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For all the best of RaisedByNarcissists

This is a subreddit to celebrate the best tip and explanation type comments and posts from /r/raisedbynarcissists!

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Be nice. No personal attacks, no name calling, no bullying. Exercise empathy. Respect boundaries. No slurs. No victim-blaming.

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Flaming will not be tolerated.

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EXCELLENT explanation of why the term "narcissistic abuse" isn't ableist.

1 Comment
2023/05/25
22:39 UTC
17

celebrating myself instead this year.

1 Comment
2023/04/18
17:08 UTC
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/u/ImConfusedAllThaTime describes the process of emancipation and offers tips for how to do it

1 Comment
2020/05/07
00:28 UTC
87

Abuse can make us behave in ways that do not correspond with our innate personality...

1 Comment
2020/02/26
12:17 UTC
87

Taming my parrot gave me a realization about the time it takes to heal from trauma.

2 Comments
2019/12/12
17:15 UTC
60

What constitutes emotional abuse, by /u/Suzsuzp

1 Comment
2019/09/14
17:55 UTC
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I grew up in a normal family, by /u/undercover_canadian

1 Comment
2019/09/14
17:52 UTC
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/u/Koriandersalamander discusses the adverse effects we experience from greyrocking

2 Comments
2019/09/04
17:13 UTC
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Why can I cope with big things but little things fire me up?

0 Comments
2019/03/20
12:49 UTC
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I found this checklist for pathological narcissism to be much more accurate than the DSM...

3 Comments
2019/01/14
22:53 UTC
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/u/Fluffy_Little_Fox explains the Narcissists Playbook

5 Comments
2018/12/25
02:12 UTC
158

A Therapist Explains a Hell of a Lot in a Single Sentence

"He doesn't want a life jacket; he wants your life jacket."

https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/94fvvi/you_can_only_save_your_life_or_theirs_because/

2 Comments
2018/08/04
16:47 UTC
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/u/PattyIce32 explains how a lack of boundaries sets you up for abuse the rest of your life

0 Comments
2018/07/25
06:05 UTC
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/u/jennyislander discusses being manipulated by smart abusers

1 Comment
2018/07/20
06:35 UTC
43

/u/RBNTossout comments on the idea of not being "abused enough" to seek support in /r/raisedbynarcissists

0 Comments
2018/07/16
02:58 UTC
43

What EVERY child of narcissistic parents needs to hear by /u/la_rosee

7 Comments
2018/07/01
03:00 UTC
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No, I won't break NC for you! • by /u/ShortPaleandAdequate

0 Comments
2018/05/16
16:45 UTC
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Your First Year Away From Your Abusive Family: A Survival Guide by /u/blackteadiaries

2 Comments
2018/05/14
15:26 UTC
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/u/kellyannam provides insight into what to expect from a deposition

0 Comments
2018/02/15
12:48 UTC
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/u/BrushedNickle discusses C-PTSD and emotional flashbacks

0 Comments
2018/01/27
17:26 UTC
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/u/Belellen says "Someone will always have it worst off then you, but that doesn't mean that your experience is somehow less real."

0 Comments
2018/01/20
05:12 UTC
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/u/UnlovedToolshed shares 10 lessons learned about dealing with Nfamily

0 Comments
2018/01/01
01:16 UTC
18

RBN in Developing Nations: Notes on non-Western ACoNs and cultural sensitivity by /u/BasiliskFangness

0 Comments
2017/12/08
07:43 UTC
24

Searching for a therapist: things to look for and red flags • r/raisedbynarcissists

0 Comments
2017/12/05
02:38 UTC
11

The different meanings of "Lighten up it's just a joke" by /u/FlapperGirl12

0 Comments
2017/11/19
17:59 UTC
38

The Difference Between Struggling Parents and Ns by /u/Polenicus

1 Comment
2017/11/08
07:39 UTC
26

Don't rock the boat.

0 Comments
2017/11/02
16:38 UTC
43

A letter to all the parents who claim their "honesty" is too much for their kids • r/raisedbynarcissists

0 Comments
2017/08/17
22:18 UTC
26

My thoughts on Nparents as Grandparents by /u/ChemBNM

0 Comments
2017/08/10
18:58 UTC
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Your child is not... • r/raisedbynarcissists

0 Comments
2017/07/31
21:39 UTC
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