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On a recent post I commented that the OPs outfit didn’t look great and the beanie was ridiculous. It wasn’t personal, the outfit was ordinary. My comment has been deleted. Do people here actually want feedback or are we all expected to say how fantastic you look (even if you don’t)?

Hi! My company is bringing the Weed Bar to a 1920's themed party. Normally I wear a tailored blue suit. I won't wear a dress. Can you guys give me some ideas for more androgynous outfits. Dressing up stresses me out. I have long hair and I'm 5'3/120 lbs if that helps. Thank you!

So, I somehow pulled a butch during a cute lil sapphic blind date event and I mentioned how this butch dm’ed me about wanting to take me out to lunch.

And i’ve been searching their socials aka their twitter (ik- i’m insane. BUT TO BE FAIR, we both exchanged all our socials so I just took the opportunity) and noticed that they posted smth on twitter about how excited they are for the summer because of femmes in sundresses, so that got me thinking, what if I wore a sundress to the lunch date?

BUT NOW IM STUCK W/ A MINOR PROBLEM, I’m on the uh- well.. my chest isn’t exactly small. Let’s just say my facilities are facilitating, okay? And all the sundresses I see are either strapless OR they have tiny spaghetti straps, and majority of them also VERY accentuate the chest area.

So here’s the problem, Idk if I’d come off too revealing for the first.. date? Because it isn’t even a “date” per se, they just asked me to lunch. So i’m worried that i’d be giving too much on our first hang-out outside of the blind date, i’m the type of person who would dress up to treat it as a reward system, femmes yk what I mean, right?

Like, if this lunch goes well then on the next one i’d show off a bit more, then if that goes even better, i’d show off more than I did the last one. So I kinda want/need suggestions for what else to wear that closely resembles sundresses but doesn’t accentuate my chest area, i’d still want it to be comfy and flowy since it’s summer, I just honestly don’t know what specific style of dress to look for.

TLDR: I don’t want to show off too much of my body on the first date, so I need an alternative dress that closely resembles a sundress without it being too revealing for a lunch date.

ALSO- should I wear heels or flats with it? Femmes help a girly out 😭💕🫶🏻

PLEASE HELP Im so bored of my face when I dont have makeup on I want that cute little above the lip one but does anyone think any others would look good?

I saw a post here a few minutes ago that really got me thinking. I always knew skinny jeans were going out of style but I never questioned if I should stop wearing them until the post I found here was ranting about how awful they are and claiming they’re “outdated” and we can do better.

The thing is, I LOVE skinny jeans I find them very flattering on me and I feel mom jeans/baggy ones look awful and so damn ugly on me. So I’m very conflicted. I know I shouldn’t let people police what I wear and shouldn’t but I don’t want to be seen as boring or outdated

I can't seem to find a store near me that makes me feel safe and has clothes for me. I consider my self slightly masc, but don't entirely feel it fits. I like a more business or business casual esthetic. Would totally rock heels. The thing is I'm a bigger woman, but I carry my weight evenly. So even finding a shirt that fits properly is a struggle. The shirts that fit my torso don't fit in length. And the shirts that fit length, are too baggy. So I need a tailor, but can only seem to find mens tailors and don't know if they'd be comfortable with working with women.

Also it's really a need for me to find a magazine or web site that is more lesbian oriented for style.

And advice or recommendations are welcome, but also needed to vent. I feel like feeling good in your clothes is important for confidence and I don't feel good right now.

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Kinda wanna impress a girl at school with the 2nd haircut but I’m not sure.. friendly advice please

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I just love the style of mens clothes it's me too a t love bright graphic stuff and I just find women's clothes are just full of boring slogans and just generally not my style but I just wish the men's stuff fitted as well as women's :(

First time poster 🙃 I’m transitioning (and not passing at all) but I still love the classic menswear.. work in progress :)

I ussaly wear boots with it but I’m trying to branch out

I just had my first gay kiss outside of 8th grade spin the bottle last week!! Trying to figure out how to look more queer to say what’s up to shes and theys and I’ve recently discovered the arm muscles are a perfect accessory to my daintier clothes!! I’ve lost 70lbs this year and been lifting heavy in the gym so I’m excited to hit the apps again with new pics and would love any advice on what fashion you love to see in potential partners!! Thank you to this community for always having amazing fashion inspiration and style tips 🩷