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Daily Questions Thread November 30, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

77 Comments
2024/11/30
11:01 UTC

346

What are your favorite "what people are wearing outfits" sites to browse?

The most joy I feel in fashion hunting is when I see a full outfit that just clicks: it's been styled with thought by someone, I can see it in front of me and clearly know I like it, and I know it is somewhat practical (aka isn't avant garde) because a real person is walking about real life wearing it.

However, watching these 'what people are wearing in NYC' videos isn't as great of an experience because I would much rather just browse through photos, and better yet have those photos tagged or categorized with some basic style key words that I could then search through to only see the styles I am interested in.

Does anyone have such websites or galleries they would like to recommend?

48 Comments
2024/11/29
18:04 UTC

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General Discussion - November 29, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

4 Comments
2024/11/29
11:01 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 29, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

101 Comments
2024/11/29
11:01 UTC

162

The good, the bad, the ugly: can we talk about Target?

I live in the boonies which means these days I rarely try on clothes in store unless I happen to find myself in a place like NYC. The exception, however, is a Target in the next town. My guilty pleasure is trying on bathing suits or workout clothes and occasionally buying something compelling.

For you Target experts, what are the good brands? What do you avoid? What is hit or miss? I feel like there are gems there, and I haven't taken the time to sift through clutter. I've made some mistakes, mainly being seduced by low prices.

So far I've had luck with bikinis from Xhiliration, now mainly Shade & Shore. Joylab. The rare One Fine Day skirt [I've bought a couple of bad ones too]. Not-cheap chocolate and Essie nail polish that you can buy elsewhere. What am I missing? And should I feel bad about even considering these fast fashion items?

76 Comments
2024/11/28
01:52 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 28, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

67 Comments
2024/11/28
11:01 UTC

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Random Fashion Thoughts - November 27, 2024

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

15 Comments
2024/11/27
11:01 UTC

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WAYWT - November 27, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
6 Comments
2024/11/27
11:01 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 27, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

133 Comments
2024/11/27
11:01 UTC

5

Go to loafers

What are your go to loafers? Something comfortable that you can wear all day.

5 Comments
2024/11/27
08:02 UTC

41

How have you seen a "Pear Body" embraced AND flattered by a garment?

By "Pear Body'* I mean bodies where the hip line is the widest feature. This is down to bone structure with the pelvis area simply being more 'splayed' and is very common among women POC.

Like I have only ever seen approaches that (1) try to slim up the hips and thighs and (2) add a lot of fluff, poof, and commotion around the bodice and shoulders in an effort purely to 'distract' from the wide hips and thighs. I find any attempts to 'slim up' the lower body just never work, and these clothes often don't look flattering when you are in movement or going about your day (because you can only hold an illusion in a pose or a moment).

I would love to see any outfits that you find do justice to the pear shaped body by letting the widest part of the body just be. I'm new to the styling world, and I only have one to share, this dress worn by Saoirse Ronan.

It struck me as such a perfect dress for honoring a pear body shape: it does not try to slim the hips, and instead breaks into this wider line right at the widest point of the hips and continues to place all this texture and bunched up fabric right around the thighs. It does not add a bunch of poof and pizzazz at the neckline and upper chest (It is super smooth and sleek and draped beautifully). It subverts the entire narrative on dressing for 'pear shaped bodies' (does the opposite of downplaying lower body and poofing up the upper).

What styles and garments have you seen worn that really acknowledge and flatter the 'pear body' shape?

* Disclaimer: I know the term 'Pear Body' isn't in vogue since the connotation is of prescribing clothing off of a body feature seen as a flaw (the wide hips), but I am looking for a way to acknowledge that body part and accommodate it as it is.

21 Comments
2024/11/27
07:43 UTC

89

"Go-to" trench coats

Hi all -- I'm curious what everyone wears as their go-to trench coat. I am absolutely obsessed with the trench coat silhouette and its purpose as a light, transitional season coat, but have been thwarted in purchasing by the typical color scheme - beige, beige, khaki, and MORE beige. So I am curious if others have bitten the bullet (and beige suits them more than it does me, lol), or if people have found cute non-beige, high quality options.

Companies I've seen with a nice trenchcoat include Cuyana's silk trench coat and Madewell. Unfortunately both color schemes fall into the dreaded beige category. Would love to get the discussion going for more options!

89 Comments
2024/11/26
20:49 UTC

72

How do you style Doc Martens?

For reference I have the platform ones- they sit in my closet way too much and I have no clue what to wear them with? They feel a bit clunky to me- I am a taller girl (about 5’10”) and my shoe size is 9.5 so maybe that plays into the clunkiness feeling but I need some confidence and proper styling 😩 help

45 Comments
2024/11/26
19:25 UTC

37

Fashion newsletters?

Hey everybody,

I subscribe to newsletters for pretty much all of my interests but haven’t seen a good one around outfit curation/ fashion. At least one that isn’t just a marketing list from a brand.

