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1

How do you ditch the jeans?

I don't exactly have anything against jeans, but I find them a little limiting outfit-wise. I'm in a place which has a very short winter season and it never really gets very cold, so you tend to not find much more than typical fast fashion fare for winter (and even then it is very limited!), so you just...well, wear jeans.

I was wondering what you lovely people here wear for daily out and about bottoms, and how are you styling them for autumn and winter? Would love to see what's in for everyone in the upcoming seasons.

2 Comments
2024/09/18
17:15 UTC

7

Daily Questions Thread September 19, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

97 Comments
2024/09/19
10:01 UTC

98

What are some of your favorite pieces from your closet?

Do you have some things that you absolutely love? Something that you saved up for, has a special meaning behind it, that’s so comfortable you could wear it every day or something that just looks so good on you?

I always love hearing about people’s favorite pieces and stories behind their closet

75 Comments
2024/09/18
22:53 UTC

138

Love the concept, hate the execution

A frequent advice given when trying to create or refine your personal style is to create a mood/vision board where you keep colors, textures, silhouettes and even whole outfits you like and then try to identify recurring patters or common threads... this all sounds great and you might even be able to come up with an outfit from your currently existing clothes yet when you put it on... its just... not it?

How do you explain feeling underwhelmed or even hating an outfit you should theoretically love?

How do you go about fixing it or is just that the style doesn't really "suit" you?

How do you bridge the gap between expectation and the limitations of reality?

31 Comments
2024/09/18
05:26 UTC

7

Random Fashion Thoughts - September 18, 2024

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

31 Comments
2024/09/18
10:01 UTC

5

WAYWT - September 18, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
5 Comments
2024/09/18
10:01 UTC

8

Daily Questions Thread September 18, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

162 Comments
2024/09/18
10:01 UTC

268

What beauty or fashion products CANNOT be duped, in your opinion?

Title. I'm just wondering what products for beauty & fashion you actually have to get the originals of, in your opinion, rather than a cheaper dupe or other alternative? I'm interested to hear everyone's thoughts.

319 Comments
2024/09/17
12:07 UTC

5

Hair, Makeup, Skincare, Fitness, and Fragrance Thread - September 17, 2024

This thread is for simple hair and makeup questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

Example questions:

  • What's a good conditioner for straight, thick hair?
  • Where can I find a perfume with subtle pine notes?
  • Do you use a foundation with sunscreen? Is it worth it?
8 Comments
2024/09/17
10:01 UTC

7

General Discussion - September 17, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

27 Comments
2024/09/17
10:01 UTC

5

Daily Questions Thread September 17, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

67 Comments
2024/09/17
10:01 UTC

21

Recent Purchases September 16, 2024

This thread is for sharing all your new buys. Clothes, shoes, razors cologne, share it all. ...Just kidding. But just like MFA, and per your suggestions, we are now going to have a weekly recent purchases thread. So gather round and brag about your purchases! Bags, clothing, shoes, jewellery, perfume, etc.

If possible, please share a picture and a little review! Pictures can also be shared directly in the comments now.

36 Comments
2024/09/16
10:01 UTC

5

Fashion news - September 16, 2024

Here you can share all the fashion related news you have come across recently. Whether it is a newly released runway, an interview with a designer, a new label slashing onto the scene or speculating new trends emerging, everything news related is welcome here.

3 Comments
2024/09/16
10:01 UTC

6

Daily Questions Thread September 16, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

115 Comments
2024/09/16
10:01 UTC

263

What item(s) changed your whole sense of your style, or made your style make sense?

I've been thinking about some of my favorite clothes and accessories. I realized I usually love them so much because once I started wearing them, other elements of my wardrobe started falling into place. Clothes I didn't know how to wear suddenly made sense, it became much easier to put together outfits, and I knew what I wanted to buy next to create the look I'd been going for. Or if I hadn't known the look I was going for, suddenly I did!

What items of yours made your style come together, whether it was completing what you were already working on or it turned on a light bulb and now you knew what you wanted?

