Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

I use this subreddit a lot for what brands to buy and which purchases are worth it. I wanted to give back in some way :D

I was inspired by the concept of shopping more sustainably and purchasing higher quality pieces that cost more but last longer. However I also know that its always a bit scary to buy expensive pieces especially online not knowing if its worth it. I feel like all the online fashion content we consume on Youtube can be disingenuous at times as influencers push brands that actually produce sub par products. Hopefully this detailed review helps.

##Misses

Vuori

Halo Essential Wide Leg Pants: https://vuoriclothing.com/products/womens-halo-essential-wideleg-black-heather?queryId=531c56e3941e18fb90346ba305e51c32&collection=womens-pants

Purchased this to run errands and travel (I fly atleast 6 - 8 times a year).

Date of Purchase: October 4, 2024 Cost per Wear: $6.19. I have worn this ~20 times.

Pros:

1. The material is very soft. I like the drape of the pant as well. I got the hem of the pants tailored because it was too long for me. I did this after wearing the pants ~5 times. Including hemming the pants this cost me 130$.

Cons:

1. The 10th time I wore it I saw pilling on the outer thigh area. I hadn't washed my pants yet (I wear thermals underneath always). This was annoying because I expected the pants to pill after using it a lot more. Since I spent so much money and time in these stupid pants I'm going to make an effort to wear them atleast until the cost per wear goes below 2$.

Sezane

Gaspard Cardigan: https://www.sezane.com/us/product/gaspard-cardigan/ecru#size-XS

Pros:

1. I like that the color of the buttons matches the color of the cardigan.

Cons:

1. Extremely oversized. I'm usually an S/M but I got an XS and it still fit badly.
2. I got the ecru color which was very see through. The material was very thin. I felt like it was tissue paper stitched into a sweater.
3. The column of buttons on the sweater seemed badly stitched in ? It looks bumpy and shabby.
4. Overall the sweater looked like I had washed it in a washing machine once or twice

I got annoyed and returned it immediately.

##Hits

Madewell

Harlow wide leg pants: https://www.madewell.com/p/womens/clothing/pants/the-harlow-superwide-leg-trouser-in-brushed-twill/NT345/?ccode=WR1633

Date of Purchase: September 7, 2023 Cost per Wear: $4.64. I have worn this ~30 times. I bought this for 130$

Pros:

1. Doesn't get crumpled. Easy to maintain
2. Looks classy for work. I like the way it drapes

Doc Martens

I think its this: https://www.drmartens.com/us/en/1460-reclaimed-leather-lace-up-boots-black/p/31808001

Date of Purchase: Sometime around 2022 Cost per wear: 5$. I've worn this ~30 times.

Pros:

1. Looks nice even after so many years and many times wearing it. The slight signs of wear makes it look lived in rather than shabby / worn out.

Cons:

1. Its time consuming to put on.

Club Monaco Merino wool mockneck sweater: https://www.clubmonaco.com/en/women-clothing-sweaters/merino-rib-mockneck-sweater/295101883.html?dwvar_295101883_colorname=IVORY%20%2F%20IVOIRE&cgid=&ab=e10813b81be60e5b28f39c525c_295101883

Date of Purchase: Dec 2024 Cost per Wear: 16.66$. I have worn this ~9 times.

Pros:

1. Thick enough to be a sweater (unlike the Sezane piece). Its also thin enough to be a layering piece. Works both ways basically.
2. Looks nice ... material feels nice

I got this on a 40% sale of 130$. I don't think its worth 130$ but its worth the sale price.

I'm planning on getting clothes from LilySilk and Gaala as well. If people like this post I can also post my detailed reviews from these brands.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Looking back at previous decades there were a lot of colors used, especially in combinations and prints. That's not to say there haven't been more muted periods like 70s autumnals or the dark tonal hues of 90s grunge, but those palettes still contained colors not limited to neutral shades. It's generally accepted that in more recent years the use of color in public spaces and the average person's home and wardrobe has waned. This seems to have led to a lot of people expressing discomfort with wearing colors or not knowing how to apply them, likely leading to more unsold inventory in non neutrals.

Availability of clothing in bold colors seem to be a high-low horseshoe of designer and niche brands or fast fashion and discount stores (though I've noticed some large scale budget retailers toning things down lately) with midrange retailers producing mostly neutrals with the occasional item outside of the horse colors spectrum, which often ends up in the clearance bin. Companies may be less interested in taking the risk of producing items in expressive shades for a public unwilling to wear them, leading to less accessibility in the mainstream and less willingness to experiment or become comfortable with color and so on.

It's imaginable something will eventually cause this to break on a larger level, but I also recall the way that bright colors and audacious designs hit major retailers after years of aesthetic minimalism and quickly receded into alt style as Dopamine Dressing during the early part of this decade before being overtaken by more visual austerity, with not nearly enough time for the general public to get reacquainted and comfortable with wearing color again.

