Im feeling a wee bit confused because i genuinely cant tell if Im trans or if everyone feels this way.. so for reference I am 16 and a female but being a girl doesn’t feel…right. Like something just feels off. I hate how Im perceived as a woman by those around me and I hate being called by my own name. I feel extremely uncomfortable with my body and how feminine I present myself, I dont think I HATE my body but it just doesn’t feel/look right. I’ve thought about it and I have come to the conclusion that I would feel a lot happier and more confident if I was perceived as male, but I feel like doesn’t every girl feel this way? Don’t we all just hate being female? Idk maybe I’m just insecure or something I’m not sure.

So, this is my first Reddit post, and tbh I literally made an account to post it. Basically, I'm somewhat confused on my gender identity and I just really want some outsider opinions. I was born a female, and I've always felt comfortable being a women, and I enjoy "girly" things and enjoy wearing "girly" things and all that, and I've never really considered that I had a different gender or anything. But recently the thought that maybe I could be genderfluid or she/they ir something like that has been on my mind a lot of the time. The thing is I don't really know why this is happening, and I don't think I have many characteristics of wanting a different gender, but I'm just so confused because it's been on my mind SO MUCH. I know for a fact I don't identify as a man, and I feel very comfortable being a women, but I also sorta feel like maybe I wouldn't mind if someone used they/them pronouns to describe me. Tbh I don't know where this is coming from because I like being a girl, but like I've always had some parts of me that like less gendered things, like I'd love to have a grunge style, and I've always wanted to wear a suit, but then also I've always wanted to wear a big ball gown. I'm not new to questioning my identity, I realized I was bi a while ago, but I've just never considered having another gender before. Part of me thinks that I just want something new to discover about myself because I don't feel like I really know who I am right now, and it's been a tough year so I'm trying to find myself and stuff. (I'm also autistic I recently found out Idk if that has anything to do with this) This is probably a very confusing rant but if anyone has any ideas I'm open to suggestions

Hi (13m) I'm starting to wonder if I could be a femboy or something cause like I never felt comfortable in the clothes I wear and I always have wanted to be more feminine so it could be a possiblity

What do I do if I am one.

So recently i (17 F) accepted that I'm probably not straight (bi or pan idk or care) the thing is, basically my whole life people assumed that im lesbian, which didn't really bother me even though i always said i was straight. The thing is my parents and family in general AND country is very homophonic like i can't deal with this shit. So i denied it, like literally gaslighted myself that i am straight just because i do like men and literally convincing myself that like every girl has thought about being with other girls and liking fictional woman isn't gay, stuff like that. (To be honest I'm still not completely sure because real life is different and i really wanna find gf first than be sure). Either way, i can't sleep and I'm feeling horrible because i can't stop thinking about what will happen if my family finds out or if i come out, (about friends I'm worried but not that much) cause my parents are AMAZING like literally they let me do anything as long as it's not like dr*gs or sum like my mom literally dyes my hair, does my nails, she's letting me get piercing, they don't judge my style or anything, i literally get along SO WELL like i have a tattoo that they paid for as a gift for my birthday and i can talk about anything with them. Except my sexuality, like WHYY at least if they were bad parents i wouldn't be this hurt but knowing what i could lose is killing me inside and i literally just remembered why i tried to ignore all my gay feelings before, like this is so hard. I told only one friend and she's also pan, so it's okay we talk about it and joke and she's really good friend but i just realy wanna know if someone is also struggling like me :(

So I, 14m, have been under the assumption I’m Gay pretty much for a year, but now I’m starting to wonder if I am fully gay. I started to realize I might be homoflexible, but isn’t homoflexible a form of bisexuality? So would I be Bi? Or Gay?

