So I will be traveling and this will the first time that I will trying to take a pack of Cigarette with me. But the problem is that I don't know if I can take the pack with me in the security check or If I have to place it in my check in luggage.

If anyone knows the answer then please help me with this question as I am thinking of waiting in the smoking area but don't want to spend on a whole new pack that they sell their.

Mat mari gayi thi meri..socha sip sip karke piyunga...chatka lagta wo alag se...lekin physics dhyan me nai raha...if you closed the lid the fcking steam creates pressure and liquid comes out of the air release hole.

Bluedart package running 2 days laye and says delay caused beyond control.

I’m curious to figure out what types of snacks or treats are popular for you guys but are hard to get your hands on? For example in America people live Asian snacks but it’s hard finding such things and you have to get it shipped which is pricy.

I don't know what answer am I expecting from my fellow redditors but I was really overwhelmed with emotions and thought of pouring my heart our here.

My brother is 37 and divorced since 2 years . He was a topper in school and works at a reputed government company as a Chief Manager. My parents have crossed 60. The rishta hunting is taking a toll on their health. For almost 1 year after the divorce they were transparent about brother's age, his previous marriage's duration and everything else.

But they didn't get a perfect match neither online nor offline. So slowly they started hiding about his divorce/ fabricating the timeline of previous marriage and divorce and lying about my brother's age.

Whereas my parents always taught us to be honest and guided us to grow spiritually since childhood. So when they are taking this route to fix my brother's marriage it is making me anxious. Today, I asked my dad, 'Dad, why are you not sticking to the moral principles which you have always taught us"

He sounded utterly exhausted as he replied, 'Your brother and I have spoken to thousands of prospects over the past two years, but unfortunately, we haven't achieved the desired results.'"

Thank you for reading.

Finally done with this one. Wanted to try texture art from so long. Kafi therapeutic.

What do you guys prefer drinking at night

So the things is, I will be going on a trip with my friends soon (this December). It will be a guys trip and I was thinking of taking my acoustic guitar with me. I was wondering what songs would be great to sing along with my friends. One song I have chosen is IIahi.

So guys, can you recommend me some songs that you think will be perfect for our trip? I want to learn the chords before going and practice the lyrics a bit.

I built my consistency by doing workouts I enjoyed – something I wouldn't dread doing the next day. Motivation is temporary, but once you start seeing results, the feeling is unparalleled.

Initially, you need to be a bit hard on yourself; do it even when you don't feel like it. It gets better over time. When I asked one of my friend about his consistency, he said: 'Moving your body is like respecting it for all it does for you. If you can't respect yourself enough to do the bare minimum, then you know there's an issue.' His words stuck with me.

I m pretty sure there are people on here with more experience feel free to share it with us!

Idk where to post this, but I thought I might get some help here. It might not be what this sub is supposed for though. But I really need to talk about this. So... here goes nothing, I guess.

I'm a 2nd year student...almost at the end of the 2nd year of med school (duration is 4.5 years here). When entering college, I went through a huge personality change and that's now causing a lot of problems for me. Back in school, I used to be introverted, shy and studious; I didn't have any friends except one or two... Even they preferred other friends more than me. So when I graduated, I found out that while everyone was celebrating in groups, I was left alone, I was in no one's pictures. So I decided, it was time for a change.

I got place in a medical College in a new city where nobody knew me, and I thought here's a place where I can build up a totally new identity...time to make a change, I thought. I watched a few videos, read books like Dale Carnegie and shit on how to make friends and used them all in college. AND it worked. I got super popular. I was invited to a lot of groups. Every party couldn't function without me. Every tour plan needed me.i really enjoyed that time.

But good times don't last. Where there's light, there's shadow underneath. To stay popular, to be one of the cool kids, I kept up with whatever the popular guys did. Vape, smoke, drinking all types of things I never did or enjoyed. I frequently used to host feasts for my friend groups whow wanted to eat fancy (I used all my allowance up on all that and had to survive on Maggie and shit the rest of the month). I got involved with college politics and got a pretty important role in my batch. I cared a lot about what everyone thought about me, and did everything that most people would love.

