/r/dirtyUKr4r

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A place where horny Redditors in the UK can come and find one another.

If you are looking for a fuckbuddy, FWB cam partner or anything else sexual then this might be a good place to start.

If your mother wouldn't approve of your desired activity, this is the place to post

If you are looking for a

  • Fuck buddy in your area
  • Dirty chat mate
  • Cam playmates
  • Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Rules

The Rules are in Our Wiki

  1. No criticism or abuse
  2. No selling/ financial transactions
  3. No spam - 1 post per 24 hours
  4. Title must contain age and location
  5. Respect the privacy of others - all content must be your own
  6. No Personal Information - people can contact you by PM or chat

/r/dirtyUKr4r

18,578 Subscribers

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29 [M4F] #Midlands/online - experienced dom looking for a new sub to explore and have fun with

About me: I’m a 29 year old dom with 7 years of experience from England looking for a new sub to explore and play with. I prefer online to start with. It can progress to irl if we are both comfortable but it can stay online if that’s what you’d prefer. I am an encouraging but firm dom who would love to try and help you have the perfect submissive experience

About you: An obedient and eager female submissive or slave who takes care of herself, is open-minded, willing to please and explore and can hold a conversation. I don’t have any physical or age preference as long as you’re 18+. I am looking for someone who is eager to explore, have fun and serve. Ideally you can provide pics and videos of tasks and potentially calls/videos calls but not essential from the start. As well as your kinks which I prefer to talk about in private I’m sure you have some limits and you set the limits, I respects them. From non sexual, to sexual

Communication: though I can be busy (and you probably are too), I expect that we try to maintain nearly daily communication.

My kinks: spanking, choking, impact play, bdsm, having control over you, Painal, general roughness, cnc, controlling your orgasms and denying you, public play along with many others.

My limits: scat, blood, causing you permanent damage, anything illegal and I don’t like feet.

If you’ve made it this far you’re interested send me a little introduction and what you’re looking. In your opening message, please try to answer the following questions:

  • Age, race, sexual orientation and a rough body description or a pic
  • Experience.
  • Available toys
  • Your level of privacy, i.e. got your own room or your own apartment

I can’t wait to hear from my potential new sub

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2024/10/30
19:54 UTC

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28 [M4F] #London - Fulfil my fantasy.....

I can't say too much on here but looking for someone who likes being used and degraded. Must be willing to get an STI test and be open to WS.

I am into very extreme hard BDSM.

Read my bio and we can talk.

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2024/10/30
19:12 UTC

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23 [M4F] #london looking to connect with a curvy girl and see where things go hmu

London don’t mind travelling tho

1 Comment
2024/10/30
19:12 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Newcastle - Fun flirty Dom ready to make you cum hard. Kinks welcome.

Hello M25 from the Newcastle looking for some good healthy fun. If there's one thing i can say about myself I love making people laugh, smile and Cum. But that doesn't mean I'm a sub, oh no I love it rough and passionate as much as I love it intimate and gentle. So whichever pace sounds best to you.

I'm a Dom and very kink friendly so if you have something unusual or messy or particularly rough I'd be happy to discuss it with you, with the hopes to live it out your fantasies.

I pride myself on my communication and being able to take a hint so there no worries about me ruining your life and not in the fun way. I'd love to get to know you to make you cum your hardest in the most comfortable way.

Let me know if you're interested.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
19:08 UTC

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32 [M4F] #London hotel fun end of November

I am planning on staying in a lovely hotel with a pool/spa in London at the end of November (29th and 30th) for a couple of nights and it would be great to meet someone to share it for some fun.

We can meet for a drink, relax in the sauna or have some fun in the room.

I've had some great times doing similar things before and would love to meet more of you wonderful people. Can be a 1 time thing or something regular.

Drop me a message if you're interested.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
19:01 UTC

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29 [M4F] #London - Seeking discreet connection

Good evening all! As per the title, I am seeking a discreet connection, a temporary one at that. For context, I am in a difficult relationship at the moment, where physical connection is just not possible between the two of us, but a temporary yet discreet arrangement with someone else would be acceptable. If appreciate this might not be able for everyone.

