And now I'm stressing out because what does this mean?? (She says she's straight, but we kissed at a party once while we were both very drunk and everything seems normal since)

She gave my sister an eating disorder by constantly calling her fat and ugly. Now she’s asking why she won’t eat!!!!??????

I’m trying to buy a black bath bomb online as a Christmas present but I can’t find any good ones. Most of them turn the bath blue or purple but I’m looking for one that actually is a black bath bomb. Does anyone know of any good places that aren’t lush? (Looked there can’t find one that turns the water black)

Thank you!

So I think I'm trans but I don't know.

I've really been thinking about my gender identity (I'm AFAB) and I feel that Girl, Woman, or Female aren't correct terms. I've never really been "uncomfortable" in my body but it's probably because I don't notice it that much (Except for mild species dysphoria I'm a Therian). I've been trying out different gender identities for the past few months and I feel that when I used any/all pronouns or tried identifying as genderfluid/nonbinary/bigender/anything but girl but not boy, I felt like it was partially me but not the whole thing. Like when you're standing in a bright spotlight but only part of the light shines on your body while the rest is left in shadows. (I don't know if that's a good explanation or not sorry!!!).

I've just been wishing I was a boy for quite some time now and I think my mind is going into a really bad place... I just need advice please.

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It's getting a bit worse. I've been asking my family about their opinions on LGBTQIA+ rights and just trans rights and stuff and turns out a lot of the adults in my life are really transphobic and not accepting of the theory that gender is not a binary thing (Boy/Girl). How do I deal with this stuff (adults in my life being transphobic). When I showed my dad the haircut I wanted (Fluffy mullet thing) he called it "boyish" and "masculine" and implied that I should not wear masculine things/adopt masculine behaviors/traits (like short hair and masc clothing and such).

What do I do?

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Just for additional information... I identify as a demigirl rn (Dont know if that's important)

I don’t think I love my ldr boyfriend of almost 2 years, I’ve tried breaking up with him but he is so clingy and emotional and I know it will break him because he doesn’t have many friends. in the past but then guilt consumes me and we end up taking a break for a few days and going back to normal. Also a guy took advantage of me during one of those breaks and he acts like nothing happened and I can’t say anything because he’s the schools golden boy and no one will believe me. I am kinda having a crisis on dead cause my dog is getting older and a little sicker and I don’t want to lose him and it makes me scared for my impending death. I feel like I wasted too much time on life and I can never gain that time back and now I’m scared of time passing and dying alone or ending up with my current boyfriend who I don’t really love and end up unhappy. Also my family is full of bitches and my best friend is suicidal/hurting herself and grounded. Oh and I’m behind on school. I feel like I have to be the rock of everyone and I can’t be selfish or feel because I don’t want to be a burden

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My previous one was Your Favorite Martian. Currently spiraling for Persona 3 Fes, Silent Hill 2 from 2001, and Lacey's Games

Until I became one :(

i hate waking up at SIX AM for a 7am meeting with my moms friend, feeling horrible and super bloated cus yk and my head was killing meeeee i didn't even have class until 2pm so was doing NOTHING FROM 10AM TILL 2😭 and to make it even worse pookie couldn't even hang out today cus he has work so im just lying in bed rotting alone🥺💔

Just curious

Omg I’m so glad to be done with high school!!! Dude fuck chemistry so much. And calculus. But yeah i went out with my friends for dinner and i threw up before we even started drinking lmao. My friends burped and locked the windows and doors of the car and… yeah so that wasn’t fun. But then we went home and drank and yapped. I got a bit drunk but one of my friends was OUT OF IT it was so funny.

Drink responsibly. I was chugging water and I barely have a hangover :D

TW: drugs, mature themes. DO NOT DO DRUGS EVER!!!! I AM NOT ENDORSING DRUGS!!!!!!!

