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10

How do you show your personality with your wardrobe? How to you add a distinctive twist to your outfits that makes you stand out?

Do you add a certain accessory? Do you wear graphic tee with a certain logo/image? Or do you wear bright colors and patterns? Or do you dress similar to most people, but wear extra bold make-up?

21 Comments
2024/11/13
23:47 UTC

5

Daily Questions Thread November 14, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

21 Comments
2024/11/14
11:01 UTC

1

Random Fashion Thoughts - November 13, 2024

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

8 Comments
2024/11/13
11:01 UTC

11

WAYWT - November 13, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
12 Comments
2024/11/13
11:01 UTC

7

Daily Questions Thread November 13, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

125 Comments
2024/11/13
11:01 UTC

5

Let's talk winter coats!

Those of you who are soon to go into the cold winter months...

I am looking for a new coat this winter as each year I feel my wardrobe lacking in this part. I have so many lighter jackets but come November I end up wearing the same stuff over and over. Makes sense, winter coats are expensive, but I never seem to have the right one for the occasion.

I think my mistake has been trying to find one coat to fit every occasion - warm, waterproof, stylish. But then the "all rounder" will be not long enough, not elegant enough, and so on.

When maybe I should be focusing my attention on the specific occasions I am trying to dress for. Like 1 coat for when I am exercising or running errands. 1 more dressy one. 1 super warm one.

How many winter coats do you have? Are they all different from each other? Do you have any personal guidelines for how to shop for coats or for putting winter outfits together?

4 Comments
2024/11/12
15:55 UTC

1

Hair, Makeup, Skincare, Fitness, and Fragrance Thread - November 12, 2024

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

  • What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
  • Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
  • Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?
4 Comments
2024/11/12
11:01 UTC

3

General Discussion - November 12, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

17 Comments
2024/11/12
11:01 UTC

3

Daily Questions Thread November 12, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

119 Comments
2024/11/12
11:01 UTC

262

Curvy pants - I tried a bunch so you don't have to

This sub has a couple of posts discussing where to find jeans for curvy figures, but none that discuss pants. So I went to a mall yesterday and tried a bunch of pants on. Below are my findings.

To be clear, I'm focusing specifically on pants (so, no jeans) with low/no stretch. Ratings indicate how well the brand's pants fit a curvy figure, nothing else.

Gap: 0/10 everything I tried gaps at the waist (pun intended).

JCrew: 0/10 same story. I tried their "slim-wide" pants hoping that could indicate a curvier fit, but no.

Talbots: 6/10 has designated curvy fit in pants, which for me, was a strict improvement over the previous 2 brands, but still not entirely correct. I'd say, if your waist is moderately smaller than your hips, this could be worth trying.

Loft: 8?/10 has designated curvy fit pants, but doesn't carry them in store. I found 1 pair of curvy petites (probably a victim of returns), and they fit my waist and hips amazingly well. Reassured by this success, I ordered some online and will update when I get them.

Uniqlo: 9/10 surprise of the year! Typically, they design everything for rectangle bodies, so I didn't expect to get very successful there, but this year, their pants are designed to fit extra super-duper baggy, so for a curvy person, it translates into fitted through waist and hips + wide legs. Specifically, I liked their chinos and cords. Their pleated line, on the other hand, I find unflattering: it billows in the front, and the leg is tapered.

If you have found pants that fit a curvy figure, please let me know.

111 Comments
2024/11/11
15:53 UTC

7

Recent Purchases November 11, 2024

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

16 Comments
2024/11/11
11:01 UTC

1

Fashion news - November 11, 2024

Here you can share all the fashion related news you have come across recently. Whether it is a newly released runway, an interview with a designer, a new label slashing onto the scene or speculating new trends emerging, everything news related is welcome here.

3 Comments
2024/11/11
11:01 UTC

6

Daily Questions Thread November 11, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

124 Comments
2024/11/11
11:01 UTC

69

How to create balance in work vs casual wardrobe?

Hi all,

I’ve been going through my journey to find my personal style, and I came to the realization that I’m always at conflict between my work and a personal wardrobe; I feel like I get too much use in my work wardrobe, and not enough in my personal one. My work wardrobe is pretty sparse (maybe ~10% of my wardrobe, ~15% if we stretch and include work appropriate casual tops) and yet I wear it every day. On the other hand, my personal wardrobe is ~90% of my wardrobe, and yet I only wear them twice a week at most, and every time I open my wardrobe I get stressed about how little I actually wear them.