I am seeking a physical connection, one with a lot of teasing, flirting and sexual tension to ultimately develop into steamy, passionate intercourse. I am 29, I have lived in London for over 10 years (and enough to get rid of my Italian accent). I am 5"10, white, DDF, regular build (going for fit as I've been going to the gym for almost a year now). I am overly sarcastic, I enjoy laughing and making others laugh, love exploring the city and its many hidden gems. I'm also a good listener, well mannered and a big fan of respect and consent (in a relationship or otherwise).

If this is of interest, feel free to start a chat!

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2024/10/30
18:53 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Kent - Single guy looking to hookup

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post.

I'm just a single guy from Kent who's interested in meeting people on here to have casual hookups.

I'm an open-minded guy when it comes to the bedroom. I do like to please and willing to please you in ways you like.

I'm willing to take you out to a dinner date at our first meet, or order some nice food in if you prefer. If there is any particular place that you'd have in mind, let me know and I'll go there with you.

A little about me: I'm 5'9 tall, 31 years old, single, short brown hair, blue eyes, short facial hair, slim built, hygienic/smell good.

I'm willing to travel far to you if you're outside of my area.

If you want to ask me any personal questions to get to know me better, just send a message to me :)

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2024/10/30
18:27 UTC

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24 [M4F] #[Wycombe/London/Oxford/Reading/Luton] Interested in teaching/learning with a virgin?

Probably the most generic post, but no less genuine for it!

Usually I’m based out of Wycombe, but I’m down to meet anyone within 50 miles as I enjoy driving and fuel/hotel costs would be well worth it! Since I can’t host at my house it doesn’t matter too much how far you are- I’m down to book a hotel if you can’t host either!

I’m looking for someone to show me the ropes, to help explore what I’m into and teach me how to pleasure a lady. That doesn’t have to include me receiving any service (including sex) if you’re not down for that, I’d welcome any experience! Preferably it’d turn into a FWB situation, but if you only want a one-time thing, I’m cool with that too. It doesn’t matter if you’re more experienced (pretty likely all things considered haha) or as inexperienced as me as long as you’re down to get down!

If you’re asking yourself why a 24yo hasn’t got laid yet, the answer is a combination of having a long-term asexual girlfriend (who recently gave me permission to start looking), bad luck, and mild social anxiety (posting this is definitely out of my comfort zone!)

A little bit about me: SFW: I’m white, have blue eyes and short brown hair, am average height for a guy (5’9”). Fit but not buff or slim, 70kg. Enjoy reading, walking, baking, science, sci-fi- I can talk a little about most subjects, there’s a lot of random stuff in this head. A good (bad?) dad joke or pun is always entertaining.

NSFW: Kinks- I’m not too sure, I’d like to explore! (I know I’d like to film it but a lot of people aren’t cool with that so feel free to say no.) I’m down to give anal sex and anal fingering, but not to rim or receive anything anal (rimming, fingering, pegging, etc). I’m about 7 inches when fully going, and as far as I can tell I’ve got good endurance, but you’ll be the judge of that!

I’m clean- I tested about 2 weeks ago in preparation for posting here.

Ask me for a photo of me! I’m not comfortable just putting one out on the Internet!

If you’re interested, drop me your ASL!

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2024/10/30
18:27 UTC

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26 [M4M] #Manchester, submissive for Dominant

Masc sub looking for a fit Dominant lad

Especially interested if you play football ⚽ or rugby and want a sub at your boots & feet

Please be masculine and in shape/sporty. I'm masc and won't meet anon. I got a short beard.

I can host

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2024/10/30
17:54 UTC

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40 [M4F] #SELondon UK Looking for something long term

Hi,

I’m a 40 year old British guy looking for someone for long term chats and potentially leading towards meeting in IRL if the location, vibe and the chemistry fit.

Ideally I’m looking for someone who I can talk to about our day to day life’s, the SFW stuff and not just the spicy stuff.

I’m a standard, mostly by the book, 40 years old nerd so I to all of the usually suspects like sci-fi, fantasy, 80s and 90s nostalgia (probably considered ancient history to most of you!). I like fashion, politics, history, music, books and art but also enjoy a healthy dose of just sitting around watching Netflix.

If any of this sounds interesting, give me a shout and we can get to know each other more.

