/r/SexToys
A place to discuss and ask questions about sex toys.
This is a 18+ subreddit and all posts stating that the poster is underage will be removed.
Take a look at our wiki for a quick guide on sex toys!!!
The wiki also have important information for reviewers and guidelines that will pertain to them specifically.
BEFORE SUBMITTING A REQUEST FOR SEX TOY RECOMMENDATION, WE NEED TO KNOW
Your price range
A size range ("small" and "big" are not enough)
Your country location
Tell us what you've previously tried and if/why it worked or did not work for you.
RULES AND GUIDELINES
Feel free to ask questions and give your impressions of any/all toys, but please remember that we do not promote unsafe sex toys here. We support the Boycott Toxic Toys movement. If a sex toy is potentially toxic or very porous, please don't recommend it unless there are no other safe options.
When recommending products, please ensure that your links bring the user to a specific toy recommendation, not a site section or landing page, etc. The mods don't have time to verify that your entire link consists of safe toys. Exceptions may be made at moderator discretion for "known safe" sites, searches, sections, etc.
Advertising posts are only allowed in the Weekly Deals Post. If the sole purpose of your post is to link us to your product/store, it will be removed.
No nudity or porn is allowed here. Do not link to porn, we won't watch it to help you name that sex toy. (Don't tell us which video to go watch, either.) Screenshot it and blur out the nudity. Pictures of your sex toy, or sex toy collection (not being used) and linked within the text area, are fine as long as the purpose is to have discussions about them. Pornographic written selections are also generally disallowed.
We do allow "For Sale" posts of non-porous toys only. If you are making a post to sell a toy, please include:
If these requirements aren't met, your post will be removed.
Absolutely no hate-speak, derogatory or disrespectful comments will be tolerated. This includes sexist and rape jokes. In short, don't be a dick, don't be a creepy creep, do try not to be immature. Sex can be funny, and we want you to have fun, but there is a line somewhere. Please note: this rule includes solicitation of partners for using or controlling remote-control toys (Kiroo, Lovense, We-Vibe, etc.); r/ToyControl is a better place to post for that.
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I usually start out with my bullet vibe and a dildo but once I get close that first time I stop using the dildo and only focus on the vibe, but I’m curious to hear what other people use and what techniques you use as well!
Fucked up and went a lil too deep with a prostate stimulator, and probably easy to figure out the rest, tried soaking it in hot water and washing it with silicon safe soap to try and get rid if as much of the smell as possible but its still lingering, any tips? (Prefferable doable with household items)
Sooooo I like odd shaped buttplugs. I recently found this Christmas tree plug: https://nothosaur.com/products/jolly?variant=44340109902045
I was wondering if any of y'all knew any others. I've heard of carrots and ice cream but haven't found those yet. Hopefully there are more of these cute object shaped buttplugs.
Other plugs are welcome too btw, as long as they're not your usual gem plug or something :) (E.g. fantasy, tentacles, dragons etc)
Thanks y'all!
As the title states, I'm looking for a standard sex machine that can be used in the bath. Size isn't a particular concern, nor is noise or cost. I just want to find one that can do Anal and can come into contact with water without breaking.
Like the title says. I love the idea of post orgasm torture, but it's really hard for me to make myself keep going. I'm looking for something I can use to 'force' myself to keep going. Preferably something involving headplay, as that is where I am most sensitive after cumming. I tried the Handy, but I think I'm a bit too thick for it, the motor gets stuck. I saw the Pulse Solo Interactive, but I'm not sure that vibrations will be intense enough for me.
What I’ve noticed is the realistic ones with d realistic coloring have the best shapes but alot of people don’t like the “real” coloring. It grosses a lot of people out who prefer solid color dildos. My question is, If you could buy some of these dildos but in a solid prettier color would you? I’m debating starting a small business catering to this idea.
I’m looking for a long term use plug. One that is thicker but not too long. Any recommendations?!
hey yall! want to buy a new strap on but i want one that will really please a woman penetration wise. I am a firm believer in buying the best strap to make sure a woman i’m with is having the most pleasurable experience. this will be only for vagina use. i always go for real skin feel. 7inch- 7.5 i’ve used king cock a couple of times, and bought a vixskin but the market is always updating so i want to kno which strap-on have you experienced that was the best was the most pleasurable for you?
What is your top favorite butt plug to wear? Girth and comfort is what I’m looking for
We ordered a Lovense Ridge, Nora, Hyphy, Lush 3, Gush, and a Womanizer Next. Any recommendations for male toys? He has a couple strokers, vibrating butt plugs and cock rings.