I need to get this out of my system and i need some advise, i'll try to keep it short:

I, 19f, have a best friend from my old school who lives about 4 hours away from me since i moved out of our home town into a bigger city 2 years ago. We never see each other but we text everyday and I put a lot of effort into maintaining our friendship, even if it feels a little one-sided sometimes.

I've made a new friend group during the past year, and we occasionally go out for drinks and have small home parties. I drink and smoke weed occasionally and my bestie knew about this and supported me 100% as long as i'm stayed safe and not overdoing it. Me and her have also gotten drunk or high together a few times before. (IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: i'm from a country where the legal drinking age is 16 just so yall know)

Last weekend i was at a friends birthday party, we were drinking at a bar at first and some of her friends came back to her and her friends room at their uni. Furthermore, COCAINE. I have never been in contact with drugs other than weed and alc so this was a first me, i only did a single little line and it was totally fine.

The next day i excitedly told her about it via text and she started being really passive aggressive and talking down on me, she told me how irresponsible i am and how she could never be like me. At first I apologized and told her i won't bring it up again if it makes her uncomfortable. She then told me it doesn't matter if i tell her or not, im disgusting amd stupid and she could never live the way i live. I was hurt and answered her very angrily, saying dumb shit like "it was just one line thats nothing" and "it was never your business anyway so why are you upset"

I SHOULD HAVE JUST SHUT TF UP. shes ghosting me now. Ofc im trying to be understanding but at the same time i don't feel like i need to apologize for something that never directly affected her. man idk :(

what would yall do?

Tw for sh:(

So I have (healed) scars from self harm on my thighs and I'm dreading the time when I inevitably wear shorts to school, and was wondering if any of yall had ideas on how to cover them? I could always ignore it and leave them out but that's just anxiety inducing to me. Sorry if this is a heavy topic i hope you are all doing well

happy (day after) HALLOWEEN

I’m talking to this guy and we’ll be getting along pretty well and then he stops responding and I immediately assume he thinks I’m weird. I genuinely don’t know what to do it’s so irrational AAAAAA

Occasionally in my Instagram fyp a reel of someone saying/doing something cringe will come up and the comments are always full of "kids never have it bullied out of them anymore" or "can we bring back bullying yet" or something like that. Like yes it's human nature to like someone who is funny but if someone is unfunny or cringey the opposite should not be true. People shouldn't be bullied or made fun of just because you don't think their attempt to be funny was successful. Bullying always has traumatic effects on people and shouldn't be treated lightly.

Wish me luck! I can’t wait to never think about organic chemistry again

Hello, I am aware this is a bit off topic for this subreddit, but I want to spread this message.

I am a student at Delaware Valley High School in Milford, Pennsylvania. An ongoing issue for the past four years at my school has been in regard to one student, Trevon Hairris-Williams. Multiple girls have come forward and reported him for sexual assault or sexual harassment, most of whole are 3 or more years younger than him. The Delaware Valley school District continues to do nothing to try to stop him, so we, the student body, are taking action. Please help draw attention to the situation and if you support the cause, sign the petition linked below. The only way to try to get the school's attention is by making the issue more public.

Thank you for reading.

https://chng.it/YSNY6dd9YB

I feel like my friend doesn’t understand the effect of a situation with a friend.

TRIGGER WARNING: Talk of Nudes and Grooming

There was a guy I made out with, and then he ditched me. Well then he started to try and pressure me into nudes. Even after I explicitly said “No”, he wouldn’t stop.

I told my best friend this who was his ex (we weren’t close at the time), they made me think I did nothing wrong and joined in my rage.

But when I suggested that we start sitting somewhere else for lunch they said that we should countinues sitting with him and his friends to avoid drama.

I know they have a point but how can I spend my lunch time with that disgusting guy, who knew that I was groomed for pictures when I was 10 and was almost trafficked but continues to pressure me?

I know they mean well but I feel like they don’t see how much this impacted me. :(

Hello gays.

It is the year of our lord 2024, cringe culture is dead and my roommate and i both began playing the MLP mobile game recently.

