/r/SexToys
A place to discuss and ask questions about sex toys.
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Feel free to ask questions and give your impressions of any/all toys, but please remember that we do not promote unsafe sex toys here. We support the Boycott Toxic Toys movement. If a sex toy is potentially toxic or very porous, please don't recommend it unless there are no other safe options.
When recommending products, please ensure that your links bring the user to a specific toy recommendation, not a site section or landing page, etc. The mods don't have time to verify that your entire link consists of safe toys. Exceptions may be made at moderator discretion for "known safe" sites, searches, sections, etc.
Advertising posts are only allowed in the Weekly Deals Post. If the sole purpose of your post is to link us to your product/store, it will be removed.
No nudity or porn is allowed here. Do not link to porn, we won't watch it to help you name that sex toy. (Don't tell us which video to go watch, either.) Screenshot it and blur out the nudity. Pictures of your sex toy, or sex toy collection (not being used) and linked within the text area, are fine as long as the purpose is to have discussions about them. Pornographic written selections are also generally disallowed.
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So my girlfriend and I are looking to buy a suction cup dildo, but we're unsure what length to buy. She said that is should be longer because her legs would be in the way and prevent a part of being inside it, but neither of us have much experience buying dildos, and I'd like to buy the right one.
I do realize that personal preference plays a role, but would 17cm be way too short?
I'm interested in finding a toy that can be remotely controlled by an AI, something like Chat GPT. Has anyone had any luck placing their pleasure in the "hands" of a LLM AI? Lovense has something they call AI Sync, but as far as I can tell, it simply makes your toy behave in the same rhythm as the porn you're watching. An app that can be controlled remotely is easy enough to find, but I'm looking for a way to put my AI in the driver's seat! For a clumsy proof-of-concept, Chat GPT can talk to Alexa, who can run an electrical outlet. But there's a limit to how much fun can be had with on/off!
Hello everyone!
I really enjoy stradling a pillow and using a vibrator. Especially with anal.
Are there any grinding toys I can utilize against my penis?
Anyone know where I can buy very big silicone anal beads? Anything more than 5 beads and the beads have to be close to 3 inches in diameter? I’ve been looking everywhere and can’t seem to find any…
I 37(m) have been using the king cock 6 inch dildo for about 2 weeks. It's great but I wanted something a bit bigger. I bought a realdick kimi last week and as I'm looking at it online. It looks HUGE I'm going from a 1.5 to a 2.2 inch in girth. I'm a little intimated. Has anyone used this big guy before?
Me (25f) and my gf (24f) are looking for a 6 inch squirting dildo to try on a strap on bc she wants the experience of me Cumming in her. Preferably nothing too thick in girth as usually 2 fingers width is plenty for her. Does this exist?? Help !!
Okay, so I know this may be a ridiculous question, but I’ve done a bit of looking around and can’t find anything.
Bad dragon has masturbators that are fully silicon, and I was wondering if there are any other companies that do that? I know of flesh lights with a plastic casing, and I don’t want those, so I was hoping for other recommendations as everything else I’ve found has either been super limited in selection and I don’t like their selections, or, again, has a hard plastic case that I don’t want.
For anyone wondering why I don’t just go buy a bad dragon toy, I don’t like the controversy from the last few years surrounding them and also I’m hoping to find something a little less expensive.
Hello - our Rose vibrator is dying. We’ve had it for about 5 years and the rechargeable battery is going. I bought a replacement that looked exactly the same, but the functions are not the same at all.
Old Rose: Strong vibration and sufficient suction. New Rose: strong suction and barely any vibration on the highest setting.
I’m hoping crowd sourcing will help because it’s the wife’s favorite toy. Please share any links you might have to a Rose vibrator that has powerful vibration and not just mainly a suction toy. If you’re in the same camp as my wife and the strong vibration is a must… I’d appreciate your help in tracking down a solid replacement before I go through a ton of money. So far I’ve gone through two popular sites that claim the rose does both. But have been duds.
TIA
I’m interested in trying out a cock ring but I’m scared about it getting stuck and me not being able to get it off
I’ve heard that cock rings keep the blood trapped and all that and I heard it makes u more sensitive and whatnot buuut I’m afraid of if I get one and use it, what if it gets stuck? What if it gets stuck and I can’t get soft enough to get it off?
A friend of mine told me once of when it happened to him and the person he was with had to use some heavy duty scissors to get it off and it sounded so scary 💀💀
Idk if anyone has tips or could explain the proper way to really use them? I can’t find much online
I (32m) am looking for recommendations for a "thicker" dildo for my gf (28f), recently I bought a couple dildos from adam and eve 7" insertable and 1.5"-1.70" in diameter, my girlfriend didn't like them at all, she wants something a little bit thicker and maybe a bit shorter, so I'm looking for recommendations for a dildo about 6"-7" in length, over 1.69" to probably 2" in diameter, textured and good quality materials. Thanks in advance
Me and my boyfriend want to try out toys that can help me squirt, what’s the best recommendations for multiple toys (penetration and vibration) that he can also use on me
I dont need anything super fast i like going gentle
Ever since my wife brought up trying a stardew rp where slimes get to me I've really been craving the feeling of like, something so soft it's almost fluid pushing into my butt.
My first thought was waterballoons only partially filled to still be very wobbly, but I don't imagine waterballoons are made of body-safe materials. Does anyone know of anything like this that is safe for anal play?
Recently my fiancé and I have started using fantasy toys on each other. I really like the thick ones but I don’t want anything too long lol
And he has been liking the fantasy pussies I’ve been using on him too. Places like Bad Dragon, etc are just so expensive. Most what I have I got from Amazon but they don’t have many extra thick ones like I’m looking for.
