There was a recent thread on r/AskGaybrosOver30 asking if guys never chase and only get chased.

I responded saying I don’t chase because I’m a POC and where I live, some guys explicitly won’t date you if you’re not white.  

I therefore date on an “opt in” basis.  I might be missing out on guys who are more introverted but I make that choice over dealing with rejection solely based on my race. 

Wonder if others do the same, or how they navigate racism if living in white communities.

As an expat living alone in Selangor. Looking for some friends to hangout and chitchat... Btw, i am in PJ near the curve ;)

I've always had an attraction to Asian (including Indian) guys, since I first saw Bruce Lee in "Enter the Dragon" in my early teen years. So I hope this is not fetishizing or objectifying in saying I like everything about you from your slim bodies to your smooth skin and tone - to your generally gentle nature. I'm a 6' and 76kg European white Australian - and a (already partnered, in open relationship) bottom. But I only seem to attract OTHER bottoms, among Asian gay guys I meet.

Am I wasting my time looking for a from 6-foot-tall Asian guy who is a TOP - as a casual fuck-buddy?

Does anyone have information on the prevalence of HIV among patrons of gay saunas in Taiwan? Also, how common is it for guys to take PrEP in Taiwan? I know it's not covered by NHI and it's expensive, so I'm assuming not many guys can afford it.

I guess there might be some data in Taiwanese sites, but I don't know Mandarin

No need to read the spoiler below if you're not interested in the context of my possible exposure. Just answering the questions above is already helpful, thanks!

!Had unprotected sex in Hi-Man, Kaohsiung. I thought I was on on-demand PrEP, but only afterwards I realised that I actually had accidentally skipped a day. So instead of 2-1-1, I was on 2-0-1(sex)-1, which most likely means that I was unprotected. The guy finished inside me and after the deed I noticed I had some bleeding.!<

!Now 18 days later I'm feeling mild flu-like symptoms. It might be just a coincidence, but I'm panicking regardless and can barely sleep. I will never stop kicking myself for not getting PEP while I could. It's expensive, but being HIV+ for life is so much more expensive, and not just regarding money...!<

Hey all! :) Landed in Amsterdam Sunday until Sunday the 3rd !! Looking to connect with people to do activities, chat, eat and drink ! Let me know if you would be interested or know someone who would be ! :)

Tried a few apps but was very unsuccessful lol. My profile is as follow: asian, 38, professional and part time massage therapist, foodie, average boy next door look!

I am just browsing around and seeing which states to move and where to invest in a property but I want to live somewhere close to LBGTQ+ Asians. Thanks!

Hi guys, I have an opportunity to get accepted for study abroad program for university in the future, and I'm very excited about it. Right now my goal is a program in Prague that looks great, and I was wondering if anybody here had any experiences in that city? I've heard it's an open minded and gay friendly city, is this correct? I was wondering if anybody had any experience specifically as a gay east Asian?

I'm not sure how busy I will be, but I'm interested in any advice or tips if you have them!

Now I feel old 🥸☠️

Hanging out in my room doing laundry just thought id post a less provocative photo.

Hope everyone have a great weekend so far, it’s the last one in October before the Halloween week! And if you try FF14 now, there’s a really cool costume you can earn in the game. I swear I don’t work for Square Enix 🤭

Can you guys what I do for a living?

Any gaysians In umass interested in making friends

Probably a longshot here lol but msg me if anyone is up for catching games at a bar tonight

Sadly, It happened to me on the 10/18 evening.