I'm a 14 year old female, lesbian or bisexual, still figuring that one out, but I live in a christian conservative country where gay marriage is not legal. I mean, if I presented out loud that I was queer, I would not be killed but possibly harassed and ostracized. I have one Pansexual friend my age but no one much else in my life who's also queer like me. I tried to even look up support groups for LGBT youth (I've must have been very desperate at that point coz I despise therapy and support groups with every cell in my body). I just wanna feel like I can relate to someone. Do you have any ideas where to find more LGBT teens like me? Thanks 👍.

I’ve just now come to terms with the fact that I really only felt limerence towards someone that I thought I was just crushing on. I made up a whole character in my head of what I thought they could be and what we could be and I became so desperate for this idea that I ended up just messing up the talking stage we were in. I made them out to be the perfect person in my head and well he still kind of is but I need to learn to just cast that aside and move on. But I just feel like shit because I feel like I’m saying goodbye to some sort of reality that I would’ve been happy in. It feels somewhat like a breakup even though we never dated and honestly didn’t even know each other that well. I feel even worse because I go to a university where it’s not so city like and therefore my options being gay are super limited, much like how it is at home for me. So I know that I will probably not find someone as ‘perfect’ as this guy which sucks because I wish I could’ve learned how to deal with this limerence thing on someone else and then had a normal experience with this guy who my brain convinced is perfect for me. I just thought I was done looking. Every gay my age in my uni just wants to have sex and nothing with substance. I crave relationships and closeness and I just haven’t met anyone who wants this as well. Besides the guy I keep idolising. I need to accept that I have to move on from this guy because it’s becoming somewhat debilitating and I just can’t deal with this anymore. I need help to move on. I need reassurance that there are other guys out there who want what I want and are my age and not crazy. I just hope things will get better over the month winter break I have and that hopefully I can move on properly. I feel somewhat disappointed in myself as well because before coming to uni I promised myself that I was finally going to experience gay life and love life the same way my straight peers do and I think I failed that expectation so it feels like I’m just going nowhere in my life. I’m just a bit in my own head at the moment and not sure how to look at the bigger picture.

My friend who knows I'm gay keeps calling me babe and stuff keep in mind me and him are both (13m) and ever since he started doing it i think i like him.

Is this normal or is this pure-pressure?

Hey everyone! I need some advice or maybe just to rant..? I'm not sure.

Also these are fake names if that matters to anyone LOL.

So basically I'm a guy and my sexuality is "almost gay" because I'm bisexual but strongly prefer men and sort of questioning if I still like women. So there's this guy, Andy, who I've met once but I've seen like 3-4 times..? And I think he's really cute and what I've heard from our mutual friends is that he's a great person, funny, they think we'd look cute together if we dated, etc. the thing with him is that he's doesn't go to my school and we've literally only talked like once but I kind of have a crush on him. I might be doing a theater production that he is soon so maybe I'll get to know him then, but I'm not fully sure.

The second part is that I have this friend, Natalie, who I love so so much and we became close recently. She's bisexual but prefers women. We became close friends over the past month-ish...? Like hanging out most days of the week, texting all the time, etc. We're basically a couple without romantic feelings for each other atp. The thing is, I sort of think/thought she had a crush on me because she'll always be texting me and after every time we hang out or see each other she'll text me smth along the lines of 'tysm for hanging out with me! I had so much fun!' And throughout the week when we don't see each other she'll text 'I miss you' multiple times. And we definitely have a special connection where we clicked and are kinda inseparable. So we'll also say things like 'if I had to date a girl, I'd date you' or 'if I had to date a guy it'd be you'

Basically, I can't tell if I could actually like her romantically or not. Because at first I definitely thought no, but I've been thinking more about it and I'm a little more comfortable with the idea I guess...? But I'm not at all like "oh my god I want to kiss her so bad" like nothing like that rn. And as for her liking me, I'm leaning more towards she would date me than she wouldn't. Cause everyone thinks we like each other and that we would date, and it seems like her friends think so too.

If I decide that I might be open to dating her, I wouldn't mind asking her how she feels, but then there's the concern of ruining the friendship, which I don't think it would if we were to date then break up, but who knows...

