Ayyo ESFPs. I want to survey something over here(if that's a correct choice of words for my case) getting bored & by that I mean super fucking bored. So I thought I should make some digital template or something of that sort that can be used as a baseline to further make it into an enhanced digital art, some kind of an organizer's template, a customisable print on demand kind of thingy, YOU NAME IT. Now the problem is that it's just a vague thing that popped up in my head during vacations just like that but a bug in me says it should spring to action or I might waste my time away in procrastination. So tell me ESFPs, what is the digital thingy that you preferably would have for yourself that'd serve you in some way or the other!

Like I am genuinely curious about your lives away from the spotlight lol, so to speak.

What are your first thoughts when you wake up in the morning or before you fall asleep?

What are some habits or fun things you do to avoid feeling like you are suffering thru a work week?

What are your favorite things to do at home?

Anything else you think is interesting would be awesome. :)

She is the most mistyped celebrity. She is not ESTP. If not ESFP, the next most likely type would be ENTJ.

She is very individualistic. People with Fi will do outrageous things, without realizing or giving a crap about what others think. Jolie has displayed this. Kissing her brother, then being surprised by the public reaction. People with Fe would be much more aware of how they'll be perceived. This shows lack of Fe. She also openly talked about carrying her husbands blood around her neck, again, she didn't anticipate the public reaction (that again says no Fe). She didn't give a da#n what anyone thought of her. She was herself and often talked about loving to be "wild and free" and "to just be who you are". That is Fi, lack of Fe. It wasn't until she started getting older (around the time she got with Brad Pitt) did she begin changing her public image. She was a cutter, was suicidal and depressed, suffers from anorexia, diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and is a hardcore heroin addict (or opioid she can get her hands on). Fe users don't tend to express negative emotions so openly, as that would disrupt social and emotional harmony. Jolie never gave a cr@p what harmony she was disrupting.

She is an ESFP 487 SX/SP. She is definitely not an ESTP. The PDB types any successful celebrity as E3, but that doesn't make sense. First, Se-Ti doesn't make sense for her. Angelina clearly is Se+Feeling, Se-Fi. Introverted feeling is the function of subjective judgment or evaluation. The fact that Angelina Jolie engages in humanitarian causes does not mean that she is a person with extroverted feeling. She engages in humanitarian causes because they are aligned with her internal personal values. A Fi user can also be empathetic and loving. She always felt different and never tried to fit in with external values. "When other girls wanted to be ballet dancers, I kind of wanted to be a vampire." - Angelina Jolie I also think she is a SX4, probably, and that is more evident in her youth. Angelina Jolie had a somewhat difficult childhood, where she felt lonely. She entered adolescence exhibiting a variety of self-destructive and masochistic behaviors as a way of coping with the lack that she felt, as if she were screaming to the world her pain of being deprived in an aggressive way. "For some reason, the ritual of having cut myself and having felt the pain, feeling some kind of release, was somehow therapeutic for me." - Angelina Jolie “She was transferred to Moreno High School, an alternative school, where she became a "strange punk". She dyed her hair purple, wore black clothes and participated in mosh pits with her then boyfriend, with whom she lived together and experimented with sadomasochism. In 2004, referring to that period, she noted: "I still am deep down - and always will be - just a punk girl with tattoos." Every E4, including the SX4, finds a sense of identity through the recognition and exploration of their emotional wounds, believing that their pain makes them special and unique. This masochistic process can be a way of coping with an internalized perception of inadequacy, as if suffering were a confirmation of their sense of "self". The SX4, when not healthy, also often transforms envy and sense of lack into hatred and intense emotionality, resulting in impulses and a hateful character. She has several controversies related to this, such as breaking up marriages and diagnosis of conduct disorder in adolescence. Nowadays, Angelina Jolie has matured, of course.

Her behavior during the divorce from Pitt shows a lack of Ti.

She has the look of the ENTJ-ESFP-INTJ-ISFP axis.

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Heyy I’m an ENFJ 2w3 18F. I’d love to befriend one of you! For a few years I mistyped myself as an ESFP then ISFP as I find myself so similar to you guys. I didn’t get the chance to talk to ESFPs much though! Hit me up if you’re interested ^ ^

I know sometimes people think quiet and unconfident equals nice but what are some tip offs you notice that tells you they aren't?

