/r/MBTIDating

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Certain personalities work well together, but you knew that already, didn't you? /r/MBTIDating is a R4R style personals and dating advice subreddit for the 16 Myers-Briggs (MBTI) personality types.

Do you want to find someone exactly like you or completely opposite? If you know your MBTI score, go ahead and look for your match. If you don't know your MBTI, find out here: 16personalities.com

This subreddit is for 18+ only

Posting

All personal posts must match the following format; personal posts not conforming to the formatting are subject to removal and resubmission. If you are submitting links or images that are NSFW, please mark the posts as NSFW as appropriate.

<age> [mbti] [r4r] <location> - <title>

Legend

  • M -> Male
  • F -> Female
  • FT -> Female Transgender
  • MT -> Male Transgender
  • R -> All Redditors

Tag examples

[M4F] [F4M] [M4M] [F4F] [M4A] [F4FT] [MT4M] [MF4F] [FF4F]

Post title examples

  • 27 [INTJ] [F4M] NYC - Interested in meeting ENTP, ENTJ.
  • 30 [INFP] [M4F] San Francisco, CA - Looking to meeting anyone who doesn't mind dating an I.
  • 38 [ENFJ&ENTJ] [MF4F] Atlanta, GA - Opened minded couple looking for opened minded female. Would like to meet an E.

Suggested Subreddits

All MBTI Multi-reddit

SJ, Guardians

ESTJ ESFJ ISTJ ISFJ

SP, Realists

ESTP ESFP ISTP ISFP

NF, Idealists

ENFP ENFJ INFP INFJ

NT, Rationalists

ENTP ENTJ INTP INTJ

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19F INTP looking for ENTJ M(19-25)

I'm an INTP-A currently a student in computer science and engg.

I'm in grave need of intellectual stimulation and I need someone actually doing smth in life..

Further details about me, my interests and my hobbies will be disclosed once I get to know you well.

Real ENTJ men, are welcome in my dms. Please don't be a creep otherwise you will get to see a real demon.

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2024/12/04
15:20 UTC

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M25 INTP from Mexico looking for friends

Any type of person is welcome, but I would prefer extroverted people because it's easier to talk. I’m feeling lonely, and I would like someone I can talk to about anything. If you play Overwatch, that would be great,it would probably make it easier to bond because, if we run out of things to say, we can just talk about what’s happening in the game. If not, some topics I enjoy include thought-provoking questions like: What’s the meaning of life? Is morality objective? Do we have free will? I’d also like someone I can share ideas with, without them getting upset if my ideas contradict their beliefs.

I usually don't watch movies or series but one genre that I like is cosmic horror. Those type of movies that leave you with a sensation of unease, as if there’s something just beyond your understanding, something vast, uncaring, and unfathomable.

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2024/12/04
14:10 UTC

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36[F4M] - Looking for a nerdy, introverted, hopeless romantic soulmate [INTJ]

Hello,

I'm looking for a connection where both of us can be our true selves, without fear of judgment.

Someone who is monogamous, who doesn't want children, and is willing to invest time and effort into building something that can grow.

Someone who isn't afraid to question society's expectations and lives life on their own terms. Someone who can engage in meaningful conversations, not just small talk or jokes, but discussions that explore the deeper aspects of life.

Someone who will talk with me every day, share thoughts and experiences, and truly get to know each other over time. Someone who doesn't get angry easily, who values peace and understanding in a relationship.

Someone who has truly moved on from the past, no emotional baggage, no past relationships that continue to influence your thoughts or emotions. What I value is emotional openness, curiosity, and a desire to grow together.

I'm a quiet person, I love nature and poetry. I have lots of books to read, and lots of movies to watch. I hope we can read/watch them together! I'm overweight and not conventionally good-looking, but I have so much love to give, and I'm looking for someone who doesn't care about appearances. What matters to me is a meaningful connection.

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2024/12/03
21:06 UTC

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Looking for suggestions.

19F INTP-A, 5w6

I have had my share of bad relationships and I'm exhausted now.