Anyway, advice is very much needed!! I was so sure I wouldn't date a girl but now I'm questioning it all.

(A long one) (Created account just for this story) (Names are fake) (Sorry, if there's spelling and punctuation errors)

Bit of backstory. I [15M] met Theo [16M] during dance class. I was the only guy at that dance class, so seeing an another boy was kinda shocking. I didn't speak with him until the second time. The next time the teacher gave us a more feminine choreo and he was going at it (I live in a conservative country, guys don't usually do feminine stuff). Then the teacher divided us to groups to finish creating the choreo and I was in the same group as Theo. That was the first time we talked. That's then I got a feeling that he might be queer. After the class we were walking to the same bus stop, so we talked even more. Some days later, I came to a conclusion that I have a crush on him. But there were a few problems. First, I didn't know if he was queer and in my opinion asking someone's sexuality is very disrespectful, if they hadn't come out yet to you. Second, he started not coming to the dance classes. Second, I asked one of his friends, that also goes to the dance class, where was he and she told me that he had trouble studying, so he's probably not going to continue this class. Now I'm conflicted. Texting him seems inappropriate because we weren't really friends, and if he's not going to continue the class, I have zero chance of even talking to him. So I ask you, what should I do? Any advice is appreciated.

I (16m) know where to find a guy, but I don’t know how to start a relationship with him. Relationships require love, and I don’t know how you can fall in love with someone without talking to the person long enough and without establishing some kind of connection with them. I can’t imagine how to start a relationship with a stranger just by meeting him on the Internet. I want to date someone, but this is one of the reasons that stops me.

Hey everyone, Trigger warning: This post discusses mental health, bullying, and suicidal thoughts.

I hope you're all doing well. Unfortunately, I can't say the same for myself. Being queer and gay has made simply existing incredibly difficult for me. I want to share what I'm going through, but it’s hard to put everything into words.

Let me start with a bit about myself. I'm 19 years old, studying engineering in Delhi—not by choice, but because my parents forced me into it. To be honest, I'm not good at it, and I’ve never enjoyed it. My childhood wasn’t the best either, though I can barely remember most of it due to the stress I've endured over the years. My mental health has taken a massive toll, and while forgetting parts of my past feels like a blessing sometimes, it’s mostly a curse.

The few things I do remember from my childhood haunt me. My father used to beat my mother. He hit me too. My mom resents me, and we’ve never had a loving relationship. I have a sister, but we don’t get along either. Coming from an orthodox family, I’ve always felt out of place. The bullying I faced in school and college has only made things worse.

There have been times when it all felt too much, and I tried to end my life. My parents found out, and for a short while, things got better at home. But it didn’t last. The same cycle of neglect and hostility returned, and I feel like I’m stuck in a never-ending loop.

Right now, I don’t know what I’m doing with my life. I desperately want to move out of this toxic environment, but I’m not financially independent. I don’t even have any skills to get a job, and I know that if I don’t take action soon, I won’t be able to survive like this for much longer.

So, I’m reaching out to you—if not for help, then for advice. How can I take the first steps to build a life where I can finally feel free? How can I learn to stand on my own and take care of myself when I feel so broken?

Thank you for reading. Even if you can’t help, your words mean a lot to me right now.

i don't know how else to explain this. i also likely have OCD and autism, which makes this questioning hard. I'm more annoyed about my brain not shutting up about gender than I am about not being a guy.

basically. I'm fine with being a girl, but since toddlerhood I've felt like a guy internally. I've liked acting boyish (eg. dapping guys up, saying "let's goo!" etc.), but did not want to look masculine. it doesn't help I already have masc features (strong face, broad shoulders, stubble and chest hair, prominent Adam's apple). i've always dressed femininely in my own way.