For me if someone uses my lingo without working for rapport or uses my language in a way that doesn't seem like it is deepening a topic that is one. People who give effusive praise for doing the bare minimum or who are diligently formal when they should be more liberal with praise are another.

What are tip offs everyone else has noticed?

Recently i stumbled across this stereotype that women who have a very open sexuality, and who maybe tend to have a lot of sexual relations, are more likely to be ESFP. I was very intrigued because i never heard such thing before. So i thought i'd ask ESFP directly. What do you think about this stereotype? Is it true? More or less true? Or not true at all?

Hey guys!! So, I was trying to put some ideas together and I was really wanting to know how a group of dominant sensors would interact. Beyond just hanging out or having fun (I'd love to hear about that too honestly), how would you 4 get along? Do you like some more than others? What sort of things would you probably talk about? Would y'all work together well? What sort of thing would you like to do with them? Even if it's going places who knows? What sort of advice would you love to hear from them and what sort of advice would you like to give them? Thanks. :)

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Like what makes someone tolerable that you won't feel slightly irritated/want to draw your attention elsewhere.

In very general terms:

When you encounter a quiet person, why/for what reasons do you assume they might be quiet?

Do you typically feel more or less comfortable around someone who is regularly quiet?

How do you usually interact with quiet people?

..you can also leave an explanation if you feel like it, thanks!

If ESFP makes a plan meeting up on a wednesday. And when asking them the same day ”when they had planned me in their calender?” Asked in a funny way. And they reply 1 hour later and say they got sick. When we talked about meeting up the day before. Is that something you would do towards someone you like? Or does it mean that they dont prioritize you and playing with you?

I took the 16p test and got ESFP-A, I did find so many similarities and was relatable to an extent, but I wanna know better. Which test is better and easily available and maybe free 😂

Does anyone ever get told they have "aunt/uncle" energy?

Hii. Im currently having a mental breakdown. I have a friend who is ESFp/SEE. We have been friend for almost two months now. I very grateful that we become close. He always go to my house, cook for us and even start giving advice how to improve my life(we hang out like 5 days a week). We share our lunches, snacks and waters too (at work. I forgot to mention we are co worker but my house is nearby from the workplace. I didn't invite him but he asked to go to my house in tiring lunch hour to rest). We also shares a lot of time together during this two months. The problem is he has a lot of quality that annoys me like micromanaging my life, using my stuff and one time broke it (which i ensure him that's not a big of a deal, eveyone broke something at some point, which is true, i dont really care if he broke it and he seems genuinely worried about it and i dont want him to feel worried about that) and he also asks me to buy new stuff because some stuff in my house isn't up to his standards. All of that is just a little annoying for me at least. The real deal comes twice this week. He went to a vacation last week and found a rare snack and he bought a lot and sell it at our workplace. (Yes, Sell) instead of giving it away as gift, he sells it. Well i wanted to try it but he insists i pay if i wanted to. (I was not asking directly i said, hey give me tester first i dont want to buy something i dont like. And he said, pay first). And of course i wanted to try it so i pay him and try it. It was okay and he insists i buy more but i reject the idea. I cannot stand this because he went to my house RENT FREE take nap there, eating MY FOOD there and all. Then this one thing he only get access once a while and he ask me to pay for it? What is that? I wasn't like i was asking for a lot, i just wanted a tester man, if it's good I'll buy more. But, throwing that aside, i ignore that i can't stand that and continue my life. We become so close that i start open up with him. I told him about my weakness like i feel being watch all the time and when someone watching me it makes me lose focus and all. He then keeps watching me purposely to make me lose it. And of course I'm the good friend here put a clipboard and hide my face. He come and took the clipboard. So, i start took out my phone and watch videos to ignore him, soon he'll feel tired and give up. But to my surprise he took my phone from my hand. Im quite short. No not quite i am short he held it high so i cant reach. So, i grab his hair to take back what's mine. He started to get physical and get ready for a fight. Again, a good friend don't fight (or the weak one dont want to, which is what actually happens here) i close the gap to the point he cannot swing and attack and softly spoke to him. I said, why are getting angry? You are the only who's been provoking? But seems like the word doesn't matter anymore he is completely out of control. I retreat, avoiding any other confrontations. He calm himself and apologised, which im fine with it. But then he come again asking if i was sad. And i said yes, of course, how can someone calmly accept being bullied for their insecurities. But he really can't think or don't want to think. He replied saying, well if you are not satisfied with me we can meet outside work. And yeah im done. I said, fine, let's meet up during the lunch hour. But, during lunch hour im calmed already and he seems like that too. So, we went to my house he cooked MY FOOD he ate it and he took a nap. I was wondering "SHOULD I STAB HIM IN THE CHEST NOW?"

