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hello! 22M here looking for gaming friends

I'm currently playing DBD, marvel rivals, Minecraft, BG3 etc, and willing to try other games. I'm on ps5 and Xbox but sadly no PC :-:. if you're down to talk about other things I'm cool with that, must be around my age. no nsfw stuff please, I'm getting tired of that life. 18+ and please keep it civil. dm for my socials.

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2025/02/01
23:10 UTC

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Anyone tryna play Rivals, LoL, Valo? 27M/PC/EST

Hi I played a bunch of Rivals S0 and I'm looking to get back into it in S1. I was Plat in S0 and mostly played tank or supp.

For League I haven't touched the new season, but I was Emerald last season and play Mid/Adc/Sup.

Bronze/Silver in Valo. I am definitely not the best shot.

I would definitely describe myself as competitive player, but not a rager. I'm just looking for fellow gays to play with that also want to win, but still know how to have a good time.

Feel free to add me on disc (dreadscorpion) if you wanna play or msg me on here.

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2025/02/01
21:27 UTC

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Anyone wanna play?

Heyyy anyone wanna play some videogames? HMU I’m 18yo idc ur age just text me and let’s play!

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2025/02/01
21:23 UTC

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Can we please add some rules for posts looking for people to play with?

I'm playing a lot of Marvel Rivals like a lot of you and everyday there are multiple posts looking for people to play with... but they all say the same thing!

Title: marvel rivals?

Text: anyone?

Like can we at least get some requirements of like what system you are playing on? What region? Got mic? Looking for normal play or ranked? if ranked, what damn rank. These posts are so tired and extremely low effort. If you are actually looking to play with people you should add some more info.

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2025/02/01
20:25 UTC

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Seeking other Gaymers!! [28M] for marvel rivals, league, and others

Hi friends!! I am hoping to broaden my horizons and see if anyone is interested in playing marvel rivals, league overwatch, runescape, bunch of games I play! I’m on PC and am looking just for friends to play! If interested pm me!!

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2025/02/01
19:25 UTC

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Marvel rivals

Anyone?

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2025/02/01
18:14 UTC

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25 nyc looking for fellow poc gaymers!

I’m looking for a marvel rivals and general gaming buddy hmu if that’s you🫡

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2025/02/01
17:40 UTC

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Ps5 Cod, Val or dbd?

Just looking for chill peeps to game with casually

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2025/02/01
16:21 UTC

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Anyone else feel like they’re not really into gaming anymore?

I’m starting to get the feeling I only play video games to pass the time because I’m bored and very lonely.

I used to play MMO for days way back in college. I played and chatted people in game, stopping only to eat and sleep. Ignoring classes my parents paid thousands of dollars. Looking back I realized I was clinically depressed, I had finally come out and subsequently had poor social skills. I tried making gay friends but none worked out. Didn’t date. I did have sex a few times but I was always disappointed bc I couldn’t find someone I was actually attracted to. This went on repeat for the next decade. Now I play the big name video games only and then stop as soon as I finish it. I wish I enjoyed it like I used to when I was much younger. I realized I might no longer be into games as much when I find myself spending hours looking at thirst traps on IG and TT. I know a lot of them are faking living a great life but their fit bodies are not fake. They exist. I just went to a club in NYC and there were so many hot guys. Unfortunately I felt invisible. I must’ve looked sadder as the hours went by because someone finally said hi and asked if I was having an ok time. I said yes but being ignored for hours and rejected several times took its toll. I hope to change my outlook in a year or two. I’ve lost 47 lbs since June going from 247 to 200. I hope to lose more weight and bulk on lots of muscle. Ive been ordering a meal delivery to prep my meals 14 times a week so I can eat healthy and not waste money on takeouts or Grubhub deliveries. I’ve hired as much personal training as I can afford, working out 3x a week. I’ve never had a beard but I started minoxidil for beard growth twice a day since November. Short beards seem to make anyone look better. I really hope I can look good and feel good in like 1 or 2 yrs.

