/r/MBTIDating

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Certain personalities work well together, but you knew that already, didn't you? /r/MBTIDating is a R4R style personals and dating advice subreddit for the 16 Myers-Briggs (MBTI) personality types.

Do you want to find someone exactly like you or completely opposite? If you know your MBTI score, go ahead and look for your match. If you don't know your MBTI, find out here: 16personalities.com

This subreddit is for 18+ only

Posting

All personal posts must match the following format; personal posts not conforming to the formatting are subject to removal and resubmission. If you are submitting links or images that are NSFW, please mark the posts as NSFW as appropriate.

<age> [mbti] [r4r] <location> - <title>

Legend

  • M -> Male
  • F -> Female
  • FT -> Female Transgender
  • MT -> Male Transgender
  • R -> All Redditors

Tag examples

[M4F] [F4M] [M4M] [F4F] [M4A] [F4FT] [MT4M] [MF4F] [FF4F]

Post title examples

  • 27 [INTJ] [F4M] NYC - Interested in meeting ENTP, ENTJ.
  • 30 [INFP] [M4F] San Francisco, CA - Looking to meeting anyone who doesn't mind dating an I.
  • 38 [ENFJ&ENTJ] [MF4F] Atlanta, GA - Opened minded couple looking for opened minded female. Would like to meet an E.

Suggested Subreddits

All MBTI Multi-reddit

SJ, Guardians

ESTJ ESFJ ISTJ ISFJ

SP, Realists

ESTP ESFP ISTP ISFP

NF, Idealists

ENFP ENFJ INFP INFJ

NT, Rationalists

ENTP ENTJ INTP INTJ

/r/MBTIDating

9,521 Subscribers

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INTP (M36)

Just looking for someone to talk to online.

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2024/11/03
19:44 UTC

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20 [INFP] [M4F] Looking for a wonderful soul

Hello,

I'm Neptune (20M). I'm currently pursuing engineering. I don't know why I took it but I like it so far. I am fond of cinema, writing, nature, books, philosophy and love to have profound conversation.

I believe one of the most important thing in life is to have good people around you, people who are valuable to you and people who value you.

I am looking for someone valuable. Someone I could care about and someone who cares about me. Having love for someone doesn't necessarily mean it has to get physical or it has to get complicated. It's just being there for the other person and genuinely caring for them. I wouldn't ask much from you. Just to be there, just to talk and I'll do the same.

Life is a wonderful journey. Full of possibilities to explore. Full of fascinating things. It's a wonderful feeling to have someone with whom you could explore it. Not completely ofc but a part of it. I am looking for a connection where we could help out each other grow in life and just care for the other person. Where we could have deep conversations that take us beyond our understanding, that help us step into the unknown.

Please be around my age and from Europe or Asia due to timezone reasons.

Thanks for reading!

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2024/11/03
11:03 UTC

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27[M4F] Lithuania/ Anywhere - Affectionate and Romantic ENFP looking for a lasting relationship [Detailed Post]

I hope to find a kind-hearted woman to build a lasting relationship with. Genuine and kind, someone I can talk to about anything and everything. I want a partner who's excited to share their knowledge and experiences with me, grow together, learn new things from each other, and connect on a deeper level. You can share your thoughts and ideas with me, and I'll be happy to discuss all kinds of topics. I want us to build a wholesome relationship where being there for each other is enough.

( My photo is in profile)

This part is about what I'm looking for in a relationship: - Mutual love and respect and care, my chest will be your pillow while we binge episodes and watch a lot of things while cuddling, romantic dinners, cooking together, enjoying life to the fullest , holding hands while walking , going to the beach, traveling to new places, trying new things and experiencing what life has to offer together :) . Being there for each other through good and bad times . You can always count on me and tell me everything, I will be the shoulder you can lean on. I'm very romantic and I have a lot of love to give. When we are together expect me to always hug you, kiss you on your forehead, hold your hands and express my love to you and how much you mean to me while I look deeply into your eyes . Romantic moments and lovely things like giving each other pet names, making you bed surprise breakfasts. Tons of Cuddles and hugs . I will always sheer you up, motivate you, and help you . I'll always be there for you.

