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Redditors helping redditors ranging from financial assistance and wishlist fulfillment to advice, support, contest votes, and surveys. This is a subreddit of regular people who can help with short term support.

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Redditors helping redditors ranging from financial assistance and wishlist fulfillment to advice, support, contest votes, and surveys. This is a subreddit of regular people who can help with short term support.

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  • Please wait 72 hours between unfulfilled requests and 30 days between fulfilled requests.

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  • Make sure your post has all applicable information. Posts with little information or links with no text body may be removed.

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Need money for rent

Hello, it takes me a lot of guts to type this out from my main account, maybe cause of my pride or my ego, I would never do something like this, but here I am.

I will keep this short here, if you want me to explain, you can DM me. I am from India, and I have a girlfriend. She went to study to Italy last year. Up until now, I was helping her with her rent from my internship money so far, but since it was completed last month I can't anymore. Her rent is 10 days overdue and its 400 euros a month. You can help with one month's if you want, but I would appreciate two. I will use the time to get a new source of income.

6 Comments
2024/04/25
08:39 UTC

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Accessibility assistance

I'm not sure if this is allowed but it never hurts to ask anyways. I'm disabled and looking into things to help, especially with things starting to heat up. I primarily have problems with my hips and lower back (hypermobility seems likely) and I went to look into hip braces. I've found one that supports both hips and isn't too bulky but I can't afford them. Also found instant cold packs which would be great when I need to head out during the day, but again, the price. If anyone's able to help with either thing, I'd really appreciate it. This is easier than going through my doctor who I had to beg to get compression stockings. TIA

https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/38P4E5X00O7CZ?ref_=wl_share

1 Comment
2024/04/25
08:33 UTC

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Dog needs food

Hello! I really appreciate the help I've received here in the past and I really hate to ask again...

My dog only has a couple days left of food and I don't have enough money left to get her any.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/J1K8GXZ8ADZ1?ref_=wl_share

I usually get her the Purina on the list. She has some sort of allergy with other foods and this was the first I found she was alright on. I'm not sure what she is actually allergic to. Through some kind feedback I found it might be okay for her if it's no soy, no corn, no wheat and no chicken food. So the other couple cheaper options on the list should be okay.

A small bag would be enough for her for a bit. Hopefully my food stamps will get straightened out and I'll be able to get back on my feet. I wasn't expecting the extra expense to go on this long. I seriously can't believe it has taken this long. The state I was in before, they would literally call you within 2 days... This has been going on for months.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

6 Comments
2024/04/25
05:22 UTC

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My bf and I need jobs ASAP

For context, we live in the south Florida area. We have both been looking for jobs everyday on Indeed and today I went to a nearby plaza and walked around to different stores, explaining and giving my resume. My bf has been very lazy and just got let go from his new job for calling out (my bf is another story, I know). Is there any surefire way for the both of us to get a job NOW? Is there another website that works better than Indeed? I have $1 in my bank account and things are extremely tough right now so we do need jobs asap. Anything that will hire us immediately will work.

27 Comments
2024/04/25
02:49 UTC

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Out of food stamps and no food

I help care for my elderly father and recently graduated college. Like many people, I am having a very difficult time finding a job. Combine the expected difficulties following graduation with a higher than average poverty rate in my area and well...we ran out of food stamps a week ago and our local food pantry barely gave us anything due to being overloaded. We are located in Lafayette, LA (USA).

Anything is appreciated. Someone suggested I make an Amazon wishlist so here is the Wishlist

7 Comments
2024/04/25
02:34 UTC

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Help My Sister Please 💗💗

Vote here! She’s an amazing momma to my niece and nephew babes 🥰

Thanks so much 💗💗

0 Comments
2024/04/25
02:22 UTC

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Thank you, anonymous supporter

I recently posted my GoFundMe link which is asking for donations to assist with medical and basic living expenses while undergoing treatment for breast cancer. This morning I awoke to a $50 donation from someone. The memo simply said ‘RDDT’ I don’t know who you are, but hopefully you will see this and know that you made a difference and I appreciate you. I’ve had more support and love from strangers than I have from those around me. I’m overwhelmed with gratitude. Thank you a million times.

