/r/LesbianGamers

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A place for gaming discussions for and by lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, and boys.

"Except TERFs(transgender exclusionary radical feminists). Those are not welcome here. They can go fuck themselves." - from the archives of glorious leader /u/Cthothlu

This subreddit is meant to be a safe space! Please do not infringe upon the rights of other contributors, basically, don't be a jerk! <3

NOTE: Trans people are free to be a part of this community. If you feel the need to disclose your history, that's up to you. But I(Big Sister), will be watching to make sure that all bigots get stitches, so don't hesitate to document, write down the deets, and send them to me if you come across some bigoted bullshit while a part of this community.


Please tag all spoilers like so, unless it is clear in the post title that spoilery discussion will be in the comments.

e.g.

[]( #s "Snape kills Dumbledore")

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I actively discourage my fellow lesbian gamers from posting their pictures on the subreddit(or anywhere on reddit/the internet) due to creeps & stalkers. It's unlikely to occur, but we trade gaming handles here, and then we post pictures, and pretty soon we're being stalked with someone able to google image search your face, and shit just goes down hill from there.

Please do not post pictures of yourself in this subreddit.

Rules


1) We have no a selfies policy. This is to ensure your safety on the internet. Lots of people with bad intentions out there, and I feel better knowing my community won't be a place for such pics/info to be mined.

2) No advertising without permission! We want to affiliate with events, in-game groups, and other communities that are by queer women for queer women. If your space fits that niche, please message us at modmail so we can vet your community and then allow you to advertise here! Otherwise, failure to request permission while fitting the aforementioned criteria will result in your post be deleted.

3) Do not be a jerk.

4) No transphobia or bigotry

5) No Discord platform. Take it to DMs.

/r/LesbianGamers

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How do I game with friends?

Hello lovely lesbians!

I (29F) am a newly out lesbian living in a super conservative community. I'm doing my best to build up my in-person queer community, but options are quite limited in my part of the world. So I'm also looking online, and I'm loving what I've found on Reddit.

I've been a gamer of sorts for a long time, but there's still a lot I don't know about the gaming world. For instance, I have no idea how to talk to other people while I'm playing, or how to play with others, As a result, I don't play many collaborative games. I'd love to branch into that more, though!

Right now, I game on my switch and Xbox one. I also just bought a cheap ass PC (thinkpad t440) because I love the Nancy Drew PC games and have been wanting to revisit them for literal years! Other games I like are ACNH, BOTW, and TOTK on the switch, and Skyrim and Fallout 4 on the Xbox. Other games come and go. I'm not a huge fan of fps games, mostly because I'm really bad at them and they make me jumpy.

Another hiccup I have right now is that I just broke my arm and am having surgery next week, so my gaming options are pretty limited atm.

What I'm looking for is queer friends I can talk with while I'm casual gaming. What's the easiest setup to put together? Headset options, new games to try, channels to join, etc. I appreciate any and all advice and invites!

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2025/01/31
19:24 UTC

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29F Game buddies?

Looking for game buddies! I play Valorant and Rust but I really wanna play other games. Lets connect!

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2025/01/31
18:27 UTC

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Warzone

Looking for a duo or squad for area 99. I’m a sweat so I can carry I just need girl friends 😭🖤 message me for psn or activision

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2025/01/31
18:20 UTC

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Ps5 friends?

Hey f24 looking for gaming friends, hopefully we can get a nice group together! I’m actually a casual who can’t stick to just one game… I have a TON of games but I’m currently heavily playing Marvel rivals, RDR 2, bo6, stardew Valley, Palworld, overwatch and Dead by daylight.

Disclaimer: You will hear me rip the bong and cough my lungs out from time to time… sorry in advance 😂😂💨🍃

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2025/01/31
18:01 UTC

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Marvel Rivals Competitive

Hey everyone! I'm looking for more people to run competitive games with regularly. It feels like many players I’ve added here tend to stick to their usual groups, and I’d love to connect with others who are open to teaming up. Ideally, I’m looking for a daily squad that’s active, communicative, and focused on improving together. If you're down to grind and have a good time, let’s link up!

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2025/01/31
01:38 UTC

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Anyone in their 30s?

I'm a married 37 year old who plays on PC and Xbox. Switch sometimes. I always see a lot of younger people and I'm always down to game with whoever but I've seen a lot of 25 year olds recoil at my age lol

I play OW, Marvel Rivals, Animal Crossing, No Man's Sky. I want to get into Phasmaphobia, League, WoW, Lethal Company, but am open to most games.

Currently I have a grumpy army man as my duo that I picked up on ESO a decade ago but he's been getting more and more into tabletop simulators which I don't think I want to follow him into.

If you're down to game I can dm you Xbox or bnet or whatever. I just got a brand new gaming PC and I want to actually use it.

Bonus points if you're witchy, agnostic, atheist, spiritual.