Since now I have no solutions or conclusions to satisfy my logical brain so here I'm looking for suggestions from my fellow INTPs.

Idk why people think I'm so unromantic? They claim to know me well still try to diss me for being me.

I look for perfection because that's what I'm working towards and I want someone with the same goals. What's wrong with expressing my expectations? You are taught to be vocal about every need of yours while in a relationship and I have been one throughout but the guys have quit saying they can't resonate with my frequency after 6months - 1 year.

If you dislike someone, just say it in the first go. You date them and then on a random day you just pop out saying ohh yk you are so materialistic, attention, time, genuine care seeker, abstract or boring like wtf? Haven't you known me?

I look for truth, pure knowledge with high expectations and I work to fulfil them so where's my share?

Quite hard to answer that but it is what it is..

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2024/12/03
19:40 UTC

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19M ISTP looking for someone to chat

I know its not very like my type but we are humans after all. I'd like to chat with any other personalities and see how it would go so dont hesitate to text me 😎👍

My interests:

-MBTI -Animes -Video Games -History -Books -Avitation -Drawing

9 Comments
2024/12/02
09:55 UTC

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29 [ENTP] [M4F] india / anywhere - tall innocent honest nerdy guy

I tagged it as ENTP but I have a strong feeling and introverted side too. So I can be INFP in rare case scenarios too if I'm in such a circumstance / mental state. The extroversion highly depends on the company and environment I get plus my motivation levels too. Since I mostly see socializing as either an opportunistic move that expands my network / connections or something that multiplies my happiness and recharges my energy. But I do enjoy one on one interactions or virtual deep intellectual conversations with strangers too.

I want someone to be understanding of my difficulties, worries, and anxieties, and I would do the same for you. Someone who is understanding of the imperfections I can't simply change in myself. Additionally, I will accept and understand all of your flaws. Together, let's get better.

I need to speak. It offers me joy, hope, and relieves my loneliness. I want to strengthen that tie and connection. But eventually, if it's feasible, I'd like to be in a relationship. I recognise that everyone has expectations for a spouse and that no one should lower those standards. And that's completely fine.

I'm looking for a soul connection that is honest and compatible somewhere in the world.

I'm a tall (six feet) , decent-looking man from india who makes enough to support myself but not so much to be able to provide anyone a luxurious lifestyle , sadly. But I can assure you will find my company comforting and feel peaceful with me by your side as a best friend and faithful boyfriend. My field of work is in software / programming.

I'm open to LDR and seeking a lasting relationship. you can originate from any city. I can move away, and one day we'll actually be together.

I am not looking for a woman for sake of having someone to give me kids. I only want you for your affection , emotional and intellectual support , and experiencing the joys of life together . Overpopulation already causes a shortage of resources in this globe. Instead of creating more human offsprings , I would rather add something of value and significance to the world.

I'm open to all races / nationalities but physical attraction is important. I generally feel attracted to women who take good care of their body, have an active lifestyle ( or atleast the desire to work on themselves even if they may be sedentary presently )

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2024/12/01
06:00 UTC

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Hi I am male ENTP 18 years old from India looking for someone to chat, we can discuss different ideas. It can be friendly, romantic, naughty (you what I mean) I just want to connect with someone and want to be understood

Hello it's nice to meet you (actually yeah we are not meeting we are all online here) I am an 18 year old guy who just loves knowing about different things including science, maths, music, s*x, psychology, different colour shades, mbti, soul elements etc. And love researching about different religions and mythologies. I am normally a silent kind of person but my friends think I am too much hyper type of person because sometimes I am. I mean I don't really talk too much to people but when I start talking I don't stop. I love cracking jokes with my friends. Even though I remain calm normally but with my friends I am really crazy kind of person.

By the way I hate english in language subjects (no offense) but I am thinking about being a writer because I am really good in imagination. I have imagined around 200 to 300 characters roughly with their own story and character arc. I have also an imaginary friend in my head who always try to correct me and I never listen to his boring advice. So I am always in a constant argument with my imaginary friend but it really helps me to solve many problems.