Any recommendations on where I can find some at a decent price? lol
Sup y'all. I'm looking to get a Wand vibrator for my lady. What should I be looking for?
Also, any ideas for app controlled couples toys for long distance?
The girth jump from their 9” Flesh to 10” Flesh is staggering. I also don’t have a good means of measuring the girth (mid move, no idea where most things are). Product descriptions are useless for girth. Based on comments I’ve discerned 9x6.5 and 10x7.25-10x7.75.
Any recommendations for a middle of the road girth between the two? Something with suction.
Just got a plug and just love it. Question though, how long will my anus stay stretched after removing the plug?
After a little research I’ve (F) found out the difference between “rumbling” and “buzzing” vibrators and I want to buy a rumbling vibrator. However, I’m not sure how I can tell what kind of vibration it has (the webshop I’m looking on doesn’t have this as a filter or description). I also don’t want to spend too much many considering this is my first (official 😆) vibrator. But I don’t really have a budget, it would be nice if it’s also good quality but durability isn’t my main priority right now. I’d love to hear your recommendations and thanks in advance!
hi !! 22f here,, never bought or used any toys before but i’m really feeling the yearn to invest in one.
i follow someone on instagram that has collab-ed w/ bellesa boutique. i ventured onto their webpage via a spons ad and turns out bboutique is running a vday promotion wherein you get 60% off your purchase, as well as a free ‘airvibe pro’ (https://www.bboutique.co/sex-toys/bellesa-sex-toys/bellesa-airvibe-pro-7937731756277). i wasted no time in scouring their options and eventually settled on the ‘thrust’ (https://www.bboutique.co/sex-toys/womens-vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/thrust-by-bellesa-7861552087285).
just to be thorough, however, before committing i decided to do a quick dive on reddit to see if i should seal my first deal woth bellesa. and that’s how i ended up writing this, as i’ve been swayed by the barrage of negative reviews i’ve come across here; many of which indicate that the store is borderline scammy and their products aren’t extremely reliable in terms of longevity. this really sucked to find out — i have no experience using toys, but both, the airvibe and thrust, at least seemed really promising in terms of function.
(i honestly really liked the thrust because, while i’ve seen many phallic shaped vibrators, equipped with different modes and settings etc, i haven’t actually come across one that simulates a thrusting motion AND has a ring of beads that rotates at the base of its length. i mean, that sounds incredible, really.)
but now, of course, the negative feedback has me frozen in headlights. albeit, many of these reviews are from over a year ago. is bellesa really that terrible? if so, are there any recommendations you might have for toys that are similar in nature, quiet, and body-safe? i dp know many brands have toys similar to the airvibe (dual stimulation; suction) — i was just swept away by the prospect of getting it for free lol.
thanks for reading!!! i’ll deeply appreciate any help or advice!!
This is my first time getting a toy, and this brand seems affordable. They also claim that their products are made of silicone. However, I couldn’t find any additional information about the materials and their safety.
So I was wondering what if there was a sex toy to insert into vagina/ass that is soft or like jelly/slime. Will it be pleasurable?
My guesses it’s gonna be something like a soft motion of a tongue when licking down there. But what it would feel like if it was long and could be put inside and move somewhat like dildo?(i know it will probably be hard to control but I’m curious about the sensations)
I have a vagina but couldn’t think of anything to try this out and I couldn’t find any sex toys similar to what I described so maybe someone have some experience of stuff like that? Can the sensation from it be pleasurable and is it better/worse than a hard toy?
I’m looking at a lovesence solace pro and edge two or getting two fleshlights what would be better/give a nicer experience
I'm wondering does something like this exist, and is also good quality? I'd like to look into something that could pleasure my BF (pocket pussy) while I ride him (using the said toy).
I understand it's a bit of a strange request. I'm open to any suggestions/advice.
I never bought one, I’d like to try something that suck my dick and masturbate at same time, does it exist? Can you help me please?
i’ve been shopping around for a while and kinda love the Sinnovator Warrior but seems they are no longer creating or selling anything. i would LOVE something similar in between the small/meduim size of that! or even something like the wairu by blackfang labs but a bit shorter and with a ejaculation tube. most important: 1) cum tube option!!! 2) short(~5.5 inch insertable) and thick/knotted (~3in biggest diameter) 3)unrealistic 4)needs to be able to go in a strap could be a shot in the dark but thank you in advance!
I didn't know who to tell, but! I got a new dildo, it's a Werewolf dildo from the brand creature cocks and I got it in a size medium, I got so tired of my old dildo it was too small but I'm so excited for my new toy to come in and I can't wait to use it!
TLDR Would lipstick/makeup ruin TPE? If not how should I go about cleaning?
So I got a super cheap “realistic” dildo thats made of tpe for a video, and I’m planning on wearing some heavy makeup and kissing it. I’m worried the lipstick will heavily stain and while it will not be used internally I’d like to keep it for more videos of that variety. The lipstain I have isn’t dark enough, and I don’t have time to grab more before this is due, worse comes to worse I ruin this one and grab one made of silicone from the profit.
I currently have the LELO Gigi 2 and I like using the end of it on my clit, specifically the sides of my clit. I don't have a very pronounced clit it's very tucked away and something wide like a magic wand wouldn't reach it. I'm looking for a vibrator that would be able to reach it and also is decently powerful.
It’s fine but the battery life is the worst of any Vibrators I have ever used. It dies so fast. Don’t waste Your money.
That aren’t K-jelly, and J/X Lube.
Thanks