Regarding religion, I'm agnostic (Doesn't believe in religion but believes there is a creator maybe). I'm still searching for the truth, so I don't have a problem with you being from any religion.

As for my physical attributes, I have light brown skin, black hair, and brown eyes, average looking guy. I used to train in calisthenics and weightlifting, but I had to stop due to shoulder injuries. Personality-wise, I'm an ENFP MBTI type with a bubbly, caring, affectionate, patient, and ambitious personality. I'm easy-going, non-judgmental, and an ambivert depending on the day. I have a good sense of humor and always make my friends laugh. My hobbies and sports include running, calisthenics, cycling, cooking, and hiking. I enjoy reading, playing video games, traveling, camping, watching movies, TV shows, documentaries, and anime.

I can speak give languages and hope to learn more in the future. I love to do many activities like having long walks and exploring new places. When it comes to indoors, I'm very creative at finding ways to enjoy our time. I love discussing all kinds of topics; we can talk about anything from history, geography, cinema, sports, religion, philosophy, languages, food, politics, spirituality, video games, travel, cultures, technology, and more.

When it comes to films, TV shows, and anime, it's hard to pick favorites, so you can ask me later. As for music, I enjoy classic hip-hop, rap, rock/post-rock, jazz, 80s music, some metal, classic, ambient, pop, and soundtracks. I used to watch anime growing up, and I still enjoy it, but I don't watch it as much as years go by, still watching certain weekly releases.

Thank you for reading through all this! If you're interested, please contact me through DM or chat. Introduce yourself and tell me a bit about you, write more than Hey.

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2024/11/03
11:03 UTC

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infp males pls send help!

A friend of mine (infp-t/february aquarius) recently confessed to me and now we're kinda dating. we'd talk so much online but we are unable to see each other irl that often. however when we do he'd sometimes give attention to my best friend like joking around with her with physical interactions sometimes. he does that to me pretty often too, but not sure if he often does this to others as well. somebody tell me if this is normal/pure friendship?? dunno what goes in infp/aquarius's mind. im currently trying to find a good chance to ask him but i am curious about other infps' views on this!!

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2024/11/03
08:45 UTC

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36[F4M] I'm looking for a demisexual hopeless romantic [INTJ]

I don't want to die without finding the love of my love, so here's my attempt.

I want to be in a relationship with someone to grow together. I want us to discover ourselves and the world. I want us to enjoy the silence together and be able to talk for hours about deep stuff. I want us to be completely open and honest, to be able to talk about everything without the fear of judgment. I want us to get to know each other on a deeper level and find lots of small things to love about each other. I want us to never lose our curiousity and learn new things everyday.

I'm not really good at talking about myself. I'm just looking for someone who wants a deeper connection.

I don't know what might be a dealbreaker for you, but here are some that might be:

-I'm chubby, and I'm not good-looking

-I don't want to have children

-I don't smoke, drink alcohol or use drugs

-I'm not that talkative

-I have depression

-I don't want to live in the city

-I'm a serious person

-I don't like swimming, clubbing, partying, politics, football

-I don't know what else, you can ask me anything

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2024/11/02
06:54 UTC

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Hi! infp 34 [M4F] Searching for my sweet soulmate. Long-term only. ♡

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2024/11/01
19:02 UTC

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27 M ENFJ Australian

Hello I'm hoping to find someone right for me and I hope you might be the one. I'm looking only for people in Australia and New Zealand I got out of a long distance relationship a while ago and dont want that again. I also hope to find a gamer to share my fav hobbie with. With that said I'm very open minded I'm attacted to feminity and would date females to femboys

as this is my first post Idk what to put down here but any questions feel free to ask

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2024/10/28
18:34 UTC

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[M4F] INTJ-T LOOKING FOR ENFP OR INFP.(motive:- find my soulmate??)

