/r/care

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Everyone needs help sometimes. This is the place for Redditors to get a chance to help other established, active Redditors and give back to the community.

Everyone needs help sometimes. This is the place for Redditors to get a chance to help other established, active Redditors and give back to the community.

Rules

We believe in complete transparency in /r/care. The following rules are meant to protect the "giver" as much as possible.

  1. In order to make a request or advice post, you must have an account that:

  1. is verified (do so here).
  2. is at least six months old. No exceptions will be made.
  3. has at least 100 comment karma points. No exceptions will be made.
  • All requests for help must be initiated via a public post. Solicitation via private messages is not allowed, and can result in a ban.

  • Post titles must begin with one of the following labels: [REQUEST], [OFFER], [THANKS], [ADVICE], or [META].

  • If you are requesting anything that requires financial or a physical item post titles must mention what state/country you are in

  • No requests for anything illegal.

  • Please do not delete posts -- if you no longer need assistance, use the "flair" button below your post and mark it as "fulfilled". Deleting requests will result in a ban.

  • The moderators reserve the right to remove any suspicious request.

  • Users are free to ask questions in public posts, but do not be rude.

  • Absolutely no posting of anyone's personal information, including your own. You will be banned without warning.

  • Please message the moderators if you have any questions, or want to report any issues.

    Guidelines

    The following guidelines do not have to be followed, but they are recommended for the safety of all Redditors.

    1. We recommend waiting at least one hour before providing any (tangible) assistance, this gives the community time to examine the request, and raise any potential red flags.

    2. Remember to check users' reddit histories if you are considering helping!

    3. Please include your general location in your post.

    4. Verification is up to users, so requesters should be prepared to provide this. Read more about it and other rules here!

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    [REQUEST] Need Rent Assistance (Thornhill, ON, Canada)

    I was laid off in November, and I have been desperately searching for a job since. All I managed to pick up was a part time at a local pizzeria and it just doesn't cover the bills, I also got sick over the past month so I missed a good chunk of working days. I've been eating out of food banks and taking food from work. I wasn't approved for Emergency Assistance and my mobile service is cut off. I just don't know what to do man.

    I've maxed out my credit cards, asked and begged everyone I could for help. I am $400 short on my rent due next week.

    0 Comments
    2024/04/25
    19:07 UTC

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    (Request) Gas Bill Termination (Elyria, Ohio)

    My boss has been cutting my hours more and more, I'm down to only getting 15 hours a week, and I can't afford my bills. I've been putting out applications, but no call backs or emails yet. My gas is $348.00, I'm down to my last $20, and it's due the 25th. If I need to provide proof, I will.

    2 Comments
    2024/04/19
    10:11 UTC

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    [REQUEST] I desperately need help to buy personal care items (Maracaibo, Venezuela)

    Hello everyone, I need about 30 dollars to be able to buy personal care items (soap, deodorant, toothpaste, toilet paper)

    Unfortunately this week I ran out of money. That's why I came here to ask for your help.

    This is my paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/cgil2049

    Any donation you can make will be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

    2 Comments
    2024/04/13
    03:56 UTC

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    Medical student in desperate need of help and assistance

    Good day everyone. I am an international student studying medicine in the EU(Romania) I am going into my third year of studies this fall (6 year degree) and would like to ask for helps as i am having serious difficulties at the moment .My university is called Titu maiorescu and my hope is to write the USMLE and PLAB(US and UK medical licensing exam )in a few years as I want to practise in one of those countries. I am asking pleading for help with 120 dollars(110Euros) to help me sort out my needs and I have broken each need down individual below. I reached out to my university for assistance but no aid or help is eligible to me as a foreign student and non eu citizen . I explored Gofundme option but it isn't currently available in the country I reside in. Grateful for any help I can get.

    1.I am hypertensive. For the past several weeks I haven't been able to buy my amlodopine10mg medication which I took daily to bring it down because I am not able to afford to see a doctor right now nor could I afford the prescription while trying on the bare essentials. I have tried to cut of salt completely as an alternative but the BP readings are still high and sometimes but I am worried and doctors have warned me to continue the medications previously. I do not smoke or drink or have insurance

    1. Transportation. Basic transport issues is a serious impediment I would want to use this funds to purchase monthly bus, metro(train) tickets to enable me get to classes faster. As I often have had to trek or walk long distances to get from point A to B.

