I grew up in a very modest house hold so I believed masturbating was a sin. So I didn’t really masturbate and when I just couldn’t control the urges I hump a pillow. So never did any inserting just humping.

I’m above 30 right now and putting dildos in me doesn’t feel nice. Even when used on me, what I prefer is a vibrator on my clit and only when my partner uses it on me. I cannot use toys on myself and enjoy it. Is this normal or is something wrong with me

I feel if I got a dildo just exactly like my partner it’ll feel better. Am I making sense

I want to buy this sex toy but I don’t want my parents to see the package, we have ring cameras and they will probably get nosy if they see I got a package, what should I do should I still order it?

Hi!! I am looking to buy a new toy for myself, I like the ones I have but I’m looking for something a little more special. I only have vibrators and dildos, and I’m super unfamiliar with any kind of “sucking” toy!

Everyone seems to rave about the “sucking” actions of the rose toys and satisfiers, but I personally do not like having my clit sucked by someone during sex! I don’t really find it stimulating at all. I always cum by rubbing my clit, using vibration, partner’s tongue flicking/pressure… So I’m a little concerned about that. But the countless reviews by people with clitorises saying that this thing blew their fucking mind are really intriguing me. I would LOVE a toy that I felt that great about haha.

So what is the consensus? Is the satisfier just amazing no matter what, or maybe not a good fit for someone who doesn’t like having their clit sucked by a human?

Thank you, kind sex toy enjoyers

Hi! I’m having a hard time finding grinders, I’m not super interested in anything more flat. I’d like something with very soft squishy silicone, I saw the CUTEST ones on Amazon, little pink and blue micro penis ones and they were adorable but I did some research on the brand and now I’m not so sure, I’ve heard they steal designs, and they’re produced in China too so I’d like to find something more local (USA) if possible!

Hi Community

I need some help. I want to buy my beloved a nice gift in the bedroom for Christmas. She has expressed interest in a suction/airpulse toy. No clue which one to get. I know she likes "buzzy" vibes and not "rumbly". Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!

Kinky

shops name is lauvette, kitty babe or little bibble? which one is worth buying for those who have bought any?

My fiancée and I are seeking recommendations on high quality but reasonably priced 10-12 inch black dildos. Something with a suction cup on the end.

Black flesh colored or pure black are both fine.

The more realistic the better, and veiny is a plus. As long as it doesn’t break the bank.

Hi all you kinky people,

I’m looking for the most realistic feeling and looking dildo, for practicing oral and anal. I’ve tried a few cheaper ones that have felt “stabby” or don’t feel like skin, so I’m willing to spend more money this time around.

I live in the UK so it can be hard to find some of the ones I’ve seen recommended for you folk across the pond.

Pipedream - 24k Gold Luxury Edition - Ultimate Pleasure Double Ended Vibrator gonna buy this to wife ALL, opinion,test,review rate are welcome thx

I (M) have to travel frequently for work for a week at a time. It’s all by car and to the same decent hotel, so I don’t have to worry about getting anything through security and I get my own clean room and bathroom. The shower is small however, so there’s not a lot of room to use my prostate toys, and of what I currently own the only thing I can bring with me is a small bottle of lube and maybe some lotion.

I want to change that, so to add some pleasure and spice to my hotel nights I’m in the market for a masturbator and/or some compact toys that are easy to travel with and clean. Something about as long as the width of my hand should be what I’m looking for. I’m still new to sex toys, so I don’t know a lot about what’s good and what I really want (bought a pink lady stu and had to get rid of it because it was too big to fit in my lockbox), so any advice or recommendations is appreciated

So this year, my girlfriend and I decided to do something different for Christmas – we each picked out a surprise gift for the other... and let’s just say we both had some fun ideas in mind! We kept it secret, set a budget, and finally did the exchange last weekend.