I'm called Tejas by my folks around me. I'm pursuing degree in computer science maintaining good pointer. Since I knew mbti I use NiTe to specifically type people by observing them that's the kink I've developed since I knew mbti. Feel free to state any fact and I'm in, be ready for a long lasting convo because I'll be needing all your counter points. Being a turbulent I just can't let my mind rest I'm a constant engine running and staying cautious and aware of situations, taking inputs and analysing it. And I really just need a mental stimulating person in my life hope it could be youuuu yes you are you the one ? Please respond to my muffled moans of crying inside . I've been mentally exhausted all my life I haven't met anyone who can stimulate my brain with some really interesting conversations.

I've been just taken lightly or looked as an alien in this world since I was small all my life has been like this

please I hope you're the one yes you!! I just hope ........ I'm 5'9 asian-indian fit physic

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2024/10/28
18:26 UTC

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29 [M4F] INFJ Searching for His Soulmate 😇

(Sorry for the redundant title 🤭)

I am a 29 year old Portuguese male, INFJ, 1.72m, 68kg and leaving the conversion for imperial units as a challenge to the reader 😎

When I am not trying to make the world a better place (at least to the ones I share my days with), I enjoy visiting quiet places, relaxing, watching series, keep learning and recharging my empathy.

Empathy is exactly what I am searching for on someone. Putting mutual understanding first, taking care of each other, not giving up at the first adversity.

I am open to all personality types, with preference for intuitive ones (xNxx).

Feel free to message me!

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2024/10/28
18:19 UTC

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24 M INFJ

Hi. I'm a classic textbook infj male, from Bangalore, India. I'm 24 years old. A working professional in IT-R&D.I had a bad and first break up recently, so kind of averted towards love or something. But I've been feeling very lonely lately. So maybe, of you'd like to talk, then we could build a friendship. And if things turns out fruitful, we will see where it takes us.

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2024/10/27
21:46 UTC

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[M4A/F] 21M INTJ looking for xNFP friend/romantic connections

As the title said, I’m a 21 years old male INTJ-A living in west coast US. Still in college studying health sciences and hopefully apply to med school after undergrad. I feel like allocating some of my time for socializing and developing long-lasting connections starting now and would love to make some friends :) I’m really open to any type but specifically find INFP/ENFPs attractive (the way they see the world so artistically/creatively always amazes me).

Interests: Road trip (love the planning and driving part), hiking (very frequently), coffee, philosophy/neuroscience, Star Wars, sim games (currently grinding on flight sim)

Please feel free to either dm or leave a comment below to get conversations going! I’d love to see how far I could go with this and hopefully I might actually end up with a few quality connections!

P.s. I’d love to know where you’re from in your message with a fun fact about the city/country!

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2024/10/27
06:24 UTC

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23 [M4F] Dublin, Ireland - soon to be chemist looking for lifelong chemistry

Hi, my name is Tom and I am a triplet who was born in the US, which means that I have an American passport, but has been living in Ireland all my life. I am in my final year in uni studying a chemistry degree. I got a new job in retail as a sales assistant. In my free time, I like playing video games, eating, watching TV/movies and YouTube, chess, music, comics, travelling and skiing. In addition to Ireland and the US, I have been to 14 countries: UK, France, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Austria, Italy, Malta, Slovakia, Hungary, Slovenia, Croatia, Bulgaria and Canada. As for skiing, I have skiied in 2 countries, Austria (mainly) and the US.

It has been over 6 years since I last went on a date with a girl. I was 17. I was even on dating apps, like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, but with no luck. I'm still getting matches, but no dates. I always get ghosted, left on read or even unworse, being unmatched after having some great conversations! Well, that's why I turned to Reddit, because I didn't know you could put personal ads there. I thought it more of a place asking for advice. But I was wrong. I guess I have a new dating app? Hopefully, my long period of loneliness will come to an end. I am looking for a girl who likes the same things as I do and can talk for hours, about our mutual interests and anything!

In terms of physical appearance, I am an average looking ginger haired man with blue eyes. I have no tattoos or piercings and I don't drink or smoke. I also don't take drugs. I prefer staying at home, rather than going out, but would be happy going on daytrips and exploring new places with my partner. That includes holidays as well.

