use the report button if you see anyone being rude, disrespectful and/or hurtful.
  6. Do not suggest people use/sell their body. It's insulting, presumptuous, & dangerous, not to mention illegal in most cases.
  7. Homelessness isn't a competition. Everybody's experience with homelessness is different. Just because someone may be working, living in their vehicle, have a drug addiction, is a victim of abuse, whatever... it doesn't make anyone's experience more or less valid. Homelessness is homelessness.

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3

Birthday sucks

It’s my birthday , my dad’s in the hospital, too broke to afford food because I had to get my car fixed to see him. It’s been a rough one. Any advice to pick myself up? I was really wanting to save money to get a cake for myself and my 3 year old son to share but since I had to get my car fixed I only had enough to get him dinner.

7 Comments
2024/12/01
02:09 UTC

0

I'm a coder, Outlier.ai pays for coding tasks, I can't sign-up cuz my country is not supported. can we make a deal?

Hi everyone,

Outlier.ai pays a little more than beer money for programming tasks. I would say that I'm a skilled programmer, but unfortunately, I can't sign up because my country is not supported yet.

So, I'm asking if anyone is interested in making an account on the platform, I will perform the programming tasks and we get to divide the profits.

I'm sure we can get to a win-win here!

10 Comments
2024/11/30
21:25 UTC

0

In la crosse trying find resources

Hi 45m. Lost job, about out of saving. Try to go to shelter. But most are full. Anyjobs that will help would be great? Medical condition stops me from driving. Was at hotel but money ran out. Sign up with every day pay place.

2 Comments
2024/11/30
19:08 UTC

1

Hi

2 Comments
2024/11/30
08:33 UTC

0

Help Please

Down and out Need help to hygiene products and bus pass for interviews next week. Recently got off the streets after a tragic start to 2024. Divorced a cheating pregnant (not mine) wife. Then my oldest son passed away in March. Tryna get back on my feet.

7 Comments
2024/11/29
23:52 UTC

7

What's up with Obamaphone?

I've applied at least 3 different times and can't even get a rejection. It just sends me in an infinite loop of re-applying.

30 Comments
2024/11/29
18:27 UTC

0

Should i move to another country becouse of community

Now i am in 3rd wold country but community do no accept me. There was a man who told me to go throw the boarder illigaly in europe. But there is a chance if i have ever get threw the border illigaly i automaticlly become homeless. What my possibilities in other country, did that Man said truth about myself and did it worth to do such a long and dangerous way.

9 Comments
2024/11/28
09:58 UTC

0

Whatever

My wife and I moved into a house we found in on Facebook market place but we had to go yesterday to get a protective order against him. He's doing a retaliatory eviction. We didn't know he did drugs and was racist, sexist, and homophobic. We couldn't leave the house for three days because he removed us from the ADT alarm and so we were scared to leave. This happened because I spilled Cinnamon Toast Crunch and he screamed at me and he started cutting off our utilities. We couldn't shower. I was afraid to sleep. My wife is so emotionally exhausted and I'm trying so hard to be positive but now we are forced to stay in a hotel that is the cheapest option and it's 520 a week. I want to give up.

37 Comments
2024/11/28
03:57 UTC

2 Comments
2024/11/26
23:45 UTC

18

Panhandling is legal except,,,everywhere people may do so,,,in california

Where does someone go? Prohibited at motor vehicles and parking lots, entrances and exits of buildings,, freeway access points, (on and off ramps?), roadways, bus stops, center medians banks and atms, restaurant's ,,,why say its legal? And aggressive panhandling illegal. Wtf, penalty of up to one year in jail and 1k dollars.

67 Comments
2024/11/26
23:03 UTC

0

Rent Help

Hi everyone, I'm not the one to ask for help but I am at my wits end. I have no problem posting my eviction court notices as well as my apartment ledger to show how much I owe. I owe about 3k in rent. I lost my job at the end of August due to frequent call outs because my Dad was sick and i'm his only child and family member . I've been doing odd jobs and i've been able to pay off some money little by little and while i've been able to get my rent down from 4,700 to 3k, it's not enough and ive been summoned to court. I started a new job on November 1st, I haven't gotten paid yet but going forward I will be able to pay rent but I need help with arrears. I reached out to all of the social service agencies near me and everywhere told me that they are out of funding. I had a church start working with me regarding assistance only for them to start ignoring my emails and texts as my court date is approaching (dec 4). Anything, and I mean anything would help me in this moment. Your kindness is appreciated.