N

1 Comment
2024/10/30
17:47 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Kent - looking for some head tomorrow x 💰

Hey there. Based in Kent, free house tomorrow or happy to drop by if you can host. Looking mainly for a good bj, happy to reciprocate x

Me: 5’10, slim athletic build, 78kg, few tattoos, 6 inches 🍆, brown hair and eyes

Hit me up, happy to send pick

1 Comment
2024/10/30
17:21 UTC

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38 [M4F] #London/Surrey/Hampshire - Seeking regular blowjob girl

I''m looking for someone to be my regular 'blowbuddy'. We meet up, you swallow my load like a good girl, maybe we hang out, then bye until next time.

Ideally we'd manage weekly or thereabouts 🙂

I'm 5ft10, fit and athletic build, clean and DDF. Dominant-leaning, but this doesn't need to be a dom/sub arrangement necessarily, just be someone that enjoys sucking 🙂 could suit someone who wants some practice, or who just has an oral fixation.

I can host in Guildford sometimes or can drive to you nearby (central/sw London is fine too). Big plus if you can host, especially near Guilford/ Woking/ Farnham.

Be willing to send a verification pic relatively early in our conversation, I'm happy to do the same.

Please don't waste your time or mine contacting me if you're a bloke or trans, the answer is respectfully no.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
17:12 UTC

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24 [M4M] #LDN 🇬🇧 — Dom Paki Daddy (36) looking to share my fit white twink slut (24) with other Paki / Muslim alphas — rough and raw. 🇵🇰🔥

LDN 🇬🇧 — Dom Paki Daddy (36) looking to share my fit white twink slut (24) with other Paki / Muslim alphas — rough and raw. 🇵🇰🔥

1 Comment
2024/10/30
17:04 UTC

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25 [M4F] #London - Switch for Exploration

Hi!

25/M/London here. I’ve been super busy for ages and finally coming to the end of a particularly stressful streak, so what better time to explore and try some new things :)

Kink-wise, I’m a switch, particularly looking to explore more submission to relax and lose control for a bit, doubly so because my job is pretty intense normally. I’m into sensation play, bondage/BDSM, light pain, instruction, and most of all pleasing you! I’m down to try almost anything at least once, and so if you have something you’d like to try too I’m your guy.

I don’t really have a type; slim/curvy/thick and blonde/brunette and younger/older are all incredibly hot (particularly older ;))

Vanilla-wise, I’m tall, white, and dark haired/eyed. I love pretty much all things outdoors; hiking, camping, sailing etc., and big on music (playing and listening). Also love a good classic movie.

If you think we could have some fun definitely reach out, and if you name something you’d like to try and I haven’t tried it either I owe you a drink ;)

Looking forward to hearing from you.

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2024/10/30
16:37 UTC

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37 [M4F] #London/ONLINE - Looking For Flirty Gamer/More

As the title says, looking for a flirty gamer who wants to chat on dsc or play things together. Maybe watch some anime/shows while the tension builds or something. Then have a little fun on the phone after it's gotta to a point or just when the mood hits.

As far as gaming goes, i'm in to most genre's. Been big into Dark and Darker/Dungeonborne lately. I play FFXIV, Hunt Showdown, Monster Hunter, etc. If you have been interested in something and wanted somebody to play it with, i'm down to try it as well! I'm pretty easy going like that. I am a bit competitive though lol

And for the fun part of things, I go with the flow of my partner. Breeding, rope play, oral fixation, ddlg, etc just to name a few. Something we can both talk about if the post interests you. Like I said, teasing when we can't get off, and as long as my partner wants when we can/do. If you're taken/Married/Complicated, that's fine too. I get it, everyone needs an outlet sometimes. I don't judge.

If you want to know more and got this far, hit me up! Time zone does not matter, i'm usually up around the clock, so we can talk or have fun at your leisure. I'm also open to this turning in to something more if that's what you're after. People find each other in all facets of life! If my post is not what you're looking for, I hope you find your fun in this sub!

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2024/10/30
15:38 UTC

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20 [M4A] #Sidcup, looking for a bit of fun tonight.

Looking to have some fun If you want to get involved dm me.

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2024/10/30
15:10 UTC

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26 [F4M] #Greater London - A complete woman of strong desire and sensuality looking for a determined sub guy Online / IRL

My name is Chanell, a lovely Mistress with a kind heart. I'm honest open minded, reliable. I like adventures trying new stuff. I am looking for a sub for active participation and meeting a sub to own, use as my personal property. both his heart, body and soul. I am a perfect trainer, and I intend to give my sub the basic needs that makes him a real sub. I practice what I preach and answer to no man nor do I depend on one. When I allow you to serve, it's not because I need you to, it's because I enjoy having you do it, I'm a professional mistress and I have been doing this for 7 years.