Anyways sorry for the downer. I just felt really sad and disappointed of my life and I don’t have anyone to share my thoughts with. I’ve never had a therapist before but I’m hoping I can get one soon and that it helps. The only other thing I can think of to improve my situation is to move to any other city in the US where a 40yr old Asian guy who’s not a femme twink will have a better chance. Any ideas would be appreciated.

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2025/02/01
15:24 UTC

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UK/EU - XB1 - R6 Siege

Anyone wanna play tonight?

We’re a mixed group. Looking for regulars to play ranked. Hmu

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2025/02/01
14:00 UTC

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Anyone else finding it therapeutic to beat up fascists?

In Indiana Jones & the Great Circle, I mean. I finally beat Dragon Age: The Veilguard (I romanced Lucanis), so I was able to free up some space on my Series X. So I got The Great Circle and with the world sliding back into fascism I find it so satisfying to beat up fascists and Nazis. It's kind of therapeutic, in a way.

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2025/02/01
13:41 UTC

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Any 4x players here? Hyped for civ 7

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2025/02/01
12:29 UTC

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21m looking for ppl to play dbd, ow2, rivals, etc. I’m on pc and from Australia but not fussed with ping

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2025/02/01
11:28 UTC

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Any bros play Dead By Daylight?

Been obsessed and looking for more guys to play with.

2 Comments
2025/02/01
04:34 UTC

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Fortnite

Hi everyone, 29M gay here looking for new queer people to play Fortnite with :) feel free to DM me if interested! 😊

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2025/02/01
04:28 UTC

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Looking for more friends!

hiii!! I’m pretty shy to begin with, but I’m very much of a jokester once you get to know me! For context, I play, league of legends, dead by daylight, marvel rivals, honkai star rail, genshin impact, and much much more! Don’t be afraid to dm as I’m looking for more homo pals to game with lol- my only ask is that you’re somewhere in USA so we can play league together😞, also- if you wanna see me, just ask- I love sending selfies! anyways, thank you! Hope to see ya message :))

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2025/02/01
03:24 UTC

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Wanna Rank up in Marvel Rivals?

Hi! 27 NYC here on PS5 (NA server). I’m currently at bronze 3 but would like to rank up! Looking for people who want others to join them in Comp! I’m a very positive , easy going person that likes to have that kinda style of gaming . I know as comp, it’s a little more intense because of the ranking of it all but I think it can still be a funny , fun , and enjoyable experience. I do think just communicating with your team just makes the game much more of a fun experience. Message me if you’re interested!

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2025/02/01
02:18 UTC

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Hi! 23 y/o fortnite og!! I learn english sooo msg me if you wanna play!!

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2025/02/01
01:49 UTC

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Anyone wants to play ? ☕️💭

Hi There, I’m here hoping to connect with some awesome new friends. Here’s a little about me:

🛋️ Gamer – I’m into big multiplayer games, currently playing sea of thieves,, Dead by Daylight, Among us, Fortnite, Animal Crossing & many more… ( Pc + Ps4 + Nintendo switch )

I’m Mostly playing Dbd & Fortnite right now so if you’re down for it !

Take care & wishin you a great Day/Night 🫧

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2025/02/01
00:41 UTC

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30M new to warhammer

Hey, as the title says I’m new to the warhammer lore and world, I’m wondering if anyone can recommend what I should start with as my first Ultra marines mini-figures?

I’m looking for local guys that are into warhammer, are there any guys located in or near Missisauga, Ontario?? Hit me up in DM

As a bonus, it would be cool if you are Bi or gay, plus cute 👀

3 Comments
2025/01/31
22:54 UTC

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Marvel rivals

27m kinda new to marvel rivals looking for some people to play with, I’m on Xbox North America servers :) I usually play as Loki

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2025/01/31
22:20 UTC

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21M fortnite duos?

Hi does anyone wanna play fortnite duos?:)

I live in the UK so will be playing from those servers!

pm me if you want!

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2025/01/31
20:18 UTC

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