    2. Phone and WiFi bill: Right now I use the public WiFi available at the public libraries or parks I study in and have had the service on my phone cut off because of 2 months bill due which is still accuring, as well I can't afford basic call credit options so the phone aside public areas is basically useless and for someone who needs to constantly study and revise school work it is a serious handicap right now.

    3. I currently stay in a shared apartment(35sqm3) with a colleague the agreement was to split the utility costs (gas heating eletric etc) evenly per month but as a result of the situation I have had to borrow in advance from him and have no means right now to pay him back at all for that.

    5 i have a six year old faulty asus laptop which is faulty several of the keyboard keys on it aren't no longer working and it constantly keeps heating and shutting off. I was told I need to change the keyboard and buy a new fan for the laptop. I posted on r/assistance and other assistance subreddits and haven't gotten any help or luck yet. Anything I get will he grateful for very desperate

    I thank everyone for their consideration and Time.feel free to ask questions.

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    2024/04/11
    20:45 UTC

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    Help with caring with my mom.

    Is this the right place to seek advice on elder preparedness?

    My mother holds a special place in my heart; she's incredibly compassionate and has always been a giver, despite some experiences where her kindness was taken advantage of. Unfortunately, she's had a history of falls and auto accidents. Just last week, she fell and broke her teeth, and today, while driving to the food bank, she was side-swiped by another vehicle. Thankfully, she's physically okay. This is just the tip of the iceberg.

    It's crucial to note that my mother is mentally sharp; her cognitive faculties are intact. However, her balance and orientation seem to be off. We've had an appointment scheduled for a few weeks now, and hopefully, we'll gain more insight into her health then.

    As it stands, I'm at a loss. I don't know what steps to take. While she's generally healthy, I can't shake the worry. I don't want her to be cooped up at home all week. I live an hour away in my own small home with my wife and son. I'd love for her to come live with us, but she's not ready. She's very aware of her situation.

    1 Comment
    2024/04/11
    01:33 UTC

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    Unable to talk after tracheotomy: Is there an app for that?

    Hi! After 50 years of smoking, my father finds himself unable to breathe on his own. He got a tracheotomy and is in hospital hooked on a breathing machine right now. He doesn’t articulate very clearly, so lip reading is extra hard. He is also unable to lift his arms. Do you know of any technology that could help him communicate?

    4 Comments
    2024/04/10
    10:09 UTC

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    [Request] needing $30 to pay phone to get food (Edmonton area, alberta)

    I've fallen into a horrible situation that I hate being in. Functionally unemployed (4-8hr/week), EI being a far cry from enough, and income support being 0 thanks to EI. My plan was supposed to come out this morning, and I was unaware of this due to my phone having been bricked by a trojan... I now have a crummy flip phone with no plan, and a dying of starvation ex/housemate... I ran out with JUST the kindle and phone, didn't bring the notebook with his card number to order food on his card... Without access to the 2FA TO get into my UE account with his card on it, I've been stuck panicking for the last hour and not wanting to return to the house without food...

    My plan needs $28ish to renew, then I can access my accounts... But until then I'm boned :( If anyone can help, or even if someone could send a pizza or something our way instead of a phone renewal, would be appreciated!!

    0 Comments
    2024/04/10
    05:41 UTC

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    [Request] (limpopo, South Africa) need help with necessities

    This is the first time I'm doing this so please bear with me. Im(21f) in a situation and unemployed. I live about an hour and a half out of town, so it's extremely difficult to find a job. I live with my future FIL but he will only provide food(which is completely reasonable where we live). I did a seasonal job last year and made enough to be able to budget for things like shampoo and hygiene things, however while my fiance and I were away for a while to visit his grandparents, the last of our money was stolen(we kept in $ form as its easier to not spend when you have to convert the currency) by one of the ladies that my future FIL hired to clean the house when we were not here. We are waiting to see if we can get work visas for the USA but we don't have work right now. Anything that you might be able to donate would be a massive help. We really just need some money to see us through to either getting on answer for our visa or moving in with his grandparents to find work.

