/r/GBr4r

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Meet British redditors: An R4R subreddit for meeting British redditors!

A place for adults within the United Kingdom of Great Britain to meet.


Rules:

  • No Selling of any kind. Including looking for filming partners/OF collabs etc.
  • 18+ for all posts, all posts are now tagged as NSFW due to the nature of the subreddit even if you are looking for friends.
  • No nude pictures in your post, clothed photos are fine and you can have them in your profile, just don't post them here.
  • Be either based in/planning to visit the UK or have a good reason for specifically seeking out British redditors.
  • Title your post correctly (see below for a guide on how to do this).
  • Body of post cannot be blank, give people more details.
  • Nothing legally questionable/illegal, including prostitution/drugs.
  • No adverting or offering/requesting money/pro services, sexual or otherwise (even implicitly).
  • No politics or political posts.
  • Max one post per week.
  • Don't be a jerk.
  • No personal identifying information, including phone numbers/kik usernames etc. If you are looking for a specific user that you spoke to before, please keep the focus on you rather than them and don't give away any personal details.

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Age(s) [Gender tags][Location(s)] Description

Examples:

26 [F4M][Glasgow] Just a gal looking for a guy to treat her right.

25/23 [MF4F][London/Manchester] Looking for our unicorn.

19 [F4R][UK] US traveler looking for friends whilst I visit!

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35 [MM4F] #London - two hot friends ISO a hot threesome..

Hey Reddit! Two friends (M35 and M30 - one white/blonde/blue eyes, one south asian/dark/brown eyes, both slim build) looking for a lady to join us for a threesome in London this week. Both kinky and experienced, chilled out guys. This is not our first rodeo. Must be happy to verify before we meet, DM for details!

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2024/12/03
08:22 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Leicester/online - experienced dom looking for a new sub to explore and have fun with

About me: I’m a 30 year old dom with 8 years of experience from Leicester looking for a new sub to explore and play with. I prefer online to start with. It can progress to irl if we are both comfortable but it can stay online if that’s what you’d prefer. I am an encouraging but firm dom who would love to try and help you have the perfect submissive experience

About you: An obedient and eager female submissive or slave who takes care of herself, is open-minded, willing to please and explore and can hold a conversation. I don’t have any physical or age preference as long as you’re 18+. I am looking for someone who is eager to explore, have fun and serve. Ideally you can provide pics and videos of tasks and potentially calls/videos calls but not essential from the start. As well as your kinks which I prefer to talk about in private I’m sure you have some limits and you set the limits, I respects them. From non sexual, to sexual

Communication: though I can be busy (and you probably are too), I expect that we try to maintain nearly daily communication.

My kinks: spanking, choking, impact play, bdsm, having control over you, Painal, general roughness, cnc, controlling your orgasms and denying you, public play along with many others.

My limits: scat, blood, causing you permanent damage, anything illegal and I don’t like feet.

If you’ve made it this far you’re interested send me a little introduction and what you’re looking. In your opening message, please try to answer the following questions:

  • Age, race, sexual orientation and a rough body description or a pic
  • Experience.
  • Available toys
  • Your level of privacy, i.e. got your own room or your own apartment

I can’t wait to hear from my potential new sub

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2024/12/03
07:38 UTC

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27 [M4F] #east midlands - looking for a woman

I think maybe sometimes I make it more complicated than it really is. So message me,let’s discover what we both want over a chat. If you want to looks through my profile you can

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2024/12/03
07:25 UTC

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24 [M4M] #London - Looking for a mate to visit gay sauna with 4th Dec

Hey all, 24m vers dude here in london

Basically for months I’ve been planning to go to a sauna.

I’m going to go to Covent Garden Health spa. It’s a gay sauna. It’s free admissions for under 25s on Wednesday.

So if you want to head out tomorrow (Wednesday 4th December) after work (say 5/6/7pm) I’d love to have a mate to go there with. It’s my first time at a gay sauna. I think I can fly it solo, but it’d be appreciated to have a guy I’ve spoken to briefly outside before we head in.

Not sure what I will do inside, might just be a spectator and get used to the vibes of the place. But I do intend to arrive prepared on both sides (vers).