my small chest makes me uncomfy sometimes (my only dysphoria?) but I don't want to get top surgery. they're the only tits I have 💀 a dick would be kinda cool to have, but I've never had a problem with my hooha. hell, I even like tracking my period. plus, I might wanna have kids when I'm an adult.

anyway, as for identifying as cis, I feel like a fake girl. not only do I look masculine naturally, but everything I do feels masculine. its uncomfortable when I'm unintentionally masculine. i always feel so out of place around other girls. i wish I felt like a girl naturally.

but then I don't feel "trans enough", if that makes sense. i hope this isn't rude. i still want to use girl's bathrooms and dorm in girl's spaces. I'm not bothered by my birth name, and even if I use a masculine name, I wouldn't be upset seeing my dead name on government stuff. i barely have dysphoria. or, rather, most of my dysphoria is for not feeling feminine enough.

i don't know what to make of this. even if I identified as genderfluid or non-binary, I wouldn't mind being called a girl. i just wished I looked more feminine, too...

i’m 17 and i’ve a crush on this girl in my school. she’s lesbian and is out. she has a thing with this other girl of their football team and she’s totally obsessed with her, always talking to me about how much she loves her, how she changed her life, sharing corny quotes about love ect. she left her last girlfriend to be with this girl, which kinda gave me the ick but whatever. she’s also one of only a handful of people who know im gay and gave me rlly good advice/support. i’ve rlly liked her for a while but it kills me because she clearly doesn’t like me back.

but it’s kinda weird because we used to always have this flirty banter? and she would look at me and it felt like more than a look. she usually gives me kind of special attention (unless she’s with the girl she has a thing with) but last night we were were out drinking with friends and she basically ignored me almost the whole night. she was hardly even making eye contact with me. she was also talking about (to our other friends) “when i’m attracted to someone i just go for it” and “i find a lot of people attractive”, stuff like that. it was kinda of hurtful, even from a friend perspective. i know she is under NO obligation to like me, and in a way im relieved cuz i wouldn’t want to do that to the other girl who’s basically her girlfriend, but the whole thing just left a bad taste in my mouth.

this whole thing has kind of lowered my self esteem. why can everybody else find love, or even somebody to make out with once and a while?? is that so much to ask?? i’m relatively pretty and i’ve a lot of friends who say i have a nice personality, so what is it about me that i never get any romantic attention? maybe it’s because i’m still in high school (senior year) and need to go to an environment with more lesbians. i’m also fem so people wouldn’t think im gay by looking at me. how do i stop this experience from making me bitter?

I don't know if this is the right place to ask, but, I'm in a long distance relationship with someone who's parents are homophobic. I want to give them gifts for Christmas, but I don't know what I can send since there's no way to get things to them at her at the moment. I was thinking about giving them pictures of the drawings I was going to send them, poetry, and a little bucket list of what we could do together once we move out. Any ideas?

I hate the name that I chose for myself now, it just doesn't fit into what I want, or the theme of the rest of the names of my siblings. The problem is, I've gone through too many names so far. Cee, Alex, now Ethan. I legit think my friends with freak out if I tell them I'm changing it again. I can hold out until next year, when the school change is, but I honestly feel uncomfortable with it right now, and I don't know what to do. I've been looking at boy names that are similar to my deadname, but its hard to find ones I like.

This is about my previous posts.

Me (13m) think I am either a femboy or non-binary and I'm starting to ask myself who I would want to be and I can't figure out Wich one I am and I'm also asking if it's possible to use any pronouns and be a femboy I'm so confused and scared.

What do I do

Please give any advice you have

Thank you

I met someone last night (I'll not put any she/her in this post because I don't know their pronouns but they were presenting female). And it's really difficult because I am myself not a girl even if most of the people don't know anything about it. But let's get to the point.

I was at a party last night, like big party with all people my age from my school's city, and just before going back home someone (the person I might have a crush on) tapped on my shoulder and told my that my style/look was amazing as well as my energy. (This special party was one for all the people in the last year of Secondary School and we have a tradition to put on laboratory apron customized with a big drawing on the back and messages from our friends), so they also told my that my apron was amazing, and that my hair looked cool. To be honest it was a lot of compliment all at once, not used to it.