    PayPal:https://www.paypal.me/Donkebeast

    0 Comments
    2024/04/09
    09:38 UTC

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    Hey all, recently fell into homelessness (Medway, MA)

    Was living eith my sister in her apartment after moving into the area. She lost the apartment and I ended up stuck on the street. Not much help for the homeless out here but I managed to find a place to sleep and a couple local pantries for food. I'm trying to get a job but I could really use help keeping my phone on and getting a new outfit so I can look presentable for any interviews I can get. Any help would be appreciated and thank you for reading :)

    1 Comment
    2024/04/06
    22:26 UTC

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    [REQUEST][DENMARK] Help with car repairs

    I live with my elderly parents, sister, and partner in a small house in the middle of nowhere.

    We are all very low income, my partner has no income at the moment, we're in the bottom 1% of the country, and even living all together we barely make it work. My mother and I are the only ones with drivers licenses. None of us can get a car loan.

    Our only mode of transport is our car, there is no public transport coming out here, we're completely dependent on it for doctors appointments, groceries, work... We just had it at the mechanic and it needs new shocks, new tires, new breakpads, and have a few things welded or replaced on the body.

    It'll cost us 1000 usd, that we can't afford, but we also can't afford to buy another used car. Any help would be very much appreciated, even if it's just a little help with groceries, so that our budget isn't as tight this month, and we have a better chance at scraping enough together to get at least some on the repairs done.

    0 Comments
    2024/04/04
    09:10 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (Newark, Delaware) Help with groceries

    Not sure if this is allowed, but I am hoping to get a little help with groceries via an Amazon wishlist.

    My family has been going through a really rough time financially. We have been buying a few groceries when possible and eating about once per day to stretch what we have (mostly pasta and rice). I made an Amazon wishlist with some grocery requests, if anyone would be able and willing to help. Anything would be greatly appreciated.

    https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/24HCUW1PAP38P?ref_=wl_share

    2 Comments
    2024/04/01
    12:25 UTC

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    Help For Medical: Fort Wayne, IN, USA

    Financial Assistance for Medical

    I've never done anything like this before, but here we go. My name is David. I love with my mom here in Indiana and recently we have been helping my 72 year old aunt with her medical issues. She was diagnosed and is currently battling various cancers and COPD. Monday- Friday each week we are tasked with driving her roughly 45 minutes away (one way) for both Radiation and Chemotherapy treatments. She is also pratically living with us for the time being. Mom is retired at 64, I am going through a temp service for work and can't guarantee any amount of hours that I receive. The hospital gives my mother roughly $20 a week (not joking on amount) for gas and that doesn't even begin to cover the expenses that we're building up. Insurance and any options we have don't really help at all. I have never done this before and I'm not really sure what our options are. I just thought I would ask for assistance. Thank you in advance.

    0 Comments
    2024/03/30
    22:23 UTC

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    [REQUEST] [Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam] I need some help with cat supplies, pads, food, and bills

    Hi! I posted in r/donationrequest but it’s been 2 weeks and no one has reached out to offer help so I thought I would try asking for help again here.

    In Vietnam, we celebrate Lunar New Year in February, so everybody has about 10 days off work and school. That means I don't work enough shifts to cover expenses in March. Please read what I posted in r/donationrequest in the photos to understand my situation with my roommates. I used to be financially abused by my mother in high school so I learned how to manage money well, but because of what happened in February, I have no money left right now.

    I got my paycheck on March 11th and used most of it to pay rent, the rest for my cat’s kibble and litter, and a pack of frozen beans for me. I ran out of food for this week and drank tea sometimes, so I wouldn't fall asleep while working. But I don’t have any tea left and just had my period this morning. I’m using the pads for daily use I got last month but they’re tiny and thin, and can only hold for 30min. I haven’t washed my hair for 5 days and haven't eaten anything properly. My cat is on his last can of wet food and a little kibble. He has only half of a litter bag and I can't buy more for him.

    In January, when the roommates left suddenly, I had to get a loan from Momo to pay January's rent. Each month later on the 4th, I pay 1,250,000 VND, which is $50.48 until June. My wifi bill is 220,000 VND ($8.88) due on the 5th, I need it because I'm an online English tutor.

