Hi, I’m a guy and enjoy anal stimulation. My wife occasionally pegs me, but when she’s not in the mood for it, it can be a bit hard to have the same fun solo. I have found that riding her with the strap on tends to work well for me so I ordered a liberator Wing today.

The dildos we currently have and use are a vixen vixskin mustang that has been the one we usually use. We occasionally use a fuse tango, but more for hand use as she finds the bulb too large / uncomfortable, and that it doesn’t position the dildo at the right spot for my ass. It’s also tricky managing it through a Spare Parts harness. We used to use a Tantus Goliath, but while it’s been a while, I think it was a bit on the large side (diameter wise) if we weren’t playing very often so would take a bit more warming up.

I like the Mustang, but I feel like it’s a bit too soft almost, which can make it a bit tricky to get in (and esp. “back in” if it falls out during). Likely also because of its softness, I feel like I’d want it to be thicker to feel more full. The Goliath I think was a little on the hard side, and a bit large at the head. The fuze tango is an ok length, but is much thinner so I wish it were more filling feeling.

I’m not sure if these toys will be long enough with the Wing, when it arrives, and losing that length would be sad :(

Based on my experiences with the mentioned toys, does anyone have any recommendations?

Thanks!

Hello everyone, I’m looking at my first purchase (I will provide all links at the bottom). I have three options in mind, 2 from one site one from another. I just want to know what you guys think about the legitimacy of the site and product. I have done my own research but just wanted to do more! Thanks for the help!!

Supplier sites: rosemarytorso / linkdolls

Product supplier: Qita Doll, DANG XIA

Links:

https://www.rosemarytorso.com/product/25cm-10in-28lb-tpe-big-ass-masturbator-lu-lu/

https://linkdolls.com/products/t683-24lbsexy-and-real-realistic-ass-sex-doll-torso

Hi all! I'm looking for a tail buttplug for my sub, who's inexperienced with anal but wants to try. He hates artificial scratchy faux-fur textures -- having done a cursory search just now, I can't trust any of the options available to NOT be weird and scratchy.

So I need individual opinions here. I'm looking for the softest, smoothest, fluffy/silky/whatever tail for my sub. Preferably on the smaller side buttplug-wise, and preferably in some kind of bright colour (bonus for purple/multicoloured, double bonus with matching soft ears), but I'll take anything that lets him be a pretty puppy while not being irritated by sensory issues!

Shipping to the UK (or Canada, and I'll bring it over to him; I could possibly swing US shipping if necessary). Appreciate any and all help!

I love the way jewel plugs look but their bases are oftentimes too unsafe. I’m looking for something on the larger side.

Hello, I was thinking about making a purchase but I just wanted to run it through here and see if anyone has any experience with rosemarytoros the site as well as the brand of toy I’m buying in “Qita Doll”. Did some basic research and both brands seems legit. Does anything about this listing look suspicious??

Site listing below: https://www.rosemarytorso.com/product/25cm-10in-28lb-tpe-big-ass-masturbator-lu-lu/#&gid=1&pid=6

I recently purchased a CalExotics Azure G-spot vibe... it was the toy OF MY LIFE until it quickly died thirty minutes after a full charge. It dies within use every time I use it. It's heartbreaking because the shape and size and vibration patterns are absolutely ah-mazing. Does anyone have any suggestions for a moderate to slightly large-sized G-spot vibrator that has a 1.5 - 2 hour minimum battery life? My budget is around $60.

This is the vibrator I'm in love with, but can only use for very short periods of time before it dies. The dimensions are 1.75" at widest point, and an insertable length of 6.5".

I’m considering ordering from them, but I share a mailing address with other people, and I’d rather not be sent a package that is very obviously a sex toy. Was the packaging discrete?

Also if you’d like to provide experience on how the toys were, I’d appreciate that as well!

Largest toy my wife takes is the Vixon Randy. Likes the stretch but the head ridge is too much. The Randy is listed at 2.25” diameter (7.1” circumference). Anyone have a good recommendation of something large but very smooth? The doc Johnson great American challenge looks nice and smooth but the head ridge looks pretty intense.

In my search for a dildo small enough for me (under 1” in width) I came across some small pegging dildos that might work, but is there a way to find dildos like that without the harness that seems to come with them all?

