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Trying to figure out an appropriate occasion to wear this... Definitely Pride, but maybe just out to a party or a bar?

All thrift except the belt I only got because of a will LOL

Sorry for the odd photo quality, I've been having issues with my camera. I edited it best I could but it's still kinda funky. Feedback welcome.

Hey y’all, I could really use some advice. My sister asked me to be her maid of honor, and I’m doing my best, but all the logistics of dressing the part are totally overwhelming me. She expects me to come up with tons of ideas like the other bridesmaids, but I’m a masc lesbian—I don’t know or care about this stuff, and honestly, it’s making me miserable.

The dress is fine because she ultimately just had us all order the same one. I’ll never wear it again (except maybe at a ren fair), but I love her, and it’s what she wanted, so whatever. The real problem is the shoes. I have wide feet, so women’s formal shoes almost never fit me, and I stumble everywhere in heels. She keeps flipping on what she wants—first, it was sandals (the only ones where my feet don’t hang over are Birkenstocks… and she laughed at me when I told her). Then she gave me a pair of heels I should wear, and I bought two different types of inserts to try and make them work, but now she says they clash with the dress and we all need to find chunky-heeled nude sandals.

It’s all just too much. I feel like I’m drowning in discomfort, and honestly, I’m feeling so dysphoric about the whole thing that I get nauseous just thinking about it. I don’t want to be a bad sister, but it also feels like she doesn’t know me at all.

What should I do? Are there any wide-fit, masc-friendly formal shoe options I could suggest? Or should I just suck it up and suffer through a pair that makes me miserable? I really want to support her, but I’m struggling.

I work in a place where alot of people pass by and occasionally I notice some interesting fashion choices like NASA moon boots or one woman dressed like a princess. But recently I've been noticing more women wearing maxi skirts than before, the weird thing is none of the clothing shops near me seems to stock them so are they in fashion or are people just digging them out for winter?

Hi there! I'm bi but lately I've been told by coworkers that I dress like a lesbian or give off lesbian vibes because of my color choices and penchant for cuffed jeans (I'm 5’4 and like selvedge denim.

Mind you, I have other markers like a septum piercing and wrist tattoos yet those don't garner as much attention.

Curious about what you all think.

Does anyone else here hate cars and ride a bike all the time instead?

I've been wearing leggings and tanks (plus winter layers) almost exclusively now but I'm wondering what other outfits might be appropriate for a dyke on a bike. Any tips?

Should I snap a picture to get an idea of what we're working with? I'm honestly just kind of average height, kinda skinny but I have thick thighs. Most stuff fits me.

Anyway, tips would be appreciated!

Went short(ish) hair again God damn that feels so much better XD

Target shirt, Old Navy pants, Tomboy toes shoes.