16 Comments
2024/11/26
16:21 UTC

33

Help me reclaim room

When I became homeless my Aunt offered me room and board in her apartment. The thing is she needs help clearing out and cleaning a room that use to belong to my degenerate drug addict uncle.

Every inch of the room is covered in mouse droppings and there are soiled piles of clothes on the floor that he covers with random blankets and pour vinegar on. Of course there are also pee jars and drug paraphernalia everywhere

It’s a total nightmare but as a homeless person it’s also kind of a blessing. If I can clean it I have a permanent place to stay.

As of now I am in the living room which I can not express how grateful for. Today is garbage day and I really want to make some head way in my Uncle’s old room.

If anyone is willing to pitch in and help I could really use it. In DESPERATE need of mice traps, garbage bags, cans, cleaners etc. Also need food to eat but that’s a story for a different subreddit.

Thank you to everyone who took the time to read this post.

I also have pictures for those who want to see the extent of the messy

31 Comments
2024/11/26
14:28 UTC

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Let’s Help a Mother and Her Three Children Through These Difficult Times! Dear Friends, Family, and Kind-hearted People, We would like to raise support for a family who has experienced a tragedy. A mother is left alone with her three children after the sudden passing of their father. Along with th

3 Comments
2024/11/26
11:38 UTC

3

Grants for disabled seniors?

Is there any grants available for utilities Northern California state or federal? Really need some help.

2 Comments
2024/11/26
06:29 UTC

9

If you could

Not asking for anything but prayers/good vibes. I’m just feeling extra defeated lately. Thank you!

3 Comments
2024/11/26
03:28 UTC

1

Katie Hill LAHSA appointment

1 Comment
2024/11/26
01:30 UTC

2

Living out of a backpack?

I live in a very unstable living position and want to have everything ready to go just in case I have to leave quickly. Anybody else do this? Tips? Backpack recommendations?

5 Comments
2024/11/25
19:23 UTC

63

Homeless Family

My husband, I, and our dog are homeless with a lot of debt. Right now we have $0 with 30 miles in our gas tank and no food. Does anyone know any resources that may help we have tried food pantries and shelters but trying to see if there is anything else out there? Housing and food resources would be very helpful! Trying to prevent going through another winter in the car. Thanks in advance

96 Comments
2024/11/25
16:48 UTC

0

HELP

Has anyone applied for a tribal loan? Can you contact me privately?

2 Comments
2024/11/24
15:20 UTC

0

Need help with rent and medication

Hello I thought you might be interested in supporting this fundraiser, even a small donation could help Vicki Roberts reach their fundraising goal. And if you can't make a donation, it would be great if you could share the fundraiser to help spread the word. Thanks for having a look! Here is the link: https://giveahand.com/fundraiser/need-help-with-rent-and-medication-1?_reference=MjI2MDZ8MjUyMTB8MTkzNDZ8MjI2MDY=

4 Comments
2024/11/24
13:49 UTC

0

I need help, i have 30k loan that i need to clear or i’ll be homeless.

15 Comments
2024/11/23
08:29 UTC

11

I don’t know how to make more money

I feel like the burden and responsibilities are on me and my sister. Ever since my father passed away, my sister took finance responsibility and both of us are just working minimum wage jobs. We both applied ton of jobs but can’t even make $20hr. My mother used to work part time job in fast food and no longer works because they had to let her go. Other brother is disabled. I feel like in our relatives, most of them have business and their kids have gone to university and have pretty good careers. They always look beneath us and I tried to ask for advice many times but all I got in return was negative feedback and judgment.

My mother and sister says just finish your degree and our finance situation can improve. We have been dealing with family problems for years and it has become so toxic mentally. There is no job opportunities in our area. Multiple people recommend just move to another state. And we did go. The new place is living cost is higher but jobs pay pretty well and there is many opportunity. I don’t know if we should take the risk and move

20 Comments
2024/11/22
21:39 UTC

9

[Anaheim, CA] Sister in Law got denied Section 8

My sister in law is struggling, she's staying with one of her kids dad in Tustin. Recently she got news that she qualified for Section 8 in Anaheim after having applied about 10 years ago, then all of a sudden she got denied because she no longer lives in Anaheim. Is there any way around this that anyone knows? Anaheim is pretty expensive and I can't believe they would have expected someone to struggle for years to try to live there in hopes of eventually getting section 8 without being able to move around for more affordable areas.