As it is I see a lot of desire to wear color with conflicting anxiety both online and in real life for a variety of reasons, whether fear of "tackiness" a concept often rooted in -isms pertaining to bold colors and patterns, or not wanting to receive unnecessary attention or incur judgment. The renewed popularity of color analysis gives the impression that wearing color is something people want but are less willing to go through the possible growing pains of experimentation for, opting for something more prescriptive.

To an extent, trepidation around wearing color has long been present, but not to this degree. Wearing color was not previously something terribly uncommon because there was generally more of it around and now it seems to be looked upon as radical. Overall the majority of people just wear less color now and those who do stand out more.

Fashion girlies: what are you wearing for a night out/to parties? I feel like I no longer know what’s cool…

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

• Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
• Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
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• What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
• Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
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This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

This is something of a vent, but i've put down roots in a small town and I feel like it is a kind of a death to forgo multicolor makeup, weird shoes and formality. The problem is I don't want to be the lone person dressed up. I'd move to New York in a heartbeat if I could afford to. How do you deal with having your spirit stifled by compulsory blandness?

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

• What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
• Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
• Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Looking for something easy to carry, but with enough heat if one HYPOTHETICALLY gets fed up with Nazis. Looking for a modern Danuta Danielsson vibe.

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

Here you can share all the fashion related news you have come across recently. Whether it is a newly released runway, an interview with a designer, a new label slashing onto the scene or speculating new trends emerging, everything news related is welcome here.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

What are some winter pants (ie. can be worn with boots) that are in style?

I find winter boots (either knee high or Ugg Adirondack style) are tight to the leg and only skinny pants seem to fit into them. But I thought skinny jeans and skinny fit pants are out and wide leg pants are in. Finding wide leg pants to fit over winter boots seems to be hard as the pant leg needs to be very wide, so what do people wear now to be in style? Any examples of exact styles that can be googled or photos are appreciated.

I love jewelry, but I am new to shopping for it. Museum collections are wonderful inspiration, and I have found that gravitate towards simple representational pieces without precious gems. In my dreams, it's possible to find similar pieces in the real world without spending a fortune. But in practice, I don't know how to begin looking.

Here are two examples of pieces that I love and wish I understood how to find for myself:

• A pear pendant set on a chain. Here is a Robert Kulicke necklace with a cloisonne enamel pendant depicting a pear that I find incredibly charming. It sold for $1,100. There are two ways of interpreting that: (1) $1,100! that is way out of budget (2) a fifty-year-old necklace created by a deceased Academician at the National Academy of Design sold for only $1,100. Since the materials and the techniques are only part of the cost for such a special, original piece, shouldn't it be possible to find something similar by a less famous designer for an affordable price?
• A grape brooch made with glass in the Victoria and Albert museum in London. I love these grapes! Each one is about the size of an adult's pinky nail, and I adore how there are only three, which makes the piece feel delicate and minimalist rather than fussy and crowded. Forget all the rose cut diamonds set into the piece, and you're looking at three small pieces of glass in a silver setting. My brain tells me it "should be" possible to find something similar that isn't $1,000. But searching for grape necklaces, I mostly find dense clusters of tiny gemstones like this Tiffany necklace or pieces of glass like this Etsy piece. This upcycled necklace has some of the charm I'm looking for, but isn't quite right.

What websites, physical stores, marketplaces or other sources do you all use to find affordable jewelry that fits a particular aesthetic vision or closely matches a particular item in a collection?

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

• Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
• Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
• Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
• Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
• Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
• What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
• Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
• Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
• Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

I am a dentist. I feel a bit frumpy in what I wear. I am shooting for comfort more than anything. I love the feel of med couture scrubs. Figs feel very restrictive.

What are your favorite healthcare brands and how do you style scrubs?

Looking for any advice from shoes, to daily socks, under scrub bras, under shirts, vests, jackets etc.,

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

Do you wear scarves in summer? If yes, how do you style them?

Hey everyone! With spring break coming around, I wanted to ask if anyone has any favorite new/cheap cute bikini brands? I feel like there are so many these days. Any favorite newer ones? Thanks!

Here are some brands I've shopped at:

- Aerie

- Forever 21

- Revolve

Like google searching also turns up these...

- Pretty Little Thing

- Hello Molly

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

• Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
• Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
• If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
• Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

As the world politics, climate, and individual struggles we have pile up, a lot of us on this sub can probably relate to at least one unifying thought: what we wear can make us feel more ourselves and comforted amid chaos, even if that feeling is relatively fleeting compared to the more stable aspects of life.

I'm in the US, and queer, and nonbinary, and a parent, and struggling amid parent care and finances, and visually do not dress like many of the parents near me despite living in a city.

But you know what helps me feel kind of freaking amazing anyway right now?

My Helmut Lang knitted shrug in black, my Thursday Coda boots (edited to remove link because it turns out the cofounder is bad--we can't have nice things huh? I easily will say my Dr. Marten's chelsea boots that I wear all the time instead!), an obscure t-shirt my friend made, a pair of sunglasses my husband gave me as a gift years ago, my handbags in general which I've taken time to select and really like. They're little things, but they're a balm.

What are yours??