No particular preference on who/what kind of person joins me, fellow first timer, or regular, older or not than me. And to be clear not promising we will get it on, there’s a chance, but I’m in a take it as it comes mood, and mainly I just want to visit and see what it’s like in a sauna.

Hit me up if you’re interested. If you’re interested but can’t make tomorrow( Wednesday 4th December) please let me know straight up, we’ll try to make it work, but my focus is making something happen tomorrow, then plan for the future. Thanks! Speak soon!

Ps: since it’ll be the first questions, 7.5” bwc, average build (rugby/dad bod at times).

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2024/12/03
07:18 UTC

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37[M4F]#UK. It’s a numbers game…

F’s, pick a number from 1-20 in chat or DM and check your inbox…

Had to put something down here to satisfy the character count. No time limit on this post.

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2024/12/03
06:31 UTC

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43 [M4F] #London – South Asian Ladies, Let’s chat, flirt, and enjoy some vibes

Hey there! I’m a 43-year-old British-born South Asian guy from London, and I’m here to add a bit of fun to the day. Life’s already got its serious side, so I’m looking for someone to share some cheeky chats, playful banter and hopefully more.

As if the M vs F ratio wasn't already skewed, let's make it a little more difficult, any South Asian ladies lurking? ;)

I’m all about keeping it light and fun—flirty conversations. If the chemistry’s there, maybe we exchange pics, jump into a naughty phone call, or even meet up if it feels right. No pressure, no expectations, just seeing where things go and enjoying the ride ;)

About me? I’m confident, easy to chat with, and down-to-earth. While I’ve got my life together, I know how to let loose and keep things interesting. I like to keep it real and upfront, so if you’re intrigued, I’d appreciate it if we can verify early on—just to make sure we’re on the same page.

I’d love to hear from you. Let’s turn an ordinary week into something worth remembering.

How about it?

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2024/12/03
05:51 UTC

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29 [m4m] London, wanna be femboy looking to explore and be flirted with I'm a bicurious male looking to experiment.

Always wanted to try cross dressing but havnt hence the wannabe. If we get on you can take my anal virginity. I'd prefer a hung guy. Not really sure what else to say except heya and

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2024/12/03
03:19 UTC

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42[m4f] #southampton/online, struggling to sleep and the alarm goes off in 3 hours. Maybe time to make new friends..

Good Morning from the UK.

Its 3am here right now and i cannot fall asleep and my alarm goes off in 3 hours to get ready for work

I am a 42yo guy who is in the middle of a divorce at this moment in time still feels lost and a little lonely but i am learning to live on my own and rebuild my confidence in myself

I would like to find new female friends to chat with and share this space with me and help me move on with life

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2024/12/03
03:09 UTC

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23 [M4F] London - 6’4” college grad with thick meat

I’m on my rotations for pharmacy school and I’ll be a pharmacist this summer. Anyways yes I am a virgin. Never had a first kiss and never had a girlfriend cuz of my shy personality and college has been taking up my free time. I’m hoping to chat and discuss about how to break out of my shell and maybe lose it this year.

If you’re curious I’m 6’4”, blonde, brown eyes, slim with a 7 inch cock.

Please send me your age and a picture of you.

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2024/12/03
02:56 UTC

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20 [F4M] London

Want someone to entertain me;) looking for someone who wants to chat and sext, then maybe more. London based n bored, text me

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2024/12/03
01:24 UTC

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34 [M4F] #Yorkshire - I want to be humiliated, dominated and degraded by a nearby girl as I serve her

I'm really eager to serve. I'm slim and very tall, boyish and white. I've always felt awkward and nerdy. I live in a small village in Yorkshire, in the north of England, and I've always felt naturally submissive.

So I want to accept my true nature. I want to be broken down, as I worship and serve a nearby girl. I will know my place. I'll get down on my knees and kiss your feet or massage your body, lick your pussy and rim your tight hole, whatever you want from me. I want to make you happy.

I'll follow your orders eagerly and be your obedient slaveboy. I'm willing to serve a nearby woman of any age, race, size or bodyshape. You don't need to have any experience, just enthusiasm to make me submit to you. I can travel within the UK, if you can host.