Also, are there any like that vibrate as well? Something like this but without the harness?:

https://www.amazon.com/Adult-Toys-Harness-Dildos-Strap/dp/B0CBPHN87G/ref=gp_aw_ybh_a_m_sccl_1/144-2432922-8626942?pd_rd_w=YrQsU&content-id=amzn1.sym.9720001e-8f8b-4ff3-adb5-e19707d971f6&pf_rd_p=9720001e-8f8b-4ff3-adb5-e19707d971f6&pf_rd_r=9E7BKHSJES27YV4RZ9YF&pd_rd_wg=PP0DD&pd_rd_r=18b76ad1-22cb-4719-bad2-91ae361f297a&pd_rd_i=B0CBPHN87G&psc=1

Thank you so much!

I’ve been searching for a clit flicking vibrator for a while and I was shocked when the staff at my local shop recommended the Unihorn. There are several different models, and they all are super powerful and well designed. They look like a child’s bath toy little unicorn lol but they are legit!

Quality silicone and fully waterproof. Comfortable to hold, and are fun and comfortable in different positions as the entire body vibrates. Three of them had the flicky tongue feature I was looking for, but I ended up going with Mount n’ Peak.

I’ve owned vibrators for 20 years and usually the more cutesy the toy the less quality it is. So I was so thrilled to find a toy that functions exactly how I’d hoped (did I mention the amazing o’s???) and as a bonus is adorable 10/10

https://unihornofficial.com/collections/the-unihorns?srsltid=AfmBOopJWvWrS_amAMKXue8v2kDZZe04_ecxTIUqgbjgutMS0poujAwd

I’m looking for a really good realistic dildo that is curved upward and firm enough that the curve remains strong.. Like firm on the inside and soft outer core.
There are a couple of porn star models but they are fricking huge. I don’t want something; that I need months to get used to.

These are the only ones I can really find. They all seem really huge. Also, the Doc Johnson Black g spot toy isn’t what I’m looking for. It’s cheap and has bad reviews.

Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - Jeff Stryker - 10 Inch Realistic ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Vanilla : Health & Household

Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Merci - The Perfect P-Spot Dildo 9.5" - with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - ULTRASKYN - for Adults Only, Black : Health & Household

Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - Dredd - 13.5 Inch ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Chocolate : Health & Household

Amazon.com: Doc Johnson Signature Series - JJ Knight - 8.5 Inch Realistic ULTRASKYN Dildo with Removable Vac-U-Lock Suction Cup - F-Machine & Harness Compatible - for Adults Only, Vanilla : Health & Household

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/products/prince-yahshua-10-5-ultraskyn-cock

Hello!

I’m a 25m mechanical engineer from the US looking for a new career. I am looking for a new opportunity as I believe I have done as much as I can for my current company.

A bit about my credentials:

A bachelor’s of science in mechanical engineering

4 years in industry with a focus on design and production line efficiency

Proficient with multiple forms of CAD, using some for more then 10 years at this point

Works well with Microsoft office suite of apps, as well as use of SAP and other ERP software.

Lastly for this simple post a love for the fun side of life that I think sex toys are able to bring people in their day to day life.

Feel free to message me for more details and resume information. I’m also just looking for a career in product design so I’ll gladly ask to reach out as well even if it’s not about sex toys haha.

not looking for a fleshlight or pocket pussy though. i wanna try something interesting!

I need to find some reputable brands that do import their dildos outside and don’t only stay in the US and are the safest material there is and money can buy, its not an issue how expensive it may be, ı just want to be safe and thanks in advance

I love the Handy. It's a great toy. I bought the Venus 2000 and the Handy is even better than that to imo. I bought the Norbra Twincharger and I was disappointed.

But I'm looking for something similar to the Handy with, as Tim Taylor would say: "More Power!"

I heard about the SR6 or OSR2. Or that automatic fleshlight.

Something like a Stroker but that can go faster and harder?

Any suggestions?

As a follow-up to my previous post about what sex toys to get my wife, I've got some questions about cock rings. First off how do I pick on out and second are the ones with little clit vibraters/suckered worth it and finally what are the benefits of cock rings. Thanks in advance ☺ have a merry Christmas 🎅

I’m going to look for some sex toys today and I was wondering if anyone knew of some that would help a female orgasm during sex penetration wise?

I typically have some issues finishing during sex by just penetration and I’d like to look for some ways that would make it easier.

Any and all suggestions and questions are welcome

I saw that there is a pussy juice lube... And I wanted a great toy to eat out. I'm getting a lovense max for my dick, but wanted something else to eat out. ❤️ I wasn't sure if Fleshlights, etc. were good for that or if maybe I should get one that's just a lower torso? Something preferably easy to hide but if it has to be a lower half then I'd prefer something that's a realistic size. Anyone have expert with this?