When they tapped on my shoulder the first thing i saw was their hair, they had a mullet (Definitely good looking person) but the mullet just made them look 10 times more beautiful. So after all these compliments I said thank you and they offered me their tokens they had left for buying drinks because they were leaving but i was leaving too so couldn't accept it.

Then my friends told me they were leaving so i said goodbye really fast and left while i was walking I thought about getting back to them and ask for their Instagram @ or at least their name but i don't know i was too scared and my friends were leaving.

I don't know what to do, i have no info about them, not even their name. But i just thought about this person all day and how good looking they were. I don't even know why i am writing all of this it's pointless. But i need to talk about it. And i really don't know what to do about it even if there"s probably nothing to do.

Hey, so I don't know if anyone else experiences this or if it even makes sense, but I have two groups of friends. One group is considered more "weird" and openly themselves(Igbtqia+, furries, loud, etc.). The other group are more "normal" (conveniently pretty, on social media, slightly popular in my grade, etc.). The only problem is that being friends with both groups is that they clash a lot and when they mention each other it's never good. One of my "normal" friends swore that one of "weird" friends had a plug tail (iykyk). I knew they wrong so I didn't even bother them. But things like that piss me off. I've been having this problem since middle school and I'm now in sophomore year. I haven't thought of a solution and I'm getting sick of basically being the bridge both groups refuse to cross.

I am going to hit one year with my girlfriend soon and that’s really big so we wanted to celebrate it together. It’s on the 15th my order sibling Asher calls me they say do you want to help Nana put up her tree this year and I say sure whatever just tell me when and they say the 15th I didn’t know that I was on speakerphone and I said that is my anniversary day so no my mom pipes in and she starts making jokes like are you an AA or something and I get called to her room and she says you’re most definitely not dating anyone so I don’t know what the anniversary is. I made up some lie about it being like a friend anniversary. I just I don’t know what to do anymore if anything I’m hurt for her because she hates me being in love so much. I don’t understand and if I talked to her from the past, she would think that her now is crazy that she’s being insane so I just don’t. She had her first love at my age. I don’t understand Why she’s doing this. I’m sorry for the lack of punctuation. I’m speaking into my phone and I’m on the verge of tears.

m a 15 yo male i have many female friends and I don't have any feeling's for any of them I dated a girl at 9yo but she moved away and I never was attracted towards female again I now only have feeling's for more masculine traits I don't know so I came out as bi but idk

Hi! Sorry if that’s a stupid question. But can anal sex mess up your digestive system? Or give you diarrhea (I’m not really sure what symptoms of that are tho)

So what happened I didn’t have anal for years (and I’ve done it only few times before that) and all my life my digestive system were fine. And last December I had 4 different guys. Two of them were on New Years weekend. Right after since first days of January my digestive system was never the same. Sorry for being very detailed but: I started pooping very liquidy and color was different (sometimes green or yellow) first 2 months it was the same then it was a bit better like one day liquid another day better and over again. Another thing happened is that after I eat it could take only 20 minutes and it start hurting and I need to go to bathroom and everything comes out as very liquidy again. This was never for me before cuz my stomach was really great.

All this time I was thinking that it would heal itself but it’s been 11 months and no changes. And I’m too scared to go to a doctor what if I get something bad from that experience? Obviously I didn’t have anything sexual since then for 11 months already.

So how bad could it be? Is there anything I could try to fix it?

The only thing I tried is to by that fiber supplement. I wasn’t really consistent with that but i already finished the whole bottle of that powder and didn’t notice any difference.

Please give me ANY advice. Thanks!

I wanted to ask for guidance because I'm confused about my gender, I thought it was genderfluid, but I realized it was a way of forcing myself to understand myself, but that changed about 2 years ago, when I broke this generalization of clothes, gestures, places ETC... With all of this, I feel like I don't need a gender to understand myself, and I think I can be an agender person.