2 Comments
2024/04/25
02:20 UTC

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A Thank you for the one who helped me beyond what I needed

I was really down and depressed for what my wish didn't get fulfilled but I want to thank one person from the bottom of my heart who helped me beyond what i need.

4 Comments
2024/04/25
01:31 UTC

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$50 for gas and toiletries?

hello, payday is still far from us and i don’t have gas to get to my appointments and i’ve run out of toilet paper and shampoo. thank you for whoever helps :) cashapp is preferred

so i was told to add my wish list from amazon so here’s my household list, it has the things listed in this post plus others but feel free to ignore the other items :) thank you!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1W19PZEZ2MPJY?ref_=wl_share

14 Comments
2024/04/24
22:57 UTC

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how should I play my cards?

tl;dr: I have 2week gaps between leaving my PT employment, starting seasonal job, and back surgery. I do not believe I am eligible for any state benefits in my situation.

I am housing insecure. My college gave me housing to finish my degree and I'm 2 weeks away from my B.A. at age 26.

Currently, I am employed PT around 20 hrs/wk. I have been there 14 weeks so far, but I am losing my dorm & moving 2 hrs away (couch surfing) in the next 2-3 weeks.

I start my seasonal position on June 15 (in 8 weeks.) it's my dream job and it's kept me motivated all year to keep moving forward.

Following that, I need to go for back surgery. I am booked for Aug 27, and the recovery time is about 6-8 weeks.

with that, I feel like I'm screwed because -

  1. if I were to get fired, I wouldn't be eligible for unemployment unless I work until June 5th.

  2. I have a solid 2week gap with no income prior to the summer season.

  3. since my work is seasonal, I cannot apply for unemployment, disability, or disability during unemployment. I will have 2 week between the end of summer and my back surgery, and will not be able to walk for some time.

(my Dr says if I keep putting off surgery I won't be able to walk at all)

I have serious spinal damage from an accident at age 11. I was also recently diagnosed with life-shortening Scleroderma.

I'm so confused how to survive anymore tbh. I'm 150k in debt (between school and personal), I'm barely able to work (but I do!!), and the work I can do just doesn't line up in a timely manner. wwyd

edit: I just looked at my doctor appointments and literally got nauseous. I have 13 specialists all over the state.
I just got a call from another doctor that I have to go for more testing so make that 14?

6 Comments
2024/04/24
22:44 UTC

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Survey to determine where sleeping position and personality are interlinked, would greatly appreciate responses :)

5 Comments
2024/04/24
22:36 UTC

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Help with Gas money

Hello! I posted earlier this month. I am reaching out again it seems like things have just went down hill after starting this new job. I am a single mom of 3 in need of help. I have $0 to my name and I am in need of gas money ($30) for the rest of the week Anything helps!!!

TIA kind strangers.

I do have venmo, cashapp, PayPal and zelle.

4 Comments
2024/04/24
22:32 UTC

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My power shuts off in 18 hours because I’m an idiot and I can’t stop crying

Hi there. I’m a 28 year old female and was advised to check this subreddit out. I don’t even know what to say.

I moved to a new state in December and my anxiety has been so bad I haven’t been able to hold down a job. I have interviews set up but my electric turns off tomorrow morning.

My account is in the negatives so it’ll be a month or so until I can get it back on. The bill is only $88 and I can’t afford it. I’m charging up my portable chargers right now and making any food that might spoil.

I’m so ashamed I haven’t told anyone in my real life about this. I’m an idiot.

Any advice or offers are appreciated more than you know. I’m sorry for even posting this. I feel so bad.

27 Comments
2024/04/24
21:05 UTC

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I have free Whataburgers I am willing to donate to someone who may need them! Comment or message me and I'll get it ordered for pickup!

Free Whataburger!

4 Comments
2024/04/24
20:56 UTC

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Ashamed to have to ask... Needing a hand up.