You can spank me hard. You can slap me, spit on my face and laugh at my cock. You can choke me, piss on me and bust my balls. Call me names and make me cry. I'm willing to be degraded and humiliated in any way you see fit. You can twist my puffy nipples, hurt me and laugh at my pain. I know that I deserve to be punished.

You can be as rough or as gentle with me as you want, so long as you take control of me for your own pleasure, desires and entertainment. I just want to work hard, submit completely and do whatever I can to make you happy. So please get in touch if you want to dominate me in any way, and we can discuss what you want from me in more detail.

1 Comment
2024/12/03
00:30 UTC

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24 [M4F] [London] Looking for FWB

6’0’’ feet, 7’0 inches, tanned and tattooed.

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2024/12/03
00:06 UTC

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24 [M4MF] #Manchester, UK - Shy little virgin cuck wants to watch you get pounded hard by massive dick~

Hii! I'm shy and lack a lot of confidence.. I really want to meet an older woman, preferably with large boobs that will meet up with me, tease me and tell me how my little dick isn't good enough~ Then get me to watch how really hung guys fuck her~

I am like 6 inches! I could even organise/pay for a hotel, find big dominant bulls for you with huge cocks.. I'm just submissive and want someone to show me my place 💛

Also love bbc so hmu~

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2024/12/03
00:03 UTC

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36 [M4F] #North London - looking for some casual cock worship

36m American looking for an F, TF, or effeminate CD who'd be interested in worshiping my cock a bit. I love long oral sessions. If that's your thing feel free to send me a DM. I have a body pic in my Profile.

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2024/12/02
23:49 UTC

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18 [M4F] #London - I would like to go on a date this Christmas

Hello reddit, I am studying physics at a London university, and this Christmas holiday it would be lovely to go on a date. Let me tell you about myself.

I enjoy playing board games (especially chess) and also I play games like Roblox and team fortress 2. I am a bit socially anxious, however recently I have been going to lots of society events so I've started going outside my comfort zone a lot. I take weekly tango classes at my university, which I have been enjoying so much, so maybe I could show you a few moves I've learnt lol. I also go to the board games club to socialise.

Since I am new to dating, I am open to doing pretty much anything on a first date. Also I'm not quite sure about my type yet. I am 5ft 11 and roughly 160lbs. Ethnically from South Asia but I was born and raised in London. I don't drink much to be honest, but I'm also not opposed to it. I don't smoke at all. I'm open to dating someone in the age range 18-20.

Honestly it would just be really cool to go on a date with a woman sometime during the Christmas holidays, no pressure for it to lead to anything more. We could go to a museum or gallery, there are tonnes of them in London. Or we could go for a walk in the park, or get coffee. I don't really mind.

Anyways that's all I have to say, looking forward to hearing from you :)

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2024/12/02
23:42 UTC

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22 [M4F] North West / Cumbria - Casual fun/experimentation

6'2, slim, brown hair and decently endowed looking to try something, anything new - happy to meet ladies of all types and ages.

Can occasionally host and travel within reason - hit me up.

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2024/12/02
23:37 UTC

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34 [M4F] London, UK

I like to study and I read academic and business stuff often

Master's graduate

Working in a warehouse

Athletic figure

Height 5ft 8inches

Fair skin

Very short hair and beard

Dark eyes and hair

South Asian but I have never felt a part of those cultures

Quiet

Minimalism

Fashion

I stay busy with productivity things

Preference:

Age: 32-36

Someone who likes to study

Honesty, Dignity, and Transparency are very important to me.

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2024/12/02
23:31 UTC

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22 [M4F] #London - consider myself good looking - Into Spanking, rough sex, dominating - Can Host - can verify

I'm 6'1 athletic, consider myself good looking. into spanking , any sort of dominating, wedgies, rough sex and other stuff and anything you are into, can host. Up for meeting in public first.

I'm a uni student in central london, looking for somebody like minded, even if its just meeting I'm fine with that. Tell me a bit about yourself - your hobbies, your kinks, maybe anything specific about my post that caught you eye and let’s go from there :) If things go well, I’d love to make plans

It can be a one time thing or something more frequent. Looking for somebody around london 18+ and looking to meet this week sometime.

feel free to message

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2024/12/02
23:22 UTC

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30 [M4F] London - Anonymous and safe boob play through hole in sheet...