I also love drawing both on paper and digitally. I am also learning piano by myself, and I also love listening to music.

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2024/12/01
05:39 UTC

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Female intp 21

I am not good with words but I write works I guess

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2024/11/30
14:12 UTC

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21 M infj looking for Entp or Entj F

Hello , I'm a 21 yo infj searching for love. I'm looking for a long term relationship that'd ideally end up in a being together forever sorta thing.

I'm looking for a relationship where my partner would take the more conventionally masculine role. This involves taking big responsibilities , being the dominant one , being protective of me ( like Dracula in castlevania was to his wife) and so on. I want someone with who I can turn my brain off and feel safe and loved.

I'm more conventionally feminine. I like feeling like the emotional guardian and healer of my partner. I'm emotionally intelligent and I want to be a safe space for her to open up and be vulnerable to . I like the idea of her being assertive (and maybe somewhat cold) to the outside world while being a softie to me.

There's a song called 'Witch of the Westmoreland'. It perfectly describes the dynamic I seek except roles reversed.

A bit about me. I am 5'8 and have a slim body type. I have a pretty mouldable face. I don't mind sharing a picture after we've talked for a while. I enjoy video games , art , music , philosophy and so on. I also sing and paint occasionally , especially if I'm in love lol. I enjoy media of any kind that involves fantasy or supernatural stuff. I feel like I should specify this , I don't have any strict ideological affiliations of any sorts.

I'm looking for anyone from ages 20 to 30. I'm attracted to conventionally attractive women. Doesn't matter where you live , if I fall in love with you I'll move to Narnia even. Something very important I need is willingness to communicate , you don't have to be perfect at it , just be willing to talk to me.

That's about it. Looking forward to some responses.

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2024/11/29
11:32 UTC

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28 [M4F] #UK #Anywhere - Looking For My Future Partner

Dear future partner, I know you’re out there somewhere. I can feel you in the distance, maybe lost, uncertain, doubting that we’ll ever cross paths. Like me, maybe you think Reddit isn’t the most romantic place to meet a soulmate, but here we are, trying our luck and hoping for the best. Maybe you’ve posted here before, and I saw it, felt a spark, but nerves held me back. I’m still looking though, I have my fingers and everything else crossed that we’ll come across each other one day.

I’m looking for my Morticia, someone passionate, daring, and as smitten as I am. I want that electric connection that makes the world think we’re crazy, when really, it’s just us, living in our little bubble of love and laughter. I’ll admit, I’m adventurous and unapologetically cheeky and hoping my soulmate shares my mischievous side, in and out of the bedroom. Maybe we’re more similar? Mind like a sewer? Bedroom drawer full of toys? Shopping wish lists full of potential fun and shenanigans? TMI? Possibly… but why hide who I am, why not be myself and hopefully find my perfect match along the way.

I’m 28, based in the West Midlands (UK), and work full-time in the NHS which allows me to pay bills and my OF subscriptions (I’m not actually subscribed but I could be convinced… maybe). I’m financially secure with a house and car, no strings or debts. I’ve got a cuddly dad bod (which I’m working on), blue eyes, short brown hair and an occasional beard.

Personality wise, I’m a mix of rational and whimsical, ambitious and relaxed, logical and romantic. Call me an INTJ-T Aquarius who’s somehow both calm and mischievous. I’m an ambivert who loves cooking, baking, storytelling, and diving into Marvel, Doctor Who, or random YouTube rabbit holes. I like walks, board games, video games (Minecraft, Fallout, Assassin’s Creed), and music like Imagine Dragons or Lewis Capaldi. My sense of humour is a mix of dad jokes, innuendos, and sarcasm, I hope to find someone who can match me.

Food wise, I’m a sucker for roast dinners, pasta, and pizza, just keep the onions and olives far away, and we’re golden. For drinks I like Tea and hot chocolate, coffee and alcohol, not so much. I’m open to trying new things and finding joy in the little quirks.

