1. First off, breathe. We're going to get shit done. We always do. We always survive. We always endure. And in the end we'll get to the finish line.

2. Get Finances in order. Potential attacks on healthcare, social security, and IEP plans are imminent so those minding their elders and children will need to immediately investigate options.

3. Health plans, IUDs, tubal ligations, medication so more inexpensive options (canada) etc. Offer to drive your partners, sisters, neices, cousins to the doctors to take care of themselves and what they need. VACCINATIONS are critical to prioritise for children and our elderly. Not just the flu and covid booster, we're talking measles and shingles too.

4. Stockpile. With impending tariff plans, even if they don't go through - the wide variety of asian imports will rise in price. This include all asian food imports. This means that families and small businesses and restaurants will be directly impacted. Additionally, if undocumented work force gets mass deported, farmers and the agricultural industry are going to be dramatically disabled. Food and groceries are absolutely not going to be cheaper.

5. Support your local minority owned businesses. They will need all the resources that they can.

6. Hate harassment and violence will increase. Be mindful and careful for yourself and those you love. If you don't already have personal safety measures, you are overdue to think hard about that.

7. Get legal affairs in order. Documentation, identification, wedding certifications, passports, etc. Have multiple copies both digitally and physically available to you and trusted individuals. If you were on the fence about divorce, DO IT NOW. Project 2025 is going after no fault divorce.

8. Collect your contacts: Immigration, community advocacy, legal professionals, etc.

9. Talk with your family and neighbors. Now is the time for very difficult and uncomfortable conversations and realizations.

10. Financially support organizations that support our community. If they are able to accept volunteers and you have time, they are going to be very very very busy.

11. Join lobbyist groups that can protect our rights. There are loads that will need us to do phone calls, letters, etc.

Any others? I'm not a professional by any means but from reading up on so much of what's happening, I'm trying to put together a proactive help guideline. Please, let's discuss and then roll up our sleeves.

Me and my pals built together three mostly Safe For Work, mixed and inclusive subreddit communities for everything centered on adult women and gender variant people after our totally private and inclusive group chat room grew so big that we had to build a subreddit community.

We currently have more than 1600 member users and more than 195 posts with image descriptions accessible for visually impaired people added to the large collection of diverse content growing with new additions almost daily in our subreddit community called r/GalsAndPals that we built because of popular demand.

r/GalsAndPals is as a mostly Safe For Work and inclusive safe space built for everything centered on adult people who at least partly somehow identify with unconventional womanhood, including top, verse, dominant, switchy, gentlewomanly, girlboss, punky, tomboyish, futchy, butchy, ursine, crossdressing, androgynous, intersex, altersex, transy, transbianish, genderfluid, and genderqueer woman-ish people, but anyone is welcome to post here as long as they are respectful pals to the gals and request mod permission.

We currently also have more than 220 member users and more than 35 posts with image descriptions accessible for visually impaired people added to the large collection of diverse content growing with new additions almost daily in our subreddit community called r/DollsAndPals that we also built because of popular demand.

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We also currently have more than 360 member users and more than 160 posts with image descriptions accessible for visually impaired people added to the large collection of diverse content growing with new additions almost daily in our subreddit community called r/GuysAndPals that we also built because of popular demand.

r/GuysAndPals is a mostly Safe For Work and inclusive safe space built for everything centered on adult people who at least partly somehow identify with unconventional manhood, including bottom, verse, subby, switchy, malewifey, househusband, twinkish, softboyish, femboyish, ladylike, crossdressing, androgynous, intersex, altersex, transy, transbianish, genderfluid, and genderqueer man-ish people, but anyone is welcome to post here as long as they are respectful pals to the guys and request mod permission.

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Idk if anyone has seen the Oxford study comments and trend on TikTok but it’s to point out the high number of relationships between Asian woman and white men and make this point that such big statistics show that Asian women worship white men or that they’d prefer a mid white guy over anything else.

This is quite literally the dumbest fucking thing I’ve seen in a while, not just because of how absurdly illogical it is but how all these incels of color justify this as to why their eighth grade Asian crush liked a white guy over them instead of their lack of social skills. And I’m not even the audience who’s attacked by this since I primarily date and like Asian men 😭. I promise you, if you had a personality and didn’t spew out sexist rhetoric, you would have a chance. But no self respecting Asian woman wants to get with a partner who talks shit abt them like that.

Jokes aside, it’s more depressing than hurtful that men within our culture are saying stupid shit like this. For them to be so obsessed of “preserving culture” and blaming women for the decline in homogenous relationships, has it ever come to them as to WHY there’s been stereotypes of Asian women preferring white men (newsflash: military imperialism). And I would bet money that they barely address the problems within their own cultural community (e.g. rape, digital sex exploitation, domestic violence) whilst blaming Asian women for “worshipping” white men, when’s the last time you had a genuine conversation with your own mother?

This is more of an annoyed rant if anything bc I’ve been seeing way too many influencers and chronically online commenters say shit that make me lose brain cells. I promise you there are Asian women out there who gasp date and like Asian men???? I hope once you stop frothing at the mouth and do something productive like placing your self worth outside of being in a romantic relationship will there come progress.