But by the end of the year I realised my grades have fallen a lot. The me who used to worry about getting 99% once, is pretty doubtful whether I'd have to repeat the year. I found after a whole year, my books were untouched yet. This is not working out, I thought. I have to make a change again. I'm losing sight of important stuff of my life. However, popularity isn't that bad ofc, I thought it'd be alright if I just left the college politics. So I resigned from my post and left the college unit last year. I never thought that my bad decisions would never leave me alone even after I long corrected them.

So this year, I already left college politics and was pretty sure I wanted to live a peaceful but friendly life with everyone. However, complications arose at home (my parents are going through a particularly BAD divorce) so I had to take long leaves from college. When I came back, the environment had changed. Everyone was hostile. At a meeting that night, I learnt a political/religious conflict arose in the college unit and after all the shit got solved, the main people responsible named me for controlling it all from the shadows (I learnt later it was because they were cornered and as I was not in the unit and absent at the time, there's be no repercussions to pass the blame on me). And I was shocked! I was told to beg for forgiveness from everyone for instigating all that and I refused. Some of my batchmates slapped me, one even brought a rod to scare me...however, I didn't apologise and said I won't because I didn't do it. They left me alone but threatened me that they will see that I toe my line.

I went up to the roof and cried the whole night. I was scared of my own friends...whom I fed from my own money, for whom I left my own studies and now am unable to even concentrate properly. Whom I saved from all kinds of trouble so many times. I was disgusted with myself for doing all that to be their friends. I was surprised that all it took was one rumour for all that "Deep" friendship to come apart. Despite all my efforts and making so MANY friends, not one was by my side when I needed them. And now I had no one...not my family to turn to for my college problems, not any trusted friend I could confide in about my family problems.

I realised I was better off before, alone. It's not too bad to piss off people to stay happy myself than to please everyone and make others happy. So now I didn't like anyone and preferred my displeasure if anyone insulted me instead of joking about it, I was downright rude. I found myself resenting others in my batch, and others resenting me. It's not all bad though...I don't have any friends now, but I have a lot more alone time to focus ony hobbies. Also, I'm getting something I never got before-- respect. A few people apparently now want to be like me they tell me....that NEVER happened before. Not like I believe any of them anyway, I learnt better than that now.

Anyway, I was at home now for vacation. But will return to college in 2 days again for semester exams. And I hate it. I resent having to go back among those people who I know all hate me. I don't know how I'm supposed to spend all these years there still. It's such frustrating. A lot of times I thought about running away...but allu families hopes are on me so I can't. It's so hard sometimes....bearing it all.

Anyway idk what I wanted from you guys by saying all this. But if you read through all that, thank you, from my heart. Please, don't be like me and ruin your life. Learn to love yourself. You are great. Fuck all others. Bye. Hope I survive the rest of the college life 😁.

Anything you can think of that feels repetitive and boring to do or something so cumbersome you dont even want to do. Or it could be something that's still not solved.

Same as the title

For me it's the sports club subscription(if that counts)

Life has been kind of confusing. I’ve tried to take things less seriously, but somehow, I feel like I’m losing touch with the things that used to make me happy. We had college fest, and it was amazing. Today, there was a concert of a popular Bollywood singer, and I was really happy since it was my first concert.

But when I got there, I saw everyone around me dancing, singing,vibing , and really enjoying the moment. And then there was me…just standing there, not really able to get into it. I wanted to feel the energy, to be a part of it, but I was just not able to enjoy from within.

It’s not just this concert. Lately, it feels like everything in my life is a little empty. I wish I had someone to talk to about all this, someone who would really understand. Someone who loves my yapping, or even atleast a friend who I know is never gonna leave my side no matter what happens. I miss being able to enjoy things fully, way I used to. I want to feel that enjoyment and the feeling of having someone, like kid me used to.

I really want to do so many things, and I really want to enjoy that from within, I dont want that till the time I able to fulfill my dreams, I dont enjoy it anymore.

So my cat recently had a fight w another cat due which he got injured and we took him go hospital. He got proper treatment necessary at that time. He puked twice and then I fed him syrup for it, he was also having fever for which we also gave him meds. Now he is having pale yellow nose n ears n paws along w that not having food for two days nor he did any feaces. He has blood test day after tomorrow. What can I do till then? How can I feed him also what can I feed him. What can I do to comfort him.although He is drinking water n urinating. I talked to emergency vet too but idk I am not able to find peace, I want to help him. He is literally not moving other than for water.