Does anyone have any good recs?

18 Comments
2024/11/26
16:58 UTC

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Hair, Makeup, Skincare, Fitness, and Fragrance Thread - November 26, 2024

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

  • What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
  • Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
  • Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?
0 Comments
2024/11/26
11:00 UTC

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General Discussion - November 26, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

10 Comments
2024/11/26
11:00 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 26, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

88 Comments
2024/11/26
11:00 UTC

149

Examples where the outerwear IS the outfit (aka serves a major aesthetic role)

Hello friends,

Most of my life is out and about in commute and just bearing the regular weather. I've lived on both coasts, so I've been through the West coast-kinda winters (which are just cold and/or rainy) and the East coast winters (which are hella cold and snowy). This got me thinking, surely there must be some very well styled outfits where the outerwear is a critical piece of the outfit itself.

I'm not talking about a luxurious peacoat or expensive puffer jacket that 'goes with everything' and is 'an investment piece'. Neither am I talking about an avant garde fashion week outfit where someone is wearing something as flashy as a met gala attendee.

I'd love any thoughts on outfits you've seen, whether in everyday life or born by a fashion designer, where the outerwear is as aesthetically relevant part of the outfit as any other garment (or maybe even more).

64 Comments
2024/11/25
17:14 UTC

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Recent Purchases November 25, 2024

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

14 Comments
2024/11/25
11:01 UTC

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Fashion news - November 25, 2024

Here you can share all the fashion related news you have come across recently. Whether it is a newly released runway, an interview with a designer, a new label slashing onto the scene or speculating new trends emerging, everything news related is welcome here.

0 Comments
2024/11/25
11:01 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 25, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

78 Comments
2024/11/25
11:01 UTC

145

Let’s talk Black Friday!

What do you have your eyes on? Any early bird specials? Where are the best deals?

138 Comments
2024/11/24
13:51 UTC

20

Does this fit me? November 24 2024

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

19 Comments
2024/11/24
11:01 UTC

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WAYWT - November 24, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
3 Comments
2024/11/24
11:01 UTC

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Daily Questions Thread November 24, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

69 Comments
2024/11/24
11:01 UTC

76

2025 Fashion trends

What’s everyone’s predictions for 2025 early winter / spring / summer and fall fashion trends? I’m trying to get ahead lol.

77 Comments
2024/11/24
05:07 UTC

177

How do you determine whether clothes are too tight/too oversized?

When clothes are supposed to fit tight/oversized, how do you decide if they fit right or that it’s too much? Sometimes I struggle to decide if it fits fine/it fits how it’s supposed to fit or that it’s too tight/oversized on me and I need a different size.

Do you have specific rules? Look at how it fits on the model? How do you make sure you don’t buy things that look alright when you quickly try them on but when you wear them for a day find out it’s actually ill fitting?

52 Comments
2024/11/23
16:32 UTC

5

Daily Questions Thread November 23, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

90 Comments
2024/11/23
11:01 UTC

117

Fall/Winter Trends to DIY 2024

I got inspired seeing u/BlaisePetal's inspo album the other week and threw together a mood board of the trends I wanna try this season, with plans to upcycle or refashion some of the things I have to try them more cheaply.

Trends to Try and (Aspirational) DIY Plans:

  • Sheer, voluminous skirts - Besides just getting a skirt, I picked up some super cheap gauzy scarves from the Goodwill bins that could be layered to achieve this look
  • Long gloves - I tried the "subversive basics" trend of cutting up stockings to look like gloves which was cool, but for something functional in the winter I'm going to cut the sleeves off of my dated, skinny-armed cardigan that can't realistically layer with anything. You know the ones.
  • Leg warmers/Boot Cuffs - I think this will be super short lived, but realistically the arm sleeves to gloves DIY is the same as leg warmers sans the thumb hole. If you go for the slumped look, thumb holes might not even be visible.
  • Trailing ribbons - I got some ribbon from the craft store and Michael's keeps sending me $5 coupons that could probably get a roll or two. I'm thinking I could tie some to my bag ala Jane Birkin or around unbuttoned shirt sleeve cuffs to emphasize the dramatic splaying I keep seeing.
  • Sculptural styling to achieve voluminous sleeves look - I got a couple cropped hoodies that can achieve that black/yellow jacket's silhouette if I just roll and push up the sleeves
  • Tight hoods - Idk how to not look like a stoner or turtle doing this but the easiest way I can see this working is pulling on my hoodie drawstrings
  • Organic/Asymmetric necklaces - Two pairs of pliers and some thrift store necklaces can do wonders for getting necklaces at the currently fashionable length. I wanna try to DIY some of the ones that look like silver dripping down your neck

Do you have any plans to refashion or wear your current pieces differently for some of the newer trends?

11 Comments
2024/11/22
19:48 UTC

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General Discussion - November 22, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

23 Comments
2024/11/22
11:01 UTC

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