If you're seeking a journey into submission where trust is the ultimate currency, you've found your guide. My domination style mixes a naturally nurturing personality and a perverted passion for all things extreme. Meaning, I thrive in a variety of dominant settings.

Vitality and eroticism are key in my Dominance, peppered with a playfulness that only dancing in the shadows can bring. Sessions with me span across the spectrum of playful, soft erotic exploration, to hardcore pain/pleasure surrender. I take pride in my expertise, and take my time to get to know what you need, and where to probe to open you up.

I'm all-consuming. Sweetening you into submission, I'll use my wide eyes and soft speech to draw you into an unwavering submission until you yourself become soft and vacant - released from your real-life responsibilities and needs for the raw and pure moments we spend together.

So if you think you are ready to fully commit into a long term ownership, dont hesitate to Dm

5'8" blonde with a playful spirit, weighing in at 143 lbs. I’m currently single and loving the freedom of living alone. I enjoy walking, going to the gym, reading books , and I believe life is too short not to have a little fun. Looking for someone who can match my vibe and keep things exciting! Can’t wait to connect!

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2024/10/30
14:40 UTC

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45 [M4F] #West Sussex & London - secret bareback fun

Let’s look all innocent on the outside, but have a shared and secretly horny and slutty life behind the scenes. Looking for someone who loves bareback/loves making a guy cum. Someone with a naughty mind.

If you like these, you should definitely say hi…

  • Meeting for sex without saying a word to each other until we are done.
  • Sex outdoors.
  • Hotel sex.
  • Lights off, curtains wide open, on the sofa, deep in the night.
  • Giving me a massage and finishing it with a happy ending, or with me deep in you as you ride me to completion.
  • Trying to see how quickly you can make me cum.
  • Letting me fill you wherever we are at the time, whatever we are doing when the mood strikes us.
  • Unsolicited hand/blow while we watch a film at home.
  • Cowgirl.
  • Wearing short skirts/dresses to encourage me to be inside you as soon as I can.
  • Not always getting undressed first. Enjoying me slip up your dress to have you.
  • Sleepy sex.
  • Slow quiet build ups in the night, as we caress and touch until you’re take the tip of me into you, deeper and deeper until I cum in you.
  • Getting tipsy on bubbly together, stripping off and having wild, long explorations of our needs.
  • Pretending I’m not supposed to have sex with you, but you want to make me cum in you anyway, and work to get me off and take me.
  • Car sex, pulling up somewhere to have each other.

I am single, with no kids, and I have my own place. I commute into London a few times a week, and like to stay active. I’m a friendly and good-natured guy who no one would suspect of looking for all this…

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2024/10/30
14:24 UTC

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40 [M4F] #Online Wanting a female to chat to & tease me through NNN …

No Nut November is coming up and I’m looking for someone to chat to and have some fun with.

I wonder how long I can last.

I’m up for sharing pics / voice notes (if you’re on Telegram or Snap) and just having some flirty fun.

Do you think you can brake me and make me nut or can I hold out for the 30 days of November?

Perhaps you want a prize if you succeed; let’s discuss what you might want for a suitable reward …

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2024/10/30
14:21 UTC

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18 [F4M] #Cirencester Looking for older guy 40+

Hey looking for an older guy to chat to and see where things go, maybe you pass your experience onto me and teach me a few things? I’m brunette, 5’1 and petite if that’s your type. PLEASE READ My type is guys who have a hairy body and stocky / a belly / dad bod so if that’s you feel free to dm me and please give me an intro ^^

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2024/10/30
14:20 UTC

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54 [M4F] #WestMidlands silver fox seeking younger FWB.

Handsome, genuine guy here looking to chat and meet with a naughty younger woman for FWB no strings relationship

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2024/10/30
13:41 UTC

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34 [M4F] #Surrey - Looking for regular head

I''m looking for someone who can be my new personal cocksucker, ideally based in Surrey/Hampshire or nearby. Plain and simple arrangement 🙂

Me:

  • 34
  • 5ft9
  • Gym fit
  • Clean + DDF
  • Based in Surrey

You:

  • Of legal age, up to 40ish is my limit
  • Born female (NO exceptions)
  • Enjoy giving blowjobs on a regular basis 😁
  • Based in Surrey, Hampshire, Berkshire or London

If you can host then all the better! I can drive to you. Ideally looking for an ongoing fwb type arrangement 🙂 Happy to share photos etc.