I'm a 1st year student at a top IIT name nahi lunga nahi to dox ho jaunga cause matter serious hai . For context I'm 18M , 6'2 ... bodybuilding and boxing bhi karta hu

So last night me , my friend { paas wale room ka } and my roommate along with his gf { basically pehle hum teeno akele jaa rahe the but girls hostel ke bahar he uski gf bhi dikh gayi to usne unko bhi bula liya } went out to explore the city and have good food .

So , hum chaaro ek kaafi acche restaurant me the and humare paas me ek paas he ke local private college ke students ka group baitha hua tha { 6 boys , 3rd year ke the } . Meine meri IIT ki hoodie pehni thi to vo dekh ke usme se ek banda humse baat karne laga , normal stuff like life kaisi and all
Then , they started commenting ki you guys are book nerds and what not so mere dost ka ego aaya cause uski GF ke saamne uski apni "masculinity" dikhani thi and usne unko bol diya ki apne kaam se kaam rakho
and pata nahi kaise baat itni escalate ho gayi ki sab ek doosre ko gaali bakne lag gaye
Then hum chaaro restaurant se food pack kara ke nikal gaye .

Now , vo 6 ladke bahar aa gaye humse ladne and jab tak mera dost unse baat kar raha tha tab tak meine mere dost ki gf ko Jaldi se auto me bitha ke campus bhej diya so that vo safe rahe { food bhi unko de diya taaki maar khane ke baad jab campus aaye to atleast tasty khana mil jae bas } .

Then out of nowhere , usme jo sabse bulky type tha vo mere dost { jiski gf hai } ko maarne laga and fir hum dono bhi maarne lage unko . Mein boxing bhi karta hu so I started punching them so hard ki do bando ke mooh [ face ] se khoon nikal ne laga and mere dono dost andar restaurant me help maange bhaag gaye and mein vo 6 ladko se fist fight kar raha tha . Then usme se ek ne mere face ki pic leli and bola tujhe baad me nipta denge and vo log chale gaye

Itni gaali di hai na meine mere vo dono dosto ko ki kya he batau , 6 ladko ke saamne dono ka sigma male darr gaya and masculinity khatam ho gayi

I was in so much pain bro .... cause mujhe bike key and metal chains wale punches pade hai
and then hum teeno chup chaap campus aa gaye and vo tasty food kha liya
raat ko bohot pain ho raha tha so mujhe laga subah tak theek ho jaega .... poori body pe cuts and bruises hai
then aaj subah when i woke up , i found out that i have Swollen Ribs , have 2 broken nails and a fractured pinky finger
and mera dost { gf wala } had a small lip cut with a swollen cheek and a mild swelling to his eye
Moral of this long ass story/rant :- Apni GF ko impress ya masculinity show karne ke liye kabhi bhi fights mat kiya karo

EDIT :- my friend just told me aaj shaam ko he mere hostel ke warden se 10 ladke mere face ki pic dikha ke mera naam aur room number puch rahe the .
thank god warden ne kuch nahi bataya and un sabko campus se bahar kar diya
mere ek dost ne bataya ki unke paas literally glass bottles and cricket bats the

Confused as to get a job or finish learning valuations

Hi, myquals bsc Hons mathematics I had a backlog in my last year so I decided instead of getting a job I should open my own institute and teach students there Did that for a whole year still teaching and then decided to do a course in financial modelling and advance valuations in which interview questions and LinkedIn profile building is included and the course feels like a bang for my buck it will take me 2-3 months to complete the course in its entirety and start applying for jobs (I want to do cfa down the line) But my parents and friends are urging me that I should get a job right now rather than doing all this stuff all I am getting are bpo jobs and sales jobs which I don't wanna do and this constant nagging is effecting my motivation What do I do? Have I ruined my career I am 22 and would turn 23 in coming March I feel like a total failure

Hey everyone! I’m in the market for a complete CCTV set with 8 cameras. I need night vision, audio support, and mobile viewing within a budget of 20-25k INR. Any suggestions? Thanks!

Hi folks, i'm from bangalore,M30, single, no siblings, never had a gf and this arrange match makings aren't going as expected, doing a job in IT field which feels like always on an edge, never had any real close friends with whom i can share how things are going on with me, have hardly 4-5 friends since engineering who'll meet unless i initiate calls/texts, feels like i'm having a routine and boring life :-( first time ever i'm posting online about how's my life going on. Am i overthiking ?