189 Comments
2024/09/16
00:34 UTC

100

What dresses are we wearing to work this fall?

I am a firm blazer/pants or jeans uniform girl but trying to mix it up. What dresses are we wearing that are work appropriate without being overly corporate and suit-like?

57 Comments
2024/09/15
13:37 UTC

8

Does this fit me? September 15 2024

Can’t figure out why a certain outfit doesn’t work for you or are you just stumped on what is flattering on you? Then this is the thread for you and you can ask your questions here.

Please do refrain from talking negatively about your own body, we understand that you are likely frustrated due to various reasons (we’ve all been there) but out of respect for others and their struggles, keeping it positive helps everyone.

14 Comments
2024/09/15
10:01 UTC

9

WAYWT - September 15, 2024

WAYWT is the acronym for "What Are You Wearing Today". It doesn't necessarily need to be what you were wearing TODAY.

  • Post a photo of what you wore. For ease of browsing, please post the image or link directly to it (not imgur albums, Instagram, or other URLs). If you are a blogger, double-check our FFA Rules ('On Blogger Participation') to ensure you aren't in violation.
  • Include what the attire is for (work, school, home) and if applicable, what your fashion goals are (e.g. "I want to look professional," "I'm experimenting with loose-loose silhouettes")
  • Taking photos with your phone? Read this guide.
  • Sharing photos directly in the comments? Just click on the little camera symbol and attach your image.
  • Uploading photos to Imgur? To make your image viewable to anyone with the link, but prevent it from being added to the main Imgur feed, select "hidden" for the privacy setting, not "private" or "public".
  • What is "CCW"? It means "Constructive Criticism Welcome". If you would like to receive CC on your post, you can increase the chances of getting replies by asking for feedback on a specific aspect of your outfit, e.g. "I'm interested in advice for elevating this outfit without the use of jewelry" or "I'd like to know if these pants hit in a flattering spot with these shoes".
  • Critiquing others is welcome and encouraged, and when posting you may receive CC on your outfit, even if you did not explicitly ask for it. Keep it constructive/factual, and try to focus on feedback that will help the person improve..
  • Do not downvote for disagreeing with someone's opinion.
  • Reddit Enhancement Suite makes it very easy to view pictures in a thread.
25 Comments
2024/09/15
10:01 UTC

5

Daily Questions Thread September 15, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

125 Comments
2024/09/15
10:01 UTC

141

Do any high-quality designers keep thick-legged girls in mind when designing leather boots? Big-calf girlies, unite and discuss and commiserate.

EDITING TO ADD: Thanks so much for the recs below for knee-high boots! Any tips for booties?

Most ankle boots give my ankles muffin top—and that's if I can even get them zipped up or pulled on in the first place. Booties never come in "wide-calf." The "wide-calf" knee-highs that don't have a circumference of at least 16" will not zip up, or if they do, cut off my blood circulation.

The only ones I can find that fit are faux leather or poorly constructed. The best I have found is Madewell's wide-calf knee-highs, but even after just one season, the leather is all saggy and wromply around my already quite fat ankles.

I know many of us would pay up to $1,500 for the right pair of solid classic well-constructed leather boots, but everything seems to cap out around $200. And those boots just never last (as evidenced by my rotting broken pile from the past 10 years). Stuart Weitzman is the closest I can find online in this price range, but their "wide-calf" knee-highs are a laughable 14" circumference.

I would like to buy boots from a major high-quality label that are designed with my body type in mind. I am tired of buying fast-fashion plasticky throwaways with ridiculous names like The Go Anywhere Jumbo Curvy Girl Comfort Bootzies. Please tell me I'm not alone here.

58 Comments
2024/09/14
23:10 UTC

92

What Sets Are You Wearing for Air Travel

I fly pretty frequently and have recently become really into the idea of wearing a matching set. I love how put together they look even when they're just sweats.