I posted this to ask for your opinion Kisses, sorry for the possible spelling errors.

Sorry in advance that this is long. I am AFAB and am questioning my gender and gender expression. I would absolutely hate it if someone called me a girly-girl or something like that. My friends and family describe me as a tomboy and I personally take that as a compliment in a way. I use the pronouns she/her and are comfortable with them, but no one has ever actually called me anything other than that. I have an online friend and they agreed to try out he/him with me to see if I'm even comfortable with that.

I have long hair that I don't want to cut (all I do is brush it, I typically don't style it), I don't wear makeup, and I only wear dresses if forced for a formal event or if it's a dance (although I typically skip dances). I wear all neutral clothes (some more masculine like baggy sweatpants and sports shirts, some more feminine like leggings or light colors) and most are dark/medium colors like green and black, nothing form-fitting and all, except the sweatpants, are athletic and nothing is revealing at all. I have a mix of masc and fem thoughts and opinions but probably leaning a bit more towards masc. Sometimes if I wear leggings, I feel too feminine in a way but that's not all the time, sometimes I like them. I only wear one piece swimsuits and I still don't take off my shirt in front of anyone to change in the locker room (I'm in high school and everyone else walks around in their bras and underwear) and I want to try girl boxers (boxers but female cut). I wear shorts because it's hot where I live, but they're all mid-thigh length so not revealing, but never skirts because they make be feel exposed and uncomfortable. I do not paint my nails either, I don't have the stereotypical love for Starbucks (or any coffee or tea) or Taylor Swift (I know that is very biased and categorical), and I personally believe that breasts, whether mine or other people's look weird, but I also don't want to hide them with a binder or something, I just don't want to see them (clothed or unclothed). I’m not uncomfortable with them unless they’re bigger than average (when covered, I’m uncomfortable with all unclothed). This could definitely correlate with me not finding the human body very appealing and I think it looks kind of weird.

I have more neutral hobbies like primitive camping and soccer. I feel almost proud or happy if someone comments how I'm like a boy (has only been said a couple times referring to my thoughts or actions). I feel like I would prefer to be associated with the attribute men tend to be portrayed with more than women by a long shot. I don't know what I am, I do know that I am not trans though. Maybe I'm cis but leaning more masculine? I'm open to all thoughts and opinions and will readily provide more details if asked (I can't think of any more right now). I know that labels aren't technically necessary, but I also know that understanding my orientation helped me a ton with becoming more comfortable with myself.

Edit: I was being dumb so changed it to be more accurate and made a sentence more clear.

I, 17-NB, have fallen for a genderfluid person that I met a few months ago, and they are 17 as well, but they are turning 18 in mid January. I'm trying to find out how/if I should ask them before they turn 18, or if I should wait until I turn 18 too. I feel the biggest problem is that I don't know if they would say yes with us not knowing each other for very long. But they mean a lot to me, and I'm always excited to get any messages from them, and I would really like to have a relationship with them. I don't know how to approach the topic either. Like how would I ask them? What's the best way to start that kind of conversation? What do I do? Also, this would be a long distance relationship because they live a few states away from me.

1.) What’s considered “straight” for all yall nb folk? does that just not exist or would it be other nb folk?