    Here are the links to each item and my paypal:

    $1.45 Menstrual Pads https://www.bachhoaxanh.com/bang-ve-sinh/bang-ve-sinh-laurier-fresh-and-free-day-khong-canh-8-mieng

    (google translates the pads into "sanitary napkins" but they're just pads)

    $1.19 Cat dry food https://www.bachhoaxanh.com/thuc-an-meo/thuc-an-cho-meo-con-whiskas-vi-ca-bien-tui-450g

    $1.05 Cat wet food https://shopee.vn/PATE-LON-SNAPPY-TOM-400g-i.5331397.7118341957?xptdk=e4762aea-c032-4f0f-a97a-8b53f83fd426

    $1.70 Cat litter https://shopee.vn/C%C3%A1t-V%E1%BB%87-Sinh-Cho-M%C3%A8o-Catsme-8L-i.91008908.22079700175

    $4.76 Shampoo https://www.bachhoaxanh.com/dau-goi/dau-goi-palmolive-naturals-duong-am-bo-sung-600ml

    $1.41 Frozen veggies https://www.bachhoaxanh.com/rau-cu-dong-lanh/rau-qua-hon-hop-tran-gia-goi-500g

    Paypal https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/emilianhulyIt takes 2-4 days for my bank to verify transactions from Paypal. In Vietnam, most young people use apps like Momo and Zalopay.

    If you decide to help me buy anything or pay the bills, please let me know which one you're helping me with and I'll send you all screenshots of transactions to prove that I use your money for what I mentioned in this post, and I'll post videos of the items you pay for us. I'm truly grateful if you do. Please ask me if you have any questions.

    3 Comments
    2024/03/25
    07:56 UTC

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    [REQUEST] Need help keeping my phone service on

    I live in Alabama, US. I'm on the verge of being evicted, and my car is getting repossessed so we won't even have that to live out of until we could find somewhere to stay (am trying to get a 3rd job at a hotel or motel that might let us stay there in exchange for work) but I have a prepaid phone, it runs out tomorrow and my funds are in the negative, even when I get to my next paycheck which isn't until next friday my account will still be in the negative. It's about $35 for the cheapest plan I can get. I'm trying to get a loan but so far I don't make enough working two jobs already to qualify. I've never wanted to ask for help, I've been taking care of myself for as long as I can remember, but I'm just really struggling atm and if it was just me homeless I'd let it happen and just figure it out, but my wife and 3 pets don't deserve to go through that (and atm I can't find anyone to take the animals right now). Anything is helpful and appreciated, I do art if you'd like to buy a commission for like $3 (tbh I'll draw whatever you want for $1, anything helps.), I can edit videos, do CC, photoshop, etc.

    4 Comments
    2024/03/22
    03:23 UTC

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    [REQUEST] Can't pay my bills! U.S.A California

    Hi. I need help with bills. Anything you can give is appreciated, a small amount can help me get my most prioritized needs. I am disabled and having a tough time trying to get by and work enough while waiting for my disability application to go through. Thank you so much.

    Rent- 50 Food- 100 Phone/Internet- 40 2 Doctors Appointments- 180

    Here's my cashapp and venmo: https://cash.app/$GrimReaperSexter

    @GrimReaperSexter

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    2024/03/20
    00:13 UTC

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    Request, King George VA, help surviving after child and fiancé died

    At this very moment I need help paying my hotel. For a day it is 79.42 and for a week it is $560. In July 2022 I quit my job to take care of my grandmother with Alzheimer’s full time. The only living family I had was my grandmother and my sister. October 2022 she passed away in front of me in my bed. December the love of my life and I found out we were having our first child. March I found out the father was using drugs and i tried everything possible to get him sober. I used every resource I have with no luck. August 2023 I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Dad went silent. September the father of my child and the man I truly believe is my soulmate passed away. I was a single mother with absolutely no support and my sweet baby had colic so I was very tired. Fell asleep feeding him and woke up to him bleeding out the nose, dead in my arms. It was a hemorrhage… I can’t get the image out of my head I can’t even look at pictures of him. The nightmares are so bad. December I lost my home. Since then I’ve been paying for hotels for both my sister and myself. The deal was I pay for hotels and she saves on a security deposit to move in together. Unemployed I had to dish out 6k and her making like 25/hr only had to save 2k and told me I needed to contribute when time was due. My funds were wearing thin so I asked to borrow 15. This led to her blocking me and moving in by herself. I just really miss my son and fiancé and the only thing I have left is my cat so I’m trying to keep us together. 12 years strong and he’s keeping me going. Any help would be appreciated. $MLTice. Resources for grieving from Sid’s would also be appreciated. Thanks anyone who read it truly means a lot when I’m so alone!