I could just get a Fleshlight or similar product of a model I like and eat that, but wanted to know what else I had for options that would taste and feel good hehe

He's 57 and never had a male-focused sex toy. One that I can get on Amazon Prime would be best as it's quite near Christmas. He won't like anything that goes up his arse.

I (m) love it when my wife (f) pegs me or messes with my ass. Harnesses haven't worked too well for us, so usually she just holds the dildo and rails me with it. Most dildos don't have a really great grip, and combined with lube, that gets worse. She also is a little icked out by getting lube and mess from butt stuff on her hands. Recently I learned that there are dildos that have handles, which she's pretty keen on. For my part, most of those toys aren't really a shape that I like, so I was wondering if there are good ways to attach a handle to a dildo we already have? I don't really want to just duct tape a dildo to a broom handle, there have to be better ways to do it.

Looking for app controlled stuff of decent quality, literally anything, vibes, plugs, chastity cages, etc…

Question for the cloning side of this Reddit, is there any “real way” of making a cloned pocket pussy? I was talking to my gf recently about the clone-a-Willy toy and wanting to give it another try (it never dried the first time) and the clone a pussy came up. She wasn’t sure about it since it’s only the front and it won’t be her actual inside part. Now I’ve heard some people actually do have cloned pockets of themselves that are highly expensive to do, so I wanted to know if there’s an actual way of doing it as a one off thing. I’m just scared of the idea of anything happening during the process since this seems like a professional job.

I recently decided to try Coconu lube, which is coconut oil-based, along with some other natural oils and ingredients. I found it to be thick (in a mostly good way) and it felt nice externally on my skin/sphincter. But, for anal play, I didn't find it to be slick enough - at least with a Pure Wand. I switched to a water based lube for the session so never tried it with silicone toys, so not sure if it is better with those.

Now I'm wondering if just going to virgin coconut oil, as opposed to an oil-based lube, would be better/different. What I experienced with the Pure Wand was that it moved fine inside me, but after a while of using fast movements, the in-and-out through my anus wasn't as smooth/slick as when I used water-based lube (Sliquid Sassy). Should I stick with water based lube or use straight coconut oil instead?

If it matters, I'm a male, as I said, using lube for anal play with the metal wand and silicone dildos for penetrative thrusting. Thanks.

I recently purchased a Njoy Pure Wand. My SO brought up the idea of her using it, vaginally, to see what it would feel like. The thing that worries me is that I've already used it once, anally, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to take risks with that.

Would washing it with hot water and antibacterial soap, which is my usual cleaning method, be enough to make it safe enough to use vaginally? Would I be better off boiling it and how long would it have to boil for? Is there any suggested method to sterilize a steel sex toy that's not boiling?

Are there small vibrating dildos powered by bullets or did I just make that up? And if they do exist, where might I find them?

Thank you for all your help!

I’ve got a clear silicone masturbator, and it usually stays nice and tight—super soft and comfy. I always clean it and store it properly. But like I said, it’s clear, so today I noticed some water droplets inside, which kinda shocked me. It also looks a little stretched out. Do you think my buddy might’ve used it?

I'm thinking of buying my first sex toy, I'm a man and looking to buy myself a fleshlight or something like it. Not looking for anything for my ass currently just something to fuck. Any suggestions for a first toy?

https://imgur.com/a/qw4W9Bi

Hello! So I’m fairly new to the realm of sex toys so I need some help finding my next vibrator. Right now I’m using a Demi wand from bellesa but I want something a bit more powerful since it’s not doing it for me anymore. I’m only interested in clit stimulation and I don’t wanna spend any more than 100 on something. Thanks to anyone who helps me with this issue !

A few months ago I got the Lovense Diamo, and for the most part I've enjoyed it, but one issue which I initially hoped to wear it for, between the sack and pelvis.

Edit to clarify: I'm not so much looking for the "Vibrating Cock Ring" aspect, but the sack/taint vibrations. Hence the tongue on the Diamo.

It's fine when I'm limp or mildly hard, but when I'm erect, not even full on hard erect, it's concerningly tight, I have to shift pressure to allow blood to flow and go limp.

Shift the sack and balls back to the safe side, and just hang the Diamo on the shaft is fine, but when mildly limp, it can eventually fall off while standing or walking.