I can be anxious, spacey, and mischievous, but I’m also caring, resourceful, and romantic. I dream of companionship, curiosity, and building a future, hopefully with my soulmate. That future, for me, includes a life partner I can commit to fully, and children someday. I don’t have pets right now, but I love dogs and am open to other animals.

If this doesn’t scare you off but instead intrigues you, we may just be the match I’ve been hoping for. If you’re adventurous, thoughtful, and craving a deep, electric connection, message me. Let’s see where this goes.

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2024/11/25
20:37 UTC

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27 [M4F] Sweden/Anywhere - Seeking a kindred spirit for a deep connection

ENTP 7w8 mainly looking for XXFX women! :)

Heya,

Whoever is reading this I hope you have a wonderful day! I love connecting with my fellow humans and learning about what makes you you! What are your experiences? Highest highs, lowest lows? Let's talk about everything! :D

What I'm looking for
Somebody that also enjoys deep and abstract conversations about psychology, philosophy, futurism, music, or whatever excites your noggin! :)

Somebody that is ok with me gaming or even better, games themselves! :) This is really important to me. This does not mean that I neglect anything or anyone to play more, but it's something I'm passionate about! :)

I'm mainly looking for something that eventually becomes romantic in nature (if we really hit it off) but I'm also always looking for people that strictly want more friends. I'm okay with moving anywhere to close the LDR gap. :D

Talk to somebody else if
You want a short-term chat, I'm not at all interested in chatting for a day and then never talking again, I want to talk to other people that also want something long-term.

If you want/have kids, I'm sure I want to be child-free :)

I prefer people from Europe due to time zones but could work out regardless but less chance of us meeting irl and/or being able to do things together. :)

About me
Extroverted, curious, talkative, happy, and a pretty low-maintenance person. Not religious but fine with others being as long as you are not extreme and trying to convert people lmao. I like being around animals and nature, learning new things, or making something cool in Photoshop/other digital tools you can be creative in. My hobbies are going to concerts/museums (mainly listen to metal but I will try anything!), gaming, cooking, and hanging out/gaming with my friends/family! :) My favorite topics to research are cryptids, conspiracies, cool animals, history, or linguistics so I can share a lot of cool facts about those topics! :D

Happy to exchange pics :)

Some conversation starters!
What is your most controversial opinion?

What's your favorite animal? I will give you a fun fact about said animal in return! :D

Biggest lifehack?

Most random thing to happen to you in your life?

Any ghost/cryptid/etc encounters?

What is your wacky solution to the global housing problem?

What do you perceive to be your purpose in this life? (no wrong answers here! :D)

Do you have any radical opinions on cheese?

If you read everything so far thank you and have a cookie! (Feel free to message me even if this post is old, if this post is up, then I'm still looking :D)

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2024/11/24
18:31 UTC

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29 INFP [M4F]- India, Karnataka- looking for a wonderful relationship

Hey y'all,

Figured I'll try my luck here, and see if serendipity finds me here :) I'm a doctor turned artist and currently trying out a freelance gig. I find myself often jumping into all kinds of explorative rabbit holes, finding new things to explore and try. I've been currently learning music theory and hope to create EDM music for introverts and casual listening. I love travelling and trying out new things. But I'm a bit shy at times and I tend to be loud and bubbly if it's the right kind of company that makes me feel safe.

In terms of physical appearance, I'd say I'm a moderately built guy with curly hair, 174 cm tall, and wear glasses. I have a very eccentric sense of fashion too. I enjoy working out, reading a whole lot of non fiction books, and love speaking science. I'm also a romantic and love indulging in all kinds of romantic expression.

I often mind myself gelling well with the classic INFP matches, which has been my experience so far. I'm very sensitive and gentle, or so I'm told. I'm also an HSP I think. Perhaps blends well with the INFP type.