I recently saw a video of such a thing and was immediately taken with the idea of having so much focus and attention on someone's boobs.

The rough idea would be to set up a scenario where a sheet is hung over a door, with a hole cut in it a boob height. You could present your boobs anonymously for admiration, worship and touching (if you desire).

For me this takes the pressure a little off meetup encounters and allows focus on the important things without having to stress too much about anonymity and safety (which I would do everything possible to conserve). I think I also like the pragmatism of it all being about the pleasure and attention, and nothing else.

No other contact would take place, otherwise things get too complicated. As you can probably tell, I'm the nervous cautious type for which this would be a very exciting and thrilling encounter - I hope that this aligns with some people reading this.

I realise that guaranteeing a safe and secure environment for this is key to its success and so am open to any ideas of how to make you feel as comfortable as possible - whether that's being accompanied by a friend, or careful choice of location, please let me know how to make it work for you!

If you're fond of your boobs and want them to be the centre of attention, then this could be for you?

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2024/12/02
22:59 UTC

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30 [M4F] Nw/uk - late night chats?

Evening. if anyone wants to be a cool little pumpkin and keep me company for a bit and chat. That'd be grand.

Long term or short term chats are fine by me. Who knows, we might even become jolly good pals.

A fact about me; I'm boring, but sometimes I am funny. So it balances out.

A slightly cooler fact about me; I have 6 snakes.

About you; please be 21+ and keep ya toes socked or I'll cry.

Q: would you rather fight god 1v1 in hand to hand combat or live your last nightmare you had for 24 hours?

Yours faithfully, YFG.

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2024/12/02
22:55 UTC

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28 [M4F] #South London - coming down 20th/21st December and looking for a fun stop

Hey, I'm heading over to Chessington for the weekend later this month to see some family before the festive holidays and was wondering if anyone nearby would be up for some pre-holiday fun 😋

I'm 28, white, with a decent build currently at 6'3 and 230 pounds. I've got short dirty blonde/light brown hair, green eyes and I'm happy to share pics if you are.

I'm not fussy at all when it comes to ages, size, race or anything like that so any women interested, drop me a message 😁 as long as we click and both seem up for it, that's all that matters to me

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2024/12/02
22:53 UTC

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42 [M4F] [London / Southern UK] - Ever fancied sounding a guy

For the curious and uninitiated, sounding is inserting things (generally metal rods) into a gents penis, sometimes as far as the prostate and bladder.

It feels great, with very intense feelings, but would be wonderful to experience this with someone else sounding me.

This does put me in a modestly vulnerable position, so looking for someone caring and patient, as have to take sounding with a modest amount of caution and patience.

As it's also probably a limited target audience, don't mind travelling for the right person, so say hi and let's see what we can figure out

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2024/12/02
22:51 UTC

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30 [M4F] NW/UK - Best friends, with benefits?

The long and short of it, I've found myself in a bit of lonely slump, and whilst I'm okay with being alone. It definitely has its downsides.

So, if you're looking for a friendship, with a touch of flirting and a dash of mild touch-starved obsession. You've come to the right place. You will receive plenty of compliments.

Whilst the NSFW tag is there, it's not essential. All I'm saying... is, I'm all for being teased 👀 lol.

The only rules are, is that you're 18+.

Some preferences of mine;

  • Older (fight me)
  • Alternative/goth/emo (I will be obsessed with u)

Anything else I really don't mind. Skin colour, ethnicity, religion. Etc etc. All fine. Also alternative timezones.

And lastly, I put in the same level of effort in responses so low level replies, get low level responses. I can only carry conversations for so long lol.

This has been me, ya boi. Signing out.