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2025/01/31
06:12 UTC

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LoL

Ayo, down to add friends for URF on League of Legends! 27yr old masc lezbean, lux main, US-EST timezone, will equally flirt and roast, pls be good at the game 😪 ... add me: VCK #gay

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2025/01/31
05:26 UTC

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Looking for more Australian sapphics

Hey there,

I live in Australia and can't seem to many sapphic friends (small town problems I fear) so I thought I'd give this a go. If you are a sapphic living in Australia please feel free to reach out, I'd love to make some more friends. And if you know of any online communities for us I'd also love to hear about them. I'd love to have some more friends to chat with or play video games with.

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2025/01/31
04:57 UTC

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New Gaming Friends

I'm 24, looking for new gaming buddies. I live in The US (unfortunately) and I play on PC and I have a switch. I mainly wanna get into: baldurs gate 3, the borderlands series, raft, and other games with friends! Games I own and am down to play: suicide squad, phasmophobia, lethal company, mario party (all of them), and more. I also LOVE fighting games! I'm down to play anything really but shooters are often not fun for me (with exceptions)

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2025/01/31
03:09 UTC

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hey gaymers!

Hey everyone! I’m a 26 y/o afab enby lesbian from Toronto, Canada (but currently on vacation in Asia), looking for some lesbian pals to gayme with!

I play Zenless Zone Zero, Sun Haven, Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Valorant, and Fortnite—but I’m always down to try new games. Right now, I’m especially interested in trying to play Marvel Rivals and would love to find people to play with!

Outside of gaming, I’m all about sapphic novels, cuddling with my cats, and kissing cute girls :3

If you’re looking for a chill gaming buddy, hit me up! Let’s have some fun together. ✨💖

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2025/01/31
03:05 UTC

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Shooter games NA WEST

Heyy, Let me know if you’d like to play in games like Rivals, overwatch, Fortnite, and CS. No ranked modes for me. Just trying to chill.

North America west servers and prefer PC only,

About me: I’m late 20s, into hiking, cats, listening to music, and women’s sports

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2025/01/31
02:17 UTC

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Looking for Marvel Rival Friends!

Hey, chicas!

I'm a Plat2 tank main (mostly Peni) in Rivals, and I've gotten really tired of being mansplained, pestered about whether or not I'm single all game, and talked down to by the guys. It's not all of them, of course, but you get it. If anyone's interested in teaming up, let me know! I have a mic, and I'm on PS5.

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2025/01/31
01:26 UTC

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Looking for friends on switch and pc

I’m an 18 year old trans woman from the Midwest (cst) looking for people who play the same games! I play games like Splatoon 3, stardew valley, Minecraft, terraria, and multiplayer horror games like content warning or lethal company. I play most of those games on either switch or pc. I’m working on my voice but it doesn’t pass at the moment so I’d prefer you be okay with that. If you’re interested in playing please dm me or reply!

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2025/01/30
22:20 UTC

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CS2 gamers

I play cs2 , looking for someone to joing me! (F) Send Dm

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2025/01/30
16:25 UTC

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30 year old lesbo • PS5 • CST • Anyone Online? Game? Party Chat?

I am online on my ps5 !

Bouncing between Rocket League, OG Fortnite & BO6 Zombies

I'm up late cramping lmao and looking for ladies to play games or party chat with <3

Looking for gaming besties!

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2025/01/30
05:42 UTC

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What multiplayer games are you nerds playing?

I mostly play RPGS; Fallout 4, Skyrim, Starfield, Cyberpunk 2077, Assassin’s Creed Odyssey, Far Cry 5. The only multiplayer game I’ve played is World of Warcraft, but it would be neat to meet some lesbian gamer dorks—so what should I start with?

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2025/01/30
15:42 UTC

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Let's be bad together?

I'm (29F) a shy AuDHD girly who's decent at best when it comes to gaming but looking for more gaming friends. I'm on EST time.

I play BO6, Marvel Rivals, GTA5, Minecraft, Helldivers 2, and Ghost of Tsushima. I have both Xbox and PS5. I also have gamepass and always looking for something new to try.

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2025/01/30
15:18 UTC

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22mtf (Europe) looking for new friends!

Hello gals! You can call me Rachel or Raquel whatever you feel like! Well I'm posting this because currently I have no friends, since I would get bullied by them and I had to leave so yeah. I play alot of different games, which vary from valorant, dead by daylight, call of duty, need for speed unbound, call of duty, overwatch, marvel rivals and so on! I also don't mind buying something just to play together! I do read alot of lesbian stuff lmao Please dm me or comment here so we can add each other and befriend! love you all ♡

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2025/01/30
13:22 UTC

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Down to craft?

25MtF(in a week or two) living in europe pc/xbox. Looking for somebody who would like to play together some games, chat and share music/tv shows. Shy, social anxiety stat is maxed out.