Long story short I've been struggling to make ends meet for awhile now. Covid almost completely killed my business and I'm supporting myself, 3 teenagers, and the family pets on about $2k a month, which is primarily survivors benefits for 2 of the kids who lost a parent. It's doable when nothing extra happens, but lately we've been hit with so much "extra" it feels like I'm drowning. (I'm happy to go into details but trying to keep this from turning into a novel.) My 19 year old has been donating plasma to help with expenses but yesterday he passed out and hit his face on the floor, so now I'm even more worried and stressed out about everything. My business (pet sitting) is finally starting to pick back up a little bit, and I have some local resources I've been trying to contact for the big stuff like roof repair, but we could really use some help filling in the gaps. Right now my bank account is zeroed, car is almost completely out of gas, I'm really feeling hopeless and ashamed to have to ask for help but I don't know what else to do.

I have an Amazon wishlist that is primarily bulk food items but also has some other things we need such as socks and deodorant for the kids, toilet paper, and cat food. Any help at all would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading.

Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/QFZIR6XD6K8C?ref_=wl_share

ETA: I'm used to buying in bulk feeding 3 teens and I thought that was the way to go. I'm overwhelmed to the point of total dysfunction right now so I apologize if I did this wrong.

19 Comments
2024/04/24
20:23 UTC

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Thank you

I want to say thank you for the people who gave me advice and the one person who helped me with getting my daughter some medicine, she went to the doctor today an we was told she has a head cold and she had a stomach bug. She is doing okay and is somewhat back to her bubbly self

0 Comments
2024/04/24
18:21 UTC

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Need help with rent & food please !

Hi, hopefully this reaches someone who can help a little. I’m a student living alone and my car broke down last week (least of my problems.) I had to pay 200 to get it towed which took of a lot of rent money. Rent is 570 total.

I’m working to doubles everyday until the first to see if I can make rent but we’re slow around this time of the year and I won’t be able to buy food until then. Im currently living on ramen. Anything helps. Advice as well please

I’m willing to ask any questions and prove this if needed. I just can’t lose my apartment seeing as I have no one that would take me in.

2 Comments
2024/04/24
17:17 UTC

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Put into overdraft which goes up each day until paid.

Hi there - I recently had to move due to a bad break up which I put all my money toward. I recently realized that two automatic bills went through with my bank, I am $180 over, this will go up by $30 each day. Praying someone can help me with this. Thank you!

**EDIT - I do not get paid untill next Friday.

7 Comments
2024/04/24
16:36 UTC

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I have a bunch of passes to Cineplex, I’d love to treat a few people to a movie! (Canada)

I’m giving out 6 passes to a movie of your choice. Has to be Cineplex, has to be Canada. I will get the tickets electronically and forward them to you. Let me know what movie you want to see and why! Plus if you throw in a fun fact I’ll give extra consideration 😂

No direct requests, please just comment here and I will dm winners

7 Comments
2024/04/24
16:06 UTC

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Electric scheduled for disconnection tomorrow need 185

Hi, I need assistance with my electric bill, currently on medical leave from work due to my thyroid cancer and short term disability payments has been zero after deductions. Light bill was due yesterday and my std payment for this week is two dollars and some change after deductions. Go back to work next week just need to get over this bump. I can accept Cash App and Zelle

7 Comments
2024/04/24
15:28 UTC

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Can't afford a meal.

Hi everyone , Kindly help me out. I'm struggling to get a meal today. I'm requesting anyone who can come to my rescue with 9$ or 12$ so I can budget myself for a meal for 2 days or so. Our foodbanks over here open once a week. I can do Paypal. Thank you for reading, please help.

8 Comments
2024/04/24
14:54 UTC

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Need a little money for food

I’m currently broke and in need of some money for food ($10-$20) if anyone can spare it, all my local food banks and such are only open on Mondays so that’s a no go until then. If anyone can help it would be much appreciated, I have Cashapp and Paypal.

4 Comments
2024/04/24
12:41 UTC

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Can’t afford gas this week

So as a poster here.. I really love what this community does for others. Hopefully it can stretch a little to me and my baby girls.

I have a drug test about 10 miles west from my home and probably only have enough gas to get there but not back. It is a work from home position, but they’re making me take a drug test which is totally fine. It would be wonderful if someone could help me with about 18-25 bucks to get there and back and possibly keep gas in my car until some money comes (child support) next Monday. I only have til Friday to get this test done or so the email states. I’ve been looking for employment for a while now and being pregnant has not helped that at all, but this WFH position is heaven sent and I don’t want to lose this opportunity. Thank you so much guys. Anything helps.