Anyone else here an active(ish) player? Would like to be in-game friends.

I will give hearts and am decent at the Equestria Girls minigame.

Oki thanks for reading! ♡

(lol sorry this sounds so dramatic)

I'm currently a freshman in college (she/her) and I have a crush on a guy whose currently a senior in high school. He goes to the high school I just graduated from.

I didn't know him that well last year, I saw him in school and I knew my friend was friends with him but I didn't rlly know him that well. I didn't really start speaking to him until a few days after graduation during my friends birthday. We had a really good conversation and idk usually I take a while to build connections but I built a rlly good connection with him? I guess because he was close with one of my close friends idk lol. I thought he was kind of cute to be honest (which I never thought of him before) but I tried not to think too much about it loll

We started talking more during the summer over text and even hung out a few times. I think my feelings developed for him more and more during this time. We would text mostly everyday, he used to message me good morning, we got into really deep conversations, just overall a lot more closer. I used to look forward to ending work and messaging him. He made me feel really happy and I def would say it turned out to be a crush lmao. (Also I think there was a few times he was flirting with me? Idk I might be wrong, maybe it was platonic, idek. We haven't actually confirmed anything romantic but I asked my friends and they all said he was flirting lol)

OF COURSE I had to think with my brain. Going to college I wanted to let go of high school. I have been waiting for college for a long time and to become a new person and be in a new era. I wanted to let high school go so I thought that liking him was a bad idea. I tried to get over it and eventually we got busy and didn't message each other for a bit, but I just couldn't stop thinking about him. I didn't know why, it felt so weird!

I just started college last month and tbh I'm still kinda adjusting. It feels so weird lol and I've been very emotional about letting an old part of myself go. (even though that's what I wanted) And even though I started this new chapter, I still can't stop thinking about him. I recently messaged him again (in a friendly way, i wasn't trying to be romantic or anything) and we just had a full on convo. I still like him lol.

I feel kind of a sadness though. He's still in high school. He's still in a building for 8 hours a day with a strict schedule while I have a bunch of class gaps (im a commuter as of now so it hits even more since I don't even live at my school)

I can't stop thinking about him

Any advice?

It feels like my mom doesn’t believe my sexuality? Or maybe not that but just. She acts way differently when I show interest in a girl/queer/nonbinary person than when I do with a man.

I recently met someone on bumble that I’ve really hit it off with. They’re nonbinary and fem leaning. We’re meeting tomorrow, and i genuinely like them soooo much. Like thinking about them makes my heart flutter.

Whenever I mention them to my mom however, it feels like she keeps making comments about us being “good friends” or things like that.

Earlier today i was like “I really really like them.”

And she asks me if I met them on the regular bumble or the friends bumble and I’m like.. regular bumble. Like I’m romanticallly interested. And then I say something about how I’m not ready for a relationship yet and they’re fine with that and she’s like “well that’s good cause then you can just be friends”

And I. Ugh- she never reacts like this when it’s a cis guy I’m seeing?? And i don’t like how she’s different when it’s someone queer, or afab or even just feminine.

Feels like im gonna be the lesbian at thanksgiving dinner like “this is my girlfriend” and she’s gonna be like “so good that you made a new FRIEND”

Am I overthinking or like..??

also additional context: when I first realized I wasn’t straight she pulled a lot of the “it’s a phase” bs and even blamed my crush on my friend on my ocd 🤪🤪 so..

I’ve had a very hard time with people believing my sexuality because ive never had a gf. Or even just had sex with someone afab. And now that I’ve kissed someone afab, and I’m interested in someone who’s NB and fem leaning, it feels like I’m still being doubted.

I just. What if I date this person and she doesn’t approve..?

Even when I showed her photos of them it felt like she doesn’t believe my attraction. And she always makes comments about us being friends like

Mother I want to GET WITH them not just.. YGHNNDMSJ

I’m GAY BELIEVE ME 😭😭😭

i am being punished by the gods rn