I came across an old thread and saw a comment that resonated with me - the user tries to have a wardrobe of casual, but workplace-appropriate, clothes, so that you can theoretically wear the clothes for both the workplace and the wardrobe. Now of course I know there are limits - the strategy depends on how casual your workplace is, and that can change if you switch jobs. Not to mention, there is value in also having some casual, fun outfits too, especially since I really like color. Nonetheless, the idea of having a more even mix - or even a wardrobe where I feel like everything is “getting its use” - is really appealing to me. I’m also in the process of majorly updating my wardrobe + moving, so I feel like this is the perfect time for me to create a better balance. I know we don’t have to create a balance, and there is the risk that always dressing “for work” will blend work and personal too much; but I personally want to create a better balance, and I think the reduced stress whenever I look at my wardrobe will be worth it.

Some potential strategies:

  1. focus on colors and fits that I like, and create a “outfit template” that makes me feel “me” and I feel confident in - and then buy clothes that fit that
  2. Focus on clothes I would wear socially and are also work-appropriate, rather than work-appropriate first and squeezing them into social events - no use buying work-appropriate if I’d never reach for them outside of work.
  3. Try to get clothes of high-quality material - I’ve noticed that sturdier fabrics, natural fibers, etc look better and can transition better between the two functions
  4. Make a Venn diagram - rather than work-social, divide up my wardrobe into work-both-social

How are we creating balance in our work vs casual wardrobe? What are some strategies we can take?

23 Comments
2024/11/11
03:06 UTC

64

What's your festive party outfit for this holiday season?

I just realized I've been invited to more than 10 holiday events already: corporate, social, formal, and informal! I've ordered some items online, but not really sure what's "in" this year. Gonna try on some sequined mini skirts and sheer black tops. How about you ladies? Are you planning a new outfit, or do you have an "old reliable" in the closet waiting to shine?

69 Comments
2024/11/11
03:09 UTC

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Does this fit me? November 10 2024

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

12 Comments
2024/11/10
11:01 UTC

13

WAYWT - November 10, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
15 Comments
2024/11/10
11:01 UTC

3

Daily Questions Thread November 10, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

54 Comments
2024/11/10
11:01 UTC

9

Daily Questions Thread November 09, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

95 Comments
2024/11/09
11:01 UTC

8

General Discussion - November 08, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

5 Comments
2024/11/08
11:01 UTC

13

Daily Questions Thread November 08, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

149 Comments
2024/11/08
11:01 UTC

14

Daily Questions Thread November 07, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

115 Comments
2024/11/07
11:01 UTC

73

Ladies! When purchasing bags, how do you decide between black, brown or tan?

Do you decide based on personal preference, functionality, wardrobe, skin tone and/or hair color? Or all of the above?

I need a few new bags for traveling and I’m on the struggle bus! 🚌 Thank you.

96 Comments
2024/11/06
22:10 UTC

82

If you were to keep 2 lists on your phone to help you shop, (1) you don’t like these and (2) you have enough of these, what would be on them?

Inspired by comment by u/b_xf on the personal shopping rules thread.

If you were to keep 2 lists on your phone to help you shop, (1) you don’t like these and (2) you have enough of these, what would be on them?

I thought this was a genius way to stop shopping regrets.

51 Comments
2024/11/06
15:03 UTC

9

Random Fashion Thoughts - November 06, 2024

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

9 Comments
2024/11/06
11:01 UTC

7

WAYWT - November 06, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
12 Comments
2024/11/06
11:01 UTC

16

Daily Questions Thread November 06, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

98 Comments
2024/11/06
11:01 UTC

2

Hair, Makeup, Skincare, Fitness, and Fragrance Thread - November 05, 2024

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

  • What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
  • Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
  • Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?
1 Comment
2024/11/05
11:01 UTC

7

General Discussion - November 05, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

18 Comments
2024/11/05
11:01 UTC

2

Daily Questions Thread November 05, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

43 Comments
2024/11/05
11:01 UTC

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