She got me this amazing vibe-and-suction toy that’s honestly in a league of its own. The suction part? Unreal. Perfect for when she’s not around, and it feels like she knew exactly what I'd like. Meanwhile, I went with a discreet finger vibe for her, something small she could use on her own but also makes things a bit more interesting when we're together. It’s safe to say it’s already her new go-to!

And, uh, I’m actually using mine as I’m typing this... 😳 She's out with her friends tonight, and this thing is honestly the next best thing to her being here.

If you’re curious where I got them from, let me know, and I’ll drop the website link. But seriously, best gift exchange we’ve had in a while!

18m, I had never pleasured my anal area with anything apart from fingers before so I decided to buy a buttplug. For some reason, I decided to buy a large size butt plug which is from what a i remember 3.7 inches long and has a 4cm diameter. When I got it I lubed it up however it was too difficult to get in and when I painfull got it in it felt normal however I believe I should've started with something smaller. Should I get a smaller plug or start with a dildo?

Hey everyone, so I got the biggest fattest lovense butt plug I could find without giving it much thought.

Used it a few times and boy did I underestimate it but no real concerns.

Tonight however, for whatever reason I just COULD NOT get it out and I was starting to get a little nervous at the thought of having to present to my local ER.

My question/thought for everyone is WHY although I was getting worried, trying and struggling and stretching as I pushed, it felt SO bloody good. I think it’s what actually kept me from pushing to hard as I was about to explode.

I'm having a hard time finding a good quality dildo that's short but not thin, I've tried almost a dozen dildos of varied sizes over the years and now I know what I want but can't find it!!

All the fancy ones tend to be too long or thick for me. I got a Hankey's Topher Michels (original size) with perfect length (4.9") but girth is too much (6" circumference or 1.9" diameter). Other short toys are too thin which isn't what I want either.

I want a short but slightly thick (for its size) dildo, with following requirements:

• realistic
• has balls
• suction cup (or vacuum hole so I can fit one)
• length: 5" maximum
• girth: around 1.7" (diameter) or 5.3" (circumference)
• medium firm or on the soft end

Please share websites where I could look into, or links to dildos you'd recommend that more or less fit the above!

Budget not a problem as long as it delivers to the UK.

Hello everyone,

I've had this question nagging at me for some time now, and I can't really find an answer that I'm satisfied with.

It is often said that women can't orgasm from piv. So that's the first reason out.

It is also said that internal vagina stimulation can be satisfying. Specifically for reaching and putting pressure on certain spots or just feeling full.

But, if toys such as dildos do a much better job at reaching those spots and creating the full feeling, than again the penis turns out to be useless.

Some say that the warmth of a real penis feels good, but one can recreate that by warming up a dildo before using it.

Didlos are also easier to handle, always stay hard, never need a break and there is no pregnancy risk.

There is also the argument that it can be mentally stimulating to have the body of a man ontop of you during the deed. But the man can wear a strap on or sleeve, instead.

Then if a woman derives pleasure from knowing that she is pleasing her partner, piv is also not necessary. I personally find blowjobs more stimulating for example, and I've heard that fleshlights are also quite good. There is also the aspect of porn being far more stimulating visually due to it's variety and extremes that one would seldom find in a bedroom.

So is piv really just pointless if toys can do everything much better? If one has access to toys, what's the point of using bodies instead? I'd be curious to read this subreddits thoughts on the matter.

I love having a dildo in my pussy while stimulating my clit with a wand. The problem is, sometimes I cum so hard the dildo comes out and I have to stop to pop it back in because I’m not done cumming yet. I sometimes use my strapless strap on, because it does kind of “hook” in and stay much better, but it’s not quite big enough to really give me the “full” feeling I’m looking for.

Are there any dildos meant for vaginas that can stay in like a butt plug?

Can I use a butt plug in my vagina?

Thanks for any suggestions!

I bought one that uses a flesh light but my cock is way to fat for it :( I have a meiki xyz and i wanna use that, but the meiki is way too thick. Help?