I would like my partner to be similar to me, i.e. introverted and doesn't like partying or clubbing. It would be also great if you don't drink, smoke or take drugs. I also do not want kids, you should be the same. I tend to be attracted to girls who have a normal BMI, i.e. 18.5 - 24.9. In terms of location, my partner would be from Ireland, but I'm open to long distance as long as you're from Europe or America and is willing to relocate to Ireland in the future. Other than Reddit, I also have Facebook, Discord and WhatsApp. We can easily move to these apps if the vibe is good and can progress to sharing pictures and calling.

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2024/10/26
19:31 UTC

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26m entp im looking for a female Infj, Intj or enfp

If you wanna have chat just lmk

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2024/10/26
18:25 UTC

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26M ENFJ looking for more ENFJ friends.

I have not encountered many ENFJ's in my life - at all - and I've been mildly curious to get acquainted with more. Open to meeting IRL if things go well online and we end up being local. I live in the Canadian 🇨🇦 province of Ontario. Also somewhat interested in getting acquainted with more INFJ's. Comment or DM me. :)

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2024/10/26
16:04 UTC

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M4F INTJ 28M looking to talk with a more compatible MBTI type.

Aint got much else to say.

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2024/10/25
01:09 UTC

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23 M INTJ looking for someone to talk with

About me (not that it'd matter since it's definitely gonna be something long distance):

INTJ-A, Type-5

Somewhere from Southeast Asia,famous for their hospitality and a habit of voting morons into office repeteadly.

Average Height.

Buff,both genetics and lifestyle to thank for that

Fair skintone except for arms since I like to wear tank tops since they're not restrictive.

I was told I look cute by both my coworkers and students,but then again I don't take compliments to heart since there's also a rational explanation why'd those people tell me that alas, you'd be the judge.

Has a short social battery except if the conversation is engaging,still have to end/delay calls and chats though if I feel like I'm spent or an errand comes up (I'm an instructor at a university).

Fluent in English, somewhat tolerable in German.

As mentioned I have a job so expect my communication to be inconsistent,but I'd do my best to make every chat or call count to make up for it.

VERY private in my social life,if we ever reach that part where we follow each other on social media don't expect me to have my entire life hung out for people to see,most of what I post is either memes or stuff I get manic over. I don't stalk around accounts,even if we're dating, I don't really like touching other people's private business so I don't mind of you talk to a lot of people or whatever,just don't drag me all across the internet either.

What I'm looking for:

Someone to talk to as mentioned, preferably someone who's intelligent,has at least minimal amounts internet culture since I do like to share memes and stuff.

Preferably also attractive? I don't go for looks alone but it's a factor nonetheless.

At least decent amounts of emotional intelligence as well as maturity. I dislike being smothered,nor do I enjoy dealing with someone irrational,even my family knows better than to throw a tantrum when I'm around.

Preferably around 19-30 years old.

No single moms or married people, I've already got enough clingy people to deal with as it is.

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2024/10/22
17:52 UTC

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27 [M4F] Sweden/Anywhere - Looking for someone to have many deep conversations with!

ENTP 7w8 mainly looking for XXFX women! :)

Heya,

Whoever is reading this I hope you have a wonderful day! I love connecting with my fellow humans and learning about what makes you you! What are your experiences? Highest highs, lowest lows? Let's talk about everything! :D

What I'm looking for
Somebody that also enjoys deep and abstract conversations about psychology, philosophy, futurism, music, or whatever excites your noggin! :)

Somebody that is ok with me gaming or even better, games themselves! :) This is really important to me. This does not mean that I neglect anything or anyone to play more, but it's something I'm passionate about! :)

I'm mainly looking for something that eventually becomes romantic in nature (if we really hit it off) but I'm also always looking for people that strictly want more friends. I'm okay with moving anywhere to close the LDR gap. :D

Talk to somebody else if
You want a short-term chat, I'm not at all interested in chatting for a day and then never talking again, I want to talk to other people that also want something long-term.

