/r/lesbianfashionadvice

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A place to discuss Sapphic fashion! Masculine, feminine, anything in between-- for all queer women, this is the place.

For anyone who feels out of place or has trouble locating clothes or identifying styles which work for them. All are welcome! Whether you're feminine, androgynous, butch, or otherwise outside the norm, we're here to help you out!

Rules:

Rule 1 - Be Civil: This is meant to be a positive, friendly space. Let's keep it that way. Anyone who considers themselves to be Sapphic belongs here, and racism, xenophobia, ableism, homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia of all varieties are strictly disallowed.

Rule 2 - Restriction of Face-Only Selfies: If you post a face-only selfie, there has to be another photo that showcases at least half of your outfit.

Rule 3 - Restriction of Self-Promotion: No promotional posts or unsolicited comments. The only exception are outfit photos where a promoted item is worn and it or the shop is linked in the comments; and comments containing a link and additional text if explicitly asked for.

Rule 4 - Sexual Content and OnlyFans Spam: This is not intended to be a sexually-charged forum. The furthest into undress that would generally be acceptable here would probably be swimsuit pics, but even then we'd ask that you please flair them as NSFW out of courtesy for others. Obvious thirst traps will be removed, and any attempts to post overtly sexual content (Panty shots, cheesecake, pictures or videos of you groping your chest/crotch, advertising or baiting your OnlyFans, porn, etc) will result in an immediate ban.

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I can't decide wether it's ugly or cute?

I'm getting the tickle to dress more masc again and came across this.... is it ugly? Is it cute? I have such mixed feelings on it. Your opinions? How would ya'll style it? All my jewellery is silver and i have blonde hair if if matters :P

57 Comments
2024/10/30
21:34 UTC

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Butchtober's almost over :(

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2024/10/30
15:16 UTC

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Trends (or lack there of) and money saving

As I’m planning on moving out and going to college, I’ve been building my closet to limit my wants in the future so I can worry more about rent, bills, and other needs, but something came up in my head and I wanted to see if anyone else has had this thought to share their own experience or add ons!

I go for a cutesy aesthetic and know that building my closet is shopping for basics as a start that are versatile but can ve tailored to you— example, tank tops being lace trimmed camisoles, t- shirts being printed baby tees, but that’s the thing! These things are my own personal style, and I’ve found that it’s so much more money saving in comparison to feeling like I have to keep up with a new trend and throwing away what’s ‘out of style’

I also briefly talked about this with a teacher of mine, and she agreed that when she was beginning to move out, trends were what kept her saving less money because she felt like she needed to cycle her clothes out sooo often, and so did my mom

The ‘everything is trending’ discussion isn’t new, but I wanted to see if anyone else has been building a closet based off of their own personal tastes and just slowed down on buying clothes after they’ve realized they have everything they love, not like, and just the promotion of personal taste outweighing societal trends

Edit: watching a chad chad video right now titled “you’ll never be pretty enough” and she’s going into skincare trends— I’m starting to think that skincare and personal care is the new rapid fashion cycling

16 Comments
2024/10/30
12:33 UTC

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How to style leggings to still look masc?

I usually just wear sweatpants but for my new schools dress code we have to wear leggings. How can I style leggings to look masc?

5 Comments
2024/10/29
21:54 UTC

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Suggestions on pants to match this vest?

Any

6 Comments
2024/10/29
19:10 UTC

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What to wear to Diwali Party

What can a couple of (white) lesbians wear to a Diwali party?

3 Comments
2024/10/29
18:17 UTC

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is this outfit too much?

i love this dress but is this too much for a "normal day"? (btw i would wear it with tights but forgot to wear one when i took this pic and excuse my messy room)

31 Comments
2024/10/29
17:36 UTC

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Masc/andro brands after significant weight loss-advice

Hey everyone!

I recently lost 60 pounds, and I am having a hard time looking for clothing that I am excited about.

I am 5’7”, and I tend to go for a more masculine style of dress, especially in tops, bottoms I typically stick to women’s brands. I am now at about 190, and I am having a hard time with finding brands that help me feel like myself. I absolutely love finding vintage pieces at thrift stores too, but being heavier, that has always been a challenge.

I frequented Duluth Trading Post, Lane Bryant, Target, and in the past, but now I have lost enough weight that I don’t have to stick to solely the plus sized section. I have a few pieces from Dapper Boi which I love, but I’m just looking for some inspiration with other brands that people have had great experiences with.

I can currently wear a women’s XL, a men’s large, and size 16 pants. I am so close to being in true “regular size” range, I think I can get there in a healthy way by the end of the year.

Are there any sites or stores that are recommended? I have been saving for several months throughout my weight loss journey, and I am willing to spend if the pieces I get are a good quality.

Thank you, and any advice/insight is much appreciated.

5 Comments
2024/10/29
16:05 UTC

217

Fall Style is my Favorite Style ❤️

4 Comments
2024/10/29
15:30 UTC

53

grocery store fit <3

not pictured are my giant headphones

3 Comments
2024/10/29
10:00 UTC

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People said i look fem here but i was going for a masc look.. What can i do to look more masc?

Except cutting my hair, i don't wanna do that yet

45 Comments
2024/10/29
09:47 UTC

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Where does everyone go their comfortable Baggy/cargo trousers?

Please feel free to drop links below.

2 Comments
2024/10/28
21:40 UTC

225

Autumn Vibes 🍄🍁

It's getting colder now and I wanted to wear my mushroom sweater 🥰

7 Comments
2024/10/28
18:38 UTC

46

Summer times officially over

So it’s time for the cute knitwear

2 Comments
2024/10/28
18:21 UTC

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Shabby chic for some mountain pass bridge work 🏔 🌄

Hard hat used to have more pink, and more queer stickers than my sapphic mud flap girl, but I still feel like I flag alright 🔧👩🏻‍🏭😌

70 Comments
2024/10/28
16:13 UTC

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Haunted prison fit

1 Comment
2024/10/28
15:41 UTC

334

Am I crazy for going as a Fembot for Halloween?

17 Comments
2024/10/28
15:19 UTC

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