Saw a fun looking toy at the store the other day and we're intrigued but having a hard time finding reviews of it. Anyone have any experience with WhipSmart toys, and in particular the Dragon's Lair?
Recently people have suggested to me that I get myself a hitachi magic wand but I went on the website and found out they're fairly pricy wow- Does anyone know if there's anywhere I could get one for cheaper? Or just a cheaper wand alternative thank you!
I'm looking for a decent remote thrusting dildo. Fast speed would be great. Something that doesn't have connectivity issues.
Got any recommendations? The Lovense Gravity looks good, just speed isn't amazing.
Hey I was just wondering what Adam and Eve pops up as on the usps informed delivery
I bought this dildo on the M size, along with a Semen like Lube. The problem is I can't understand how do I pump the lube up the tube. What I did was: took off the pumping thing and with a syringe put inside the tube, but immediately start dribbling from the dildo, but either way, I connected the pump on it again and pumped but it only bursted some drops of the lube. I tried putting from the tip of the dildo also, still doesn't shoot like I was expecting. How should I be doing this? Lol
I wanna self-pleasure myself even more but never used any toys before, any recommendations? Help a brotha out lmao
First flesh light came today and I’m so excited. Any tips on enjoying it to the fullest?
I was curious what that long white vibrator I see in various porno videos especially Owen Gray uses it while having sex.
Or if anyone had any recommendations. The one she has is too small to hold and have sex. I need one with a longer handle.
Ive had
How comparable are these two toys? I have the Satisfyer and it’s just ok.
I struggle with PE. I've tried so many of the common "fixes" online, but no matter what once I'm in my girlfriend it just feels too damn good and I bust.
Has anyone experienced using a male vibrator to help with PE? I'm wondering if it can be so intense that it maybe desensitizes me a bit for vaginal sex. I've tried some of the tighter masterbators and they didn't do the trick.
Please help an older gal who’s getting into the world of sex toys
Looking for a new prostate massager and have it down to: WeVibe vector, Lovense Edge 2 or Lelo Hugo.
I currently have an Aneros Vice 2. Size is OK, but it isn't rumbly enough to get the job done by itself.
I used to have a Lelo Hugo. Size was good and it was rumbly enough to work. Was a little difficult to keep in sometimes though. It's about 100 more than the vector or edge 2.
Based on my past experiences does anyone vector or edge 2 would suit me, or should I just get another Hugo?
I should point out that I don't see myself using app control.
My partner and I love using my sex toys on me during sex every now and again. He is mostly using them on me; or watching me while I use them.
What are your favorite M/F couples sex toys? Or perhaps a toy that I can use on him for foreplay purposes as well?
Interested in getting one, but it’s quite an expensive risk if I end up not getting on with it. Wondering if anyone has any hands on experience?
So I’m a freshman in college and I’ve been nofap for about a month. I really want to lock myself up and walk around campus with a prostate vibe all day, but I’m not sure which one to get that would be quiet enough. I also want it to be app controlled so strangers can make me squirm. What would be the implications? Since I live In a dorm with a public bathroom and all.
Thanks
I’m looking to get a sex toy of Amazon. I’ve only ever had 1 before and it was a pocket pussy and I loved it when I was using however cleaning it was a nightmare.
So I’m looking to buy something else that can help me out. I don’t really want to send over $50 for now.
Can someone help me with getting a toy that is realistic and has a nice feeling but also isn’t too hard to maintain and clean.
Thanks
Edit: also prefer it to be quiet so at night it won’t be making loads of noise and waking everyone up
I'm looking for a prostate massager for my partner. He's started to explore that side more and I'm keen to see if he can cum hands free. Any good entry to mid level ones that he'll enjoy?
got a vibrator that worked nice for a while, used it underwater once (it was labeled waterproof), and now i think it’s broken. it’s supposed to have a travel button to make sure it doesn’t turn on accidentally, but it keeps turning on unannounced… it’s rechargeable, so there are no batteries i can just take out that i know of. so how do i get rid of it? or fix it, if that’s a possibility?
I'm just starting my third year of university and have finally moved out of my parents house and into my own accommodation. I've been wanting to get a toy for so long, but the fear of my snooping mum finding it has always stopped me. Since moving out I've looked online but it's all so overwhelming. I'm still a virgin and very tight so something beginner friendly is ideal!
Thanks in advance!