If you want/have kids, I'm sure I want to be child-free :)

I prefer people from Europe due to time zones but could work out regardless but less chance of us meeting irl and/or being able to do things together. :)

About me
Extroverted, curious, talkative, happy, and a pretty low-maintenance person. Not religious but fine with others being as long as you are not extreme and trying to convert people lmao. I like being around animals and nature, learning new things, or making something cool in Photoshop or Figma! My hobbies are going to concerts/museums (mainly listen to metal but I will try anything!), gaming, cooking, and hanging out/gaming with my friends/family! :) My favorite topics to research are cryptids, conspiracies, cool animals, history, or linguistics so I can share a lot of cool facts about those topics! :D

Some conversation starters!
How long have you been interested in MBTI and known your type?

What is your most controversial opinion?

What's your favorite animal? I will give you a fun fact about said animal in return! :D

Biggest lifehack?

Most random thing to happen to you in your life?

Any ghost/cryptid/etc encounters?

What is your wacky solution to the global housing problem?

What do you perceive to be your purpose in this life? (no wrong answers here! :D)

Do you have any radical opinions on cheese?

If you read everything so far thank you and have a cookie! (Feel free to message me even if this post is old, if this post is up, then I'm still looking :D)

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2024/10/21
18:44 UTC

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24F INTP looking for friends

Hi

I want to socialize to overcome my social anxiety. I'm looking for people to talk with, or maybe even friends.

I like games (right now gacha games and old games), random yt videos and wikipedia articles at 3 am, mbti and socionics, sometimes I crochet cute toys.

So... What's your favorite song? I want to expand my playlist

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2024/10/20
21:44 UTC

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28M INTP looking for his partner

Hi, I’m new here and I’m looking for a partner, female. Though an INTP, I’m in touch with my emotions and I’m empathic. Let’s have a conversation if you’d like to talk a quirky person who’s a weird mix of logic and emotion

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2024/10/17
08:29 UTC

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33M INTP. Seeking mature people with genuine personalities.

I know it takes a certain chemistry even for friendships to work out, so I'm making this post expecting that not everyone who replies will be compatible. If we're meant to have more than just an introductory conversation, it will happen naturally and feel mutual. If we're not, that's okay.

I'm a mature and empathetic person. I'm logical but in tune with, and perceptive to, feelings and emotions as well. I like talking about peoples' interests even if I don't know much about them myself. If there's something you wish you had more friends who were into to talk about it, lay it on me. I'm an active listener and if it does happen to be something I know about, all the better.

It's easy enough to meet new people online these days, so we can fall into the trap of being lazy and putting the burden of impressing us upon the other person and moving on when the monkey's dance is no longer amusing. I'm not here for such an acquaintance of utility or to only fill a void in your otherwise boring day. I'm here for something genuine and mutual that starts with a foundation of respect and can grow into whatever it may.

Some of my interests/entertainments: Documentaries/Movies/TV, books and audiobooks, swimming, gaming, hiking/walking, cooking, volunteering.

I'm educated and work full time. I live on my own. I mostly eat healthy and keep myself fit, but I do have a weakness for ice cream. I am on the west coast (US).

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2024/10/16
19:58 UTC

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21F Enfp looking for Infj M

Hi there....I am 21year old female in India Ap vizag looking for Infjs especially India incase if it's vizag I'll be the happiest.....

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2024/10/16
17:53 UTC

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22f INFP F4A looking for friends

Hello I'm looking for some long-term, meaningful connections ! I'm in college atm, so I'm sometimes busy during the week but I would love to come home to your beautiful dm <3. Some of my likes are psychology, horror, games (pc), collecting plushies, my dog, idk caffeine & other things i can’t think of rn. My enneagram is 4w5 if you're into that. I'm definitely on the more introverted side, but I enjoy learning all abt new people (tell me some of your lore). I'm not against anything romantic cus ya never know, but friends are cool for now. I like intuitives of all types everything has it's pros & cons so no preference. Hmu if you like!