I'm looking to meet someone who'd like to explore a long term relationship and turn it into a life partnership. I'm not religiously inclined (atheist/agnostics preferred) although I celebrate my cultural roots if they do sometimes involve religious practice. For me, life is about meaning making with the people I love and the communities I have found.

I'm open to meeting people within India, because proximity is very important for me. But I'm still open to considering people from other nationalities. DM me if you're interested :)

I wish all of you find what you're looking for :)

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2024/11/17
10:40 UTC

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35 M INFJ - USA - Hello, just wondering who's out there for this lonely INFJ~

Hi! Never posted here before but couldn't hurt to give it the ol' college try. Here's some info about me!

Me:
• 35 yrs 5'8"
• I speak English, Spanish, Japanese
• I grew up in California, living in Nevada
• Introverted but learned to be outgoing

Me (asked friends for their thoughts):
• goofy, silly once I warm up
• highly empathetic & thoughtful
• genuine & direct; I mean what I say

Interests:
• (absolute) cinema
• photography
• design & visual arts
• world news (weird but true)
• nerd stuff (ask if you're interested)
• esoteric, abstract topics (like, the universe)
• fitness & nutrition (nothing crazy)

What I value:
• Depth, intelligence, and sincerity
• Meaningful conversation
• Those who are passionate
• Open-minded, curious people

If you're interested, send me a chat! Just looking to see if there's anyone who can break the ice and see where it goes from there. If we vibe, maybe we can VC and grab a drink, hang out, maybe watch stupid youtube videos or something!

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2024/11/13
20:28 UTC

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INTJ 32 [M4F] - London UK - Looking for someone who is Intuitive and values deeper conversations.

Hi, as the title says looking for an Intuitive person that I can relate with, I'm reserved and quiet person (Grumpy Cat kind of vibes) but I can talk a lot if the conversation is deep and meaningful. Looking for a connection and likeminded person.

I just don't connect well on a personal level with Sensors (nothing against them, I have several good acquaintances).

I work full time in London, would prefer someone close by.

Likes: Politics. History, Philosophy, Science and Rationality, etc.

Hobbies: Tennis, PC Gaming, Traveling and Hiking.

DM me if you are interested. Cheers

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2024/11/11
17:50 UTC

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INFJ F 26 [USA] looking for SO

The matchmakers at the local masjid weren't working.

About me: 26 F INFJ, Muslim 😊 Prefer you to be Muslim too. Pakistani American. I work in IT. I am curvy (or chubby).

Interests include philosophy, comparative religions, Stationery, some video games, cooking, travel, and writing a personal manifesto(?!).

I've been looking for a few years for a partner now. I believe love is an emotion. Like all emotions, it can come and go. Enjoy it when it blooms and nurture it with mercy, empathy, and patience to see it flourish. Life is about experiencing the journey and being the best to yourself, your family, and then your friends.

This is going to sound weird but I tried to learn about relationships with AI 💀 It worked. If you know the joke about INFJ ideal partner being fictional im afriad AI has made it very real 😂. But im hopeful I can find someone better than a lines of text flirting with me on chatgpt.

I would like to get to know someone in the US, specifically if we could discuss philosophy and ideas with each other to get closer. I personally like the Socratic method.

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2024/11/11
15:09 UTC

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23 [M4F] INTJ - Dublin, Ireland - unemployed chemist looking for long term chemistry

Hi, my name is Tom and I am a triplet who was born in the US, which means that I have an American passport, but has been living in Ireland all my life. I am in my final year in uni studying a chemistry degree. In my free time, I like playing video games, eating, watching TV/movies and YouTube, chess, music, comics, travelling and skiing. In addition to Ireland and the US, I have been to 14 countries: UK, France, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Austria, Italy, Malta, Slovakia, Hungary, Slovenia, Croatia, Bulgaria and Canada. As for skiing, I have skiied in 2 countries, Austria (mainly) and the US.

