/r/gaysian

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A subreddit for LGBTQ+ Asians by LGBTQ+ Asians!

Welcome!

We are an inclusive space that is dedicated to all things gay and/or asian. Here's a few things to get you started:

  1. READ THE RULES Users who do not follow the subreddit rules will be banned.

  2. Introduce yourself in the weekly Me Monday thread - we love new members of the community :)

  3. We're using Discord as our chat . Go check out https://discord.gg/Smvd9jRfUP and sign up! Please note that our community Discord is for LGBTQ Asian/Pacific Islanders only. Non-lgbt APIs will be asked to leave and their accounts disabled.

  4. Post some relevant content here - we're pretty liberal about what is posted here and think pretty broadly: it can just be gay, it can just be asian, even better it could be gaysian! Just don't get crazy

  5. Please post your selfie on Sundays or /r/gaysiansgonewild (Contrary to the name, you can be as mild as you please) or our friends at /r/AsianLadyBoners. Any selfies posted outside of Sunday will be removed.

Stay in touch

Discord (our chat room)

https://discord.gg/Smvd9jRfUP

Please note that our community Discordis for LGBTQ Asian/Pacific Islanders only. Non-lgbt APIs will be asked to leave and their accounts disabled.

Related Subreddits from the gay side: /r/gaysiansgonewild if you are feeling up to it, and /r/gay

Related Subreddits from the Asian side: /r/AsianLadyboners

/r/Asian

Other resources:

Gaysian Third Space

(If you guys have any suggestions for to make this a better sub-Reddit, please don't hesitate to send the moderators a message! If you want me to put your sub-reddit on the side-bar or the other way around please PM the mods as well!)

/r/gaysian

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lazy Sunday in bed :3

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2024/12/02
10:26 UTC

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you like my pecs? 🥵

10 Comments
2024/12/02
03:49 UTC

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Feeling a bite down and crappy for some reason

3 Comments
2024/12/02
01:10 UTC

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Happy Monday everyone

Happy monday everyone. Hope we all havr a good work week ahead of us all.

1 Comment
2024/12/01
23:41 UTC

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Any suggestions when I am not sure what to do with my life? I am just lost and confuse. I have these feelings for a while now like the past 5 years and I just don't know.

1 Comment
2024/12/01
22:13 UTC

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hello

hello from canada

2 Comments
2024/12/01
21:34 UTC

49

Hey hey 👋

7 Comments
2024/12/01
17:49 UTC

200

Happy December!

9 Comments
2024/12/01
17:42 UTC

4

First time at the Renee Sauce fair

My hubby and sister at the Renaissance fair

0 Comments
2024/12/01
16:06 UTC

94

New month same me lol

4 Comments
2024/12/01
15:06 UTC

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Hello

4 Comments
2024/12/01
13:37 UTC

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I like the blues!!

2 Comments
2024/12/01
13:00 UTC

32

stuffed and bloated :(

8 Comments
2024/12/01
10:29 UTC

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Yoga for Sunday

Stretch open like I did.

2 Comments
2024/12/01
08:06 UTC

49

Photo booths hit different in Korea.

4 Comments
2024/12/01
05:21 UTC

55

Sydney Harbor Bridge 📌

5 Comments
2024/12/01
03:56 UTC

246

Winter Snug Little Geezer

14 Comments
2024/12/01
00:48 UTC

5

Lifetime NYC

Any Gaysians looking for other Gaysian gym buddies? Just signed up for Lifetime Fitness here in NYC. More social than hardcore gym rat here (average body).

4 Comments
2024/11/30
21:07 UTC

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Do You Prefer LA or NYC Better?

Both are the largest cities in the country, but I've heard they're quite different in various ways, especially for gaysians and gay life.

Which one do you prefer and why?

28 Comments
2024/11/30
08:07 UTC

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"Gentlemen" types in the gay Asian dating community - common or not? I'm talking about Mr. Prince charming types.

Hey gaysian reddit,

So I feel like whenever I think about straight heterosexual men, there is almost always a type of guy when dating that is very gentleman type, you know the Prince charming in an Asian drama that all the women like.

But whenever I think about gay Asian men, I almost feel like this is lacking or not as pronounced or as common. And I feel like this is a bit true in real life and in the gay Asian scene. I feel like there is an absence of the mr. Prince charming type that a gay Asian guy would fall for. I'm thinking like a Simi Liu at least or equivalent. Sure there are gay Asian cuties on Instagram but are they seen as Mr Prince charming or the equivalent of an onlyfans star online? I'm sorry if this sounds harsh!

How do you guys feel? Do you guys feel like the mr prince charming type is not as common in the gay Asian scene, in media or in real life?

I hope someone can confirm or disconfirm my thoughts here.

14 Comments
2024/11/30
05:05 UTC

7

busco amigos

quiero conocer personas y hacer amigos ya que soy una persona muy sola, tengo 16 años y soy gay y soy muy buena onda y amable :)

1 Comment
2024/11/29
16:30 UTC

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Queer Recs for Chubby Guys

Hey there! I'm going to Nagoya for a uni program and I'll be living there for 5 months.

I was planning to visit Tokyo and Osaka a few times anyways but I was wondering about the queer scene. I'm a chubby/fat foreigner and I'm not sure where I should be hanging out for clubs, bars, and saunas.

I have been to Daikichi (nothing happened but I like the vibe) and 24 Kaikan Ueno before.

I also might visit Seoul during a break and have no clue what there is to do there for gay guys

Lemme know if yall can recommend anything! Thank you~

0 Comments
2024/11/29
11:58 UTC

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