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i’ve been thinking about this for a while, especially since asian fishing has become more and more rampant on platforms like instagram and tik tok.

i might lose some here, but i don’t really even think the makeup is the problem. i think it’s also problematic to blindly point fingers at someone who you may look asian wearing makeup when you don’t know what they look like without makeup. i’ve most commonly seen this within native/latina/sometimes polish girls. they are the most likely to have “asian” features naturally.

while i think it is important to acknowledge the ones who purposely elongate their eyes or somehow make their facial structure and nose look asian (i don’t know how they do it and it’s scary), i think it’s more so a problem with how these asian fishers ACT.

i honestly wouldn’t have much of a problem at all with how any of these people do their makeup if they didn’t do those dumbass ahego or “cutesy” faces to go along with it.

that’s where i think the problem lies. it’s how they act like, for lack of better words, a CHILD. and it disgusts me every time.

it annoys me to no end how they can put on some makeup, go on the internet, further perpetrate the negative stereotypes against asian women, then take off the makeup and live their life as a (usually) white woman. it just irks me so much and i needed to talk about it.

so all in all, it bothers me how a lot of people on the internet are focusing on the wrong people, like micro analyzing whether a girls eyes are REALLY that small or hooded or if she’s asianfishing, when we should really focus on the people who solidify those stereotypes against us.

Welcome to our weekly r/AsianTwoX thread where we add more discussion regarding topics important to Asian women that might not be enough to spark a standalone thread.

Feel free to talk about anything and everything! Make sure your posts are within the scope and rules of the sub.

As before, we also have our mod team available during this time to snuff out any disrespectful comments that may break our rules.
#Let's discuss!

Me and my pals built together three mostly Safe For Work, mixed and inclusive subreddit communities for everything centered on adult women and gender variant people after our totally private and inclusive group chat room grew so big that we had to build a subreddit community.

We currently have more than 1300 member users and more than 100 posts with image descriptions accessible for visually impaired people in the large collection of diverse content growing with new additions almost daily in our older subreddit community called r/GalsAndPals that we built because of popular demand as a mostly Safe For Work and inclusive safe space built for everything centered on adult people who at least partly somehow identify with unconventional womanhood, including top, verse, dominant, switchy, gentlewomanly, girlboss, tomboyish, futchy, butchy, ursine, crossdressing, androgynous, intersex, altersex, transy, transbianish, genderfluid, and genderqueer woman-ish people, but anyone is welcome to post here as long as they are respectful pals to the gals and request mod permission.

We currently also have more than 140 member users in our younger subreddit community called r/DollsAndPals that we are also building because of popular demand as a mostly Safe For Work and inclusive safe space built for everything centered on adult people who at least partly somehow identify with conventional womanhood, including bottom, verse, subby, switchy, ladylike, femme, futchy, androgynous, intersex, altersex, transy, transbianish, genderfluid, and genderqueer woman-ish people, but anyone is welcome to post here as long as they are respectful pals to the dolls and request mod permission.

We also currently have more than 260 member users and more than 80 posts with image descriptions accessible for visually impaired people in the large collection of diverse content growing with new additions almost daily in our subreddit community called r/GuysAndPals that we are also building because of popular demand as a mostly Safe For Work and inclusive safe space built for everything centered on adult people who at least partly somehow identify with unconventional manhood, including bottom, verse, subby, switchy, malewifey, twinkish, softboyish, femboyish, ladylike, crossdressing, androgynous, intersex, altersex, transy, transbianish, genderfluid, and genderqueer man-ish people, but anyone is welcome to post here as long as they are respectful pals to the guys and request mod permission.

We do have some basic respect safety guideline expectations written in the rules page section of our subreddit communities to help sustain the health of our groups as inclusive safer spaces free of judgement and harm that you should read.

We are inclusive of transy, transbianish, transfeminine, transandrogynous, transmasculine, detrans, retrans, genderfluid, and genderqueer people in all three of our subreddit communities.

Anyone is welcome to be in our community subreddits and contribute posting, but ONLY AS LONG AS they are RESPECTFUL WITH EVERYONE AND HAVE already had a sent MOD PERMISSION REQUEST APPROVED, because our subreddits have changed status from being totally private communities to being a somewhat restricted communities.

Our subreddits are only currently temporarily somewhat restricted for being in an experimental early development stage until becoming more accessible, public and welcoming after a time when we are more prepared enough to deal with more diverse types of visitors having access to our place.

If you may be feeling interested in joining, just drop a comment here below or send a moderator mail message to get permission granted to be able to post in one or all of our subreddits or if you want support to create another group.

Also make sure to check out our long creative, diverse and inclusive lists of silly and cute user flairs and post sections, especially the "Transcribed" and "User Introductions" post sections, to familiarize yourself with examples of how and what content is posted in our communities.

The moderation is always open to answering questions and clearing doubts.

No need to be shy as we do not bite.

Welcome to our weekly r/AsianTwoX thread where we add more discussion regarding topics important to Asian women that might not be enough to spark a standalone thread.

Feel free to talk about anything and everything! Make sure your posts are within the scope and rules of the sub.

As before, we also have our mod team available during this time to snuff out any disrespectful comments that may break our rules.
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I get enough harassments from men in my own country for criticizing misogyny, but apparently you also get harassed outside of Asia such as here on Reddit. Apparently, some of them are Asians living outside of Asia like Asian-Americans. Obviously not ALL of them are like that, but there's something wrong with the Asian culture that wants to maintain misogyny?

In my country you get the usual "Oh you must be Chinese/Korean/Japanese etc.", while here apparently it's "Oh you must be a white person LARPing as an Asian". So which is it? lol. Their cookie-cutter responses are getting old.