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2024/10/16
11:58 UTC

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[19] [M] Shy and lonely boi INFP

I wanna new friend, maybe a new relationship, the title explains itself lol, DM me or something, otherwise have a good day ❤️

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2024/10/16
01:00 UTC

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39M ENTP Canadian Pacific Northwest

Oh yes, the wonders of Myers-Briggs!

It's usually just a forum that devolves into degenerate mems or arguments about astrology. But at its core. I really do enjoy the function stack theory.

I'm here on the West coast! I'm pursuing my captain's ticket and hoping to work on boats. I live on a sailboat on Vancouver Island. I have a wonderful bengle cat who is a great sailor.

I'm hoping to have some conversations with somebody that is local enough that we don't call it. A long-distance relationship. Luckily I'm flexible in travel.

But dating is tough! Hopefully we can make it easy to connect together!

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2024/10/14
16:57 UTC

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Need a stranger

I'm 19 ENFP T. I'm here to meet a stranger who wouldn't talk about sex or luxury goods or like other superficial materialistic fake things of this world. Who'll have genuine human conversion. All type is welcomed but spoiler alert I don't really hit off with anyone but INTJ,ISTJ,ENFP,INFP,INFJ and ENTP.

SERIOUS CATCH btw

we will continue to be strangers. I don't wanna know your name, where you are from, what's your age, gender, grade, profession or anything. I'll be raw honest self with you you'll be raw honest self with me.

If you have any weird fetish, have victim mentality, loves to complain about life instead of getting your hands dirty, or like just an uncomfortable vibe, respectfully please don't text. I'm just too traumatized rn to handle that.

thank you

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2024/10/14
14:16 UTC

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32F intp looking for xntp xntj

32 F intp looking for Xntj, xntp male from pakistan or any Muslim About me I'm from Pakistan and I am looking for a serious relationship but I have had no luck. All the dating apps r doing me no good.

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2024/10/14
11:40 UTC

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25M ENTP [M4A] I want my new international friends

Hi my reddit ID tells the whole story to you !! Haha

So , these are my interests , ahem , namely -

Piano , guitar, singing , chess , reading self development books , pyschology books , philosophical debates on yt , F1 , foodie , going out for fun , Anime - One piece, Naruto are my favourite , I am a cinephile .

Expecting good friends and I donot ghost you unless you are not interested in making friends haha.

I would love to adopt some introverts and extroverts into my life !!

Hit me up.....I'm waiting and excited!!!!

Welcome!!!! My international friends!!!!

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2024/10/14
10:31 UTC

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23 [F4A] East Coast looking for love and friends 💗

I really love xNTJ wlw y'all are the best. xSTPs and xNFxs too. I think I'm homoromantic so I mostly would want to try to find girls to date!! But l'm open to men too.

If not l also just need more intuitive friends!! Especially xNFx it always feels like we understand each other the best.

I'm into creative writing fiction stories, graphic design, making music. I used to game when I was younger and I would wanna get back into that!!

The way I look: 5'3 curly hair kind of alt casual grunge style baggy pants crop tops.

2 Comments
2024/10/14
09:13 UTC

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21F ENFP…. Hi!

I’ve seen a lot of ENFPs say that they’ve matched really well with INFJs? I don’t have an INFJ in my life currently, so I’d love to meet one! But I’m still down to meet anyone!I’m not sure how this works but I guess I can give it a try! I live in the Central US and it gets a little boring out here so I love meeting new people. And hey, if something comes out of this, that’d be nice too. I was a big fantasy/period drama reader back in the day and am currently trying to get back into it. I am an engineering student currently (almost done!). I like to draw and sketch a lottt. I’m a big fan of anything romance, comedy, or horror as long as it’s not overwhelmingly sad. Sad movies are the bane of my existence 😭. If you want to feel like the funniest person in the world, just have one conversation with me (I laugh at everything I can’t help myself). I attend Renaissance fairs once a year and love to dress up for any occasion. Rollercoasters and other similar thrills are my version of fun. But I also life finding new activities to enjoy (i.e. jazz clubs, rollerskating). I take friendships and relationships very seriously, so no I’m not down for casual anything. Anywho, hope to hear from ya!

7 Comments
2024/10/14
08:18 UTC

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