I always stress over what to wear in flight and since I have a trip coming up, I've been thinking about buying finally pulling the trigger. I've had the Spanx Air Essentials wide leg pants and half zip sweatshirt in my cart for 2 weeks, but for some reason keep looking to see what else is out there. I like the prices at Old Navy but not the colors. I've also been debating some separates from Lululemon in the same color, such as scuba pants or flared pants with a matching top and adding a contrasting sweater or jacket.

What sets are we wearing for travel these days?

128 Comments
2024/09/14
15:30 UTC

6

Daily Questions Thread September 14, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

155 Comments
2024/09/14
10:01 UTC

141

What are your favorite “third pieces” and how are you wearing them?

I am really happy with a lot of things about the style niche I’ve been carving out for myself over the last couple of years — I’ve nailed down a personal color palette, some unique silhouettes that work for me, and the beginnings of outfit formulas. My major style weakness is that I really struggle with layering/third pieces, and I think this is a common issue!

Some of this is my individual shape and pickiness (I’m not flattered by traditional collars and lapels and they also suck for sensory reasons), some of it’s that “business casual” is not a phrase that applies to any aspect of my life so blazers feel weird to me, but I think a lot of it is just lack of confidence, real-world references, and understanding of how and why people use third pieces. I’ve always just been a take-off-your-jacket-when-you-get-there person! But like…I’m almost 30, I moved to a place where I’m chilly on the reg, and I want to do better lol. Can y’all show me the third pieces you have in regular rotation, what you like to wear them with, and how you incorporate them into your outfit formulas more generally? Please post outfit pics or retail stock photos if you have them!

65 Comments
2024/09/13
15:08 UTC

60

What is your go-to outer layer that can be worn indoors and outdoors comfortably?

Mine is a black, zipped hoodie - not very fashionable, but warm and easy to put on top of chunky jumpers plus keeps me dry in the rain.

70 Comments
2024/09/13
12:00 UTC

7

General Discussion - September 13, 2024

Welcome to FFA Group Therapy. In this thread you can talk about whatever you want: life, style, work, relationships, etc. Feel free to vent, share pet photos, or just generally scream into the void.

If you're new to the community, please don't be shy! Say hello and introduce yourself. And if you've been here for a while, welcome our newer subscribers into the fold. =)

Note: Comment rules still apply, don't be a dick.

71 Comments
2024/09/13
10:01 UTC

6

Daily Questions Thread September 13, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

134 Comments
2024/09/13
10:01 UTC

70

4 Trendy Pieces for Fall/Winter?

If you were to choose 4 trendy pieces to carry you through this fall and winter season (each piece under $100) which would you choose?

49 Comments
2024/09/12
21:09 UTC

5

Daily Questions Thread September 12, 2024

This thread is for individual style questions that you may have, especially those that don't warrant their own thread. We all want a diversified opinion, so feel free to answer any questions (of which you know the answer).

To get the best responses, remember that people cannot; look into your wardrobe, know what style you normally like or what words like affordable or practical mean to you so please include any relevant details such as your budget, where you live, what stores are available to you, etc.

Example questions:

  • Are there any basic crewneck white t-shirts that are opaque and do not have cap sleeves for <$25 available in Australia?
  • Is this dress and shoes suitable for an evening wedding with a cocktail dress code taking place in a [venue type]?
  • If I like the outfits in this [imgur album / pinterest board], what are some specific items I can look into to start dressing like that, and brands with this look that carry plus sizes?
  • Does this outfit look neater with the pants cuffed or uncuffed?

If you'd like to include a picture, you can now post pictures directly in the comments, without having to link an imgur album.

140 Comments
2024/09/12
10:01 UTC

236

Does anyone actually dress in the “mob wife aesthetic?”

I’ve noticed a lot of reference photos are just from pop culture references, and real people don’t actually seem to be wearing it. I have a theory that it’s been strategically pushed out for optimization in search engines… but I don’t think it’s an actual (organic) fashion trend, if that makes sense. thoughts?

Edit— thank you for everyone’s responses!

82 Comments
2024/09/11
18:48 UTC

12

Random Fashion Thoughts - September 11, 2024

Talk about your random fashion-related thoughts.

22 Comments
2024/09/11
10:01 UTC

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