11 Comments
2024/04/24
11:53 UTC

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Help making rent - job hunting has been an awful stretch, anything helps.

At the start of March, I unfortunately lost my job. I’ve been working in the homelessness sector since graduating university and the salaries offered to frontline workers are pretty awful, so between insane expenses and relatively low income, I was not prepared with enough savings for my current situation, and ironically I’ve found myself in the same position as many of the people that I’ve supported.

I live in the UK but I’m from America, so I’m not entitled to any government assistance. I accepted an offer for an amazing job at the end of March, but I am presently undergoing police background checks in order to start. This can take a good few months, and from what I understand the processing hasn’t even started. I live on my own and my rent has been raised, and I just plain and simply can’t make it. I’ve been looking for jobs in cafes, restaurants, remote sales work, warehouse operations since, just to hold me over. Numerous trial shifts later and I haven’t gotten anything.

I’m looking to be able to pay my rent to give myself some time with a roof over my head, and then move out to stay with my partner and his family in his city while I wait for the vetting checks to finish, to avoid becoming street homeless. It’s a sleepy seaside town with a lot of ‘help wanted’ signs around, so hopefully there I can find a quick job save some money without it being drained by bills, and have enough for a deposit and first month’s rent on a house share when the time comes. I’ve started selling furniture, all of my electronics that I don’t need and my guitars. At this point, any amount helps as being able to give something is better than nothing. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

2 Comments
2024/04/24
08:28 UTC

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Need a little assistance with gas and dog food

Hi all, been a rough few months and basically long story short I’m running on dimes and nickels with no luck finding work. Have an interview Friday but I need to get dog asap.

Not trying to directly ask for money but maybe buy something I’m selling? I have some sports cards and some unused outdoor gear for sale. Desperately looking for at least $25-30. Thanks for the consideration.

Amazon dog food wishlist :)

8 Comments
2024/04/24
07:33 UTC

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need 850 for rent... anything helps!!

hello! i'm incredibly stressed with my job right now, things were looking up last month and then my hours were severely cut and i've made next to nothing this month (last week i didn't even get a paycheck)

i have no money to pay any of my bills i'm behind on, but the last thing i want to pay late is my portion of rent. i know 850 is a lot and i don't expect anyone to just give that much. ANY amount helps drastically, as it's that much less i have to stress about scrambling together

thanks in advance, dms should be open

13 Comments
2024/04/24
04:53 UTC

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Really need assistance tonight

I am in the process of moving out of state/ starting a new job and am really low on money. I don’t have any money coming in until the end of the week and I was just wondering if someone could help me out with a meal for tonight to just get me to tomorrow? Anything helps

6 Comments
2024/04/24
04:15 UTC

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$150 for my daughter's glasses

My daughter broke her glasses and we've super glued them at least 5 times. She has a high prescription and has to have polycarbonate. She is JUST over the age to get that free.

ETA. She's having trouble with trying them on virtually. Eyeglass world is close by and have two pair for $89, but with poly it's $120

28 Comments
2024/04/24
02:10 UTC

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Anything helps

Not sure where to begin but I'll say this. . Anything helps! My phone is off I'm using a wifi phone It's only 38$ to pay it but I just don't have it Any little bit helps I have yet to receive anything from anyone on Reddit once I do I won't be asking again Thanks to all of u

9 Comments
2024/04/24
01:18 UTC

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Partner's car may be totaled out of nowhere, pleas ehelp with reslurces or suggestions (MI based)

They cannot declare bankruptcy or lose school aid entirely when they're almost done, no family/friends to help pay, I'm currently battling with a disability and cannot help much more without further harming my ability to pay down a credit card with the few hours I can work, their credit score is 560 due to a cascade that started with 1 single missed payment due to psychosis and family death and the bank refusing to wait to add any fees like they promised they would, they cannot open more credit cards......

We don't know what to do if this car dies.

ANY ideas or help at all would mean so much right now. They CANNOT have no car, they are rural and work 30mins away. Nowhere in their town is safe to work at, either- bad history with creeps coming onto them and it's hick creeps with guns....

1 Comment
2024/04/24
00:46 UTC

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