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2024/12/02
22:36 UTC

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18[M4M] gedney hill looking for older guy to rail me

Dm me

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2024/12/02
22:31 UTC

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20 [M4F] lonely lad looking for company

Both SFW or NSFW are welcome. I'm tired of not having anyone to message so feel free to drop a pm. I enjoy games and books. I'm very inexperienced when it comes to NSFW so take it slow

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2024/12/02
22:28 UTC

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23 [M4F] London, send me a selfie and I’ll guess your name

Don’t think I can? come challenge me then ;)

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2024/12/02
22:13 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Derbyshire

Looking for a FWB type situation but happy with a one off too if you just want to blow off some steam! Can’t host but can travel, make use of the back of my car (surprisingly roomy!) or play around outdoors 🥶

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2024/12/02
22:12 UTC

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42 [M4F] [South West / Wiltshire] - Tall guy seeking a FWB who enjoys plenty of foreplay

Hey everyone

I really enjoy spending a decent amount of time building things up, letting the anticipation build and making sure you are properly pampered and cared for. Do you think you would like that?

We would start off pretty tame, making out and gradually building the intensity and letting the hands wander, being close and embracing, relaxing into a nice calm state. As thing progress, gradually clothes would start to be removed and bodies caressed, making sure to not miss any spots. After some time, we move to the bed, you lay down and relax, me gently massaging you to let the stress and tightness fade away, going from top to toe, after a while, gently kissing you all over, seeing and feeling you relax and react to my touch, building the anticipation and arousal. I can happily continue with this for a good while 😄 and I’m sure I don’t need to explain how the rest of the night would go, other than your enjoyment and pleasure would be my focus.

If this sounds like just what you need then please drop me a message to say hi.

A little about me, 6ft 4in tall, reasonable shape (95kg, so just a touch of extra weight), pretty hairy body, no tattoos or piercings, non smoker. Employed full time, bit on the geeky side, can be a bit shy to start with but soon open up. Reader (mainly crime novels), bake off fan (and pretty decent baker too), enjoy motorsport and music (pretty eclectic tastes).

You - I’m pretty open here, though a couple of ‘red lines’, please be single (don’t need any drama here!) and a non smoker. You don’t need to be a supermodel (but no problem if you are 🤣) or a certain height, with a specific hair colour or style - be yourself and comfortable with how you are, happy to hold a conversation and not take yourself too seriously.

Happy to chat for a bit if you are a bit shy or this is a new venture for you.

I'm able to host, but more than happy to meet on neutral ground (hotel) to start. Able to travel, so don't mind a bit of a drive to surrounding areas (Area roughly bordered by Southampton, Bristol, Swindon, Basingstoke, Winchester) but if you are a little further afield and happy to meet half way that's cool with me.

Looking for a nice fun relaxed time, so if this sounds like it would be a good end to your week then drop me a message to say hi!

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2024/12/02
21:57 UTC

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28 [M4F] #London visit frequently from the US for work. Looking for something semi-regular

Hey all - I’ve had some success on other trips previously doing this, thought I’d give it a go in London. Live in the US and work brings me across the pond maybe once per quarter at the moment. Tend to have a free night or two towards the end of my trip in a hotel, normally one of the nice ones by the airport.

Me: 28, 6’0, 180lb, brown hair, blue eyes, healthy and active. Really enjoy traveling with work. It means I get to see new cities and make connections with cool people like the one reading this right now. Definitely picked up the perspective of life’s too short and respect whatever your circumstances are without any judgement, just looking for someone to have a good time with. Spontaneous adventures like this are what I look forward to the most when I’m traveling. Happy to meet first, walk, coffee, drinks, whatever you’d prefer to make sure we’re all feeling safe and comfortable. I enjoy putting emphasis on a girls pleasure, I get off in seeing you get off. Firm but gentle.

You:

21-50 years old, preferably in decent shape but I’m not chiseled by any means so not something to get hung up on. Know what you want and what you’re looking to get out of this. No baggage, down to essentially have a semi frequent booty call. To emphasize, I’m not looking for anything more than that. Be able to get yourself to my hotel, or at least the area and we can walk. You guys are crazy driving on the wrong side of the road.

My next trip is just after Christmas, will have the free hotel around January 14th. DM me, I’m an open book.

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2024/12/02
21:53 UTC

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21 [m4f] Nottingham

Going to be in nottingham for a concert this week. Got nothing else to do and I've got the room for a week. Anyone free to meet?

Edit: please don't message me if you're a guy

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2024/12/02
21:09 UTC

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