    4 Comments
    2024/03/17
    11:44 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (London ON) Help with internet bill

    Our internet service provider cut us off 5 days early, I have no money and can't pay off what their asking for. Is there anyone who can help?

    0 Comments
    2024/03/16
    02:21 UTC

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    Help please and thank you

    I recently lost my apt because my lease ended and I got laid off from my job. I just started school back at UMGC after 10 years and my financial aid is on hold because of my high school transcripts which I have already sent. I have no money, no shelter and no food. Luckily I was able to find a friend to foster my pup until I can get my head back above water. I'm just trying to stay positive.

    I started my own pool company last year but business was slow and i took a loss. The season hasn't really started yet this year.

    I have no family as they have all passed on. Most of my friends can't help because they have their own to take care of and the economy is horrible at the moment.

    Any help and conversation/advice is much appreciated

    I reside in Norfolk Virginia $ianmgregory

    I hope whoever reads this is doing well and God bless.

    16 Comments
    2024/03/15
    19:21 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (India) - money help

    Expressing a big story in very few words is quite challenging. Still, I've tried my best. Thank you in advance for reading.

    Life has thrown many challenges my way, but I'm facing them courageously. Speaking of myself, I'm a designer working on rental computers. I haven't pursued a degree; instead, I've learned everything from my husband. Unfortunately, due to an accident, he's unable to work with his hands and needs assistance. Everything was fine before, but for the past 2-3 years, we've been facing these difficulties. Family support has ceased, and friends and relatives may also be tired by now, rendering them unable to help. My aunt, who always supported us, is also in great distress (her story is perhaps even more heart-wrenching than mine). Going to work with two children is difficult; they are still young.

    Current Need: At present, I can manage only to pay the rent for my home and computer. I'm working on a tip-based job, and things have been tough due to not being able to work for a few months.

    I'm at a government hospital with my aunt right now. We've come to a new city from the village to avail of treatment at a government hospital since there weren't enough facilities in the village.

    For now, I don't have any food concerns for myself and my children. I get milk from the hospital, and my Ramadan fast helps to save some food for a time. Some of the aunties in the hospital neighborhood help with fasting (Sehri) and breaking fast (Iftar) meals.

    Note: I've come home alone for a few hours to get some essential items for my aunt. I'll be back at the hospital, and I won't have any means to reconnect through a smartphone or Reddit, so if anyone from you asks questions, I may not be able to answer for a few days. I apologize in advance for this inconvenience. Maybe PayPal links are not accepted in this post, so I've placed the PayPal link on my profile. If you wish to help me, you can see the link on my profile and assist me.

    Even your small help means a lot because even a small amount can make a big difference to me.

    If you don't understand English, I apologize because my primary language is Hindi, and this is written through a translator.

    may Allah (SWT) help us all, thanks again

    0 Comments
    2024/03/15
    07:08 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (donations for housing)

    This is a go fund me made by my mom.

    https://gofund.me/5209668f

    3 Comments
    2024/03/11
    14:16 UTC

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    (REQ) (Yorkshire, UK) Some money for Food

    Been a real shitty few months and got no money to buy dinner tonight and next weeks lunches. £15-£20 would be more than enough

    0 Comments
    2024/03/10
    16:54 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (Michigan) - grocery help

    Embarrassed to Ask

    We are a couple in our mid to late 30’s and are just struggling to keep food on the table. I have contacted every organization around us and have gotten what I can, 1 box a month. If I make an Amazon list or even a delivery order, would y’all be able to help us? I’m at a loss.

    I work full time at a hospital and he works full time at a coffee shop. I’ve reached out to my employer to get assistance but we don’t qualify since I’ve not worked there longer than a year. He was hospitalized back in September and we’ve just not been able to catch up since then.

    Thank you for reading.