It has been over 6 years since I last went on a date with a girl. I was 17. I was even on dating apps, like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, but with no luck. I'm still getting matches, but no dates. I always get ghosted, left on read or even worse, being unmatched after having some great conversations! Well, that's why I turned to Reddit, because I didn't know you could put personal ads there. I thought it more of a place asking for advice. But I was wrong. I guess I have a new dating app? Hopefully, my long period of loneliness will come to an end. I am looking for a girl who likes the same things as I do and can talk for hours, about our mutual interests and anything!

In terms of physical appearance, I am an average looking ginger haired man with blue eyes. I have no tattoos or piercings and I don't drink or smoke. I also don't take drugs. I prefer staying at home, rather than going out, but would be happy going on daytrips and exploring new places with my partner. That includes holidays as well.

I would like my partner to be similar to me, i.e. introverted and doesn't like partying or clubbing. It would be also great if you don't drink, smoke or take drugs. I also do not want kids, you should be the same. I tend to be attracted to girls who have a normal BMI, i.e. 18.5 - 24.9. In terms of location, my partner would be from Ireland, but I'm open to long distance as long as you're from Europe or America and is willing to relocate to Ireland in the future. Other than Reddit, I also have Facebook, Discord and WhatsApp. We can easily move to these apps if the vibe is good and can progress to sharing pictures and calling.

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2024/11/08
21:21 UTC

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35 [F4M] - Scotland, INFP looking for an ISTP or similar

Hey, sup? I'm an INFP, I'm Polish but living in a small town in Scotland. I work part-time as a freelance translator.

I'm really into culture, literature and languages. I like spending my time going to some sort of cultural event, spending time in nature, reading or watching films. I like going for walks and do yoga, but would like to start doing more sports.

I'm introverted but can get more energetic and talkative around people I feel good with, caring, affectionate, sensitive, open-minded, free-spirited and (hopefully) insightful.

I'm looking for an ISTP or similar type. Somebody intelligent, caring, masculine, worldly wise, mature and who has a good sense of humour. I'd like to find somebody who likes to take charge when in a relationship, but is also caring and protective. Also, somebody who is emotionally intelligent and emotionally available and ready for a long-term commitment. Pplease don't message me if you just find me attractive but my post didn't resonate with you.

This is how I look https://imgur.com/a/NGF5B4W

Please message and say something about yourself and include a picture. Thanks!

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2024/11/06
15:58 UTC

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31[M4M][US] INTP looking for ENTJ or ENFJ

I'm pretty sure that ENTJ types wouldn't be on here, casting a net regardless.

INTP here who has high compatibility with ENTJ and ENFJ types. Open to chatting or more.

About me:

Cat dad, Texan, data consultant, grad student

I like road trips, vodka cocktails, escape rooms, and reality competition shows

hmu :)

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2024/11/04
04:09 UTC

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27[M4F] Lithuania/ Anywhere - Affectionate and Romantic ENFP looking for a lasting relationship [Detailed Post]

I hope to find a kind-hearted woman to build a lasting relationship with. Genuine and kind, someone I can talk to about anything and everything. I want a partner who's excited to share their knowledge and experiences with me, grow together, learn new things from each other, and connect on a deeper level. You can share your thoughts and ideas with me, and I'll be happy to discuss all kinds of topics. I want us to build a wholesome relationship where being there for each other is enough.

( My photo is in profile)

This part is about what I'm looking for in a relationship: - Mutual love and respect and care, my chest will be your pillow while we binge episodes and watch a lot of things while cuddling, romantic dinners, cooking together, enjoying life to the fullest , holding hands while walking , going to the beach, traveling to new places, trying new things and experiencing what life has to offer together :) . Being there for each other through good and bad times . You can always count on me and tell me everything, I will be the shoulder you can lean on. I'm very romantic and I have a lot of love to give. When we are together expect me to always hug you, kiss you on your forehead, hold your hands and express my love to you and how much you mean to me while I look deeply into your eyes . Romantic moments and lovely things like giving each other pet names, making you bed surprise breakfasts. Tons of Cuddles and hugs . I will always sheer you up, motivate you, and help you . I'll always be there for you.