2 (the rant).) i dont know how love feels anymore. i gave all my love away, i want to try to understand how one can keep loving… i want to be something to someone… to mean something… i let them go and am still hoping they come home… but it wont. my delusions are too strong to let me break away. one a different note from that half of the rant im just confused… i’ve gotten an extreme understanding of what “genderfluid” is, and i cant tell anymore if I’m nb, trans, or fluid now… i (currently mtf with they/them) have been trans for about 8 months… and am just noticing how enticing nb and gender-fluidity are right now. for context i am a relatively athletic person who enjoys playing basketball and football and sports so i have a very masc background and experience. but i’ve been attempting to dress gender neutral to not pull any f-slurs in my direction… idk that’s my wild post of the year. just needed to rant all of that 😭💀

(sorry if this is rambling) I've identified as a lesbian for a very long time and felt really comfortable in that label, and then my gf broke up with me and now I'm starting to find more men attractive. I always imagine myself with a woman in the future, and I'm pretty apathetic towards sex, but on the off chance it happens I imagine it with a woman. I can't think of it with a man, but kissing sounds fine. There aren't many men that I find attractive, but the few that I've met really make me question everything. Its also really confusing because I fall into the nonbinary spectrum although I don't really like that label, I use any/all because I truly don't care and I just think of myself as me. I dress feminine and masculine, I don't stick to just one and feel comfortable in both. I don't know if I'm just looking for the attention(?) I got from my gf in ppl who could give it to me (the guy who made me start questioning it heavily thought I was attractive and was def interested in me) or if I'm actually just bi and thought I was lesbian because I was dating a girl and couldn't think of anyone else in a romantic sense. I really don't know.

Hi,

So I don't really know how to describe how I'm feeling but I'll try my best.

I'm currently 17 years old, and for the past 5 years I've been trying to figure out if I'm trans or just have body issues. I was raised female but was always allowed to like stereotypical boy things. I'm not a very feminine person, but I do love women fashion - but I usually wear men's or more masculine/baggy clothing because I feel more comfortable - so idk if I just love women fashion because I love fashion or what, because idk if my style would change that mich of I lost weight. Anyways, 4 years ago, I kinda made a comment to my sister that I might be trans, but she said that I'm not. And then a couple a months ago, I kind of brought it up again and made a joke saying I think I would be a great guy. And then she kinda turned it down. She's not homo/transphobic (i came out as bi and she couldnt care less), she's just really awkward. Then she said that I could think about being non binary, but I just don't think that's the right fit. I dont know what else to say. I just kinda wanna figure my gender out like soon, because I've trying to figure it out for the past 5 years. If u have any advice pls tell me!!

If u read this, sorry taking up ur time. Thanks

Oh and sorry if there's spelling mistakes.

i (16 f) have known my gf since last august in 2023. we dated for a month in january 2024 and broke up mutually, but we got back together november 6th and its going really good! i really wanna tell her that i love her but im not sure if its too soon. should i? i really want to.

Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. Lately I've been a bit confused (I thought I was straight, turns out I'm not). This girl, let's call her Alex (fake name) has been around in my friend group for about 2 weeks now, and I think I have a crush on her. I don't know about her sexuality, so it's tricky. I myself, have been a bit confused, since it's something new. But anyway. We were playing truth or dare, when another friend asked Alex, who could change her sexuality (from our friend group), there's 5 girls (me included) so Alex said that her best friend, Mia (fake name) and... Me... I repeat... Me... There's still 2 other girls that played the game, but she only said that Mia and me could change her sexuality, Mia said that she agreed with Alex about me. I was a bit flustered, I'm not gonna lie... Anyways... Please... Tell me... Fellow lesbian/ bisexual girls. For any more details, ask questions in the comments. Thanks in advance!

(EDIT) I've been feeling a little tension between us (in a romantic??? Way). She has been very supportive of everything I do, even if it's a joke, and everyone says it's dumb, Alex says that she supports me and loves me for who I am. Oh! And, the same day of the truth or dare game, we were alone and boys became our topic, I started the conversation by saying that most guys are disrespectful, and I'm starting to doubt if there are any normal guys (I love y'all normal and respectful guys <3), and that I might just give up on guys. She said that she agrees with me, and that women are just gorgeous and way better to communicate with, I replied by saying that I agree with her completely. I said, and I quote: ,, Ugh! Just women! Just women! I love women." And she was hyped up and nodded while smiling (I forgot to add she's my age, sorry!)