    0 Comments
    2024/03/05
    06:49 UTC

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    [Request](Westland, MI) Need Help Paying Rent

    To make a long story short, I’ve been out of work for almost an entire year now with a one year-old boy. I do side work every chance I get, but I’m also a student in school for HVAC and it’s hard to find someone who’s willing to work with me and my school schedule. I am $500 short on rent and Landlord is wanting it today. Not sure where else to go, or who else to ask as my credit has fallen so far that I can no longer go for a loan of any kind. Whatever help is appreciated if possible. The money will be paid back as well.

    0 Comments
    2024/03/03
    15:00 UTC

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    [REQUEST](Seattle, WA)Need help paying for a motel the next few days so I don’t have to go back to living in my car

    Last August my life was devastated when I lost everything in a matter of days, including the tools needed to run my business and therefore my income. With nowhere to go and no money for move-in costs or rent I had no choice but to live in my car. Since then every day has been a struggle to try and get my life back on track. Recently I was finally able to book myself in to a motel, and have been doing everything I can to continue extending my stay here and no longer be having to live out of my car. I can’t tell you the difference a bed, a fridge, and a bathroom make to quality of life. I don’t get paid again until Wednesday, and simply put there is no feasible way for me to come up with the necessary funds to remain here 4 more nights. I have a gift card I intend to sell to cardcash which is enough to cover 1 night, but that still leaves me $200 short. Once I get paid I will only have enough for one more week, but I would be very grateful if at the very least I could remain here until that week is over. I don’t want to go back to my car. Having a place to come back to every day, being able to sleep without fear - or risk of being told I need to move and that I can’t be sleeping in my car - this is the first time I’ve felt any sense of normalcy in a very long time. I decided to post here because in order to sell the gift card, I need $1 for ID verification, and I only have 80 cents in my account. If all anyone can help me with is that $1 I’d still be very grateful. But if there’s a chance anyone can help me with the money to extend until I get paid or beyond I can’t put into words just how much that would mean to me. I have cashapp and PayPal, my username on both is @ RNF31. Thank you very much for considering my request, I wish you all the best.

    3 Comments
    2024/03/02
    11:30 UTC

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    [REQUEST] (Brasilia,brazil) autistic person who needs a tablet to study

    need money to buy a tablet to help me study, i only have an old broken notebook in my house and my school is all day and i need a way to study there because i cant go home before 10pm, it would be so much helpful, any help is welcome my paypal is reddyedgyfurry@gmail.com

    0 Comments
    2024/03/02
    05:20 UTC

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    [REQUEST] Disabled person with DID and autism who needs any financial help they can get

    First off we have Dissociative Identity Disorder, which most people know by it's old name, multiple personalities, so our pronouns can be confusing, but you can just read "We" as "I". Talking as though we are a single person feels ingenuine and this is definitely not the place to be pretending we're something were not. This is our first time visiting here, so if we're doing something wrong, please let us know. Our whole life we've been struggling, going in and out of homeless shelters and have lost 17 jobs. A year ago our DID got really bad to the point that we were blacking out and going into fugue states and having regular breakdowns and basically couldn't take care of ourselves any more, let alone work. For three months our job's insurance paid us but after that we were disqualified, we reapplied and got denied and appealed twice, but it's a dead end. We're going through lawyers to get social security like we should have gotten when we turned 18 instead of having to fend for ourselves this whole time (we're 36). We've been able to survive until now through our community because we're a small twitch streamer, but the few in our community who had enough money to help have stopped helping, which we don't blame them, it's amazing that they've helped us this long. We have cut all expenses we can to the point that we can survive on $1000 a month, but we're out of resources. This is it. We need help to survive or we're going to end up in a homeless shelter again, and believe me, if we end up in a homeless shelter in the state we're in right now, I don't think we'll ever be able to get ourselves out again. Stress makes our symptoms worse and the most stressful times in our entire life were when we were homeless so we'll just spiral and that'll be it. We've gotten help from local resources, but we seem to have gotten all the help we can. The last place that united way tells us about is salvation army, but we've gone four separate times and they've never gotten back to us, so we can't count on help from them.