Hello, I am looking for a sex toy to stimulate my prostate and even achieve orgasm only this way.

I've tried quite a few vibrating plugs or dildos that move on their own but I often have trouble getting to the end without using my hand.

Interested in your opinions over which was more enjoyable for you and why, and what felt the closest to actual sex for you? I’m interested in finding something that most closely is like getting pegged, that is hands free and generally is just the most fun! Let me know what you think and share specific toys if you have a favorite

I have for a long time tried to get my toys past the sigmoid bend when doing anal play, however I have always had issued actually getting anything past it. I have seen some anatomy images for how the colon and sigmoid look, and I have also read some general tips and methods fof getting toys past it, but the extent of my knowledge is basically just "try to aim to the left". I feel like it would really help to be able to see an animation or an illustration showing how it looks inside of your body when you get something past the sigmoid bend (like how the colon and sigmoid are "shaped" in case they move around a bit), and also how the toy is positioned and navigated properly for that to happen. Does any resource like this exist?

İ want to get a wand attachment for penis. They all look the same sold under "hummingbird" prices range from 10-40 dollars for the same thing imo. Cheaper ones should be right ye

So I will admit I have been excessive using my blue clit sucker from Hello Cake. I do notice pain sometimes when I use it but in the moment I don't even notice! However now looking down there and when I wipe I notice blood :( is this normal? I have a gynecologist meeting on the 19th and I'm gonna tell her about it! One time I use my clitsucker and it was a blood ring around it! I think I need to stop using this. I'm just in a depressive episode:( I'm jus worried that this is an emergency and if I should go to the hospital sooner. Jus looking for some relief? Of anyone can relate please let me know. I'm gonna throw this thing away if that's the case! Thank you guys! I've never had this problem before but now I do and now it like itches or stings when I use the bathroom:(

Has anyone tried the Sensua thrusting sex machine that is on amazon? I'm pretty sure its just a knock off, but I really want a machine. I bought a smaller one before, but it was just way to week to even do anything.

Looking for recommendations for a lube on amazon usa that's water-based, ideally creamy so it stays put and doesnt make a huge mess when used with "the handy" stroker. Also, hopefully long lasting.

Hi looking for a beaded and or vibrating anal dildo no realistic. Any good recs one we can thrust

1. I just bought my first sex toy, and it’s a banging Betty. I know that I need lube but don’t have any at the moment. Am I able to just not use any?

2. when I do get some lube how much do I put on? I don’t understand it too much.

Hey I'm looking for a good anal dildo vibrator and want to know if I have a good option or need a better one!

This is the one I picked. I can go about 10 bucks higher, but that's my budget. https://a.co/d/4crbpRe

The only vibes I've used have been buttplugs and it feels like it vibrates outside the body more than it. I want one that I can really feel deep, but I think the "clitoral stimulation" aspect of this option will ruin it for me. Id also appreciate if it was on the quieter side of possible. Any help? Please and thank you.

Do y'all have any thrusting toys? If so what do you recommend? I have a vibrator and plug, but I want something that thrusts too. M if it matters

I'm relatively new to the toy factor of life. The one I'm trying to fit is 7' largest circumference with a 6' insertable length. The girth is my issue. I've used LOTS of lube that came with it, but either I just can't take it or need advice from someone whose more experienced. My main at the moment is the Thrusting Rabbit off a reputable toy shop online but this one im trying (and have wanted for weeks now) is really slamming me (and not in a good way). Any tips?

Edit: I CANNOT believe I have to say this in a community built around assistance in toys, but if you're here to make a rude remark, turn around and leave. Genuine advice only on my posts!

Title self explanatory. So far I’ve been torn between getting “Adam and Eve’s Ravishing Rose” and “Rose Buddies The Rose Flix”. The Rose Flix includes vibration with the flicking function which appeals to me, but the Ravishing Rose seems like it has more reviews and people like it a lot. Does anyone here have any opinions on either of these, or possibly suggestions of other flicking toys?