ok that's the story. Why is this happening, i don't understand aren't you guys the type who cares about people that close to them or are we simply not close enough that he sees me as not someone i should care about. If we are not close enough im willing to pretend nothing happened and start over. Are you guys built this way or just him? Is he mistyped?

I read this comment online:

”Our tendency to run away and cut people rather than fight for it. Bold and act sensitive, tendency to have drama while we actually inside dont want it all. Way sometimes we feel like so stupid compared to intuitives? And cry for small things people normally dont, just because we are sensitive as euhhh. We are overthinker, super sensitives but act as rebel and keep friends with everyone and cant cut people and mostly got left by people. Sad.

Darkest one: blame ourselves, felt guilt but cant fix the situation, and losing hope because we are too realists.”

Can you recognize those tendencies? And if so why is there tendency to drama if you don’t want that?

A curious ESFJ.

Apparently you're the favourite sexual experiences of many, although the relationships itself might not go on for too long but you seem to leave your mark on those you've had sex with. fascinating

anyway, sadly, the original post was removed from r/mbti. i'm trying to figure out whether there was a correlation between sexual compatibility and mbti and how exactly does it go?

you can help me out by telling me which mbti was your best sex and what made it stand out from the rest? thank you

all ESFP I've met have always been so kind to me. English is not my first language so sorry about any errors or words that don't fit but I wanted to say that not only are yall charismatic but also make sure that everybody is having fun. you adress issues in a polite manner and are empathetic. yall showed me how to enjoy things better and make the best out of a situation - maybe it's because of how yall learn things quickly while also being at the same time CEOs of procrastination, yall still learn subconsciously, yall be doing something else but still catching whatever is going around and things to learn and have everyone surprised that you pick things up like that without seeming focused, which even me catches off guard. one thing I have to say is yall have to be careful about addictions and giving second chances to the wrong people - I've seen it too many times with this type!!

Not because your trying, it's what you do when your not that makes you unique and that uniqueness is by far your most attractive quality.

So I have this idea where I want to ask you single (or taken) people to give me a list of qualities, quirks, and qualifications of what you desire in a lover.

If you’re shy, you can DM me your list and I’ll tell you which type best matches your descriptions.

I’ll share first. Initially, I liked the characteristics of ESTP, ISTJ, ISFP, and ESFJ men. From what I listed on chat gpt, the ones who matched were ESTP, ENFJ, ESFJ, and ISFJ.

I really want to try this and have fun with this. Please join ~

Mental health check-in

How are we doing, fam?

I hope you’re enjoying the Spring weather and feeling better. Don’t let your other half or your mom let you down wit their words.

You’re flawless and slaying this week 💅

(This is a conversation between me ESFP and a (former) friend of mine whose personality I don't know?) Her: You'd just make a better impression if you were quiet Me: uhhhh? Ok I guess? Her: Enough seriously you've bored me. Me:: Ok I will find a better friend who respects me 💪🫡 Her: You're such a bitch

It's a bit of a weird thing to ask (lmao) but I wanted to know someone else's point of view!

1. Are you the main character or are they a POV of a character?

2. Are the environments based on reality or made up?

3. Are there made up fantasy characters like creatures?

4. Are the people made up or real?

I’m just interested to see if there’s any differences between the styles and structures of dreams based on MBTI. I’m asking this on other MBTI subreddits too.

Either for yourself, or someone else?