14 Comments
2024/11/22
01:59 UTC

12

Running out of money, at that point i was going to take my car to the junkyard,,,i need the money so whats a few days earlier

Im going to need thermals, mine arent warm enough, neither are my blankets, or jacket, i know after thanksgiving everything will be sold out. Id run out of gas right around that weekend, and banks will be closed to cash a check. I think next monday or tuesday il need to dump the car and idk what will happen then ...

39 Comments
2024/11/18
14:50 UTC

35

Money hungry family

So I am 24 y/o female living with my sister in las vegas. She's been charging me rent which I have no problem with. The problem is she keeps raising how much i have to pay and when i tell her I can afford it she tells me she doesn't care. I have about a month until I move to Florida for a program but I do not have any extra money to give her. I work at an arcade that's most likely going out of business and cannot pick up any extra hours. Is there any advice anyone can give me. I leave for Florida on new years eve

58 Comments
2024/11/17
01:57 UTC

4

This isnt half bad, i have calfresh, and i never read so much as i have this past year

Mostly in the back seat of my car, i wish i thought of this ages ago, i needed prescription glasses, how would anyone know. Im reading novels, on #49 for this year, just parked at walmart with some snacks and i guess il live on tacos from jack in the box, and buy more candy and cookies, brownie bites,,,2 liter coke is cheaper, im trying to cut the coffee. Although ive got only a couple weeks b4 my car goes to scrap...i hope the place is open when i run out of money for gas 🙃im going to have to start all over and find a place i can lay on my back and read, when the cars gone..i guess jail is filled with people that did not shoot the officer to get away...🤣💦

6 Comments
2024/11/16
18:44 UTC

0

I’m looking to make contact with any homeless people who are a female in South Carolina preferably close to Columbia. I may have something for you that you might want, but you need to reach out to me to find out.

So I have housing paid for until Wednesday of this week and willing to let it go for near to nothing or a trade of some sort I’m not gonna take more or anything you don’t have, but I have to take something because I paid for this place if you’re interestedreach out to me, but I’m only dealing with females not males. Sorry no offense

12 Comments
2024/11/16
05:47 UTC

9

My loved one is on the brink of homelessness but refuses help—how can I support them (and myself) through this?

Hey everyone,

I’m really struggling with a situation, and I could use some advice. A loved one of mine is in a really tough spot right now—they’re on the brink of homelessness. I’ve tried offering help in every way I can think of, whether it’s financial support, resources, or even just a safe place to stay. But they’re refusing any kind of assistance and insist on handling things on their own.

It’s incredibly hard to watch them go through this, and I’m at a loss for what to do. I want to respect their wishes and not push them, but at the same time, I feel so powerless. It’s taking a toll on me emotionally, and I’m struggling to figure out how to support them without losing myself in the process.

How can I be there for them without overstepping? And how do I protect my own mental health when I’m so worried and heartbroken over their situation?

9 Comments
2024/11/16
04:11 UTC

32

Homeless for the first time in Oregon.

My living situation has recently ended abruptly. I hit the ground running and I’m actively reaching out to local resources. I am employed full time and own my car outright. I have a lot more options than other people but I am terrified. I’m not sure if I’m looking for advice or just a kind word of encouragement.

35 Comments
2024/11/16
03:10 UTC

1

Milwaukee help

So, I came to Milwaukee on a work contract. Things didn’t pan out well and the place filled their need with FT staff and im cancelled. I have fount a FT position here and am hoping to start asap. But I’ve since not been able to pay my rent. I notified my landlord previously of the situation and was told to update when possible. I have and have yet to receive a response. I fear eviction. So, I’m looking for options in Milwaukee… I have a dog. If worse comes to shove I believe I have a place for him but I don’t believe me. I’ll appreciate any advice on how to navigate this. Thank you!

6 Comments
2024/11/16
03:06 UTC

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