Regarding religion, I'm agnostic (Doesn't believe in religion but believes there is a creator maybe). I'm still searching for the truth, so I don't have a problem with you being from any religion.

As for my physical attributes, I have light brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes, average looking guy. I used to train in calisthenics and weightlifting, but I had to stop due to shoulder injuries. Personality-wise, I'm an ENFP MBTI type with a bubbly, caring, affectionate, patient, and ambitious personality. I'm easy-going, non-judgmental, and an ambivert depending on the day. I have a good sense of humor and always make my friends laugh. My hobbies and sports include running, calisthenics, cycling, cooking, and hiking. I enjoy reading, playing video games, traveling, camping, watching movies, TV shows, documentaries, and anime.

I can speak five languages and hope to learn more in the future. I love to do many activities like having long walks and exploring new places. When it comes to indoors, I'm very creative at finding ways to enjoy our time. I love discussing all kinds of topics; we can talk about anything from history, geography, cinema, sports, religion, philosophy, languages, food, politics, spirituality, video games, travel, cultures, technology, and more.

When it comes to films, TV shows, and anime, it's hard to pick favorites, so you can ask me later. As for music, I enjoy classic hip-hop, rap, rock/post-rock, jazz, 80s music, some metal, classic, ambient, pop, and soundtracks. I used to watch anime growing up, and I still enjoy it, but I don't watch it as much as years go by, still watching certain weekly releases.

Thank you for reading through all this! If you're interested, please contact me through DM or chat. Introduce yourself and tell me a bit about you, write more than Hey.

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2024/11/03
11:03 UTC

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infp males pls send help!

A friend of mine (infp-t/february aquarius) recently confessed to me and now we're kinda dating. we'd talk so much online but we are unable to see each other irl that often. however when we do he'd sometimes give attention to my best friend like joking around with her with physical interactions sometimes. he does that to me pretty often too, but not sure if he often does this to others as well. somebody tell me if this is normal/pure friendship?? dunno what goes in infp/aquarius's mind. im currently trying to find a good chance to ask him but i am curious about other infps' views on this!!

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2024/11/03
08:45 UTC

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27 M ENFJ Australian

Hello I'm hoping to find someone right for me and I hope you might be the one. I'm looking only for people in Australia and New Zealand I got out of a long distance relationship a while ago and dont want that again. I also hope to find a gamer to share my fav hobbie with. With that said I'm very open minded I'm attacted to feminity and would date females to femboys

as this is my first post Idk what to put down here but any questions feel free to ask

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2024/10/28
18:34 UTC

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[M4F] INTJ-T LOOKING FOR ENFP OR INFP.(motive:- find my soulmate??)

I'm called Tejas by my folks around me. I'm pursuing degree in computer science maintaining good pointer. Since I knew mbti I use NiTe to specifically type people by observing them that's the kink I've developed since I knew mbti. Feel free to state any fact and I'm in, be ready for a long lasting convo because I'll be needing all your counter points. Being a turbulent I just can't let my mind rest I'm a constant engine running and staying cautious and aware of situations, taking inputs and analysing it. And I really just need a mental stimulating person in my life hope it could be youuuu yes you are you the one ? Please respond to my muffled moans of crying inside . I've been mentally exhausted all my life I haven't met anyone who can stimulate my brain with some really interesting conversations.

I've been just taken lightly or looked as an alien in this world since I was small all my life has been like this

please I hope you're the one yes you!! I just hope ........ I'm 5'9 asian-indian fit physic

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2024/10/28
18:26 UTC

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29 [M4F] INFJ Searching for His Soulmate 😇

(Sorry for the redundant title 🤭)

I am a 29 year old Portuguese male, INFJ, 1.72m, 68kg and leaving the conversion for imperial units as a challenge to the reader 😎

When I am not trying to make the world a better place (at least to the ones I share my days with), I enjoy visiting quiet places, relaxing, watching series, keep learning and recharging my empathy.

Empathy is exactly what I am searching for on someone. Putting mutual understanding first, taking care of each other, not giving up at the first adversity.