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2024/10/30
13:30 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Bristol. Anybody want to sell old bras/lingerie?

As the title, I'm happy to come and collect around Bristol area! I'm a 36 or 38 band size and have inserts to cover most cup sizes, I do fit a 34 band depending on the style!

Ps it's more for gender affirmation (I'm gender fluid) than kink!

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2024/10/30
13:12 UTC

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31 [M4F] # London Professional cuddler for all the ladies that need.

Hello there ladies I offer my services to all the ladies no exceptions age or size does not matter, we live in a time where solitude is a heavy burden on most people and I would like to help with loneliness, free of charge of course as I've been asked that before hahaha and no I won't touch you anywhere or do anything unless I'm asked to. I'm a women pleaser and in this society people are more alone than ever, so if you are sleeping alone tonight and want the warmth of someone holding you hmu I'll be more than happy to oblige.

Note: that I can only be at one place at a time so if I have an appointment already please understand.

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2024/10/30
12:47 UTC

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40 [M4F] #London - Any east Asian women who need a cuck/simp/slave to bully?

Looking for someone from an east Asian background who feels like they could make use of a submissive male.

What form this would take would be open to discussion, but could be anything from running errands and completing household chores (potentially with some kind aspect), or more relationship-like things like accompanying shopping or seeing West end shows. During any interaction you'd always be in charge, even thought it might not be obviously apparent. Also open to accepting verbal and/or physical abuse.

I think this would suit someone who is confident and a bit bossy. Maybe someone who was found themselves in charge in previous relationships. Above all else I enjoy the power dynamic, and the knowledge that someone else feels in charge whether it's in person or communicating over IMs.

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2024/10/30
12:20 UTC

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23 [FM4A] #London - Looking for anyone interested in exploring sex and having some fun

Hi

We are a couple and are looking for like-minded guys, girls, or couples to join us for a nice time. We want to take our time and be comfortable with you, so please don’t message us if you just want a one-night stand and don’t want to get to know us a bit beforehand.

We want to keep safe so we have some ground rules that we will never break:

  • You must get an STI test before we meet and be clean. We will do the same.
  • You must be respectful and considerate. We will always do our best to also be respectful and considerate.
  • Respect our boundaries, no means no. We will always respect yours.

Now, we are looking for someone in our age range, so anyone from 18 to 25 years old only please (unless you are a couple, then only one of you needs to be in the age range).

We don’t mind how much experience you have with sex. We want to explore sex, so if you don’t have much experience then maybe we could be the right people for you? It’s your call. We just ask that if you message us you are comfortable with everything just so things aren't too awkward.

You don't have to be a super-fit, gym-going guy. In fact, we'd prefer you're not that type. We just ask that you be honest about how you look and respect our preferences.

As for those preferences… we do ask that you keep clean and have good hygiene (brush your teeth and that stuff haha). As well as follow our ground rules.

We are bi-curious and open to transgender individuals too. So that is something we kinda want to explore too!

Hopefully you read everything, if you did then message us and tell us a little about yourself. What is your favourite hobby? We hope we can have some fun, but if we aren’t your type then we hope you find that person/s.

Please don’t just message us and then never respond after.

2 Comments
2024/10/30
11:57 UTC

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30 [M4A] #London Host for Others in Central London - Come Use My Flat for Fun

Weird kink but I host for others in Central London. Feel free to come use my flat for your pleasure. Can either stay completely away in the other room or be a host and bring drinks, etc. while you enjoy yourselves.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
11:50 UTC

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28 [M4M] #Cambridgeshire UK, looking for a big cock to suck

SC: dan2507

2 Comments
2024/10/30
11:35 UTC

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22 [M4F] #Harlow,Essex - Hung 8" male looking for his first threesome this weekend. Open to all ages and can travel

Hey,

Im a 22 hung male from Harlow, Essex with 8" looking for his first threesome this weekend.

I love to get my big cock deep throated and loves to satisfy others would love to get his cock sucked.

Avalible to verify but I expect the same in return.

Drop me a message so we can talk x

1 Comment
2024/10/30
11:12 UTC

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