Just starting a minecraft game with my friend (tekkit2 because i got serious nostalgia fever). If you wouldn’t be interested in a game like that, it’s fine, we could play other modpacks or vanilla as well (or on a server with more people - we just don’t like to get griefed and sometimes it’s detrimental to one’s mental health to cheat a little bit when they made a stupid mistake by jumping into lava 😂). Apart from minecraft, I play BG3 at the moment and sometimes we play lethal company or battlebit. Would be down to play some older games like left 4 dead too.

I usually play single player RPGs, not much of a yapper most of the time but right topics can get me going and I cannot stop. I program for living and can’t seem to stop in my free time, other hobbies photography, coffee and sewing - of which all of them suffer because i pour all of my time into programming. I’d like to get into TTRPGs too.

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2025/01/30
12:51 UTC

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League of legends gamers!??

Heyo I've been playing league since 2013 the game is pretty... uhm unbalanced atm and not the most fun to climb. Mel is wreaking havoc and her ban rate is obscene. Pick ban or dodge. This season probably won't be a climb season

Any one wanna run some norms ?!

I have several account I play pretty consistently. I'm from NA est

Lewendgra my random silver account.

Goodest Girl is my gold solo and Plat almost emerald ? Flex

My newest addition sinful Sapphic unranked but won 3/10 starting games so far. It's my evelynn jungle account.

I'm looking for a bestie or anything really. League gets boring solo especially right now lmao.

I'm not great or anything but happy to run squads duo 5 stacks etc. Please send me an invite . Thanks yall muah muah

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2025/01/30
12:27 UTC

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Looking for lesbian gamers 21+

I play either Cod, Fortnite, grounded, smash bros, Mario party, fall guys, etc etc. I need some cool lesbian friends to play or even chat about games with. Lmk if interested :)

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2025/01/30
12:24 UTC

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36F Just recently came out to my husband as lesbian! Would love to meet someone to play games with, or even to just chat about games!

Hiii, I'm Lauren. Going through a very friendly and mutual divorce, haha. So I am single and ready to mingle!- even if it's only platonically xD

I play on PC. My favorite games of all time are the Souls games. I would LOVE to find someone to play any of them with! I play lots of other stuff too, though. I have a ton of games on Steam, and also play OSRS and League :D

It takes me a bit sometimes to feel comfortable with someone. I'm shy and awkward at first, lol. So I may want to stick to text chats and getting to know you a bit before we jump straight into playing something. ( Hopefully that's okay. ^^ ) And I overall prefer one-on-one rather than groups when gaming, unless it's something like raids/bossing on an MMO or maybe League or somethin'.

Anything else you'd like to know about me or my situation, feel free to check my posts on my profile.

If you think we'd get along, send me a Chat request or DM.

Thanks, lovelies <3

Edit: Holy moly I did not expect this amount of responses and positivity. I'm a bit overwhelmed but will try to reply to everyone when I'm able ^^; Thank you all so much for the kind words and support as well! You guys are awesome.

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2025/01/30
04:19 UTC

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COD lesbian gamer group!

looking to get a lesbian gamer group together for COD players! mw2, bo6, warzone, whatever you have! comment below if you’re interested and i’ll dm you! :)

edited to add: this is for all skill levels!! and also not strictly cod. there will be space for other games as well!

21+ preferred

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2025/01/30
00:50 UTC

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Looking to play games with others.

I have a gaming laptop so I play a lot on Steam. Recently been playing project Zomboid the most. I have Cult of the Lamb, Valheim, Planet Crafter, CS2, Stardew Valley and maybe some others that can be played with others.

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2025/01/29
22:45 UTC

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New to Gaming 😬

Hello everyone! I am new to gaming, the game that I started to play is the Hogwarts Legacy. Literally just started this week and I am to the point where we are fighting in Hogsmeade with an Ogre? I can’t get past that point, has anyone played this game and gone through challenge? Thank you!

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2025/01/29
19:55 UTC

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33F looking for survival/rpg gaming buds!

Hey everyone!

I’m a 33-year-old lesbian looking for more gaming friends! I play on PC and love survival games, farming/crafting games, RPGs, FPS, and adventure games. Just not into Warzone or Fortnite.

I’m really hoping to find like-minded people who just want to game, have fun, and maybe even become best gaming buds! If you’re chill, up for some great gaming sessions, and down to build a solid friendship, let’s connect!

Drop a comment or DM me—let’s play! 🎮

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2025/01/29
14:34 UTC

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New to gay, Pro at gaming ☺️

Hi,

I’m looking for some friends to game with who can also maybe help me understand myself better.

I’m in the UK, my main game of choice is elder scrolls online. Love RPGs, openworld type games. Play on PlayStation.

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2025/01/29
13:44 UTC

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finch? 🫶

I just got this app and would love some friends on there!! Please do reply if you would like to share friend codes 💓

19 Comments
2025/01/29
08:25 UTC

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