I am open to all personality types, with preference for intuitive ones (xNxx).

Feel free to message me!

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2024/10/28
18:19 UTC

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24 M INFJ

Hi. I'm a classic textbook infj male, from Bangalore, India. I'm 24 years old. A working professional in IT-R&D.I had a bad and first break up recently, so kind of averted towards love or something. But I've been feeling very lonely lately. So maybe, of you'd like to talk, then we could build a friendship. And if things turns out fruitful, we will see where it takes us.

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2024/10/27
21:46 UTC

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[M4A/F] 21M INTJ looking for xNFP friend/romantic connections

As the title said, I’m a 21 years old male INTJ-A living in west coast US. Still in college studying health sciences and hopefully apply to med school after undergrad. I feel like allocating some of my time for socializing and developing long-lasting connections starting now and would love to make some friends :) I’m really open to any type but specifically find INFP/ENFPs attractive (the way they see the world so artistically/creatively always amazes me).

Interests: Road trip (love the planning and driving part), hiking (very frequently), coffee, philosophy/neuroscience, Star Wars, sim games (currently grinding on flight sim)

Please feel free to either dm or leave a comment below to get conversations going! I’d love to see how far I could go with this and hopefully I might actually end up with a few quality connections!

P.s. I’d love to know where you’re from in your message with a fun fact about the city/country!

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2024/10/27
06:24 UTC

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23 [M4F] Dublin, Ireland - soon to be chemist looking for lifelong chemistry

Hi, my name is Tom and I am a triplet who was born in the US, which means that I have an American passport, but has been living in Ireland all my life. I am in my final year in uni studying a chemistry degree. I got a new job in retail as a sales assistant. In my free time, I like playing video games, eating, watching TV/movies and YouTube, chess, music, comics, travelling and skiing. In addition to Ireland and the US, I have been to 14 countries: UK, France, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Austria, Italy, Malta, Slovakia, Hungary, Slovenia, Croatia, Bulgaria and Canada. As for skiing, I have skiied in 2 countries, Austria (mainly) and the US.

It has been over 6 years since I last went on a date with a girl. I was 17. I was even on dating apps, like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, but with no luck. I'm still getting matches, but no dates. I always get ghosted, left on read or even worse, being unmatched after having some great conversations! Well, that's why I turned to Reddit, because I didn't know you could put personal ads there. I thought it more of a place asking for advice. But I was wrong. I guess I have a new dating app? Hopefully, my long period of loneliness will come to an end. I am looking for a girl who likes the same things as I do and can talk for hours, about our mutual interests and anything!

In terms of physical appearance, I am an average looking ginger haired man with blue eyes. I have no tattoos or piercings and I don't drink or smoke. I also don't take drugs. I prefer staying at home, rather than going out, but would be happy going on daytrips and exploring new places with my partner. That includes holidays as well.

I would like my partner to be similar to me, i.e. introverted and doesn't like partying or clubbing. It would be also great if you don't drink, smoke or take drugs. I also do not want kids, you should be the same. I tend to be attracted to girls who have a normal BMI, i.e. 18.5 - 24.9. In terms of location, my partner would be from Ireland, but I'm open to long distance as long as you're from Europe or America and is willing to relocate to Ireland in the future. Other than Reddit, I also have Facebook, Discord and WhatsApp. We can easily move to these apps if the vibe is good and can progress to sharing pictures and calling.

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2024/10/26
19:31 UTC

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26m entp im looking for a female Infj, Intj or enfp

If you wanna have chat just lmk

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2024/10/26
18:25 UTC

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26M ENFJ looking for more ENFJ friends.

I have not encountered many ENFJ's in my life - at all - and I've been mildly curious to get acquainted with more. Open to meeting IRL if things go well online and we end up being local. I live in the Canadian 🇨🇦 province of Ontario. Also somewhat interested in getting acquainted with more INFJ's. Comment or DM me. :)

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2024/10/26
16:04 UTC

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