    What we need is literally any amount you can give, even if it's a dollar. $1000 would keep the house and pay the bills (probably). The only issue there is that the water bill is at over 300 so there's a chance it gets cut off any day now, so 1300 would even let us keep the water on.

    We are actually in a rare spot where we actually have evidence that we've been going through this going back two and a half years on twitch and discord. Anyone who wants to check our story is welcome to check the discord or ask our community members, there's plenty of people that would happily vouch for us. We also have our older reddit account that goes back that far as well talking about our struggles, this one is a fresh account we created last year. There is also the obvious account check, if you check our account you'll see plenty of posts talking to other people with DID and talking about our struggles.

    Like we said, this is our first time in this subreddit, so please let us know if there's anything else you'd like to know.

    Cincinnati, Oh, USA

    0 Comments
    2024/03/02
    05:16 UTC

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    [Request] ( San Francisco, CA) Need money for rent, groceries, gas - Life went downhill after abuse, ex made friends alienate me, boss lied about me to cover himself and I was fired and much more. Now have $10 cash, tens of thousands in debt, no friend, suffering from depression and anxiety.

    My rent is too much to ask for and already behind on that. I was supposed to give my landlord $1k (partial payment) today but wouldn’t expect anyone to give that. I was also supposed to give him my plan for moving out if I didn't have a plan for repaying him. If I had a couple (2-3 months) I could get a fairly well job paying as an engineer. However as things stand now I barely have time to job hunt when I'm dealing with all this other shit. I am hoping I can find some manner of assistance to get through the next couple of months, whether its direct or a part-time job or some combo, while I find a professional job

    Things I could use Help with:

    • Financial -
    • Rent Payment $1,000 - Partial payment to my landlord that I was supposed to pay today (3/1) to prevent from being evicted (yeah right nobody has this much to spare)
    • Gas Money $50 - Would be nice to fill up my tank. I've been driving around with the gas light on constantly recently which is not good for the car.
    • Groceries $50 - Some money for groceries to help me get through the next couple of days.
    • Phone Bill $75.41 - Half of my phone bill due 3/6 or it will be shut off. Next payment of $75.41 is due on 3/12.
    • Utilities Bill $139.81 - Money owed to roommate for last months utilities. No idea why its so high besides the fact that PG&E fucks all Californians up.
    • Medication $150 - Need $100 for a telehealth appointment to get my subutex refiled ($50). If I don't refill within a certain time frame the company will kick me out of the program.
    • Specialized Help-
    • I don't have health insurance
    • I don't have auto insurance (well the payment was due over a week ago and I never paid it)
    • Never finished my taxes for last year, owed from the year before and was on payment plan, haven't done my taxes for this year.
    • Work -
    • If someone can help me fine short term employment that would be great

    If you can help I have Venmo or can set up a cash app or PayPal account.

    Thanks for anyone who at least took the time to read this.

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    2024/03/02
    04:21 UTC

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    Help with a place to stay

    We need a place to stay in a city with public transportation in Florida. Preferably Volusia County(Central Florida)because we have job opportunities and family in that area. We (my husband and I) are not picky and can find work any where as long we can stay for more then a few days. We left a dangerous household with an abusive narcissist. We have been homeless since last October. We have been moving all around to avoid sleeping on the streets and we are exhausted. We are looking for a spare room, RV, barn, boat to stay at while we job hunt. Even a backyard or garage where we can pitch our tent will work. We can work for room and board. We have refrences. Currently in a motel but don't think we can afford another week here. On waiting lists for shelters. We just want to get a job and our own place, go to work and come home to enjoy our kids, privacy and peace. We need a little help to get there. Thanks

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    2024/03/02
    02:44 UTC

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    [REQUEST] Keserwen, Lebanon I can't help my mom

    My mom lives off of a meager unemployment compensation and she already makes it to the end of the month by the skin of her teeth, and now they're going to transfer her next compensation next Thursday IN THE BEST CASE SCENARIO

    I don't have money to help her I live far away from her

    My dad said he was going to sell our old mini fridge but I don't know how long it will take

    I sent 10 units to her phone number hoping she could sell them but she hasn't found any buyers and I'm panicking

    Anyone who can help can you please send me anything through Paysend or Remitly to my purpl account you can dm me I'll give you the account details

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    2024/02/29
    22:41 UTC

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